He told you he would make a choice after the funeral because he didn’t know if his niam tij was gonna say yes to marrying him…so he wanted to keep you as a back up option in case she said no. But she said yes at the end and that sealed your fate. He was obviously attracted to her. You said it yourself. She’s really pretty with great skin, boobs and butt, small waist, smart, caring, good wife and mother. Even I fell in love after your description!
How do you not see the red flags??? He certainly wanted to be with his niamtij but he just didnt know how to tell you. This guy doesnt even love you because he was able to let go of you just like that. Txhob tuag rau tej niag txiv quav dev li ntawd.
Count your blessings, sister. He never loved you. He was just using you as a footstool to carry on his secret love affair with his sister in law. He used you to hide his love for here. Not to mention that he's money hungry too. With his brothers death, she'll get all the money. With him married to her, he'll have all that money. He'll not have to work, and he'll live in comfort and control her. Do not waste your tears on him. He isn't worth your love or dedication. Let karma repay him for you. They both deserved each other.
Sounds like he's always secretly wanted his niamtij, and knowing that his brother was going to die any day, he was biding his time and that's why he held off marrying you because he planned on marrying his niamtij all along! Maybe Karma might catch up with him by shortening his life too for callously using you. Absolutely shameful of him to ask you to help out with the funeral all the while knowing that he was never going to stay with you because he was going to marry his widowed sil!
He is a weak man. I’m sure he liked you enough but is the type that will move on if he sees something he likes better. His sister in law is also a snake for agreeing to marry him. She knew all along that he was with you.
Be glad you didn't marry him. If you did, he probably going to marry her as niam yau. Us women need to love ourselves more, dont beg anyone to love you. You're his second choice
Niam tij zoo nkauj txawj ntse kwv hlub kwv txis los yeej okay kawg nawb. Niam tij tij laug lub neej zoo zoo kwv kav tsij tuav kiag tij laug lub neej mus xwb tsis txhaum li as. Vim Niam tij twb zoo zoo niam tsev nes.
Tus neeg ua li tus thaub no ua yeej tsis hlub koj os Kav tsij zoo siab tias koj tsuas plam tus neeg tsis hlub koj mus lawm xwb os Tsis ntev ces nws yuav lawv nws tij laug qab lawm os
He is thanking his lucky star. A beautiful woman with money, he definitely jumps first in line. He's a yawg nrauj, he is poor. I bet his kwvtij didn't even ask him to, but he probably told them he wanted his niamtij the minute his brother passed. Niamtij likes him for a long time, too. If she doesn't like him, she will refuse the traditional, but she stays silent. Women words when they like someone..."up to you to decide".
Love yourself and move on. This guy has always had eyes for his SIL, waiting for his brother to die so he can marry her. You were just a side chick used to pass time. Pick up and move on, it was not meant to be. Don't die for someone like him.
Txoj neeg lub neej no, qhov tsis zoo, yog qhov tus hluas nraug twb yeej npaj siab yuav niam tij tseem dag tus hluas nkauj mus ua qhev ua zaub ua mov tha tus tij laug lub ntees, qhov no yog tus hluas nraug siab tsis ncaj, ib hnub twg tej zaum yuav tau txais kev npam thiab
I don’t think he’s to blame for any reason, at least he was honest and ya are not even married. He’s got the right to choose his future. He has a point.
This guy was using you all along. He had his eyes on his sil the whole time, waiting for his brother to pass. I can’t believe he was so low to have you help with his brother’s funeral while he knew he wasn’t going to pick you. Love yourself and respect yourself.
Ntuj aw... niam tij zoo nkauj los zoo nkauj Muaj nyiaj Lub cev los yiaj pob tw los loj Zoo aim los zoo aim Ua cas thiaj li tsis nyiam naw Kuv los kuv yeej yusv Naim tij ib yam thiab 😂😂
Girl, you dodged a bullet. He may have broken your heart but you wouldn't want to be with someone who secretly has the hots for his niam tij. Yog koj tau nws es koj mam paub nws nyiam koj niam tij ces ntshe koj lub neej yuav lwj siab thiab nyob tsaus ntuj nti. Xum mob ib ntus, tsis xum mob ib tiam.
