There's no single individual that can fill a sigma with righteous anger than a narcissist. The best way is to walk away without a word. Stay out of that sphere of failure.
I am a female sigma empath. I have confounded my narcissistic, abusive brothers our entire lives. Sigma empathy are not exclusively male. I am thankful for the gifts of the sigma empath otherwise I may not have survived the sexual, emotional and physical abuse by the men in my family.
I'm a sigma empath female as well and so relate to this. Before finding this term I'd always say I'm a chameleon and very in tuned to people's behaviors to the point of questioning if I may have some psychic ability and/or 6th sense. Narcissists don't phase me and I'd wonder if I had an inner hereditary trait of a sociopath because I know how to disconnect from people emotionally when they trying me and block it out like I don't care or not react. Glad I was able to find a term now and I loveeeeeee my freedom. I also feel like I draw narcissistic men and they snap on me when they can't control me and I easily walk away from people that I know aren't doing right by me after I see enough evidence of them not being in my corner and trying to harm me instead but covering with looking like they actually care, I see right through it. I also keep ending up in education and behavioral health/special education jobs and can easily get along with people in any environment which made me deem the term chameleon on myself cause I can read the room.
I too, am a female Sigma. I could never understand how I could read people and tell when people are lying or giving me false compliments. I thought something was wrong with me because I could just turn off my empathy & walk away from toxic people. This explains so much.
The only people who truly HATE me are narcissists. I had one male narcissist that set out to destroy me because I could see right through him and his motivations, and that absolutely enraged him. He truly hated me for no other reason. I even donated money to his family when his wife was in the hospital. I think that made him hate me all the more, frankly. He could NOT understand me, and that drove him crazy. I just stood my ground though.
I love this! These points are so true, and I just recently went through a situation with a narcissistic roommate, and they noticed I couldn't be controlled and got really hostile because of it.
Same. I had an inkling about my ex roommate prior to sharing a flat with her. I should have listened to my gut instinct. Thought she was user friendly and controlling and saw right through her acting cutesy as being manipulative.
My sister! Keep on keeping on! ☯ PS- As I began watching I was wondering about the feminine exemplar and here you are as the first comment I see. I feel very happy.🥳
I found that when I called out a narcissist whom I was helping out of a tough life-situation, she doubled down. I called her out on that too. I was calm and she lost it. Needless to say, I ended up stopping all of my help to her.
Wow….. you literally just described my Narc ex…. She mentioned many times talking to a guy named Brad, who was going through an awful divorce. He is weak and broken and she is going to take him and make him her lapdog, to every command. Narcs are wildly evil however…. There is one and only one personality type that can break them down to nothing ….. The Dark Empath.
As a sigma, I can confirm we are a narcs worst nightmare. My narc couldn’t pull shit with me. I read her like a book. Called her out on her bullshit and deception. And literally countered every stage of Narcissistic behavior. And she couldn’t stand it. She knew I saw through her and tried everything in her power gaslight me into believing her bullshit like her dumbass relatives. When she found another supply, and others to leech off of she finally left and stayed away.
@@whispersofveracity63 Normally I would agree with that. Until I realized people say they don’t admit to being sigmas to prove to themselves that they’re a sigma. So go fuck off.
I thought I was a beta until I had an intense, years-long death-match run-in with a psychopathic narcissist. Ultimately, I feel gratitude for the part he took in my life, because, up till then, I had been extraordinarily lucky with friendships and relationships, and it wasn't until, through him, I experienced first-hand the kind of inhuman cruelty and deceptive tactics some people use to connect with the world that I began, out of necessity, finally to gain control of my empathy and also to begin a process of personal individuation. It has been a very painful ordeal, and after seven years I'm finally starting to see that it has paid off. Now, I believe, I'm much better equipped to deal with those who gain unjust advantage by victimizing others.
You got me. Very intuitive, need plenty of time to look and consider the issues that I may or may not be concerned with. I have the misfortune to have one of the most irritating people being my younger brother and finally I’m also psychic. I also feel other people’s emotions and sometimes get flashes of something associated with a person days before I see them and sometimes are not aware that I’ll see these people until 24 hours before. I stand guilty as charged.
As most of us know the narcissist we're dealing with we know their personal story and all their weaknesses. Being an empathic sygma the narcissist will tell you all their secrets, thus we have all the ammunition we need to destroy them with a few well chosen words.
But...as an "empath", do you really want to "destroy" someone? For me, I was told the traumas, the background, therefore I felt sympathy and gave allowance to the person to act out as they did. But, at a point...I just said...NO. ...Goodbye. We don't align in how we think. I became indifferent. I never tried to destroy the person or cause further stress and pain...just....go away. If you try and "destroy" someone that energy is put onto yourself, which is uncomfortable. But...by simply walking away without harsh words(which the narcissist doesn't care about), the person becomes even more confused and fragile. They're used to mayhem and chaos with people. You may not be the empath you believe you are.
Bro, your channel rocks 👊🏻 along with Wise Thinker. You both fulfilling a subject with individually unique approach. All Gang Is Here? 🤣 someone said in comments “sigma gang”. I love it 🤣👊🏻
Absolutely on 👉💥👈 point! My ex was a convert narcissist psychopath. She just could never derail me, shake my self worth, gaslight me. Called her out on all her red flags, unacceptable disrespectful repeated behaviour, the lies, the ghosting. She made mention it's like she's losing her mind af walking on egg shells. I was like 🥱 da faq? Narcissists and psychopaths, your karma will get you when you encounter a sigma / heyoka / infj. Karmas a bitch huh?p
Exactly, this shit coming to trust persons or good characters. Have same problem, when i feel good she feel bad, she want me feel worse to help me. But alltime sge want be at podium, never want be part of my friends becuase she cant be queen there. Weird but i cut it after 4 years of strugle.
