ARE PROVINCIAL FILIPINAS NAIVE? How Do They Think?

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  • @TheFilipinaPea
    @TheFilipinaPea  2 роки тому +45

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    • @jojowhite9296
      @jojowhite9296 2 роки тому +1

      Pea, one question? Are you in a relationship? I'm married, so I'm not asking for my sake. You have to be one of the smartest women that I've ever listened to. You also have a witty personality.

    • @secretagent86
      @secretagent86 2 роки тому

      @@jojowhite9296 she has stated that she has a western bf

    • @crwydryny
      @crwydryny 2 роки тому

      Lol the star trek skit I could so see that happening to Kirk if he went to the Philippines

    • @cwh8502
      @cwh8502 2 роки тому

      Interesting topic but I do have a question that you didn't ask the young ladies... I would love to get your opinion on a specific question.

    • @49525Bob
      @49525Bob 2 роки тому

      If I wasn't alredy involved, I'd be chasing Candace.

  • @justinmcintosh6554
    @justinmcintosh6554 2 роки тому +56

    This hit hard. Women like these, with such values, do not exist in the West. I could wish for such a partner.

    • @santos.2020
      @santos.2020 Рік тому

      I agree but already noticed some red flags, you know, in Philippines in order to get any job even as a cashier they all have go to college where they are vulnerable to feminist and progressive agendas and so I can see these girls already want to be independent.

    • @flicndills123
      @flicndills123 Рік тому +6

      And to make it even worse, these women are so young and already more mature than elder women over here. We have to start preparing to get one of our own brother

    • @brennanmoran7990
      @brennanmoran7990 Рік тому +9

      @@flicndills123 I married mine back in June. I think if any western man has the means to pursue a Filipina, he'd be crazy not to do it. As a matter of fact, a divorce with a western woman is going to cost you a lot more than a few trips to the Philippines.

    • @Aubatron
      @Aubatron Рік тому

      I mean, there are some women like this in the west, but it's only like 1-2% of women, and more than half of them are married. So it's like 1/100, and maybe only 1/4 of them are attracted to you too, so it's like 1/400. So you'd have to go through dating 400 women and deal with some women putting on a fake persona for a few years to try to trick you into thinking they're good and wasting your time. Almost like a full time job lol, better to just go to another country.

    • @yaniel7873
      @yaniel7873 3 місяці тому

      ​@@flicndills123 when i hit the 26 i'll be right ther looking for my wife

  • @dougmurphy1777
    @dougmurphy1777 2 роки тому +70

    Hi From Australia! Such a huge contrast between their attitudes and what we're accustomed to in the west - so refreshing

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  2 роки тому +16

      You’re right about that, Doug 👍😊

    • @ArcanistBlack
      @ArcanistBlack 2 роки тому

      Bro you live in Australia. Geographically you are about as Far East as you can get. And you guys are as authoritarian as China. Being white doesn’t make you “western”

    • @nahteo
      @nahteo 2 роки тому +3

      I concur!

    • @WELLBRAN
      @WELLBRAN 2 роки тому +5

      Be careful Filipinos are masters at telling you what you want to hear

    • @WELLBRAN
      @WELLBRAN Рік тому

      Wrong..they are very materialistic they emulate USA they want all that your money will buy ..snobbery in the phils is high on lifestyle

  • @Niftynorm1
    @Niftynorm1 2 роки тому +90

    For ladies so young they are really level headed and know what they want out of life. I hope their dreams come true. Thank you Pea for another great panel.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  2 роки тому +34

      I’ll keep an eye in them and make sure they don’t go astray 😂👍

    • @TheMooCowReturns
      @TheMooCowReturns 2 роки тому +4

      @@TheFilipinaPea Do any of them like cows - or weird American guys who like cows???
      ;=8)

    • @samual3006
      @samual3006 2 роки тому +2

      @@TheMooCowReturns 🐄🐄🐄🐄

    • @shaunigothictv1003
      @shaunigothictv1003 2 роки тому +3

      @@TheFilipinaPea
      The original filipinos were Black.
      Most of them were tortured and exterminated by European Catholic invaders who forced the rest of the filipinos to convert to.Roman Catholicism.
      Any filipinos who refused to convert to Roman Catholicism were tortured and killed.
      Historically speaking, no filipinos converted to Roman Catholicism voluntarily.

    • @streetratgarage
      @streetratgarage 2 роки тому +1

      @@TheFilipinaPea keep an “on them” not “In them” that would be weird! Lol

  • @Juice17408
    @Juice17408 2 роки тому +35

    Listening to these young ladies gives me hope for my future in the Philippines.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  2 роки тому +7

      Thanks Juice - me too! 👍😊

    • @oittisallen4057
      @oittisallen4057 2 роки тому +1

      Lol

    • @samual3006
      @samual3006 2 роки тому

      Either Bob Hope or No Hope.🤣

    • @HAROLDMORAY
      @HAROLDMORAY Рік тому

      😄😄😄 get a life see if they were interested if you no money your a ATM listen too them good provider.

