I'm now 20 years old and tbh I havent been in a single relationship.Sometimes,when I see my friends having boyfriends.I kinda feel Am I missing sthg?But still I am capturing myself to go to a relation right away.I think in future,I'll achieve my goals and wont regret not having bf in my teenage.And this speech have literally assured me that I'm on the right path :)♡
True so damm true “having bf gf is all American idea “. Me being from Canada 🇨🇦 100% agree that there are so many profound relationships beyond bodies .
@stay home stay safe stay insideLmao many of the parents and Grandparents were LGBTQ+ who never came forward, they never tried anything and finally like a fool married to someone their parents chose. It's good that people are now choosing their own partners.
If I had known Sadhguru 5 years ago my life would have been better. But I'm glad I got to hear him at least now. I hope change is always welcome in this universe.
Every moment... That is why Yogi's say every inhalation is life and every exhalation is death... And if you want to experience it really... Just inhale and don't exhale or exhale and don't inhale 🤗. That's how life is ! Every moment a fresh... Only because you have thought which is full of memory it is difficult to start a new!
Maybe if you would’ve known of him 5 years ago, you wouldn’t be able to understand the meanings as you are now. Sometimes you have to go through wrong things/times to know they were wrong and to appreciate the good times.
@Zapper Zapped Amazing marble to hear. So less people understand this. Most importantly Celibacy is a thing at the body emotional and mind level. All three have to be conquered. Not like the western NoFap. Well I have decent body control only as of now. Growing still. The thing is we are our own mango farmers, is it good or bad thing, it's on us.
Right brother In almost every higher secondary school students have relationship with someone, they are not focusing on the study and what happens after doing this in their life they have no idea. They will go to school and tuition just for meeting their partners. Today youth needs right direction.
@@Curiosit_1 and today's youth also knows how to manage things accroding to the situation!! Don't u think there r no relationship + works together going on peacefully??
Yesss ofcourse relationships doesn't have to be physically oriented. Most successful relationships are where u are matured emotionally and Mentally not just financially and physically. So let people see all sides of realtionships not just a physical intimacy 😌
After listening to this.. I am feeling proud that i live with my parents and I want to study.. Do something with my life.. Make my parents proud and keep balance in my life... 🙏🙏
Proud 😂 this is your duty ....do something exceptional other than this and then feel proud😂 .....ur like I ate my lunch on time ...I'm so proud😂.....they spent whole lot of resources on you pay them back in old-age by bieng with them....kids these days 😂
@@ft.rishav IMO, this is just a matter of compulsion, consciousness and competence. Otherwise, I too am, as of now, quite 'alien' to the way this universe works. 🙃
i am in college now and i find myself having a strong desire to be in a relationship.. i’m letting my hormones control me and i feel that i will not be truly happy/complete without a relationship. but i realize that this is not true. a significant other at this time in my life would only be a distraction and cause suffering.. i know this. i’m trying to shift my focus onto me and bettering myself and loving myself.
Girl don't. I've let my hormones control me as well and it still does I'm 18. I was in a relationship with an older guy(24) it was somewhat manipulative but it was so intense as well. I've found myself gone back to him now but deep down I know it isnt right. I'm letting my emotions cloud my thinking .Now I don't know what to do. It's not a necessity. It would only bring you unnecessary pain and baggage. I'm also starting college. I'm thinking of ways to disassociate with him. I feel I'm not ready for this and I need to wait for the right time when I'm capable. This guy is nice tho but I feel like it's not right. My dad told me the same thing as this man. I want to now think logically and not emotionally
Where were you when I was young? Teenagers watching this....your lucky to have been guided this way. Take every bit of his words that will only make you the best. I personally listen to him every single day. He inspires me, I start my day with confidence.
Right! I'm a teen and I always was thinking about what is the right age of getting a boyfriend for girls. But this video gave me the motivation to get up and concentrate on studying right now.
I'm 19 now and this kind of councelling is much needed to every youngster. Sir really told the actual fact about Indian youngsters and American youngsters. Sir you are really great!!!
Love is connection of ones heart with another heart. Love is symbolised with a heart sign....not by the symbol of fitting of two sexual organs. So pls do not confuse love with sexual relationship. Give unconditional love to everyone. Love humanity😊
Well the question is about boy/girl friend. Not about love friend. Please listen to Sadhguru on Love, your doubts will get cleared. Why do you just have to love humanity, why not other life or the entire Cosmos.?
If it just a soul connection, it could be named as friendship too. Don't we love our friends? The moment it becomes body based, that moment you need to give it other names.
@@nothing_everything- an* adult, fell* there a lot to work on yourself kiddo. First do that or else your so called nibbi true love will leave you. Harsh but true.
@@nothing_everything- don't be in a Early to fall in love If u fall in love to early you will not live to well as guruji said But I changed the context by mine
Change the name from "GIRL FRIEND OR BOY FRIEND" TO YOUR ROMANCE OR LOVE AFFAIR!! - WHAT A LINE!! 2ND LINE: "DONT BE IN A RUSH TO LIVE LIFE TOO EARLY, GIVE THINGS TIME!!" This is really helpful for the youth and it's worth of sharing!
