I agree that this lady brings class to this panel. She gives excellent advice while other panel members make ignorant, illiterate, sexual based comments.
What part of the bible says you should date while married ? I know God even doesn't sanction divorce but humans do. ehay God joins no man shall separate and HUMANS decided to appease others when one asked for a divorce. And for those who do not believe in God, some.states see it as adultery if you were still married and sleeping with someone else. @MSWes922
Agreed! I developed a mutual crush on someone that had been separated for five months. I told her if you're interested in dating call me a year from now. They got back together two months after that convo. Separated again seven months after that. I'm thankful I didn't participate in that roller coaster with them.
@@naomizachery2303 That's your own personal view on it though. From the sounds of it this man was done with the marriage a WHILE ago and finally decided to leave. I mean she didn't catch them there a couple of weeks after him leaving. It had been a good 8 months later.
Agreed!! And for me if a man hasn’t been divorced for at least 5 years we cannot date seriously. These men will date you and still be holding on to their ex wives.
That sistah with the red hair ALWAYS speaks so eloquently. She is powerful and brings information in a way that’s truthful and palatable. She stands out in this group.
She did start off well, but I feel there is always two sides to a story. The man could truly be a scam bag, but the woman is also dressed to attract the wrong type of attention, basically looking to move on too. We don't really know the story behind their separation, and the panel was one-sided from the start, to assume the man knew the wife was going to be there and intentionally bring someone to spite her. That's not typical male behavior unless she did something, and he truly is just petty... but then again she states she doesn't communicate with him as she stated, dressed for show, and stepped up to the podium with no real question and just wanted to spite him and get attention because she was jealous that he moved on before she did?? Sadly, there are kids involved, and it's not a good lock for either, from the way she presents herself and from him openly dating when kids are involved.
On the other hand, she could be just anxious and uncomfortable with the situation, but she seems to be the jumpy type that puts her relationship out there, and no one wants that in a relationship. Sadly men don't speak out in relationships and things do build up...women always assume men are okay with everything they do because we let them get away with stuff sometimes and don't speak on them when we are uncomfortable. Then we later lose interest... but I always petition my brothers to have an open space for dialogue with their partner. Communication is key, and if the message is delivered as tenderly as the way people make love to each other...with care, it will be that much easier for both parties to work on their paradise as one.
Why embarrass your family like that? Thats still the father of your kids. Now the whole world know your bidness and the kids suffer the most. Smh solves nothing.
I agree!!! She Carries herself in a whole different light. Even the way she talks is very respectful I love hearing people communicate with not so much cussing like geesh. It shows the maturity in her .A very modest woman.❤
@@lh5567 I am like how are we teaching with all of the cussing and vulgar language. It’s a time and a place for everything. But I guess this is their platform and they have their audience!!
I was separate from my ex wife for 3 1/2 years I left the marriage. I never stepped out on my covenant. COVID was in effect when I left. Once my decree was signed I did nothing. I still couldn’t date for the first six months after that. I couldn’t fix my mind that I really was done wrong for the last 18 years of a27 year marriage. I raised the children while she went to college, e had new home, new cars every two years we had our children in sports and done well with raising them. everything has an expiration date (it’s according to how you nourish it) relationships, and life.
Yeah on paper. But when some people check out they're already gone. Witnessing it first hand right now. 8 months into the divorce process and the only hold-up is the attorneys. So yeah they're still married, but they've bern divorced 2yrs now. Point being marriage is more than paper work.
I was 23 years of marriage, the sidechick was in and out of my marriage for 6 years. I left him and they got together. They only lasted 8 months Now he wants back in my life. Told him to go to hell. How to get them is how you lose them. 😂😂
She wanted him because it was exciting to be sneaking around with him. Once she actually had him and saw all of his flaws, it wasn't exciting anymore and he was able to see the grass wasn't greener after all.
Red hair is truly wise . Every time I’ve heard her speak she always keeps it balanced . And doesn’t feed into the whole “period sis you always right “ narrative
Dating a married man is foul for any woman to do. Let him get out of his situation, then take some serious time to heal from that situation and then tell him to come find you.
I love that her husband and his side chick had to sit there while the panel encouraged the wife. I love that they gave her space, grace & volume. I really enjoyed knowing they were squirming listening to this part of the conversation & knowing that if they got up & left they would be giving themselves away so they sat there and took it 🤣
HOLLARING!!!! Mrs. Wifey was serving her ex & his side chick an entire plate of “MINNIES PIE!” OK!🤣🤭… that chick probably couldn’t sink down deep enough into her chair. Embarrassed 😂💯
Nah. The rockets and planets would have been giving their descriptions and pointing them out and giving details about downfalls. She didn't throw shade; that was mist that dampened their mood.
It don’t work like that god don’t design people for people, people pick who they want and we look for the same things in women. Yall watch too much Disney, women outnumber men by a lot so there isn’t someone for everyone. Men pick the best they can get and women do as well this woman isn’t desirable to a good man at all. Way too much baggage why would you wish this woman on a good man she clearly still stuck on her ex.
@@cedricbost2369 Please go heal. I wished her healing and self-love FIRST so that she may also be good for a good man. Comprehension is lacking or you're lashing out from a place of hurt. God not designing us for a specific person is your opinion, which you're entitled to have but I don't share this belief. Doesn't have anything to do with Disney, have a great weekend.
From one Ms. Moody to another, you are worth so much more than that level of inconsideration. Move on and co-parent with your head held high. The Lady with red hair is on point.
Being miserable for 6 months is not grounds for a divorce. If you are married and you are dating someone who is not you're spouse, you're committing adultry. Period. Marriage is not a gray area. Either you are married or you're not.