    • @Jazz-tv7jr
      @Jazz-tv7jr Рік тому

      ​@@HAROLDMORAY????
      You again if you don't like pilipina/culture go away

  • @onlyone2948
    @onlyone2948 6 місяців тому +3

    Sound like these three young women will have a promising future. 👍👍

  • @russellwilliams3740
    @russellwilliams3740 Рік тому +9

    It is absolutely refreshing to see that there a good, kind and genuine people left in the world. I’ve watched a quite of few of your videos and each one truly blows me away. The values that I was brought up with are exactly these, and I thought that It was something that was completely abandoned, because here in the west that’s what it seems. Keep up the great work with these videos, it gives a lot of men like me hope for something good in life, and thank you for showing the awesome culture and the very wonderful beautiful women of this great country.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  Рік тому +1

      I’m so glad you’re enjoying my content 👍❤️😊

  • @davelarsen9847
    @davelarsen9847 2 роки тому +19

    They seem to have the answers that most western men want to hear. When it comes to family loyalties however, I think men wanting a Filipina need to realize how deep that sense of responsibility goes. Helping to some degree with her family is just a must guys. These beautiful creatures need your to help to send home at least a little money in order to feel at peace with themselves.

  • @glynatmore1817
    @glynatmore1817 Рік тому +2

    Aww bless all of these wonderful women.
    Puts my faith back into traditional exciting women with the correct morals & mindset.

  • @TheDadFaxs
    @TheDadFaxs 2 роки тому +94

    To be honest with you as a 45 year old man. To be able to come home from work and have all the household chores done , and have a person who loves me there waiting for me is a dream. To have a loyal faithful loving woman is why I want to move to the Philippines. Because America women are so not that. I was never married but I gave 11 years to a woman who left and took all my money out of the bank. Because me going to work and making the kind of money you don't have to wonder if you can pay your bill and have food to eat. And all my love Was not enough for her. So any Filipina in her mid 20ds to mid 40ds that could be good to me I would give everything I have left.

    • @JAYY_JAYY
      @JAYY_JAYY 2 роки тому +15

      Absolutely agreed
      As an American man we are fairly simple .
      Just be loyal , love me , and communicate.

    • @karlenzmann1917
      @karlenzmann1917 2 роки тому +14

      You need to get on a plane and go brother. A 2 or 3 week vacation in the Philippines will absolutely change your outlook on life. It did for me back in 2019!

    • @kylergeston
      @kylergeston 2 роки тому +8

      It really sucks when I hear of other men going through this. At least you can start over as you didn't have to pay child support or alimony. Some are not as lucky and are stuck paying for a long time. If I had to do it all over again I would just buy (rent) what I wanted. I hope you find your perfect Filipina. Some day I would like to visit and see for myself.

    • @charlesphilhower1452
      @charlesphilhower1452 2 роки тому +19

      That happens everywhere. Don’t assume all Philippine women are honest because there are slot of scammers.

    • @bigskippy4427
      @bigskippy4427 2 роки тому +4

      I like your mindset James T.

  • @STR123able
    @STR123able 2 роки тому +12

    They are adorable and also very young. It would be interesting asking them the same things 10, 20 years from now.

  • @DavidBrockes
    @DavidBrockes 2 роки тому +9

    And that's why I love the Philippines. The people, the hospitality, and the open friendliness. Every day a happy day. Words cannot do justice to how great you feel when you are surrounded by this atmosphere. It just makes me feel happy talking about it. 😊😊😊

  • @tobywebb6452
    @tobywebb6452 2 роки тому +9

    I'm in love with Candace 😍

  • @ExponentialImpact
    @ExponentialImpact 2 роки тому +8

    This conversation sounds like the conversations we had as young adults, I miss when people thought like this.

  • @J.Thyrniang
    @J.Thyrniang 2 роки тому +5

    Your answer in the interview is well appreciated !! Filipinas are not only beautiful but look very polite and humble. 👍👍

  • @rockyalvarez520
    @rockyalvarez520 2 роки тому +16

    PEA you're really turning into quite the interviewer! I've noticed that you are distinctly getting better at it. In this interview I love how you were asking many pointed in difficult questions and making them think about their answers. Frankly I found your questions to be much better than their answers especially when you were last in a why should a man marry you especially when he's putting his assets at risk... What do you bring to the table? I found all of their answers lacking. I personally would love to hear you answer your own questions :) I would expect your answers to be much more thoughtful than theirs

    • @clydekimsey7503
      @clydekimsey7503 2 роки тому +5

      Yes , I tend to agree. The difference is that Pea is older, smarter and more articulate. Have you seen the video in which she interviewed ladies in their mid 30s?

  • @spincube5734
    @spincube5734 2 роки тому +12

    I appreciate that you asked more probing questions, not just the "standards" that you hear on other channel interviews/panels.This is but a small example of what helps keep your channel head and shoulders above all the rest in your niche. Thanx Pea !!

  • @shughl1
    @shughl1 2 роки тому +12

    This and the previous video have been hugely eye opening. Thank you for showing all this diversity, Pea. I think that there are so many different opinions and viewpoints out there that we don't hear. Thank you for bringing these two us!

  • @richardmapes6824
    @richardmapes6824 2 роки тому +10

    I love your question about religion, I think a lot of people just say yes because it’s kind of expected of them but they’re really not that religious. That saving face thing. 😅

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  2 роки тому +3

      I think you’re probably right in many cases, Richard 👍😊

  • @ShadowMebs
    @ShadowMebs 2 роки тому +7

    The more I watch videos and learn about all the different topics about Philippines, the people and the culture, especially from the provinces, the more I imagine what a wonderful life it could be to settle down there.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  2 роки тому +4

      One thing is certain - it’ll be different for you! 😂👍

  • @sharhune2735
    @sharhune2735 2 роки тому +9

    Great discussion. I wish your guests all the best for the future. Beauty is fleeting but when combined with wit and intelligence, it's a winning combination. If I wasn't married and forty years younger, I'd be tempted. Take care of yourself, Pea and I'll see you Tuesday.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  2 роки тому +5

      Yes, they’d be tempting to a man if any age, I’d bet! See you Tuesday 👍😊

  • @TravellingMan20
    @TravellingMan20 2 роки тому +5

    Part two of the beauty pageant, and as enjoyable as part one. They’re all nice girls, and sensible for their young ages. You’re a natural interviewer Pea, the girls were all relaxed and enjoying themselves.