Why this man is so peace calming ? Why on his face there is no desires of anything sadhguru looks like he has achieved everything in his life already !!! I want that peace on my face that's what my deepest desire is ^_^
Dnt spoil your career building days in any relationship. Focus on your goals . Take guidance from parents. Take every step by consulting your parents. Hv a happy life ahead.
I came out from depression , anxiety and sexual harrassment . Life is unfair when you feel it but we can do anything with your hardwork and will power. We all are strong enough to handle our problems don't be depend on others . Give yourself time and all things will go fine . If you find any problem just feel this is just small and it can't effect you . You are valueable & deserves to be happy . No one gonna tell you how you are ? Only you know how you are ? And you r great just come out your positive side and fight with your problems . Your life is beautiful ❤️ Don't make yourself canfused and distracted ❤️ We are the child of the God God creates us for a good reason. This world needs to run and bloom with full of energy and positivity ❤️ All are talking to you the mountains , the Shivalika , the peacock feather , the tree , the ant 🐜 . Feel what you have be a warrior and win the world ❤️
Perfectly rendered message. My father taught me this . . . There is a time for everything and never be too much in a hurry. Let life unfold naturally without pressure from peers as well.
Never try to make girlfriend Just try to become friends Respect each other have great bond Love can not be made If you like someone at first sight it is attraction How can you love someone by his/her appearance without knowing her behavior Love or girlfriend are not made Love happens And love is without expectation
Whatever I am doing....As soon as notification comes, I stop everything to listen to him.....He thinks for true well being of whole society. I am his slave and that is my only strength. Namaskar. May Shiva bless you. 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Yessssss so trueeee. While in school and high school everyone made so many unnecessary relationships. I did not go into that and slowly after so many bullies, I thought that I was not good enough to make one. It is now that I am in college I feel that I am ready for such a new relation, and maybe now I know with whom. But this feeling would not go away. Now I am so proud of all my decisions. I really feel happy!
At 2:52 I see Sadguru's right hand and the lines on it. His head line, the mental development line is unique. In 10,000+ hands I've studied so far, this one is a rare entity. His thumb indicates an inborn capacity for diplomacy and sensitivity.That's why he's so clear and logical in his pronouncements. A great guru, indeed! Hinduism is the only way of living in the world teaching self-realization as the aim of life. It's based on the principle of feminine spiritual primacy. Universe was not created for matter; it was created for life. And that's where the principle of feminine spiritual primacy plays its sterling part.
I'm 17 years old. I got so many proposal but I rejected all.. cause I also feel that this is not the right time to be in a relationship.. first we need to foused on our career, our education and love ourselves 🙏
@@mackensondinatale8756 yes , but one day definitely you will get her . God knows what you want but most importantly he knows what you need so let him handle it 👍👍
@@ramg658 well said 😂 Sadhguru thinks indian parents r always right but who will think about the mental and emotional pressure of child or adults?? India always gave preference to he parents not the adults!! Sad life !! Everyone should be treated as equal whether parents or kids!!
@@shivamgupta12375 lmao imagine how disgusting u have to be to hate on people that genuinely want to help others, and if you have seen their childhood pictures you would know that they in fact, did not get surgeries. what do you even know about bts? do you even get the meanings behind their songs? do you know what they stand for? or do you judge them by their nationality and appearances? if so, then your thinking is just shallow. don't embarrass yourself here.
This msg needs to be delivered to every one . So that they can understand their misconceptions about Indian culture that it is backward or some thing else. But there is a deep msg hidden inside aur Indian culture, which sadhguru has told us . Grt thinking🙏
Well said sister...I also think just like you. Our culture isn’t explained in a true way to us. If we solve this misconception with our culture, we will make a sample of ideal life.
While watching this video one thought came to my mind that you don't have to be physically involved to be in a romantic relationship. That is just a choice that a couple make for them. And a relationship without any physical involvement can also cause you many troubles and heartbreaks that are obstacles in the path of your success according to the video. We don't live in a constant world. Things around us change, also the people and so we have to learn to adapt otherwise we'll crumble like a cookie. We are bound to face difficulties in our life if not because of lover than because of family or friends, it could be anything. In my opinion it is necessary that we face difficulties in our life, that's how we learn from them and grow mature. If you think that only boyfriend and girlfriend are the problem of a teenage life than you don't know teenagers, their life is more complicated than people assume. Sometimes these girlfriend and boyfriend are the people that they've survived. Everyone's situation is not the same, some might not have anyone in their family and friends to relay on imotionally which could lead them to take those life decisions that might harm them. Elders are supposed to guide the children so they won't do anything that might harm them in any way and give them imotional support which they need, telling them boyfriends and girlfriends are not good for them is not going to help them in their life. Anyways these are just my thoughts it's not necessary that everyone agrees to that but I'll say one thing that atleast try and think about it once.
At this stage in your life, if you create a certain focus and balance within yourself, this energy will translate in to something fantastic 🔥 .... Hits me right in the feel .... ♥️♥️
“If you ask a tree how he feels to know that he's spreading his fragrance and making people happy, I don't think a tree looks at it that way. I am just like that, and it is just my nature to be like this.” ― Sadhguru Jaggi Vasudev
He is always prepared for any kind of questions ..he never stuck in d middle while answering them...He's a kind of GURU who can answer everything n anything..