I agree. 6 months is just a tough spot. However I can't speak on the totality of their marriage. It's probably bad like most me and it's been bad from the start.
I agree 100%. The unfortunate thing is these days infidelity is common practice and embraced. It's often rationalized because one or both partners are too lazy to do the work to fix their broken marriage. I've even heard some say all men/women cheat.
@@KMorrisBlessed why would you wanna be with a man through worse times you do know worse times means if he cheats you decide to stay with him 🤦🏽♀️women do not know their worth. They only see their worth through laying next to a man and it’s a crying shame, words are spells, that for better or for worse is not the same as sickness and in health. Please stop gaslighting other women because you’re still conditioned to think there’s value in marriage. NO, it never was;men been cheating since beginning of time the millennial men are just worse men of today. They value women less.
So so messy! My mental could never Imagine going through his divorce, child custody agreements etc with him and when does he get to heal? Could never be me
Unfortunately, everyone doesnt share the same maturity level, and she took that chance by standing up and putting herself on blast and her business out there. Its not right to laugh but the entire audience is laughing as well
Yeah, that red haired lady deserves to be up on that stage by herself. I've never heard a "relationship expert" speak that eloquently. Not a single word was wasted.
The only mature mouth that opened was the last with the red hair. This was handled very immaturely. Maybe that's the nature of this show but very off-putting, watching somebody deal with hurt in real time
I felt the same way it frustrated me watching this cause where is the compassion? The guy who kept talking really got on my nerves then the please suck his d at the end ? Like didn’t the wife come up saying she’s uncomfortable? I hated this.
She's a marriage therapist which is why she gave her spill in layers of the situation and her position on the team. Remember she also said she would love to say something in Kitty's (bob braids) fashion. But this is the nature of the show. Lighthearted, straight to the point, and no filters.
The wife-red braids (sorry not sure of your name) you’re bad to the bone and the brother next to you with the beard. You two should start a podcast from the woman & men perspective. Not knocking the other guys but your wisdom, maturity and awareness is awakening!
@cedricbost2369 She doesn't control the decisions her husband made. Miss Kitty also said not to internalize the choices and she should focus on herself. Peace
Bruh the wife throwing hell of shade in the mic. Ion understand how the new chick ain’t have to use to the bathroom or could sit there this is so embarrassing for all parties envolved
What’s so embarrassing about. The wife there half naked with a female. Side chick winning. She going home with the man she came with. The man she loves. So why be embarrassed she should have stood up and said I’m here and what. 😂 can you have the kids dropped off to his house at 8am tomorrow we’re going to six flags as a family
4:56 This guy I was really feeling told me I would make the perfect side chick. I immeditly cut him off. NOW, he's still looking for love while somebody else found a wife in me and out a ring on it. Never settle to be less than what you are
@@pryese7 so we’re just gonna overlook the fact that he is still married to this lady????? if you’re bold enough to be with another woman and you’re still married then you’re bold enough to be embarrassed when you’re called out on it
Back in the day when a married couple separated they separated to keep from getting a divorce some time apart they come back together not for you to go and start a whole nother relationship when you can't even work the legal one out
Child that's not true. They separated and didn't divorce because they couldn't afford a divorce and so both would be in other relationships and even have other kids outside of their spouse whom they separated from. Sometimes they would reconnect once they got real old.
@@filmadcamp1512 ‼️‼️‼️‼️ exactly...they separated as a bootleg divorce n it's cheaper to keep her...they separated to go live separate lives ..it's always been the cheat code pun very much intended
@6:43 IN MY OPINION people wonder outside of the marriage first until because they're not ready to face the separation. And want to fill that spot before they leave em so they can fill fulfilled.
@@UnpopularAdvisor I was married to my ex for 25 yrs his mistress was so bold she would come with him to our divorce hearings. And peep this those two jackasses would dress alike to come to court 🤔
@@Catturner2284 I’ve experienced something similar.. they only do shit like that to get a reaction out of you.. when you handle your business and pay them dust.. they’re left to face their own mess.. I can’t stand people like that.. imo mainly women who don’t respect other women
@@UnpopularAdvisor He made a mockery outta himself bc our daughter had to witness that mess. But Karma is a B bc after five years of me being single, free, unfazed, and happy. They found out they were brother and sister 😇 (Loooong story) God is Good 🌟
All the men in the comments section sympathizing with the “alleged cheater” y’all are the problem. I’ve never understood what’s the point of a separation ; it’s not to see other people but work on yourself and the relationship “ you wanna see other people then simply end the relationship! If he’s been with the side chick way before and kept denying until they finally stepped out, why would y’all still want to see him as a victim?😒
@@donkrider72capriceI bet if this was a woman cheating you wouldn’t say that. He could have defended himself but he sat with his sidechick not giving an ish!
So sorry that happened to her. And the fact that she’s talking about it like he hasn’t been gone for 6+ months lets me know she hasn’t quite accepted what has happened. She needs support through trauma therapy and wise counsel. She has to process and accept that the marriage is over. He’s been cheating for years - the marriage has been over. He also needs therapy because he is very messy. with the manner in which he went abt this.
Cause 6-8 months he probably been dating that woman and just cause she saw him with her she felt some type of way. The fact she had to say something was petty 😂. 6-8 months tho….be fr, buddy been over you. He just talk to you cause of them kids unless you still letting him smash
6 months isn't a long time unless you are in high school. She's created a life with this man and shares children with him. She needs more time, which is normal.
@@mfrye0227 I agree 6 months is not a long time, but she said he’s been cheating with this same girl for years; and now he’s gone to be with the girl. I’m not saying she can’t still grieve, I’m just saying she has to accept what has happened for what it is. You can accept the death of the relationship and still grieve it.
