Love this! So inspiring! My mind has been completely consumed by thoughts of him. It’s been six months since he left, and the pain of losing him feels like a physical ache. The laughter, the memories, the adventures sadly, it’s all gone. I’ve tried everything to distract myself, but the harder I try, the more I find myself thinking about him. How do people let go and move on? It’s been months, yet the memories of him are still so vivid. I miss him more than words can say.
It’s clear that you’re not just missing him but also the part of yourself that you shared with him. Reaching out to him like that shows how much love you still carry it takes real courage to be so vulnerable. Heartbreak is painful, but don’t lose hope. I understand how you feel. My own heartbreak was devastating sudden and brutal. It left me feeling lost and shattered. In my desperation for solace and guidance, I turned to a spiritual counselor recommended by a friend.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really loved him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
I was watching an avengers movie last night and I was like, “captain America looks familiar…” and I realized it’s YOU!!! You look like Captain America!!! 😅
Thank you. I just sent a text to my Friend that I had broken up with. I said can I ask for a phone call from you? I always feel better when I talk to you. He said yes Sweetheart, if it will make you feel better. Long story I lost my late Husband of 43 years two years ago. I was afraid of loving again. My new Friend scared me. He wanted a long term relationship. I finally realized I loved this Man. But I had broken up with him and hurt him. We talked for a long time. I think we'll be okay. He said "I want you to get tatoos on your feet that say " I'll never leave, his name, again". He makes me laugh. I LOVE THAT MAN!! Just so you know I'm 70 and he's 64. I Love your videos and your advice. I watch you all the time. Even old dogs can learn new tricks 😂😂.
@hollycross657 Yes you still have a libido at 70...if you are with the right Man. You might need lubrication though. My Boyfriend & I have a blast in the bedroom too. 🤣🤣. I sure can't get pregnant can?? I Lol
The man who is chasing me is just like the honeybee, this is how I describe what he does when he is invading my space or near by when I am interacting with another male co-worker. It is the sweetest thing ever. I try if I can to move closer to him when he is invading my space or I'll tilt my head so my neck is showing while I lean in.
Thank you for the very useful video. I found this at the exact time I needed to know. I always had a problem with initiating since I hate to be in the masculine energy but I didn't know the difference between it and signalling. Thank you so much for making it clear so good 💐
Not yet find a good and kind hearted man who chase me. I just Live Love Laugh each day everyday. Enjoy blogging in you tube. Well, I'm sure there will be a good man who will chase me. I can wait for the right time for that right person.
The man that is interested in me at work is a manager and I always ask him ( I only do this if he is the only manager available, if there is another manager who is free I'll seek out that other manager first) I could really use your help and I only say this when I truly need his help.
Even God talks about women being gentle and men being providers and chasers, so I think this video is accurate. You just need to be in your identity, actually.
My ex boyfriend used to get really mad at me when I used I statements. What does that mean? I now feel I was made to feel guilty for stating what i needed and wanted. He said me using "I, I. I" statements made me a narcissist, making things all about myself" That was nine years ago and I just realized I've stopped using I statements to describe my needs. It wasnt me, was it?
all kinds of things can be worded in a sentence featuring "I" and a need. you can say I feel sorry that I hurt you and I need to feel that we are on good terms in order to be able to sleep tonight. you can say I need prada and diamonds and I need you to leave this room because you stink and I happen to be a very sensitive person!! you can say I dont have a good feeling about this. I wonder whether the kid over there is alright? My gut instinct tells me I want to check in with them and see if they feel safe. You can say I want a sandwhich I need you to take the trash out. I need my quiet time. I need my beauty sleep. I need this, this and this. So one factor is what is the message about your personality and focus, that really lies underneath your words. Another factor can be, maybe he was told throughout his whole childhood that "I" is a bad word and only egocentric narcisists use it and he should only ever care about others. Or he read a book about empathy that left him deeply impressed and changed the way he sees things. Or something along those lines. Maybe a person in his family used "similar sounding" I statements just before they got drunk and violent. So he learned to brace himself when someone starts talking in I statements. Etc Without looking into it, how would we be able to tell.
HOW AM I supposed to remember all this…? I just wanna be myZSelf and FEEL loved by him. But having PCS=Persistent Concussion Symptoms makes it difficult. I need to get healthy first is all I can think of. Getting brain fatigued leaves no room for a relationship especially not when we live far apart and both have children with someone else. All logistics. Makes me tired just thinking about it. But when WE are texting & sexting 😅 WE have a lot of FUN and WE are on the same wavelength & share HUMOR as a common denominator. HE is a real comedian & actor, writer etc. And HE has his own wine 🍷 3 brands & I’ve worked at a Winery. I guess these advice are for a real relationship when you’re dating and/or live together.
