Committed But Still Attracted to Someone Else?

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  • @lotzamra7872
    @lotzamra7872 4 роки тому +1908

    "There will be pleasure, but there would be no joy in your life.. because you are not at ease." "This is not a question about morality, this is a question about your priorities in life."

    • @kimgordon3695
      @kimgordon3695 4 роки тому +24

      Beautiful summary 💕

    • @miraksubba2521
      @miraksubba2521 4 роки тому +3

      U havent done and dont try to be veterane

    • @buddybaldur768
      @buddybaldur768 4 роки тому +16

      He seems to be talking about getting addicted rather than the act itself.

    • @thomaswilkerson2711
      @thomaswilkerson2711 3 роки тому +21

      Right. It's the difference between acting on compulsion or making a willing choice.

    • @theemperor2017
      @theemperor2017 3 роки тому

      @@buddybaldur768 yes

  • @deepakonjengbam3022
    @deepakonjengbam3022 3 роки тому +1079

    I'm an admirer of Sadhguru and I like the way he answers every question but sometimes it so happens that while listening to his long explanations I actually forget what the question was about😂😂

  • @Akshitaraoyadav
    @Akshitaraoyadav 4 роки тому +646

    In starting u feel like what is being said is not relevant to the question but towards end u realise how beautifully the question has been answerd

    • @vaibhavkumar1318
      @vaibhavkumar1318 4 роки тому

      hmm

    • @paddy001
      @paddy001 4 роки тому +30

      And he concluded with there sentences "This is not a question of morality, it is not that this is sin that is sin the question is what is your priority in your life?
      If ur priority is to make this life rise to a higher possibility then u must be a conscious. If u want to somehow live and go."

    • @kellysiwel2851
      @kellysiwel2851 4 роки тому +2

      Agree totally. Amazing!

    • @dineshkumarvijaya4901
      @dineshkumarvijaya4901 4 роки тому +1

      Always ....

    • @AnanDElam
      @AnanDElam 3 роки тому

      Hahaha he does that always 😂

  • @RanjitGodbole
    @RanjitGodbole 4 роки тому +1117

    The best thing about Sadhguru is that anyone can ask him absolutely anything. He’s an open book. I can’t imagine anyone asking spiritual masters something like this just 10 years ago. Not that all of them are harsh or anything.

    • @argosron9838
      @argosron9838 4 роки тому +18

      @@rajitchaulagain697 his answers are as an empty coconut shell, look pretty, but does not change anything, (you still thirsty )One of the best showman. ..

    • @amolhjoshi
      @amolhjoshi 4 роки тому +39

      Argos Ron you need brains to understand Sadhguru! It’s not your cup of tea it seems!

    • @shashwat8546
      @shashwat8546 4 роки тому +12

      @@argosron9838 He dosnt answers the question he answers the questioner.😏

    • @AakashTavandikar
      @AakashTavandikar 4 роки тому +34

      Argos Ron you’re talking about the thirst of logic, not the existential thirst of life. That’s where you are wrong.
      Anyway my friend, unless you experience anything beyond your mind and body you won’t get it.
      When I was doing upa yoga with lots of enthusiasm for 2 months around 3 years back I discovered what spiritual experience is.
      And he’s not a showman because if you observe in almost every answer he’s trying to lure you to find your own existential nature which can be done best with yoga. So he has a solution to the existential quest but morons want him to satisy their logic. Unfortunate 🤷🏽

    • @shashwat8546
      @shashwat8546 4 роки тому +5

      @@AakashTavandikar trueee
      I hope you've done inner engineering...

  • @LifeCatalystAditi
    @LifeCatalystAditi 4 роки тому +570

    ❤️ Relationship with parents gets reflected in relationship with life partner. Found some more insights in this video.

    • @BlessingsandButterflies810
      @BlessingsandButterflies810 4 роки тому +18

      Yes this is exactly true because it’s a trickle down effect!!!! It follows you into the next chapter of your life!!!

    • @pradeepmohanty7428
      @pradeepmohanty7428 3 роки тому +14

      This is so true. Just came out of an experience like this, but never thought of it this way.

