Rumble you to the CORE of Who God said He made me to be and what the WORLD/brokeness/sin/ separation/seculsion/detachment and the list goes on and on like the energizer... The ones that get it understand and hurting torn apart from pain
My wife played this song for me years ago, admitting that she was angry all the time, it didn't change her! I've left her a few times, but now I'm at the point in the song where it says our kids are strong now, spitting image of you when you were young, I hope someday they can see past what you have become! I left her again now and just can't go back, I hope someday I can make it back to the man I was before, but 28 years has an effect on what we become!
That second verse hits me so hard. Especially when I left my ex and I got custody of my boys. She hasn't seen them in years. And I so hope every day that she comes to her senses and straightens herself out. It may be too late now though. I'm sorry, I'm just up all in the feels tonight.
My ex husband did that parental alienation syndrome to me and it breaks my heart so bad. If some of you are going thru that, UA-cam "parental alienation syndrome"
Its a shame that all 6 of our kids are scared of him and they talk to him outta fear. Im glad that they're grown and married and out on there own cause now he cant hurt them anymore except the nasty and cruel comments he makes to them to make some of them cry or really hurt they're feelings where they walk out
@@timmcgraw9609not yet my funding is limited to zero when he takes all my money and says its my Part for living in His house hes angry all the time. But in gonna save up to see u in concert i promise u and ur wife are amazing ppl
Yes love this song and every lyric in it .. my husband showed me this song many years ago. Only thing is he left this world behind when he took his own life in 2004. I just think of us and cry “You ain’t the only the one who feels like this world has left you far behind.” I don’t know why this old world can’t leave well enough alone.
My condolences. I lost my girlfriend in 2004, it hit me so hard, till this day for some reason, I still feel that wasn't her laying there in the casket.
Wow!!! Hit it on the head, now I need to no longer ask why you're so angry! My bullshit for 7years says it all. 30years old and a UA-cam comment explained it. Man up Josh
I was in a relationship for 13 years, I had 2 sons, she had 2 sons and we had a son together. This song is exactly the way it ended in 2000. This song means so much to me. Love it!!
It’s hard to leave, but sometimes it’s for the best.. still in love but more hurt than anything. I can’t look at you the same way ever again. I don’t know who you are anymore and idk where along the way it became this damaged.. 😔
When years of mutual love and understanding have passed , the only thing left is to respect ourselves and be happy for the sake of our kids. Thanks for sharing this song!
23 years later and hearing this song still brings tears to my eyes and makes my stomach tighten. Speaking for myself, I wish I would have known then what I know now about myself and my ex-husband. Things may have turned out differently. But then again, when it came time that we couldn't avoid knowing we needed help beyond ourselves, he didn't put much into it. That was truly sad and disheartening, and spoke a whole lot to me.
Things in life make us angry. when you love someone and have been through some painful trials together it hardens you. When you have no understanding of what is going on, and your fighting for understanding it hurts. sometimes anger is all we know.
I hate when I let my guards down to the wrong person. I have been heartbroken twice in my life and I am really afraid to love again! I just hope that this broken heart heals real soon. It hurt so bad and I have became angry!
I agree, most men, not all men but most let the wife do all of the chores, dinner, schooling, PTA meetings, ect. And break up arguing between the kids, and they go to work and when they clock out That's it for the day. Mother's don't have that luxury. So yes we can become bitter and angry
@@vickieharmon162 agreed. I've found that people stay form many reasons. as sad as it is, many will stay out of consistency, kids, possibly it being convenient but not for love !! Its hard to walk away that for ng sure!! 😥 😔 😟
This song made me cry😢 this reminds me-my mom was always angry at us. My dad left me in the middle of the night but I hear this song and think of my parents.
This is why my ex-husband and I didn't make it, in my opinion, he became the angriest most bitter person I had ever met simply because life wasn't fair, well bad things happen to good people, I'll never forget saying, this can bring us closer to God and one another or drive us apart, it's our choice. God has been to good to me for me to live an angry and miserable life, I refuse to let anyone else bring me down with them, it's not what happens to you, but what happens in you! Happy with my life!
@@mermaidenhell1035 well I must say being a man in a situation you girls are talking about, I get your situations but I feel If you love your man enough you should cut him a little slack, granted we say things inappropriate that should be left for the guys at work,I'm guilty of it myself and that's no excuse, but we as men are idiots when it comes to love, that's why we need good women like yourselves
After such a hopeful bright start to a beautiful life with the one you thought would always be by your side, it hurts looking back over 30 years and remembering how we have hurt each other and let the other one down so many times. Some times you just can’t fix all the brakes in the vase.
