You had so many chances to free yourself but you chose to stay and you went back to ask for more nonsense. At the end, you ended up taking care of the person who does not respect you. People may want certain things for you, but you are the only one who can control which path to take.
Seems like you lived out your karma this life time, your next life you're free of this sadness and live an extraordinary life with love and appreciation.
Niam yau yog tus tau txoj hmoo zoo tshaj plaws. Tau thaum lub zog quaj qaws, muab zog hluas nqus tag tshuav plhaub lawm xwb niam loj mam tau. Txawm tias yeej ib txwm yog niamloj tug, los it was never hers. Thaum kawg tau ces tsis muaj nqis lawm.
Yog kawg os niam tais aws kuv ntseeg tias yus yog tus tau tu nws ces yus yog tus ev kev npam xwb os.. pab koj tu siab uas thaum laus los tseem raug tu thiab os mog.. koom los mam pab tsis koom los nyias ua nyias xwb os mog..
Koj yeej ntshaw2 koj tus txiv es koj thiaj tos tav nov os ces nim koj twb tau lawm ces ua siab ntev tu thiab hlub nws, tus muaj hmoo ces yog koj tus txiv os
koj ces yug los xiam tiam lam nrog luag muaj txiv los tsis tau txiv noj lam los ua luag qhev kuv yog koj ces lawv txawm yuav pe nplaig lo av los kuv naus naus naus xwb ntag ho koj npam koj thiaj khaws tu rau thaum yuav tuag
Koj dag xwb tias koj tsis ntshaw nws. Txhob txwm rov mus nrhiav tim nplog teb. Ua txuj tsis kam nyob ua ke, cia menyuam xeeb ntxwv hais koj es koj mam kam. Koj yog pog dag
I don't know if I will call this a niam loj siab zoo. Its more like stupidity. Never received his loved but in the end you get to care for him. Our hmong women have no self love
@@akulathao4654agreed; because when the niam yau was alive her choose her niam yau. Only after she died, did he come back and used her. And she thought she won because she ended up taking care of him at the end. Smh
Vim nws cov me nyuam taj ib yam li nws thiab thiaj tsis paub tu siab tias ib sim neej yus txiv yug yus es nyuam qhuav hlub yus li 5 to 10% xwb es txhob tos nws tuaj cia nws nrog nws cov uas nws hlub 100% nyob lawv mam take care nws.
Don’t feel sorry for her because she lives in the United States Of America and still wants to take back the f……. Loser who has never loved her in her whole entire marriage. This is so stupid.
From the beginning you didn't have bay strong backbone to help you so you feel like you have to be below others like your niam ntxawm. She made you scared and didn't let you marry the one you wanted to, so you didn't feel the need to care for your husband now.
Qhov uas qhuas hai tia niam loj siab zoo no mas tsua yog koj niag txiv siab nyoo hai ntxias koj kom koj zoozoo siab ce koj thiaj tu nws xwb rau qhov koj ruam tshaj npuas lawm ne cov neeg ntse tsi muaj leejtwg qhuas hai tia koj siab zoo lis os.
Title doesn't match story. It's not about niam loj txoj kev zoo at all. I don't think she was that good or did such good deeds. She jus didn't cared for the dramas.
Tus me niam tais aw txawm yog coj li koj es koj thiaj li yog tus npam ntag. Txawm yog coj li koj koj tus txiv thiab tus niam yau thiaj cia koj ua poj ntsuam ciaj los laus li koj ntag. Peb tiam tshiaj no peb tsis cia txiv neej muab peb tsuj li ko lawm os.
