Why You Don't Want Friends, Family Or A Partner Anymore
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The more I learn about people, the more I love my dog 🐶
Never went there with women’s lib. It was beginning of woke.
Dogs know things. 🐶 I concur.
@@forthedoggiesguitars2277 I have one smart-ass dog. and one stupid dog that runs into walls and eats grass.
@@sussyslurp what kind of dogs are they?
Same for me with my cat. She's gone now too.
My only peace is with God....no human on this earth can give me that peace.
So true! Amen! Forgive them and stay close to Jesus!
amen!
Amen.
That’s the answer. If Our Lord Jesus walked the earth as God in a man’s body and He was treated horribly and He is perfect. Us being flawed individuals, why would we expect anything different? Friends are far and few between, being hurt is inevitable in life. That’s the journey, you can get bitter. If you allow yourself to become a bitter young person you’ll probably never live long enough to be one of those nasty, moody, miserable old farts. Live life, be happy , find your peaceful place. Listen to Tim McGraws song Humble & Kind. Appreciate nice people you run into during your day , smile to people even if you don’t get a smile back. Give one free anyway. We will have bad days but try to always look on the bright side of life. And don’t worry be happy. Life is tough at times . Don’t let a few ignorant people that you have to deal with ruin your life. People can cause havoc in your life and make you feel miserable for days and guess what ? They go along not even giving you a single thought, they’re busy with their screwed up world. Rise above it. Listen to good Bible teaching pastors. But don’t ever idolize them , just enjoy the teaching from the Bible and remember they are only flawed people too. God bless
Amen To That Brother Marley And Other's Who Think Like Us! I Love And Trust In Yah Abba Father God Almighty In Yeshua Jesus Christ's Precious Saviour's Name Shalom And Amen!✝️✝️🛐🛐😇🌟🤗🙏🙏🙏🇨🇦🇮🇱♾️🇺🇲🇺🇲🇺🇲🗽🦅💖💖💖‼️
The need for money is causing people to discard their humanity.
U figured it out
The love of money is the root of all evil.
Yeah. Except, the thing is, without that love of money, people don’t have any love at all. At least with their money loving, you can temporarily pay them to stave off their otherwise simmering all encompassing hatred toward their fellow humanity.
money and social norms.
Not need, Greed!!
Being alone is peaceful.
❤❤Amen❤❤
I enjoy my company. But everyone is not built to be alone dealing with themselves. I have so much fun listening to music and reading and spending time with my son and my two cats.
It gets kinda boring though.
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That's bolony...we all need people.
0 Friends. 0 Fucks. Is just how it is nowadays
Narcissistic abuse through adolescence can do that to a person.
bruv
Exactly… And 0 apologies for it too.
I’m with you dawg I’ve been feeling like this lately
No such thing as “Friends” in this day and age everyone is in it for themselves. Fuck everyone.
I've experienced nothing but hatred, jealousy, backstabbing, envy and disloyalty from "family", "friends" and "partners" in my life. I learned to view people as associates and there has to be a benefit to my life or there's ZERO interaction. My life DRAMATICALLY improved for the better
Yea man
👍👍👍
Same.
“Who hurt you”
Bro, who didn’t?
@@seanthomas2083 Yes. Thanks for your service.
Can't trust anyone.
You really cant
Agreed.
Even people living with u r fake. Its all about money n status. If u have money n status people love u otherwise ur treated like ur garbage.
I can… Don’t over think it
I can't even trust myself either
I’m so tired of being hurt by every single person in my life. Every one.
My own brother stole 10k from me and we haven’t spoke in almost 10 years because of it, people are just scum these days
same
STORY OF MY LIFE.
Pretty much this.
But the government loves you so much they had to enslave you thru the birth certificate thru deception
No friends,No family,No girl.No problems.
Peace of mind
You are right. Its better to have nothing than to have with a wrong partner or friends
What is this like AA for ass holes?
Only Problem is the Heaviness of Loneliness hahaha but we're Strong, I Guess.