  • @badbobby11
    @badbobby11 6 днів тому +1

    Amazing girls there. Someone will be very lucky to find one of these ladys

  • @paulstan9828
    @paulstan9828 2 роки тому +20

    I like their answers. If it’s possible to help her family without hurting our family then yes.

    • @119jle
      @119jle 2 роки тому +3

      Trust me the parents want financial aid whether the girls say yes or no

  • @garyday4356
    @garyday4356 Рік тому +2

    Once you had a guest who said something like what a westerner wants. I think she replies that they want to feel wanted. (one of the best answers) If a woman is kind, loyal, faithful and can give a man a family and make them feel wanted. This is what makes Filipinas rich in our eyes. Its worth more than any dollar we make.

  • @arnoldseay9118
    @arnoldseay9118 2 роки тому +19

    This was a really good insight of these girls thoughts and dreams. They have worked so hard to get where they are now. I just hope they can stay focused on their education and get a career before they succumb to the temptations of what men might bring along. Most important is not to get pregnant till they have fulfilled their aspirations. Watch out for guys with a silver tongue. And of course make them show you what they got. Dont be fooled by a deadbeat. Good job on this interview Miss Pea.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  2 роки тому +11

      Hahahahaha
      At least we know Anne will make them show what they got 👍😂

    • @attadeal3130
      @attadeal3130 2 роки тому

      Don’t worry about those girls if they aren’t hanging around the boardwalk walking up to strangers and telling them they are handsome then they probably are focusing on the right things. Another thing these girls looking for foreigners have it rough. Either they meet guys with a foot in the grave or they meet guys who perfected the art of holding down a bar stool but meeting Western men 10 years their senior or less is about as likely to happen as them becoming the future president. I would expect being a digital nomad in Dumaguete would pose challenges for expats not old enough to retire. Most younger guys unless they have problems haven’t gave up on Western women yet and still receive some attention from them so yeah it’s not any easier for a Filipina to find a good western man than it’s any easier for a western man to find a good Filipina. Also the Western man prioritizes pretty faces shapes and curves rather than her knowledge or skills. Doesn’t really make sense to put on a Rolex watch dressed as a painter as you would be drawing attention to yourself but looking for a beauty pageant winner to stand beside your pot bellied hairy chested breath stinking gray headed and balding self doesn’t add up either. A girls best bet is to meet a younger professional online or in a business setting and that’s not easy to do either. Guys like that don’t won’t the mail order bride reputation back in the west when they are young and often the men sent for business meetings are already married and content with checking out Walking Street in AC while their wife in the West is partying with her friends.

  • @wyattworld47
    @wyattworld47 2 роки тому +1

    Gotta find a girl like Steffi, these interviews are quite helpful, good work

  • @spincube5734
    @spincube5734 2 роки тому +6

    Not sure if that was a new StarTrek inspired "outro" or one I missed from a previous video. I love your creative humor and appreciate the effort you put into developing and executing all of them.
    Thanx Pea !!

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  2 роки тому +3

      Thanks Spin! I laughed hard when making that one 😂

    • @RCFSULAW
      @RCFSULAW 2 роки тому +1

      @@TheFilipinaPea I just happened to watch that particular episode on late night TV last week as it is on every night. I enjoy your spin on vintage US TV.

    • @Kevins-Philippine-Retirement
      @Kevins-Philippine-Retirement 2 роки тому

      @@TheFilipinaPea old Captain Kirk always had a weakness for women in all the episodes, sort of in a Sean Connery kind of way 😉

  • @STOCKDOGINTHEPHILIPINES
    @STOCKDOGINTHEPHILIPINES 2 роки тому +1

    One of the only Philippines vloggers that has substance....not to mention humor and charm

  • @andrewc2670
    @andrewc2670 2 роки тому +23

    Thanks for the part 2 update, it always seems in these interviews that the women really struggle when asked what a man gets out of marriage. To be fair though I'm sure you'd get a similar reaction if you asked a bunch of young men what a woman gets out of marriage.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  2 роки тому +18

      I think I’ll try that interview, Andrew - I’ll like to see what the men say 👍😊

    • @ArcanistBlack
      @ArcanistBlack 2 роки тому +6

      It’s easy to see what women get, security. Financial security from a man who can work, physical security from a man who is stronger, and emotional security from a man who isn’t going to take off after he bust or she hits the wall.

    • @somehacker9031
      @somehacker9031 2 роки тому +4

      @Andrew C - I think none of them really knew a good answer, including Filipina Pea, because none of them have a guy's perspective. For example, Pea said 'Making sure I married my best friend' but I think that's wrong. I have a best friend that's a woman and we're not attracted to each other like husband and wife (she is much older than me). What I want from a wife is different. Speaking from my own perspective, I'd say my life partner/wife is my most *intimate* friend, which is very different. As another commenter (@Steveo Kahn) said love between humans is absolutely conditional and takes work. I'm only putting in the enormous amount of the necessary work for a real life partner. I think people share everything with a life partner and they are the closest and strongest team to face life together.

