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Bloke box I realize that my late old man, and my employer's old man are all Sigma males. And my employer whenever he notices that I am b*********** him he always points it out to me. So that's one of the characteristics that makes him a sigma male too. I enjoy the company of nobody 4 hours at end, and I get mad when somebody calls me on my phone interrupting my music!
I already liked every video i have seen and subscribed after the fourth one. And now thank you for your hard work i have learned alot about myself. I do prefer to be alone i don't hate people but i like my dog better and if provoked into a fist fight i fight very dirty. I feel if i can breathe i can fight if i can fight i can survive if i can survive i can come home to my beautiful wife. Which is off grid far from the crazy people of this day and age.
This is all b******* do you have anything real to like back up any of your statements like real life stuff to like factually back up what you said is you say a bunch of stuff but it's completely meaningless because there's no factual basis you're not based you need to be based in reality before you can actually start making conclusions otherwise you're making conclusions up in the air not connected to any other conclusions in some kind of fantasy world you're making yourself
Thought I was a psychopath. Turns out I'm a sigma. Now if you'll excuse me, Im going to continue to disregard social norms while I meticulously observe human subjects until ultimately sneaking up on them.
Thought maybe I wasn't a sigma until I saw this. Hit every one of these spot on. A lot of men think they want to be a sigma, but can't tolerate being that alone or taking total responsibility for the condition of their lives.. I thrive on it. Even the bad stuff. I view it as learning opportunities and get back up.
Don’t you think they’re trying to make you believe you’re sigma even if you’re pure beta? Xd. That would line up with agenda of certain powers. The video is literally listing absolutely normal irresponsible things of life saying it’s what sigmas do… do you feel stronger as a sigma? Are you being sarcastic and I’m thE dumb one?
#7 -- big yes. When the pandemic hit, literally nothing changed. Many of these resonate. "Remembers everything" -- that's a blessing and a curse, it has saved me from some terrible situations.
@@sje6558 I wonder how many Sigmas are the Zodiac Sign Aquarius... I am. And the definition of sigma AND Aquarius really describes both, ya know? My girls a Sigma/Sag
I identify with everything in this video. The one thing I have changed as I get older is the eye contact. I don’t let people catch me looking. Many take it as an invitation to talk and i’d rather not engage as I value my time.
You just explained n broke down my entire life n existence. Wow! All my life I thought I was weird or a bit a loof, but thanks to you now I feel blessed, peaceful n more confident under my skin. Again thank you so much
Same. Its not like I try and be ubrupt. Usually I quit right before I'm supposed to go in. I just weight things out quickly cost benefit and quit. I noticed I burn all my bridges to the ground.
#1 is me all day. I love going out alone. I'll bust a move and go somewhere by myself in a heartbeat. I be going to bars, clubs, traveling and all that. I have a Few people I can hang with but majority of the time I like to hang by myself. Going out with others be killing my vibe sometimes.
A Sigma male wearing headphones and observing people in their habitat are traits akin to a man who use those traits in the world of military special reconnaissance, covert intelligence operations, and police/private investigations.
My Goodness! How do you guys do this. This is the best description of a Sigma Male yet. For me at least. Seems like this video just described my entire existence and essence with even deeper insight to things that I vaguely knew, felt or experienced. I relate to all of that. Much of it seems weird actually, but now I realize or rather confirm that it's quite normal.
The sigma male bs is like astrology for men. Just take some basic bs and make insecure people feel heard, understood, and "superior". If you think that such a hierarchy of " men" exists, you are a loser.
@@alvaropablo4688 there is nothing like alpha, beta, or sigma. If you believe that bs, you are not very smart and easily deluded. And you suffer from a very fragile ego. Else you would not need such horse crap.
Leaving without saying a word is spot on. During the holidays at family parties I take my own car separate from my wife because I know they will be there all night. When my internal timer goes off (never the same) I start walking for the door but say goodnight everyone with a wave without breaking stride. My brother in-laws all laugh and think its hilarious because there trapped for the next five hours making frivolous small talk with there wives and parents when they wanted to leave when I did. Then you have the hour long farewells at these stupid things even though you will see or talk to all of them before the end of the week. The internal timer goes off in my head usually due to people getting drunk or talking about the same stupid stuff they always regurgitate at family parties, the little voice in my head says Im out and I start walking for the door. Headphones because people bore me and I don't want to listen to them. People watching is my number 1 sport isn't it everyones nothing like a trip to the zoo (Walmart) to be entertained. Dinner alone, some days I just decided to go to a sports bar and have lunch even though I don't drink its just nice to go have a meal and watch some games while I eat. Family thinks Im mentally distrurbed that I can go to a crowed place alone. Quiting jobs without notice yup, only two but they were high paying jobs and the little voice said your miserable leave now or you never will, I walked. Eye contact scares people for some reason women think your a pervert and men seem confused, highly entertaining but a nod or smile usually defuses the situation. Glad to have found these thought I was a unicorn..
I think this video overly stressed the introvert part. It's not necessarily that they're introverted, it's more like not feeling lonely when alone. Being by ourselves doesn't bother us. Also avoiding pompus, arrogant or ill mannered people is worth going it alone. I don't enjoy fighting with people. It's done out of necessity.
Sorry, I'm a little puzzled by your comment. Isn't that pretty much the definition of "introvert?" I'm honestly curious now about what you take that word to mean.