Vuag cas pab koj mobsiab ua luaj li es tseen nrog kuj poob kua muag nrog koj mobsiab os. Niamtij ces tau tij thiab kwv 2 leeg yaj phom mas ntshe zoo niamtij siab hos kwv ces tau nyiaj thiab tau niamtij tibsi os... txhob tusiab, txivneej yeej siab phem os. Yog niamtij laus2 dab2 tuag los hmoob ces yeej pe thiab muab tuav cia khuam tseg kom tau pob nyiaj thiab cov menyuam li os hmoob na😊
Wow, he used you to display his affections to woo his sister-in-law! You got played lady, but you missed all those red flags that smacked your face a few times 😂
Perhaps he divorced his wife, preparing to marry his niam tij knowing the fate of his brother. It was so obvious the night you went to his family’s Thanksgiving dinner. There were a lot of red flags.
I wouldn't be surprised if they were ex gf/bf in the past. I honestly think they were and that's why they both didn't hesitate to marry each other. Sick.
Niam tij twb tsis xyeej ib lo li ntshe koj paub tsawg os. Thaum tij laug mob mob lawm ntshe niam tij thiab koj tus tsav xwm nkawv twb sib muaj siab ua ntej lawm os. Koj thiab tij laug tsis paub xwb os. Txhob tu siab mam nehiav dua.
Peb ua neej nyob ces qhov es ua rau peb mob tshaj ces yog peb yus txiv betrayed peb. Tus niam tij los Xyov ua cas txiv neej tuag tag lawm los cas. It’s so disgusting marrying your husband’s brother and betraying your niam ntxawm. It’s a blessing in disguise os sister aw. Heal yourself and be thankful.
Auj yauj, ntshe nws twb nyiag nyiam nws tus niam tij thiab thaum nws paub nws tus tij laug mob2 ces ntshe nws twb muaj plan xav tau tias yog tus tij laug tuag hnub twg ces nws yuav2 nws niam tij es nws thiaj tsis kam yuav koj los mas tus mi vivncaus aw. Txawm li cas nwd ntshaw2 nws tus tij laug lub neej los tsis ua cas tiam no lub ntuj nyob qes2 lawm mog. Zoo qhov nws tsis tau yuav koj, yog nws yuav koj ces ntshe hnub no koj tseem yuav tau ua niam loj los yog poj nrauj zaum ob mog. Mam npam nws tom qab xwb os.
Koj yog poj niam koj twb tias nws tus niam tij zoo nkauj heev, zoo txhua yam ua rau koj twb ntsia tsis dhuav thiab no ces kawg nws ham tsis xaiv niam tij xwb mos. Tsis tas li niam tij tseem muaj hmoo muaj nyiaj thiab ne.
Sorry this happened to you. Yes the red flags were there but love blinded you. Ua ib siab and move along with your life. He’s not worth your suffering and tears. Still plenty of men out there that will choose you!
I have a feeling he always has a thing for the niam tij or maybe they both have a history before the niam tij married the older brother. I’m sure there is more to the story that he hasn’t told you.
Mob cancer, never go thru chemotherapy or have any surgery cuz it will spread thru your body quickly. Mix baking soda into hot water and drink on an empty stomach 30 mins before meal time. Soursop, apricot seeds, also help too.
Wow! He probably couldn’t wait for his brother to go so he can be with his niamtij…. What a pervert. Sorry sister, he was just using you all along to buy himself time. Be thankful you’re okay and move on.
It's not his fault it's her fault...he choose to marry his sister in law then she should be happy, at least he told her the truth. He chose the right woman because she's not a single woman she's married and has kids... Why not chose the sister- in-law. She no match for her his sister in law.
Disgusting. Idk how anyone could marry their bnl/snl unless they've always secretly had the hots for their bnl/snl, which is still morally and ethically wrong.
Have some self worth & dignity woman! Just thank ur lucky stars the cheater didnt marry u. It wasnt neant to be, u will find someone who's worthy of ur love.
I bet he and his niam tij have been having a secret affair long before the brother's death. He used you to cover his affair to make him look innocent to everyone. Those 2 know exactly what they are hiding. You were just a shield. hate to be you but pick yourself back up and move on.
