There are many different aspects to personality, and what is attractive to one person may not be attractive to another. However, there are some common traits that tend to be universally appealing. Once again Excellent Video by Brainy Dose!!
Emotional availability is different from having empathy. Being too available is NOT attractive, but having empathy is. This video mentions the two interchangeably, and they're not the same.
Question: Being an upbeat person most of my life and having a personality that gets along with most people, running into personal health problems (cancer) & losing loved ones, can kind of take your personal confidence away and you can become a bit withdrawn. Then people start wondering what has happened to you. It is not easy getting back to your "old" self.........
It sounds you're on your way back being the person you were or in fact you still are. Read your comment a couple of times and I'm sure you're a good caring human being - I already sent some good thoughts to you and I do believe I'm not the only one...❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@@John-rz6pr The way I have encountered it, it's usually when a person wants to use positivity as a cure all or blanket for everything. It doesn't acknowledge the inevitable pitfalls, shortcomings, etc of a situation. Many times people just want others to listen and a cheerleader hoorah may at times not be appropriate in certain situations. All those "good vibes" only people put a sort of pressure on others who have it a bit extra hard in life. It's almost like hiding a lack of empathy. Don't get me wrong. Positivity is very important and when genuine it instills hope.
culture has a lot to do with attractiveness, .So many of the ten points to me to me are a western eye view for what makes you attractive. its not global. for example In the west the bad boy, image might appeal to many especially young people, but in Africa the good boy is more popular. as for men the woman who has a lot to say, are less sort after. but I enjoy all your topics. very refreshing.
Great video! Awesome topic too! After watching this one, my self-esteem is on the upswing! Thanks, Brainy Dose! I needed this inspiring encouragement today! Stay safe & be blessed, everyone!👍👏😎
Sometimes I wish to reverse it because it attracted some very wrong people in my life, who only sought a surface to stick to, which they couldn't find in others. I have a problem with saying 'no', and that's my problem.
Not ten out of ten, no way but then again people seem to like and even respect me. I wonder why? It's normal to care about yourself in order to care about others as well. In brief: It's easy to be who you are when you know who you are not...🖖
11. A woman/man who can cook because if a woman/man sees that a man/woman can cook, that takes pressure off. 12. A woman/man who does the dishes and is willing to take the initiative to do it will let her/him irresistible.
You don’t have to let the narcissist in your life. It good to identify 1st. If you have to deal with such person, then be assertive in your communication and draw personal boundaries. You don’t have to be rude.
I have all of these traits, but I think my problem seems to be, I'm TOO attractive, and other people think they can't or don't measure up to my level of personal standards, so, they shy away. I can easily make friends on a neighborly basis, but nobody ever wants to be like close and really one-on-one friends with me. Say like drive 1200 miles to come see me in Texas, I might do for them in Ohio, but them for me, never. I'm never a close special friend for anybody. Been this way all my life and I've never known why. I swear there's nothing anti social about me
I have some of those but I guess its enough for me. I mean I don't want to act in those where I'm not good at. Because I tried something where I'm not good at and act confident at it and anyone find me irritating and annoying so I tend to be silent😓
This is great seeing this I'm not cocky or anything like that but I refuse to lay down with anyone except my God ordained spouse cause I don't want to cause another soul tie. So anyways God bless you and you're beautiful family 🕊️🎚️🛐
I have those 10 qualities people like being around me and they find me funny and I share knowledge I find your page very interesting let me start giving you more likes
These are great personalities but really lack in this day and age. Too emotional, weak minded, cry babies, lack of empathy, lack of knowledge and understanding, unhinged etc are the new personalities,
Just be yourself. Be a person of integrity. Just care...
Be yourself be you let other think what they want
@@moalston4203 That could be sort of egoistic, which is not a good trait?
@@ingmarslazdins2853why would you care what others think of you ?
It's important how you handle yourself when others can see you.
It's more important how you handle yourself when no one is looking.
There are many different aspects to personality, and what is attractive to one person may not be attractive to another. However, there are some common traits that tend to be universally appealing. Once again Excellent Video by Brainy Dose!!
An enthusiastic and positive personality are these qualities.
Emotional availability is different from having empathy. Being too available is NOT attractive, but having empathy is. This video mentions the two interchangeably, and they're not the same.
Be true to others & yourself 💯 Have a great day/night wherever you maybe 💞
Question: Being an upbeat person most of my life and having a personality that gets along with most people, running into personal health problems (cancer) & losing loved ones, can kind of take your personal confidence away and you can become a bit withdrawn. Then people start wondering what has happened to you. It is not easy getting back to your "old" self.........