I wouldn't say it's necessity for me. It's more ok you done actually paissed me off. Then I start laying in on all the terrible behaviors. Completely wxposing the person to a degree they want to fight. Then they remember whom they want to hit. They tend to just leave with the head hung low. I'm simply not the guy.
I’m a Sigma, but with complications. I have a personality disorder, ADHD, Bipolar disorder & some other mental health issues. Some of these enhance the Sigma male traits to the extreme, but others go against them. It gets confusing sometimes! 🤔
I think maybe I'm a sigma with mild autism spectrum traits. I don't maintain eye contact well unless I'm immersed in a conversation with another person.
@@GenerationX1984 I do the eye contact with strangers but across a dinner table is unbearable (with a family member or girlfriend)and I look at the centre of the eyebrow which is a neat trick. I'm hoping to get to grips with sigmas with drug or alcohol abuse. It changes me from a sigma to a semi Alpha when I'm drunk. But I still find 90% of conversation incredibly tedious even when I'm drunk. I prefer my partner to sit next to me. if im at a dinner party I normally only talk to the person to my left
14 - I've walked out of so many jobs, it's almost unbelievable. 12 - I hate small talk. Go big or go home. 11 - I don't keep a journal, but I write a lot. 9 - I am brutally honest. People hate this. I love it. 8 - I wear headphones a lot. It does help to avoid idiots and keep me focused. 7 - I have to have alone time. People can be very annoying when they are gossiping and sqwaking like a flock of birds. 6 - I've always been a fan of human observation. 5 - I hate talking on the phone. 5 - I don't ignore people in public unless it's someone I want to avoid. 3 - I used to go ghost at parties and get calls the next day wondering where I went. 2 - I do love appearing out of nowhere. It shows people how much they don't pay attention. It's a teaching device. 1 - I haven't
I struggle with the challenge that "Alpha" people feel with my mere presence. I ask questions and often my questions are taken as a challenge to their authority, and then they get really emotional and threatening and create havoc in my stability at the job. To me, the "alpha" mindset is extremely fragile and childish and that they should never be given leadership roles due to their aggressive attacks on anyone they deem threatening to their superiority.
Definitely not an alpha or beta. Not sure what a gamma is yet, but I’m about to find out more on that. This list pretty well sums me up though. The loner mentality, bluntness, the headphones thing, abrupt quitting of miserable jobs, and on and on. Apparently I’m a sigma. This just popped up in my feed. Glad I followed my curiosity. Well done.
I absolutely LOVE sneaking up on people. I never really understood why and still really do not. By finding this content help me on my path of becoming more self aware.
I knew I wasn't an alpha, but when I heard about sigmas I was like that fits me almost perfectly. In fact I've recently learned I'm even more rare being a Sigma empath.
I used to wonder why people used to think that lm full of myself.I tried to adjust and do like them but l failed to cpy them until l learnt about sigma man . Cause honest, humility, my own rule's and self-esteem has been the backbone of my life
Incredibly accurate! Every point but number 13. I'm on the Asbergers/Autism spectrum and I HATE eye contact. it always feels like a threat and makes me instantly anxious.
Eye contact means what the person is saying to you, isn't disingenious. They're real and when someone doesn't look me in the eye, I immediately know I'm wasting my time. I'd imagine you've limited yourself to the amount of wholehearted people who come your way. Hate is such an awful word. Why not say you're uncomfortable when someone looks you in the eye? There's a bit of inferiority I see in what you think of yourself...maybe a lack of confidence that causes you to not reciprocate to said party.
This is so true, I literally walked out of some of the companies I worked for and never went back. People were surprise that I was gone and only found out weeks later.
# 06 very true whenever I'm at a gathering I instantly start reading everyone's energy. And then I adjust accordingly, realizing who I'll deal with and who I'll avoid.
Opulent satire the sigma way.. Betterment to those whom choose her (wisdoms) ways. A small gathering of sigma sorts is quite becoming of a future now ✌
I thought I would have a label. I seem to go all over the place. Hating eye contact, to enjoying it, to wanting to stare someone down. I am not sure if these labels have a place for everyone.
I laugh so much because somebody has me pegged. And to the "T" I have been this way all my life. In my youth and in foreign countries with the military they would recommend traveling with another veteran. Yet mostly I always went alone. Carefully analyzing everything and myself. But always comfortable to do it my own way. 💯 % correct videos.
While in Germany on a tour of duty, I thought nothing of hopping a train alone to spend a weekend away from the base. I actually related to the Germans better than my fellow Americans.
Wrong, the sigma male doesn't call people on bullish, that's alpha. The sigma laughs to himself and makes a mental note of the bullshit, who it's coming from and how often it comes from that person. He analyses this info and decides how likely it is he will believe anything else coming from that person in the future.
Wow felt like I was just being described as far my so called antics… when all I’m doing is minding my own business!!! Kudos buddy on the video. Well put🖖🏾
I always prefer to be alone when even just walking or taking the bus to work or something, sometimes my gf wants to take the bus to work with me and I don't mind the company but sometimes it's annoying because that's often the only time I get to put in my headphones and just block everything out and have time to myself.
i rejoiced the restrictions of Covid protocols even though I disagreed with them, used the isolation to catch up on topics of science that I enjoyed but it drove my wife crazy, thank god she dove into her quilt making
I always think... maybe I'm not a sigma thing. I may be a gamma in denial. You know, like in those videos where they list the characteristics of a fake sigma male? They always come to, "As a gamma, you avoid taking risks." That's when I know for a fact, I belong with the sigmas heart and soul, now and always. You don't get a tattoo, pinky ring or any other external identifier. You're a loner, meaning you belong to an invisible fraternity. It's a brotherhood of individuals. No one understands what it's for, except the members. No one initiates you except yourself. And obviously the only way to resign from it, is to die.
