Creating A Community And Finding Purpose | Stephen Jon Thompson | TEDxCarsonCity

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  • Опубліковано 17 гру 2024

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  • @keithisjust9322
    @keithisjust9322 3 роки тому +66

    "My success is a symptom of my community." Powerful words

    • @saftheartist6137
      @saftheartist6137 Рік тому +1

      Brilliant words by Stephen Jon Thompson 👏

    • @andoriannationalist3738
      @andoriannationalist3738 5 місяців тому

      It is also why we see Whites dying of despair and not doing well. White people are not allowed to form community based on their identity. So instead to fit in (it’s not OK to be White in the West) they chop off their D’s or go gai just to fit into a socially acceptable community.
      This is why we see the west melting down. POCs you will not be spared the fall.

  • @jamescarter4836
    @jamescarter4836 5 років тому +61

    This speaks to the very core of our humanity. It's so easy to get wrapped up in ourselves and go through life blindly governed by the empty doctrines fed to us from a young age. It's too easy to forget what truly matters, and that is community, community is what matters.

    • @dmrsearchMan
      @dmrsearchMan 5 років тому +3

      I love your comments James. Thanks so much!

    • @monicaha827
      @monicaha827 2 роки тому +1

      So True. Thanks James. I wish everyone would realize this. The world would change so much.

    • @andoriannationalist3738
      @andoriannationalist3738 5 місяців тому

      Yeah? So when are you gonna speak up on the fact that Whites are not allowed to form community based on their genetic identity as a White person.

    • @andoriannationalist3738
      @andoriannationalist3738 5 місяців тому

      @@monicaha827so is it OK to be White? NO?!? Why not?!?

  • @nationalskyline
    @nationalskyline 10 місяців тому +6

    One of the best TED Talks I've ever watched. So profound and inspiring. In our quest to become fiercely independent, we've lost our sense of community, and it's had some horrible implications for society.

  • @saftheartist6137
    @saftheartist6137 Рік тому +7

    “If you don’t have a strong vital network, you will have nothing.” ~ Extremely Wise Words 👏

  • @wesellvintagecards
    @wesellvintagecards 4 роки тому +25

    What does your ideal community look like?
    Want your friends to succeed, everyone wants someone cheering in their corner.
    If you connect to people, you are always bound to them.
    Have a strong vital network, personal connections
    Alone, struggling to connect, it is important to build networks

  • @sandyjamesplanner
    @sandyjamesplanner 7 років тому +24

    A personal and touching story of hope and inspiration from an amazing person. Thank you for spreading the message to create the community we all want to live in.

  • @gustavalbericchidurocher9764
    @gustavalbericchidurocher9764 4 роки тому +5

    i think most people are so hurt they have to display toughness... they are so weak they have to dominate.
    they can't love if they are not loved, they can't give if they are not asked...
    they fear, but they think it's braveness.
    to be able to work hours and hours, medidating for days and days...
    not needing anybody?
    being free from the outcomes?
    being independent...
    but are we?
    why would we be?
    you are teaching something i'm sure there might be in all kinds of holy books out there: love to be loved. don't fear to love. thank you.

  • @saftheartist6137
    @saftheartist6137 Рік тому +1

    Very Impactful, thank you for sharing this with the world.

  • @PiaLoveBSNRNCCBTP
    @PiaLoveBSNRNCCBTP 2 місяці тому +1

    Finding a community is as simple as living anywhere and finding the people you relate to. Everybody is not going to relate to each other, but any inhabitable city can become your community.

  • @freddygill3425
    @freddygill3425 4 роки тому +4

    Wow! That was one of the best talks I've ever heard and I have heard a lot of talks! You are spot on my friend!

  • @Amaliagarciabaires
    @Amaliagarciabaires 3 роки тому +2

    It was so emotional! It really touched me and made me think. Thank you so much

  • @Th3RadChick
    @Th3RadChick 8 років тому +7

    Wonderful!! Thank you for sharing this. I do not know where I would be without my peers and my community. I also appreciate your story and your vulnerability. It helps to share such things for many others struggling through the same obstacles. Thank you!!

    • @dmrsearchMan
      @dmrsearchMan 5 років тому

      Jess, I just got this!!!! I really appreciate it your like it!

  • @iinfms
    @iinfms 4 роки тому +78

    im only here for online school....

  • @ivrie
    @ivrie 9 місяців тому

    This is beautiful ❤
    Bravo Stephen 👏🏼 👏🏼👏🏼

  • @vivacats13
    @vivacats13 8 років тому +10

    Well done! You're an inspiration.

  • @arlinegeorge6967
    @arlinegeorge6967 3 роки тому

    Yes the promise one makes to oneself helps you grow . Thank you, bless you. All your dreams come true.

  • @gustavalbericchidurocher9764
    @gustavalbericchidurocher9764 4 роки тому +2

    standing ovation here from Brazil!

