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  • @yourmatetom
    @yourmatetom  6 років тому +37

    So I’m back home from New Zealand! Man, what an epic trip!
    It’s so good to be home and spend time with my amazing girlfriend. I really am happy to be in my country, but now is the time to start moving into the next big chapter of my life.
    I'm definitely going through a big transition right now in many aspects, and not just because of the whole UA-cam thing lol. Now I can finally deal with this whole UA-cam situation properly. Sometimes it looks grim, but when you really think about adversity, there always seems to be a blessing, IF you look hard enough for it.
    Who knows where this will lead me? But what I do know is that if I follow my heart & gut, it’ll hopefully lead me to where I need to be, and give me a new opportunity to become a new version of myself. Even though it’s not always the most comfortable option, it’s not like I really have a choice in the matter anyways lol. The universe is always going to test you and push your boundaries… you can either fight it and let it persist and grow, or allow it to go through you and transcend it. Let go…
    Easier said than done though, right?
    I can say without a doubt I'm in a much better place in my life, and I'm so grateful for all the blessings I've had, including you guys, so thank you! My path has definitely been shifted (forcefully) towards a new direction, and at the same time going back to my roots in a weird way. Life, I guess lol.
    There’s so much work that needs to be done, especially if I want to survive here on UA-cam, so uploads in the near future may be a little slow, but it’ll be worth it in the long run, so it's all good. I just need to focus more of my time on other avenues right now, so I can continue to make content in the future, among other projects. I’d choose quality over quantity any day. If you want to help fund the future of this channel, getting merch or contributing on our Patreon greatly helps! :)
    Oh and I’ve updated the Patreon perks, so check it out, and who knows, you may see something you like ;) or not…(click below to find out :p) (Huh?)
    But in all seriousness, you guys are in for a treat with the collab content I made with Adam. Keep your eyes pealed ;)
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    Much love,
    Tom

    • @jamesstuart511
      @jamesstuart511 6 років тому

      would you ever get drunk again

    • @DrinkWater47
      @DrinkWater47 6 років тому +2

      idk if youre gonna read this but alot of youtubers got their channels deleted for weed vids and they made a site called weedtube, maybe you guys that are being targeted can come together and make a platform for videos to do with drug education/harm minimalisation, self growth or just general information. like instead of fighting youtube just make a whole new platform that way you guys wont have to follow youtubes rules

    • @benzopicnicbasket5817
      @benzopicnicbasket5817 6 років тому

      Your Mate Tom hiii

    • @benzopicnicbasket5817
      @benzopicnicbasket5817 6 років тому +2

      s.t PsychedTube

    • @vibehouse4059
      @vibehouse4059 6 років тому

      Welcome home brother, I'm loving the long hair!
      Much love, from Footscray!

  • @PinxPer17
    @PinxPer17 6 років тому +58

    She seems so happy and full of love, I need someone like that in my life.

  • @20LowHC
    @20LowHC 6 років тому +44

    Hilarious editing! Great video

  • @hilebard
    @hilebard 6 років тому +18

    Your ego is based on your values and your values are based on what you choose to identify with, because you always try to act as that which you choose to identify as. So if you choose not to identify anything, your values will fade. And as they fade, your ego fades. And you will find peace. And on top of that, when not identifying with anything, all that's left is that which is not a concept. It's a meditative exercise. Let go of your identity and you will find peace

    • @hilebard
      @hilebard 6 років тому +4

      And if you are afraid to lose your ego, I will say this. Be not afraid. It always comes back the very second you stop meditating, whether you want to or not. But I still believe it's a good thing to practice, for it shows you the proportions in life. It shows you how your pain and anger and anxiety is meaningless compared to the power of love and compassion, and the sheer amazement of reality itself.