Same here I bend over backwards for my wife do everything I can and have sacrificed things that are irreplacable when needed to survive and provide for us in the hard times and seems no matter what I do she is never happy anymore and nothing is ever good enough. She’s been angry and bitter for so long Its making me that way. I don’t wanna call it quits I’m still more than in love with her I just wish she would open her eyes and see what she has. I’d rather be miserable with her the rest of my life than spend a day without her though. Here lately she has been coming around more so maybe she is ready to let the bad in the past go i hope so
Mental illness has shut the door on a twenty-year relationship of perfect love. We held hands, helped each other through hard times, kissed, laughed, argued, played and enjoyed being with each other. Now she is bitter and angry due to mental illness (doctor diagnosis) and will not believe the doctor enough to take meds and therapy. She believes she is fine and I am wrong, the doctor is wrong, our sons are wrong and the only people who are right are those who agree with her. I am emotionally spent and I feel like life is passing me by. God, I love her with all my heart, that is why I understand the lyrics that say, “The reasons that I can’t stay don’t have a thing to do with being in love” but I have anxiety and depression; this is killing me, but she cannot see that (she is not able). I don’t want anyone else, I just want to live without the tightness in my chest and the relentless choking sensation I feel in my neck. “I got to get away”.
I hope it gets better for you too. Mental illness is difficult to deal with. I have been in almost the same situation, but it was exacerbated by my own inability to control my anger. As accusations were leveled on me more frequently, I increasingly handled them worse because I felt, and still believe, that most of them were unfounded because of her anxiety and depression. But that doesn't mean I still don't blame myself. Here I am a week away from have a final divorce hearing. I have found someone else during a separation and it is a wonderful relationship, but the scars may never go away. I truly hope you have found a way to fix your relationship or get her the help she needs. And if that doesn't work you have some heavy-duty conversations with God ahead of you.
" Anger is just one letter short of Danger " Each one of us is responsible for our own actions in life. It's a choice that you, and only you can make. And that is to live intentional every day, in order to present your character, conduct, and conversation in a way that honors God and our fellow man. Especially the one's you claim to love. If you truly love the one that you are taking your frustrations out on, then at this point, examine yourself very closely, and with purpose, patience, and perseverance make that much needed positive change in your life. Take the time now to look ahead in your life, so that you will not live with regrets. You can never take back what's been done, but you can change everything for the better right now. It's your choice. I'm praying for your right choice.
i used to get/be angry at times & sometimes w/o even myself knowin why. this song hits home...get better everyday my family was worth the work to change
I dedicate this song to my husband of 16years. Now we will be signing our divorce papers oct 1st and we have four kids. This song has alot of meaning to it!! I cant help but i cry on this song!!😢😢
This was my dad's song to my mom. She got caught up in drugs over 20 years ago and he ended up leavinf her. We lost her 2 months ago to drugs. I miss her. But we lost her years ago. We lost a beautiful, loving, funny woman. Drugs left her a shell of the woman she used to be.
The one I called my husband is now gone forever and I always asked him this very question. I'll never get an answe now after 16 years of asking. So to all you out there that are asking your loved one this please remember that at anytime you could be alone and will you be happy without the answer?
If you hear this song from the perspective of a man that is suicidal and speaking to himself it takes on a whole new meaning. When faith is singing it’s like he can hear his wife echoing his negative thoughts.
First time I heard this song I was working at the local radio station. It was on an indie label and I don't remember the artist but McGraw does a good job on it.
I can't believe Tim mcgraw would ever come out with a song like this!!! Why? I wonder how many innocent people killed herself to this because they were hurting inside? It makes me really think about people that are hurting and lost. God watch over them all please! In Jesus precious name, I pray, amen!!!
I'm listening to this song about two years after it was stuck in my head. Life was so... painful. I didn't plan to divorce my wife, but god, was she just so damned angry all the time. It hurt so bad, I was just so tired, especially when I remembered how we'd been. Two years later, we're doing so much better, but this song still evokes all of that pain and despair from that time. I'm so glad we got past that, and I hope that we never get back there again.
Never had kids together but this song speaks volumes. The hurt he put me through will NEVER compare to what others has done to me since him. We reconnected but the scars still remain. He’s moved on,I have but never loved a man like the way I loved him.
this song rings so true when I sing it. i always change it to "i dont know why ive got to be angry the time", and i honestly dont know why i am angry all the time.
engine2151 I feel that. I wake up angry every day. The rest of the day I spend fighting the rage just trying to keep it under control. Burned every bridge, fist fights on holidays. Sometimes losing a fight feels just as good as winning.