He told you he would make a choice after the funeral because he didn’t know if his niam tij was gonna say yes to marrying him…so he wanted to keep you as a back up option in case she said no. But she said yes at the end and that sealed your fate. He was obviously attracted to her. You said it yourself. She’s really pretty with great skin, boobs and butt, small waist, smart, caring, good wife and mother. Even I fell in love after your description!
How do you not see the red flags??? He certainly wanted to be with his niamtij but he just didnt know how to tell you. This guy doesnt even love you because he was able to let go of you just like that. Txhob tuag rau tej niag txiv quav dev li ntawd.
Wow, all i can say is wow!
Count your blessings, sister. He never loved you. He was just using you as a footstool to carry on his secret love affair with his sister in law. He used you to hide his love for here. Not to mention that he's money hungry too. With his brothers death, she'll get all the money. With him married to her, he'll have all that money. He'll not have to work, and he'll live in comfort and control her. Do not waste your tears on him. He isn't worth your love or dedication. Let karma repay him for you. They both deserved each other.
Woman, he is not even your husband. Thank your lucky star and pick up your dignity and self respect and move on.
Dang! Feel bad for you, but there are so many signs though. Niam tij was always his goal.
No, they were forking the entire time his brother was sick.
Wow, that’s so messed up what he did to her. Smh. I guess that’s a lesson learned not to love too hard until they are yours.
Wow, can't believe this tradition is still going on in the USA. Smh.
He’s messed up. You deserved better so don’t remember him anymore.
Sounds like he's always secretly wanted his niamtij, and knowing that his brother was going to die any day, he was biding his time and that's why he held off marrying you because he planned on marrying his niamtij all along! Maybe Karma might catch up with him by shortening his life too for callously using you. Absolutely shameful of him to ask you to help out with the funeral all the while knowing that he was never going to stay with you because he was going to marry his widowed sil!
Yups, that’s karma.
He is a weak man. I’m sure he liked you enough but is the type that will move on if he sees something he likes better. His sister in law is also a snake for agreeing to marry him. She knew all along that he was with you.
Thov txim tus muam koj txhob xav li cas tiv tauj kuv ntawm: Neegzoomuaj Tsawg: seb kuv puas pauv tau tsav xwm os
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Be glad you didn't marry him. If you did, he probably going to marry her as niam yau. Us women need to love ourselves more, dont beg anyone to love you. You're his second choice
Mob siab ua laug
Money win
Niam tij zoo nkauj txawj ntse kwv hlub kwv txis los yeej okay kawg nawb. Niam tij tij laug lub neej zoo zoo kwv kav tsij tuav kiag tij laug lub neej mus xwb tsis txhaum li as. Vim Niam tij twb zoo zoo niam tsev nes.
Tus neeg ua li tus thaub no ua yeej tsis hlub koj os
Kav tsij zoo siab tias koj tsuas plam tus neeg tsis hlub koj mus lawm xwb os
Tsis ntev ces nws yuav lawv nws tij laug qab lawm os
Xum yuav niam tij zoo tshaj yuav ib niag poj nrauj vim twb tsis paub poj nrauj lub niag qes tsws lwj es. Tsav xwm aw yuav koj niam tij zoo tshaj plaws lawm.
He is thanking his lucky star. A beautiful woman with money, he definitely jumps first in line. He's a yawg nrauj, he is poor. I bet his kwvtij didn't even ask him to, but he probably told them he wanted his niamtij the minute his brother passed. Niamtij likes him for a long time, too. If she doesn't like him, she will refuse the traditional, but she stays silent. Women words when they like someone..."up to you to decide".
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Love yourself and move on. This guy has always had eyes for his SIL, waiting for his brother to die so he can marry her. You were just a side chick used to pass time. Pick up and move on, it was not meant to be. Don't die for someone like him.
Ua txoj tuag ib tsig kom tau yuav Tsav Xwm xwb Sav. Poj Hmoob txawj dag tiag tiag ntxim ntxub qias neeg dhau
Txoj neeg lub neej no, qhov tsis zoo, yog qhov tus hluas nraug twb yeej npaj siab yuav niam tij tseem dag tus hluas nkauj mus ua qhev ua zaub ua mov tha tus tij laug lub ntees, qhov no yog tus hluas nraug siab tsis ncaj, ib hnub twg tej zaum yuav tau txais kev npam thiab
I feel your heartache. Nrog koj zoo siab koj tseem zoo lov thiab os mog.