Koj mas thiaj txawj ruamntshe tiam tas los koj tshuav nws nqi kav tsim ua qhev kom tag koj cov nuj nqi koj tsis yog siab zoo koj yog niag poj niam ruam xwb os peb tsis tau qhuas hais tias koj siab zoo
tsi yog koj siab zoo koj yog ib niag poj niam ruam tsi muaj siab ntsw yu twb nyob yu lau li ko es rov qab mu khaw tu niag txiv dev lau ko koj ma thiab yog muaj kev npam loj tiag2 lau li ko es tseem ntsaw niag txiv ko lo koom thiab ruam tsi tshaj koj lawm ca yuav tsi muab qee rau lwm tu ruam thiab yuav muab sau tag nrho rau yu ruam
Tus me Niam loj ntawm zaj nov....koj ces thiaj tseem tseem yog tib niag Neeg Npam Los them nqi rau koj niag txiv xwb....nws ib txwm twb tsis jlub koj...Los koj twb tsis hlub koj tus kheej thiab ...tsam no tseem yuav khaws nws Los Tu rov yam niag laus thiab....xam tias them nqi kom tag rau nws xwb ..koj thiaj li tsis chim siab xwb o mog
Ntuj aw koj mas yog ib tus niam loj ua xav xwb twb tsi pom niam you yeej tsi khaus li koj hais os cov niam loj hais li ko mas yog cov khib txiv tshaj plaws li os niam you thiab tus txiv mus twg los koj yeej xav tias nkawv ntshe mus sib ua xwb no pob koj mas xav twb tsi pom thiab paub qhov tseeb li koj hais lus zoo li kuv tus niam loj thiab tiag cov hais lub li koj ces tsi qhuas li os khib txiv ces tsi tshaj koj lawm los mas 😂
Tus pog no ruam heev li, pheej no tos nws tus txiv dev. Tus pog laus lam tsis xav yuav xwb, nyiam hais tsis xav yuav os, yus poj laus no lam dag peb xwb os. txhob dag peb os, koj yi laus koj xav tau xwb.
Koj yuam kev deb2 tag zog os tus me niam tais aws...luag yeej tsis hlub koj thiab koj cov menyuam nej li. Cas tsis muab dov kauj vab E kom nws thiaj tau kev mus thawj thiab nas !!
Koj tseem ntshaws niag txiv liam es rov qab mus tus niag txiv liam thiab koj mas ruam tiagtiag niam tais koj ruam tsi paub nws rau qhov nws tsi hai lis kos rau koj ce koj yuav tsi tu nws nws paub hai tia koj tseem ntshaws nws nws yuav tsum ntxias lis kos rau koj rau qhov koj ruamruam ce koj yuav rov qab nkag rau hauv nws ob ceg duas rau qhov koj ruam ne.
SORRY... NO way... Koj yeej hmoov yus tas lawm es koj thiaj nyob twj ywm raug koj niag txiv ko thiab cov niag Kwv Tij khoom nrog nyob. Cas yus nyob yus twb tau zoo tshaj los tseem tsis nyob thiab. XYov koj yeej npam tiag los cas li os. Tiam no tsis zoo li tiam puag thaum xyoo 75 os. You should have just said NO and divorced him regardless of what your kids or anyone says.
This is Not “niam loj siab zoo” this is “niam loj txoj kev ruam, kev npam” yus twb raug tus txiv neeg no tsim, tsuj, tsis hlub yus laus li no es tsam no yus tuaj nyob rau lub teb chaws vam meej no lawm es nws thiaj li ua niag txiv dev thawj thiab tuaj nrhiav chaw tuag xwb es tseem zoo siab los tu thiab ua mov yug tus neeg thawj thiab no ua dab tsi. This is insane. Tseem muab tham nkim sij hawm thiab.
Should've made it final and divorced him the first time you visited him. Even if you don't remarry, you would've been free from taking care of him. Sounds like you must've owed this old loser some debt from the last life. I feels so sorry for you gma, you definitely deserved better than this.