    • @carladaynaedwards1147
      @carladaynaedwards1147 3 роки тому +3

      Absolutely true

    • @SunilPatel-sx2ru
      @SunilPatel-sx2ru 3 роки тому +1

      Not really your vision is traditional the reality is express yourself

    • @AnanDElam
      @AnanDElam 3 роки тому +2

      Many years ago my dad said the same thing

  • @LokeshShetty
    @LokeshShetty 4 роки тому +216

    It's amazing how he says "Hello" in all of his interactions and the listeners nod. Probably to get listeners back from trance.

    • @wandamurtha1837
      @wandamurtha1837 3 роки тому +6

      I think his "hello" refers to: Are you understanding me, ars you you me,, do you agree with what I am saying? I could be wrong if course, but I have seeing other people do this to make sure that the other person is understanding.

  • @mndcom
    @mndcom 4 роки тому +397

    Our body is made of energy. He meant to say that if you keep sharing your energy, there comes a time this energy is going to be no more within you. Choice is yours.

    • @mndcom
      @mndcom 4 роки тому

      No thanks.

    • @tingle2323
      @tingle2323 3 роки тому +4

      Just like my friend doing studies for banking and public service too.. No wonder she isnt selected from 6 -7 years 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Dugudesi
      @Dugudesi 3 роки тому +1

      Its about the impact due to the interaction of these energies.

    • @leusmaximusx
      @leusmaximusx 3 роки тому +10

      Sharing is a function of love, being with a person without love, the energy only flows out, but when there is love , this energy returns. Loving many person and sharing your body with them , wont deplete your energy, in reality it is when your energy will grow.

    • @winnerwooman9787
      @winnerwooman9787 3 роки тому +1

      E = mc²

  • @ChoicelessAwareness
    @ChoicelessAwareness 4 роки тому +773

    Crazy how most culture in the world has lost this meaning of integrity.

    • @nocontext4951
      @nocontext4951 4 роки тому +7

      @TAP it! You create the meaning for it, not other people and remember that no one who truly want's happiness for others, will judge you, so don't give power to the close minded people. If you think it's a great thing, then it is a great thing!

    • @kiraunleashed5292
      @kiraunleashed5292 4 роки тому

      TAP it! Yup! we can become a great wizard after saving our virginity for forty yrs ;)

    • @amazingrace81
      @amazingrace81 4 роки тому +7

      Man, that’s so true. I make a conscious effort to practice Integrity everyday, even if I fall short sometimes. Any time my ego gets the best of me, I will humble myself, acknowledge my behavior and apologize, with the intentions of never repeating that mistake.

    • @Amani_Rose
      @Amani_Rose 4 роки тому +2

      @@jonathancarpenter5621 Why does the West make it sound like such a bad thing?

    • @goldenmeanphaseconjunction313
      @goldenmeanphaseconjunction313 4 роки тому

      @@amazingrace81
      Same, not ashamed

  • @sahilsahota8067
    @sahilsahota8067 4 роки тому +2927

    Listen to him.. you can read comments later 😁

  • @fireinateacup89
    @fireinateacup89 4 роки тому +2050

    He always has so much more to share than just what people ask about. Always extra food for thought.

    • @श्रतिका-ल8र
      @श्रतिका-ल8र 4 роки тому +22

      Always ♥️

    • @subhasarkar7135
      @subhasarkar7135 4 роки тому +28

      Yeah because we are always so much hungry and he knows that very well

    • @dpacmall
      @dpacmall 4 роки тому +15

      Yet he explains them soo simply and beautifully

    • @sachintapke8096
      @sachintapke8096 4 роки тому +8

      Yes but intention to understand profoundly

    • @amitabh4u
      @amitabh4u 4 роки тому +25

      Ya, Sometimes he don’t even answer what was asked

  • @hsusmitha9893
    @hsusmitha9893 4 роки тому +807

    If you are committed just be with him/her. That's it. Maintain the memory integrity of your body.

    • @Syed_12
      @Syed_12 4 роки тому +9

      hello

    • @loginname75
      @loginname75 4 роки тому +37

      @@Syed_12 go marry multiple wives. youll reach jannat

    • @anantmishra6880
      @anantmishra6880 4 роки тому +28

      mostly whoever do this ends up alone..