At the age of 21 I truly got the meaning of girlfriend and boyfriend .. although few years back I was in one-sided love with someone and didn't reveal at all .. and thinking am I missing something in my teen? But Satguru proved by this video that .. no .. no.. no.., you didn't miss anything .. Since today my life will be in another direction!! Godspeed!!
I feel so much relief listening to this. Thank you. There is so much pressure through media, peers, society and knowing that it is okay to not be interested in these relationships and want to focus on myself is so freeing.
"At this stage in your life, if you create a certain focus and balance within yourself, this energy will translate into something fantastic💫" I'm so happy that I heard this speech of Sadhguru at the right stage of my life! I focus on my future goals, studies and passion and the right time to have a bf/gf is after you become success and make your parents proud❤
Heartbroken single but now at least I can say it proudly I choose education over a toxic relationship, escaping a love triangle to go deep in the knowledge of my books 📚. Wish me luck for a sustainable future life.
U said the truth.. Nowadays, its a trend to hv that " Sexual relations" or " body based relations".. Noone wants to care for their themselves.. they dont wana take charge of their life, their development. Bt all they want is a partner......
adit mittal I want to say something....don't listen what people say....don't saw what people do.....if you stuck in your life.....read shrimadbhagwatgeeta ones.....you got the real concept what is life.....as a girl I always say without any shines.....I always believe in sexual love.....but after read shrimadbhagwatgeeta....I get love is more than it.....and I really love my shrimadbhagwatgeeta.... please read.....
My all friends have their partners in 12 standard , they always ask me to come in relationship with someone ,but seriously I love my life and enjoying it alone. 😊😊
Im 24 and i didn't had a girlfriend once so far. My mind always keep going about having a girlfriend and just live the life. At the same time iam studying and need to focus on it. Now after this what sadhguru said im realizing about how important education actually is to oneself and that one should be thankful for having the opportunity to study. im really thankful for the speech of sadhguru, I hope it will give me and also other people insights and focus to our life, so we can make the best out of it.
Sadhguru Ji's words gives much needed direction to life. Even before getting into bodily relations, try be their friends. Being a student what you can possibly give someone is your company. They should not dismantle your growth and academics. You can go ahead with them if things go well better the two. But it is so important to be FRIENDS with your LOVED Ones 💝
The whole point is, you can have a boy/girlfriend at any time in your life, it doesn't matter, you can be 5, 10, 15, 20, 25, 30, 35 and have a boy/girlfriend, but just don't make it as a trend, and don't make your relationship so hurry, so you can live the best with your life. You can't force yourself to have a boy/girlfriend when you are young, or after you succeed, because having a boy/girlfriend is mainly emotions based, so just go ahead to have a boy/girlfriend if you love the person, then keep balancing, living your own life. I really disagree with people who said that "you should get a boy/girlfriend after succeeding". It's painfully wrong. What if he/she wants to be yours just because of your success? If he/she truly loves you when you have nothing but yourself, that's the ones who you should be in love with.
What if the relationship is not physical? And both the partners are bringing out best in each other and supporting each other to make better decisions and educating each other ? Is it bad then ?
“If you live too early, you will not live too well” -Jagadish Vasudev (Sadhguru)
Actually this can also apply to entertainment
Aaaaa
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So this was his real name?
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Rubbing of skin is considered intimate. Skin is the outermost cover of who we are, then how come rubbing of skin is intimate? Simply brilliant 👏
hi
Hello
Rape is also just rubbing of skin...
Then according to satguru rape should not be considered intimate
@@aftabboby6732 rape is never intimate friend. Thats even before sadhguru said it
Bcoz skin is a sense organ...as simple as that
I wish such kind of counseling is done by teachers in school and parents at home
💯 it should be
I wish I would have got this counseling before ..
@@preetyrajbongshi7704 no body does such sessions are so important in schools, homes
Certainly if that be the case in every school India would transform greatly
@@shrutisharanart3308 yes...but not only in schools..it should b in home as well
I’m currently 17 and this just changed my entire view about having a relationship
Yo, fellow mate
same bhai
Me too
Same
When I was 17 I didn't have a view
"skin is the outermost part of the body, how can rubbing against another's skin be intimate?" 👍🏼
Wanna try😏?
Do you want to try 😎😎
Sneaky Ninja LMFAO
@@mazzino7222 nahi degi
But we want that in certain age
Sadhguru, you're now the president of our single community.✌✌✌✌
😂😂
i am weird i am weirdo 🤣🤣🤣
Hahah lol🤣🤣
🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
" Intelligence is hacked by hormones " 🙏🙏🙏😍😍
hijacked*
@sourave Deb hijacked*
@Abhilash • *earphone
@@akshitreddy5428 , 😂
100 nahi 50 ka earphones 🤣🤣
I'm now 20 years old and tbh I havent been in a single relationship.Sometimes,when I see my friends having boyfriends.I kinda feel Am I missing sthg?But still I am capturing myself to go to a relation right away.I think in future,I'll achieve my goals and wont regret not having bf in my teenage.And this speech have literally assured me that I'm on the right path :)♡
Exactly
Me 2 never had a gf, we'll meet after achieving our goals💪
Yeah me too. I never had a Boyfriend (I am 17 btw) and I still don't want it. I want to build good a future for myself.
@@sanskaari.bachi2005 we're the same haha
I also had that urge of having a girlfriend but after listening this speech I kept under my feet till further notice
I am 26 and never had a girlfriend but I am quite successful, would you like to be my girlfriend?
