You confused social friends (those belonging to the same social group) with REAL friends (those who are there for you no matter what)! Ironic how your ex-husband called you his second choice when HE himself was second choice to his ex-gf since she chose to marry someone else that first time around! It would serve him right, in the future, to get dumped again a SECOND time by the same woman!😂 Pretty yourself up and move on with your life, no point crying over a man who's NOT worthy of your tears!
Sorry sister for what you are going through. This is a typical hmong sister in law friendship is like. When you're part of his family everything is good but when he is in the wrong and moves on with someone else they distanced themselves from you. Remember this my hmong sisters, you will always be your inlaws guest not a nyab daughter like they say. When the going gets tough everyone is busy with their lives. This is why I encourage my kids to make friends outside of the family as well because one day we may face this situation. Be strong and walk with your head held high. Don't ever show your weakness to his side of the family. Show your confidence to everyone that you dont need him or them in your life. Best of luck sister!
Me viv ncau aws hai txog ntawm yus cov kwv tij ces hnub twg nrauj ces yus yeej tsi yog lawv tsev neeg lawm mas cov tsi khiav yus ces yog yus niam txiv yug ib plab xwb tsi yog kwv tij niam pog txiv yawg os viv ncau es txhob tus siab yeej meem hlub yus tus kheej xwb mog peb txhua tus yeej zoo ib yam txiv neej ces hnub twg lub neej zoo ces lawv yeej nrhiav lwm tus pojniam os muaj ib txhia txiv tsev kuj tsi hloov vim lawv yeej ua tsi dhau lawv tus niam tsev tabsi cov txiv es lawv tsi nyoo tus niam tsev ces neej yeej piam tag os tsi yog koj xwb
It true friends only with u when u have good life n $ n also popular xwb...when ur life go down hill they don't know u no more ... seriously y i never no need friends at all because i already know...they not real friends...just fake ppl...in this world.....
I’m sorry for what happened to you, sister. Those people were not your real friends. They had an ulterior motive to keep you close to them. What happened between you and your husband was not your fault. He cheated and so you left. I’m proud of you for loving yourself enough to leave. This story goes to show that you can’t just be friends with your husband’s side and his friends’ wives only. You need your own side of friends and gotta stay close to your family so when shit hits the roof like this , you will have your own support group. I hope you find happiness and keep an open mind that your husband’s friends are not your friends. Your husband’s relatives are not your relatives. Find your own support group so that you don’t go through the storm alone. Good luck to you, sister. Hmoob lo lus tias koj mus yuav tsev neeg twg lawm ces koj yuav tau ua li lawv es muab koj niam koj txiv koj tej viv ncaus phooj ywg zoo tso pov tseg is not good. You never know what the future holds so don’t put so much faith in just your husband’s side of friends and family only.
Wow! So sorry for you. Keep your friends to a small circle. The friends should be people who have your best interest. Your mistakes are all your friends you were with were actually all his family and friends.
Hais rau peb tsev neeg Hmoob lub zwj ceeb no, tsis hais tus poj niam los yog tus txiv neej pom luag lub neej zoo2 yus rua muag pliav mus txeeb ua rau luag lub kua muag poob kua muag nrog, ces yus yuav tau txais kev khaum kev npam, ib hnub twg yus lub kua muag yuav tau poob tib yam thiab, thov kom tej yam zoo li no peb txhob ua
Those are NOT your real friends. Real friends stick by you through thick and thin!! Those are all users. See how quickly they changed and switched sides. It's OK, sister. First love seldom work out. 😂 They'll fall apart soon enough.
Txhob tu siab os me sister, peb ua neej nyob tsis pom tag kis li os mog. Cov phooj ywg ruam thiaj coj li ntawd xwb os. Xyaum ua tus poj ntxim hlub es tsis txhob mus rhuav lwm tus lub neej 1 yam li lawv ua rau yus nawb.
Sorry for what happened to you! I am happy to see that our new married generation is now different. We are the mean and lazy nyab that no one likes and approaches. We love ourselves more than our husbands. We make our own money and do stuff on our own. We only get involved when it's necessary. We don't care for titles or making a good name for ourselves. We don't hang out with the other wives. We enjoy staying home, sleeping, and traveling only. Love yourself. Save you time and energy and be selfish.
This kind of life is too busy. Sounds like every weekend is busy with social mindless activities. I preferred the quiet quality life with my husband, kids, and grandkids.