Legally the term of seperation/seperated in Canada is that prior to divorce if wife and husband have decided to be separated this means you have twelve months to work it out if in 6 months you know it is not possible, you are still responsible for the children, the household, the bills as you are legally married. Separation does not give you the right to seek and be in another relationship until you are legally divorced. And ladies, if you meet a man that says he is seperated please don't date him. Men do not seek divorce, very small probability. At times thrf wife is not aware, it is a reason to have a side chick on the side.
Well, my husband decided he didn’t like being married so he decided drugs and the streets were for him not me. He wanted the divorce, then refuses to sign the divorce papers. It’s been years! Well, I met someone at work and now he is my boyfriend. WE want to get married, but we can’t because my husband is refusing to sign his papers. So! I think that yes! I do have the right to go on with my life! If I have to leave the country and marry my boyfriend, I will, if it comes to that! But I don’t think it’s fair, he didn’t want me, but wants to stay married to me. It doesn’t work that way!
@@MrsOrtiz-m9yThere are always exceptions to the rules so I am happy you found real love and wish you the best. This also going to the person’s point that majorly men do not want to get divorced… even if they don’t want you they are territorial and do not want anyone else to have you AND do not want to be seen as a failure. Ridiculous but true.
@@MrsOrtiz-m9y🤦🏾♀️ sounds like someone I know and he the one cheated on her. Getting a lawyer tends to be expensive to do it so this happens more then people want to admit. They really should make it easier to do when y'all been living apart for so long it's been 10years for the person I know
Not necessarily true. When i got separated, we had lawyers. So when we were doing the visitation stuff and other things etc etc. The lawyers both put in the paper work, that we now could date as if we were not married. Of course, that was 1 year after separating. In the Carolinas, you've to be legally separated for a yr prior to getting divorced.
Ive been BETRAYED. Not a good place. I got over it a long time ago. I didnt date or think about dating for a entire year. I got to learn myself & strengthen myself.
Within the 1st minute, I thought the dude that stood up on stage and the woman next to him, were the husband and side chick. He also disappeared for a minute and this was very confusing. I don't know these people lol😂
Lawd, that was messy!!😩😩 The cussing out the cheater got from side piece when they got back to the car!!🤣🤣She couldn’t just get up and walk out of the show.
Wow! The lady with the red braids! Sis! That was powerful what you said. Please write a book! Create a podcast. More people need to hear what you said. Wow! Applause 👏 please!
I know real people like this. When the wife finds out about the side chick he leaves because he's not mentally an adult. He was always a cheater and will continue to cheat because he's broken.
@ that’s quite possibly the dumbest stance I’ve ever heard and quite possibly the most toxic. Just because someone is acting like a clown does not mean you have to join the circus.
@ & they all paid for it in one way or another. and realized that wasn’t the way to go. most of the time they were in a waiting period of God and they disobeyed. the main people that did that were Abraham and his wife told him to and it was a pain in her side after, and solomon and if you read the story we all know how that went. Let’s not pick and chose and confuse the truth with sin. A commandment is still a commandment even when we break them.
@evolonten Abraham: Had multiple wives and concubines Jacob: Had four wives and 13 children Esau: Had three wives King David: Had at least eight wives Solomon: Had 700 wives and 300 concubines Elkanah: Had multiple wives Cain's son Lamech: Had two wives Moses: Had two wives Let's not forget that Jesus himself was born from sin
Idk, I know someone who was the side chick who became the main chick and the man got heartbroken when the side chick turned main chick left him. He obviously wanted something serious and looked at her more than a good time. I do believe how you meet them is how you lose them.
Has nothing to do with her leaving and more to do with his ego. He had issues prior if the relationship was built like that. More than likely, the side chick didn't think being a wife would mean having the same experience as the prior wife. She's a dodo bird!
Thank you, lady with the red hair for bringing some dignity to this podcast.
I agree that this lady brings class to this panel. She gives excellent advice while other panel members make ignorant, illiterate, sexual based comments.
I believe she’s the only one on their that’s married as well.
Exactly she shouldn’t be on that panel again
I see what Tony G has been saying all along. Thank goodness for Kittie.
The gentleman in the far right is married as well.
That woman is hurting. Where is the mature advice? Thank God for the two married people on that panel.
Honestly what the hell was this
Yes the first man that spoke !!kept making this a joke and speaking in a distasteful,childish manner ,gosh insane no
Which two are married? There are questions that should've been asked in order to give the best advice.
I would fall asleep without the jokes
What was the point of having Dr. Cheyenne Bryant on the panel... and not give her the microphone???
I'm against adultery, so dating a married man is a NO.
Actually it's not .... read the Bible correctly
What part of the bible says you should date while married ? I know God even doesn't sanction divorce but humans do. ehay God joins no man shall separate and HUMANS decided to appease others when one asked for a divorce. And for those who do not believe in God, some.states see it as adultery if you were still married and sleeping with someone else. @MSWes922
@MSWes922 Clearly you haven't either. Please repent Christ is coming soon.
Facts,
@@MSWes922man you guys twist the bible whatever way
We only needed the woman with the red hair to speak 🗣️ so mature and full of wisdom ❤
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Thank you! Bc the girl in the burgundy sounded ignorant
I don’t play with married people!
If you ain’t divorced for at least a year, we have nothing to talk about
Agreed! I developed a mutual crush on someone that had been separated for five months. I told her if you're interested in dating call me a year from now. They got back together two months after that convo. Separated again seven months after that. I'm thankful I didn't participate in that roller coaster with them.