"Friendship and Relationships are possible at various levels with enormous number of people" ~ Sadhguru
"there are relationships deeper than the body"
And that is feeling😊
Magical feelings
Ur harmones are high!
lalith sharma lmao 😂
Body is a part of 10 mins enjoyment......😅 relationship with infinity love 😍 it's a life time enjoyment........🤗
I love this line "your intelligence has been hijacked by your hormones.." this is so true
How true that is👍
@@Rain-tg2ji are you in relationship with someone?
And what's wrong with that?
@@RahulSharma-oq2ut Everything
@@RahulSharma-oq2ut you don't know what's wrong in it
It is itself one wrong thing
True so damm true “having bf gf is all American idea “. Me being from Canada 🇨🇦 100% agree that there are so many profound relationships beyond bodies .
Yeah but i thout canada is just another us with a different name
@stay home stay safe stay insideLmao many of the parents and Grandparents were LGBTQ+ who never came forward, they never tried anything and finally like a fool married to someone their parents chose.
It's good that people are now choosing their own partners.
@@prajna-satheeshbs4519 I can tell you have never been to either countries so I will forgive your ignorance
And having a bf or gf doesn't mean that it's only body based relationship!!
Stop having misconception dude!!
Yeah all Canadians are Amish😂
Omg Every single word that he said Was TOTALLY MEANINGFUL AND UNDERSTANDABLE ...
Wish i had a counselor like him.
Never say omg dear
@@rymbaichngain7286 .p. p of.ppp.ppp.pppinformation pp
@@rymbaichngain7286 why ? I'm genuinely curious !
@@rymbaichngain7286 can I please know why?
This is something that should be taught in every school!
R u srilankan?
@@dkboxingtipstamil8850 does nationality even matter😅? Chill bro!
They don't believe in morals they believe in rattafication
True Education.
@@dkboxingtipstamil8850 Tamil Nadu
If I had known Sadhguru 5 years ago my life would have been better. But I'm glad I got to hear him at least now. I hope change is always welcome in this universe.
Every moment... That is why Yogi's say every inhalation is life and every exhalation is death... And if you want to experience it really... Just inhale and don't exhale or exhale and don't inhale 🤗. That's how life is ! Every moment a fresh... Only because you have thought which is full of memory it is difficult to start a new!
Maybe if you would’ve known of him 5 years ago, you wouldn’t be able to understand the meanings as you are now. Sometimes you have to go through wrong things/times to know they were wrong and to appreciate the good times.
Of course.. change is always welcome ; all that matters with this change is whether you want to bring it from heart or not.
@@jasreenkmultani3608 same lesson you'll get in book : "the Alchemist" by Paulo Coelho .
mee too thinking od same
Physical relationship isn't important for relationship..mental support and care is a unique relationship and that hold you both together.
Now I Am Proud To Tell I Am Single ✌✌😎
We didn't get girl because we are ugly 😂
@@truth8999 😂🤭😋
I am single ☺️
@Zapper Zapped Amazing marble to hear. So less people understand this. Most importantly Celibacy is a thing at the body emotional and mind level. All three have to be conquered. Not like the western NoFap. Well I have decent body control only as of now. Growing still. The thing is we are our own mango farmers, is it good or bad thing, it's on us.
Everything has a advantage and disadvantage both. Just ignore the dis advantage and use the advantage properly
i think every higher secondary school students must watch this! this might save many carrers
Right brother
In almost every higher secondary school students have relationship with someone, they are not focusing on the study and what happens after doing this in their life they have no idea.
They will go to school and tuition just for meeting their partners.
Today youth needs right direction.
Yes
Well yolo
I'm watching 👍🏻👍🏻
@@Curiosit_1 and today's youth also knows how to manage things accroding to the situation!!
Don't u think there r no relationship + works together going on peacefully??
" There are relationships deeper than the body " 😇
@Amar Hey..If u dont mind can I have your insta to discuss more?
What could they be?
Yesss ofcourse relationships doesn't have to be physically oriented. Most successful relationships are where u are matured emotionally and Mentally not just financially and physically. So let people see all sides of realtionships not just a physical intimacy 😌
@Amar why don't you even want someone , if you want someone it means you are incomplete
After listening to this.. I am feeling proud that i live with my parents and I want to study.. Do something with my life.. Make my parents proud and keep balance in my life... 🙏🙏
Proud 😂 this is your duty ....do something exceptional other than this and then feel proud😂 .....ur like I ate my lunch on time ...I'm so proud😂.....they spent whole lot of resources on you pay them back in old-age by bieng with them....kids these days 😂
@@homelander9795 Most of the people are not even able to perform their 'duty', living under their own compulsions...🙃
Exactly !!!
@@harshitraj1845 Those are not people. They are aliens.
@@ft.rishav IMO, this is just a matter of compulsion, consciousness and competence. Otherwise, I too am, as of now, quite 'alien' to the way this universe works. 🙃
i am in college now and i find myself having a strong desire to be in a relationship.. i’m letting my hormones control me and i feel that i will not be truly happy/complete without a relationship. but i realize that this is not true. a significant other at this time in my life would only be a distraction and cause suffering.. i know this. i’m trying to shift my focus onto me and bettering myself and loving myself.