Ib tug txiv neej thaum nws rov ntsib, nws tus qub hlub ces kawg neej puas qhov ntau 99 feem pua, vim nws xav tias ua ib tug thawj coj ces muaj plhus heev ntawm peb cov txiv neej. Txhob vwm txhob xiam hlwb rau koj lub neej, tejzaum neb lub neej tsuas los nyob ua ke txog txij li ntawv xwb. Yus muab xav ntau ces mob xwb, Txhob tos cov niam tsev kev pab os, vim koj lub neej twb tsis zoo li qub lawm ne. Txij hnub koj nrauj koj tus txiv thiab tus txiv nrauj koj ces koj lub position ces tag lawm ov. Txhob xav tias koj lub position yuav nyob li qub os tus niam tsev koj yuam kev rau qhov no heev. Qhov tseeb ntawm kev ua neej ces yeej li no os nawb.
Tus niam tsev nrog koj tu siab, koj tus txiv tus hluas nkauj thaum hluas nws twb tsis xaiv koj tus txiv, koj tus txiv rov mus yuav thiab ruam tiag2, nws yog ib tug neeg hmoov hlob nws tus txiv thiaj tso nws tseg, nkawv rov sib yuav, los lub neej yuav mus tsis txog twg tab sis koj yuav tau tawm ntawm koj lub qhov rooj mus 3 kauj ruam es hu koj tej plig nyiaj plig kub plig tub ki thiab plig txij nkawm los kom tag rov rau koj, koj lub neej tom ntej thiaj yuav zoo, lwm tus thiaj txeeb tsis tau
I'm so sorry to hear about your marriage. You only got fake friends.. Those are friends with benefits. Nothing's last forever. Can't get mad at those friends because you're no longer in their circle. The one betrayed you was your spouse. Sister, karma is real. Your ex- husband and his second wife purposely did you wrong. Just watch them for their downfalls.
taws raus yeej tsis pom deb ua neej nyob tsis paub yav tom ntej, txoj koob txoj moo mas xaiv tib neeg ov mog, kev ua nom ua tus coj yuav tau ncaj ncees hais lus zoo hais lus tseeb xwb, neb muab nyiaj txias los hlub los pab muab dej cawv los ua kev tham pem xwb, thaum neb txom nyem ces phooj ywg thiaj li pawv tas ploj tas lawm, paub thiab pom kawm tiav lawm los pob.?,
These are true friends. They are only your friends when you benefit them. Toxic, narrow minds and judgemental people like these, it's a blessing in disguise that they are no longer in your life.
Koj yog ib tug pojniam ntshaw meej mom ntshaw ua poj nom dhau lawm. Thaum koj tus txiv dev rov mus yuav nws tus qub hluas nkauj lawm ces koj lub poj nom pawv lawm ces koj thiaj ua neej vwm.
Tham pem ces tham qhov zoo xwb yom yog koj ua yog ces koj cov phooj ywg yeej tsis plot li os yuad kuv mloog mas tos koj ua neej yuam kev los vim koj heev tsis raws cai lawm as yom
Phooj ywg, nrog koj khib siab vim koj niag txiv dev Liam rov taw tuam ntuj rau koj. Tim niag tsov tom Poj laib khaus pim ntawd xwb los mas. Kam Liam os. Yam teeb meem uas tshwm sim lawm ces cia nws dhau mus vim yus cheem tsis tau lawm. For now on, take good care of yourself n stay healthy. U can never trust anyone too much n don't count on friends to love you n care for you when you are going through a tough time in life. Your ex-husband who loved u very much can betray you so friends are worse. Hey, don't be too sad, look on the bright side being a divorcee isn't that bad. Now, u have the freedom to do whatever u want n go where ever you feel like. Go out there n find your own happiness in life. Don't think about your ex-husband anymore. Best wishes😂❤
I don't consider my husband's family as my friends. They r family in law. Once I'm gone the wives of the ex's family are gone too. The reason there was a relationship is the ex husband. Just know even though it's not your fault, the whole clan will side with the cheater cuz it's his family.
Why does so many poj nrauj use the saying that, "if you can't control your husband and he comes here then it's not my fault and I will continue to pursue him." Excuse me ladies, it is the husband's fault more than anything but if you knew he has a wife then WHY would you continue to mess with him? If you didn't know, I don't blame you but if you knew, you are also at fault. Remember that what goes around comes around, by doing that to another woman, you will not have a good life.