Lol. Sounds EXACTLY like my ex fiance. She put me through hell, but she got totally slayed in the end with a HUGELY satisfying victory that she will NEVER forget. And even better, her whole family (that were likely forced to attend the situation as a means of establishing a form of emotional leverage over me) became audience to her ULTIMATE humiliation in that moment, when I simply rejected her presence, and by extension her existence, as though it were an afterthought. The thing that made it even more satisfying, is knowing that she thought she was walking into a slam dunk win scenario. Next minute...😂😂😂
My best friend was a total narcissist. It’s crazy how when confronted they loose there shit . And the only thing they can’t control is someone who doesn’t back down to there exploding behavior. But the second you do they increase there dominating attitude to keep you in the place below them. Nope stand and fight lol
Yep. I told my ex friend " you need help dude. " he snapped and made it seem like i needed help and i got it aaall wrong 🥴 yeah no. He s out of my life now like he never existed, and it feels so good
They hate being in our presence because we are a mirror to how fake they truly are and we are real causing them jealousy and envy. Most of the time im quiet around these demons but it can be very fun embarassing them from time to time.
Sooo it sounds very nice in the video but i wanna give some insight into reality here as this video might give some people a false sense of hope for redemption. I just recently learned of the term „sigma empath“ and while i don’t usually adhere to these kinds of generalizations i gotta admit that the defining qualities, for the most part, resonated deeply with me. That’s why i was confused about the described reaction of narcissistis when confronted or called out. Sadly they won’t spiral out of control or do anything that would feel redeeming. Most of the time they will paddle back, redefine what they meant when their lies are called out, tell another lie that is impossible to callout (either cause it’s not technically a lie just a misleading implication or not yet a lie as in false promises, etc.) or simply disengage. Disengaging is a normal tactic of narcissistis which usually manipulates others into thinking they overstepped, hurt the narcissist, need to apologize, give time for a feeling of need for the narcissist to develope or wait until memories of the last interaction are muddy and „gas-lightable“. So no, when a narcissist disengages it doesn’t mean you‘ve „won“. As it is in the nature of a sigma empath to self-reflect, a narcissist is incapable of doing so. This is deeply frustrating for me and I quickly learned that it is not worth my energy to keep on pressuring as they will just keep going with their usualy tactics and I will drain my energy whilst accomplishing nothing. So with narcissists and also more generally people who lie I learned to just keep my laid back composure, maybe call out one of their lies to see how they react and give them the chance to change my perception of them. That hasn’t happened yet so when they inevitably dig an even deeper hole for themselves with more lies, I just keep future contact with them at the lowest possible amount and warn the people close to me about them. Younger me used to feel alot of anger when dealing with a narcissist but nowadays I just feel bad for them as they don’t know how to change or rather don’t even think they would need to change even though there was obviously alot of pain and suffering in their upbringing that could normally be worked through.
OMG... I've come here from the "14 weird things Sigma Males do" video having realised that it's describing ADHD and ASD symptoms with almost clinical accuracy, without actually being a clinical diagnosis. Started to watch this (only halfway) as I was armchair diagnosed as a narcissist by an ex (which caused a lot of mental damage) until later being diagnosed with ADHD which shares a LOT of external symptoms with the main difference being the motivation for the behaviours. Got this far and yet again what you're describing as a "Sigma Empath" is literally ADHD with high comorbid ASD pattern recognition. ADHD has something called Emotional Dysregulation, whereby emotions are felt much more intensely and sometimes difficult to control. Because of this it's much easier for us to read people. With the comorbid ASD pattern recognition (many think it's an ADHD thing but autistic spectrum disorder is very highly comorbid with it) means you have someone who can read people and interpret the patterns of behaviour. Speaking from personal experience of dealing with people that could easily be classified as narcissists, it's actually pretty easy to determine if the person is "one of us" ie ADHD so the motivations and inconsistencies are genuine inattentiveness or manipulative and negative. Generally narcissists will get increasingly agitated and hostile if you gently (gently is important) point out inconsistencies, and ADHDers will become apologetic or dismissive with a sense of guilt for making mistakes. It's literally that easy. With my background in UK NHS mental health services (which covers ADHD as well) everything so far on this channel screams ADHD/ASD so far (in totally a good way)! This is actually pretty exciting as I previously thought the whole alpha/beta/sigma labels were a bit opinionated. Perhaps there's actually some clinical comparisons to be made between the different non-clinical labels and the various diagnoses in the DSM.... How do the self labelled sigmas here feel about possibly being undiagnosed ADHD/ASD?
i Agree with your assertion and I feel Pretty good about it ! I think Im likely somewhere deep in the ADHD Spectrum- But agree these traits I see in myself are all very similar to whats described here for Sigma Empath Personality types.. Years ago , then also morer recently I‘ve had experiences hiring (and then having to fire) Narciccists- I interviewed one the other day, thankfully they said something that made me understand their type instanty! Keep Trusting your Gut feeling Empaths out there and keep practicing and pattern matching !
I think you have let your psychologist minded biases interfere with the topic. You are gaslighting personality types with misplaced medical diagnosis. Mental/cognitive malfunction has nothing to do with personality type, though it may alter one's personality. I reject your diagnosis. It doesn't fit, and they hold their own implications.