Tim Gibson & engine2151 Ok u guys, there's medication for all that rage....it comes either in pill form OR (my fave/suggested treatment for rage) a WHOLE lot more sex....! Even a bit of rough sex might help....hmu, I'll give ya more tips...😋
When all u Have ever done is try n do right even when it seemed wrong to OTHERS u still move n do t atop from the time u awake till u sleep n then wake up one day at see it's pointless it's not important n neither are you .I didn't recognize myself in a mirror I looked in daily .I felt failure n kept going I loved past the point of no return n drowned in my pain but smiled for years n never realized I do t have too n it's okay if I dont.i can't drown my pain or numb it,it only gets worse sober .I have to function move make peace with me and change my dark spits n let my wings shine just for me.its being lonely with yourself n not understanding your own mind and questioning every thought so u rethink till ur mad w craziness it never ends
If y'all understand that loving a man shouldn't have to be rough why don't any of y'all change... Your the reason we're angry all the time. It wouldn't kill you to put the kids to bed, wash the dishes, or pick up after yourself. And if it's possible after all that show us affection. How fucking hard is that
There are some of us that do that and a lot more. We adopted our grandson when he was 3 ( he's almost 11 now) and shortly afterwards my wife became incapable of doing much around the house or anything else. I cook, I do all the shopping, I clean the house, I do the dishes, make sure that he has his homework done, do the laundry, and anything else that needs to be done around the house like mowing the yard, maintaining the cars etcetera all while trying to make a living to keep it all going. Maybe your looking in the wrong places.....were out there.....God Bless
It's not always the man's fault. This was my dad's song for my mother. He loved her unconditionally until she got into drugs and started becoming abusive. Blaming a whole gender for your experience is a little more than messed up.
Don't live in the past live in the present an enjoy ur love ones an plan for the future..cus life is short ....we never know when are time is up....or bad time are up ahead so plan well love harder...
I used to sit an listen to this song over an over with a friend going tru hard times with his wife now years later im listening yo it an going tru same shit never gets old
this is my song when i go to work an its has nothing to do with being in love just when its time its time sometimes we have to see the road ends two people have to start there own paths an life ..an hold to no wrongs just the good that was left over ..
There comes a point in life when you realize you can't please everyone, sometimes you just have to find peace or you'll lose your mind. Life's too short to be angry and miserable. You only get one shot there's no reset button, make it count.
Wow, this hit me so hard . I was angry hurt let down betrayed pushed away and pulled back . And. In love with you ! And could not get it back to good cause you were just as angry!!!! I miss you so much somedays i cant get you out of my head . But im still breathing if you care to know. I guess you dont but i will get over you one day and i will rest in peace . Knowing i done everything in my power to prove my love to you!
This song could have been written for me back when I was married, I haven't heard it in probably 10 years, but this is exactly how I felt we had 4 beautiful kids, amazing kids, I was so in love, on top of the world, and he threw it all away, became the angriest man I knew, most miserable person to be around, I had to much to be thankful for, to much to live for, sadly he still is the same way to this day
this song i heard from my brother when he was divorcing his wife..now its me crazy..never figure it would be me here an it sux..when you dont want it..but i got to get away...
For the last 2 years I felt like a failure 27 years of marriage gone. I have asked myself all kinds of Questions. I still have no answers. I know now that being angry all the time is no reason to hold onto a relationship that only 1 of us wants. 53 and not where I thought I would be. I
Wow , that’s me to . 27 years , 54 years old and feel like a complete failure cuz I was choked from my childhood dream ( obsession ! ) I’ve become a bitter and angry person . I was 5,000 miles away from home , at a party, knew nobody and having a good time chatting , drinking beer and eating pizza . An Inuit Elder walked up to me and said “ it’s you “ and asked why I was so angry inside . So angry she said that I scared her . With a big smile I said I wasn’t and was having a good time . She looked right through me and said my spirit will leave me because of my deep anger . it can’t take the hurtling . She said I am going to die young . She knew everything about my deepest thoughts , stuff my wife doesn’t even know about me. It has totally freaked me out . Try living with that .