Nah, why do Hmong always blame it on ghost, dragons, voodoo (khaws koob), npam, hmoov and debt from a past life. No. She could had easily left him for good, even now, but she didn't and won't because like most Hmong women, can't live without a husband. Most Hmong women would rather have an abusive husband than no husband. So she made a choice (not making a choice, not taking action is also making a choice, it's like the last option, "None of the above", on a test question; her only choices are Leave, Stay, None of the Above and she chose None of the above, which is the same as Stay; So even though she didn't like it, she has to make a choice and that's what she chose). It's not because of debt or any of Hmong's old BS believes. When my ex-girlfriend met a new man, I asked her to chose. She chose him because she said he's handsome and khoom zoo nkauj. Then she said it's because "wb txog hmoo". What sort of BS is that? There are things that we can control and things that we can't. If you made a decision, don't blame it on txoj hmoo. Txoj hmoo is an act of God... something beyond your control. Deciding to stay or leave is a personal decision and has nothing to do with destiny. Hmong always say, "wb daim ntawv", "wbo txoj hmoo" es thiaj los sib tau. But after a few years, they divorce. If it was "wb daim ntawv" why divorce? Oh right, daim ntawv ntuag ne. Now you're just making excuses.
You are the creator of your life, you chose to take him back and take care of him. It’s your fault, I feel sorry for you, what a waste of time. He never loved you.
Yog kawg, koj mas npam loj tshaj. Thaum hluas los tsis tau kev hlub, thaum laus los tseem tau nqa quav nqa zis thiab.
Kuv 1 txwm hais tias, "Siab zoo yog siab ruam" or as American's say, "No good deed goes unpunished".
Tsis yog niam loj txog kev zoo. Yog niam loj txog kev ruam thiab npam xwb os. Kev zoo thiab kev uv tsis yog in yam. This should be titled “Niam loj yog tu ruam.” 🤦♀️
Agree
Yog mas!
Yog tshaj plaws !!
😂yes please retitle to “ Niam Loj Ruam Tshaj “!
ZOO
You had so many chances to free yourself but you chose to stay and you went back to ask for more nonsense. At the end, you ended up taking care of the person who does not respect you. People may want certain things for you, but you are the only one who can control which path to take.
Niag poj hmoob no yeej ua luag qhev tsis paub txaus. Ntshe yuav ua qhev kom tag tiam no. Yus twb tuaj puag thaum yus tseem hluas cas tsis mus yuav txiv es yuav nyob laus tag. Luag nyob luag puag tim nplog yog koj cov me nyuam tsis txhob tos tuaj ces koj yeej tsis tau ua qhev ntxiv lawm. Tsis yog siab zoo, yog siab ruam dhau tsis muaj peev xwm nrhiav kev tawm mus pib dua neej tshiab xwb.
Weak people, you did that to yourself, blame no one but yourself! I don't feel sorry!
That’s what you get grandma for not divorcing your txiv dev when you were young! Stopped preaching grandma just bc you’re weak to moved on.😡
Don’t regret it. You choose to live your life and serve this cold hearted man…😩!
Seems like you lived out your karma this life time, your next life you're free of this sadness and live an extraordinary life with love and appreciation.
Niam yau yog tus tau txoj hmoo zoo tshaj plaws. Tau thaum lub zog quaj qaws, muab zog hluas nqus tag tshuav plhaub lawm xwb niam loj mam tau. Txawm tias yeej ib txwm yog niamloj tug, los it was never hers. Thaum kawg tau ces tsis muaj nqis lawm.
Pab koj tu siab kawg os….koj ces tau los ua nws qhev xwb…niam yau thiaj tau nws txoj kev hlub. Yog koj txaus siab ces ok.
Feel sad
Fab lwm tíam koj mam nrhiav kom tus zoo zoo hlub koj os
koj tus txiv tus dab xwm kab mas zoo tshaj plaws pos yog peb txhua tus txiv neej yuav tau ua phem thiab thiaj tau qhov zoo nawb yom
Yog kawg os niam tais aws kuv ntseeg tias yus yog tus tau tu nws ces yus yog tus ev kev npam xwb os.. pab koj tu siab uas thaum laus los tseem raug tu thiab os mog.. koom los mam pab tsis koom los nyias ua nyias xwb os mog..
