You KNOW you need to break up with him/her when… 👀 | TMI Podcast KE | Episode 21
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- Опубліковано 30 лис 2021
- Before accepting that your relationship is over…it takes time. But whether you like it or not, eventually there comes a point of no return and you are left with no option. We thought we share our personal non negotiables. The things that we believe are obvious signs that the relationship is over or at least it needs to be. What are some things that let you know that it’s time to break up? Let us know in the comments.
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Break up with him/her when you realise that you're having the same conversation over and over, they apologise for their action but never show change.
Another reason to break off your relationship: when the two of you are in different seasons of your life eg you're ready for marriage and the other person isnt.
Really?
Moral of the Story is; your relationship should not deplete your edges.. duly noted with thanks😂
You know you need to break up with a person when all they do is lie,and because you realize that they be lying and confront them.They still lie again to cover the previous lies.🤦You don't need a list of red flags . ONE red flag is enough.Periott💯
Lies are expensive!!! So so hard to maintain!! Great point
uuuuh! when Lydia said "a lot of takers benefit from your lack of being able to draw boundaries"
You know you need to break up with a person when you need to sacrifice your life to make them happy or fit into their space and this is never reciprocated in any way
I've never understood how people get whooped out here. It's totally unacceptable when you're married and totally unacceptable when you're dating. When he has any violent tendencies...girl RUN!
You know you need to break up with your partner when they keep pushing you away just to see if you'll stay😒
I knew it was time to break up with my Ex when I found out that he was cheating on me and I broke up with him immediately coz for me, Cheating is Unforgivable! And I know I deserve better and now I'm in a very Healthy and Happy Relationship.
Cheers to Lydia for going through the most in relationships and still loving hard. Your heart is BIG!🔥🔥
When your partner is no longer affectionate towards you...or just does not care about you or your feelings..if they are not guarded in what they say to you. If they dont show it or say it they prolly are not inlove with you..it is what it is
Yaah this is true
Not Lydia relating to each point and giving an example of it 😂😂😂😂
Gurrlll you deserve a very warm hug 🤗😂
Everytime I listen to Murugi and Lydia I just feel better in every way. I love you guys🥰
About today's episode, its always difficult to leave a relationship you know very well is not meant to happen. I pray that any in betweener in such a dilemma may get the grace and the strength to leave spaces that no longer serve them. Its always for a better cause
In my previous relationship, I didn't even realize how bad and stressed I looked until I broke it off. I met a lady I used to go to church with and she could not even recognize me. I had to introduce myself to her. She was blown away and even told me I look so good. She went ahead to tell me how stressed and old I looked in that relationships. People were practically watching me depreciate and didn't even tell me smh!
I was in a long distance relationship for almost 10 years and it worked so well i forgot what sex was! We talked on the phone everyday though! Still together and thriving!
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Aaai hii yako hapana
@@ichooseviolence2532😂😂😂
This reminds me of a certain relationship I was in that was so draining😞 my God! So the day I decided I deserved better than that and I told the guy, he had the audacity to ask," After all we've been through?" 🙄
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You guys didn't scream for episode 21 but I will do it on behalf wuooooooooooooooooooooooooooh😍😍😍. Moving forward swifletly....
When he is always saying sorry over the same issue over a long period time until it gets annoying please lets say goodbye, why is he always doing things to upset you ,coz he knows he can just say sorry, ALERT!!! Emotional abuse baby
i will learn to love him , accurate! biggest lie we've told ourselves at some point
Me too
Any hint of unfaithfulness in a relationship, is a failure.
No talking about it
I will move on swiftly
I wish growth for you
I have watched the first 38 minutes like 3 times ... the validation I needed only God Know s. God bless you ladies 💝💝💝💝
Sending love.
You know you need to break up with him/her when they are ashamed or not comfortable when their family/relatives meets you!!
I wonder how I didnt comment on Episode 20. Positive feedback. Me and my very close friend were able to communicate some boundaries after watching this. We hadn't spoken for months and after watching the episode we had a call for over an hour where we talked and to be honest, I believe our friendship will do better moving forward because we were able to communicate in a healthy manner. So thank you for saving a friendship.
Yay! episode 21 and counting... Whoop whoop👏🏾🎉🎊🥂😘💃🏿💃🏿. Warembo😍😍. Topic moto moto kama kawa🔥🔥.Mine is when I feel relationship is draining me mentally, warembo tujipende please.
Money is never challenging, it’s just great!😂
Murugi Munyi 2021
This really hit home. What resonated with me is being anxious, tired, sad, & frustrated more than being happy and joyful
A channel I have felt in love with over months
I usually download this episodes and watch them later at work or on my drive home, love it. Congratulations on getting here can't wait for more!
For me the reason I broke up with someone was because he didn't respect my boundaries.
Back story, I've grown up in relatively liberal home where everyone was very respected. So things like cursing at people or even clicking at people was not a thing in our home, they were a sign of disrespect and we didn't do that.
So this guy, was from a chaotic home and I tried my best to extend grace with this in mind. So the first time he clicked at me for spilling water while I poured it into a cup, I Expressed it was unacceptable to me. I get it wasn't that deep for him but for me it's unacceptable. By the time he did it the third time there was no conversation, I just broke up with him. Because if you can't respect small simple boundaries, what about the big ones??
He also had anger issues though and I didn't know how farther it would be taken next time.
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You did well. It's okay for Ladies set standards and make sure they are respected!!