After getting older and realizing exactly what this song means. Going through it been with the love of my life since I was 12 and now I'm going on 24 he is the only man I've been with other than one other man who is my oldest sons biological father and he passed away last year and the man I've spent over a decade with has helped raise him and we have three beautiful kids together and being together that young you grow up with each other as the years pass and he has changed in so many ways sometimes I wonder what happened to the person I fell in love with "why does he have to be angry all the time" sometimes I feel like I'm not good enough and he stays bc our kids I know he loves me he shows it every single day just wish he'd show that he is still "in love" with me instead of being so mad and serious about almost everything one of the reasons I fell in love with was the way he always made me laugh where did that man go over the years?
Laurie, it's confusing... Who we are drawn to physically is something we are used to or something we have mentally had happen in our past and we don't even know it or remember it... I really DK.
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“You ain’t the only one who feels like this worlds left you far behind.”
That line relates to so many things in life!
Especially me
Rumble you to the CORE of Who God said He made me to be and what the WORLD/brokeness/sin/ separation/seculsion/detachment and the list goes on and on like the energizer... The ones that get it understand and hurting torn apart from pain
You can feel the pain in his voice..that’s why he is so amazing. He sells the song
He doesn't need selling or convincing.. it's straight truth. I made that comment!!
Literally
" the reason that I can't stay don't have a thing to do with being in love.. "💔 seriously that cutts deep ...
My wife played this song for me years ago, admitting that she was angry all the time, it didn't change her! I've left her a few times, but now I'm at the point in the song where it says our kids are strong now, spitting image of you when you were young, I hope someday they can see past what you have become!
I left her again now and just can't go back, I hope someday I can make it back to the man I was before, but 28 years has an effect on what we become!
I feel your struggles! 25 years and it isn't getting easier like I thought it should have!!
"I don't know why this old world can't leave well enough alone." You got that right.
That second verse hits me so hard. Especially when I left my ex and I got custody of my boys. She hasn't seen them in years. And I so hope every day that she comes to her senses and straightens herself out. It may be too late now though.
I'm sorry, I'm just up all in the feels tonight.
Thanks for your lovely comments, I wouldn't have gotten this far without my lovely fans!. Have you been to my concert before?
My ex husband did that parental alienation syndrome to me and it breaks my heart so bad. If some of you are going thru that, UA-cam "parental alienation syndrome"
I felt that same way when he would say hes going to see them and he would never come to see His Boys
Its a shame that all 6 of our kids are scared of him and they talk to him outta fear. Im glad that they're grown and married and out on there own cause now he cant hurt them anymore except the nasty and cruel comments he makes to them to make some of them cry or really hurt they're feelings where they walk out
@@timmcgraw9609not yet my funding is limited to zero when he takes all my money and says its my Part for living in His house hes angry all the time. But in gonna save up to see u in concert i promise u and ur wife are amazing ppl
Yes love this song and every lyric in it .. my husband showed me this song many years ago. Only thing is he left this world behind when he took his own life in 2004. I just think of us and cry
“You ain’t the only the one who feels like this world has left you far behind.” I don’t know why this old world can’t leave well enough alone.
My condolences. I lost my girlfriend in 2004, it hit me so hard, till this day for some reason, I still feel that wasn't her laying there in the casket.
When your hurt so bad, when you loved so much, being angry is the mirror of betrayed love.💔😢
Yes but have the kids betrayed u...
Agreed.
Wow!!! Hit it on the head, now I need to no longer ask why you're so angry! My bullshit for 7years says it all. 30years old and a UA-cam comment explained it. Man up Josh
15 yrs later... it doesn't bother me, scars yes.. but it passes:)
Why didn't I see this sooner...its to late now goodbye my love
I was in a relationship for 13 years, I had 2 sons, she had 2 sons and we had a son together. This song is exactly the way it ended in 2000. This song means so much to me. Love it!!
Dont make others angry just because you are!
It’s hard to leave, but sometimes it’s for the best.. still in love but more hurt than anything. I can’t look at you the same way ever again. I don’t know who you are anymore and idk where along the way it became this damaged.. 😔
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This song is so haunting. We can all relate...at different times in our lives. Tim's voice is so calming, deep and full of emotion.
2019! Who's w me?
When years of mutual love and understanding have passed , the only thing left is to respect ourselves and be happy for the sake of our kids.
Thanks for sharing this song!
Sad that it come to that, but it apparently does...
23 years later and hearing this song still brings tears to my eyes and makes my stomach tighten. Speaking for myself, I wish I would have known then what I know now about myself and my ex-husband. Things may have turned out differently. But then again, when it came time that we couldn't avoid knowing we needed help beyond ourselves, he didn't put much into it. That was truly sad and disheartening, and spoke a whole lot to me.