No support. No life. No love. No affection. No affirmation. No light.
You don't know someone until you say "no" to them. Prepare to make enemies gentlemen.
Its all about money n status. If u say no one time u will know the reality of people. I don't trust anyone now. Even family n friends r fake .
@@user-tr9cb7dn1bthe ‘love’ from them is conditional. You break that condition, you break their love 😢
Now that is what I call wisdom.
Good Grief, I told a close person in my life- I'd give them a large monetary gift... I told my family and they said they freaked out and said "You will do no such thing!!"
So I didn't & guess who's mad at me?
Right. This chick I knew for a few years 20 years ago had a secret crush on me and I didn't know it. I got a girlfriend and all of the sudden this chick starts telling all of my "friends" that I molestered her dog. Well you know how white knights are, instead of getting to the bottom of what is going on they also accuse me like they were there. Why? Because they wanted their turn on the carousel and needed brownie points with her. So most of my friends believe the shite and that is how I found out you don't need enemies when you have pretend friends.
The age of communication has been a plague. Cell phones, internet, social media. It's all been a distraction from internal growth and self reflection for most people. People are being dumbed down and can't think for themselves.
Reminds me of the opposite of artificial intelligence is natural stupidity
Communication itself is a deceptive old witch
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You got it
Dealing with people is exhausting!
When you are the biggest light in your life, no one else is gonna be able to charge your batteries like your isolation can.
I really like that!
That's right
Real truth
Facts
And Jesus ❤
Forced interaction is not my thing.
same. only if money is involved.
@@Gescobar009 sex and/or money otherwise 99% chance i ain't speaking to a person.
Especially at work sometimes ughhhhh too....
On God !
Same here.
Cringe and fake.
56 and single all my life. Can't trust anyone. No friends and happy about it. Travel when I want. Do what I want. No worries, no troubles, no stress. Tried all that when I was young and learned that it is just not worth it. People treat you like dirt then want you to thank them for it. LIVE SINGLE LIVE FREE BE HAPPY
59 feel the same.
@@garyweir2267 good for you
Agreed
I'm 57.. was married for years...now divorced longer than I was married.., 2 kids, 2 grands. Unloved and unappreciated. I wonder sometimes what was it all for?
58 and same. And don't even intend to get this far in living .
A lot of people today are either looking for an audience or an entertainer instead of a real connection. Sad, but true.
It feels like thats how most treat me; as an audience or an entertainer.
Yes. I'm an unpaid entertainer. It's over now.
Narcissists Paradise 🏝️
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I've noticed that! You're right!
It’s a reflection of our society. Liabilities, betrayers, parasites, liars, cheaters, addicts, and energy takers… are not worth the time, or risk to your wellness.
As above so below it’s pathetic
@@reedre6177 Agreed…
And, it’s really sad that the only person you can trust, is yourself.
so true they made us sick. we are tryinf to stay healthy fr.
@@mrzombie1780 I can understand what you’re saying… totally.
For me, I haven’t totally given up on people. But what I have done, is recognize that people will fail me. Some will do it in purpose and others because of my expectations I placed on them.
Nowadays, I can let people in my life, but I keep them at a distance. Nobody gets close enough to hurt me, unless I decide that person gets that close. And in doing that, I have to be ok that there’s a chance I’ll get hurt. Like I said… Nobody gets too close though.
@@scottallen5269 I had a happy life but people are nasty. I've been mistreeted too, bullied, cheated on. Robbed lol. Blamed in the wrong but Plenty of good things too more good than bad but people themselves are worse then animals. Your right people will throw you under the bus to save themselves at one point in life. I really dislike been part of the human species.
at 58 i came to the conclusion that 97% of the bs ive had to deal with in life, has been due to others, hateful, negative, actions. solution, stay away from people.
same here brother
No morality.. No integrity... No loyalty... Trust NOBODY.
this is what i come to believe, too.
My dad always said “ you got one friend you got a lot of friends “
My dad always said you will be lucky if you even have two real friends in this life. Most don’t even have one.