Lmmfao, brother, you had me and Ole gurl laughing our ass's off to this one...thank you I needed the laugh, amazing work as always, love your passion! Keep doing you sir
Watching this series has been like having Derren Brown do a personal cold reading. TBH, I just thought I was a bit.... on the spectrum. So many truths here. keep them coming!
The likes eye contract one is not totally correct. I often avoid eye contract because eye contract often leads to conversation which I would rather avoid.
A friend just told me I was a sigma male for her, I didn't even know there were more than Alpha and Beta. But for these 14 things, I'm only doing 6 of them, the ones I don't do is for me not facing confrontations like with the earphones, phone calls or ignoring people. When you don't confront or answer someone, you're a coward for me
Don't know about the 'coward' mate, I will regally ignore phone calls from friends and family but on several times in my life had no hesitation on confronting high management. Does that make me a coward?
'sigma' personality type is not afraid of confrontation, just don't seek it out. Tbh we're better at confrontation than anybody else, but also good at avoiding it when it is a waste of time. Avoiding stupid small talk or not wanting to do phone calls isn't cowardly, who says we need to validate other people's social needs.
Internets fascination with eye contact is odd to me ... i dont do it personally cuz it often feels forced and makes me lose focus on thoughts or sensing other aspects of the environment. I got ADD. But im not afraid of confrontation it just serves me no purpose and i dont care to just do it to appease social norms cuz i dont even think its necessary. U can carry conversations without having to do that too frequent
I had issues with eye contact growing up too. What helped me was taking good care of my skin so i felt comfortable with the world in my face as i look around.
I match up to most of these and have gotten infj on all mbti tests I've taken. I enjoy helping people and getting out of my comfort zone by associating with others however I could remain in solitude indefinitely.
Lol I just discovered I’m a sigma female, based on all these facts. I came just to do research to help coach the men I work with better, and this was quite insightful. ✅
Right on. I live on 20 acres at the end of a dead end rural gravel road. My property gate is usually closed and locked with a No Tresspassing sign boldly displayed. Only a very select few know the sign doesn't apply to them.
I've never heard of a Sigma male! I didn't know such a thing existed. I don't ever want to lump myself into a pre-conceived notion of who I'm supposed to be but I watched this out of curiosity and 12/14 firm matches. If there's an archetype that engender these habits it might be worth carving out some time to learn more about it. I'd be curious if there are public examples of people who succeed in business, relationships, health, etc.
@@bigcconservativeguy2534 I looked it up, it is a bit of a joke. It looks like it's been taken on by the larger academia as a potential expansion of the archetypes, which is also kind of funny. I watched a few videos and read a bit on it but came to the same conclusion as the rest of the archetype modeling, that it's all basically bs and a copout for certain social behaviors while also providing a nice synopsis of people's tendencies. It's as flawed and yet as relevant as any personality test. In one I was labeled as an INTP-A. Their breakdown was excellent and did sum up a lot of my social tendencies, but it also left a lot of room for interpretation and mindless "oh that's SO me!" association. It was fun to learn about tho.
I just wanted to say to my fellow sigmas that yes, covidism is especially hard on us, both for the theatre and the personal freedom. And yes, i also see through this bullshit, we all do.
It's crazy isn't it? When the "current thing" rolls out like a badly scripted movie, you sit back and watch amazed so many fall for it. Then find yourself more and more isolated as it's hard to talk about baseball, when your caught up in trying to share the data you've gathered. Convid-1984 has been the biggest psychological operation ever run on humanity- and its only successful because so many go with it. Crazy times.
@@EvrySingleTime In the end most people just want to be left alone, so much so they will follow instructions like trained dogs to make it happen. It will take a serious problem that completely derails their life to snap these people out of it. Something worse then connnvod
Uh.. in quite a few of the points you just described an introverted anti-social loner. Thats not the same as a Sigma. Or maybe a seriously underdeveloped one. Developed Sigmas are usually pretty socially atune and reliable because they know it benefits them in the longer run. Pity, most of the rest of your video's are spot on.
I'm that guy who leaves the party without telling anyone. The reason is that I *really* enjoy leaving. Not leaving because I want to go back to working on the next earth-shaking invention, or because I need to get up early next morning. No. The act of leaving is its own point. Even leaving my place to get to work in the morning could be a rush. To me, being able to leave anyone, anything, any place and any time is an obvious, basic prerogative. At a party, having to first announce the intention to leave... well, that just gets in the way.
I really enjoy these made-up Greek-letter social categories. Yeah, I'm a Theta male. We come in crunchy & creamy varieties, have the Embalming merit badge, and are compelled to manufacture welding hoods for small animals.
When it's the end of the working day I just say 'goodbye' to anyone I happen to see. Others insist on finding and saying goodbye to everyone, even hugging them. Incredible.