    • @charleslukewood8431
      @charleslukewood8431 4 роки тому +17

      I dont believe just because a couple wants to experience other pleasures it means they have less integrity

    • @Guddilove801
      @Guddilove801 4 роки тому +7

      @@charleslukewood8431 try it

  • @hninoowai1431
    @hninoowai1431 4 роки тому +32

    What I understand he said "Integrity" means Wholeness in us. When we become whole within us, the love we love around people becomes whole and no need to use love to fill up, your message is so wise enough to understand

  • @innosense6873
    @innosense6873 4 роки тому +76

    Concept of runanubandha is imp. And should be taught to everyone

    • @yemisiaderuku2902
      @yemisiaderuku2902 3 роки тому +3

      And what's this concept abt pls
      For the purpose of non Indians
      Thank you

  • @jayantiraj2164
    @jayantiraj2164 4 роки тому +112

    I like the way laughs in between of the conversation. Shows how simple is life and how we complicate it.

  • @happysoul3454
    @happysoul3454 3 роки тому +36

    I think if there is only attachment you will get attracted to someone but if you truly love someone your soul will never get distracted because it's not mere attachment but love...the way we get attracted to new toy in childhood but there is some toy which we love and even if it get destroyed we still love it in that condition and keep it and it has special place in our heart and love it in any condition..So if you truly love someone it's very easy to be loyal and faithful effortlessly but if you have attachment you will easily get distracted

    • @etherealessence159
      @etherealessence159 5 місяців тому

      I have started to believe this too for a while now.

  • @armaan8253
    @armaan8253 4 роки тому +333

    Nobody talks about bodly memory, of course except sadhguru, it is amazing

    • @Syed_12
      @Syed_12 4 роки тому +1

      hello

    • @sameepkadu4214
      @sameepkadu4214 4 роки тому +3

      Shewtabh Gangwar also explained the same thing!

    • @RounakKushwaha
      @RounakKushwaha 4 роки тому

      @@sameepkadu4214 Mensutra Army😎😎😎

    • @naneeleo823
      @naneeleo823 4 роки тому

      takit easy myFriend ! there always have been wise Teachers & great Masters
      Check the facts firstly , then meditate .. . (and maybee then write a comment ;)

    • @samitam2219
      @samitam2219 4 роки тому

      @@sameepkadu4214 what is the name of that video where he described that ?

  • @amazingrace81
    @amazingrace81 4 роки тому +92

    Thank you for the reminder to hug my 1st grader more. I forgot that even though he’s becoming more independent and wipes off my kisses, he still needs affection, even when he acts like he doesn’t want it. I needed that. Thanks

  • @brendajay7974
    @brendajay7974 3 роки тому +20

    When you are in need of wise words, encouraging thoughts, clear mind and heartfelt comfort.....he's the one....I love BK Shivani also...... It's amazing how these ppl practice what they preach..... Many Blessings!

  • @golvellius6855
    @golvellius6855 3 роки тому +58

    People always eager to eat wisdom but never have the time to digest it

  • @astrogirlarchie1808
    @astrogirlarchie1808 4 роки тому +51

    Sadguru is an epitome of wisdom.... He is the destination to many questions which crop up in our minds.... He answers them soooo wisely.... Amazing.... Loved it...

  • @SairamG1991
    @SairamG1991 4 роки тому +9

    To think that freely giving out hugs is a unconscious response to not having given enough attention in childhood - Absolutely mind blowing. I wonder where you can learn such secrets of human behavior.

  • @Neson.Services
    @Neson.Services 3 роки тому +36

    One thing I know is if you truely are in love with someone, you will choose to stay with that person in love and you will find no one else attractive than the person you love. Also, I believe celibacy is really one of ways to get to know if you truely love someone and if you're loved. However, sticking to one partner shows you love your life and that you respect your future.

    • @lurettagarner9670
      @lurettagarner9670 2 роки тому

      SO PROFOUNDLY AND POWERFULLY SAID! THANKS FOR SHARING THIS THOUGHT PROCESS MY FRIEND!

    • @lurettagarner9670
      @lurettagarner9670 2 роки тому

      SUSTAINED MY FRIEND!

    • @Neson.Services
      @Neson.Services 2 роки тому

      @@lurettagarner9670 It's my pleasure.

  • @deeptimishra8749
    @deeptimishra8749 3 роки тому +30

    I got my answer.
    I always felt like no one should touch me easily,, people said I am conservative,,, strict but now I really know why I used to act and think like that...no one can touch me easily 🙂

    • @unbiasedindian2883
      @unbiasedindian2883 2 роки тому +1

      Yes, never let anyone just be physically attracted to you. Only mentally and spiritually.