I relate to this so hard 😢
Liking and sharing before watching because wtf not🤭I Know its dope content as always 🙌🏿🙌🏿
Free counseling sessions 🙏
Definitely re-watching this💯💯💯
I am watching now .. But I will rewatch it again . Coz if you know you know . It’s Definitely TMI
This conversation is surprisingly very mature. Very good points and insights!
These conversations are just 🔥🔥🔥🔥 keep doing what you do and keep shouting ☺️
Thankyou , I am in a situation where I needed this talk and for sure I have already decided what am going to do.
I broke up with him😥I guess it was about time🙁
The devotion/commitment and what you allow/not allow when dating or when married should be exactly the same. People don’t suddenly find their humility, respect, values, loyalty, behaviour etc., when they are presented with a marriage certificate. The expectation for change and the euphoria around engagement and wedding blurs the realities and also introduces roles and expectations that are not sustainable. Whoever you are dating is exactly who they are. An engagement, wedding, certificate doesn’t change a person. Life is finite! Don’t waste your time.
This is deep, I wish women would be having this kind of conversations .
I have learnt a lot from you guys and I feel like its making me become a better woman ..love you guys 😍😍
Firstly,I appreciate the fact this is the first platform that I can see women supporting women,it just feels awesome🤗
i love how you guys speak i have learnt alot and i was requesting if you can talk about long distance relationship
Ola ladies😊 Enjoyed this episode, as usual.
I'm loving this
I love you guys♥️
Persistent neglect is abuse.
Gooooooood i love u guys so much😥😥❤❤❤
I love you guys so muchhh
another one in the bag!
The reaction on Murugi when she hears not meet Zack and Mukeni....Priceless, i just busted and am watching at work.
My fav online big sisters💥
Loving you since
premiere gang!
🤔where have I been???f***!!
7months late...for this show n channel??
On my way to look for ep tweny...oh n subscribing of course
Lydia is hilarious on the singing part
Also, the concern on Murugi's face when Daniel choked from their jail wisdom.
One year ago! And am just listening to this now.
Waah karibu nichelewe hehe
I love you ladies🥰
But seriously Murugi? ati Lydia would survive in prison🤣🤣
This has really taught me a lot . Great content indeed .
Today Lydia looks like Cookie of the Empire Series
You guys are doing a great job❤
Ati am studying you..."what kind of degree is this, when do I graduate? "😂😂😂
If you are always telling yourself how lucky you are, maybe it's because you're afraid to ask yourself how happy you are.
You cannot waste another year because you wasted a year,,
Kindly advise on moving on its been 2months since we broke up with an ex of mine and i still think of him so much even have dreams it's a hard time for me .i know i didn't have closure coz it was unexpected and things were left hanging but I have to move on
After listening to the who video i have realized I need to break up with my boyfriend 😂😂😂😪
Yooh 😂😂
Mambo ni live 😂😂😂
You need to talk about age gaps
This was delicious!
Long distance relationships don't work eventually 💯, i am in a long distance marriage and its hard 😪
I'm sorry mahn
What's causing the distance
break up with him/her when you feel like you have to hide him from your best friends and family.
Hahah I just took of my wig a sec before she said it .
"listen with both your ear lobes"😂 -Murugi, 2021.
Alav it wen i hear u peeps say it's def TMI lol😭😭😭😭bombshells
Jo!! on the sex point, a while ago you discouraged premarital sex for sure and I do to however that very point where how do I know about our sexual chemistry if we have been abstaining and all and then weget to marriage and I cannot even handle him
I literally recise tmi videos hahaha I love you ladies ...
please respond to this next episode
If only life was that easy
One Tree Hill....yeeeeeeaiy..
You both look great ladies Jo's foundation was a little bit more .
It's probably the lighting 😂😂
Premier gang is here once they cheat and inconsistency let them go.
I knew i need to break up when i realised he was a hobosexual and he was so comfortable with it
Jeeeeeeeeeeeeeesu!!😢
Failing nursery school...😄😄😄
You putting your 150% and him/her 50% will not make the relationship better, it'll only drain you.
My biggest turn off is a guy who looks at who women at other women in a lecherous(showing excessive or offensive sexual desire) way.
Maybe theyre prettier than you its not a offense tbh
You know you should break up with a man when you realize they are married.. (I did that in 2010 I dated a man who I later realized had a wife and 2kids in shagz) .... I love you gals
Hey TMI should age Gap be a factor in a relationship,cz my bf is 9 yrs older than I....can this affect our relationship
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Sweethearts this discussion is full of people with narcissistic behavior 🙄 .. That's the summary 😃 😀 😄 😁 🤣 😂
WHat did Daniel do? Hehehe you gave him mommy-look
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When Lydia said,
"I won't waste a year, because I wasted a year"
I felt it!
I know I need to breakup now
Murugi at some point I feel like you are misleading
You said you will leave a cheating partner and your husband has been cheating around with Nurse Judy for a while but you did not leave
What did you do?
You went ahead and told Mom Teiyan's husband and you were forcing him to leave Mom Teiyan
Joan you have been cheating with Sportpesa's Ceo when you were nursing Tana to a point of sending him nudes
My point is stop misleading women ati leave your cheating husband, and yours has been cheating and you have never left
Yup their definetly selling dreams to women out here
Alianikwa wapi niende nitafute?
You need to break up when, he constantly talks ill of his friends,family . Salty soul.
Wow, that made me mute for a second!!!! Really?
About addiction...what about sex addiction ...do I break up with him cause of that
No
Hhhmmm long distance relationships, ssmmhhh
U ladies really don't wear underwear, u cant redo them