I Didn't Cheat, I Was Assaulted | The Steve Wilkos Show
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- One night when Aquila was out with friends, she alleges another partygoer raped her.
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Honey, your boyfriend betrayed you when you needed him the most. He isn’t a man. He's a child. Run far far away from him. I'm so sorry you were assaulted.
Your totally right that he's a child! He's all about himself! Honestly, Steve should've kicked him off his stage and make the girlfriend "pick-a-door".
I agree
Agreed
I left everyone!
@@AquilaMuzill-xh1eb Hey! I am so sorry you went through that! I am also a victim of SA’s! 💔💔💔💔💔🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
He doesn’t deserve her.. she deserves so much better than him. I hope she realizes that sooner than later.
He's one of the biggest narcissistic hypocrites to ever appear on the SW show. His girlfriend went through one of the most heinous, nightmarish events you could ever think of and he was supposed to be there for her, protect her, and support her, but instead, he does the exact opposite and puts her through hell, and even cheats on her himself. Honestly, Steve should've kicked him off his stage and made the girlfriend "pick a door".
Another awful guest would be Heather from 2020. She is considered a hypocrite too, and is concerned about her image being ruined.
Steve should have kicked her out of the stage too.
He deserves much better!!
@@anonymous-ix6sc "He" deserves better?!?!? Did you not watch the video?
@jonathansmith8672 absolutely and? He had doubts about that being rape? What's wrong with that? Women do make false accusations alot. So it's not out of the question for him to have doubts he's a fucking human being we all make mistakes hold ur judgement when u aint innocent either
her fiancé is a disgusting person, he should be embarrassed and ashamed of himself
I hope he has guilt, because if he is concerned about his image or reputation, then he is selfish.
Don’t marry him . He’s a child , and doesn’t think of anyone’s needs but his own .
I agree, and the way he said it he was planning to cheat! I don't understand fake ppl who tell u 1 thing then do the complete opposite. Oh I love you i wanna marry you [leaves in time of need to be with another person they've clearly been talking to for a min about more then just hanging out] she deserves better!
Looks like one too. He used her trauma as an excuse to cheat.
Hes gay too
Agree
That's what I was wondering, he went to see another woman???@@Dmmmm1545fg
He's gay let him go baby
💯
LOL, the green hair helped to give him away!
Nonsense comment
Super GAY!
I Say the Sad Thing YES
Who gonna tell her he's closeted?
🎯🎯🎯clocked that real quick
Came here just for this comment!
Yes he is Gizzzay
Man!! I said the same thing in my comment😊
Baby on God
As a survivor of an attempted rape when I was 16, I can say that NO ONE has ANY idea how they will react during the situation. I pray she gets counseling AND gets the hell away from that selfish punk that wasn't there for her during the most traumatic experience of her life! She DESERVES so much better.
I also pray life is kinder on you now beautiful stranger ❤ very much agree. The police failed her horribly too. This is why people don’t come forward 🥺
Same and I agree. I'm so sorry that happened to you.
He is not selfish; he is correct to have doubts and questions. He now knows the truth and can give her the comfort she needs.
@@ashotofwhiskey219weirdo. Only men feel this way. Who hears their girlfriend got raped and leaves her to have sex with someone else. Only one gender is genuinely that terrible
@ashotofwhiskey219 DO you understand that the second this "Guy" offered her the weed, he was setting her up? Men will get women drunk, stoned, and literally drug them; just to assault them. With her having smoked with him before, how would she know his intentions were different THIS TIME? You sound like every other victim blamed out there! The second she said she was uncomfortable, the guy should have STOPPED! As a survivor of assault, I'm here to tell you, you DON'T know how you will react in the moment. I'm a fighter 99.9% of the time. But when it happened to me, I FROZE! So, until you've lived through it, you AREN'T entitled to judge! And I say this as woman who FIRMLY believes women who FALSELY accuse men deserve to do the equal amount of time the men "would have" done, had they actually committed the crime.