@@Shewhoservesyeshua so they were saying the same things lol ….I like the way my dad said it it’s sounding like forest gump wisdom 😂
My dad told me that the only way I'd ever amount to shit is if I get eaten by a bear 🐻.
"Some people have no idea what they're doing, and a lot of them are really good at it". ~George Carlin
The greatest crime we committ is pretending like smart phones arent destroying our men, women and children.
Think for yourself, life is full of weirdos nowadays talking about nonsense. In any other period of history, they'd be in a mental hospital.
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💯💣💥
Seriously
Facts..
Winner winner chicken dinner
I'm 49. Recently divorced. Gay. No kids. Parents are dead. Extended family sucks. I spent my 20's trying to make friends. My 30s having a lot of "friends" and my 40s realizing how fake and unreliable most of those friends were... Now, I have barely any friends. I have my dog and I'm damn happy. I relate to you so much
I have 2 dogs 👍
Your lucky if you get out of this world with one true friend.
the problem is, phones and social media have made it so that 'your girl" will always be talking to a bunch of guys. that crap has ruined so much in this world.
No accident the iPhone has a bitten apple as their logo, mocking the bitting of the apple in the garden.
Reverse is true too
@eddie788 The Original Apple logo also had the rainbow flag on it, and the first Mac was priced at 666.66. They were very clear in their messaging.
😮@@eddie788
Wrong girl then 😒
Waiting on Jesus to bring me home.
💯
1000%
BUT IN THE MEANTIME WHAT ARE YOU DOING
@@user-dm1xh6bz3i
MAINTAINING.
Jesus is inner State you must work hard for. . It not space or time somewhere sometime. It State here and now you work for taking by strenghth.
So sick of the gaslighting.
My hubby and i met late in life. We have as little as possible to have to do with this so called world. No friends, all family are dead. We just do life as we wish.
I got my dog, best companion by far. No loyalty in humans.
"I'm sorry you can't take advantage of me."" facts
You need yourself not others. You don’t need a partner.
Been married! Several girlfriends and this last 5 years of just me has been great!! Only 2 good friends...
@@why67152Girlfriends are only girl when you are in school. Find a young girl that you can marry quickly and if she won't marry you, just pump her and dump her.
Guys you dont owe anyone or anything around you, people have to earn your time and resources
Thank you❤
I just give what I am willing to part with forever. I stopped loaning out things because loaning leads to resentment.
@ieattofu68 exactly even if you wanted to help you cant
Ive come to the point where i enjoy my own company more than my friends because nobody can understand me like i can.
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Forreal that peace of mind is appreciated.
Internet friends
Agreed and an addition for my personal experience… the VAST majority don’t even try. No thanks. I value my life, the truth, respect and all that. Too many evil narcissists out here.
People are predictable because they are living in the Matrix.. when they come across a chosen one they just don’t know what to say or do because they care to much about what others people will think or say about them. And being chosen.. we simply don’t care ..💯
chosen one? Please can you explain.
@@Niallisticalhe's bipolar having a maniac episode
Amen
A fantasy where one believes they are a little or way more special than most. Actually resulting in even further separation from the truth. A very popular con running especially on UA-cam lately. Gets the views and likes though.
@@Niallisticalthe alpha sigma male duh
I lost my only child and 5 grandchildren to mental illness and divorce.
After I got over that trauma, I changed.
I found out I like marching to my own drum.
I don't mind people, but I prefer my own company.
I've never let myself down and I'm always there for myself!
I finally understand I am best for this world and others, when Im best to myself first.
❤
I can hardly think of any positive past memories around other humans… I’m 37 and all I remember with my peers were just ridicule, making fun of other people or me, bullying, mocking, criticism, and jokes at best. I realized by 18 there was nothing really positive or enjoyable from being around others.
Same here. I always look back on my life, and everyone I've met in any environment or stage in my life, even trying to meet others on the basis of common interests. I've always noticed that they always were trying to stir the pot and create problems, talking behind my back and sought to bring in drama into my life. I have barely met anyone in this world who did not have some sort of urge to financially or otherwise destroy me. The proof of this is that most people won't even just want to hang out with you on the basis of similar interests or even music, etc.