    • @mgcfs1610
      @mgcfs1610 6 років тому +1

      This comment should be on top of youtube's homepage! The sincere researcher of the truth, do you follow Buddhist principles /knowledge?
      peace

    • @hilebard
      @hilebard 6 років тому

      Mᴧgᴉc Fᴑᴙᴇsᴛ I sure do! :)

    • @mgcfs1610
      @mgcfs1610 6 років тому

      Sat Asat Viveka Buddhi

    • @hilebard
      @hilebard 6 років тому

      Mᴧgᴉc Fᴑᴙᴇsᴛ peace and love

  • @aedanranson1092
    @aedanranson1092 6 років тому +12

    you are so right about the "the real work must be done in this reality". psychedelics have the POTENTIAL to expand your consciousness but you have to respect the drug and understand that the real improvement must be done in your life. psychedelics can show you the path, but it's up to you to follow that path, to look deep inside yourself and decide if you really want this. and it's okay to decide that this path isn't for you in this life, maybe it just isn't the lesson you are meant to learn from this human experience. just my idea! :D

    • @nicolemaesugarcanes
      @nicolemaesugarcanes 6 років тому +1

      blair ranson yeah after my two acid trips I was kind of left in a state of I need to live my life and fix shit I've been putting off for years and stop bad habits. Still a huge work in progress but man these trips made me realize that you can't just wake up and be fixed one day even now I experience stuck ptsd trauma but I need to put in the work to challenge it instead of surrendering to it. Life for me needs to be always constant, present, conscious effort to work on myself. No one can do the work for me. It wasn't during the trip itself that I realized this but rather after the afterglow subsided and I was left trying to integrate some disturbing pieces afterwards.

  • @miraghazal9500
    @miraghazal9500 6 років тому +5

    I CAN"T EXPRESS HOW MUCH I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS AND YOU TWO AND YOUR DOG AND EVERYTHING.

  • @nicolemaesugarcanes
    @nicolemaesugarcanes 6 років тому +51

    There's a push for psilocybin legalization in California!

    • @csld7107
      @csld7107 6 років тому +3

      nikita commie where do i sign up

    • @nicolemaesugarcanes
      @nicolemaesugarcanes 6 років тому +1

      Chris Velazquez www.cpli2018.org there's also a ballotpedia on it

    • @mexitaliano24
      @mexitaliano24 6 років тому

      nikita commie lets hope it happens...much needed

    • @JakeTheHappyGuy
      @JakeTheHappyGuy 6 років тому

      is it a nice place to live?

    • @gc4346
      @gc4346 6 років тому

      nikita commie thanks for getting the word out but I dont live in california, how can I help?

  • @nateone6632
    @nateone6632 6 років тому +1

    Seeing you guys together makes me optimistic there's amazing women out there

  • @Xtree_mist
    @Xtree_mist 5 років тому

    I absolutely love the two of you! Your energies are so symbiotic.

  • @danmurraypiano
    @danmurraypiano 6 років тому

    I like when you go on little adventures during the videos, keeps them engaging and easy to watch !

  • @Daquatra
    @Daquatra 6 років тому +2

    Most entertaining Q&A I have ever seen

  • @VisionCrys
    @VisionCrys 6 років тому

    Fantastic method for a Q & A. The most enjoyable one I’ve watched out of all my UA-cam subs. Fun, insightful, lighthearted, but real. 👍👍👍

  • @David-ho7yk
    @David-ho7yk 6 років тому +1

    It all depends on the level of dosage, I've only gone too deep one time and then took a pause for 5 years. After that I always stick to a low - medium dose because I actually only do it for recreational purposes, to disconnect from my every day life and enjoy myself with close friends and blissful uplifting music like Lights & Motion for example. I have no desires or intentions for spiritual growth or personal growth because for me that is something I feel is happening by itself without me even noticing it. Therefore I can do psychedelics as long as I am in a good set in my life and I stick to a low-medium dose and I only do it a couple of times per year. We are all hypocrites in one way or another, the only thing that matters is that we are honest with ourselves and dare to strive for something or at least dare to stand for something rather than nothing and dare to draw the line.

  • @DrinkWater47
    @DrinkWater47 6 років тому +13

    pysche-delic: the manifestation of your psyche

  • @enasksenos
    @enasksenos 6 років тому

    @ 1:11 I actually can't wrap it round my mind that you have a partner that you can share these experiences with. This looks like it can be amazing!