    • @g_sm0ke
      @g_sm0ke 2 роки тому

      @@TheFilipinaPea Do you think there is a difference in opinion between Filipinas that speak English and those who don't regarding marriage?

    • @nahteo
      @nahteo 2 роки тому +1

      They were trying to answer, just a little shy about it haha

  • @Sweetiepiepizza
    @Sweetiepiepizza 2 роки тому +1

    Pea, You are a gem! Keep up the love!

  • @ManOfAdventure2011
    @ManOfAdventure2011 2 роки тому +5

    Thanks for doing this interview Pea. I noticed you were trying to get them to elaborate on what they had to offer. I think they were shy in that department. On the subject of them expecting their husbands to help the family; A Filipina might say no, but they forget that's ingrained into their culture and when they are in the middle of the situation they are more likely to cave in to their family's demands. And this is where the foreigner husband must set the ground rules. Most of us foreigners are happy to help out, but NOT be a chump!

  • @marcusgraham9478
    @marcusgraham9478 2 роки тому +1

    Hi Pea, I don't in my wildest dreams think these three young ladies and many like them have anything to worry about as far as there future is concerned, they are not naive in any way, they are genuine and as I said before refreshing, good on you for chatting about the taboo subject; sex, they need to know as do all young Pinays at this stage of their lives, no none belongs to anyone in particular, its a happy medium and their honesty is so good, love this video and subject matter Pea 👍

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  2 роки тому +2

      They’ll be flattered to hear you say that, Marcus ❤️👍

  • @erikgeorge3770
    @erikgeorge3770 2 роки тому +5

    ❤❤ naive? definitely not. these are some beautiful, smart and amazing young women. almost as awesome as you ❤❤

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  2 роки тому +7

      Almost, yes 😂😂😂😂❤️👍

    • @119jle
      @119jle 2 роки тому +2

      Until you live here and experience yourself I will disagree with you absolutely naïve

  • @kevinmclaughlin7966
    @kevinmclaughlin7966 2 роки тому +1

    Ok. Your Star Trek mini episode was epic Pea! Thanks!

  • @rmcmurphy7905
    @rmcmurphy7905 2 роки тому +5

    It seems to me, what you have here Pea,are three lovely intelligent ( young) ladies. Wise beyond their years!! And deserve a man of equal worth!! Not to say others deserve less 🤔 did I mention mature and sweet!!!!

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  2 роки тому +3

      Well thanks Ray - they’ll be flattered to hear it 👍❤️

  • @andyincebucity6296
    @andyincebucity6296 2 роки тому +2

    Missed this episode because I’m enjoying drinks with a locally girl in Cebu. I’ll watch tomorrow for sure

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  2 роки тому

      Then I’ll be waiting for your reaction, Andy! And enjoy your date 😉👍❤️

    • @bayareatanders
      @bayareatanders 2 роки тому

      I hope its not a bar girl. If it is then downhill from now on.

    • @andyincebucity6296
      @andyincebucity6296 2 роки тому

      So I just watched the full episode.
      I prefer the city and city girls but great to see the other side of the issue.
      I agree with the other comments to bring back Angel. She’s got the hippy chick thing working fully.

  • @prescottosegie
    @prescottosegie 2 роки тому +3

    Good video ladies I’m glad that they are college educated and have goals they want to achieve 😎💪🏾keep up the awesome work pea

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  2 роки тому +3

      They seem to be on the right track - so far 👍😊

  • @davidrobinson995
    @davidrobinson995 2 роки тому +1

    Dr. Pea, thanks for the dose & enlightening prognosis. You’re the best! 🤗

  • @TetrarchJefffreak69
    @TetrarchJefffreak69 2 роки тому +3

    Very insightful interviews Pea these ladies are very smart and practical I admire those traits in a woman. Filipinas are for sure keepers if the right one comes a long👍👍🆒🆒

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  2 роки тому +3

      Thanks Skull! And they sure are 👍😊

  • @dennisb7930
    @dennisb7930 2 роки тому +1

    I’ve been to Philippines 7 times not only are there many beautiful places to see but the people are so very friendly respectful and willing to help if you ask is wh as t makes me love going there❤️Thank you girls

  • @neilgunns8391
    @neilgunns8391 2 роки тому +4

    There’s definitely gonna be a lot of comments about these beautiful Filipinas. I have a favorite, but I wouldn’t want to offend the other two. I’m gonna have to watch this later. It’s 8am here in Florida and I’m still up from last night. 😢 😭. Hopefully this video has your usual comedy at the end Pea. 😆

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  2 роки тому +4

      Well thanks Neil, and I have another panel of women coming next week, so prepare for cuteness overload 😂

    • @peterwagidoso1028
      @peterwagidoso1028 2 роки тому +1

      @@TheFilipinaPea good show Pea and I will like to meet some of these Filipinas

    • @neilgunns8391
      @neilgunns8391 2 роки тому

      That’s good to hear Pea. Haha. 😆

  • @mikemyers7317
    @mikemyers7317 2 роки тому +2

    After spending a month in Asia I feel that you Asian women are smarter, quicker intellectually, in touch with reality, self reliant, caring, and of course beautiful. In short, everything that Western women are not. I will be back in February to make plans with a lovely Thai woman to make Thailand my new home. All because I saw one of your videos a year ago. Thanks Pea!