It's the school system, it teaches young children how to be barbarians from K~12
@@adamsnelson4689 No. They are like this on a genetic level, because they are Organic Portals.
They getting silently cut off they know exactly what they did to u 💯🐺
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Amen!!!!
Actually some people are too stupid and into themselves to realize that also.
My inner circle is counted on one hand. I am fortunate to have that many in a sick selfish world.
zero
WOW is all I can say!
If so! You are incredible lucky! And I hope luck will last. With all my❤
Most people r thinking like u. Everything is fake n transactional. People love u if u have money. If u don't have money then they will just treat u like garbage. Thanks for ur video .
Spot-on! They aren't even interested in the slightest to hang out with anyone who has similar interests, tastes or values. All they care about is if you have money and status, and especially if you are "vetted" and "respected" by a certain in-group or peers of theirs. They will then, and only then endorse you, and it doesn't matter if you are the lowest of the low.
Or if you cook and clean. Be their mommas or maids. Don’t get it twisted.
Well said!
I actually kind of found the opposite ..I can often feel a bit invisible in life..but I was homeless for a few months and lived in a tent..I found that most people changed the way they were with me and started having deeper, more empathic conversation with me
Only empathic ones struggle with loss so they learn to disassociate from ones whom display nothing
YES 👏
I feel this way, I don’t want a partner anymore. Some people suck.
This pointless nobody is genuine. I need that 90s love again.
Most people suck. Some people don't. That's been my observation.
Not some. Most.
@@YOU.VS.YOU101 I was telling my son that today. The 90s without social media was 100% better.
I can't go to bbq's or parties anymore tying to "act" like I am having fun with people that don't care. I have my dogs my sons and a cousin. God is a big part of my life. I hate going to the grocery store. I like my own company. 💯 facts your speaking!
For all of you guys that are over 60 thinking this guy does not have the age to back knowledge, you are missing out on some really seasoned advice. Learn to stop thinking only older people have sage advice. This all is so true!
Agreed...can't pre-judge, there's wisdom at all ages.
As a guy whos a couple years away from sixty I wish I had known how predatory and backstabbing so called friends and family are. He's spot on.
Most people are insecure scared narcissists I’ve seen it all been homeless for years seen how dark humans actually are and how selfish and greedy most people actually are. Family try’s to set me up for failures and then Denys it there entire lives are a fake plastic joke they have the houses the cars the jobs still the most miserable people I’ve had the misfortune of dealing with real is rare fake is everywhere
Screw family
Humans are just fake
HAVING HIGH STANDARDS IS GONNA SAVE YOU FROM A LOT OF B.S.
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And STICK to them!!!
Hittin the nail on the head. Have your boundaries. Keep your peace. But dont let all the negative experiences make you bitter. Let God be your Peace. Love Jesus more than you love the World. Keep your Heart Pure for the Afterlife.
”He that loveth his life shall lose it; and he that hateth his life in this world shall keep it unto life eternal.“ John 12:25
That's just imagination. Another way to deal with a harsh reality.
@mv8908 Imagination doesn't mean fiction. Imagination Creates Reality Subconsciously. That's why our dreams feel Real. Same principle when we leave our physical bodies.
@@_sacredseven_ that's your mind playing you tricks but that's okay.
Unless you find a way to introduce your imagination into the collective mind, you're just masturbating with thought and hence just your own mind. Coping with reality is all you got.
❤❤Amen❤❤
I tolerate people, and actually enjoy only a few people's presence. But I mainly just tolerate.
Felt.
Guys, its ok to not have friends, your not suppose to, its a feminine mindset to have friends, friends do not exist. Stand on your own two feet, it will make you better
That’s what I was saying
You're the second person to say this. I'm a woman and I feel the same, my mindset is not to have friends. It's not about being a man or woman... This just happens when anyone levels up, or wakes up, or are chosen or during a spiritual awakening. There are also many female content creators that speak like this too.