Koj tseem tshuav koj niag txiv nuj nqi koj thiaj tseem nyob nrog nws
Koj yeej ntshaw2 koj tus txiv es koj thiaj tos tav nov os ces nim koj twb tau lawm ces ua siab ntev tu thiab hlub nws, tus muaj hmoo ces yog koj tus txiv os
Tej zaj no tsis yog neeg txawj ntse es yuav cob qhia rau txoj kev zoo ho tsua yog piav txog nws txoj kev ruam txom nyem vim nws tsis txawj pab nws tus kheej es tsua ua tus swb nkaus xwb raug luag caij tsuj.
No grandma. You forgot you're an orphan with no way out in the old day ways. You gotta be patient with the guy lols. So don't advise other please
Yog ua cas peb txhia pojniam es tseem xav yuav tus neeg tsis hlub yus. Tshuav nqi tiag2
Yog kuv twb tsis tau tus txiv lawm ces kuv yeej tsis ua Leej twg tus niam Loj niam yau li nawb kav tsij ntxov nrauj ntxov zoo xwb
Koj tshuav nws nqi- pauj kom tag tiam no ces lwm tiam koj dim😢😢😢😢
koj ces yug los xiam tiam lam nrog luag muaj txiv los tsis tau txiv noj lam los ua luag qhev kuv yog koj ces lawv txawm yuav pe nplaig lo av los kuv naus naus naus xwb ntag ho koj npam koj thiaj khaws tu rau thaum yuav tuag
This is not called living ...
I don’t understand why do you have to travel to Laos to divorce him. Why can you just talk over the phone that you divorce him?
Tsis yog niam loj txoj kev zoo yog niam loj txoj kev ruam xwb os..
You lost and let it be a debt for this lifetime for you, so next lifetime, you will never ever meet him and his second wife again😔🙏🏼🫂❤
Tsis yog niam loj ntxim hlub, siab zoo. Yog niam loj ruam xmb os Smh. What a wasted life.
Koj dag xwb tias koj tsis ntshaw nws. Txhob txwm rov mus nrhiav tim nplog teb. Ua txuj tsis kam nyob ua ke, cia menyuam xeeb ntxwv hais koj es koj mam kam. Koj yog pog dag
Peb tsis ua niam hlob niam yau li kj os peb tsis ib tsis tos nws rau thaum laus li kj os cia kj tos xb os mog
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Tsis yog niam loj txoj kev zoo, Yog niam loj txoj kev ruam.
Grandma, I hope your children bought a LARGE life insurance policy for their father and don't tell their half-siblings in Laos.
I don't know if I will call this a niam loj siab zoo. Its more like stupidity. Never received his loved but in the end you get to care for him. Our hmong women have no self love
She think she get the man in the end but in reality she only get the left over 😂😂😂.
@@akulathao4654agreed; because when the niam yau was alive her choose her niam yau. Only after she died, did he come back and used her. And she thought she won because she ended up taking care of him at the end. Smh
Agreed! So sad. If she was my mom… I’ll talk some sense into her. lol… poor grandma
Vim nws cov me nyuam taj ib yam li nws thiab thiaj tsis paub tu siab tias ib sim neej yus txiv yug yus es nyuam qhuav hlub yus li 5 to 10% xwb es txhob tos nws tuaj cia nws nrog nws cov uas nws hlub 100% nyob lawv mam take care nws.
Ruam2 ce muab yu tu kheej qha qhuav lau nkau li os
I thought that she was going to be free. But at the end of the story. She was the annoying one
Siab ruam xwb os hehehe 😂 kav liam yog ruam tsis txawj mob siab los kuj zoo ib zaug thiab hahaha 😂
Poor grandma. I feel sorry for you. Still letting someone who don't and never loved you control you.😢
Don’t feel sorry for her because she lives in the United States Of America and still wants to take back the f……. Loser who has never loved her in her whole entire marriage. This is so stupid.
From the beginning you didn't have bay strong backbone to help you so you feel like you have to be below others like your niam ntxawm. She made you scared and didn't let you marry the one you wanted to, so you didn't feel the need to care for your husband now.