Exactly 💯
Same with people with toddlers
Like sir go home!😒
@@naomizachery2303 That's your own personal view on it though. From the sounds of it this man was done with the marriage a WHILE ago and finally decided to leave. I mean she didn't catch them there a couple of weeks after him leaving. It had been a good 8 months later.
Agreed!! And for me if a man hasn’t been divorced for at least 5 years we cannot date seriously. These men will date you and still be holding on to their ex wives.
@@r.j.w7924it sounds like he left after she found out, because they were together for a long time, since 16, he was in the wrong either way
That sistah with the red hair ALWAYS speaks so eloquently. She is powerful and brings information in a way that’s truthful and palatable. She stands out in this group.
I love her wisdom. There is a silence whenever she speaks because people love the way she process situations and it evokes in her delivery
💯 no cap
She did start off well, but I feel there is always two sides to a story. The man could truly be a scam bag, but the woman is also dressed to attract the wrong type of attention, basically looking to move on too. We don't really know the story behind their separation, and the panel was one-sided from the start, to assume the man knew the wife was going to be there and intentionally bring someone to spite her. That's not typical male behavior unless she did something, and he truly is just petty... but then again she states she doesn't communicate with him as she stated, dressed for show, and stepped up to the podium with no real question and just wanted to spite him and get attention because she was jealous that he moved on before she did?? Sadly, there are kids involved, and it's not a good lock for either, from the way she presents herself and from him openly dating when kids are involved.
On the other hand, she could be just anxious and uncomfortable with the situation, but she seems to be the jumpy type that puts her relationship out there, and no one wants that in a relationship. Sadly men don't speak out in relationships and things do build up...women always assume men are okay with everything they do because we let them get away with stuff sometimes and don't speak on them when we are uncomfortable. Then we later lose interest... but I always petition my brothers to have an open space for dialogue with their partner. Communication is key, and if the message is delivered as tenderly as the way people make love to each other...with care, it will be that much easier for both parties to work on their paradise as one.
Yasss. Her and the man next to her in the black cap could have their own show
Kitty’s face card is LETHAL she’s stunning 😌😌
She’s gorgeous and intelligent. Kitty is literally a diamond in the rough ❤
Yes she’s gorgeous and well spoken not too many women like her !!
GORGEOUS!
She is stunning inside and out.
I agree I couldn’t stop staring ❤
The side chick needs to keep that same energy when someone come snatch him from her!
Because it will definitely come back to her it’s all fun and games messing around with a married man into that married man becomes your husband
Her side position already open...
Trust and believe me, he’s definitely going to be with a new chick. She will see
@@Mllascelles1 sure is
This is y'all motto. Y'all hate to believe that ppl move on to someone else and actually can be happy n content.
“Bet you ain’t no this show was finna be about u”😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
iHollered!!! 😂😂😂😂
Igggggaaaaa
He is still married
I wish the wife pointed him out . I was waiting for that camera to zoom in on the cheaters
Nuh why give them publicity
They've been in the shadows, that's exactly where they should remain but we gonna talk about them and Kiki tho 😊
That showed class.
Same!!!!
Why embarrass your family like that? Thats still the father of your kids. Now the whole world know your bidness and the kids suffer the most. Smh solves nothing.
You only heard her side of the story.
The lady with the red hair is no joke!!!!!! She speaks as beautifully as she is! Thank you for bringing it straight with no chaser!
Yes,
Always! That's Kitty
Is red hair or brown
She's a Trump supporter
@@canisaysomething2082 SO 🤷🏾♂️
Eh...she says plenty of eloquently stated nonsense too lol.
Kitty is too intelligent for this group she can start her own conversation and have just as many or more views.❤
I agree!!! She Carries herself in a whole different light. Even the way she talks is very respectful I love hearing people communicate with not so much cussing like geesh. It shows the maturity in her .A very modest woman.❤
@@IamkeonnashauntaeI agree….they are to vulgar!!!
@@lh5567 I am like how are we teaching with all of the cussing and vulgar language. It’s a time and a place for everything. But I guess this is their platform and they have their audience!!
Agreed
I think she's more mature and self aware than the others
100000000000 percent agree
Separated = Married
Say IT AGAIN!!!!
Exactly
I was separate from my ex wife for 3 1/2 years I left the marriage. I never stepped out on my covenant. COVID was in effect when I left. Once my decree was signed I did nothing.
I still couldn’t date for the first six months after that. I couldn’t fix my mind that I really was done wrong for the last 18 years of a27 year marriage. I raised the children while she went to college, e had new home, new cars every two years we had our children in sports and done well with raising them. everything has an expiration date (it’s according to how you nourish it) relationships, and life.
@@amandanxala2580bingo
Yeah on paper. But when some people check out they're already gone. Witnessing it first hand right now. 8 months into the divorce process and the only hold-up is the attorneys. So yeah they're still married, but they've bern divorced 2yrs now. Point being marriage is more than paper work.
Kitty's emotional intelligence is WOW! I need to see her podcast
Kitty’s response was very necessary. The only one that gave a damn!
“Thank You!” for sharing
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Point him out sis!🤣
Right 🙃
Yesssssssss my ass would have. There he gooooooooooo.
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I was waiting and hoping they did😂
NO!!
I was 23 years of marriage, the sidechick was in and out of my marriage for 6 years.
I left him and they got together. They only lasted 8 months
Now he wants back in my life. Told him to go to hell.
How to get them is how you lose them.