He’s zesty asf. Run sis!
😂😂😂
Zesty pls😭😭😭😭😭
Chile - that man needs a lie detector test to determine if he’s been sleeping with MEN…because…🥴 IJS - am I trippin orrrr?!
Nope u right
I just commented that.
U not tripping!!! i JUST SAID THAT😂😂 gotta damn nerve
I thought I was the only one!!!!
Literally said the same thing. He definitely look like he like men
"I feel like you didnt do everything you could" what does he mean?!? How is she going to fight off a grown ass man?!! I hope when he's older he regrets how he treats this woman. If a woman tells you she was raped then you need to believe her...protect her...love her and support HER!!
And she was intoxicated like whattt no one was there to help her😢
agreed to a certain extent. believe it or not i’ve meet girls that said they were raped and i know they weren’t. i really don’t know why some people lie about stuff like that. and i’m not tryna come off rude like if you were raped that’s sad and whoever did it deserves punishment for it. that’s serious as hell and i don’t condone that shit. ain’t no bryce walker shit happening around me
Ummm here is something.... DON'T GO TO RANDOM DUDES HOUSE AND SMOKE ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU'RE IN A FUCKING RELATIONSHIP!
@@KingNez89none of that matters, that doesn’t justify her being raped.
Investigate you damn right dont out and out call them a liar but definitely look into it because that's the new way of getting back at men these days
no girl you need to run as far away from this man as possible not only did he not beleive you but he still went & cheated on you who does that
We watching now 😊
Get ya broken hearted ass outta here he passed his test and ain’t doing nothing behind her back! Don’t get mad cause men keep doing you dirty foh
The boyfriend deserves to be taught a lesson.
I would not have hugged him and that would’ve been the last he’d see of me.
That’s not a man. That’s straight up selfishness and psychopath level of uncaring. He had plans to cheat, saw her destroyed, and went out to cheat and accused her of lying. Mind blowing
She needs to heal. Not get married. Work on herself. And face her fears. I’m order to move on. And never take him back. Ever. He’s a little boy and not a man.
He’s so conceited. Just the way he moves, talks and acts. She needs to dump him. He was planning on cheating on her prior to her r*pe is bulls*it!! I’ve been in her shoes and it’s honestly horrible. I’ll never be the same again. I don’t think anyone will. I honestly hope they lock her attacker up for good, but that’s never the case. My attacker only got 2 years and I’ll never forget it. It’s just horrible. I hope she can get help to deal with this. Obviously she has no support from her fiancé. Sad!
Totally a bully. Bully = coward
LEAVE HIS ASS RIGHT THERE!!!
thanks for coming to my TedTalk👍
When people are proven wrong, we need to give them a choice:
Either owe up, say sorry, and set things right or face disgrace by being selfish.
There are no alternative options.
As a fellow woman who was taken advantage of and wasn’t believed her strength and will to be a survivor was extraordinary to watch. If you have been thru that and aren’t believed, just know there’s a whole lot of us out here that know how much strength it takes and never give up!
Damn I’m sorry to hear that Ma..❤
Keep going ❤ you matter more
He is too young, she actually needs time for herself.
He seems very immature she needs to heal and leave him
His age is no excuse of his behavior towards her and his disbelief in what happened to her. These types of men are dangerous and should be avoided at all costs. There is no reason she should be in a relationship with this man.
@@kameralkutie5594 I agree with you,I'm saying she needs to love herself first specifically after her horrific thing that happened. In my opinion he is going to just bring her down.
He'll be the same 20 years from now, I don't think his age has anything to do with it.
anybody talking about SA like this needs to be put under the jail
Too everyone readimg this hope you have an amazing day ❤
Thank you!! To you as well ❤
Thanks for your comment! I hope u have a wonderful day❤
You too boo❤
Thank you! You as well! ❤️
Thank you ❤blessings
Anyone that continuously says “I can honestly say”, isn’t being very honest!!!!