    • @laxmirani6515
      @laxmirani6515 2 роки тому +2

      I also don't like someone touch me except a person to whom i love bt i never touched her because she is far. Still waiting to get her touch

    • @sahilsarang6945
      @sahilsarang6945 2 роки тому

      @@unbiasedindian2883 you getting it wrong just never act on that thought if it is only for physical pleasure 🙏

    • @1006prem
      @1006prem 2 місяці тому

      You are really great ❤👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻💪💪

  • @amandarthomas780
    @amandarthomas780 4 роки тому +202

    Confirmation of what I have been saying for a very long time. Unfortunately where I'm from I am considered weird or odd. I love to hear The Guru speak truth/wisdom. Great start to my day! Be well all 😁

    • @WhiteMetal_
      @WhiteMetal_ 4 роки тому

      @Allie X 😂😂😂😂 yeah something like multiple orgy

    • @tingle2323
      @tingle2323 3 роки тому +5

      Same.. Even some ppl feel we r narrow minded or weird.. Sometimes i feel if they come to live better life or just trying to be modern nd others as narrow minded

    • @mitchellb2145
      @mitchellb2145 3 роки тому +4

      Like wise, we're all in this moment, together, be blessed kind souls 😁

    • @staceywilliams1863
      @staceywilliams1863 3 роки тому

      Same, sis!

  • @pradeepmohanty7428
    @pradeepmohanty7428 3 роки тому +303

    "You slowly become the person you sleep with"
    Simple as that, too many partners leads to too many traits flowing from them to you and vice versa. That's what he meant when he said ease will go from one's life with too many memories.

  • @girishbpatil
    @girishbpatil 4 роки тому +83

    it is all about integrity...
    - know separation, know joy
    - no separation, no joy, short-lived pleasure may be :)

    • @chandeshthakur2280
      @chandeshthakur2280 4 роки тому +1

      Very nicely comprehended!..🙌

    • @Aditya-Pathariya
      @Aditya-Pathariya 4 роки тому

      So well put

    • @EnergiA854
      @EnergiA854 4 роки тому +2

      Yoga means union, union is joy

    • @praveen_kay
      @praveen_kay 4 роки тому

      👏👏well sorted

    • @tingle2323
      @tingle2323 3 роки тому

      Hope a person who believe in second line dont ruin A person who believe in first line ..

  • @shinyhunter5844
    @shinyhunter5844 4 роки тому +315

    the more amount of sexual experiences you have with different partners the more amount of confusion and personality traits will keep on becoming part you without knowing , choice is yours bodily pleasures or a calm clear mind.

    • @staceywilliams1863
      @staceywilliams1863 3 роки тому +8

      This is true! I’ve been celibate for 4 years and I’ve never had more clarity and focus in my life. I’m steal healing!

    • @lurettagarner9670
      @lurettagarner9670 2 роки тому

      SUSTAINED MY FRIEND!

  • @sandeepsaini7945
    @sandeepsaini7945 4 роки тому +386

    It is the truth - the people who are physically involved with multiple partners, within themselves they are ill at ease everytime.

    • @The_Pradhan_The_Headstrong
      @The_Pradhan_The_Headstrong 4 роки тому +56

      Just look at weasten countries , what's the percentage of phycological problem & divorce in weasten countries.

    • @visionsofthelord2662
      @visionsofthelord2662 4 роки тому +52

      There will be pleasures. But No Joy in life.

    • @akshaydushyanth9720
      @akshaydushyanth9720 4 роки тому +2

      Yes

    • @srinitaaigaura
      @srinitaaigaura 4 роки тому +34

      Those who chase happiness are unhappy. The more they chase the unhappier it leaves them.
      As the Tao Te Ching put it, "One who is content is rich"

    • @zippastills5668
      @zippastills5668 4 роки тому +5

      This is literally just not true and I would advise you to swiftly shut up about things you know nothing about. You are insulting very sacred cultures across time. Watch yourself.