@@GemstonePhilosophy If by "[you] reject [my] diagnosis" you're referring to my own ADHD and you're implying it doesn't exist then we have a fundamental difference of opinion versus fact. Depending on the personality type grading mechanism, the whole Greek alphabet version is something that isn't so much based in clinical science but annecdotal repetition to reinforce its veracity. Behavioural and social cognitive theory is much broader and allows for nuance and allows shaping based on experience and trauma, and can mesh with clinical science and biopsychology. You rejecting my observation that according to this video it is is likely to be describing ADHD with comorbid ASD pattern recognition bears no relevance, and the "gaslighting" part as you describe was intended to open a discussion for understanding and perhaps identifying a way to help "Sigma males" who may be undiagnosed ADHD to at least ask the right questions and seek clinical assistance and advice if they feel it would benefit them. The stigma of things like ADHD is fuelled by attitudes like you appear to be espousing. Is it because of your own stigma that you prefer to have the label of "sigma" rather than the possibility of a neurodiversity like ADHD/ASD? It's understandable that many prefer to think of themselves as introverted protagonists struggling with their surroundings, but surely you would agree that it would be better to collaborate to potentially give those same people the choice to explore the possibilities of a clinical diagnosis and the assistance that provides?
@@chromenewt OK, my apologies. I've been trying to figure a few things out over the past several years pertaining to my upbringing, and the resulting person I've become, and with my deep dive into self help psychology, I've found myself so surrounded by conflicting thoughts that has actually been overall negative for my own sense of therapy. I don't understand enough to really make a proper diagnosis, but after reading your comment again, I think I understand what you are saying a little better. Honestly, I don't care what the disorder is called, I just want to know how I can rewire my own head and find the root cause(s). Im already diagnosed with ADHD, but what do I do with that information? My mom rejected my diagnosis as a kid and instead prescribed me to being Jesus Christ, and my dad was practically the devil himself. You can see clearly why I'm all levels of confused in life, though I'm not an unintelligible person whatsoever. I think I used the term "gaslight" because, alas, any form of psychological malfunction present in my head is truly a stark contrast to how I've perceived my life up until very recently. Now, I feel like I've gone from being an incredibly bright and promising individual, to being diminished to nothing more than someone who needs to be prescribed drugs and institutionally monitored. So, with all that being said, how do we avoid the stigma of those who are in the kind of mental headspace I've found myself in, where medical prognosis doesn't quantify the experience of the individual, nor can any specific diagnosis fully describe the function/disfunction of an individual? Or am I just talking loony now?
@@chromenewt hi 🙋🏻♂️ love your passion that is emanating from your comment. Its funny, i just watched the „sigma empath“ video and whilst being sceptical until the end i couldn’t help but identify with the leading traits. Now i watch this video and just had to comment my own experience. Now i find your comment and just had to chuckle a bit at how true it is. I was diagnosed with (pretty heavy) adhd 6 months ago and after now having lived with the diagnosis i still have the feeling that adhd alone keeps some things unexplained which would fit asd alot better. Just like with my adhd diagnosis the closer i got to it and especially the weeks right after being told with certainty the more doubts i had. Maybe i was just manipulating the doctors. After finding out that this behavior and those thoughts also weren’t unusual i got alot better at accepting and im all the better for it. Now that my appointment for asd diagnosis is coming closer im starting to notice those same patterns, which might mean something or it might not. Either way your comment is incredibly accurate and i love your analogy
I always use their own games against them they will crumble and be lower than lowest and everyone will know their true identity True power lies within self control is everything
When I did this, he did not know what to do with himself. He was completely destroyed by his true self complete destruction on his own accord. Understand that he had two girlfriends in the past commit suicide. Amidst of this shit show, I understood why those two women took their own life and the importance of getting his shit out into the universe so hopefully that does not happen again. Also, and listening to your video, another thing that I did not do was follow him around, chase him down to prove that he was doing the things he was doing. There’s nothing to prove he knows what he’s doing. I know what he’s doing. All that would’ve done was fed in his ego, and continued feeding in to this false sense of self that he would have gained because he would’ve used that as me groveling lowering myself lowering myself. and my standards of behaviors that are completely beneath me narcissists like to see people cry, and they like them to grovel. Do not try to prove a damn thing. 😊.
My older sister is a narcissist and it was a severely toxic atmosphere. You have to become a sigma to deal with them. I was already an empath. My son is a sigma empath.
I confronted the narc,.. he was scared at all the things I picked up intuitively and he thought he had me fooled, I even laughed asking him , “you think you smart huh? 🤣🤣” and then I also told him.. “you can’t juggle.. you’re too obvious” 😂 …. Yea I had to break down that little fantasy where he thinks he’s smart and slick
I've seen all these personality vids, seeing each type within myself besides alpha. We are all human, all consciousness. Have compassion and forgiveness for all.
I literally saw her mask slip, it was shortly afterwards she made a sharp exit. Her gaslighting (LIES) became really obvious and when my refusal to concede sank in, she kept having to try new techniques! It was tough cos I didn't know about narcissism at the time, but now I can look back with a certain sense of VICTORY! Nice try love, now jog on!
I knew this dark narcissistic girl who did and said everything she could to make me lose my cool, never succeeded. Over time she said one of the most bizarre things I would expect from her, “I wish you were my dad.”
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i think when you get to a higher self you dont destroy the narc as you know your abilitys, the truth and confident in one self the hardest part is having the power to destroy the narc and saving energy as you know the value of your energy and know that negitive will influence new outcomes sometime it eats at you to take action but quickly realize it a waste of time focus on yourself and heal and grow dont be influenced by the devils messengers
Exaaaactly, they arent worth the hassle. But if they come at me...its easy work to dissemble them. Ive always had a knack for finding peoples buttons :D But Id rather avoid it if possible
All the cocaine and dope dealers are this type from the neighborhood. They are scared 😱 and paranoid about being exposed. They run their hookers through their abuse. I've seen it many times.