I wore a set of aviation headphones most of mh high school years. I was known for them. The principal called them my princess Leyah headphones. I started wearing them mostly around my neck after that. Brought too much attention. The kind that got me into fights. Ribbing I don’t have a problem with. Direct insults and blatant disrespect or bullying will get you hurt. Oh have I mentioned what I do for a living? No. I won’t either but for argument sake don’t bother trolling me. If I were to read it and care isps and all that aren’t going to help. But feel free all you wonderful internet Rambo’s. I’m too busy and dont like most people work for free. Even if I did internet trolls are at the bottom of my list well behind human traffickers and theives, people who testify in court and ex husband’s and wives. Blackmailers Other various family members, businesses rivals, business partners, mistresses, the occasional law enforcer or lawyer and pretty much anybody who owes or is owed any substantial amount of money so you’ll be on a waiting list for awhile. Ok I lied I’m a legal courier. Had you going for a minute didn’t I? Lol. Good video though.
This video told me exactly what I'd thought & needed 2 confirm 4 myself!!! I've been keeping a journal for decades! And I found 2 of my older songs a fan had posted here on UA-cam when I went by the recording name "Grey Angel Conspiracy"
I'm so glad to learn that all these things I've been told make me a very hard person to endure, have a name. I'm 13 out of 14 (I don't journal, but I do keep a journal in my mind that retains its accuracy pretty well). EDIT: I find I am actually more Gamma than Sigma to be honest, after some research and reflection.
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I LOVETHE NUMBER 5 POINTS..ITS ALL EVERYTHING OBSOLUTELY TRUE..ALWAYS LEARN FROM EVERYTHING..EVERYDAY..SIGMARULE
Bloke box I realize that my late old man, and my employer's old man are all Sigma males.
And my employer whenever he notices that I am b*********** him he always points it out to me. So that's one of the characteristics that makes him a sigma male too. I enjoy the company of nobody 4 hours at end, and I get mad when somebody calls me on my phone interrupting my music!
I already liked every video i have seen and subscribed after the fourth one. And now thank you for your hard work i have learned alot about myself. I do prefer to be alone i don't hate people but i like my dog better and if provoked into a fist fight i fight very dirty. I feel if i can breathe i can fight if i can fight i can survive if i can survive i can come home to my beautiful wife. Which is off grid far from the crazy people of this day and age.
This is all b******* do you have anything real to like back up any of your statements like real life stuff to like factually back up what you said is you say a bunch of stuff but it's completely meaningless because there's no factual basis you're not based you need to be based in reality before you can actually start making conclusions otherwise you're making conclusions up in the air not connected to any other conclusions in some kind of fantasy world you're making yourself
50% is pure BS
Thought I was a psychopath. Turns out I'm a sigma. Now if you'll excuse me, Im going to continue to disregard social norms while I meticulously observe human subjects until ultimately sneaking up on them.
I don't even sneak on mfers on purpose, it just happens, all the time man.
I'm here with you too on that
i supah laughed out loud on this one.
thin line between psycho -- sigma
either way kool
Funny to remember often being categorized omega.
Love it
Thought maybe I wasn't a sigma until I saw this. Hit every one of these spot on. A lot of men think they want to be a sigma, but can't tolerate being that alone or taking total responsibility for the condition of their lives.. I thrive on it. Even the bad stuff. I view it as learning opportunities and get back up.
@Thomas rename them to another lable? makes sense
maybe you are just socially awkward
I didn't understand your point.
For sure.
Don’t you think they’re trying to make you believe you’re sigma even if you’re pure beta? Xd. That would line up with agenda of certain powers. The video is literally listing absolutely normal irresponsible things of life saying it’s what sigmas do… do you feel stronger as a sigma? Are you being sarcastic and I’m thE dumb one?
#7 -- big yes. When the pandemic hit, literally nothing changed. Many of these resonate. "Remembers everything" -- that's a blessing and a curse, it has saved me from some terrible situations.
What PANDEMIC???
Exactly nothing changed for me
My wife and I have said this to each other the past year and a half. Literally nothing has changed for us. Both Aquarius and been married 30 years.
Same, you mean we get to stay home and focus on our hobbies! Sign me up for this right away.
@@sje6558 I wonder how many Sigmas are the Zodiac Sign Aquarius... I am. And the definition of sigma AND Aquarius really describes both, ya know? My girls a Sigma/Sag
Sigma Nation ALL Day and what People find weird nowadays are usually the most Logical happenings whilst Foolery is Normalised instead ….
Well said sir
@@Bloke_Box 💯
Yes.
@@Bloke_Box I love how you made insecure masculinity kind of a cool thing.
At least a thing that insecure men can find kind of cool.
Haha, thank you 🤣
I identify with everything in this video. The one thing I have changed as I get older is the eye contact. I don’t let people catch me looking. Many take it as an invitation to talk and i’d rather not engage as I value my time.
After seeing many videos about sigma male I realized this is %💯 who I am without pretending or even trying to be one of them.
You just explained n broke down my entire life n existence. Wow! All my life I thought I was weird or a bit a loof, but thanks to you now I feel blessed, peaceful n more confident under my skin. Again thank you so much
I love #14 I have quite so many jobs without any notice. Thank you so the amazing video you nailed it.
Me too hah
Same. Its not like I try and be ubrupt. Usually I quit right before I'm supposed to go in. I just weight things out quickly cost benefit and quit. I noticed I burn all my bridges to the ground.
I bet no one noticed.
@@user-sc1es4wz4g that is called "being a loser".