  • @lisabmarykay
    @lisabmarykay 5 років тому +5

    That was so inspiring. Thank you for sharing.

  • @iVaCay01
    @iVaCay01 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks for this speech, it hit a nerve

  • @rutadelsolec
    @rutadelsolec 6 місяців тому

    Muchas gracias por compartir esta experiencia, cruda y muy necesaria. Soy un creyente que la mayoria de los desafíos de este mundo lo podemos superar trabajando como comunidad.

  • @RRsEmptySodaCan
    @RRsEmptySodaCan 4 роки тому +8

    Mr. Thompson: Read to children at your local elementary school
    Jared, 19: 👁👄👁

  • @marsellaa14
    @marsellaa14 Рік тому

    He's great inside out❤‍🔥

  • @datacentermechtalk6852
    @datacentermechtalk6852 4 роки тому +2

    This was extremely inspiring!!!!

  • @TraceyLeeDavis
    @TraceyLeeDavis 8 років тому +9

    This was great! Thank you for sharing your story. :)

  • @catheynickell6009
    @catheynickell6009 2 місяці тому

    I just read your memoir, Hotel Goodbyes. Great job!

  • @mariefarrell7380
    @mariefarrell7380 Рік тому +5

    It’s tricky as a neurodivergent person because I have trouble communicating with some people.

    • @michellek.163
      @michellek.163 Рік тому +2

      Yes, I was born with a language processing disorder, so I understand how it can be difficult to communicate, both from my end and other people's end. But to me, there is a difference between difficult and impossible. I've developed a lot of coping mechanisms over 27 years, but in my experience, having an honest attitude to seek connection with others overcomes many difficulties. If people are not willing to meet you 'halfway', then they aren't your community. Nearly everyone is going to have trouble communicating with others, but its our willingness to try and improve which is what truly builds relationships and community.

  • @luuukaain4133
    @luuukaain4133 8 років тому +3

    I admire you. Awesome speech!!

    • @dmrsearchMan
      @dmrsearchMan 5 років тому

      Thanks so Much. Sorry for the delay!

  • @MrWizeel
    @MrWizeel 9 місяців тому

    Very inspiring and INSPIRED

  • @focalpointoflosangelesandc3636
    @focalpointoflosangelesandc3636 8 років тому +2

    Thank you for sharing your story, Steve!

    • @dmrsearchMan
      @dmrsearchMan 8 років тому +1

      +FocalPoint of Los Angeles and Central California , Thanks for watching!!!

  • @negashhailemicheal472
    @negashhailemicheal472 5 років тому +1

    I am happy your explanation to listening.

  • @englishfluencystairs2023
    @englishfluencystairs2023 3 роки тому +1

    I'd like my community and its members to reflect people like you, Mr. Thompson. Thanks for sharing :))

  • @garyhiles5564
    @garyhiles5564 6 місяців тому

    What an amazing story!

    • @Buddy7550
      @Buddy7550 2 місяці тому

      Was it? I kinda felt like I didn't get the point.. or maybe I was looking in the wrong video to find what I wanted.

  • @NikkiVelazquez
    @NikkiVelazquez 5 років тому +3

    I love this so much.

    • @dmrsearchMan
      @dmrsearchMan 5 років тому +1

      Hi Nikki, I really appreciate your support!

  • @priscillawagner8520
    @priscillawagner8520 2 роки тому

    He is an overcommer!

  • @robertvictorian9166
    @robertvictorian9166 2 роки тому

    This is excellent ‼️

  • @meghasingh4267
    @meghasingh4267 Рік тому

    powerful video

  • @guledsm
    @guledsm 3 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing.

  • @rachaeltaylor4600
    @rachaeltaylor4600 4 місяці тому

    Inspiring

  • @andersob86
    @andersob86 4 роки тому

    this is so beautiful. thank you for sharing

  • @Chispa2012
    @Chispa2012 2 роки тому

    Wow, thank you.

  • @cartergomez5390
    @cartergomez5390 Рік тому

    I have tried not to connect for so long, it's time that I listen to God and connect.

  • @onlinecommunity
    @onlinecommunity 2 роки тому

    Wow, 5 yrs ago. Still relevant! 🍻🍻🍻🍻🍻🍻

  • @romaglue
    @romaglue 5 років тому +1

    Wow what a talk and life braaavo

    • @dmrsearchMan
      @dmrsearchMan 5 років тому +1

      Thanks Roma! I really appreciate it.

  • @renzcruzmabalatan2225
    @renzcruzmabalatan2225 3 роки тому

    sana all

  • @Glickan
    @Glickan 9 місяців тому

    Without a loving community you are lost.

  • @nadamostafa3756
    @nadamostafa3756 5 років тому

    very very inspiring

  • @sheenazpillay4281
    @sheenazpillay4281 4 роки тому

    Amazing...