Girl don't. I've let my hormones control me as well and it still does I'm 18. I was in a relationship with an older guy(24) it was somewhat manipulative but it was so intense as well. I've found myself gone back to him now but deep down I know it isnt right. I'm letting my emotions cloud my thinking .Now I don't know what to do. It's not a necessity. It would only bring you unnecessary pain and baggage. I'm also starting college. I'm thinking of ways to disassociate with him. I feel I'm not ready for this and I need to wait for the right time when I'm capable. This guy is nice tho but I feel like it's not right. My dad told me the same thing as this man. I want to now think logically and not emotionally
@@ahoneekesong9004 yes girl
i support! let's use this time for self-improvement and reach our self-actualization!
Gud to hv intimate friend after success.
Great 👍
rahul wants boyfriend...!!
Nooooo....Rahul wants to become PM .
😂🤣🙏
Well said bro😂😂😂
Hahaha 😂😂
😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂 yes that's why stil bachelor
Hahaha
Where were you when I was young? Teenagers watching this....your lucky to have been guided this way. Take every bit of his words that will only make you the best. I personally listen to him every single day. He inspires me, I start my day with confidence.
Right! I'm a teen and I always was thinking about what is the right age of getting a boyfriend for girls. But this video gave me the motivation to get up and concentrate on studying right now.
I am 14 girl
@Tina it's never late
Grow kids grow like a mango tree but wait with your fruit
Hey didi,I am a teenager. I am not lucky but I am blessed that I came across this video😇
I'm 19 now and this kind of councelling is much needed to every youngster. Sir really told the actual fact about Indian youngsters and American youngsters. Sir you are really great!!!
Love is connection of ones heart with another heart. Love is symbolised with a heart sign....not by the symbol of fitting of two sexual organs. So pls do not confuse love with sexual relationship. Give unconditional love to everyone. Love humanity😊
Well the question is about boy/girl friend. Not about love friend. Please listen to Sadhguru on Love, your doubts will get cleared. Why do you just have to love humanity, why not other life or the entire Cosmos.?
I support u and ur view
I agree
Every word of him seems to be dropped from the very soul of pure energy ❤️
I wish me mother could explain me like this rither than shouting 😌😃
Woohhh....consider him as ur mother
Vampire😂😂
@@sadhnamishra8715 shut up
@@paleskin2101 rude
You didn’t trust your mother like you trust Sadhguru, right?
@@paleskin2101 hey everyone is not perfect and consider him as teacher
More than having 𝘽𝙤𝙮𝙛𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙙 or 𝙂𝙞𝙧𝙡𝙛𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙙 , having 𝗕𝗲𝘀𝘁 𝗳𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗱 𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝗚𝗼𝗼𝗱 𝗳𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗱 𝗶𝘀 𝗻𝗲𝗰𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗮𝗿𝘆 . 🤟🏻🙏🙏
There is never a right age, just a right time to feel what your soul seek, not body.
Bro I am not adult but I really fall in love 😤😖
@@nothing_everything- its alright cuz there is no age to fall in love
If it just a soul connection, it could be named as friendship too. Don't we love our friends? The moment it becomes body based, that moment you need to give it other names.
@@nothing_everything- an* adult, fell* there a lot to work on yourself kiddo. First do that or else your so called nibbi true love will leave you. Harsh but true.
@@nothing_everything- don't be in a
Early to fall in love
If u fall in love to early you will not live to well as guruji said
But I changed the context by mine
Change the name from "GIRL FRIEND OR BOY FRIEND" TO YOUR ROMANCE OR LOVE AFFAIR!! - WHAT A LINE!!
2ND LINE:
"DONT BE IN A RUSH TO LIVE LIFE TOO EARLY, GIVE THINGS TIME!!"
This is really helpful for the youth and it's worth of sharing!
Why this man is so peace calming ? Why on his face there is no desires of anything sadhguru looks like he has achieved everything in his life already !!! I want that peace on my face that's what my deepest desire is ^_^
@harshad panchal totally true 👍 I'll definitely try it
@Joyce Juliet nope, much better and in peace and calm right now 😁✌️ thanks for asking
@harshad brother that's the thing all of us need to understand and follow,then we will achieve what we want...
Look at yourself you have already achieved so much for yourself now start achieving for the well being of others..
@@sainaiksatam2668 🙏 ❤️ definitely 🙂
Dnt spoil your career building days in any relationship. Focus on your goals . Take guidance from parents. Take every step by consulting your parents. Hv a happy life ahead.
@Amar good expectations buddy😂
But things will not go right for all😂
Your words are so inspiring sir!😊
"If you live too early, you'll not live too well"...best of all👌
explanation just outside of this earth !
simple yet deep
Sadhguru single handedly demolishing all western Ideas. And saving INDIA and INDIAN Youth. Great work sadhguru, do continue.
Exactly
We will have to come with sadguru ji......
And some american youth. (The ones that listen)
True
I came out from depression , anxiety and sexual harrassment . Life is unfair when you feel it but we can do anything with your hardwork and will power. We all are strong enough to handle our problems don't be depend on others . Give yourself time and all things will go fine . If you find any problem just feel this is just small and it can't effect you . You are valueable & deserves to be happy . No one gonna tell you how you are ?
Only you know how you are ?