  • @Anis9494
    @Anis9494 6 років тому +1

    Hey nice video! I don't know why, I was impressed by your girl's opinion about healing form past experiences in a relationship... She made a point, in my opinion, and yet I'm not sure if she was totally right: being able to focus on goals and move on is just a little part of the HUGE process that actual healing is. I'm convinced that every experience affects us, but the negative ones are the trickiest because they have the tendency to make us build defences and walls, in order to avoid future pain from "kind of similar" sources. So yeah, self development and egoic focus are good in order to move on, but they're not enough to crash the subtle changes we adjust ourselves with in order to avoid sufference.

    • @itsmeyesenia4768
      @itsmeyesenia4768 6 років тому +1

      Anis Luongo Haha I thought I sounded savage! I do go on and say pretty much exactly that and but basically just that you shouldn’t use a new relationship as a bandaid, sometimes it can help in the healing process but some people get used to putting a bandaid over it instead of really doing what they can to self heal and grow.
      You can do both.
      My answer in this video to that question was just cut off haha

    • @Anis9494
      @Anis9494 6 років тому

      From this perspective, then, I cannot but agree with you :) Thank you for your answer!

  • @mattuwu42
    @mattuwu42 6 років тому +1

    5:58 oh shit it's Mr. Psychedsubstsnce!

  • @fuerve
    @fuerve 6 років тому

    I really enjoy watching the two of you banter.

  • @hilebard
    @hilebard 6 років тому +16

    I take psychadelics many times and I'm a buddhist now. I love this life I live but none of my friends do this stuff so I have no one I can talk with this about. It's like I'm alone in illumination amongst people who would think I'm crazy if I tried to explain. I'm getting used to feeling lonely by now.

    • @magnushansson7095
      @magnushansson7095 6 років тому +6

      Sometimes walking your own path can be lonely but honestly always try to keep a healthy perspective of who you are and what you want of life. It sounds like you are lonely against your will - which can be very unhealthy. Also not all messages from psychadelics are true, so sometimes you have to let go of them to remain a member of sober groups. Cheers mate hope you find more likeminded people in the future!

    • @jl6471
      @jl6471 6 років тому +2

      their online forums like erowid and bluelight and partly reddit. Im active in a german drug forum and its great. You can share your experiences and it gives some sense of togetherness. I mean i still got 2 friends who are tripping with me so the people are out there. Go out and look for them.You dont need to live an ordinary lifestyle

    • @hilebard
      @hilebard 6 років тому +2

      Well what I would want is a friend I could share this huge part of my life with. I have friends but none of them get it. So it's like I have to pretend I'm not who I am and that I don't believe what I believe because people would laugh at me or just be worried about me if I told them

    • @AcidHead710
      @AcidHead710 6 років тому +4

      Yeah you kind of start drifting away from society in a sense

    • @hilebard
      @hilebard 6 років тому +1

      Acid Head Alan watts talk about that. You've reached a higher point in your enlightenment if you can live with it in society rather than if you drift away from society

  • @Ulle2020
    @Ulle2020 6 років тому +12

    Jokes on you guys, I came out of the closet yeeeeaaars ago. haha, this video was hillarious btw. Good vibes

  • @jwill4997
    @jwill4997 6 років тому +3

    They better not delete the channel, it's awesome

  • @mikenolan7299
    @mikenolan7299 6 років тому +23

    Fuck I forgot you were a massive metal head, makes me like you more

  • @albertmerlew
    @albertmerlew 4 роки тому

    ive really only did lsd, ive done mushrooms and dmt once but lsd is my prime man, ive definatly gone waaay too far, but idk if this is healthy or not tom, but i like going far and the "oh shit im too deep" but this could have been because i havent done high dose mushrooms nor ayahuasca

  • @AdventuresThroughTheMind
    @AdventuresThroughTheMind 6 років тому +41

    Cuties

  • @AcidHead710
    @AcidHead710 6 років тому +10

    Buy the ticket take the ride

  • @absoluteastonishment5982
    @absoluteastonishment5982 6 років тому

    Love the format

  • @dot6102
    @dot6102 6 років тому +3

    By the way, you really look good man! Nice to see you putting so much work in your body, you're looking great man! Good job, much love :) ✌

  • @GigliolaValeria
    @GigliolaValeria 6 років тому

    Really fun video!