Those were never your real friends you were just not smart enough to realize. They are part of your ex-husband social circle not your friends. Once are not with your husband you are out of that circle.
Keep your circle small is perfect sis. God bless you.
You confused social friends (those belonging to the same social group) with REAL friends (those who are there for you no matter what)! Ironic how your ex-husband called you his second choice when HE himself was second choice to his ex-gf since she chose to marry someone else that first time around! It would serve him right, in the future, to get dumped again a SECOND time by the same woman!😂 Pretty yourself up and move on with your life, no point crying over a man who's NOT worthy of your tears!
Sorry sister for what you are going through. This is a typical hmong sister in law friendship is like. When you're part of his family everything is good but when he is in the wrong and moves on with someone else they distanced themselves from you.
Remember this my hmong sisters, you will always be your inlaws guest not a nyab daughter like they say. When the going gets tough everyone is busy with their lives. This is why I encourage my kids to make friends outside of the family as well because one day we may face this situation.
Be strong and walk with your head held high. Don't ever show your weakness to his side of the family. Show your confidence to everyone that you dont need him or them in your life. Best of luck sister!
Tus me viv ncaus aw!! Tsis txhob tu2 siab os mog yog lawv tau raus koj nkawm khaus thaum twg lawm ces lawv thiaj paub os mog.
Me viv ncau aws hai txog ntawm yus cov kwv tij ces hnub twg nrauj ces yus yeej tsi yog lawv tsev neeg lawm mas cov tsi khiav yus ces yog yus niam txiv yug ib plab xwb tsi yog kwv tij niam pog txiv yawg os viv ncau es txhob tus siab yeej meem hlub yus tus kheej xwb mog peb txhua tus yeej zoo ib yam txiv neej ces hnub twg lub neej zoo ces lawv yeej nrhiav lwm tus pojniam os muaj ib txhia txiv tsev kuj tsi hloov vim lawv yeej ua tsi dhau lawv tus niam tsev tabsi cov txiv es lawv tsi nyoo tus niam tsev ces neej yeej piam tag os tsi yog koj xwb
It true friends only with u when u have good life n $ n also popular xwb...when ur life go down hill they don't know u no more ... seriously y i never no need friends at all because i already know...they not real friends...just fake ppl...in this world.....
I’m sorry for what happened to you, sister. Those people were not your real friends. They had an ulterior motive to keep you close to them. What happened between you and your husband was not your fault. He cheated and so you left. I’m proud of you for loving yourself enough to leave. This story goes to show that you can’t just be friends with your husband’s side and his friends’ wives only. You need your own side of friends and gotta stay close to your family so when shit hits the roof like this , you will have your own support group. I hope you find happiness and keep an open mind that your husband’s friends are not your friends. Your husband’s relatives are not your relatives. Find your own support group so that you don’t go through the storm alone. Good luck to you, sister. Hmoob lo lus tias koj mus yuav tsev neeg twg lawm ces koj yuav tau ua li lawv es muab koj niam koj txiv koj tej viv ncaus phooj ywg zoo tso pov tseg is not good. You never know what the future holds so don’t put so much faith in just your husband’s side of friends and family only.
Wow! So sorry for you. Keep your friends to a small circle. The friends should be people who have your best interest. Your mistakes are all your friends you were with were actually all his family and friends.
Tseev tsim txhiaj muaj zoo meej mom los yeej kawg tuag thiab nkag pojniam ob ceg xwb os. Pojniam lub ncuav yog number 1os..pab koj tu siab os..hlub koj tus kheej os mog..phoojywg ces zoo thaum yus muaj neej xwb nawb..
Thanks for sharing your neej neeg.
Vim koj yog neeg tsab ntse nplua nuj. Cov neeg ntse muaj nyiaj txomnyem thiab nplua nuj los phoojywg yeej tsis txawv. Koj yog neeg vwm siv nyiaj yuav kev phoojywg. Koj yog neeg khav theeb.
Hais rau peb tsev neeg Hmoob lub zwj ceeb no, tsis hais tus poj niam los yog tus txiv neej pom luag lub neej zoo2 yus rua muag pliav mus txeeb ua rau luag lub kua muag poob kua muag nrog, ces yus yuav tau txais kev khaum kev npam, ib hnub twg yus lub kua muag yuav tau poob tib yam thiab, thov kom tej yam zoo li no peb txhob ua
Yeej yog li koj cov kwv tij cov poj niam hais qhia koj mas tus me niam tsev !!! Txhob ntxub lawv thiab txhob tu siab os !!!