It sounds you're on your way back being the person you were or in fact you still are. Read your comment a couple of times and I'm sure you're a good caring human being - I already sent some good thoughts to you and I do believe I'm not the only one...❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@@jounisyrjanen2226 Thank you, Jouni. I know deep down I am still that person....just takes time, I guess, to refocus. Bless you🥰
I agree, life tribulations do make you change. But, don’t loose faith. 🙏🏽
@@izzygee2216 Thank you, Izzy. It helps to know that there are people out there who care. I still have faith.
@@louisehans9771 God bless you and pray that you will come out triumphant!! ❤️
I never pretend to like someone if I don’t feel that way. I would never be rude but also will not be fake. Not everyone likes or is liked by everyone.
Being positive and genuine ,great qualities
i think a super empath has most of these qualities especially those who have survived toxic abuses and have become their own
authentic selves
No. 2 is good, but toxic positivity is a thing too.
Toxic Positivity..you are right.
What is toxic positivity?
@@John-rz6pr The way I have encountered it, it's usually when a person wants to use positivity as a cure all or blanket for everything. It doesn't acknowledge the inevitable pitfalls, shortcomings, etc of a situation. Many times people just want others to listen and a cheerleader hoorah may at times not be appropriate in certain situations. All those "good vibes" only people put a sort of pressure on others who have it a bit extra hard in life. It's almost like hiding a lack of empathy.
Don't get me wrong. Positivity is very important and when genuine it instills hope.
Makes sense. Thanks for your reply.
It's more important to be truthful than positive. The good thing is that the truth is full of hope
culture has a lot to do with attractiveness, .So many of the ten points to me to me are a western eye view for what makes you attractive. its not global. for example In the west the bad boy, image might appeal to many especially young people, but in Africa the good boy is more popular. as for men the woman who has a lot to say, are less sort after. but I enjoy all your topics. very refreshing.
100% I'm the one being described above.
Thank you😻😻
It's sometimes exhausting being human.🙄
Great video! Awesome topic too! After watching this one, my self-esteem is on the upswing! Thanks, Brainy Dose! I needed this inspiring encouragement today! Stay safe & be blessed, everyone!👍👏😎
I have a friend who finds the silver lining in everything. Don't know how he does it.
1:34 in, “even when something bad happens you try to find the silver lining.” Like that dudes hair line.
I felt identifícated with most of the characteristics..
I loved this video 😍💖
Congrats.. Cheers from Argentina 🇦🇷😁💕
2:50 truest .. Superpower which portrays creative intellect
Sometimes I wish to reverse it because it attracted some very wrong people in my life, who only sought a surface to stick to, which they couldn't find in others. I have a problem with saying 'no', and that's my problem.
True I’m a very passionate person . Yes there s more than just looks like are you nice to people .
this deserves more views
I agree. Thank you very much!!!
You mailed it on this one. Great job breaking it down.
BRAINY DOSE What a beautiful Video Blessings & Gratitude Amazing !!!
Love the video it gives me confident and drive to be a good person every day and it pushed me
Just be yourself! Be honest in ALL things.
Your channel is wow! Thank you so much ♡
Thank you Brainy Dose , awesome video
Thanks a lot
I already possessed some traits and try to gain the rest
Salute my dear brother
Not ten out of ten, no way but then again people seem to like and even respect me. I wonder why? It's normal to care about yourself in order to care about others as well. In brief: It's easy to be who you are when you know who you are not...🖖
Loved the video, thank you! I had not watch your videos in a while.
Very interesting video 🥰, it's awesome....keep going ❤️❤️❤️
So this video says "If you are positive you are lovable, and if you are not having a good time you are no good " yeah makes perfect sense
That's Amazing 😍❤️
10.b You are willing to take off your mask and your costume and make yourself vulnerable (humility)
Can’t argue with that man cheers
Thank u so much for this awesome video...God bless u much love ❤️❤️❤️
I believe I have a attractive behavior
11. A woman/man who can cook because if a woman/man sees that a man/woman can cook, that takes pressure off.
12. A woman/man who does the dishes and is willing to take the initiative to do it will let her/him irresistible.
I just learned I have an unattractive personality.
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#11. MONEY
Haaaaaaa. You got that right.
I have most
Except positive attitude
I sometimes behave like a depressed villian 🤣
Well… it’s safe to say I’m none of these 😂 looks like I got some work to do
I posses all these 😊❤
This is powerful material for developing better interaction and people skills.
Again many thanks for putting together this snack-size material for us.
I have a lot of these traits, but not all. I still need work on the others
Being well-mannered can also be the result of abusive upbringing. That person is trying their best to be the complete opposite of their parents.
the right list ❣️
Unfortunately, these traits also make you a narc magnet.