Things in life make us angry. when you love someone and have been through some painful trials together it hardens you. When you have no understanding of what is going on, and your fighting for understanding it hurts. sometimes anger is all we know.
karla benton so very true ....I don't want to be angry !! Been 4 years and letting go is so hard !!!!!
I hate when I let my guards down to the wrong person. I have been heartbroken twice in my life and I am really afraid to love again! I just hope that this broken heart heals real soon. It hurt so bad and I have became angry!
Heart broken 3 times!😭
"what I can't live with is memories of the way you used to be"
i hope someday i can get to a point where my constant anger doesn't constantly drive people away from me....
Me too
I was angry once. For more than 10 years. Maybe 15. I got better. And I quit drinking. And found Jesus.
Work on being vulnerable and courageous... that's the key to letting go of the anger and hurt. Peace!
@@matthewbrandon931 Praise to our Heavenly Father!!! Amen!
Same
"I dont why this world can't leave well enough alone"
That's for damn sure
God it hurts when decades of wasted years went by so fast!!:(
it hurts knowing I wasted 1 year of my life on the phone 24\7 and no family time 😢😢😢
The struggle is real. I feel your pain. I live that pain. Strength comes from pain. I.... We... WILL be warrior's!! Life's guarantee.
All you can do is live on for the future
FUCK yes
Hits the heart strings.
I can't be strong all the time. I can't be the one holding everything and picking up the piece by myself all the time.
I feel this so much ❤️
Me neither!! I just want to escape from this cruel world.
Same!! I feel ya!
I agree, most men, not all men but most let the wife do all of the chores, dinner, schooling, PTA meetings, ect. And break up arguing between the kids, and they go to work and when they clock out That's it for the day. Mother's don't have that luxury. So yes we can become bitter and angry
Currently me realizing it's time to let go no matter how many years weve has.. being unhappy brings me to be angry no way to live ever
jenlacy1980 I’m in same boat 16 almost 17 yrs together & it’s like we’re enemies nothing is ever ok
Go before one of you die ❣ Then you live wondering how things could be with you both happy & getting on with life ❣🙏💐😢🙏
@@vickieharmon162 agreed. I've found that people stay form many reasons. as sad as it is, many will stay out of consistency, kids, possibly it being convenient but not for love !! Its hard to walk away that for ng sure!! 😥 😔 😟
This song made me cry😢 this reminds me-my mom was always angry at us. My dad left me in the middle of the night but I hear this song and think of my parents.
This is why my ex-husband and I didn't make it, in my opinion, he became the angriest most bitter person I had ever met simply because life wasn't fair, well bad things happen to good people, I'll never forget saying, this can bring us closer to God and one another or drive us apart, it's our choice. God has been to good to me for me to live an angry and miserable life, I refuse to let anyone else bring me down with them, it's not what happens to you, but what happens in you! Happy with my life!
Yes this is why love is not enough all by itself.
It’s easy place blame on others. I’m sure it was all his fault.
Exactly what happened with me
I loved God, he didn't
Yes that is so true... It happened to me. Going on with life alone with my kids.
But what I cant live with, is memories of the way you use to be. 😢
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Exactly! They dont see it either
Definitely the hardest part...
@@mermaidenhell1035 well I must say being a man in a situation you girls are talking about, I get your situations but I feel If you love your man enough you should cut him a little slack, granted we say things inappropriate that should be left for the guys at work,I'm guilty of it myself and that's no excuse, but we as men are idiots when it comes to love, that's why we need good women like yourselves
This song touched me soo much that I can't stop playing it ...love it
I'm going to sing this to you in 13 years lol. Focus on what you have and be grateful. Everything happens for a reason 🍒💰❤
After such a hopeful bright start to a beautiful life with the one you thought would always be by your side, it hurts looking back over 30 years and remembering how we have hurt each other and let the other one down so many times. Some times you just can’t fix all the brakes in the vase.
Alcoholic myself and this makes me cry
this song hits home to me !!
me too ...
More than I can say Sloan ... More than I can say
Same here I bend over backwards for my wife do everything I can and have sacrificed things that are irreplacable when needed to survive and provide for us in the hard times and seems no matter what I do she is never happy anymore and nothing is ever good enough. She’s been angry and bitter for so long Its making me that way. I don’t wanna call it quits I’m still more than in love with her I just wish she would open her eyes and see what she has. I’d rather be miserable with her the rest of my life than spend a day without her though. Here lately she has been coming around more so maybe she is ready to let the bad in the past go i hope so
Who ever wrote this song was feeling the same I feel right now....My world has been snatched away....I am so miserable but I don't know how to leave.