😂😂
Never understood why folks who leave their spouse for the “other” person….expects those relationship to last 🤦🏽♂️
Omg.what bout the ones that murder the wives for the side chick like what happens after hmmm
Praying for you both and let the Word of God/Teachings of Jesus lead you. 🙏🏽
She wanted him because it was exciting to be sneaking around with him. Once she actually had him and saw all of his flaws, it wasn't exciting anymore and he was able to see the grass wasn't greener after all.
@@EpicMoments-g1w she found out how boring he was too. He didn't want to do nothing and is / was moody as hell.
Red hair is truly wise . Every time I’ve heard her speak she always keeps it balanced . And doesn’t feed into the whole “period sis you always right “ narrative
Please tell me who she is🥺🥺🥺I need to hear more from her🫶🫶🫶 listening to her speak really touched my heart‼️‼️🥰🥰🥰🥰
Dating a married man is foul for any woman to do. Let him get out of his situation, then take some serious time to heal from that situation and then tell him to come find you.
I love that her husband and his side chick had to sit there while the panel encouraged the wife. I love that they gave her space, grace & volume. I really enjoyed knowing they were squirming listening to this part of the conversation & knowing that if they got up & left they would be giving themselves away so they sat there and took it 🤣
100% 😂
Yess👏🏽
Forget shade the wife throwing rockets and planets 😂😂😂i love it
Okkkkkkkkkkk the side chick ain’t saying ishhhhhhh smh ain’t no mf way
HOLLARING!!!! Mrs. Wifey was serving her ex & his side chick an entire plate of “MINNIES PIE!” OK!🤣🤭… that chick probably couldn’t sink down deep enough into her chair. Embarrassed 😂💯
😂
An avenger destroying the city!!!
Nah. The rockets and planets would have been giving their descriptions and pointing them out and giving details about downfalls. She didn't throw shade; that was mist that dampened their mood.
Ms. Moody is gorgeous, I wish her healing and self love and that the man made specifically for her, finds her.
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It don’t work like that god don’t design people for people, people pick who they want and we look for the same things in women. Yall watch too much Disney, women outnumber men by a lot so there isn’t someone for everyone. Men pick the best they can get and women do as well this woman isn’t desirable to a good man at all. Way too much baggage why would you wish this woman on a good man she clearly still stuck on her ex.
@@cedricbost2369 Please go heal. I wished her healing and self-love FIRST so that she may also be good for a good man. Comprehension is lacking or you're lashing out from a place of hurt. God not designing us for a specific person is your opinion, which you're entitled to have but I don't share this belief. Doesn't have anything to do with Disney, have a great weekend.
From one Ms. Moody to another, you are worth so much more than that level of inconsideration. Move on and co-parent with your head held high. The Lady with red hair is on point.
@@dahaominemoody9429 Agreed and that's Kitty she and Tripp are always on point.
The red hair lady is speaking the truth 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
💯💯💯💯💯🥺🥺🥺🥺
Felt everything she was🏁🏁🏁
She is brilliant
Always
Always
The wife has the ball in her " court"!!! Hope she realizes it.
Facts!!
Yes sir!! She can sue the side chick too for alienation of affection. 😂😂 Get paid sis!!
@tashahallum2347 I was just about to say this sue her ass too 😂😂
Kitty should’ve been the only one speaking on this question, being that she’s the only one married. Which makes sense with her profound statements.
Being miserable for 6 months is not grounds for a divorce. If you are married and you are dating someone who is not you're spouse, you're committing adultry. Period. Marriage is not a gray area. Either you are married or you're not.
lol What? If miserable get tf away from that man. What’s wrong with women and marriage. DIVORCE IMMEDIATELY
I agree. 6 months is just a tough spot. However I can't speak on the totality of their marriage. It's probably bad like most me and it's been bad from the start.
Don't get married if you can't go through for better or for worse and in sickness and in healthy. Yall don't value marriage and it shows💯
I agree 100%. The unfortunate thing is these days infidelity is common practice and embraced. It's often rationalized because one or both partners are too lazy to do the work to fix their broken marriage. I've even heard some say all men/women cheat.
@@KMorrisBlessed why would you wanna be with a man through worse times you do know worse times means if he cheats you decide to stay with him 🤦🏽♀️women do not know their worth. They only see their worth through laying next to a man and it’s a crying shame, words are spells, that for better or for worse is not the same as sickness and in health. Please stop gaslighting other women because you’re still conditioned to think there’s value in marriage. NO, it never was;men been cheating since beginning of time the millennial men are just worse men of today. They value women less.
No. Not dating a married man even separated. It is messy and an emotional suicide mission
And even after it can still be messy trust.
So so messy! My mental could never
Imagine going through his divorce, child custody agreements etc with him and when does he get to heal?
Could never be me
That’s with most men.
This lady shared her personal situation and these fools up there laughing. What's going on?!?!?
Literally. That was SO WEIRD
It was to lighten the mood first.
She decided to share her personal information to everyone. Women don't this crap on social media daily. They love the attention even if it's negative.
@@huggy68trauma makes you overshare
Unfortunately, everyone doesnt share the same maturity level, and she took that chance by standing up and putting herself on blast and her business out there. Its not right to laugh but the entire audience is laughing as well
Yeah, that red haired lady deserves to be up on that stage by herself. I've never heard a "relationship expert" speak that eloquently. Not a single word was wasted.
Kitty must be a psychology major. She is always so eloquently spoken and breaks things down so you understand and can process it with comprehension
She is very wise!
She is a therapist
Wuts the name of the podcast so I can follow her
@taniellej2433 their podcast is called tonight's conversation and she has a you tube page called talk to me kittie
@ thank u
The only mature mouth that opened was the last with the red hair. This was handled very immaturely. Maybe that's the nature of this show but very off-putting, watching somebody deal with hurt in real time
I felt the same way it frustrated me watching this cause where is the compassion? The guy who kept talking really got on my nerves then the please suck his d at the end ? Like didn’t the wife come up saying she’s uncomfortable? I hated this.