  • @DailyDoseOfInternet
    @DailyDoseOfInternet 4 роки тому +352

    Great video

  • @brownkanth
    @brownkanth 4 роки тому +100

    Never could have thought there are logical answers for such questions. And moreover, this answers are embedded in our culture and practices..An inch of an inch of our practices are based on science. Just that West and westerns of Bharat haven't been able to prove so, that they keep maligning our practices and think they are 'cool'.
    I aspire to gain knowledge, wisdom and understanding of our practices, culture, traditions and so all such related things, just like Sadhguru did and does. Thank you Sadhguru. You instill sense of understanding within me (I cannot describe it in better words). 'Intellect' is not the only eye. If at all it is in singularity, it is sharpest knife, which we often don't need but we keep it applying.
    Kudos to girl for asking this question. Kudos to the audience.

    • @shvprkatta
      @shvprkatta 3 роки тому

      true bro

    • @mitchellb2145
      @mitchellb2145 3 роки тому +1

      U know Einstein is quoted as saying as far as his most valuable gifts, a tributes creativity not IQ...

    • @lurettagarner9670
      @lurettagarner9670 2 роки тому

      SUSTAINED MY FRIEND!

  • @akinpeluazeez4437
    @akinpeluazeez4437 4 роки тому +14

    He changed everything in life made me realized who i truely am

  • @bullrider9617
    @bullrider9617 3 роки тому +20

    At young age we feel thats all bullshit , but with time and age one realises and reflects upon what he really means !!
    Sadhguru is just awesome ! !!

  • @40michelle09
    @40michelle09 3 роки тому +21

    I was never touched as a child. It hasn’t made me want more touch yet uncomfortable with touch. Not everyone’s stories are the same.

    • @SandeepNayak25
      @SandeepNayak25 2 роки тому

      You are correct, the physical memories of intimacy you have in you cud be minimal you can say . so your intellect doesnt identify it as a need. Like untill u dont try something how wud u recognise that as a to do or not to do.. So ultimately these are all memories that we identify as need being showered to us over a time. it us who has to consciously choose what memory we are going to integrate to this system. 😊 🙏

  •  4 роки тому +58

    The Isha yoga helped me move away from the backclash of a past relationship. Inner engineering might not change your outward life but it opened up something inside which is truly priceless and i dont hang without being aware much sooner. Life is just....no words.. this... must be love. 🙏

    • @ShivaTayal
      @ShivaTayal 4 роки тому

      You got it right. When things changed from within, you get a whole new perspective and became so aware about your energies that you cannot reveal your aura with like anyone.

  • @FaniRagoussi
    @FaniRagoussi 4 роки тому +593

    Answered all my questions and placed peace in my mind, because in the Western culture body contact, embracing , hugging, kissing is considered good for the physiological state of a person even among friends or so.... and if one chooses to be apart from socializing and living alone without companion, feels in conflict by the society that compels him otherwise
    It is first time I hear that is better to guard one’s energy and not get physically contacted a lot. It deliberates me 🙏😁💕💕💕
    Love you Sadhguru 🌺🌺🌺

    • @anundbabajee1369
      @anundbabajee1369 4 роки тому +77

      The existence of the Corona virus will inevitably help in achieving that.

    • @paramveerdosi
      @paramveerdosi 4 роки тому +8

      @@anundbabajee1369 😂😂

    • @as_if
      @as_if 4 роки тому +8

      I have heard u guys have problems even with smiling or laughing. ----- i read a 'quora' question : do Russians smile back if u smile at them - wtfuck is that bro, huh? 😂😂 . And i have also seen, u guys don't ever react with '😂' in comments in foreigner meme pages. Go In indian meme pages - u will only find : '😂', '😂😂😂' , 😂😂😂🤣🤣' etc. Nowadays it has begun to change though.

    • @barbaraangele8615
      @barbaraangele8615 4 роки тому +17

      Such a beautiful message. So true. The choice is yours and the consequences too.

    • @Shreyas_Sawant
      @Shreyas_Sawant 4 роки тому +2

      Well taken!

  • @asimaziz1908
    @asimaziz1908 4 роки тому +59

    He always provide a wise prospection .
    A proud Hamalyian soul.

  • @ShivaTayal
    @ShivaTayal 4 роки тому +5

    Connecting to a higher possibility will change your life so much that you yourself will not want to connect your energy with everybody. You become so conscious that you will only reveal your energy to a higher soul only and it feels so good from within.