Mental illness has shut the door on a twenty-year relationship of perfect love. We held hands, helped each other through hard times, kissed, laughed, argued, played and enjoyed being with each other. Now she is bitter and angry due to mental illness (doctor diagnosis) and will not believe the doctor enough to take meds and therapy. She believes she is fine and I am wrong, the doctor is wrong, our sons are wrong and the only people who are right are those who agree with her. I am emotionally spent and I feel like life is passing me by. God, I love her with all my heart, that is why I understand the lyrics that say, “The reasons that I can’t stay don’t have a thing to do with being in love” but I have anxiety and depression; this is killing me, but she cannot see that (she is not able). I don’t want anyone else, I just want to live without the tightness in my chest and the relentless choking sensation I feel in my neck. “I got to get away”.
roby pope - I just wanted to say I am sorry and hope things get better for you and your family, God bless.
I hope it gets better for you too. Mental illness is difficult to deal with. I have been in almost the same situation, but it was exacerbated by my own inability to control my anger. As accusations were leveled on me more frequently, I increasingly handled them worse because I felt, and still believe, that most of them were unfounded because of her anxiety and depression. But that doesn't mean I still don't blame myself. Here I am a week away from have a final divorce hearing. I have found someone else during a separation and it is a wonderful relationship, but the scars may never go away. I truly hope you have found a way to fix your relationship or get her the help she needs. And if that doesn't work you have some heavy-duty conversations with God ahead of you.
@@jamescrabtree704 Divorce is final 7/17/2019. The scars are horrible and I find it hard to trust anyone else, but I'll make it through. Thanks
I hope your gettin through to the brighter days bro
I love it when Faith Hill simgs harmony on his songs.
this song is so true for some people's every day lives
Oliver Johnson it truly is mine..
Very truly spoken
This goes both ways
This song hits home for me as well. Only was my husband that was angry all the time. Broke my heart
" Anger is just one letter short of Danger "
Each one of us is responsible for our own actions in life. It's a choice that you, and only you can make. And that is to live intentional every day, in order to present your character, conduct, and conversation in a way that honors God and our fellow man. Especially the one's you claim to love. If you truly love the one that you are taking your frustrations out on, then at this point, examine yourself very closely, and with purpose, patience, and perseverance make that much needed positive change in your life. Take the time now to look ahead in your life, so that you will not live with regrets. You can never take back what's been done, but you can change everything for the better right now. It's your choice.
I'm praying for your right choice.
Thank you!! God Bless Ya
Extremely well said! Thanks 😊
To imronwes that is!
i used to get/be angry at times & sometimes w/o even myself knowin why. this song hits home...get better everyday my family was worth the work to change
Davin Casada what do you do when your don't care how much you change.
Good job. I love the yellow pad, just like the therapists use.
Mark Dwayne Madsen that looks liek the notepad on my old phone
Therapists or divorce lawyers....
I dedicate this song to my husband of 16years. Now we will be signing our divorce papers oct 1st and we have four kids. This song has alot of meaning to it!! I cant help but i cry on this song!!😢😢
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Love this song country is life!!!❤
This was my dad's song to my mom. She got caught up in drugs over 20 years ago and he ended up leavinf her. We lost her 2 months ago to drugs. I miss her. But we lost her years ago. We lost a beautiful, loving, funny woman. Drugs left her a shell of the woman she used to be.
I'm so sorry you had to go through life with that pain, and then to lose her.
I completely understand how you feel. I am sorry for your pain. Your mother isn't hurting anymore. God is watching over her now
Wow. keep singing. This music touches my hart and soul... That so powerful.when you loose someone, could kill a person. Protect your Hart's.
“And loving a man shouldn’t have to be this rough “
Yup 💯
Killer song and so true for so many
The one I called my husband is now gone forever and I always asked him this very question. I'll never get an answe now after 16 years of asking. So to all you out there that are asking your loved one this please remember that at anytime you could be alone and will you be happy without the answer?
@@kontainedkhaos7293 we must have listened to a different song.😟
@@juliea.7292 Yes, I think so.
If you hear this song from the perspective of a man that is suicidal and speaking to himself it takes on a whole new meaning. When faith is singing it’s like he can hear his wife echoing his negative thoughts.
First time I heard this song I was working at the local radio station. It was on an indie label and I don't remember the artist but McGraw does a good job on it.