I wouldn't want to be anything BUT a sigma empath. Except maybe a sigma 'super'-empath lol. To me it is just being aware of yourself, and communicating with others on a deeper spirit to spirit level than the usual regular old homo sapiens level. Hence the intuition, observation, understanding, etc.
I think the Narc was sent to keep me from acheiving somehing. After 10 years I may never know. She could and would disrupt my power by keeping me upset. Now After knowing the truth all was intentional. Being targeted or hunted was terrifying.. Upset my Angel that I was upset.. No, I will keep her safe from harm as I/we have been protecting her all these years . Maybe God is testing us.
It appears that Sigmas have high self worth however the reality is we sigmas feel the complete opposite but hide it so well no one could ever guess these feelings are what make us Independent
My ex was a narcissists and I had a weird gut feeling something was going on behind my back. Unfortunately I was right. I let her know I knew what was going on but didn’t talk about to her. Just the feeling of her knowing she got magically figured out PISSED her off
Hmmm.... This reminds me of my college time. Turn out all six of my housemate was a narcissistic. They only did housework for two year out of three and a half year. Then, they let the house rot with all the abandoned trash and food for the rest of a year and half.
@@haydenwright3574 it took me a while to come out of my shell,for obvious reasons,and show my true colors. She has woke the beast,and learning. I'm not playing any longer. Games are done.
@@tainted_timmy6726 I hear you and can relate. Its simple to defuse them, when we know how. Our best company as the lone wolf, is our own company. Peaceful, calm and serene! We need no external factors, people, validation and Affirmations to feel at peace with who we are. Nobody can take that from us.
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I'm not convinced in this sigma male thing however, I am always fighting liars and blaggers. Always fighting management and pointing out their bad ideas. They label me as "Mr never happy" lol. Typical, attack the person and avoid the topic tactics. Maybe there's at least a little something in this "personality type" after all.
Right? Like, when I woke up this morning, I was a 51 yr old woman. But after watching his videos, I realized I might be an Empathetic Sigma male! I need a lot of time to reflect on this.
Glad you could relate to the content! It's always interesting to learn more about ourselves and how we fit into different personality types. Keep exploring and discovering new things about yourself! 🤙
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@females who stay with narcissists i don't think your sigma although empath. Go and check other videod of you don't believe me, Sigma females don't forget and see through toxic ppl they dont even end up in a relationship with them. In the past perhaps when I was a Beta, a new self no and as ive been attracting toxic ppl as my parents were narcissists, yes I've been single almost all my life. See, because i see through them since i learnt to read them. You exercise control to keep them your pppl pleasing your Beta or else. Sorry but I'm tired of hearing abused women claiming they're Sigma. Sigma females are not victims ok
Ok, this video annoyed me right off the bat by stating that "sigma empaths are sigma MALES with strong empathic abilities"... um HELLO!!! Empaths are not exclusively male, nor are sigmas. Ugh.
sigma emphats steal the superfical confidence of narcs, and destroy their ego!
There's no single individual that can fill a sigma with righteous anger than a narcissist. The best way is to walk away without a word. Stay out of that sphere of failure.
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Recently discovered my mother is a narcissist and that i was being severely taken advantage off most of my adult life.
I couldnt agree more. You cant get burned if you dont play with fire. Simples! :D
I am a female sigma empath. I have confounded my narcissistic, abusive brothers our entire lives. Sigma empathy are not exclusively male. I am thankful for the gifts of the sigma empath otherwise I may not have survived the sexual, emotional and physical abuse by the men in my family.
I'm also one. Similar family situation except my problem has been dealing with the toxic females in my family.
I'm a sigma empath female as well and so relate to this. Before finding this term I'd always say I'm a chameleon and very in tuned to people's behaviors to the point of questioning if I may have some psychic ability and/or 6th sense. Narcissists don't phase me and I'd wonder if I had an inner hereditary trait of a sociopath because I know how to disconnect from people emotionally when they trying me and block it out like I don't care or not react. Glad I was able to find a term now and I loveeeeeee my freedom. I also feel like I draw narcissistic men and they snap on me when they can't control me and I easily walk away from people that I know aren't doing right by me after I see enough evidence of them not being in my corner and trying to harm me instead but covering with looking like they actually care, I see right through it. I also keep ending up in education and behavioral health/special education jobs and can easily get along with people in any environment which made me deem the term chameleon on myself cause I can read the room.
I too, am a female Sigma. I could never understand how I could read people and tell when people are lying or giving me false compliments. I thought something was wrong with me because I could just turn off my empathy & walk away from toxic people. This explains so much.
The only people who truly HATE me are narcissists. I had one male narcissist that set out to destroy me because I could see right through him and his motivations, and that absolutely enraged him. He truly hated me for no other reason. I even donated money to his family when his wife was in the hospital. I think that made him hate me all the more, frankly. He could NOT understand me, and that drove him crazy. I just stood my ground though.
I love this! These points are so true, and I just recently went through a situation with a narcissistic roommate, and they noticed I couldn't be controlled and got really hostile because of it.
Same. I had an inkling about my ex roommate prior to sharing a flat with her. I should have listened to my gut instinct. Thought she was user friendly and controlling and saw right through her acting cutesy as being manipulative.