And you r great just come out your positive side and fight with your problems . Your life is beautiful ❤️
Don't make yourself canfused and distracted ❤️
We are the child of the God
God creates us for a good reason.
This world needs to run and bloom with full of energy and positivity ❤️
All are talking to you the mountains , the Shivalika , the peacock feather , the tree , the ant 🐜 .
Feel what you have be a warrior and win the world ❤️
He taught me one thing, be single make friends live life just for the moment
Tomorrow is my first day of college and I am happy that I watched this.
I hope you have had a good year in college
How was your first year college?
I am having 1st day on 25 jan
How was your Year bro?
Good boy 🔥❤️
Perfectly rendered message. My father taught me this . . . There is a time for everything and never be too much in a hurry. Let life unfold naturally without pressure from peers as well.
Friendship is the Greatest form of relationship.... Be friends with everyone 😊
What i was going to comment !!! 👍
Never try to make girlfriend
Just try to become friends
Respect each other have great bond
Love can not be made
If you like someone at first sight it is attraction
How can you love someone by his/her appearance without knowing her behavior
Love or girlfriend are not made
Love happens
And love is without expectation
This is A Truth
@@GoodUR thanks ☺️
@@Jaishivji777 great knowledge brother
I hope each and every youth understands this...
@@GoodUR if youth follow Sadhguru they will definitely know😃
Whatever I am doing....As soon as notification comes, I stop everything to listen to him.....He thinks for true well being of whole society. I am his slave and that is my only strength. Namaskar. May Shiva bless you. 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Sadghuru once mention that he gave this advise to his daughter: “ don’t look down on anybody and don’t look up on anybody either”...😌
Giving 100th like to ur comment 😊
meee too
@@frangelelink I was gonna say the same thing! We indians seem to have a strong tendency to idolize and worship.
I am never tired of listening Sadhguru ji....His voice is pious and humble...
Yessssss so trueeee. While in school and high school everyone made so many unnecessary relationships. I did not go into that and slowly after so many bullies, I thought that I was not good enough to make one. It is now that I am in college I feel that I am ready for such a new relation, and maybe now I know with whom. But this feeling would not go away. Now I am so proud of all my decisions. I really feel happy!
👍👏👏👏
At 2:52 I see Sadguru's right hand and the lines on it. His head line, the mental development line is unique. In 10,000+ hands I've studied so far, this one is a rare entity. His thumb indicates an inborn capacity for diplomacy and sensitivity.That's why he's so clear and logical in his pronouncements. A great guru, indeed! Hinduism is the only way of living in the world teaching self-realization as the aim of life. It's based on the principle of feminine spiritual primacy. Universe was not created for matter; it was created for life. And that's where the principle of feminine spiritual primacy plays its sterling part.
Please check my hands too... XD
I'm 17 years old. I got so many proposal but I rejected all.. cause I also feel that this is not the right time to be in a relationship.. first we need to foused on our career, our education and love ourselves 🙏
It is amazing how one flowered life can influence other lives
Now imagine everyone's life would've become flowered.. that should be our all goal..
The best time for getting a girlfriend or boyfriend is after success in your life 👍👍
@@mackensondinatale8756 yes , but one day definitely you will get her . God knows what you want but most importantly he knows what you need so let him handle it 👍👍
thats why when u r succesful, our parents say go and get married
@@ramg658 well said 😂
Sadhguru thinks indian parents r always right but who will think about the mental and emotional pressure of child or adults??
India always gave preference to he parents not the adults!!
Sad life !!
Everyone should be treated as equal whether parents or kids!!
Yup i agree!!
I agree 💯
“I think the biggest love is the love for oneself , so if you want to love others, you should love yourself first.”
~ Kim Namjoon, RM from BTS
Yup💜
Best president 💜💜
Aaaaaaarmy💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
@@shivamgupta12375 lmao imagine how disgusting u have to be to hate on people that genuinely want to help others, and if you have seen their childhood pictures you would know that they in fact, did not get surgeries. what do you even know about bts? do you even get the meanings behind their songs? do you know what they stand for? or do you judge them by their nationality and appearances? if so, then your thinking is just shallow. don't embarrass yourself here.
@@sarahhh9136 xactly!!💜
I am 23, was having self-doubt at myself who has been single throughout my life. Thank you for your sharing that enlightens me
I’m 28
Wow both of you inspired me ☺️
@@rapper3877 🤣🤣🤣
Same here
Same here!
one's i said a girl is my girl friend everyone started laughing and making fun of me. I was in 3 rd standard
😂😂😂😂
😂mai 6th class me tha tab teacher aapas me baat kar rahe the ki uski girlfriend vaha rahti hai to sari class hasne lag gayi😆
I said Other frineds
@@rossittanotere6258 same I started calling my friends gals instead of girl friend😁(my elder sister suggested it to me)
@@wingmrta9018 ?
His english is just awesome...and Sadhguru's exclaiming "hello" is just amazing
Your seems weak
@@homelander9795 yes sir may be its like that:)
@@Nannyhere can't believe 2 year olds are so smart these days 😂
@@homelander9795 yeah more than u.....mtlb faltu m ladna h yha pe😂🤧
Alg hi mojj h bhaiya
The tree which gives fruits in earlier stages will never grow to its full fledge life
True❤️
Wow
yes it will
Best thought for the my day
The tree which gives fruits in earlier stages will never grow to its full fledged life
This msg needs to be delivered to every one . So that they can understand their misconceptions about Indian culture that it is backward or some thing else. But there is a deep msg hidden inside aur Indian culture, which sadhguru has told us .