I can't believe Tim mcgraw would ever come out with a song like this!!! Why? I wonder how many innocent people killed herself to this because they were hurting inside? It makes me really think about people that are hurting and lost. God watch over them all please! In Jesus precious name, I pray, amen!!!
it was originally Faith's song to sing but Tim wanted to sing it
I'm listening to this song about two years after it was stuck in my head. Life was so... painful. I didn't plan to divorce my wife, but god, was she just so damned angry all the time. It hurt so bad, I was just so tired, especially when I remembered how we'd been. Two years later, we're doing so much better, but this song still evokes all of that pain and despair from that time. I'm so glad we got past that, and I hope that we never get back there again.
Never had kids together but this song speaks volumes. The hurt he put me through will NEVER compare to what others has done to me since him. We reconnected but the scars still remain. He’s moved on,I have but never loved a man like the way I loved him.
song reminds me of my father ....
this song rings so true when I sing it. i always change it to "i dont know why ive got to be angry the time", and i honestly dont know why i am angry all the time.
engine2151 seriously I feel you all too well..
engine2151 I feel that. I wake up angry every day. The rest of the day I spend fighting the rage just trying to keep it under control. Burned every bridge, fist fights on holidays. Sometimes losing a fight feels just as good as winning.
Me too... me toooooo
UNHAPPY ..HE WAS ALL LIES AND Just WASTED FLAWS
Tim Gibson & engine2151
Ok u guys, there's medication for all that rage....it comes either in pill form OR (my fave/suggested treatment for rage) a WHOLE lot more sex....! Even a bit of rough sex might help....hmu, I'll give ya more tips...😋
When all u Have ever done is try n do right even when it seemed wrong to OTHERS u still move n do t atop from the time u awake till u sleep n then wake up one day at see it's pointless it's not important n neither are you .I didn't recognize myself in a mirror I looked in daily .I felt failure n kept going I loved past the point of no return n drowned in my pain but smiled for years n never realized I do t have too n it's okay if I dont.i can't drown my pain or numb it,it only gets worse sober .I have to function move make peace with me and change my dark spits n let my wings shine just for me.its being lonely with yourself n not understanding your own mind and questioning every thought so u rethink till ur mad w craziness it never ends
If y'all understand that loving a man shouldn't have to be rough why don't any of y'all change... Your the reason we're angry all the time. It wouldn't kill you to put the kids to bed, wash the dishes, or pick up after yourself. And if it's possible after all that show us affection. How fucking hard is that
They're a bunch of selfish a##holes! Never dreamed of this when I was growing up...
You are "right on" with that! And it's because most of them are selfish, narcissistic dicks!
There are some of us that do that and a lot more. We adopted our grandson when he was 3 ( he's almost 11 now) and shortly afterwards my wife became incapable of doing much around the house or anything else. I cook, I do all the shopping, I clean the house, I do the dishes, make sure that he has his homework done, do the laundry, and anything else that needs to be done around the house like mowing the yard, maintaining the cars etcetera all while trying to make a living to keep it all going. Maybe your looking in the wrong places.....were out there.....God Bless
Even if I do do all the things you said, it doesn't matter to her. I give the hell up!
It's not always the man's fault. This was my dad's song for my mother. He loved her unconditionally until she got into drugs and started becoming abusive. Blaming a whole gender for your experience is a little more than messed up.
Life's not fair- indeed
But you have to try an find your ray of sunshine- threw all the angry..
Remember behind every storm is a rainbow 🙏🥰😵
Always a rainbow behind every storm. It can't rain forever.
well I'm gonna go cry in a corner at the realisation that my life sucks
Don't live in the past live in the present an enjoy ur love ones an plan for the future..cus life is short ....we never know when are time is up....or bad time are up ahead so plan well love harder...
Jino Lee Garcia
🙄 Ok Oprah....lol, jk...
Gd philosophy, but sometimes we just need an excuse to have a really good cry...🙂
our time is up
You've obviously never been in this type of relationship
Wow!! Just that this is written and sung by a man makes it all that amazing! And the man being Tim McGraw also helps. 🥰🙌♥️
" Loving a man should have to be this rough"
Shouldn't
6 street
I used to sit an listen to this song over an over with a friend going tru hard times with his wife now years later im listening yo it an going tru same shit never gets old
God I miss my wife I cry every night I love her so much
this is my song when i go to work an its has nothing to do with being in love just when its time its time sometimes we have to see the road ends two people have to start there own paths an life ..an hold to no wrongs just the good that was left over ..
There comes a point in life when you realize you can't please everyone, sometimes you just have to find peace or you'll lose your mind. Life's too short to be angry and miserable. You only get one shot there's no reset button, make it count.