I don’t think he’s to blame for any reason, at least he was honest and ya are not even married. He’s got the right to choose his future.
He has a point.
This guy was using you all along. He had his eyes on his sil the whole time, waiting for his brother to pass. I can’t believe he was so low to have you help with his brother’s funeral while he knew he wasn’t going to pick you. Love yourself and respect yourself.
Ntuj aw... niam tij zoo nkauj los zoo nkauj
Muaj nyiaj
Lub cev los yiaj pob tw los loj
Zoo aim los zoo aim
Ua cas thiaj li tsis nyiam naw
Kuv los kuv yeej yusv Naim tij ib yam thiab 😂😂
Girl, you dodged a bullet. He may have broken your heart but you wouldn't want to be with someone who secretly has the hots for his niam tij. Yog koj tau nws es koj mam paub nws nyiam koj niam tij ces ntshe koj lub neej yuav lwj siab thiab nyob tsaus ntuj nti. Xum mob ib ntus, tsis xum mob ib tiam.
Vuag cas pab koj mobsiab ua luaj li es tseen nrog kuj poob kua muag nrog koj mobsiab os. Niamtij ces tau tij thiab kwv 2 leeg yaj phom mas ntshe zoo niamtij siab hos kwv ces tau nyiaj thiab tau niamtij tibsi os... txhob tusiab, txivneej yeej siab phem os. Yog niamtij laus2 dab2 tuag los hmoob ces yeej pe thiab muab tuav cia khuam tseg kom tau pob nyiaj thiab cov menyuam li os hmoob na😊
Zoo koj ciaj los lawm os , txhob tuag muaj thiab pluag los thaum kawg kuj tuag ib yam xwb rau av dav ib mev ntev ob mev ib yam nkaus xwb mog !
Wow, he used you to display his affections to woo his sister-in-law! You got played lady, but you missed all those red flags that smacked your face a few times 😂
This lady has no clue whatsoever
Perhaps he divorced his wife, preparing to marry his niam tij knowing the fate of his brother. It was so obvious the night you went to his family’s Thanksgiving dinner. There were a lot of red flags.
Dang, that is fawk up! Karma's gonna get him.
Wow there's nothing created equal in or on this world!!!sadsadsad.
I wouldn't be surprised if they were ex gf/bf in the past. I honestly think they were and that's why they both didn't hesitate to marry each other. Sick.
Dang smh
Niam tij twb tsis xyeej ib lo li ntshe koj paub tsawg os. Thaum tij laug mob mob lawm ntshe niam tij thiab koj tus tsav xwm nkawv twb sib muaj siab ua ntej lawm os. Koj thiab tij laug tsis paub xwb os. Txhob tu siab mam nehiav dua.
Tsis tim tus Thaub, vim Koj ntshaw nws dhau lawm
Wow !!! So sad .
Cov neeg zoo nraug yeej siab phem li no ntag hos...
Dang, you got played!
Sorry sad for you sister. Move on. He was probably cheating with her a long time.
So sorry, sister. He gave you a chance to move on to a better man. Good luck!
Txaus hlub dhau
Peb ua neej nyob ces qhov es ua rau peb mob tshaj ces yog peb yus txiv betrayed peb. Tus niam tij los Xyov ua cas txiv neej tuag tag lawm los cas. It’s so disgusting marrying your husband’s brother and betraying your niam ntxawm. It’s a blessing in disguise os sister aw. Heal yourself and be thankful.
He wasn't yours from the beginning
Let him go n move forward
Auj yauj, ntshe nws twb nyiag nyiam nws tus niam tij thiab thaum nws paub nws tus tij laug mob2 ces ntshe nws twb muaj plan xav tau tias yog tus tij laug tuag hnub twg ces nws yuav2 nws niam tij es nws thiaj tsis kam yuav koj los mas tus mi vivncaus aw. Txawm li cas nwd ntshaw2 nws tus tij laug lub neej los tsis ua cas tiam no lub ntuj nyob qes2 lawm mog. Zoo qhov nws tsis tau yuav koj, yog nws yuav koj ces ntshe hnub no koj tseem yuav tau ua niam loj los yog poj nrauj zaum ob mog. Mam npam nws tom qab xwb os.