  • @charlesyoung9980
    @charlesyoung9980 2 роки тому +4

    Pea's channel is simply amazing. A wide variety of topics and a sense of humor that's addictive. And, while I do love ya Pea. I'm not gonna "show you what I got" 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @philipmasie
    @philipmasie 2 роки тому +2

    Another great interview Pea. Also learn something from your videos about the Filipino culture.

  • @captainmango1355
    @captainmango1355 2 роки тому +11

    Hi Pea! if these lovely women are an example of the typical province girl, there's likely to be a stampede of foreigners coming there to sweep them off their feet! I can't think of anything I don't love about these girls! (and you too1)

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  2 роки тому +5

      Thanks Captain! And you’ll see 5 more new ones next week 👍😊

    • @clydekimsey7503
      @clydekimsey7503 2 роки тому +1

      @@TheFilipinaPea 5 more pinays? Nice!😉😁

    • @119jle
      @119jle 2 роки тому

      Far too young.

  • @michaelmcgovern1937
    @michaelmcgovern1937 2 роки тому +2

    The women represent your country very well. During the interview it was mentioned to see how a man treats their mother. The one flaw with that is there are situations where the person has suffered a youth of abuse from their mother and in adulthood, they choose to break contact with the life of abuse they lived. Those people and I know this for a fact can be very gentle and loving and caring and hence make a great mate. If a woman uses that bit of criteria to make a judgement on a man, they just might reject a man that could be the right mate for them. Remember not all people grow up in families like most of you do there. Thank you for listening.

  • @franganmacloud8046
    @franganmacloud8046 2 роки тому +1

    Dear Pea, thanks for the second part. You really do a lot to make the WORLD KNOW THE PHILIPPINES BETTER. You have a lot of energy and strong will.👍Thank you and I send everyone a kiss again...I learn so much from you girls: ❤❤❤ + ❤

  • @kaikrist
    @kaikrist 2 роки тому +20

    I sound like a cliché when you judge a man through how his relationship with his family. What about those of us that are unfortunate enough to come from families where the parents aren't so good? It doesn't mean we aren't good, on the contrary, many of us are both kind and sweet.

    • @ArcanistBlack
      @ArcanistBlack 2 роки тому +3

      True, my family members are the worst.

    • @jane_7777
      @jane_7777 2 роки тому +3

      I've been living in the states now for almost 20 years, and I know what exactly you are talking about. My daughter boyfriend's parents had a very bitter divorce. He was young when they got divorced and he grew up without peace at all. It affected him in many ways. I can tell he doesn't want us to talk about his family because it upsets him.

    • @serenityssolace
      @serenityssolace 2 роки тому

      I agree with you

    • @marcelleorton95
      @marcelleorton95 2 роки тому +1

      That is basically true, but if a guy doesn't interact with his parents/mom because they are bad or you don't like their lifestyle. That shows you don't want to be like that. So it's a good thing.

  • @sethoselken9562
    @sethoselken9562 Рік тому +2

    okay, that star trek ending was funny. subscribed

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  Рік тому

      Excellent! Someone who gets my humor! 🤣🤣❤️

  • @quokka5122
    @quokka5122 2 роки тому +6

    OMG, Candice stole my heart. she is like a butterfly soaring softly through the air. Too bad I am far too incredibly immoral for these sweet provincial girls, just like La Belle et le Bete.
    Kidding aside, I love your channel miss Pea, started watching last week. You're a great youtuber and I know you'll continue to grow! Look forward to whatever comes next!

  • @The_Winners_Legion
    @The_Winners_Legion Рік тому +1

    Guys, this is why I always say, "go traditional foreign", you'll never go back to western women, ever!

  • @glenproctor1999
    @glenproctor1999 2 роки тому +6

    Great interviews, so interesting! I'd love you to do a video on the history of religion in the Philippines and the effect on the society there?Tell Dr Pea I'm ready for examination any time, I'll buy dinner, thank you lovely Pea! 🥰❤️

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  2 роки тому +3

      This is the closest -
      ua-cam.com/video/EU0_I3KA90c/v-deo.html

    • @glenproctor1999
      @glenproctor1999 2 роки тому

      @@TheFilipinaPea Ahh thank you lovely Pea. Yeah, watched that one as you released it. Always interested in how people see the world 😘❤

  • @tonywilliams7918
    @tonywilliams7918 2 роки тому +2

    Beautiful work in sharing and presenting the views and understanding of (what I perceive) the impressionable future of the Philippines. I appreciate your disclaimers also and applaud you on giving a voice of detail to "A" deep root of your culture. Bless the women and men to come in what some feel in desire a foreseeable future. Men, I ask of you to listen with what potentials that you also would offer to such potential to happiness ever after! Understand the true role and purpose of a real woman! Good work again Pea.

  • @Crazykid949
    @Crazykid949 2 роки тому +27

    Pea:
    This was a brilliant look into the youth of your country and see how it differs from women here in the western countries. In my area the women even at my age are nothing like the women you showcase here. These women know what it takes to be in a real, proper, committed relationship. It's about teaming up as a couple to make sure that needs are met, there is happiness together, and stability in their relationship together. Women in my area, are greedy self centered narcissists who only look for a man just to see what resources they can steal from him while they are hunting their next prey while sneaking around on the one they are dating. I know it sounds harsh they way I put it but when it is done to you more than once, you get a bit guarded and jaded about it.
    That is why I really wish I had the finances to move to the Philippines, From all the vlogs from multiple sources I've watched, Filipinos have always seemed to be very pleasant, happy people that a person who needs that in their life, (like me) could never get enough of the positivity they seem to express, even though they too are struggling in their own lives.
    Thank you Pea for another wonderful happy video, this really brightened my day!