  • @HipHopRastaPantha
    @HipHopRastaPantha 6 років тому +1

    08:08 "oh no i think i broke my girlfriend" 😂😂😂😂😂 lost it totally...
    I love you both. Your my role model Relation. My heart opens when i see you both🙈

  • @jl6471
    @jl6471 6 років тому +1

    the closet one gave me a good laugh :D
    i also have a love hate weed relationship. I love the physical effects exept for the bodyload. But smoking during bad times can realy lead you down a very very dark path. And Acid and weed combined also resulted in me bein totaly derealised on my last tip

  • @MrGuidoune
    @MrGuidoune 6 років тому

    Excellent video, very insightful. Thank you Tom! 😊

  • @barneygoldstein7103
    @barneygoldstein7103 6 років тому

    you guys are pretty chill!!!

  • @FYGH55
    @FYGH55 5 років тому

    I think you’ve just gotta listen to the plant. Some people get the message to step back and integrate for a long time and some people get the message to keep exploring deeper and deeper. I think you’ve just gotta listen to it and not let any outside noise convince you either way

  • @khxion77
    @khxion77 6 років тому

    You two are so hilarious together!! You should make more videos with your gf in them

  • @zoepepito6701
    @zoepepito6701 6 років тому +1

    En Chile toman mate?

  • @cristiana6261
    @cristiana6261 6 років тому

    I LOVE BOTH OF YOU SO MUCH!

  • @goomgoom2049
    @goomgoom2049 6 років тому

    Really good video don't know how hard it is to make but it it's easier than make more like these

  • @RevSin-oq6ti
    @RevSin-oq6ti 6 років тому +2

    I have to disagree with one thing that you guys said - about not having the same trip when you’re with a partner. My wife and I have shared many same trips. As have some friends.
    I think it’s all dependent on your state(s) of mind and expectations.
    Loved this video, though. Then again, all of yours have been great.
    😈🤘

  • @triple_gem_shining
    @triple_gem_shining 6 років тому

    awesome Tom, you've grown a lot. I'm subbed now :)

  • @yericproy9167
    @yericproy9167 6 років тому +13

    Man, I want the climate you have, in Newzeeland over there, here. I live in Germany,... Winter,... -17 to -5°C ,... snow 'n' Ice. And you have Summer af :D.

    • @yericproy9167
      @yericproy9167 6 років тому +4

      NT1 NT2 No, I'm not a pussiboy. I'm the guy walkin around in a only sweater when it's -10°C, while evrybody else has their jacked on. I just feel luckyer in a nice warm climate, like when its summer or like it is in newzeeland. Its a better setting if you know what I mean. So I wanna have it too.

    • @HipHopRastaPantha
      @HipHopRastaPantha 6 років тому

      Yooo

    • @HipHopRastaPantha
      @HipHopRastaPantha 6 років тому

      Germany

    • @solidaritytime3650
      @solidaritytime3650 6 років тому

      Man, you don't know below zero until you've measured empirical.

    • @gc4346
      @gc4346 6 років тому

      YericPro y I feel you live in idaho central rockies are cold. Get into snowboarding! Winter is badass.

  • @letteedametto2339
    @letteedametto2339 6 років тому

    I love your videos 🛸💚

  • @yezzusaguilar3097
    @yezzusaguilar3097 6 років тому

    Almost at 100k aye

  • @arthursevergnini8533
    @arthursevergnini8533 6 років тому

    This is a well done video

  • @magda_ochoa
    @magda_ochoa 6 років тому

    Your guys drink mate

  • @Sxd212
    @Sxd212 6 років тому

    do you ever think that dosage is crucial for tripping? i mostly feel anxious concerning that when trying new substances...