He don’t care about her. I think he care about MEN he a lil 💅🏾😂
For real
I’m SO sorry that happened to you!
Girl get you a G43 & make that your new best friend. WE as women need an equalizer 🙏🙏🙏
Yes and reducing the risk of being a victim by not engaging in certain situations. Because 9/10 timrs drugs and alcohol are a huge factor in r*pe cases and the victim usually was doing drugs and alcohol with the perp before they got r*ped. People can get mad about this all you want but this is a fact, better safe than sorry.
@@Naturefan354 Couldn’t agree more!
🙏💖🙏💖🙏💖
HE SHOULD BE OUT THE DOOR AINT NO DAM WAY!!!
Honestly, anybody who doesn't believe that their spouse was being raped should NOT be in a relationship at all. Because when you don't listen to your spouse, loved one, or whoever is closest to you, then you're just being selfish, plain and simple! The boyfriend was supposed to be there for his girl (After she went through one of the most heinous, nightmarish events you could ever think of), but instead, he's thinking about himself and he betrays her by not believing her, accusing her of infidelity, and even cheating on her himself AFTER what she went through. He is sick AF! Tbh, Steve should've kicked him off his stage and make the girlfriend "pick-a-door". That poor woman really deserves better than that scumbag! 😣😞😓🙏🙏💓💓💓
Sucks that she got betrayed but at the same time she was dumb for going to smoke with a man she didn't know in private that much is her fault because she even admitted on the tape that she felt weird ok that's a sign of uncomfortable why didn't you get up leave before anything could happen it sucks she got raped but she actually could have prevented it from happening had she just left the party and not went to smoke with that man women should know never go be alone with a man you dont know at a party
@@lightning13clair29finally someone who’s thinking straight, these comments are so ignorant. If you’re in a relationship why in the world would you get impaired with someone of the opposite sex alone
@@Josh_reilly right exactly she should have told the man no and just left
@@Josh_reillyregardless who thinks “ima get rape” be foreal with yourself and not everybody relationships are the same some people are okay with having friends of the opposite sex
@@missantonia14goldsbyyou sound like you're for the streets. No girl of mine would be smoking with another dude nor would she want to. I love how all the women in the comments act like all women are honest and could never lie. Like we've never seen girls on this show lying about being graped before. Yall dumb and delusional.
The way I just opened the channel up to check for a new episode lmao
what do you mean confused?? the guy clearly was able to overpower her and do that horrible thing to her. she was in shock and it was a horrifying experiance she was unable to escape from and you cheated on her after her too after that. the audacity of this man. don't marry him. you deserve way better
He now views her as damaged goods and in order for him to cope he was to find ways to lowkey victim blame her
He sassy
It is important for both parties to prioritize communication and trust in any relationship. When both individuals are honest and open with each other, it creates a strong foundation for a lasting connection. Trust truly does go a long way in fostering a happy and healthy partnership.
Both does not apply here. She was talking to him he ignored her.
I agree!
Don’t marry that guy he will cheat again
LEAVE HIS BEHIND! That is no man but a grown man child. I'm so sorry you went through this and you deserve so much better. You are a survivor and warrior for pushing through this.