  • @urishsmeganbehari7338
    @urishsmeganbehari7338 4 роки тому +17

    Namaste, the young lady who asked the question, is so beautiful. I love her question. Life, karma is so complicated. Bless you all with emotional strength and divine guidance. Love you all. Stay safe. Om Shanti

  • @Sahil_Baghla
    @Sahil_Baghla 4 роки тому +18

    Sadhguru is blessing in my life🙏He is our real Guru (teacher). Schools teaches us only Mitchochondria is power house of the cell.

  • @trinimom7686
    @trinimom7686 3 роки тому +6

    Holy smokes this is in another level kind of deep. So to maintain your commitment the body must stay connected to keep its memory therefore you are Not vulnerable to other things.

  • @ajitthapa5632
    @ajitthapa5632 4 роки тому +25

    Love the the way sadguru interpreted the importance of physical contact.
    Love from Nepal ❤

  • @VanshikaSaxena
    @VanshikaSaxena 4 роки тому +21

    He explains everything so nicely. Any person from any background can relate to him. 🙏

  • @star6209
    @star6209 3 роки тому +8

    For one question, u have given us a lesson. Yes, u have influenced me, sadhguru! Priority makes lives better. There is no such great sin in life when a person finds joy in fulfilling his/her priorities. There is no life if one lives to satisfy others. Excellent discussion.

  • @ericsesame6321
    @ericsesame6321 4 роки тому +174

    Isn't it interesting how in many classrooms, there is assigned seating but then people want to naturally sit somewhere else? Then there are others who are so adamant about their seat, they write their name under the seat of the chair? As a child, I was always fascinated to see different children's names on a chair or table who have sat there throughout the years as if they owned it.

    • @rohitbhat326
      @rohitbhat326 4 роки тому +1

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @lovelyrayy5492
      @lovelyrayy5492 4 роки тому +4

      Right. i seen it as a way of them leaving their mark in the world. 😂🙄😩

    • @craftpaint1644
      @craftpaint1644 4 роки тому +1

      I think it's cool. Doesn't last forever, Eventually things get replaced or the school is so old it's abandoned or repurposed.

    • @invisiblewoman9684
      @invisiblewoman9684 4 роки тому +6

      I used to love seeing names on desks and chairs! It was expressive and likely therapeutic too! Now, its VANDALISM!🤣

    • @ericsesame6321
      @ericsesame6321 4 роки тому +12

      @@invisiblewoman9684 They also left the legacy of their gum. 😂

  • @TheRealGuywithoutaMustache
    @TheRealGuywithoutaMustache 4 роки тому +71

    I truly appreciate his knowledge on the topic, it gives people insight

    • @pingupingu3692
      @pingupingu3692 4 роки тому +1

      Man !!! you are literally everywhere

    • @anujsevak
      @anujsevak 4 роки тому +1

      That's not knowledge. It's intelligence.

    • @shiki4293
      @shiki4293 4 роки тому

      @@anujsevak knowledge of intelligence? Words are tricky

    • @lrdssshmru5471
      @lrdssshmru5471 3 роки тому

      My god dude..you're everywhere

  • @Bluemeth101
    @Bluemeth101 4 роки тому +14

    Sadhguru is a very wise person, and really love how he is connected with his own culture 💙

  • @fascinating_medicine
    @fascinating_medicine 2 роки тому +26

    If you are committed to the person whom you truly love, you would be so content that you can hardly get attracted to someone else. Because being honest and loyal to the love of your life is so blissful pleasing .
    Relationships , breakups everything on one side. Being in love with someone (getting the same reciprocated) is same as mindfulness.
    Make sure you actually love someone and recieve the same energy back from them before you declare yourself committed.

  • @subhadeepbanerjee8523
    @subhadeepbanerjee8523 4 роки тому +117

    "I'm sorry if i discouraged"... the last punchline... 🤣😂
    Pranaam Sadhguru...🙏🙏🙏

  • @ahhhryannn
    @ahhhryannn 4 роки тому +42

    Sadhguru, I'm the kind of person who used to question the traditions which I used to see been followed. But after coming across your videos and inner engineering course, I realised our ancestors introduced those rituals, beliefs and traditions because there are scientific reasons behind it beneficial for us.
    Thank you so much. Love from Pune❤

    • @asharajukb7076
      @asharajukb7076 3 роки тому +3

      There is nothing wrong in questioning...when you question u get to know the reason behind

  • @flowhouse8147
    @flowhouse8147 4 роки тому +8

    One of the few wisest man living on the earth

  • @chaitrakumbar1452
    @chaitrakumbar1452 3 роки тому +23

    😍Sadguru's answer is beyond the question........ Thankful for realised us the sensitive things and thoughts......It is great to be Indian with several tradition for easy life

  • @ajaygautam4076
    @ajaygautam4076 4 роки тому +17

    How beautifully you've answered this. With touching every aspect of it....