Because narcissists lack of love,kindness and positive enegry.That's why they tend to stalk person who possesses these traits
True that!
You don’t have to let the narcissist in your life. It good to identify 1st. If you have to deal with such person, then be assertive in your communication and draw personal boundaries. You don’t have to be rude.
Cool lesson ❤
We define attractive personalitie the same way! 😃
Thankyou ❤️😊
I have all these traits.
My best channel ever it unfolds the hidden truth about reality of a person 🥂🥂🥂
Had a friend tell me it’s my humbleness. 🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️ I’ll never understand my attractiveness.
Where can I buy these traits?
Seriously, thanks, I am trying to be more positive!
Seriously Smile more of ten Twenty Thirty . . . times
I have all of these traits, but I think my problem seems to be, I'm TOO attractive, and other people think they can't or don't measure up to my level of personal standards, so, they shy away. I can easily make friends on a neighborly basis, but nobody ever wants to be like close and really one-on-one friends with me. Say like drive 1200 miles to come see me in Texas, I might do for them in Ohio, but them for me, never. I'm never a close special friend for anybody. Been this way all my life and I've never known why. I swear there's nothing anti social about me
That's probably because people are scared of rejection, so they'll try to reject you first.
Very helpful
But if you don’t have money all this will falls apart so the only solution is having money first
First view first like and first comment
What are you 10?
@@bkm2797 what
@@knowledgedetection9142 Hard to understand why someone feels compelled to say they were first (it's pretty obvious), and it just sounds childish.
@@bkm2797 no no hahaha....actually it's a big channel...that's why..
Thanks.
Good video thankyou that’s me 😊💕
Thank you
I have some of those but I guess its enough for me. I mean I don't want to act in those where I'm not good at. Because I tried something where I'm not good at and act confident at it and anyone find me irritating and annoying so I tend to be silent😓
I have no confidence either it sucks 😔
Should develop these traits I guess 😉👍
Thank you your awesome
Yup. This made me realize that I'm repulsive AF 😅
Quite simple in truth; I only get attention when chatting ONLINE... and only BEFORE showing my face.
You just explained ME;-)
I'm some of the traits you described but I also have some you didn't mention,so can you try to help me work out why.people avoid me
A small hi from an introvert😶
Hiiii😄
@@cyamx8919 😷😷❤👋
This is great seeing this I'm not cocky or anything like that but I refuse to lay down with anyone except my God ordained spouse cause I don't want to cause another soul tie.
So anyways God bless you and you're beautiful family 🕊️🎚️🛐
My confidence and self assurance seems to rub women up the wrong way.
Wow👏💕
Its official!! I do NOT have an attractive personality. C'est la vie
Possesses all of these traits:
SLEEPS ALONE
3nov22 good Keith Stevenson
I think spirits attract as well .
Dogs have very attractive personalities 😀
Well that explains a lot 🙃
0/10 I guess I have to talk to the trees again.
I have always thought seeing diferent perspectives is linked to indecisiveness and insecurity
Not really. It's often a case of gathering more information.
More likely it's a desire to educate yourself-which can begin once you realize how little you know.
If you are rich and have lots of money then you are extremely attractive to 99% of women.
I wish i was more myself. I'd be rude and people would complain a lot 😂😂😂
Too bad i hate drama. Rudeness is linked to honesty but people wouldnt value it. People love comforting lies that fit their world view
We are the children of God. So pray to God will help ok?
Who could possibly have all these wonderful traits? I guess if you walk on water too.....
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0:14
With her back to that guy, she sure didn't find him attractive.
I have those 10 qualities people like being around me and they find me funny and I share knowledge I find your page very interesting let me start giving you more likes
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7.5 out of 10 . I need to be more positive. But I work with clowns 🤡 lol .
Well, I didn't expect much and got what I expected.
Not a nice bloke, me👍
These are great personalities but really lack in this day and age.
Too emotional, weak minded, cry babies, lack of empathy, lack of knowledge and understanding, unhinged etc are the new personalities,
unfortunately extremely negative
I am a fucking miserable pig, I see.
You are hilariously funny. Great humour, pal.
@@abicaksiz Where is the humour in this?
If you're physically attractive, all your personality traits will be perceived as attractive.
Smart peoples are more ATTRACTIVE.....but their HEART are made of BLACK STONE.,don't judge a BOOK by looking at the cover.....
Being a nice guy is not what women like these days that’s why I’m a c...
Stalkers are for sure very unattractive !!!
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Are you being stalked?
Yeah watch out for the narcissist they are out there 😢
Basically if you are a Republican.
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