I see men around me with more friends than me!!
@ayoungeryou1521 no it's definitely a masculine mindset to stand on your own, generally speaking that is. If some woman do that's great I think they should, but as of right now it's masculine
@@Tico513right
@@Tico513no. It’s definitely not.
Idgaf anymore. I workout, play video games, smoke weed and stay in my own lane. The more time goes by, the more feral i become, and the more I want to be alone. FK the whole world!
Thats good option if other option is to be part of big kindergarten where people literally cause you brain damage by doing stupid shit 😂
Learn how to fix the things around you.
Itll save you a lot of money when you get a house. Get a friend who does hvac
i too have returned to monke
Ditch the weed seriously, you're digging yourself a deeper whole. 2 years off of weed and the damage is still with me .get off it now
@@KMAK88 lol wtf were you smoking? I've smoked weed on and off for years at a time. Im starting another T cleanse right now. The most I have is stummy aches lol. Maybe you're one of the few that are allergic or just don't get the same effects.
It does almost drive you nuts when you become aware how predictable everyone is and how the conversations are all the same .
I walked away from my toxic family..I only have small circle ..my choice..im a full time artist and I spend most of my time alone working. It's my bliss❤I enjoy my hermit mode= healing yourself..it works...
I CAN RELATE 🎯 WISH YOU WELL💜
Honestly the last four years have been telling in that we finally got to see the best and worst in human nature. Who you can genuinely rely on and who you can't. The great awakening for sure
I've been single and celibate for over 30 years. I struggled through 2 abusive marriages, raised 3 kids on my own, worked multiple jobs to try and survive, my parents and siblings mocked me and hoped I would fall on my face because I didn't line up with their church beliefs. No friends, no family, no support system.
Yes, I'm done.
She is never your girl
Its just your turn
Most people want to just fuck, drink, sleep, watching social media, and complaining about life, how hard it is.. When you ask them when you last time did any personal development course, read the book answer is NEVER..
Reading books what a cope what can reading a book really do for you lol I’ll tell you nothing
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@@reedre6177Reading could teach YOU proper grammar and punctuation skills. For real.
@@reedre6177 Teach you how to have boundaires and prey on every body else like a professional. Psychopath training bootcamp. woooooooo
Reading is very useful. For example with reading I learned a six figure programming language. Also I learned a foreign language to avoid western woman, not pay taxes, and lower my cost of living. Also reading makes you speak more intelligently.
I’ve got all these people working around me, they make snide, belittling comments, disguised as jokes. I caught the plays from the beginning and I used to let it go, knowing they’re hurting individuals. Now, I’ve realized I have to “check them up” - hold them accountable for their remarks. I’m not doing the bs either - be part of the solution, or get out of the way. 🦅
I support you ,but don’t let them make you stalled stutter or doubt yourself after hearing their remarks so much one can start to doubt oneself, as playful as them tell them what’s up highlight their jelousy be cocky for being you , look at you’re reflection on a glass mirror xyz make sure this gotta be in their presence and say wow I’m handsome/ beautiful young fresh rich and successful of course god makes no mistakes slap yourself a bit on the cheeks and look back at them and say mmm well lol … don’t dim you’re light to fit in
@@justheretoinspireyou5803 - thank you, your right….it’s about trying to make me doubt myself….and truthfully, I do at times - there’s no room for doubting?! Thank you for being a great member of Team Solutions!!!!🙌🤠🐎
Yep. "It's the pressure that holds you together". Without that feedback, pushback, they will continue trying to gain ground infinitely, they spiral. They're like animals.
I go thru this same bllsht at my job..for no Dmn reason other than these Narcs tryna smear my name and sabotage my happiness by character assassinating..it’s exhausting AF.. but I channel it to motivate me..they foreigners too..like they been planted here to divide
In the long run, the Grim Reaper will take care of everything. He will make sure all balances are paid in full.