Qhov uas qhuas hai tia niam loj siab zoo no mas tsua yog koj niag txiv siab nyoo hai ntxias koj kom koj zoozoo siab ce koj thiaj tu nws xwb rau qhov koj ruam tshaj npuas lawm ne cov neeg ntse tsi muaj leejtwg qhuas hai tia koj siab zoo lis os.
Ho yo ua qhov zoo es los tau qho nos xwb ces kuv xu ua neeg phem...
Es koj twb tos tos tos tos es nim no tos kiag tau lawm ces kav tsij tiam kav tsij ua qhev os mog 😂
Koj mas yog ua tsis taus niam koj thiaj rov so nws quav tos txog hnub zoo li ces pauj kua zaub ntsuab rau los pov
Koj tsis yog niam loj siab zoo, koj yog niam loj ruam. Koj tsis noj mov ua tswm yim koj thiaj raug qha qhuav. Thaum kawg los tseem txaus siab los nqa tus txiv neej no quav thiab.
Muab hais ces nws twb tsis hlub Koj tsuas Yog Koj nyiam thiab hlub nws xwb. Koj mad thiaj txawj yog neeg npam
Koj mas tshuav kev npam thiaj los tū lawv tus txiv thaum laus
Me viv ncaus aws.... tsis yog niam loj txoj kev zoo os mog. Yog niam loj txoj kev ruam xwb, ua2 lawv qhev tim nplog tsis txaus es tuaj txoj lub teb chaws vam meej no los tseem ua lawm qhe quj qees.
Ntxim muaj kua tiag li koj ma ntxim noj tiag li
Title doesn't match story. It's not about niam loj txoj kev zoo at all. I don't think she was that good or did such good deeds. She jus didn't cared for the dramas.
Tsis yog zoo os yog ruam xwb. Twb nyob laus tas li ko lawm ces nyob twj ywm txhob phov2 os.
Tus me niam tais aw txawm yog coj li koj es koj thiaj li yog tus npam ntag. Txawm yog coj li koj koj tus txiv thiab tus niam yau thiaj cia koj ua poj ntsuam ciaj los laus li koj ntag. Peb tiam tshiaj no peb tsis cia txiv neej muab peb tsuj li ko lawm os.
You’re in debt to him. Glad you paid it off this generation.
The title should be “niam Loj tus poj ruam tag in sim neej”
Oh yau nws twb tsis hlub koj es koj tseem Tau tu nws rau yav laus thiab ces koj yog tus raug npam xwb o
Niam hluas npam kj lawm hos es kj thiaj tau so quav so zis ra thaum laus no hos
Koj yeej tshuav koj tus txiv nqe rau tiam no os cia muab them kom tag rau tiam no es lwm tiam thiaj li tsis tshuav luag nqe lawm os
Me niam hluas kj tus txiv yeej ib txwm tsis hlub kj es ua ib siab nrauj mog laus2 lawm los mus ua ib kub neej tshiab kom tsis nyog kj txoj kev txom nyem mog
Koj mas thiaj txawj ruamntshe tiam tas los koj tshuav nws nqi kav tsim ua qhev kom tag koj cov nuj nqi koj tsis yog siab zoo koj yog niag poj niam ruam xwb os peb tsis tau qhuas hais tias koj siab zoo
I dont feel sorry for this woman. She did it to herself. She doesnt love herself but others only.
Tshaw txiv dhau .
น่าเบื่อนิยายแบบนี้ poj mhoob nplog america
tsi yog koj siab zoo koj yog ib niag poj niam ruam tsi muaj siab ntsw yu twb nyob yu lau li ko es rov qab mu khaw tu niag txiv dev lau ko koj ma thiab yog muaj kev npam loj tiag2 lau li ko es tseem ntsaw niag txiv ko lo koom thiab ruam tsi tshaj koj lawm ca yuav tsi muab qee rau lwm tu ruam thiab yuav muab sau tag nrho rau yu ruam
Koj siab zoo tshaj plaws gma aw.