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  2 роки тому +7

      I’m glad it was a happy video for you, CK - it was for me too 👍

    • @JAYY_JAYY
      @JAYY_JAYY 2 роки тому +3

      Absolutely agreed on your assessment of western women.
      I haven’t dated in 3 years since my divorce .
      I do think there some good American women yet they are very rare .

    • @JD-nx6by
      @JD-nx6by 2 роки тому +1

      So very accurate. Americanized Pinays are also the same as the "native" American women too. Be very wary. Best to 'go to the source' for a good Pinay. You will be glad you did.

  • @johannvandermerwe4826
    @johannvandermerwe4826 Рік тому

    Great interview Pea. Lovely ladies. Insightful 👌👌

  • @RotaryTeamVincent
    @RotaryTeamVincent 2 роки тому +7

    Unfortunately, even though they say husband is not obligated to care for family, the peer pressure from parents and siblings would cause guilt for the wife to pressure partner for $.
    From my experience they have all sorts of calamity stories that need financial help. Man must be clear and firm with their intent, even if called heartless. Learned my lesson.

    • @CindysBisvlog
      @CindysBisvlog 2 роки тому +3

      It depend on filipina ,because i am a filipina but i dont get pressure about this financial matter ... if someone message me to borrow money ,i asked for what if very needed and i know its true i help ,but only to borrow i say NO and dont care what they say ,my husband and I working hard so i wont let my fmily ,friends and relatives think i am pooping money here abroad

    • @bszabo3132
      @bszabo3132 2 роки тому

      I agree, at the beginning the one said she would send money home if her husband was ok with that and then later said they want a husband who provides fir the family. They are saying what any man wants to here. They will most likely never make much money even with a degree, then at age 35 they will be pushed out of their job for younger workers, they do not receive a large enough retirement to live the rest of their lives. It's all a scam. That's why its hard for them to travel out of their country and become citizens in other countries, most countries don't trust them and know they only marry for money or citizenship.

    • @tastymustard6234
      @tastymustard6234 2 роки тому +2

      Not really... my Filipina is expected to help out her mother pay the bills but they don't expect anything from me. I only give her family money to help out when I'm staying with them. But then they are cooking for me and doing my laundry. Help should go both ways otherwise you're being used.

  • @rubengorospe939
    @rubengorospe939 Рік тому

    Hi hello ,I just saw these channel in u tube,and I like it I’m a Filipino living in Los Angeles California USA

  • @jeremywheeler8417
    @jeremywheeler8417 2 роки тому +6

    Thanks for another informative video Pea! You have some lovely friends. Can’t wait until the Filipinos drops their ridiculous Covid restrictions.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  2 роки тому +5

      I can’t wait either - there are a lot of you still waiting 👍😊

    • @UrsulavonB
      @UrsulavonB 2 роки тому +1

      Won't happen Philippines is signor of treaty along with 190 countries

  • @warrenaspeling602
    @warrenaspeling602 2 роки тому +2

    All 4 beautiful and smart !! Only be there in February, but already inlove with the people, their values and culture. Thanks for sharing Pea 😉

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  2 роки тому +2

      February is coming soon, Warren 👍❤️

    • @warrenaspeling602
      @warrenaspeling602 2 роки тому +1

      @@TheFilipinaPea so looking forward to it 😀

  • @God1st924
    @God1st924 2 роки тому +5

    I am courting my educated Province Fiancé who sounds just like these ladies. I am so happy I made the right choice for a beautiful loyal wife raised in the Province w/ Morals and did not get caught up w/ a bar girl.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  2 роки тому +5

      Sounds like you found a keeper, Mr X 👍❤️

    • @God1st924
      @God1st924 2 роки тому

      @@TheFilipinaPea Thank You 🙏🏾

    • @bayareatanders
      @bayareatanders 2 роки тому

      Bar girls are the worst. Not all but they have a rough life and its difficult to switch to a normal life for them. Most will scam to survive.

  • @lajuanbest7990
    @lajuanbest7990 2 роки тому +2

    Great hearing their insight and thoughts on the different topics..great interview Pea☺️

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  2 роки тому +2

      Thanks, my dear friend Lajuan 👍❤️

  • @Creek54
    @Creek54 2 роки тому +13

    I give you lots of credit for staying neutral in all of the topics. You're a wise and worldly person but you don't need to give your opinion. It takes a lot of willpower.

    • @-BigIi-
      @-BigIi- 2 роки тому

      Some of her opinions were in the questions; or, they influenced a number of the questions. I sensed that.

  • @21jmack21
    @21jmack21 Рік тому

    your ending on this was amazing!!!! Hilarious. you are truly amazing. I am using your teachings on my visit there. Great job!!!!

  • @kendonius4928
    @kendonius4928 2 роки тому +5

    I do not think these are the type of woman whom you run into at the airport or mall. Those woman at the airport/mall are more interested in separating the foreigner from his assets. These panel guests seem more interested in a long term relationship. Double thumbs up!