True
#1 is me all day. I love going out alone. I'll bust a move and go somewhere by myself in a heartbeat. I be going to bars, clubs, traveling and all that. I have a Few people I can hang with but majority of the time I like to hang by myself. Going out with others be killing my vibe sometimes.
Yes, that's true
A Sigma male wearing headphones and observing people in their habitat are traits akin to a man who use those traits in the world of military special reconnaissance, covert intelligence operations, and police/private investigations.
Bingo!
Ahahahahahahahahahaagagagagahhahhah
Hell yeah. This is deep. I've never seen a break down so spot on. I'm literally holding my headphones right now 🤣
And here I am thinking I'm off my rocker for applying everything I've read in a novel, other book, or movie.....spooky
As a sigma male, I approve of this video. Every point resonates with my being
My Goodness!
How do you guys do this.
This is the best description of a Sigma Male yet. For me at least.
Seems like this video just described my entire existence and essence with even deeper insight to things that I vaguely knew, felt or experienced. I relate to all of that.
Much of it seems weird actually, but now I realize or rather confirm that it's quite normal.
Exactly.
The sigma male bs is like astrology for men.
Just take some basic bs and make insecure people feel heard, understood, and "superior".
If you think that such a hierarchy of " men" exists, you are a loser.
@@viper_fan you are beta 🥺😂
@@alvaropablo4688 there is nothing like alpha, beta, or sigma.
If you believe that bs, you are not very smart and easily deluded.
And you suffer from a very fragile ego. Else you would not need such horse crap.
Relax buddy. You’re on UA-cam looking at a video trying to compare yourself to great qualities.
Leaving without saying a word is spot on. During the holidays at family parties I take my own car separate from my wife because I know they will be there all night. When my internal timer goes off (never the same) I start walking for the door but say goodnight everyone with a wave without breaking stride. My brother in-laws all laugh and think its hilarious because there trapped for the next five hours making frivolous small talk with there wives and parents when they wanted to leave when I did. Then you have the hour long farewells at these stupid things even though you will see or talk to all of them before the end of the week. The internal timer goes off in my head usually due to people getting drunk or talking about the same stupid stuff they always regurgitate at family parties, the little voice in my head says Im out and I start walking for the door. Headphones because people bore me and I don't want to listen to them. People watching is my number 1 sport isn't it everyones nothing like a trip to the zoo (Walmart) to be entertained. Dinner alone, some days I just decided to go to a sports bar and have lunch even though I don't drink its just nice to go have a meal and watch some games while I eat. Family thinks Im mentally distrurbed that I can go to a crowed place alone. Quiting jobs without notice yup, only two but they were high paying jobs and the little voice said your miserable leave now or you never will, I walked. Eye contact scares people for some reason women think your a pervert and men seem confused, highly entertaining but a nod or smile usually defuses the situation. Glad to have found these thought I was a unicorn..
Lmao fact
Never leave your wife alone
@@diptanuchakraborty8493 you can, you just have to marry a good one.
@@oyl23 you better marry a good one and be in that illusion and make fool of yourself
@@oyl23impractical and no logic in your statement
I think this video overly stressed the introvert part. It's not necessarily that they're introverted, it's more like not feeling lonely when alone. Being by ourselves doesn't bother us. Also avoiding pompus, arrogant or ill mannered people is worth going it alone. I don't enjoy fighting with people. It's done out of necessity.
Sorry, I'm a little puzzled by your comment. Isn't that pretty much the definition of "introvert?" I'm honestly curious now about what you take that word to mean.
@@N600LW It is. I also dont get those 14 ppl who liked this comment.
I wouldn't say it's necessity for me. It's more ok you done actually paissed me off. Then I start laying in on all the terrible behaviors. Completely wxposing the person to a degree they want to fight. Then they remember whom they want to hit. They tend to just leave with the head hung low. I'm simply not the guy.
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@Xavier Breath yep. 🎯
I’m a Sigma, but with complications. I have a personality disorder, ADHD, Bipolar disorder & some other mental health issues. Some of these enhance the Sigma male traits to the extreme, but others go against them. It gets confusing sometimes! 🤔
You can say that again brother.😉
I think maybe I'm a sigma with mild autism spectrum traits. I don't maintain eye contact well unless I'm immersed in a conversation with another person.
@@GenerationX1984 I do the eye contact with strangers but across a dinner table is unbearable (with a family member or girlfriend)and I look at the centre of the eyebrow which is a neat trick. I'm hoping to get to grips with sigmas with drug or alcohol abuse. It changes me from a sigma to a semi Alpha when I'm drunk. But I still find 90% of conversation incredibly tedious even when I'm drunk. I prefer my partner to sit next to me. if im at a dinner party I normally only talk to the person to my left
@@dethhymns Yeah, that comes as standard with me too! 🤣
14 - I've walked out of so many jobs, it's almost unbelievable. 12 - I hate small talk. Go big or go home. 11 - I don't keep a journal, but I write a lot. 9 - I am brutally honest. People hate this. I love it. 8 - I wear headphones a lot. It does help to avoid idiots and keep me focused. 7 - I have to have alone time. People can be very annoying when they are gossiping and sqwaking like a flock of birds. 6 - I've always been a fan of human observation. 5 - I hate talking on the phone. 5 - I don't ignore people in public unless it's someone I want to avoid. 3 - I used to go ghost at parties and get calls the next day wondering where I went. 2 - I do love appearing out of nowhere. It shows people how much they don't pay attention. It's a teaching device. 1 - I haven't
this is exactly my entire existing you where describing however you really learned a lot about personality so deeply you're the best ever
I have experienced that being a sigma..I have had people suddenly challenge me to my face...I give it back and they leave me alone.