Tus niam yau ko siab phem2 es thiaj poob tom qab ntag cia kom nws txom nyem mas los twb pauv tsis tau txoj kev nws siab phem rau kj os niam hluas
Ruam li koj thiaj tau tu nws lo.
Tus me Niam loj ntawm zaj nov....koj ces thiaj tseem tseem yog tib niag Neeg Npam Los them nqi rau koj niag txiv xwb....nws ib txwm twb tsis jlub koj...Los koj twb tsis hlub koj tus kheej thiab ...tsam no tseem yuav khaws nws Los Tu rov yam niag laus thiab....xam tias them nqi kom tag rau nws xwb ..koj thiaj li tsis chim siab xwb o mog
Wow!! Tus niam tais awe!!!! Koj mas siav zoo tiag2 li los xyov yog tsis xav txog txoj kev koj yuav ua niag txiv siab phem qhev yav tom ntej li!!!😢😢😢😢! Thov txhob muab liam rau txoj hmoo nawb vim yog lub niag plawv xwb os!!
May aw koj tham TONY qhov neej neeg
Tim 7/1/2024 nawv.
Amen to your advice sis
must be the last cucumber 🥒 on this earth 😂
Vim yus ruam, tsis muab nrauj thaum ntxov ces tsis txhob yws yws.
Ntuj aw koj mas yog ib tus niam loj ua xav xwb twb tsi pom niam you yeej tsi khaus li koj hais os cov niam loj hais li ko mas yog cov khib txiv tshaj plaws li os niam you thiab tus txiv mus twg los koj yeej xav tias nkawv ntshe mus sib ua xwb no pob koj mas xav twb tsi pom thiab paub qhov tseeb li koj hais lus zoo li kuv tus niam loj thiab tiag cov hais lub li koj ces tsi qhuas li os khib txiv ces tsi tshaj koj lawm los mas 😂
Tus pog no ruam heev li, pheej no tos nws tus txiv dev. Tus pog laus lam tsis xav yuav xwb, nyiam hais tsis xav yuav os, yus poj laus no lam dag peb xwb os. txhob dag peb os, koj yi laus koj xav tau xwb.
Viv ncaus aw Nyob teb chaws meskas lawm tsis thas hais tus neeg tsis hlub koj na koj twb tsis muaj txiv tau 20 tawm xyoo lawm tsis muaj cai koj yuav mus hais nws lawm os seb nyob hauv ntawv koj puas teev muaj nws xwb yog koj tsis teev muaj txiv lawm ces pom Leej twg zoo ces kav tsij mus yuav xwb txhob quav ntsej txog koj niag txiv av kaj li os
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CA koj tsis noj nyom nawb
Koj yuam kev deb2 tag zog os tus me niam tais aws...luag yeej tsis hlub koj thiab koj cov menyuam nej li. Cas tsis muab dov kauj vab E kom nws thiaj tau kev mus thawj thiab nas !!
Tsi yog koj txoj moo yog niam tais koj yog ib tug neeg ruam tshaj plaws
Koj yog ib tug neeg ruam tsaj paws tseem yuav ib tug neeg siab pem li nws tseem yuav rov ro tus ib tug neeg siab pem thiab koj ua ntuag tsis txaus li
Yog tshaj plaws koj tu niam yau yog tu neeg muaj hmoo tshaj....koj yog tu hnoov phem koj thiaj li tau tu thaum qw qauv....yog tu tsis tau lo pov rau tsev laus....vim koj thiab nws tsis muaj kev hlub yeej tsis npam....lub neej nws tsis khwv rau koj noj....