Grt thinking🙏
Well said sister...I also think just like you. Our culture isn’t explained in a true way to us. If we solve this misconception with our culture, we will make a sample of ideal life.
He is a legend. I love his speeches.
MUST READ!!! Youths are again going to forget this beautiful words only 1% of them are gonna make life beautiful.
Yeah ,youth in this comment section will never forget
I have followed his teachings, today iam very successful in my life 😍
Hmmmm
Sad guru is my big teacher ,i from Bali, Indonesia and i Hindu
Hello friend i want to come there ..
its sadhguru not sad guru
Hello friend!
Eight Tuber he made him sad 😂😂😂
Wow it's SADHGURU
While watching this video one thought came to my mind that you don't have to be physically involved to be in a romantic relationship. That is just a choice that a couple make for them.
And a relationship without any physical involvement can also cause you many troubles and heartbreaks that are obstacles in the path of your success according to the video.
We don't live in a constant world. Things around us change, also the people and so we have to learn to adapt otherwise we'll crumble like a cookie.
We are bound to face difficulties in our life if not because of lover than because of family or friends, it could be anything. In my opinion it is necessary that we face difficulties in our life, that's how we learn from them and grow mature.
If you think that only boyfriend and girlfriend are the problem of a teenage life than you don't know teenagers, their life is more complicated than people assume.
Sometimes these girlfriend and boyfriend are the people that they've survived. Everyone's situation is not the same, some might not have anyone in their family and friends to relay on imotionally which could lead them to take those life decisions that might harm them.
Elders are supposed to guide the children so they won't do anything that might harm them in any way and give them imotional support which they need, telling them boyfriends and girlfriends are not good for them is not going to help them in their life.
Anyways these are just my thoughts it's not necessary that everyone agrees to that but I'll say one thing that atleast try and think about it once.
If you create a certain focus and balance within yourself, this energy will translate into something fantastic.
I never heard a speech of him before watching this video but after seeing this video i'm a huge fan of him
I'm 20 !! Last 5 minute however solved mine biggest dillema ! 10 years challenge I'm starting today to become full fledged and big mango tree!
Langda ya dashari
Yo
Almost brought tears to my eyes! I'm so happy for you and your understanding and choice!! Much success on your journey!!!
2 weeks later she calls you to say that she's pregnant.
@@theemotionalremix lmao😂😂
At this stage in your life, if you create a certain focus and balance within yourself, this energy will translate in to something fantastic 🔥 .... Hits me right in the feel .... ♥️♥️
“If you ask a tree how he feels to know that he's spreading his fragrance and making people happy, I don't think a tree looks at it that way. I am just like that, and it is just my nature to be like this.”
― Sadhguru Jaggi Vasudev
India need more people like sadhuru. then there will be a more noticeable impact in our society.
This is my first time of listening to this man, he is exceptional . He speaks the truth
This man is the reason why I chose to live!❤️
😂what if he never existed
@@homelander9795 why are u spoiling his comment
U need some help then
Keep living :)
@@PokeNixon lol it is something homelander would do
No words ❤️..He can penetrate into minds in seconds..💯
The coolest spiritual person
Was he prepared for this question or what?? He amazed me. My hat to you on behalf of Africa.
He is always prepared for any kind of questions ..he never stuck in d middle while answering them...He's a kind of GURU who can answer everything n anything..
He means is the question evaluated backstage then present it on stage. I think
At the age of 21 I truly got the meaning of girlfriend and boyfriend .. although few years back I was in one-sided love with someone and didn't reveal at all .. and thinking am I missing something in my teen? But Satguru proved by this video that .. no .. no.. no.., you didn't miss anything .. Since today my life will be in another direction!! Godspeed!!
I feel so much relief listening to this. Thank you. There is so much pressure through media, peers, society and knowing that it is okay to not be interested in these relationships and want to focus on myself is so freeing.
1:16 I just love the way Sadhguru says hello !!! Hahaha it's like...his own way to say ...Dude !! 😅😂
Shourov Chakma You clearly never saw Back To The Future.
Hum saala soch mein pad gye the 😂😂😂
Me too
I love his "hello" so much that I replayed it 10 times 😂
@@kartiksingh749 hey thats what people on jio network do , everytime they make a call.
Mind blowing. First time of listening and I can't stop. More grace sadghuru
Oche Maria Anthony same here, is the first time listening to this intelligent man, möre grace to him
"At this stage in your life, if you create a certain focus and balance within yourself, this energy will translate into something fantastic💫" I'm so happy that I heard this speech of Sadhguru at the right stage of my life! I focus on my future goals, studies and passion and the right time to have a bf/gf is after you become success and make your parents proud❤
Hello, Fellow Virgins!!
Rav Tail hello from the other side
Hello from hp
Hello from the other side. !!
Hello 🙋
Hello everyone welcome to Fellow virgins club and here comes our club president Mr sadhguru.
The best advice I ever received, don't be in hurry to live. Keep aside body based relationships. Focus on yourself. Live every moment consciously. 🤗👏
Amazing answer. I loved how he took a step back and addressed the question from the root problem in today's society.