  • @alwaysbeeurself
    @alwaysbeeurself 4 роки тому +265

    Someone can stay committed to a loved one when they are sexually attracted to another by realizing first that being sexually attracted to another is normal and a way of life. However, this is not to confuse that it is ok to dwell upon as it will feed the desire that is desired. Conflict then will arise within that person, isn't love more powerful than anything? Yes and no, love can not take away your natural way of life, it can only help you to do what is right instead of doing what feels good. So, love has nothing to do with desire, love gives and desire takes. It's ok to do either, but not at the expense of the other or at the expense of anyone. So, realize what's right and wrong for oneself instead of making rationalizations. Be willing to experience how you feel, but follow what is right to what supports morality, value, and meaning, and let your guide be to do what is right instead of how it will make you feel; otherwise you will loose yourself to being whatever you want instead of being a way that makes you important.

    • @pavaninaidu1121
      @pavaninaidu1121 4 роки тому +7

      that's an absolutely correct. we think about what is right instead of how it will make you feel.

    • @ramyaaji965
      @ramyaaji965 4 роки тому +2

      Excellent sir

    • @CatalinaMoreno7
      @CatalinaMoreno7 4 роки тому +2

      Unbelievable wisdom!!!!! Thank you so much

    • @Astrella999
      @Astrella999 4 роки тому +4

      So underrated comment, very well said👏👏👏

    • @catrina3909
      @catrina3909 4 роки тому +2

      You're not wrong i just wish I could get over feeling undesirable cuz my body isn't what my partner finds appealing.

  • @paddy001
    @paddy001 4 роки тому +137

    *What a golden word he has...he has a knowledge full of tank*

    • @infinityshyleshdabke
      @infinityshyleshdabke 4 роки тому +6

      cant help it dude..hahahaha..please dont mind could help.."knowledge full of tank"

    • @Bane92
      @Bane92 4 роки тому +2

      Lol

    • @iAMJaws
      @iAMJaws 4 роки тому +2

      Yes and his followers also have knowledge full of tank as well

    • @paddy001
      @paddy001 4 роки тому +1

      @@iAMJaws u also seems his hardcore follower 😀😀👍

    • @paddy001
      @paddy001 4 роки тому

      @@iAMJaws like you...you also are his follower that is why why you saw his video 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @rmed5923
    @rmed5923 3 роки тому +4

    "The nature of the body is such that anything that you touch with a certain level of involvement will naturally absorb that memory, not mentally...physically, it will absorb that memory"----- TRUE!!!

    • @starlightwhispers6781
      @starlightwhispers6781 2 роки тому

      That's why crystals shouldn't be passed around. Your energy gets stored in them and they need regular cleansing. Too many people touching it confused its programming

  • @akimateru7980
    @akimateru7980 4 роки тому +9

    I would love to just sit by this man a listen to him speak about everything..very wise..

  • @soundblankie
    @soundblankie 3 роки тому +14

    Meditate and exercise daily, live your passions, love your friends and family, be kind to others. Do better every day.

  • @Alexandra-wf2bg
    @Alexandra-wf2bg 3 роки тому +10

    "If you want to somehow live and go it is ok" Otherwise be conscious ❤

  • @srinitaaigaura
    @srinitaaigaura 3 роки тому +7

    This is the exact problem with too many partners. The mind and body can no longer focus. In fact even normally our mind cannot focus 100% unless it is brought to a single point of attention. Youngsters ask this question precisely because of what more and more of them are doing these days. They've also upgraded from serial soulmates to parallel ones.

  • @debrak04
    @debrak04 4 роки тому +5

    If you're so called committed but attracted to someone else, unless you are also attracted to who you're already with you will never be happy no matter what you do and so it is best to leave.