No disrespect but....🤔He seems abit fruity to me for some reason
The dangling earrings and baby poop green hair kind of gave it away for me 😂
I was looking for this comment😂
Hes super feminine. I could tell he was gay just walking out on stage! Lmfao they should have asked him if he slept with men while he cheated. 😂
@@ChannelSettings4not poop green 😂😂😂😂
the audacity that the detective had, asking her “what were you wearing” that doesn’t matter , the only thing that matters is that she said no, and the guy still forced himself onto her
No it matters from a factual level. Asking what she was wearing isnt an Implication that she's to blame, that's a feminist trope. It matters because of evidence, it matters because of technical details that establish the consistency of a story. There has to be probable cause to investigate someone, just saying this happened isn't enough. Likely the reason that the police haven't charged him is because she refused to cooperate during questioning. That combined with the fact that she was on the phone and didn't say a word while this guy was rubbing on her, touching her, and then grabbing her phone to mute it is a very unlikely occurrence. There is frankly not enough evidence due to her own actions. That doesn't mean it was her fault, or that she deserved it, or whatever emotionalized response that might illicit. But the fact is that this would be an INCREDIBLY difficult case to pursue because the choices she made in the situation and while talking to the detective casts reasonable doubt everywhere, and a lie detector test isn't admissible in court due to only having a 70% accuracy
5:28 They ask you that just so that they have all details. They should ask you what he was wearing, too
Did he really go cheat with a woman is the question
Can't believe he cheated on her while she was suffering alone, that's not a man right there
Selfish using that as an excuse…. 😢😢😢
This youth is not mature,he's not ready for marrying
Neither is she.
@@ashotofwhiskey219🤔she needs to heal, but she’s not immature like he is.
@@333ericathat person has been all in the comments talking down on her & all women... they’re clueless.
@@333erica "Like..." Perhaps, but she is still immature in her own right. Hopefully, as she heals from this, she will also grow up some.
@@ashotofwhiskey219 nah I should’ve used a different word instead of “like”. She’s not immature at all judging from this video. But okay.
My favorite quote is... "What you allow will continue"!
If a man ever tells me he doesn't believe me after I've been assaulted, he won't be my man any longer!
That boy sweet as tea
He’s giving DL vibes.
Girl you need to run !!!!
How can you be with someone who doesn’t even believe you were raped nah she needs to drop him
Police don't ever take black women seriously...
Sadly that’s true
That’s why it was important for that black man to step up and protect her. He should have pushed for her voice to be heard. He dropped the ball twice Smfh
Find a better generalization.
@@MajorJim69 Is not a generalisation, read a book on intersectionality
@@ninaowusu8157very true
can’t even come to the comments for the answers im to early
Damn, I feel sorry that she had to go through that . Always believe your spouse when they say that they were raped by a predator , or someone that they knew . I know that I would definitely believe my spouse if she ever told me that she was raped . But the simple fact that he cheated sometime after she was raped ? Oh hell naw .
💯% 👍👍👍!!!! Anybody who doesn't believe that their spouse or loved one was raped or assaulted is just being selfish and narcissistic AF! They shouldn't be in a relationship if they're all about themselves.
"Spouse"?? They aren't married tho. You mean loved ones?
@@Naturefan354 I think he means family members and friends when he said loved ones .
I think he like man too , she need to leave him
He is on the DL
Confused
This is so tragic. She’s such a kind soul and nobody deserves this! You are a survivor!
You shouldn't ever put yourself in the position when you're in a serious relationship.
There is another story here that many are overlooking: substance abuse is no laughing matter, because it can lead to rape and other crimes that can destroy's one's life. Little good can result when one is getting drunk AND high. Plus there are other unanswered questions. And why isn't the perpetrator on the show? Why hasn't the rapist been arrested already?
It’s her sisters boyfriend and there wasn’t enough evidence for him to be arrested
He wanna know the mystery..when it’s looking like he the one with something to hide 👀❤️
The gay man he sleeping with hmm😒😒😒
He should been calling the police for her and came to her aid. So sad😮
baby, i’m gonna hold your hand when I say this…
I just want to let this Aquila know how brave I think she is. She is smart and followed all the right steps. I believe her with every ounce of my being, and anyone who doesn’t is a FOOL. You just don’t know unless you’ve been there. She is a hero.
Thank you love🥺🫶🏾this means so muchhh!! Im standing up for everyone who has been through this!
@@AquilaMuzill-xh1ebyou are a very strong beautiful woman!!! You deserve everything awesome in life. Keep fighting love!!!
Im so proud of you ♡@@AquilaMuzill-xh1eb
@@AquilaMuzill-xh1ebwe love you and we believe you! I hope god bless you with the upmost healing. Stay strong babes! ❤
I hope she gets the help she needs i prayer that justice served 🙏
That’s sad af, I hope she leaves him. He doesn’t seem sorry at all.