Koj yog poj niam koj twb tias nws tus niam tij zoo nkauj heev, zoo txhua yam ua rau koj twb ntsia tsis dhuav thiab no ces kawg nws ham tsis xaiv niam tij xwb mos. Tsis tas li niam tij tseem muaj hmoo muaj nyiaj thiab ne.
Sorry this happened to you. Yes the red flags were there but love blinded you. Ua ib siab and move along with your life. He’s not worth your suffering and tears. Still plenty of men out there that will choose you!
Ham tsis zoo cuag li tsis yuav cais ruam xwb !
Karma going to get him for using you!! Forget about him, sister, he is not worth your love and time.
I have a feeling he always has a thing for the niam tij or maybe they both have a history before the niam tij married the older brother. I’m sure there is more to the story that he hasn’t told you.
Poj hmoob ruam…..koj yog nws tus hluas nkauj xwb, tsis yog nws poj niam. Koj tsis muaj right los control nws. Kev hluas nkauj hluas nraug, qhov koj yuav tau nws ces yog 50% xwb. Txhob vwm vwm mas!!!!
Tus kwv twb hu ua tsav xwm no tus tij laug tseem hu us tij laug tsav no thiab los lol
Mob cancer, never go thru chemotherapy or have any surgery cuz it will spread thru your body quickly. Mix baking soda into hot water and drink on an empty stomach 30 mins before meal time. Soursop, apricot seeds, also help too.
Vim tus tov muaj txhua yam nes tos nws thiaj xaiv tus tov
Wow! He probably couldn’t wait for his brother to go so he can be with his niamtij…. What a pervert. Sorry sister, he was just using you all along to buy himself time. Be thankful you’re okay and move on.
Dang sister, you must've your eye's closed. All the signs were there. Can't believe you helped him pay for the funeral and so on.
He is disgusting for eyeing his brother's wife all along. Be thankful he left you. He doesn't deserve your love.
It's not his fault it's her fault...he choose to marry his sister in law then she should be happy, at least he told her the truth. He chose the right woman because she's not a single woman she's married and has kids... Why not chose the sister- in-law. She no match for her his sister in law.
Disgusting. Idk how anyone could marry their bnl/snl unless they've always secretly had the hots for their bnl/snl, which is still morally and ethically wrong.
He didn’t love you… move on there are many other mens
Have some self worth & dignity woman! Just thank ur lucky stars the cheater didnt marry u. It wasnt neant to be, u will find someone who's worthy of ur love.
Lawv hais tias neb nyob ua ke pw ua ke, tiam sis koj hais tias koj mus tim nws tsev nws tuaj tim koj tsev….? Es yog li cas tiag ma 😂
Should have left when you found out he was thinking about marrying his Sil… Have some self respect
Keep your gf close, but keep your snl closer!!!😂😂😂
Koj pom xeeb fake tuag qi qi qi muag tos 3 niag hnub diam los thaub tsis nim xaiv koj li os yom. Niam tij haib tshaj lawm ne 😂
Ewwww... that's so nasty ! How can you sleep with your sis n law? Some hmong traditions are so disgusting. But lol keep it in the family.
I bet he and his niam tij have been having a secret affair long before the brother's death. He used you to cover his affair to make him look innocent to everyone. Those 2 know exactly what they are hiding. You were just a shield. hate to be you but pick yourself back up and move on.
Lol
You got used big time tus mes vivncaus. Shame on your ex-boyfriend for using you.
All your signs were there after the talk. I dont know why you just didnt let go than
Clearly he hasn’t married you yet. Time to move on sister
Ntuj aw niag nkauj nraug nkauj nrab xwb nim vaus nrov poog dag kom tau yuav Tsav Xwm xwb los ho. Pog vwm pog ntxim ntxub tswv yim loj tiag tiag. Sickle tshaj qias neeg tshaj xuab. Pog tswv yim loj dag kom tau Tsav Xwm xwb.🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
he sounds like an idiot, but you didn't marry a cheater so you got away sis