Wow! You are so lucky
Those are NOT your real friends. Real friends stick by you through thick and thin!! Those are all users. See how quickly they changed and switched sides. It's OK, sister. First love seldom work out. 😂 They'll fall apart soon enough.
Sorry this happened to you. Love YOURSELF. Keep your head high and move on. Enjoy your life. Don't waste your energy on the past.
Txhob tu siab os me sister, peb ua neej nyob tsis pom tag kis li os mog. Cov phooj ywg ruam thiaj coj li ntawd xwb os. Xyaum ua tus poj ntxim hlub es tsis txhob mus rhuav lwm tus lub neej 1 yam li lawv ua rau yus nawb.
Koj tus txiv nim yog ib tug txiv paub tab li koj hais os. Nws yog ib niag txiv dev liam thiab siab phem tob tshaj plaws xwb os. Hos koj cov phooj ywg ces yog phooj ywg noj xwb tsis yig phooj ytuag na. Lawv tsuas byiam thiab hwm koj vim koj muaj nyiaj xwb yog neb ob. I'm txiv tsis muaj nyiaj lawv yeej tsis hwm.neb os
Sorry sister. Love yourself.
Me viv ncaus aws, koj tsis muaj txiv lawm ces lwm tus pojniam ntshai2 tsam koj ho tham lawv cov txiv os mog tsis tag li ntawv xwb, koj cov qub phooj ywg twb yog koj tus txiv cov kwvtij xwb ces lawv yeej yuav hlub nws tshaj nawb. Txhob tu2 siab
Sorry for what happened to you! I am happy to see that our new married generation is now different. We are the mean and lazy nyab that no one likes and approaches. We love ourselves more than our husbands. We make our own money and do stuff on our own. We only get involved when it's necessary. We don't care for titles or making a good name for ourselves. We don't hang out with the other wives. We enjoy staying home, sleeping, and traveling only. Love yourself. Save you time and energy and be selfish.
Ppl now a day need to know being friend have it limit never all in for them everyone will feel that pain but remember to love yourself first
This kind of life is too busy. Sounds like every weekend is busy with social mindless activities. I preferred the quiet quality life with my husband, kids, and grandkids.
Cas ruam ua luaj cov phooj ntawd yog koj tus txiv cov xwb vivncaus aw!!
Ib tug txiv neej thaum nws rov ntsib, nws tus qub hlub ces kawg neej puas qhov ntau 99 feem pua, vim nws xav tias ua ib tug thawj coj ces muaj plhus heev ntawm peb cov txiv neej. Txhob vwm txhob xiam hlwb rau koj lub neej, tejzaum neb lub neej tsuas los nyob ua ke txog txij li ntawv xwb. Yus muab xav ntau ces mob xwb, Txhob tos cov niam tsev kev pab os, vim koj lub neej twb tsis zoo li qub lawm ne. Txij hnub koj nrauj koj tus txiv thiab tus txiv nrauj koj ces koj lub position ces tag lawm ov. Txhob xav tias koj lub position yuav nyob li qub os tus niam tsev koj yuam kev rau qhov no heev. Qhov tseeb ntawm kev ua neej ces yeej li no os nawb.
Tus niam tsev nrog koj tu siab, koj tus txiv tus hluas nkauj thaum hluas nws twb tsis xaiv koj tus txiv, koj tus txiv rov mus yuav thiab ruam tiag2, nws yog ib tug neeg hmoov hlob nws tus txiv thiaj tso nws tseg, nkawv rov sib yuav, los lub neej yuav mus tsis txog twg tab sis koj yuav tau tawm ntawm koj lub qhov rooj mus 3 kauj ruam es hu koj tej plig nyiaj plig kub plig tub ki thiab plig txij nkawm los kom tag rov rau koj, koj lub neej tom ntej thiaj yuav zoo, lwm tus thiaj txeeb tsis tau
I'm so sorry to hear about your marriage. You only got fake friends.. Those are friends with benefits. Nothing's last forever. Can't get mad at those friends because you're no longer in their circle. The one betrayed you was your spouse.