  • @averyjoseph6855
    @averyjoseph6855 6 років тому

    Love love love your relationship

  • @ciancorcoran6033
    @ciancorcoran6033 6 років тому

    Funny vid man!

  • @cherised3654
    @cherised3654 4 роки тому

    that Jim Jefferies quote got me good HAHA

  • @nicolemaesugarcanes
    @nicolemaesugarcanes 6 років тому +5

    It sounds like Australia is cursed in terms of decriminalizing anything though :(

  • @JakeTheHappyGuy
    @JakeTheHappyGuy 6 років тому

    what you got in your hair bro? i need that exact one where can i buy?

  • @VORKU
    @VORKU 6 років тому

    Really really enjoyed this video make more like this !

  • @danieldalton2690
    @danieldalton2690 6 років тому

    Where did you do ayahuasca bro?

  • @kevin_heslip
    @kevin_heslip 6 років тому

    3:48 what are the f***ing chances

  • @miss.marren
    @miss.marren 6 років тому

    I love you guys! "Bet he's got a big willie" made me laugh so hard :D

  • @nateone6632
    @nateone6632 6 років тому

    Your girlfriend is a "Mona Lisa" man I'm happy for you i hope y'all make eachother complete. If you guys married I'd be happy for the world and you

  • @michaelk5824
    @michaelk5824 6 років тому

    Is it bad to have psychedelic expiriences mostly for recreational purposes?
    I can see how tripping to often can be unhealthy but I dont see myself stopping anytime soon.

  • @Sandy-uq3gt
    @Sandy-uq3gt 6 років тому

    Hey everyone I need some advice. I have two friends who've never done acid or any psychedelic before and they're trying for the first this spring break. Since I have relatively a lot of experience with the drug they want me to be their trip sitter. I have never done any trip sitting before so i want some pointers on how i should set up the environment, how i should guide them along, and what i should do if they start going to a dark place. I want them to have a good experience and learn to appreciate the drug, not to fear it. Thank you all for the help.

  • @jamesstuart511
    @jamesstuart511 6 років тому +12

    Mario cart is the best game to play high

    • @tommywood1386
      @tommywood1386 6 років тому +3

      James Stuart, you havent seen skyrim.

    • @AngelEllena
      @AngelEllena 6 років тому

      James Stuart Hahahahah 😄😄😹😹🙏🏼💙

  • @RKCorinth
    @RKCorinth 6 років тому

    The lady is looking great!
    You guys are fucking incredible people.

  • @maddyhorne909
    @maddyhorne909 6 років тому

    my first acid trip was really scary and went for way too long and the come down was awful not worth it at all, it's put me off drugs especially psychedelics they just remind me of psychosis i feel like even marijuana makes you too anxious in long term agh too scary triggering

  • @tomnorton-platford4896
    @tomnorton-platford4896 6 років тому

    4:44 hey it’s like Christianity
    No disrespect to any religions btw just a bit of fun :)

  • @reygonzalez792
    @reygonzalez792 6 років тому

    What's the song at 6:09? I've heard it before but can't remember

  • @safeandsound712
    @safeandsound712 6 років тому

    Is "ice" really as bad is Australia as I've heard? Not sure of the accuracy of it but I saw a study estimating like 10% of high schoolers in Aussie tried meth as their first illicit drug.

    • @TheWazzawazza
      @TheWazzawazza 6 років тому

      Nah all media. Ive never come across it at all. And only heard of like 1 person i kinda know thats done it. But hey could be rumor but yeah, weed , alcohol and mdma/ecstacy are much more common

  • @benzopicnicbasket5817
    @benzopicnicbasket5817 6 років тому +1

    I need psychedelics with my bf 😢 It's been so long it's all nonexistent here.

