My ex girlfriend cheated and dated two other men after me in the same year then moved to back to her home country. She reached out last night saying that she misses me and wants me to move to her country. No apologies and no explanations about her mistakes. She wants me to uproot my life against the odds of her previously proven bad behaviour just like that. I’ll just leave the message on read. 😿
My ex fearful avoidant monkey branched to another after a mostly good four-year relationship/situationship with me. He wanted to be friends. Nope!! I let him go without a tear. It's been nine months of NC. I have been doing inner work mostly in solitude. I do keep in touch with family and friends and continue my activities. A curious thing is happening as time has gone on. I am getting over him and don't want him back. I never thought I would get to this point. I still have love for him, but I realize it would never work with us. Unless he heals, he would do the same disappearing act as before. I am quite sure he has not done the work to heal. It is what it is. I am moving on.
I've never had anyone come back but I would hope my recent ex will reach out given that thing's ended on a healthy enough note, I'm not expecting it though
And there is the truth when these young guys say “I’m con(sniff)fused!” they 2:47 don’t know how confused they really are!!! They are too young to see what’s really going on and run into a brick wall a couple of times before they figure things out. Pay attention to the dumb statements they make…that’s a red flag on a silver platter.
Gone for good..Never looking back..And i will never reach out ever again..
My ex girlfriend cheated and dated two other men after me in the same year then moved to back to her home country. She reached out last night saying that she misses me and wants me to move to her country. No apologies and no explanations about her mistakes. She wants me to uproot my life against the odds of her previously proven bad behaviour just like that. I’ll just leave the message on read. 😿
Dang man…run away from that…just because for illusion didn’t workout now she wants to be coming back crying…what is your gut telling you?
My ex fearful avoidant monkey branched to another after a mostly good four-year relationship/situationship with me. He wanted to be friends. Nope!! I let him go without a tear. It's been nine months of NC. I have been doing inner work mostly in solitude. I do keep in touch with family and friends and continue my activities. A curious thing is happening as time has gone on. I am getting over him and don't want him back. I never thought I would get to this point. I still have love for him, but I realize it would never work with us. Unless he heals, he would do the same disappearing act as before. I am quite sure he has not done the work to heal. It is what it is. I am moving on.
I've never had anyone come back but I would hope my recent ex will reach out given that thing's ended on a healthy enough note, I'm not expecting it though
Well I turned my back on my ex the night we officially broke up, and I pushed her away and never looked back and that was a year and 5 ish months ago
I accepted friendship from my dumper now he's angry I moved on with someone else
And there is the truth when these young guys say “I’m con(sniff)fused!” they 2:47 don’t know how confused they really are!!! They are too young to see what’s really going on and run into a brick wall a couple of times before they figure things out. Pay attention to the dumb statements they make…that’s a red flag on a silver platter.