  • @rodon.
    @rodon. 3 роки тому

    You open my eyes man I was asleep 😅💕

  • @Trendsetic
    @Trendsetic 7 років тому +5

    Wow! God....amazing life, amazing survivor. But what became of your siblings?

    • @dmrsearchMan
      @dmrsearchMan 5 років тому +6

      Edmund, Thanks for your words! All are doing well. We reconnected and moving forward!

  • @TheSoberCapricorn
    @TheSoberCapricorn 11 місяців тому

    Gorgeous ❤

  • @itsjustnadia
    @itsjustnadia 4 роки тому +1

    Amazing speech, although it seems like he is very nervous because his pacing makes me dizzy

    • @TexasBoyDrew
      @TexasBoyDrew 4 роки тому

      Please why don't you share your TED talk where you can show what's the best way to present? :)

    • @itsjustnadia
      @itsjustnadia 4 роки тому

      @@TexasBoyDrew lol no need to get offended I just made a remark, if I were talking I'd like to hear what people think

  • @markanthonio2089
    @markanthonio2089 2 роки тому

    chúc mừng năm mới ạ

  • @MaxWang-d6v
    @MaxWang-d6v 2 місяці тому

    good stuff
    \
    :D

  • @MelanatedMaternity
    @MelanatedMaternity 2 роки тому

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @CamilaSacasa
    @CamilaSacasa Рік тому

    👏👏👏

  • @Judas_LaRosa
    @Judas_LaRosa 9 місяців тому

    Basjcally take the initiative socially

  • @Luis-og3vi
    @Luis-og3vi 3 роки тому

    What is the central idea

  • @catherinemartinez118
    @catherinemartinez118 2 роки тому +1

    Okay so let me ask you one question I never was raised in a community so I really don't know what you're really talking about I'm really telling you I'm just the first person that was not raising the community I was raised in a foster home for 20 years so when I come out to the community I'm thinking I'm coming outside in God's world not a community world I don't get it I've been looking in my community and it seems like my community don't got it together and I live in New York City and it's no leaders strong leaders in New York at all their deadbeat dads and that be police and deadbeat everybody's on drugs the Washington is on drugs the world's on drugs I mean what is the purpose of life if your government and your community can't get it together and where is God and I will community no one goes and says things about God's laws and God's rules and they don't have rules in the community there's no rules they are rules but nobody goes by them because they go by the world they don't go by God's rules of the world and this is where the problem is people don't believe that God is working for them they don't have no faith

    • @LauraGarcia-tj7ip
      @LauraGarcia-tj7ip 2 роки тому

      Am I the only one that’s calling bs on this? This ain’t how the world works… but cute story

  • @elsalindskog5013
    @elsalindskog5013 5 місяців тому

    If i ruled the world

  • @Ggdivhjkjl
    @Ggdivhjkjl 5 років тому +1

    So it's not what you knew but who you knew that enabled you to enter college. How is that fair on anyone?

    • @summero-my5in
      @summero-my5in 2 роки тому

      It’s just life. You can clearly see that when you take a look at rich people and how far connections got them

  • @Jcimafranca01
    @Jcimafranca01 5 місяців тому +1

    Whats your point

  • @seallustrator
    @seallustrator 4 роки тому +1

    Pttthh

  • @paulblart5358
    @paulblart5358 2 роки тому

    Your success probably came from the company hiring a person to fulfill an ESG quota and raise an ESG corporate score. 😂

  • @oohsotracy854
    @oohsotracy854 6 років тому +1

    great story. needs to work on delivery, pauses at awkward times and made it hard to listen. Practice!

    • @MegaBrandnewday
      @MegaBrandnewday 5 років тому +11

      When a story is told from the heart, the narrator doesn't often stop to consider the ease of delivery.

    • @dmrsearchMan
      @dmrsearchMan 5 років тому +4

      LOL. Yes, it was not easy telling the world your story.However your right. Practice make perfect. Thanks again.

    • @Luis-og3vi
      @Luis-og3vi 3 роки тому +1

      like you can do better lol

    • @oohsotracy854
      @oohsotracy854 3 роки тому

      @@Luis-og3vi can you? :)

    • @LauraGarcia-tj7ip
      @LauraGarcia-tj7ip 2 роки тому

      @@MegaBrandnewday how do you forget how many siblings you have 🙃 there’s actually many errors seems scripted and in practiced

  • @jzk2020
    @jzk2020 5 років тому +3

    11 min. of useless sob stories, 2 min. of actual useful stuff.

  • @LauraGarcia-tj7ip
    @LauraGarcia-tj7ip 2 роки тому

    Honestly this is not how it goes , I call bs. It started with the whole no electricity at a motel ?!?? To the fact that I know who he claims to is not a realistic person because anyone that has been in the system knows you’re in the system and you’re not allowed to leave. This so called “community “ he speaks of is not real and if he found a community they would of made sure he got caught doing something to keep him incarcerated or would of wanted him dead for having all these desires to be better than them