Lord 🪐 💀
Exactly 💯 it's inevitable so why fight it?
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Grim reaper doesn’t exist and life is hopeless
@@reedre6177 All jokes aside...I have actually seen the grim reaper. He is very real!!!
Loneliness my norm, doesn't mean im shy or dont enjoy the company of strangers or those i love. Loneliness just makes those moments all the better. I love women, i love community, i just dont trust them, doesn't mean i cant have fun with them. Enjoy life, accept what is, enjoy what you can.
It’s rare to find intelligent people we can relate to…..chosen ones do way more giving and other people don’t reciprocate in the same way.
Facts!
That's the truth!
Look at what happen to a aspiring black doctor who got pushed into a lake by his so called friends. He almost died.
Proverbs guard your heart&live a peaceful quiet life🙏
You hit it on the head, when we were younger, we didn't know any better, we basically allowed ourselves to be taken advantage of because we were naive. But as you get older and have had some bad relationships, you just become better at reading people and knowing what you want.
Very true indeed
Society is cruel to the individual...
Dont become another victim of the system. All the separation and depression is by design. Overcome the awfulness with love.
Ive spent and still spend more quality time with my pets than people.😂
Always. My dogs make me genuinely happy all day every day. They are real, and people are fake.
@@minigirl6839 i hear that.i have a small female garter snake that's getting very used to me.i had one that lived four years and she had given birth.13 babies.most stillborn.four survived.two didn't make it past a week.not strong enough or underdeveloped.two made it to 6 years.one recently passed away unexpectedly.merlin and Pete.pete died.i had other pets.i also have a tiny female jumping spider who laid eggs and watches over them constantly.i have a few videos on my channel about them.pets are better than people.i totally agree 💯 with you.terry is an amazing man by the way.he tells it like it is.
@@minigirl6839 Broke up with my live in girlfriend two years ago. She kept the cat. Totally shocked me how much I missed that cat but never gave her a second thought. Straight facts.
Reminds me of a quote I once read: Animals make the best friends -- they never lie or judge
@@neilmcdougall4927 so true.the best.better than how we humans treat each other.👍🏻💪😉🐹🐾🐾🐾🐾
Since smartphones, social media, feminism had destroyed everything
Feminism has been around since the 1960s
Thank a Boomer
Agree smartphones and social media have destroyed society
@@adamsnelson4689They're talking about modern feminism though.
@@TheFracturedfuture all feminism is trouble
@@user-mc1yd9bp5x What is currently being called feminism isn't even feminism anymore. It's just a bunch of man hating group of people that want special treatment.
At least feminism back then made sense.
I feel like every video title Terry post is speaking to me personally. It’s honestly kind of bizarre, but comforting at the same time.
Yeah well he is talking about life experience the most intriguing subjects of all time,no guessing,no trying to beat around the bush to make you figure it out,he goes straight to the point and people can relate their experience with his.I came to the conclusion that like kind people have the same problems,or see things pretty much in the same light.
People don't excite me either. "Looking for you to entertain them because they have nothing." So true.
Right off the bat you hit the nail on the head. I’ve been let down by everyone I’ve ever invested heavily into. It’s made me believe that nobody in the world is worth it.
Me too
Its all about money n status. If u have money n status people love u otherwise ur treated like ur garbage.
The good thing is that you have this awareness while you're still young.
I realized it when I was around 21 but it became really grim so I doubted myself and started making friends again around 25 only to come back around at 30 (my current age) and once again realize I was right all along. I’m beginning to think I’m actually a super genius. Not even joking
@@Dylan-yv6kosame here
I'm so happy I made productive decisions about my finances that changed my life forever,hoping to retire next year.. Investment should always be on any creative man's heart for success in life .
You're correct!! I make a lot of money without relying on the government. Investing in stocks and digital currencies is beneficial at this moment
Lately i got interested in crypto but has no idea on how to go about it. How does it work please
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My circle is small and the only family I have and trust is my son . Im 56 and everything you talked about is spot on . Devoted my entire life to my family only to have my wife divorce me and my family to disown me I just left them with it and live a peaceful life now and I'm happy for once in my life .