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  2 роки тому +4

      Yes! Don’t fall for the mall walkers - wait until you see the ‘real’ Filipinas 👍😊

    • @kendonius4928
      @kendonius4928 2 роки тому

      @@TheFilipinaPea But when you did your mall walking thing, you got fed, a purse, and a dress!!!!

  • @kmorris180
    @kmorris180 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks for that view into the minds and hearts of province ladies. Can't help but to love their shyness on some topics. Please have them on again real soon.

  • @47boogieman67
    @47boogieman67 2 роки тому +3

    Miss p curious where do you find the people you interview like these three young ladies. Do you just approach people or do you kind of know them in advance. If you just approach them what do you say to them. Thanks again and I wish these three beautiful young ladies nothing but the best future. You're the best p

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  2 роки тому +2

      I’ve gotten to the point where I just walk up to people and ask for an interview 😂

  • @Smalltummywonderful
    @Smalltummywonderful 8 місяців тому

    This was definitely an interesting interview with country girls from the province. It really blows my mind, and it is different

  • @Friedbrain11
    @Friedbrain11 2 роки тому +3

    Wow...these women are definitely great and I would really have a difficult time choosing which to marry if I was able to choose. I loved being married. It was the best part of my life until the divorce. I put into the marriage what I get out of it so the more I get, the more I put into it. I am not looking for a short-term affair. It is till death do us part for me.

  • @SilverPaladin
    @SilverPaladin 2 роки тому +1

    Your star trek skit is my favorite!

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  2 роки тому +1

      That’s probably still my number one favorite too 😂❤️👍

  • @paulstan9828
    @paulstan9828 2 роки тому +7

    “If you love me Show me what you got!” Ha!! That was so funny.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  2 роки тому +6

      (we’ve all heard it) 😂😂😂

    • @paulstan9828
      @paulstan9828 2 роки тому +2

      @@TheFilipinaPea I thought you all were kidding? That’s a terrible line for a guy to use.

  • @shenawardrope2665
    @shenawardrope2665 2 роки тому

    This is the best video yet. Thank you 😘

  • @mixmatch608
    @mixmatch608 2 роки тому +3

    Love the reasoning behind the answers given. After watching other videos that makes me feel Filipina seek foreign guys just for financial gains, this video did convince me otherwise.
    Yes, the family could still put pressure to get money out from the foreign husband. But I believe this girls are willing to compromise by finding work to support their family. It could be a teamwork whereby the husband pays for all the bills at home, and the wife support her family. Having a college degree is also a huge plus factor.

  • @garytucker2843
    @garytucker2843 2 роки тому +4

    Red-pilled & ready to leave an increasingly hostile country. Nice to know there's a place I can go.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  2 роки тому +1

      You’re always welcome here, Gary 👍😊

  • @p.c.kipmerriman9409
    @p.c.kipmerriman9409 2 роки тому

    Loved it Pea. It is refreshing to hear from ladies that know what they want and aren’t afraid of saying so.

  • @Jan-mu6vs
    @Jan-mu6vs 2 роки тому +3

    Maybe they don't but they do get pressure from family to "loan" them some. (this is what every expat I talked to has told me)
    I would find it odd if it didn't happen in some capacity, compared to wages there the western paycheck seems huge.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  2 роки тому +5

      If they end up with a foreigner, the family will usually pressure them to extract money from their husband, yes (but if they move west, they’ll typically get a job and send a portion of their wages home)

    • @119jle
      @119jle 2 роки тому +1

      Absolutely right as a handsome wealthy expat living here they will come to you for money I guarantee you 100%

    • @theking1446
      @theking1446 2 роки тому +1

      @@TheFilipinaPea i would not mind sending money to support the family when it’s actually needed. But I would have to get to know the family. How they live. I am not a rich man but would give the shirt off my back to help to those in need. To me others come first to those who need it. If I already have what I need it not an issue to help out. As long as it is needed and to be thanked for. But after awhile and becomes an issue, then I would think twice about it.

  • @johnclark7973
    @johnclark7973 2 роки тому

    PLEASE PEA, have these three delightful and memorizing ladies back on your show! They are the sweetest things I have ever seen. So intoxicating is their persona, smile and laughter. You 4 are a joy, and a nice escape for me. I feel like I am an unnoticed fly on the wall at a slumber party, and thus privy to to some juicy Intel. You ask great questions, and lead these girls perfectly to arrive at great answers to some hard to answer personal questions. You are a talented interviewer and good person.

  • @antiowarr9467
    @antiowarr9467 2 роки тому +3

    Supporting family??? I have no problem helping family members if they are helping them selves, but I do believe that the parents are to be helped on both side his and her parents, and I said HELPED not ADOPTED. Man and women joined and make their own family then it's ur responsibility to look after them.
    The 2 man and woman will become 1 and be a family. Also it is not a 50/50 relationship the husband is the head of the family and his wife is to support him and has to support her, both physical and emotional and all decisions have to have the wife's input. Cheers

  • @dalecornelio3399
    @dalecornelio3399 2 роки тому +2

    Id gladly take a tour any day from Candace :D they all seem like wonderful and genuine people. Thanks Pea for a great video :)