As soon as you feel like you honestly have no options, you are a broken man.
Kevin now ya know I was misable but blessed for our boys. Praying for you and your dark soul
This is a nice song by Mr Mcgraw!
Not many songs can make you totally relaxed. This is one.
I have been living this song for a life time.
This is my favourite song done by Mr Tim Mcgraw.....love it to the max
Wow, this hit me so hard . I was angry hurt let down betrayed pushed away and pulled back . And. In love with you !
And could not get it back to good cause you were just as angry!!!! I miss you so much somedays i cant get you out of my head . But im still breathing if you care to know. I guess you dont but i will get over you one day and i will rest in peace . Knowing i done everything in my power to prove my love to you!
I love this tune
As a man, the anger masks pain and hurt. I speak from experience
Love this song from the day it came out. And still love it!!
Well thank you for the heads up I appreciate it and I hope you remember the kids and continue to be a part of their life
This song could have been written for me back when I was married, I haven't heard it in probably 10 years, but this is exactly how I felt we had 4 beautiful kids, amazing kids, I was so in love, on top of the world, and he threw it all away, became the angriest man I knew, most miserable person to be around, I had to much to be thankful for, to much to live for, sadly he still is the same way to this day
I love this song one of my favorite songs and one of my favorite singers so cool!!!!!
Truth .be spoken.
Not angry just scared. Bye, bye, always in my heart.do what you gotta do..
Makes me think about my past!
this song reminds me of how it was between my husband & i, he passed on aug.14,2018
The greatest gift you can give. Is letting go.
Comment to bring this back to life
this song i heard from my brother when he was divorcing his wife..now its me crazy..never figure it would be me here an it sux..when you dont want it..but i got to get away...
the reasons that i cant stay
dont have a thing to do with being in love...
This is a perfect song title to describe Michigan fans when the OSU game comes around
Fr tho
I’ll wait for you BABESKIE❤️💗🥰
Can only hold it in for so long
BROSKIE ❤️💕
For the last 2 years I felt like a failure 27 years of marriage gone. I have asked myself all kinds of Questions. I still have no answers. I know now that being angry all the time is no reason to hold onto a relationship that only 1 of us wants. 53 and not where I thought I would be. I
Wow , that’s me to . 27 years , 54 years old and feel like a complete failure cuz I was choked from my childhood dream ( obsession ! ) I’ve become a bitter and angry person . I was 5,000 miles away from home , at a party, knew nobody and having a good time chatting , drinking beer and eating pizza . An Inuit Elder walked up to me and said “ it’s you “ and asked why I was so angry inside . So angry she said that I scared her . With a big smile I said I wasn’t and was having a good time . She looked right through me and said my spirit will leave me because of my deep anger . it can’t take the hurtling . She said I am going to die young . She knew everything about my deepest thoughts , stuff my wife doesn’t even know about me. It has totally freaked me out . Try living with that .
When life isnt fair to you! Dont get mad about it.Try to do better and understand lifes inperfectness!!
2018 who like me listinning this
After getting older and realizing exactly what this song means. Going through it been with the love of my life since I was 12 and now I'm going on 24 he is the only man I've been with other than one other man who is my oldest sons biological father and he passed away last year and the man I've spent over a decade with has helped raise him and we have three beautiful kids together and being together that young you grow up with each other as the years pass and he has changed in so many ways sometimes I wonder what happened to the person I fell in love with "why does he have to be angry all the time" sometimes I feel like I'm not good enough and he stays bc our kids I know he loves me he shows it every single day just wish he'd show that he is still "in love" with me instead of being so mad and serious about almost everything one of the reasons I fell in love with was the way he always made me laugh where did that man go over the years?
Here we are.
Thank God it's changed, surgery's coming in a month.. after all this time I get to have my life by only better, shame he can't see the real deal
Nice song, Mr Mcgraw!👌
I just Love not Love but in Love this man he's Amazing...
I sent this to my ex n dedicated it to her n thus is for all the girlfriends n wife's out ther who hav to live Angry All The Time!!
This song hits deep!
I don't know why I hook up with angry men all the time. And before anyone suggests it, NO I don't MAKE them that way!
Laurie, it's confusing... Who we are drawn to physically is something we are used to or something we have mentally had happen in our past and we don't even know it or remember it... I really DK.
Matt H
NVR looked at it that way. Being drawn 2 sum1 physically should NOT effect us emotionally.
AWESOME
I wonder if my eyes ever shine the way the once did?!