Why did your wife and family disown you?
@@cespo77, my x-wife lied to my family and friends and destroyed my business to justify why she was divorcing me . Truth was she was cheating and was just smearing my name and everyone believed her . The truth came out later but my family has nothing to do with me or never apologized to this day . Thankyou for asking and God bless you friend.
@@sonicboom2723 Sounds like a narcissist. Sorry you have to go through that.
@@sonicboom2723 family ??? if you get my drift
@@cespo77 no just female
My fortune cookie message said "confide in someone you trust" I really had to reflect on it cause there is literally no one I can trust except God. Its crazy how far from humanity we have gotten.
Ive seen both sides of the coin with friends and family bro i understand the struggle
You would be close-minded if you knew how far the rabbit hole goes. It's not just family and friends, it's systemic, government-backed and enabled. They run the government, courts, schools, hospitals, police, military, businesses, any place that has power and control over others. 36 years and counting, life and society hasn't gotten better, the 2 biggest lies I was told growing up.
I'm still waiting, not holding my breath or holding out hope, just accepting things are the way they are.
Yes, I was lied to about pretty much everything on a very deep level at a young age and the gaslighting never ended. Once you see things clearly there's no going back I am repulsed by most people and society in general it's beyond sad honestly
@@1594simonsays Pretty soon society will implode and collapse, much like the "family" they create. I think the concept of the hierarchy is going to become obsolete, not sure if networks will replace it or not.
@@1594simonsays Time to be with some widlife
What you are saying definitely speaks to me just about everything I have come to learn for myself in this life is the opposite of what Society says it is. Most of the people this world are either liers or b/s artists that should never be trusted.
Humbleness is the inability to brag about anything every time. Now, that's real power!
Honestly I just do my thing and vibe solo most days. If positive people come my way they come. Whatever happens happens I’ll be okay regardless.
My own mother betrayed me
Mine just did too, to think you can’t trust your parents is a terrible feeling
Mine too. Brothers and sister have aswell. It's horrible
As you get older you really enjoy your alone time...im 53 years old...I have been married 30 years and my husband knows I have to have my alone time...its healing...
I appreciate spending most of my time with myself, but everyone isn't built like that.
When a woman calls it "healing", it's a huge red flag.
When people befriend me, I always take it with a grain of salt because my past experiences with relationships have all ended poorly or just fizzled out. It's definitely a defense mechanism, but the alternative is getting hurt. So it's pick your poison: get hurt or be lonely.
Yeah bro I agree. Most people nowadays fake it, and don’t care about your well being only what they can get from you. But that’s okay a huge storm is coming their way. Only the strongest will survive.
they are fake, phony and a fraud
Factsss dawwwg they only love u as much as they can use you dawg don’t let nobody play games witcha
Yeah I have nothing to offer so I got nobody haha@@mvxxderxnxx3078
I wish Terry know how relatable these videos are to me. I’m 42 divorced no kids, no friends
Started going to church!!! Preacher wanted all of us to pray for a cancer survivor so that his disfigured jaw will no longer look disfigured. I told them God doesn't do cosmetic surgery and it was ridiculous to pray for that and told them I won't be back for this nonsense again. My point Church is full of bs too.
🎯OF COURSE 🤣🤣🤣🤣JUST FULL OF NONSENSE. NEED TO KEEP IT REAL😀
They just want your money. Period
God works in different ways. It may be different than what you ask for.
The Bible has multiple accounts of Jesus healing and raising the dead to life...knowing the Word will give you discernment of false preachers and.teachers...that the Bible tells us in the end times...I believe we are in)..will be many...time is of the essence...Accept Christ
@kellywright7852 I already did except crist I just don't want to wast three hours of my Sunday morning listening to a preacher bull sh## me.
When i was young i used to care way too much about a big group of friends but as i got older i realized its pointless there's no point in chasing people when they got their own thing going on
Bro, you are young.