  • @steveokahn7249
    @steveokahn7249 2 роки тому +3

    All seem very nice and of course are very attractive. I did hear "unconditional love" mentioned...which admittedly is a trigger phrase for me. In my opinion, unconditional love only truly exists from a parent to a child (not the other way). Every other love between humans is conditional. Despite what all of the romantic novels or "love guru" experts say, it is NOT a bad thing that love has certain conditions! It could be as simple as no physical or mental abuse. The issue I have in teaching the concept of unconditional love is that it makes people lazy, entitled, and eventually disillusioned. Unless it is your child (for most of us), love takes work, love takes compromise, love takes maintenance. It is not something a couple should ever put on autopilot. So the answer to your marry or date question is...is that person someone you want to spend the rest of your life putting in the effort to maintain a soulmate-level of love? If yes - marry. If no - date. Sorry for the way too long comment. As always, great work.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  2 роки тому +5

      I totally agree with you, Steveo - I don’t think unconditional love exists except for the parents love for a child (which most parents have, but not all) 👍

    • @somehacker9031
      @somehacker9031 2 роки тому

      Fantastic comment, @Steveo Kahn.

  • @johnmurray7557
    @johnmurray7557 2 роки тому +1

    Great questions to a very good panel Pea!!

  • @BlockchainCircles
    @BlockchainCircles 2 роки тому +3

    Pea, you ask great questions! 3 lovely ladies. I didn't think you were you going to ask... but you did... about having kids or not. Steffi was the only one that answered, but said it wasn't a deal breaker. I think Candace kinda nodded it would be ok! I wonder though, if they meet someone, and the guy doesn't want kids and they say thats ok.... then as time goes by, they really start to pine for having kids. It could have an impact on the relationship too. For sure, its something that needs to be discussed very early on. You never know, she may have a plan... and tell you some day she's pregnant. Personally, I don't want kids, never did. I want a nice house and have a couple of dogs and cats. Maybe a pet pig! No lechon allowed in the house for obvious reasons! Thats my only rule. PS: Steffi has such a cute voice!!!

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  2 роки тому +1

      A pet pig! I used to have one of those - until it came to dinner one night, and never left 🥺

  • @JvariW
    @JvariW 2 роки тому +1

    OKAY!!! This was your BEST outro byyyyyy far lol

  • @PRIMAL_HUNTER1988
    @PRIMAL_HUNTER1988 2 роки тому +3

    MGTOW is freedom

  • @VanaConn
    @VanaConn Рік тому

    Well done interview and the Star Trek spoof was awesome. I want to hangout with Pea and friends

  • @knarlisrocks
    @knarlisrocks 2 роки тому +3

    Pea, in a round about way I think you may have discovered part of the reason why there are so many single mothers in your country. All of the young ladies talked about being faithful to their husband's and giving all of themselves to him. But none of them said that they expected the same from the man. Too many men just play the field until the girl gets pregnant and then they are on to the next one and she is left with the child. Your thoughts?

  • @mariomejia1701
    @mariomejia1701 2 роки тому

    Amazing video pea.. I love the honest answers … Candace is so pretty 🤩

  • @DougyFreshGames
    @DougyFreshGames 2 роки тому +2

    Lovely and respectful ladies Pea. I love it when they say "family" in their accent lol, its cute.

  • @godfreyvonnordeck265
    @godfreyvonnordeck265 2 роки тому +1

    How do you find so many beautiful young ladies to interview? And it’s very good that you found these 3 beauties as they all have great potential for their lives after college. All of them seem very articulate and enthusiastic about life. In other words they aren’t looking for an easy way out just a fair chance to live their lives well. Also I always love your little comedy skits at the end of all of your videos

  • @bouchecaldwell1360
    @bouchecaldwell1360 2 роки тому

    That was informative... Thanks Pea. 😊

  • @soundwave8781
    @soundwave8781 Рік тому

    All of these women seem so wholesome and pure. Candice is so regal.

  • @PhoneNHe
    @PhoneNHe 2 роки тому

    "What do you bring to the table?" stellar interview, Pea. I appreciate your high quality questions.

  • @orvillelb
    @orvillelb 2 роки тому

    Very interesting Pea. Enjoyed!

  • @TheWaterman2011
    @TheWaterman2011 2 роки тому +1

    Interestingly positioned questions. provincial, educated ladies are a powerful group for the Philippines.

  • @Phoenix_A.W.810
    @Phoenix_A.W.810 2 роки тому +2

    These ladies are ABSOLUTELY PRECIOUS!!! They would be a beautiful perfect catch for the right men.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  2 роки тому +2

      I have no doubt they will all make quality partners someday 👍😊

  • @gregb.1985
    @gregb.1985 2 роки тому +1

    Yeheey 2nd video! Been looking forward to it! I really love the honesty and informative part of the video with some great humor sprankled within :-) And yes Candace is really awesome

  • @donquixote1502
    @donquixote1502 2 роки тому +1

    Excellent interviews Pea. You are the #1 infotainer on YT. You four girls are absolutely stunning. Your three guests look very different but are equally attractive. I think they are very smart and they should have fantastic lives. Thanks for sharing.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  2 роки тому +2

      Thanks Mr Q, and just wait till next week, when I have a 5 new faces and opinions for you 👍😊

  • @carlredmond3642
    @carlredmond3642 2 роки тому +1

    A great video as usual Pea. The three girls are absolutely fabulous both in looks and personality. I really wish them the best in life. They deserve nothing less.

  • @Regular_Guyph
    @Regular_Guyph 2 роки тому

    Great questions

  • @mv6046
    @mv6046 2 роки тому

    Wonderful interview.