And as a survivor also, it’s true that you won’t ever know how you’d react till it happens to you. For years I blamed myself for what happened to me at 16 because I froze up and didn’t scream or fight back. I was having a bad anxiety attack and didn’t know what to do. That’s a scary thing to have happen to you and you really don’t know how to deal with a situation like that till it happens to you.
Hey Tatiana, I'm also a survivor & was only 14 the 1st time, then gang raped at 16. The 1st time, like you froze up & didn't scream or fight back. Then the 2nd time was only my 2nd time drinking & I could no longer walk. My boyfriend left me with the 4 guys. One minute I was there in a lounge with my bf & heaps of people, then I blacked out & woke up on a bed with my pants around my ankles with the last on me finishing his turn. They were all laughing at me for being easy & calling me a whore etc. As if that wasn't bad enough, the next day I found out my so called boyfriend had left with another girl & fucked her. Nobody knows how they will react & every situation is different. There is no text book for rape... it happens & too many people get away with it. Anyway hope your doing algud now hun xxx
Im a survivor . Yes she could have reached the phone or something but one thing people dont get is during this experience you can literally be parylized with fear . Legit PARYLIZED and that critical thinking goes out the window. In fact you completly detach yourself from you own body in this moment as a truama response . After the SA is over then comes that critical thinking " i should jave done this i should have fought back fought harder " but unless you are in that exact situation you truly dont know what its like to feel so completly helpless and parylized with fear. I was the girl who said that wouldnt happen i will break his D but when it happened i literally with so paralyzed with fear that i was no longer even present in that moment i dont know how to explain it but i know other survivors know EXACTLY what i mean
When she needed him most he rubbed Salt in her cuts. Leave.
I’m so sorry you went through that love…….. get away from this man, heal, and you will get the 💗 you deserve elsewhere 😊
Leave him!! He doesn't deserve her. This man didn't believe her, cheated on her, & wants to ask her why she didn't do everything she could. You never know how you're going to react unless you're in that situation. Who knows what her attacker was capable of! She was drunk, she was in shock. The fact that he didn't believe her but wants to get married to her, shows he doesn't trust her. I feel terrible for this lady! I hope she gets the justice she deserves & the support!
My house was broken into when my husband was away for work, my laws house was only opposite so I’d be going back & forth with our little children. Sometimes they have sleepovers with their grandparents after I put them to sleep myself. It was windy that night & at 2am I said to myself “Ffs it’s just wind make the most of getting sleep it’s not often I’m alone” Then I heard sounds like flicking a wine glass very faint. So I put my thick gown on & thought just go look downstairs there’s nothing & then go to sleep. I had my phone in one hand too. I looked at my kitchen from living room (lamp was on) the garden light wasn’t on otherwise it would’ve reflected through the blinds (the basic slat ones) & it looked the same. I said out loud as I turned around to walk back up “And I’m supposed to be a grown as woman but, scared of the wind” you know sometimes you can tell when someone is looking/staring at you? I had that seconds later & I turned around & there was a monster wearing black head to toe & I froze, second later another figure steps out from behind & I dropped my phone, I couldn’t even step, try so hard to scream but mouth don’t even move let alone sound come out. Next thing I got pushed & i fell like a plank backwards ZERO reflex ability, when I hit the floor my rib popped out & at same time I heard a zip & my pj bottoms tear. For once in my life I was thankful to have epilepsy because I can’t remember anything else as I went into seizure. When I came around the entire patio window was removed & placed on the grass. Feds came & I can’t lie so I could only say the above but, I knew when armed police, dogs etc turned up there’s something I don’t know. After they took me hosp to be checked, stitched etc & R hosp for forensics. The Govs came to me with envelope & said Sorry your Q’s weren’t answered yest, you are right there’s a reason why so many departments are involved, that’s