I am a Sigma in every sense except I stopped my journals years ago. This was very eye opening. I think it is why I am a psychologist.
I struggle with the challenge that "Alpha" people feel with my mere presence. I ask questions and often my questions are taken as a challenge to their authority, and then they get really emotional and threatening and create havoc in my stability at the job. To me, the "alpha" mindset is extremely fragile and childish and that they should never be given leadership roles due to their aggressive attacks on anyone they deem threatening to their superiority.
Definitely not an alpha or beta. Not sure what a gamma is yet, but I’m about to find out more on that. This list pretty well sums me up though. The loner mentality, bluntness, the headphones thing, abrupt quitting of miserable jobs, and on and on. Apparently I’m a sigma. This just popped up in my feed. Glad I followed my curiosity. Well done.
Welcome brother
I absolutely LOVE sneaking up on people. I never really understood why and still really do not. By finding this content help me on my path of becoming more self aware.
At 6'4 220 lbs I sneak up on everyone and love their reaction to me spawning next to them randomly
This is weird and not Sigma like
The question is, can people sneak up to you?
@@feuerschlange6374 yes. Absolutely others like me. Lol
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I knew I wasn't an alpha, but when I heard about sigmas I was like that fits me almost perfectly. In fact I've recently learned I'm even more rare being a Sigma empath.
I used to wonder why people used to think that lm full of myself.I tried to adjust and do like them but l failed to cpy them until l learnt about sigma man . Cause honest, humility, my own rule's and self-esteem has been the backbone of my life
Incredibly accurate! Every point but number 13. I'm on the Asbergers/Autism spectrum and I HATE eye contact. it always feels like a threat and makes me instantly anxious.
Eye contact means what the person is saying to you, isn't disingenious. They're real and when someone doesn't look me in the eye, I immediately know I'm wasting my time. I'd imagine you've limited yourself to the amount of wholehearted people who come your way. Hate is such an awful word. Why not say you're uncomfortable when someone looks you in the eye? There's a bit of inferiority I see in what you think of yourself...maybe a lack of confidence that causes you to not reciprocate to said party.
@@lesliecogan641 I said I hate it, not that I don't do it. As for the rest, you know NOTHING about me. Assumption is the mother of all fuck-ups.
This is so true, I literally walked out of some of the companies I worked for and never went back. People were surprise that I was gone and only found out weeks later.
Some of these made me laugh so much. Its like I know these are weird and yet I do them anyway since they're fun for me. 🤣
This Dude just exposed me literally 🙆🏽♂️😅
Same.
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# 06 very true whenever I'm at a gathering I instantly start reading everyone's energy. And then I adjust accordingly, realizing who I'll deal with and who I'll avoid.
Omg these are all so true!!!! I never knew this was a thing!
100% straight up on the 14 list old bloke! 👌✌
Opulent satire the sigma way..
Betterment to those whom choose her (wisdoms) ways.
A small gathering of sigma sorts is quite becoming of a future now
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On the spot! apart from eye contact wich is rare you are spot on mate
"#10 - He rejoices when people cancel their plans to meet."
That's so me.
YEAH 👍
I thought I would have a label. I seem to go all over the place.
Hating eye contact, to enjoying it, to wanting to stare someone down. I am not sure if these labels have a place for everyone.
I'm in and out of social events like a stealth ninja
0:05 lol , it was the best short introduction of an alpha and gamma males😂👍🏻
99 % of this describes me perfectly. I just never heard the term before. I am definitely this guy.
My favorite memories are times when I was alone. Adventuring in the desert or mountains, taking it all in by myself.
I laugh so much because somebody has me pegged. And to the "T"
I have been this way all my life.
In my youth and in foreign countries with the military they would recommend traveling with another veteran. Yet mostly I always went alone. Carefully analyzing everything and myself. But always comfortable to do it my own way.
💯 % correct videos.
Bloke box......huh?!🤔🧐🙃😉
So on point I think I'll subscribe!
Im the type of guy who makes friends in a millisecond but prefers going out alone😂😭😭Very accurate sir
While in Germany on a tour of duty, I thought nothing of hopping a train alone to spend a weekend away from the base. I actually related to the Germans better than my fellow Americans.
I absolutely love awkward silences. I take a quiet enjoyment in watching other people squirm and stumble over their words, trying to fill it.
Ghosting a function and going out alone are two of my most favorite things to do.
Once again you nailed it. The only thing I don’t do is wear headphones.
Dude ! Have you be following me around my whole life. You took everything I do and put it in one video. This was awesome!
Never thought I would find a descriptive label for my personality.
Wrong, the sigma male doesn't call people on bullish, that's alpha. The sigma laughs to himself and makes a mental note of the bullshit, who it's coming from and how often it comes from that person. He analyses this info and decides how likely it is he will believe anything else coming from that person in the future.
Spot on! I do that a lot. Found out i’m a sig
Wow felt like I was just being described as far my so called antics… when all I’m doing is minding my own business!!! Kudos buddy on the video. Well put🖖🏾
Wow, I feel like somebody is watching me,
it definitely helps me see my ways ,
Some surprised me that wasn't even conscious of.