omg.... i got the same feeling.... he doesnt embody the vibrant confident direct strong passionate masculins energy he talks about . he has a very effeminate vibe . seeing the way that his wife only wanted one kid , shes obviously not operating correctly within her marriage
I really could not look my ex in the face after I felt hurt by him. He noticed right away that I was avoiding eye contact and it would make him pursue me more.
omg.... i got the same feeling.... he doesnt embody the vibrant confident direct strong passionate masculins energy he talks about . he has a very effeminate vibe . seeing the way that his wife only wanted one kid , shes obviously not operating correctly within her marriage
Brody Boyle… yessiree that’s a proper boss name is that… That’s all I have to say for I care not about being chased by any of you pesky menfolk… Just sayin ;)’
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Love this! So inspiring! My mind has been completely consumed by thoughts of him. It’s been six months since he left, and the pain of losing him feels like a physical ache. The laughter, the memories, the adventures sadly, it’s all gone. I’ve tried everything to distract myself, but the harder I try, the more I find myself thinking about him. How do people let go and move on? It’s been months, yet the memories of him are still so vivid. I miss him more than words can say.
It’s clear that you’re not just missing him but also the part of yourself that you shared with him. Reaching out to him like that shows how much love you still carry it takes real courage to be so vulnerable. Heartbreak is painful, but don’t lose hope. I understand how you feel. My own heartbreak was devastating sudden and brutal. It left me feeling lost and shattered. In my desperation for solace and guidance, I turned to a spiritual counselor recommended by a friend.
A spiritual counselor? That sounds fascinating. How can I reach out to him?
he specializes in rekindling the spark in broken relationships.
His handle is FatherAbulu.
Thank you so much for sharing this I really appreciate your honesty and openness.
It’s a dance. Sometimes he leads and sometimes you lead. ❤✌️
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really loved him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him?
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
I was watching an avengers movie last night and I was like, “captain America looks familiar…” and I realized it’s YOU!!! You look like Captain America!!! 😅
At your service ;)
@@MagnetizeYourMan 💪🇺🇸
I see it! He looks like Chris Evans. Thank you for saving America with your polarity teachings Captain🇺🇲💯❤️🙏🏻🤣
They do look similar
Thank you. I just sent a text to my Friend that I had broken up with. I said can I ask for a phone call from you? I always feel better when I talk to you. He said yes Sweetheart, if it will make you feel better. Long story I lost my late Husband of 43 years two years ago. I was afraid of loving again. My new Friend scared me. He wanted a long term relationship. I finally realized I loved this Man. But I had broken up with him and hurt him. We talked for a long time. I think we'll be okay. He said "I want you to get tatoos on your feet that say " I'll never leave, his name, again". He makes me laugh. I LOVE THAT MAN!! Just so you know I'm 70 and he's 64.
I Love your videos and your advice. I watch you all the time. Even old dogs can learn new tricks 😂😂.
@@Crosstracylow key also wanna know !!! 😅✌🏽
@hollycross657 Yes you still have a libido at 70...if you are with the right Man. You might need lubrication though. My Boyfriend & I have a blast in the bedroom too. 🤣🤣. I sure can't get pregnant can?? I Lol
The man who is chasing me is just like the honeybee, this is how I describe what he does when he is invading my space or near by when I am interacting with another male co-worker. It is the sweetest thing ever. I try if I can to move closer to him when he is invading my space or I'll tilt my head so my neck is showing while I lean in.
Weird, I thought guys did want us to initiate and didn't want us to expect them to read our minds
Right! They say we are complicated.
lol the guy screaming and running for his life in the beginning of the video.
Thank you for the very useful video. I found this at the exact time I needed to know. I always had a problem with initiating since I hate to be in the masculine energy but I didn't know the difference between it and signalling. Thank you so much for making it clear so good 💐
Not yet find a good and kind hearted man who chase me.
I just Live Love Laugh each day everyday. Enjoy blogging in you tube. Well, I'm sure there will be a good man who will chase me. I can wait for the right time for that right person.
I hope that for your too you do give lovely vibes
I Just Came Upon This Channel and this video is very analytical. Great video!
Your polarity videos are super helpful thank you so much really appreciating it❤
You're so welcome and glad you're liking them!
I e been too patient waiting for a commitment. I recently told him I need to know where I stand.
He's playing you, hon.
If he can’t make it official walk away!
He is not for you. Someone better will be coming. I have enjoyed learning much from these videos. Reach out, they have great information available. ❤
@@sueanndayton3458 Thank you
Great video… Thank you for your wisdom!
This is an extremely educating video. Thumbs up for that honestly 👍👍
How about an avoidant type ? Whether fearful or dismissive, they will not chase.
@@Vicky-lg7oyThis. Don't waste your time, energy, resources, or heart on an avoidant. So painful.
@@Vicky-lg7oy that is not true of those with avoidant attachment, especially those with severe avoidance.