because your profile meets another lady, whom we believe was a victim at the hands of your abusers. However she was R & M but, they left you & it’s odd, why? We will find out but we do need your help to not only get you justice but the lady whom is no longer with us & so we can release her B so family can lay her to rest. We can’t rule your husband out & it’s very important this stay confidential for now, we’ve told him there was a attempted robbery hence the tents, tape & officer’s guarding your home as it’s a crime scene & you’ll should have your phone back tomo & be back with your fam soon. We’re also installing our surveillance inside, outside there’s no blind spot, put a tracker on you, fam cars, kids & work, schools are already aware & have red markers to ensure your families safety. When we catch them we’ll help tell the full truth to him & you’ll have officers with direct view of your home 24/7 after sentence we don’t abruptly take all surveillance away we do it at your pace. Forensics are back & we’re sorry to have to tell you they are known to us, they’re the same men we thought & even though you stated you saw 2 forensics tell us 14 men were in your home & you was gang R by 12. (It felt so fake the entire thing like a horror movie go sinisterly wrong). I was a mess, they checked my best friend as his house security is top stuff & he already signed to keep all confidential ufn. At least I could have that support to remind me i can & will & can tell husband soon. He thought well won’t moan re security it’s impressive stuff. Feds made all arrests over 3 months on our prop those fed dogs don’t mess. When we told & showed my husband he was shocked of course I felt instant relief & hugged him but he said - So you kept a secret basically lied. Feds: No - She helped solve high profile cases & now a fam can mourn & you can live in peace. We will offer support to you also etc. husband - she still chatted 💩 Gov: Your wife cried & begged us daily to hurry up because understandably she needs, wants you. She’s sung your praises & today your before us & it’s hard to grasp your nothing like what she’s said etc. I started yakking in shock & it felt worse! (Married 10yrs) he actually left me with a tod & our baby for a yr. after we got counselling & it helped him grow up. We 🙏got back together & our family is how it should be it’s been 4yrs. It’s real hard I’ll never be able to describe it, this sis was alert start to finish 😢💔I know it’s a big ask but please be mindful not everyone cheats/lies etc It can push ppl off the edge🙏
I read all of this. Not saying this is a story but you’d write a good book and this is coming from a person who dislikes reading. I’m sorry this happened to you and I pray you heal and are free one day❤❤
From exactly how she described the experience I knew she was telling the truth
On top of it all... he looks a LOT SUS... 😂😂 GOT SOME NERVE TO ACCUSE HER OF LYING ABOUT RAPE...N QUESTIONING HIS OWN SEXUALITY APPARENTLY😔🧐
When the worst thing possible happens to you and your partner is not there for you......RUN !!!!
It breaks my heart when survivors feel its their fault for drinking. You have every right in the world to drink/ have a good time just like anyone else around people you trusted. Its not your fault monsters take advantage of ppl.
And ask me again why women don’t come forward about it? They absolutely failed her. I had a full first and last too. Absolutely nothing unless there’s a dead body. Though I carry my dead soul now.
I would have had doubts too. First off, what is she doing at a party smoking with another dude? I wouldn't care if they smoked out before. She already said that she told her boyfriend that she's turning the phone off because she was intoxicated...and with no official police report validated, especially when she knew the guy. This man is only human.
Thank you know one is speaking on her smoking with another man.
It does not matter if they are smoking. That has nothing to do with it.
Girl, break up with him. You can't count on him being the boyfriend/fiance. Why would he make a good husband??
She stayed with him?!?! SMH.....
I haven't even gotten to the end and I'm so angry with him I could scream!
I'm a survivor of rape and I couldn't imagine continuing on in a relationship where they doubt and question me about the scariest moment in my life! He's should be so ashamed of himself! She deserves so so much better from a partner and needs to kick this clown to the curb!
I hope and pray that she gets justice and the scumbag who raped her becomes someone's bitch in prison!