Wow.
#5. If I talked to everyone who needed to open up to the one person they know who doesn't gossip, I'd never get anything done
Never even heard of a sigma male before and after this list I'm like, "holy shit am I a sigma??".
Yeaaaaap!! Absolutely on point.👍🏽
I always prefer to be alone when even just walking or taking the bus to work or something, sometimes my gf wants to take the bus to work with me and I don't mind the company but sometimes it's annoying because that's often the only time I get to put in my headphones and just block everything out and have time to myself.
i rejoiced the restrictions of Covid protocols even though I disagreed with them, used the isolation to catch up on topics of science that I enjoyed but it drove my wife crazy, thank god she dove into her quilt making
😂 Leaves parties without saying anything
I’m like a f*cking ninja in the night 🥷🏼
Not 100% everything is true, but the essence of the message and gist of whole list is very relatable. Very good thanks
I always think.. maybe I’m not a sigma thing… then I watch one of these videos and I relate to pretty much everything in it
I always think... maybe I'm not a sigma thing. I may be a gamma in denial. You know, like in those videos where they list the characteristics of a fake sigma male?
They always come to, "As a gamma, you avoid taking risks." That's when I know for a fact, I belong with the sigmas heart and soul, now and always.
You don't get a tattoo, pinky ring or any other external identifier. You're a loner, meaning you belong to an invisible fraternity.
It's a brotherhood of individuals. No one understands what it's for, except the members. No one initiates you except yourself. And obviously the only way to resign from it, is to die.
GREAT VIDEO!!!💯💯💯 I AGREE ON 99% of EVERYTHING YOU SAID👍👍👍💯💯💯
Yeah everything is true except that I don't keep a journal... Never I'm more secretive than others
ha! Surprisingly accurate description!
Lmmfao, brother, you had me and Ole gurl laughing our ass's off to this one...thank you I needed the laugh, amazing work as always, love your passion! Keep doing you sir
Thank you Steven! I am glad I could make you laugh 😀
Watching this series has been like having Derren Brown do a personal cold reading. TBH, I just thought I was a bit.... on the spectrum. So many truths here. keep them coming!
Aww man lol I resonate with that last one heavy never really understood why until this thank you very much for these videos 😎🪨👌
The likes eye contract one is not totally correct. I often avoid eye contract because eye contract often leads to conversation which I would rather avoid.
I don't keep a journal, I assure you. But I do love it when friends cancel plans... most times. If my best friend cancels, I'll be pissed.
Holy Shit ! My life finally makes sense. Sigma Bros.. what's up..
Absolutely mind blowing realization that describes me the most. Wow!
A friend just told me I was a sigma male for her, I didn't even know there were more than Alpha and Beta. But for these 14 things, I'm only doing 6 of them, the ones I don't do is for me not facing confrontations like with the earphones, phone calls or ignoring people. When you don't confront or answer someone, you're a coward for me
Don't know about the 'coward' mate, I will regally ignore phone calls from friends and family but on several times in my life had no hesitation on confronting high management. Does that make me a coward?
'sigma' personality type is not afraid of confrontation, just don't seek it out. Tbh we're better at confrontation than anybody else, but also good at avoiding it when it is a waste of time. Avoiding stupid small talk or not wanting to do phone calls isn't cowardly, who says we need to validate other people's social needs.
As a Sigma I have been accessed as having the "Unreadable Look". Statements containing elements of drama incur the distant stare.
Internets fascination with eye contact is odd to me ... i dont do it personally cuz it often feels forced and makes me lose focus on thoughts or sensing other aspects of the environment. I got ADD.
But im not afraid of confrontation it just serves me no purpose and i dont care to just do it to appease social norms cuz i dont even think its necessary. U can carry conversations without having to do that too frequent
If you ever want a relationship with a women, then eye contact will be important otherwise you will be perceived as weak and insecure.
I had issues with eye contact growing up too. What helped me was taking good care of my skin so i felt comfortable with the world in my face as i look around.
I am Sagittarius ♐🔥🇵🇭♂️🌅
Extrovert, Optimistic and but I am independent like I am lone wolf 🐺 (because I confirmed Sigma)
I get blamed all the time for leaving and not saying goodbye...i get it.
I match up to most of these and have gotten infj on all mbti tests I've taken. I enjoy helping people and getting out of my comfort zone by associating with others however I could remain in solitude indefinitely.
Journal is something I definitely find weird for sigma cause I'm 100%sure they don't forget most of the things so easily.
I don't journal but I have a memory like a steel trap. I remember really minute details.
Absolutely. In great detail too !!
I do everything on this list except journaling.
My mind is my journal
Great video. You nailed it.
Lol I just discovered I’m a sigma female, based on all these facts. I came just to do research to help coach the men I work with better, and this was quite insightful. ✅
Great!
I think this is for men personalities only. Women have completely different mentality and biology
I wonder how different female vs male personalities differ from eachother. Im a male but when i meet women i try to see what group they fall into.
Totally spot on about the headphones n books....thx I needed to hear this
All of these things are not weird but perfectly natural. It's the rest who's weird, with your desire for conformance to validate your existence.
Yes. I'd work from home if I could. I value solitude. People need to understand these simple words: LEAVE. ME. ALONE.
Right on. I live on 20 acres at the end of a dead end rural gravel road. My property gate is usually closed and locked with a No Tresspassing sign boldly displayed. Only a very select few know the sign doesn't apply to them.