Being truthful , show indifference and do things spontaneously
As a female sigma empath, this really resonated with me
That is really cool
My sister! Keep on keeping on! ☯ PS- As I began watching I was wondering about the feminine exemplar and here you are as the first comment I see. I feel very happy.🥳
No u r not
I'm also female super empath
How you break a narcisist?
I found that when I called out a narcissist whom I was helping out of a tough life-situation, she doubled down. I called her out on that too. I was calm and she lost it. Needless to say, I ended up stopping all of my help to her.
Same happened to me with a no more friend. I tried to help, but when I refused to be caught in his madness he snapped, and I erased him from my life.
Wow….. you literally just described my Narc ex…. She mentioned many times talking to a guy named Brad, who was going through an awful divorce. He is weak and broken and she is going to take him and make him her lapdog, to every command.
Narcs are wildly evil however…. There is one and only one personality type that can break them down to nothing …..
The Dark Empath.
As a sigma, I can confirm we are a narcs worst nightmare. My narc couldn’t pull shit with me. I read her like a book. Called her out on her bullshit and deception. And literally countered every stage of Narcissistic behavior. And she couldn’t stand it. She knew I saw through her and tried everything in her power gaslight me into believing her bullshit like her dumbass relatives. When she found another supply, and others to leech off of she finally left and stayed away.
You are anything but sigma.
Anyone who says "they are sigma is no true sigma" - Lord Tywin.
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Normally I would agree with that. Until I realized people say they don’t admit to being sigmas to prove to themselves that they’re a sigma. So go fuck off.
@@whispersofveracity63narcissist are jealous
I'm not an introvert or extrovert, I'm in between...AMBIVERT. Best of both worlds 🥳
I sat down and confronted a narcissist before. They couldn't handle it and told me to get out 🤣🤣🤣
My narcissist can't decide if he loves me or hates me! I drive him crazy and he can't get enough. 🤯
Did it's primitive brain crash?
I've been there.
Omg, I scared a covert away. He can't thrive without drama and I had none to give.
@@caeliamoonshadow Yo omg same.
I screamed so loud at the last narcissist that I shook the glasses in their kitchen. But I rescued their daughter, and she's my wife now of 10 years.
I thought I was a beta until I had an intense, years-long death-match run-in with a psychopathic narcissist. Ultimately, I feel gratitude for the part he took in my life, because, up till then, I had been extraordinarily lucky with friendships and relationships, and it wasn't until, through him, I experienced first-hand the kind of inhuman cruelty and deceptive tactics some people use to connect with the world that I began, out of necessity, finally to gain control of my empathy and also to begin a process of personal individuation. It has been a very painful ordeal, and after seven years I'm finally starting to see that it has paid off. Now, I believe, I'm much better equipped to deal with those who gain unjust advantage by victimizing others.
You got me. Very intuitive, need plenty of time to look and consider the issues that I may or may not be concerned with. I have the misfortune to have one of the most irritating people being my younger brother and finally I’m also psychic. I also feel other people’s emotions and sometimes get flashes of something associated with a person days before I see them and sometimes are not aware that I’ll see these people until 24 hours before. I stand guilty as charged.
As most of us know the narcissist we're dealing with we know their personal story and all their weaknesses. Being an empathic sygma the narcissist will tell you all their secrets, thus we have all the ammunition we need to destroy them with a few well chosen words.
But...as an "empath", do you really want to "destroy" someone? For me, I was told the traumas, the background, therefore I felt sympathy and gave allowance to the person to act out as they did. But, at a point...I just said...NO. ...Goodbye. We don't align in how we think. I became indifferent. I never tried to destroy the person or cause further stress and pain...just....go away. If you try and "destroy" someone that energy is put onto yourself, which is uncomfortable. But...by simply walking away without harsh words(which the narcissist doesn't care about), the person becomes even more confused and fragile. They're used to mayhem and chaos with people. You may not be the empath you believe you are.
Sigmas see through the fakeness of people easily.
Bro, your channel rocks 👊🏻 along with Wise Thinker. You both fulfilling a subject with individually unique approach. All Gang Is Here? 🤣 someone said in comments “sigma gang”. I love it 🤣👊🏻
Thank you Anon!
Absolutely on 👉💥👈 point! My ex was a convert narcissist psychopath. She just could never derail me, shake my self worth, gaslight me. Called her out on all her red flags, unacceptable disrespectful repeated behaviour, the lies, the ghosting. She made mention it's like she's losing her mind af walking on egg shells.
I was like 🥱 da faq?
Narcissists and psychopaths, your karma will get you when you encounter a sigma / heyoka / infj.
Karmas a bitch huh?p
Exactly, this shit coming to trust persons or good characters. Have same problem, when i feel good she feel bad, she want me feel worse to help me. But alltime sge want be at podium, never want be part of my friends becuase she cant be queen there. Weird but i cut it after 4 years of strugle.
Love this, we can handle any toxic broad or any situation
Lol. Sounds EXACTLY like my ex fiance. She put me through hell, but she got totally slayed in the end with a HUGELY satisfying victory that she will NEVER forget.
And even better, her whole family (that were likely forced to attend the situation as a means of establishing a form of emotional leverage over me) became audience to her ULTIMATE humiliation in that moment, when I simply rejected her presence, and by extension her existence, as though it were an afterthought.
The thing that made it even more satisfying, is knowing that she thought she was walking into a slam dunk win scenario. Next minute...😂😂😂
My best friend was a total narcissist. It’s crazy how when confronted they loose there shit . And the only thing they can’t control is someone who doesn’t back down to there exploding behavior. But the second you do they increase there dominating attitude to keep you in the place below them. Nope stand and fight lol
Yep. I told my ex friend " you need help dude. " he snapped and made it seem like i needed help and i got it aaall wrong 🥴 yeah no. He s out of my life now like he never existed, and it feels so good
I was about to become a Narcissist but then this Upload dropped!!…. 🙏🏿
Welcome to the bright side
They hate being in our presence because we are a mirror to how fake they truly are and we are real causing them jealousy and envy. Most of the time im quiet around these demons but it can be very fun embarassing them from time to time.