I agree.
She's a marriage therapist which is why she gave her spill in layers of the situation and her position on the team. Remember she also said she would love to say something in Kitty's (bob braids) fashion. But this is the nature of the show. Lighthearted, straight to the point, and no filters.
Totally agree. It was distasteful!
Who is she?
Lady w/ the red boho braids was SPITTING
That's kitty
Always!! ❤
I wish my sis all the best. Rejection is protection, even though it hurts look to the light. Your kids stepdaddy is on his way 🥰🥰🥰🥰.
❤❤❤❤❤
Facts❤❤❤❤❤❤
they've been separated for awhile and he's been with the other woman. he has moved on but the divorce isn't finalized.
Facts
Right cuz karma is real for him and the side piece 💯
The grown woman with the red hair should have her own channel. I love her mindset 🙏❤️🙏
The wife-red braids (sorry not sure of your name) you’re bad to the bone and the brother next to you with the beard. You two should start a podcast from the woman & men perspective. Not knocking the other guys but your wisdom, maturity and awareness is awakening!
Kitty needs her own podcast, to write a book and speaks diamonds so eloquently.
She has one
@@playbunny25ure
What is it? Where? What's her full name?
On UA-cam .Talk To Me Kittie. Her name Kittie Rose
@@playbunny25ure
THANK YOU!
@nitareed4088 . You welcome
The lady in the white sweater gave the best answer............
Yeah she intelligent the others are young and are the new day and age women mindset .
The men too
Miss. Kitty spoke 💯 truth.
I was waiting for her and man sitting to her right to speak. They both are very level-headed.
🙏🏽✅💯
EVERY TIME!!! 💯 ❤
How is that truth?? Yall separated for 6-8 months shorty is OVER MOVE ON, got get you big back in the gym maybe you won’t lose your next man
@cedricbost2369 She doesn't control the decisions her husband made. Miss Kitty also said not to internalize the choices and she should focus on herself. Peace
Dating a married man is insane . I will never understand it for the girls😫.
2:12 NO! Separated is MARRIED!!!
Ms. Kitty is what women need. She be spitting facts facts facts….
He is a cheater because he is still legally married and he has been cheating with this same women for years.
Sounds like my ex husband, but it’s not him yall 😂
*woman singular "women" plural
And the moment he has her without being married he WILL cheat on the new girl.
any man or women that has a side or main is a red flag i stay away frm women like that i done been done smoked every body
Bruh the wife throwing hell of shade in the mic. Ion understand how the new chick ain’t have to use to the bathroom or could sit there this is so embarrassing for all parties envolved
Nah she couldn’t get up bc folks is waiting to look and see who it is. 😂😂😂
Nope, she couldn’t. Cameraman was itching to put that spotlight on whoever got up!😂😂😂
What’s so embarrassing about. The wife there half naked with a female. Side chick winning. She going home with the man she came with. The man she loves. So why be embarrassed she should have stood up and said I’m here and what. 😂 can you have the kids dropped off to his house at 8am tomorrow we’re going to six flags as a family
She was on a mission. She just wanted to shade those two.
*involved
4:56 This guy I was really feeling told me I would make the perfect side chick. I immeditly cut him off. NOW, he's still looking for love while somebody else found a wife in me and out a ring on it. Never settle to be less than what you are
That’s why u can’t go in a marriage because u want to feel a void that’s missing. That’s a no no no
Well this is what you call real messy.
This is real life. My actual family. And yes….messy 🫠🫠
She is super messy, she is on a revenge tour and it will end horrible for her.
When you dig a grave for an enemy...dig two
@@pryese7false buddy but thanks for your comment
@@pryese7 so we’re just gonna overlook the fact that he is still married to this lady????? if you’re bold enough to be with another woman and you’re still married then you’re bold enough to be embarrassed when you’re called out on it
No it’s not messy. We need more of calling people out and to the floor. Stop okaying the bs.
Back in the day when a married couple separated they separated to keep from getting a divorce some time apart they come back together not for you to go and start a whole nother relationship when you can't even work the legal one out
Child that's not true. They separated and didn't divorce because they couldn't afford a divorce and so both would be in other relationships and even have other kids outside of their spouse whom they separated from. Sometimes they would reconnect once they got real old.
@bigdaddyromeo9631 exactly‼️‼️‼️ if you stepped outside of the marriage, then it only means you already had your foot out the door.
@@filmadcamp1512 ‼️‼️‼️‼️ exactly...they separated as a bootleg divorce n it's cheaper to keep her...they separated to go live separate lives ..it's always been the cheat code pun very much intended
Baby there are people who have been separated for decades with no intention to get back together. At all. Lol
@@RayLaw89That's called a "poor man's divorce", which is different from a legal separation
This is serious for this woman.. i want the Bearded Man to speak...
Absolutely ❤
@6:43 IN MY OPINION people wonder outside of the marriage first until because they're not ready to face the separation. And want to fill that spot before they leave em so they can fill fulfilled.
Feel*
Wander not wonder
I actually agree..!!!
The woman with the red hair is SPEAKING! Wow. Impressive.
The one with the red hair I love her logic
Why can’t a man who been separated 6-8 months move on??
This why people snap. Wait til the marriage is over. 🙄
Babeeeeeyyyyy!!!!!
Very true! When people do snap and someone gets hurt or unalived, judges usually tell the cheater that they created the perfect storm.
@@205inoucme it’s laws on the books that allow spouses to unalive people cheating with their spouse🙄….they’re old laws but they exist in some states.