I can't even get home from work without my phone going off from bs
The way people compete for some kind of social hierarchy is what ultimately drove me away.... it's exhausting.
I am 62 yo. I have been through the ringer in every facet of life....this young man is spot ON....bring it 👌
Narcs don't approach. They want you to approach. They expect others to have something for them. You approach, initiate conversation, be funny, make me laugh, be intellectually stimulating, charismatic, charming, great personality etc etc
What world do you live in? They do so...they approach quietly, slyly, like a snake to charm you, then strike!!!
I’m not a bro, however I do listen to your videos from time to time. Everything you’ve shared here I get every single word, I‘ve lost my faith in people men and women. I feel angry and frustrated with society, and people who have ahit behaviour towards good people, I ‘m not perfect, I have learned from mistakes, cleaned my life up, and people are insulted and insecure about it. I’m learning to rely on myself, I have higher standards now, been through enough, to see clearly, I will keep a positive mindset, even when things suck, but I am not here to entertain anyone. Not their F’n pet! If I’m pushing myself to be the best I can be and they still remain resentful and hateful, I’m not the problem, they’re the problem. Can’t be weak for their convenience or comfort. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and encouragement.
" Let's talk about the weather today oh its a nice day today " LOL
The best thing you can do is start to feel again. Delete social media. I’m off Facebook, instagram, Snapchat. I sometimes come here on UA-cam, but hardly. Learn to be with just you. Nothing else. Trust me. That is where real growth happens
There's nothing worse than thinking you found another, Real One, only to find out after a couple of months they are just better at hiding their fakeness then everyone else.
Nothing is genuine anymore so why invest in cheap knock offs
If they don't show up for you the way you show up,they are selfish and not your soul tribe. Some people are like the weather.
I want friends and family, but I can't afford them, partly because it's super expensive. Mostly because I'm the only loyal truthful person left in the world.
Even as a kid, I knew that guys were trying to use me, but I did not let them. I was one step ahead of them. Even girls would stare and see me as the entertainment. The worst are the false rumors that are said. Even the nice girls who were friends were not always solid friends.Friends would always come and go.I worked on myself to accomplish goals, and today, I keep only a few special friends in my life.
OK Karen
There will always be users and freeloaders at all stages in life you just have to be able to spot it and distance yourself
Probably mostly real young people on this channel because the content creator is young. That being said, I’m enjoying this content as a senior citizen because this young man is speaking truth. If there is any one thing I wish I could change looking back on my long life is to not have put my heart, trust and kindness into friends, family or life partner. I have always treated people in my personal life with absolute kindness so I had an expectation that those people would honor the trust I put in them and be with me through this road in life. It didn’t happen. And my friends my age, it didn’t happen for them either. Get a dog, love yourself and enjoy life all on your very own. You won’t end up with a broken heart and bad memories. Wish I had taken that path.
10:07 I feel I am... by myself, that is. I'm pretty much on my own. At the end of the day, all you have is yourself.
As a girl, i ended many friendships, I realized Most ppl don’t have standards or hv goals. They hang around low quality ppl, then They complain about their problems or the same ppl they hang with, over and over like a broken record .
I completely understand what you're saying. I don't have any friends myself.I just have my husband and my two-year-old daughter.Sometimes I talk to family, but I keep them kind of away. Thank you for not blaming this all on women. It is people in general are the problem.
I feel the part about a partner like damn I feel at 26 I’m like fuck it mentality at this point. The more you want something / desire the harder it will evade you I believe.
True with woman for sure
With relationships in general when you stop looking for relationships it will happen when you least expect it. That’s how I met my partner 20 years ago. Sometimes it’s just best to go with the flow and you are young so enjoy all the good parts of being single like time to focus on yourself and your hobbies. Last time I was single I was around your age and I started playing guitar and doing art again and now 15 years later I am very happy with my progress in art and music. There is both positive and negatives in being single or relationship so whatever position you are in focus on the positives.
@@MelModica thank you for this kind message . Very good stuff :)