  • @A9MI1IM3T3R
    @A9MI1IM3T3R 6 років тому

    Good vlog

  • @CanaDaddd
    @CanaDaddd 6 років тому

    My most favourite experience would probably be your second ayahuasca ceremony as well lol 😜

  • @GOOCHIElicker
    @GOOCHIElicker 6 років тому +19

    Content like this needs to be banned its hurting my poor little ego

  • @glenraymond379
    @glenraymond379 6 років тому +1

    you should start vlogging

  • @benzopicnicbasket5817
    @benzopicnicbasket5817 6 років тому

    "The REAL work is in this reality"

  • @TimeNowAndThen
    @TimeNowAndThen 6 років тому +1

    Breathe :) step back :)
    love the video.

  • @David-wl4hx
    @David-wl4hx 6 років тому

    Wow man, i remember when you had less than 500 subscribers. They grow up so fast :((

  • @GenghisGaming
    @GenghisGaming 6 років тому

    Have you been hitting the gym? Looking good my man!

  • @sammonroe3985
    @sammonroe3985 6 років тому

    No ads man, I clicked this video 10 times but nothing showed

  • @SuperSix4
    @SuperSix4 6 років тому

    Man I want to try Lucy

  • @jackmeredith2552
    @jackmeredith2552 6 років тому

    14:09 Too good

  • @athdragoveskel9389
    @athdragoveskel9389 6 років тому

    4:28

  • @the_iron_ninja
    @the_iron_ninja 6 років тому

    "Millionaires don’t use astrology, billionaires do"

  • @dot6102
    @dot6102 6 років тому

    You guys.. are so cute together! :D

  • @nateone6632
    @nateone6632 6 років тому +1

    Nice dragon ball z shirt

  • @nateone6632
    @nateone6632 6 років тому

    Australia is beautiful. I do think psychedelics will become legal for medical use

  • @Psillytripper
    @Psillytripper 6 років тому

    thumbs up for the shirt :)

  • @Soisleherosdetavie
    @Soisleherosdetavie 6 років тому +1

    Maybe because you are not willing to integrate what your learned during psychedelic experience that you said what you said about, because psychedelics help, helped and will help lots of people, it's not just "real life is here and not there". Yeah man we know that thanks, and anyway it is your point of view so it is respectable but that's all for me!

  • @JakeTheHappyGuy
    @JakeTheHappyGuy 6 років тому

    My life goal is to eradicate all suffering from all infinite realities but in order to do that i need to possess the reality stone which i need bare powers for. So instead ima work a 9-5 deadass job until i rot and die and convince myself that is normal human behaviour :) peace ✌

  • @CraigBowman
    @CraigBowman 6 років тому

    finally got round to ordering that third eye ape hoodie! love u tom

  • @benzopicnicbasket5817
    @benzopicnicbasket5817 6 років тому

    Who is coy o.O

    • @nicolemaesugarcanes
      @nicolemaesugarcanes 6 років тому +1

      Error Fairy Koi Fresco...his UA-cam is Koi's Corner. He does videos on spirituality.

  • @the_iron_ninja
    @the_iron_ninja 6 років тому

    @6:10 yerbaaaaaaa

  • @franklinsukmynutz5062
    @franklinsukmynutz5062 6 років тому

    You guys look like brother and sister

  • @richardmoores
    @richardmoores 6 років тому

    I would love a girlfriend to trip with

  • @Itzak15
    @Itzak15 6 років тому

    End my suffering. Legalize meth

  • @ganjanaut
    @ganjanaut 6 років тому

    Well that was funny :)

  • @igieswainebragt
    @igieswainebragt 6 років тому

    Can guys adopt me as your chilf

  • @sarah-janer6267
    @sarah-janer6267 6 років тому

    She’s a babe :)

  • @Rickiwarhammer92
    @Rickiwarhammer92 6 років тому +1

    HA! Gaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay!

  • @ML-vv8cg
    @ML-vv8cg 6 років тому

    JUst. Fucking. breath

  • @pyrrosdimas5798
    @pyrrosdimas5798 6 років тому

    you look gained

  • @benzopicnicbasket5817
    @benzopicnicbasket5817 6 років тому

    It'll never be in our or your lifetime.

  • @benknowles7639
    @benknowles7639 6 років тому

    Love you bro I will follow you for a follow back 😂😂love your videos keep up the good work