Big facts
Nope. People snap because of they don't have control of their emotions. ✨️😐💛
Love me some Kitty! She has a moral compass ❤
And she NEVER GOES TO THE LEFT GETTING REAL GHETTO OR JUDGING THE PERSON SPEAKING
The guy leading the discussion was awful and disgusting.
I agree
Childish and ignorant
Chileeeeeeeeee imagine being the chic with the dude at this show smh so embarrassing 😳
They're usually not‼️
@@Catturner2284 definitely, typically never have remorse.. sadly this is A LOT of women
@@UnpopularAdvisor I was married to my ex for 25 yrs his mistress was so bold she would come with him to our divorce hearings. And peep this those two jackasses would dress alike to come to court 🤔
@@Catturner2284 I’ve experienced something similar.. they only do shit like that to get a reaction out of you.. when you handle your business and pay them dust.. they’re left to face their own mess.. I can’t stand people like that.. imo mainly women who don’t respect other women
@@UnpopularAdvisor He made a mockery outta himself bc our daughter had to witness that mess.
But Karma is a B bc after five years of me being single, free, unfazed, and happy.
They found out they were brother and sister 😇 (Loooong story)
God is Good 🌟
Every dog have their day. It’s a way to do things
THIS COMMENT!
We still don’t know the other side of the story
It's not what u do it how u do it! Period 😮...
@madslasher18 True. But generally speaking.
Toxic Podcast!
That it is 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 But it’s so entertaining 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
This generation is doom
It’s so ghetto. That first bird clearly knows nothing about longterm FUNCTIONAL relationships… talmbout some miserable for 6 measly months.
Definitely! It’s a reflection of the minds of people in the community and dating world. There is no substance or growth only sex and ignorance.
The woman with red hair is so beautiful. And I agree with what she said 💯
Too much joking on the panel for a raw situation. Glad for Kitty's input. Prayers for healing and happiness for sis.
Kitty is so eloquent when she speaks omg!!! So anointed
All the men in the comments section sympathizing with the “alleged cheater” y’all are the problem. I’ve never understood what’s the point of a separation ; it’s not to see other people but work on yourself and the relationship “ you wanna see other people then simply end the relationship! If he’s been with the side chick way before and kept denying until they finally stepped out, why would y’all still want to see him as a victim?😒
But you don’t know the situation so how are you judging him lmao
@@donkrider72capriceI bet if this was a woman cheating you wouldn’t say that. He could have defended himself but he sat with his sidechick not giving an ish!
Thank you because people are fools and delusional 💯
You don’t think she got a man ? 😂ya always want to act dumb that’s the issue . She said she knew he had a girlfriend
@ She did not say that. She said he had a sidechick almost the entire time, but she only recently found out about it
I know damn well MLK ain’t take a bullet for this shit.
I think about this every day 😂
Right!
What does MLK have to do with this? Clearly you misunderstood his messaging…..
He was a cheater too! Ijs
This definitely wasn’t in that dream he had.
Kittie be over them too😂😂 her eyes and face aint telling no lie😂😂😂
This panel would be so much better without Kita & dude in the middle
Her best validation would have been identification. We we needed to see him/them 😁
So sorry that happened to her. And the fact that she’s talking about it like he hasn’t been gone for 6+ months lets me know she hasn’t quite accepted what has happened. She needs support through trauma therapy and wise counsel. She has to process and accept that the marriage is over. He’s been cheating for years - the marriage has been over. He also needs therapy because he is very messy. with the manner in which he went abt this.
Exactly
Cause 6-8 months he probably been dating that woman and just cause she saw him with her she felt some type of way. The fact she had to say something was petty 😂. 6-8 months tho….be fr, buddy been over you. He just talk to you cause of them kids unless you still letting him smash
I think she said they still getting divorced. It's still hurtful
6 months isn't a long time unless you are in high school. She's created a life with this man and shares children with him.
She needs more time, which is normal.
@@mfrye0227 I agree 6 months is not a long time, but she said he’s been cheating with this same girl for years; and now he’s gone to be with the girl. I’m not saying she can’t still grieve, I’m just saying she has to accept what has happened for what it is. You can accept the death of the relationship and still grieve it.
Legally the term of seperation/seperated in Canada is that prior to divorce if wife and husband have decided to be separated this means you have twelve months to work it out if in 6 months you know it is not possible, you are still responsible for the children, the household, the bills as you are legally married. Separation does not give you the right to seek and be in another relationship until you are legally divorced. And ladies, if you meet a man that says he is seperated please don't date him. Men do not seek divorce, very small probability. At times thrf wife is not aware, it is a reason to have a side chick on the side.
Well, my husband decided he didn’t like being married so he decided drugs and the streets were for him not me. He wanted the divorce, then refuses to sign the divorce papers. It’s been years! Well, I met someone at work and now he is my boyfriend. WE want to get married, but we can’t because my husband is refusing to sign his papers. So! I think that yes! I do have the right to go on with my life! If I have to leave the country and marry my boyfriend, I will, if it comes to that! But I don’t think it’s fair, he didn’t want me, but wants to stay married to me. It doesn’t work that way!
@@MrsOrtiz-m9y There are ways you can still divorce him, it’s just a longer process though. You’ll need a lawyer though.
@@MrsOrtiz-m9yThere are always exceptions to the rules so I am happy you found real love and wish you the best. This also going to the person’s point that majorly men do not want to get divorced… even if they don’t want you they are territorial and do not want anyone else to have you AND do not want to be seen as a failure. Ridiculous but true.