Koj yog poj ruam xwb koj tsis yog neeg maybe u not 100% 😅😂
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The marriage life of this grandma is torture-- crazy how she can stay when her husband was no longer present
Yeej yog siab zoo thiab tabsis qhov tseeb yog ruam dhau, luag tsis hlub yus nkim tas yus lub neej lo thaum kawg tseem muab tos tuaj mekas thiab ces yog tseem tsuav kev npam os
You’re wasting your time and allowing him to use you again. Enjoy the last years of your life on earth and leave him
Koj tseem ntshaws niag txiv liam es rov qab mus tus niag txiv liam thiab koj mas ruam tiagtiag niam tais koj ruam tsi paub nws rau qhov nws tsi hai lis kos rau koj ce koj yuav tsi tu nws nws paub hai tia koj tseem ntshaws nws nws yuav tsum ntxias lis kos rau koj rau qhov koj ruamruam ce koj yuav rov qab nkag rau hauv nws ob ceg duas rau qhov koj ruam ne.
Too boring blah blah
Niag pog no ruam kawg li.
Wow sorry rua koj lub neej os mog tau txiv siab phem ces kawg li ko, poor grandma😢
SORRY... NO way... Koj yeej hmoov yus tas lawm es koj thiaj nyob twj ywm raug koj niag txiv ko thiab cov niag Kwv Tij khoom nrog nyob. Cas yus nyob yus twb tau zoo tshaj los tseem tsis nyob thiab. XYov koj yeej npam tiag los cas li os. Tiam no tsis zoo li tiam puag thaum xyoo 75 os. You should have just said NO and divorced him regardless of what your kids or anyone says.
Aya!!! TOS koj tsis kam nrauj nws los twb yog koj txhob txwm tos nws xwb mas…. Ua cas es nem ua txoj hais li ko naj???
"kuv yug los tawm ib leej niam leej txiv". Peb leej twg tsis yog yug los ntawm ib leej niam leej txiv nas?
Hi
This is Not “niam loj siab zoo” this is “niam loj txoj kev ruam, kev npam” yus twb raug tus txiv neeg no tsim, tsuj, tsis hlub yus laus li no es tsam no yus tuaj nyob rau lub teb chaws vam meej no lawm es nws thiaj li ua niag txiv dev thawj thiab tuaj nrhiav chaw tuag xwb es tseem zoo siab los tu thiab ua mov yug tus neeg thawj thiab no ua dab tsi. This is insane. Tseem muab tham nkim sij hawm thiab.
Should've made it final and divorced him the first time you visited him. Even if you don't remarry, you would've been free from taking care of him. Sounds like you must've owed this old loser some debt from the last life. I feels so sorry for you gma, you definitely deserved better than this.
Agreed..😅
Nah, why do Hmong always blame it on ghost, dragons, voodoo (khaws koob), npam, hmoov and debt from a past life. No. She could had easily left him for good, even now, but she didn't and won't because like most Hmong women, can't live without a husband. Most Hmong women would rather have an abusive husband than no husband. So she made a choice (not making a choice, not taking action is also making a choice, it's like the last option, "None of the above", on a test question; her only choices are Leave, Stay, None of the Above and she chose None of the above, which is the same as Stay; So even though she didn't like it, she has to make a choice and that's what she chose). It's not because of debt or any of Hmong's old BS believes. When my ex-girlfriend met a new man, I asked her to chose. She chose him because she said he's handsome and khoom zoo nkauj. Then she said it's because "wb txog hmoo". What sort of BS is that? There are things that we can control and things that we can't. If you made a decision, don't blame it on txoj hmoo. Txoj hmoo is an act of God... something beyond your control. Deciding to stay or leave is a personal decision and has nothing to do with destiny. Hmong always say, "wb daim ntawv", "wbo txoj hmoo" es thiaj los sib tau. But after a few years, they divorce. If it was "wb daim ntawv" why divorce? Oh right, daim ntawv ntuag ne. Now you're just making excuses.
Sister, you need to let that life go. He's no good for you or to you. Divorce him and move on with your life.
You are the creator of your life, you chose to take him back and take care of him. It’s your fault, I feel sorry for you, what a waste of time. He never loved you.
Niamtais aw… mus yuav txiv kiag xwb mas…tseem yuav mus nrauj nws tim nplog… tsis tab2 ua lub kos li os
Niam loj txojkev ruam