Sister, karma is real. Your ex- husband and his second wife purposely did you wrong. Just watch them for their downfalls.
taws raus yeej tsis pom deb ua neej nyob tsis paub yav tom ntej, txoj koob txoj moo mas xaiv tib neeg ov mog, kev ua nom ua tus coj yuav tau ncaj ncees hais lus zoo hais lus tseeb xwb, neb muab nyiaj txias los hlub los pab muab dej cawv los ua kev tham pem xwb, thaum neb txom nyem ces phooj ywg thiaj li pawv tas ploj tas lawm, paub thiab pom kawm tiav lawm los pob.?,
Zoo thaum hluas txom nyem thaum laus ce li ko mas
These are true friends. They are only your friends when you benefit them. Toxic, narrow minds and judgemental people like these, it's a blessing in disguise that they are no longer in your life.
Koj yog ib tug pojniam ntshaw meej mom ntshaw ua poj nom dhau lawm. Thaum koj tus txiv dev rov mus yuav nws tus qub hluas nkauj lawm ces koj lub poj nom pawv lawm ces koj thiaj ua neej vwm.
It’s true you should stay and see how your husband action. Once you divorced every one divorced you.
Yog tshaj plaws kv muaj ib co phooj ywg mas noj yus xwb ua zoo saib mam ua phooj ywg nrog nawb cov me sister zoo
Lawv tsuas nyiam thaum koj muaj $ xwb os txhob cia2 siab tias lub neej thaum pib zoo lawm ces yuav zoo2 li ntawv mus 1 sim neej no nawb
Money friends not real friend....
Tham pem ces tham qhov zoo xwb yom yog koj ua yog ces koj cov phooj ywg yeej tsis plot li os yuad kuv mloog mas tos koj ua neej yuam kev los vim koj heev tsis raws cai lawm as yom
To this sister. There is someone who love you and wants you. He is name is Jesus Christ. Go to him. He will heal you
Karma to the ex husband. I feel sorry for you.
That why women don't love each other....
Moob muaj 1 lu lug has tas nyuj ntxaug 10 tug nkaug nyuj rog 10 tug yaim ces yog le ko mas.
Bad story, but good leason to learn.
mob chim siab tshaj ces yog mob qhov ncauj, tus poj niam ntxub tshaj yog tus poj nrauj ov mog,
mob tu siab tshaj ces yog mob qhov muag, tus uas poj niam ntxub tshaj yog tus poj nruam,
mob tsis zoo nyob yog mob kaus niav, tus uas poj niam ntxub tshaj yog tus niam ntiav,
My in laws they don’t want to babysit so they never let us go to help with the relative
Phooj ywg, nrog koj khib siab vim koj niag txiv dev Liam rov taw tuam ntuj rau koj. Tim niag tsov tom Poj laib khaus pim ntawd xwb los mas. Kam Liam os. Yam teeb meem uas tshwm sim lawm ces cia nws dhau mus vim yus cheem tsis tau lawm.
For now on, take good care of yourself n stay healthy. U can never trust anyone too much n don't count on friends to love you n care for you when you are going through a tough time in life. Your ex-husband who loved u very much can betray you so friends are worse.
Hey, don't be too sad, look on the bright side being a divorcee isn't that bad. Now, u have the freedom to do whatever u want n go where ever you feel like. Go out there n find your own happiness in life. Don't think about your ex-husband anymore. Best wishes😂❤
I don't consider my husband's family as my friends. They r family in law. Once I'm gone the wives of the ex's family are gone too. The reason there was a relationship is the ex husband. Just know even though it's not your fault, the whole clan will side with the cheater cuz it's his family.
It’s your own fault for not loving yourself after your divorced! You let your self crazy for a txiv dev liam
You?
Could only friend with relative when you still married.Once you get divorced, you and them are no longer friends anymore
Why does so many poj nrauj use the saying that, "if you can't control your husband and he comes here then it's not my fault and I will continue to pursue him." Excuse me ladies, it is the husband's fault more than anything but if you knew he has a wife then WHY would you continue to mess with him? If you didn't know, I don't blame you but if you knew, you are also at fault. Remember that what goes around comes around, by doing that to another woman, you will not have a good life.
Those were never your real friends you were just not smart enough to realize. They are part of your ex-husband social circle not your friends. Once are not with your husband you are out of that circle.
Never heard of 380 degree lol
Remove the voting ads..an old lady's voice is annoying.
What a show off first start off the story. Twg show off lawn 😊
Sister, I'm a niam tsev. I'll be your friend. Idc if you're a poj nrauj. I have a few poj nrauj friends. Contact me. 😊