Weird things? Hardly! Each description is perfectly natural for me.
I've never heard of a Sigma male! I didn't know such a thing existed. I don't ever want to lump myself into a pre-conceived notion of who I'm supposed to be but I watched this out of curiosity and 12/14 firm matches. If there's an archetype that engender these habits it might be worth carving out some time to learn more about it. I'd be curious if there are public examples of people who succeed in business, relationships, health, etc.
That's because they don't exist. Look up the origin of the concept, it's literally a joke!
@@bigcconservativeguy2534 I looked it up, it is a bit of a joke. It looks like it's been taken on by the larger academia as a potential expansion of the archetypes, which is also kind of funny. I watched a few videos and read a bit on it but came to the same conclusion as the rest of the archetype modeling, that it's all basically bs and a copout for certain social behaviors while also providing a nice synopsis of people's tendencies. It's as flawed and yet as relevant as any personality test. In one I was labeled as an INTP-A. Their breakdown was excellent and did sum up a lot of my social tendencies, but it also left a lot of room for interpretation and mindless "oh that's SO me!" association. It was fun to learn about tho.
Great video. 👍💯
I just wanted to say to my fellow sigmas that yes, covidism is especially hard on us, both for the theatre and the personal freedom. And yes, i also see through this bullshit, we all do.
It's crazy isn't it? When the "current thing" rolls out like a badly scripted movie, you sit back and watch amazed so many fall for it. Then find yourself more and more isolated as it's hard to talk about baseball, when your caught up in trying to share the data you've gathered.
Convid-1984 has been the biggest psychological operation ever run on humanity- and its only successful because so many go with it.
Crazy times.
@@EvrySingleTime In the end most people just want to be left alone, so much so they will follow instructions like trained dogs to make it happen.
It will take a serious problem that completely derails their life to snap these people out of it. Something worse then connnvod
Uh.. in quite a few of the points you just described an introverted anti-social loner. Thats not the same as a Sigma. Or maybe a seriously underdeveloped one. Developed Sigmas are usually pretty socially atune and reliable because they know it benefits them in the longer run. Pity, most of the rest of your video's are spot on.
I'm that guy who leaves the party without telling anyone. The reason is that I *really* enjoy leaving. Not leaving because I want to go back to working on the next earth-shaking invention, or because I need to get up early next morning.
No. The act of leaving is its own point.
Even leaving my place to get to work in the morning could be a rush. To me, being able to leave anyone, anything, any place and any time is an obvious, basic prerogative. At a party, having to first announce the intention to leave... well, that just gets in the way.
I have done or engaged in EVERY ONE OF THESE THINGS!!! So..I’m not crazy!! 😂😂Great job!!
I really enjoy these made-up Greek-letter social categories. Yeah, I'm a Theta male. We come in crunchy & creamy varieties, have the Embalming merit badge, and are compelled to manufacture welding hoods for small animals.
When it's the end of the working day I just say 'goodbye' to anyone I happen to see. Others insist on finding and saying goodbye to everyone, even hugging them. Incredible.
I wore a set of aviation headphones most of mh high school years. I was known for them. The principal called them my princess Leyah headphones. I started wearing them mostly around my neck after that. Brought too much attention. The kind that got me into fights. Ribbing I don’t have a problem with. Direct insults and blatant disrespect or bullying will get you hurt. Oh have I mentioned what I do for a living? No. I won’t either but for argument sake don’t bother trolling me. If I were to read it and care isps and all that aren’t going to help. But feel free all you wonderful internet Rambo’s. I’m too busy and dont like most people work for free. Even if I did internet trolls are at the bottom of my list well behind human traffickers and theives, people who testify in court and ex husband’s and wives. Blackmailers Other various family members, businesses rivals, business partners, mistresses, the occasional law enforcer or lawyer and pretty much anybody who owes or is owed any substantial amount of money so you’ll be on a waiting list for awhile. Ok I lied I’m a legal courier. Had you going for a minute didn’t I? Lol. Good video though.
Gamma male
"When I was young I would sneak out of the home to go to parties... Now, I sneak out of parties to go home"
I just might be a sigma male after all 😂
BEING A SIGMA IS A GIFT I WILL 3TERNALLY BE GRATEFUL FOR!!
Story of my life. Stay true to yourselves brothers.
#sigmalifestyle
#lonewolf
This video told me exactly what I'd thought & needed 2 confirm 4 myself!!! I've been keeping a journal for decades! And I found 2 of my older songs a fan had posted here on UA-cam when I went by the recording name "Grey Angel Conspiracy"
#15: Sigma males enjoy videos about Sigma males and validating how we feel
Definitely I think something is wrong with me until I watch or rewatch one of these videos
All of these. Especially the isolation. The pandemic changed virtually nothing of my life.
Wow, thanks a lot, it explains everything.
I loved lockdowns in 2020 lol I still self iso, while everyone getting jabbed just to go to the pub I’m happy on my own in the music studio 👌
Absolutely Fascinating.........
I've got lots of cookery books .......
Cannot believe this one honestly.....
Brilliant..........
I'm so glad to learn that all these things I've been told make me a very hard person to endure, have a name. I'm 13 out of 14 (I don't journal, but I do keep a journal in my mind that retains its accuracy pretty well). EDIT: I find I am actually more Gamma than Sigma to be honest, after some research and reflection.