Best sigma channel hands down 👊
Sooo it sounds very nice in the video but i wanna give some insight into reality here as this video might give some people a false sense of hope for redemption.
I just recently learned of the term „sigma empath“ and while i don’t usually adhere to these kinds of generalizations i gotta admit that the defining qualities, for the most part, resonated deeply with me.
That’s why i was confused about the described reaction of narcissistis when confronted or called out.
Sadly they won’t spiral out of control or do anything that would feel redeeming. Most of the time they will paddle back, redefine what they meant when their lies are called out, tell another lie that is impossible to callout (either cause it’s not technically a lie just a misleading implication or not yet a lie as in false promises, etc.) or simply disengage. Disengaging is a normal tactic of narcissistis which usually manipulates others into thinking they overstepped, hurt the narcissist, need to apologize, give time for a feeling of need for the narcissist to develope or wait until memories of the last interaction are muddy and „gas-lightable“. So no, when a narcissist disengages it doesn’t mean you‘ve „won“.
As it is in the nature of a sigma empath to self-reflect, a narcissist is incapable of doing so.
This is deeply frustrating for me and I quickly learned that it is not worth my energy to keep on pressuring as they will just keep going with their usualy tactics and I will drain my energy whilst accomplishing nothing. So with narcissists and also more generally people who lie I learned to just keep my laid back composure, maybe call out one of their lies to see how they react and give them the chance to change my perception of them. That hasn’t happened yet so when they inevitably dig an even deeper hole for themselves with more lies, I just keep future contact with them at the lowest possible amount and warn the people close to me about them.
Younger me used to feel alot of anger when dealing with a narcissist but nowadays I just feel bad for them as they don’t know how to change or rather don’t even think they would need to change even though there was obviously alot of pain and suffering in their upbringing that could normally be worked through.
OMG... I've come here from the "14 weird things Sigma Males do" video having realised that it's describing ADHD and ASD symptoms with almost clinical accuracy, without actually being a clinical diagnosis. Started to watch this (only halfway) as I was armchair diagnosed as a narcissist by an ex (which caused a lot of mental damage) until later being diagnosed with ADHD which shares a LOT of external symptoms with the main difference being the motivation for the behaviours. Got this far and yet again what you're describing as a "Sigma Empath" is literally ADHD with high comorbid ASD pattern recognition.
ADHD has something called Emotional Dysregulation, whereby emotions are felt much more intensely and sometimes difficult to control. Because of this it's much easier for us to read people. With the comorbid ASD pattern recognition (many think it's an ADHD thing but autistic spectrum disorder is very highly comorbid with it) means you have someone who can read people and interpret the patterns of behaviour. Speaking from personal experience of dealing with people that could easily be classified as narcissists, it's actually pretty easy to determine if the person is "one of us" ie ADHD so the motivations and inconsistencies are genuine inattentiveness or manipulative and negative. Generally narcissists will get increasingly agitated and hostile if you gently (gently is important) point out inconsistencies, and ADHDers will become apologetic or dismissive with a sense of guilt for making mistakes. It's literally that easy.
With my background in UK NHS mental health services (which covers ADHD as well) everything so far on this channel screams ADHD/ASD so far (in totally a good way)! This is actually pretty exciting as I previously thought the whole alpha/beta/sigma labels were a bit opinionated. Perhaps there's actually some clinical comparisons to be made between the different non-clinical labels and the various diagnoses in the DSM....
How do the self labelled sigmas here feel about possibly being undiagnosed ADHD/ASD?
i Agree with your assertion and I feel Pretty good about it ! I think Im likely somewhere deep in the ADHD Spectrum- But agree these traits I see in myself are all very similar to whats described here for Sigma Empath Personality types..
Years ago , then also morer recently I‘ve had experiences hiring (and then having to fire) Narciccists- I interviewed one the other day, thankfully they said something that made me understand their type instanty! Keep Trusting your Gut feeling Empaths out there and keep practicing and pattern matching !
I think you have let your psychologist minded biases interfere with the topic. You are gaslighting personality types with misplaced medical diagnosis. Mental/cognitive malfunction has nothing to do with personality type, though it may alter one's personality. I reject your diagnosis. It doesn't fit, and they hold their own implications.
@@GemstonePhilosophy If by "[you] reject [my] diagnosis" you're referring to my own ADHD and you're implying it doesn't exist then we have a fundamental difference of opinion versus fact. Depending on the personality type grading mechanism, the whole Greek alphabet version is something that isn't so much based in clinical science but annecdotal repetition to reinforce its veracity. Behavioural and social cognitive theory is much broader and allows for nuance and allows shaping based on experience and trauma, and can mesh with clinical science and biopsychology.
You rejecting my observation that according to this video it is is likely to be describing ADHD with comorbid ASD pattern recognition bears no relevance, and the "gaslighting" part as you describe was intended to open a discussion for understanding and perhaps identifying a way to help "Sigma males" who may be undiagnosed ADHD to at least ask the right questions and seek clinical assistance and advice if they feel it would benefit them. The stigma of things like ADHD is fuelled by attitudes like you appear to be espousing. Is it because of your own stigma that you prefer to have the label of "sigma" rather than the possibility of a neurodiversity like ADHD/ASD? It's understandable that many prefer to think of themselves as introverted protagonists struggling with their surroundings, but surely you would agree that it would be better to collaborate to potentially give those same people the choice to explore the possibilities of a clinical diagnosis and the assistance that provides?