I never got justice and my rapist still tries to communicate with me to this day almost 18 years later and police don't care! So I know how she feels but hopefully appearing on Steve's show can help her somehow with an investigation.
But Aquila, I'm so sorry you had to go through what you did, you're strong and you will get through the darkness it has brought, but please leave this fool, you're worth a million times more and he doesn't deserve you! ❤
I had a boyfriend ex who used to stalk and assault me for many years. He would go to jail he would get bailed out and come after me again. I had restraining orders against him and I kept locking him up and nothing worked. At the time I didn’t have a boyfriend because he wouldn’t allow me to have one luckily he’s in prison now so I never have to worry about him again. It took years for me to get over it and start to value myself again as a woman. It’s something you truly never really get over.
12:57 Lie detector test results begin.
I went to Thornridge high school with his a$$ lmaoooooo hell nahhh
A lot Of Guys From TWHS TTHS & The Ridge Were DL 😂😂🤧
He’s definitely 🌈
YUP
Yess
Her boyfriend is awful, to assume she cheated after being raped and knowing that information is sick. This is why it’s so hard to come forward about it.
I think that because she was raped, he now views her as tainted. Now I can't say this is all men but some men can't handle knowing another man got to what is "his", which is probably why he reacted the way he did and it's honestly sick
So he used that against her so he could cheat what a coward 😮
Who’s gone tell her ??? He’s a little Spicy 😮
I was drugged and saw my mom being raped. For 5 years me and my mom didn’t tell anyone. 2 years ago I finally opened up and told my dad about it and for the longest he didn’t believe my mom and that hurt so much..
I would’ve left him the moment my results showed him that i wasn’t lying because he’s supposed to be there for her especially when she needed him the most.
Girl, leave him
Crazy this same exact thing happened to me. Only difference is I left my boyfriend at the time who blamed it all on me .
I’m sorry that this happened to you bruh I hope you get justice
How do you come back from this? I don’t see how she could possibly ever want to be with him after this.
Out here putting yourself in stupid situations.
That part!
This is why we as women should never drink to the point you're intoxicated and stop being so desperate to get high that u share drugs with anybody, because in the guys mind that did this to her since she didn't really fight , yell or scream he probably just thought she was high playing hard to get when really she was just to far gone to really fight for herself, bottom line she didn't deserve that and I hope she gets the justice she deserves
hopefully she leave him. horrible person.
She better not marry that man !!!!
Girl he mad because it wasn’t him 😂😂 j/k .. he wants a man anyways though 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
She needs to RUN from him! 😮
I really hope you can get away from this man who cares nothing for your feelings. He seems like a narcissist. Most people freeze when they are being assaulted. I totally get it and I hope you find someone who can stand by you
She deserves a man, not a little boy a man would want to protect her and support her and not betray them like he did. She’s a very strong woman who's been through the worst thing imaginable, but she’s there and she’s telling her story.
I get a vibe he like more than just women that's why he ain't probably care like that or even care to understand.... that was his reason to step out
He’s so immature. He doesn’t even seem like he genuinely cares about her
He looks like he still did not give a fuck honestly
He’s sassy who or what did you sleep with 😅
Can we make better decisions to prevent bad things from happening?
Aquila, go on about your business, and leave this little clown alone. Forgive him in your heart, so that when a real man finds you, he'll be able to handle your heart in a gentle and trustworthy manner. The one you have now has proved that when times get hard, and life's unfortunate traumas happen, he runs to the arms of another female, pretending he never knew you. Knowing that he was planning to cheat on you prior to your unfortunate rape, proves his lack of integrity and character. He's not going to change anytime soon. You'll continue to be miserable if you stay in that dysfunctional relationship. I'm so sorry you were traumatized by your rapist, then further traumatized by the one who claims to love you. I pray you be healed in the depths of your soul, and that you find strength and peace within. God bless you.
She doesn't need to marry him. He has already proven he won't be there during times of difficulties.
He is zesty with a capital Z.