As a fearful myself, they will only chase if you pull away or not show interest. Otherwise, we won't chase anyone.
I am.being chased by an avoidant . . And now I am in runner energy ! 😅😅 ..
Ex Dismissive avoidant.. Just give space dont chase focus on yourself dont ask much thats it but stat away really its painful
Beautiful key points and on point. Thank you so much!❤
The man that is interested in me at work is a manager and I always ask him ( I only do this if he is the only manager available, if there is another manager who is free I'll seek out that other manager first) I could really use your help and I only say this when I truly need his help.
What if you ask for his opinion/help then pause and you get silence 🤷♀️
If you have to activate it’s not meant to be! God makes things easy! Confusion is of the Devil.
Even God talks about women being gentle and men being providers and chasers, so I think this video is accurate. You just need to be in your identity, actually.
This is awesome . Thank you
You are so welcome!
as always, great advice • tysm 🙏🏼
You're so welcome!
I needed this thank you so much
Glad you enjoyed it!
How often should a woman use these signaling strategies? Could they be used every day, every other day, once a week, etc?
Will apply this!
My ex boyfriend used to get really mad at me when I used I statements. What does that mean? I now feel I was made to feel guilty for stating what i needed and wanted. He said me using "I, I. I" statements made me a narcissist, making things all about myself" That was nine years ago and I just realized I've stopped using I statements to describe my needs. It wasnt me, was it?
Sounds like he was the actual narcissist
all kinds of things can be worded in a sentence featuring "I" and a need. you can say I feel sorry that I hurt you and I need to feel that we are on good terms in order to be able to sleep tonight. you can say I need prada and diamonds and I need you to leave this room because you stink and I happen to be a very sensitive person!!
you can say I dont have a good feeling about this. I wonder whether the kid over there is alright? My gut instinct tells me I want to check in with them and see if they feel safe.
You can say I want a sandwhich I need you to take the trash out. I need my quiet time. I need my beauty sleep. I need this, this and this.
So one factor is what is the message about your personality and focus, that really lies underneath your words.
Another factor can be, maybe he was told throughout his whole childhood that "I" is a bad word and only egocentric narcisists use it and he should only ever care about others. Or he read a book about empathy that left him deeply impressed and changed the way he sees things. Or something along those lines. Maybe a person in his family used "similar sounding" I statements just before they got drunk and violent. So he learned to brace himself when someone starts talking in I statements.
Etc
Without looking into it, how would we be able to tell.
Wow this ia so helpful💗💗💗
Glad you think so!
HOW AM I supposed to remember all this…?
I just wanna be myZSelf and FEEL loved by him. But having PCS=Persistent Concussion Symptoms makes it difficult. I need to get healthy first is all I can think of. Getting brain fatigued leaves no room for a relationship especially not when we live far apart and both have children with someone else. All logistics. Makes me tired just thinking about it.
But when WE are texting & sexting 😅 WE have a lot of FUN and WE are on the same wavelength & share HUMOR as a common denominator. HE is a real comedian & actor, writer etc. And HE has his own wine 🍷 3 brands & I’ve worked at a Winery.
I guess these advice are for a real relationship when you’re dating and/or live together.
This communication goes both ways
hmm i just tried some signalling and was called ‘facking patronising’ 😂 will keep working on it
😂
This guy said that to you? That's unacceptable. Very abusive.
@@danilaroche1156 😔
@@danilaroche1156 u would have an absolute field day with our text history
Thanks
Welcome!
Why do I have the feeling this guy is really miserable with his wife
omg.... i got the same feeling.... he doesnt embody the vibrant confident direct strong passionate masculins energy he talks about . he has a very effeminate vibe . seeing the way that his wife only wanted one kid , shes obviously not operating correctly within her marriage
That true ❤❤🎉
It’s hard to say those things cause we’re broken up but I want him back so bad so then what do I say?
I really could not look my ex in the face after I felt hurt by him. He noticed right away that I was avoiding eye contact and it would make him pursue me more.
Same. I feel too hurt to look him in the eyes.
Thank you❤️
You’re welcome 😊
omg.... i got the same feeling.... he doesnt embody the vibrant confident direct strong passionate masculins energy he talks about . he has a very effeminate vibe . seeing the way that his wife only wanted one kid , shes obviously not operating correctly within her marriage
Men do not play these games. Aged BOYS and narcissists do.
men r boys forever
❤
Come on... so oldfashioned!
BULLSHIT. already tried all this things. none work!
Doesn't this feel a bit sexist for women ?
Troglodite, I would call it
Being a woman answering this question. My answer is no, it's not sexist.
Brody Boyle… yessiree that’s a proper boss name is that…
That’s all I have to say for I care not about being chased by
any of you pesky menfolk…
Just sayin ;)’
Signal interest, but also play hard to get (don't be too available). Welcome to being a woman! 🥲
All this works for women as well