Heartbroken single but now at least I can say it proudly I choose education over a toxic relationship, escaping a love triangle to go deep in the knowledge of my books 📚.
Wish me luck for a sustainable future life.
All the very best bro
Good luck for your future
The poor guy knows that people will still misinterpret him. That's why he looked that way at the end.
Sadhguru ji has changed my live.. keep guiding us how to live n flower. I am so gratful that i m listening him.
Why
this video should be shown to every narrow minded people of the soceity
Exactly 😂😂
Yaa seriously👍
True
Agree 💯
Absolutely
4:42 THE WORD FRIEND MUST BE RELEASED FROM THE BODY ... that just touce my heart.
“Hello?”
Yes
U said the truth.. Nowadays, its a trend to hv that " Sexual relations" or " body based relations"..
Noone wants to care for their themselves.. they dont wana take charge of their life, their development. Bt all they want is a partner......
😂😂nakhre vali sister
Friends
Because that is our biological purpose. Survive and reproduce to create future generations, it is every animal's biological purpose.
i clicked this video now i am someone different person
and i am serious about what i said
adit mittal I want to say something....don't listen what people say....don't saw what people do.....if you stuck in your life.....read shrimadbhagwatgeeta ones.....you got the real concept what is life.....as a girl I always say without any shines.....I always believe in sexual love.....but after read shrimadbhagwatgeeta....I get love is more than it.....and I really love my shrimadbhagwatgeeta.... please read.....
My all friends have their partners in 12 standard , they always ask me to come in relationship with someone ,but seriously I love my life and enjoying it alone. 😊😊
Bharat needs to get changed now, and if people starts following some of his teachings well Bharat will be changed for good.
Who's Bharat? A province, person or country?
@@justheretosaysomething475 india
Im 24 and i didn't had a girlfriend once so far. My mind always keep going about having a girlfriend and just live the life. At the same time iam studying and need to focus on it. Now after this what sadhguru said im realizing about how important education actually is to oneself and that one should be thankful for having the opportunity to study. im really thankful for the speech of sadhguru, I hope it will give me and also other people insights and focus to our life, so we can make the best out of it.
Al bo, til then Apna hath jagannath..
have*
I am a Pokerface hhh
You missundesrtud what he said.
This video gives me 11:00 mins full of concentration towards a particular thought.
You mean 10:48
I came from a heartbreak and I am ready to explore aloneeeee,I’m blessed that yt recommended this to me!!😭❤️
I dont think.. anyone can answer this question as better as this one.👍👍
I dont think.. anyone actually answered the question in this video
only a sadguru can answer such questions
Acharya Prashant can do it as good
Shubham Arora yes it is absolutely true
3:25 sadhguru is an artist of logic.
So glad I watched this today. Life, here I come!
Sadhguru Ji's words gives much needed direction to life. Even before getting into bodily relations, try be their friends. Being a student what you can possibly give someone is your company. They should not dismantle your growth and academics. You can go ahead with them if things go well better the two. But it is so important to be FRIENDS with your LOVED Ones 💝
The best explanation... hit like if u r a sadguru fan❤️❤️
Beautifully name So'ham. I am he/ I am that.
Absolutely ! 👍👍😎🇺🇸🙏
Your name is very rare🌝
Am amazed to know that m unknowingly practicing the same thing trying to grow before any further stuff
My Age 22 :Trust me ... The movement you will see him/her ...you are going to fall ..... Follower of Sadhguru since age 18
The whole point is, you can have a boy/girlfriend at any time in your life, it doesn't matter, you can be 5, 10, 15, 20, 25, 30, 35 and have a boy/girlfriend, but just don't make it as a trend, and don't make your relationship so hurry, so you can live the best with your life. You can't force yourself to have a boy/girlfriend when you are young, or after you succeed, because having a boy/girlfriend is mainly emotions based, so just go ahead to have a boy/girlfriend if you love the person, then keep balancing, living your own life.
I really disagree with people who said that "you should get a boy/girlfriend after succeeding". It's painfully wrong. What if he/she wants to be yours just because of your success? If he/she truly loves you when you have nothing but yourself, that's the ones who you should be in love with.
👍👍✌️
Yes. After success girlfriends/ boyfriend is easy to find, but not true love
It's legal.....😂😂😂
Sadhguruji 🙏🙏🙌🙏🙏
I was thinking same and the comment appeared,😂😂😂
😳
Please don't add visuals to what this great man speaks it misses the point he is making
Lets comment this on every upcoming video, may this will notice.
This. Adding average stock photo/videography lowers the quality of it.
What if the relationship is not physical?
And both the partners are bringing out best in each other and supporting each other to make better decisions and educating each other ? Is it bad then ?
Watch the first 5 mins its the same
That is what he is saying. Watch the video.
He says about emotional turmoils too. Listen again carefully.
There's usually an underlying desire for body as well.
He didn't say anything about something being bad
I'm 17 and I already regret not meeting new people and not having a girlfriend yet. Can't imagine the regret in latter life.
😂 not only you I'm worried about future
I'm more worried about my studies, weather I will succeed in life or not, bcz I do not work hard enough🥺
@@rxndxm_mf861 same
But atleast I know I can do...
Bruh youre 17 you'll get your chance