@@chromenewt OK, my apologies. I've been trying to figure a few things out over the past several years pertaining to my upbringing, and the resulting person I've become, and with my deep dive into self help psychology, I've found myself so surrounded by conflicting thoughts that has actually been overall negative for my own sense of therapy.
I don't understand enough to really make a proper diagnosis, but after reading your comment again, I think I understand what you are saying a little better. Honestly, I don't care what the disorder is called, I just want to know how I can rewire my own head and find the root cause(s). Im already diagnosed with ADHD, but what do I do with that information? My mom rejected my diagnosis as a kid and instead prescribed me to being Jesus Christ, and my dad was practically the devil himself. You can see clearly why I'm all levels of confused in life, though I'm not an unintelligible person whatsoever. I think I used the term "gaslight" because, alas, any form of psychological malfunction present in my head is truly a stark contrast to how I've perceived my life up until very recently. Now, I feel like I've gone from being an incredibly bright and promising individual, to being diminished to nothing more than someone who needs to be prescribed drugs and institutionally monitored.
So, with all that being said, how do we avoid the stigma of those who are in the kind of mental headspace I've found myself in, where medical prognosis doesn't quantify the experience of the individual, nor can any specific diagnosis fully describe the function/disfunction of an individual? Or am I just talking loony now?
@@chromenewt hi 🙋🏻♂️ love your passion that is emanating from your comment. Its funny, i just watched the „sigma empath“ video and whilst being sceptical until the end i couldn’t help but identify with the leading traits. Now i watch this video and just had to comment my own experience. Now i find your comment and just had to chuckle a bit at how true it is. I was diagnosed with (pretty heavy) adhd 6 months ago and after now having lived with the diagnosis i still have the feeling that adhd alone keeps some things unexplained which would fit asd alot better. Just like with my adhd diagnosis the closer i got to it and especially the weeks right after being told with certainty the more doubts i had. Maybe i was just manipulating the doctors. After finding out that this behavior and those thoughts also weren’t unusual i got alot better at accepting and im all the better for it. Now that my appointment for asd diagnosis is coming closer im starting to notice those same patterns, which might mean something or it might not. Either way your comment is incredibly accurate and i love your analogy
I always use their own games against them they will crumble and be lower than lowest and everyone will know their true identity True power lies within self control is everything
Thanks for your video. It resonates with me. 🙂
When I did this, he did not know what to do with himself. He was completely destroyed by his true self complete destruction on his own accord. Understand that he had two girlfriends in the past commit suicide. Amidst of this shit show, I understood why those two women took their own life and the importance of getting his shit out into the universe so hopefully that does not happen again. Also, and listening to your video, another thing that I did not do was follow him around, chase him down to prove that he was doing the things he was doing. There’s nothing to prove he knows what he’s doing. I know what he’s doing. All that would’ve done was fed in his ego, and continued feeding in to this false sense of self that he would have gained because he would’ve used that as me groveling lowering myself lowering myself. and my standards of behaviors that are completely beneath me narcissists like to see people cry, and they like them to grovel. Do not try to prove a damn thing. 😊.
Don't give your control to anyone
Narcissists try to take you over, but when the Sigma Empath won't allow it they blow a circuit breaker. Nothing can mess their mind like a S/E.
My older sister is a narcissist and it was a severely toxic atmosphere. You have to become a sigma to deal with them. I was already an empath.
My son is a sigma empath.
I confronted the narc,.. he was scared at all the things I picked up intuitively and he thought he had me fooled, I even laughed asking him , “you think you smart huh? 🤣🤣” and then I also told him.. “you can’t juggle.. you’re too obvious” 😂 …. Yea I had to break down that little fantasy where he thinks he’s smart and slick
I've seen all these personality vids, seeing each type within myself besides alpha. We are all human, all consciousness. Have compassion and forgiveness for all.
That's is me a million percent ty sigma gang
I quoted you Sir with “sigma gang” 🙏🏻 nicely said 🙏🏻
Narcs bore me at this point.
I literally saw her mask slip, it was shortly afterwards she made a sharp exit. Her gaslighting (LIES) became really obvious and when my refusal to concede sank in, she kept having to try new techniques!
It was tough cos I didn't know about narcissism at the time, but now I can look back with a certain sense of VICTORY! Nice try love, now jog on!
I knew this dark narcissistic girl who did and said everything she could to make me lose my cool, never succeeded. Over time she said one of the most bizarre things I would expect from her, “I wish you were my dad.”
Try found information,she want love or care from father and want you for delete hurt since kids about her father. It's pattern.คุ้นเคยกับสิ่งที่ตัวเองเคยเจอในวัยเด็ก ต้องการสิ่งที่ตัวเองไม่ได้เคยได้รับ เติมเต็มสิ่งที่ขาด
I love this channel, keep up the great work!
i think when you get to a higher self you dont destroy the narc as you know your abilitys, the truth and confident in one self the hardest part is having the power to destroy the narc and saving energy as you know the value of your energy and know that negitive will influence new outcomes sometime it eats at you to take action but quickly realize it a waste of time focus on yourself and heal and grow dont be influenced by the devils messengers
This is the art of peace. To turn an attack into a flower. Bravo.