@@MrsOrtiz-m9y🤦🏾♀️ sounds like someone I know and he the one cheated on her. Getting a lawyer tends to be expensive to do it so this happens more then people want to admit. They really should make it easier to do when y'all been living apart for so long it's been 10years for the person I know
Not necessarily true. When i got separated, we had lawyers. So when we were doing the visitation stuff and other things etc etc. The lawyers both put in the paper work, that we now could date as if we were not married. Of course, that was 1 year after separating. In the Carolinas, you've to be legally separated for a yr prior to getting divorced.
I can imagine her pain. Bless her dearly
Ive been BETRAYED. Not a good place. I got over it a long time ago. I didnt date or think about dating for a entire year. I got to learn myself & strengthen myself.
For a hot second I thought she was talking about buddy on the end and red hair on the stage 😂😂😂
Me too
So did I. ✨️😂💛
Omg same here.i was gna say red head girl hella quiet she making it so bait lol 😂😂😂 the facial expressions crazy
Me too 😂😂😂
Same! There body language was confusing
This is some worldly debauchery... guy in the black shirt.
Btw
Whatever happened during the marriage be it his or her fault, it's still wrong to date while married !!!!
😂😂😂
You guys always think in a singular manner.
They were together since she was 16. That was Jr High love. They grew up and maybe he grew apart.
That lady in the red hair.....wow im amazed at her commentary!❤
I much rather heard from Kitty and Trip.. They need their own show together.
“Flowers grow from dirty soil”……..is a major bar😂
@anthonybolton83 🤔but soil is dirt🙄so that appears to be a bar...but it not Dirt is dirty Sir.😂😂
Mary Mary has a song called dirt.
The young lady in white has the best response. Love it! ❤
Shout out to almost 40's, never married, no kids.... Whew!
✋🏽👀🤭
41 twice married, no children. 😂
Is that a flex?
@@issa.israel🤭
@@issa.israel For her it is! We don't all have the same path, respect that💯
Red hair need her own podcast. She gets to the point. Very mature & intelligent ❤
Praying for you Ms. Moody. Your healing is most important. ❤
Based on the estranged wife’s outfit, she’s shopping for a new stepdad anyway 🤣
Facts
I wish I could've heard tripp opinion. Kitty eats every time and never misses.
Within the 1st minute, I thought the dude that stood up on stage and the woman next to him, were the husband and side chick. He also disappeared for a minute and this was very confusing.
I don't know these people lol😂
He couldn't take the foulness of the situation😅. He was shaking his head in disbelief😂.
First time seeing this podcast. The woman on stage with the red fur is likable! 😂 I thoroughly enjoyed her commentary.
The lady with the red hair, you are HER ❤❤❤ you are gifted my sister
Kitty was not having it
Very well spoken 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽lady with the red braids. Preachhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Lawd, that was messy!!😩😩 The cussing out the cheater got from side piece when they got back to the car!!🤣🤣She couldn’t just get up and walk out of the show.
Oh my the lady with the red hair ❤❤❤ her words are so powerful
Wow! The lady with the red braids! Sis! That was powerful what you said. Please write a book! Create a podcast. More people need to hear what you said. Wow! Applause 👏 please!
I know real people like this. When the wife finds out about the side chick he leaves because he's not mentally an adult. He was always a cheater and will continue to cheat because he's broken.
Kitty stewing in the background
See just putting all they business on front street, but everyone jumping in on what she said as gospel. I love Kitty’s face when this came up!
You’re right. However, he never spoke up to share his side. So, by default she is speaking truth.
@ that’s quite possibly the dumbest stance I’ve ever heard and quite possibly the most toxic. Just because someone is acting like a clown does not mean you have to join the circus.
Damn this was good and it finished I was ready to keep watching!!
What’s The podcast called cuz me too!! Lol
Exactly ! . I was about to try to find it
@@xenobialarue4473 I think I found it! Look up tonight’s conversation lol
@@lizirizarry6729 I think I found it! Look up tonight’s conversation lol
Kitty spoke wise empowering words ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
This is diabolical 😮
adultery is a sin, no matter how you wrap it up
That's interesting because most in the Bible had multiple wives
@ & they all paid for it in one way or another. and realized that wasn’t the way to go. most of the time they were in a waiting period of God and they disobeyed. the main people that did that were Abraham and his wife told him to and it was a pain in her side after, and solomon and if you read the story we all know how that went. Let’s not pick and chose and confuse the truth with sin. A commandment is still a commandment even when we break them.
@evolonten no true, but ok.
@evolonten Abraham: Had multiple wives and concubines
Jacob: Had four wives and 13 children
Esau: Had three wives
King David: Had at least eight wives
Solomon: Had 700 wives and 300 concubines
Elkanah: Had multiple wives
Cain's son Lamech: Had two wives
Moses: Had two wives
Let's not forget that Jesus himself was born from sin
@ i thought u said ok?
Sis w the red braids. On point.
Kitty shows us how to be the most emotionally intelligent in a room full of sheep.❤❤
Her & the bearded guy w/glasses next to her who pretty much agreed by the way he was nodding to what she was saying. I'm surprised he didn't say more.
Wishing her all the best ❤ Kitty is needed with this convo too
Idk, I know someone who was the side chick who became the main chick and the man got heartbroken when the side chick turned main chick left him. He obviously wanted something serious and looked at her more than a good time. I do believe how you meet them is how you lose them.
She
was
still
just
an
Honorary Sidechick
with a
Ring. Nothing special. His ego n pride is what got bruised, that's all.
Has nothing to do with her leaving and more to do with his ego. He had issues prior if the relationship was built like that. More than likely, the side chick didn't think being a wife would mean having the same experience as the prior wife. She's a dodo bird!
@@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-haFacts.