Exaaaactly, they arent worth the hassle. But if they come at me...its easy work to dissemble them. Ive always had a knack for finding peoples buttons :D But Id rather avoid it if possible
Good job on the video work 👍👍
Genuine is the word best used for a description
I confronted a narcissist and he said "I no longer have work for you"
All the cocaine and dope dealers are this type from the neighborhood. They are scared 😱 and paranoid about being exposed. They run their hookers through their abuse. I've seen it many times.
I wouldn't want to be anything BUT a sigma empath. Except maybe a sigma 'super'-empath lol. To me it is just being aware of yourself, and communicating with others on a deeper spirit to spirit level than the usual regular old homo sapiens level. Hence the intuition, observation, understanding, etc.
I think the Narc was sent to keep me from acheiving somehing. After 10 years I may never know. She could and would disrupt my power by keeping me upset. Now After knowing the truth all was intentional. Being targeted or hunted was terrifying.. Upset my Angel that I was upset.. No, I will keep her safe from harm as I/we have been protecting her all these years . Maybe God is testing us.
Gracias, muy clarificador! Me entiendo un poco mas ahora!
Perdón, este mensaje era para el video del los 15 signos del Sigma Empath. Es lo mismo!
It appears that Sigmas have high self worth however the reality is we sigmas feel the complete opposite but hide it so well no one could ever guess these feelings are what make us Independent
Narcissist are big babies. Pain in the behind, exhausting and demanding.
My ex was a narcissists and I had a weird gut feeling something was going on behind my back. Unfortunately I was right. I let her know I knew what was going on but didn’t talk about to her. Just the feeling of her knowing she got magically figured out PISSED her off
Hmmm.... This reminds me of my college time. Turn out all six of my housemate was a narcissistic. They only did housework for two year out of three and a half year. Then, they let the house rot with all the abandoned trash and food for the rest of a year and half.
Real narcissists don't admit they are narcissists nor aware of their character.
I needed this. My wife,the narc. Me...the sigma😏
Amen! It's like taking candy from a baby! The world lives in fear of these toxic predators. Until the hunter, becomes the prey! ✌
@@haydenwright3574 it took me a while to come out of my shell,for obvious reasons,and show my true colors. She has woke the beast,and learning. I'm not playing any longer. Games are done.
@@tainted_timmy6726 I hear you and can relate. Its simple to defuse them, when we know how. Our best company as the lone wolf, is our own company. Peaceful, calm and serene! We need no external factors, people, validation and Affirmations to feel at peace with who we are. Nobody can take that from us.
I feel like everything you described I'm a female Sigma Empath
Me too
Women can also be a sigma empath.
Agreed, Im not sure why its only labelled as a male trait so far.
if "Sigma male/ female Empath" is so rare why so many people in the comments think they "Sigma Empath" 😂
Good point.
thanks Bro
Is Remus Lupin a sigma Empath or at least have several qualities.
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I'm a female Sigma empath
This is me!
Right on
Satan don't come in a red jumpsuit
Beautiful.
I'm not convinced in this sigma male thing however, I am always fighting liars and blaggers. Always fighting management and pointing out their bad ideas. They label me as "Mr never happy" lol. Typical, attack the person and avoid the topic tactics. Maybe there's at least a little something in this "personality type" after all.
Damn, damn, this is so me!! ✊🏿
What does it mean if I'm a sigma & dark empath
Why are you saying it's only a male?
Right? Like, when I woke up this morning, I was a 51 yr old woman. But after watching his videos, I realized I might be an Empathetic Sigma male! I need a lot of time to reflect on this.
This is Cool 🤙 Sounds Like Me Wow!!!! Did not know.
Glad you could relate to the content! It's always interesting to learn more about ourselves and how we fit into different personality types. Keep exploring and discovering new things about yourself! 🤙
The last one was pretty challenging tho
Why mention only males? I have all these traits and im not a male at all
What's the female version of a sigma empath... cuz I relate
The female version is wifey material 😁🙏
Narcs are going DOWN. Fast.
"I Gaslight Myself Constantly🤤🤔😂...Just To See The Funny Results I Glean From It...And Cherry Pick The Most Useful?!? Ummm Does That Make Sense?!? ....If Not Nevermind?!?"🤒🤒🤒
Erm… there are also female Sigma Empaths!
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slightly out of context, some narcissists are just jaded people, that loop
What do you call a field of master- baiting sigma males?..... Beef stroking off
What about sigma females? I noticed you only refer to males.
You can Google sigma empath female.
I got one for you, im a socio-empathic sigma
They can't handle me. They lose weight fast
a Greek letter or a mathematical term that destroys a human.
never would have thought.
Why must you continue to refer to Signa Empathy’s as being male or he? Sigmas aren’t just male- recognize this fact.
True dat.
There are more sigma females than males….. and I am a male.
Ima Sigma narcissist. Its complicated.
Welcome. In mij live.
@females who stay with narcissists i don't think your sigma although empath. Go and check other videod of you don't believe me, Sigma females don't forget and see through toxic ppl they dont even end up in a relationship with them. In the past perhaps when I was a Beta, a new self no and as ive been attracting toxic ppl as my parents were narcissists, yes I've been single almost all my life. See, because i see through them since i learnt to read them. You exercise control to keep them your pppl pleasing your Beta or else. Sorry but I'm tired of hearing abused women claiming they're Sigma. Sigma females are not victims ok
Ok, this video annoyed me right off the bat by stating that "sigma empaths are sigma MALES with strong empathic abilities"... um HELLO!!! Empaths are not exclusively male, nor are sigmas. Ugh.
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Why are you just saying sigma empaths are men!
Why do you talk only about Sigma males? We Sigma females feel left out.
My narcissist m-in-law fear me. Lol