  • @charlzwill495
    @charlzwill495 4 роки тому +20

    Oh well that clears up alot. I never was into jumping in and out of relationships. I could spend alot of time being happy with myself. I owe it to my mom she showed me and my siblings alot of love and made us know we have the fruits of spirit within us. No shade to people that feel the need to be with more people.

  • @ashwinihegde2033
    @ashwinihegde2033 4 роки тому +8

    Always truth is mingled with power and some learning. Thank you guruji. Your words are heavy power and best learning. 🙏

  • @LoneWolf-yp9qw
    @LoneWolf-yp9qw 4 роки тому +1

    Integrity doesn't mean Morality. Amazing statement. Deep and Profound!

  • @madhusmitasharma601
    @madhusmitasharma601 4 роки тому +10

    Agreed...Conscious Decision Vs Compulsive Decision😇🙏Beautifully explained Sadhguru🙏🌺

  • @monikajaswal5601
    @monikajaswal5601 3 роки тому +2

    What an insightful process on to our body journey ... Only sadguru can channelize this to our consciousness with such integrity...

  • @laxmandeep9409
    @laxmandeep9409 4 роки тому +38

    'IF YOU WANT A PARTNER, CHOOSE CONSCIOUSLY' !!
    An individual has various needs i)psychological, ii)emotional iii)physical, iv)social v) financial vi)other
    If you look at them carefully there is a scope for to fulfil all these needs except physical needs without changing a person !!
    So when you have to choose you must follow your dreams, this is how u can maintain
    enormous integrity both mentaly n physically !!
    Never seek for all the things in 1person there r no perfect ppl in the world.
    If you find someone you r lucky🙏

    • @laxmandeep9409
      @laxmandeep9409 4 роки тому +2

      Pleasure n peace guarantee..
      Joy has scope ! It is in ur hands !!

    • @ajaygautam4076
      @ajaygautam4076 4 роки тому

      I think Sadhguru has answered it well... And if you still feel confused. Please rewatch it. But please don't contaminate what one can learn. Every individual is different and he/she can imbibe what's needed. Thank you and Namaskaram

    • @Beatriz-lj2td
      @Beatriz-lj2td 4 роки тому

      When you love someone is unconditional..no expectations...just feel happy to be around that person.If they don't correspond you ,your love for that person shouldn't change....right?you say follow YOUR dreams? so a person is a Basel that you enter to satisfy your dreams? sound egocentric.not loving..

    • @laxmandeep9409
      @laxmandeep9409 4 роки тому +1

      I really dnt think you ppl understod what i'm saying 😀

    • @laxmandeep9409
      @laxmandeep9409 4 роки тому

      @@ajaygautam4076 watch other videos 🙏

  • @tomleaver7888
    @tomleaver7888 4 роки тому +15

    This is a very good video, I encourage you to listen until the end, where he talks about consciously taking a partner.

  • @asthasharma6375
    @asthasharma6375 3 роки тому +5

    He explains everything from its root so no question left n we get complete answer.. Well explained how this cycle works n this starts since childhood 🙌🙌

  • @mondiramaji791
    @mondiramaji791 Місяць тому

    This is the reason why people who have found the answers are always smiling in this benign way, they’ve found their integrity.

  • @Staystrongforever
    @Staystrongforever 4 роки тому +22

    Sadguru makes me smile everytime I watch video

  • @maitisanw.j7453
    @maitisanw.j7453 4 роки тому +7

    Human wants are unlimited. They get one and want the other. And to control our desires is to be satisfied in what we have and give the best to what we own.
    B8ble says that if a man or woman desires other persons out of marriage is commitung adultery in his/her mind.

  • @MaitreyaVyas
    @MaitreyaVyas 4 роки тому +12

    I loved how he used the analogy of motherboard with integrity.

  • @Wehappysouls
    @Wehappysouls 2 роки тому +2

    I can just say "Wow". What a scientific and spiritual combination? I have been so ignorant about such beautiful aspects of life.

  • @dsbupadrasta2385
    @dsbupadrasta2385 4 роки тому +3

    These students are much more polite than IIM students. I love that

  • @originalman9748
    @originalman9748 4 роки тому +30

    If you're committed to someone and in a relationship there should be no need to have lust for an other as love and respect comes hand in hand, most of all respect for self, you shouldn't be in a relationship if you haven't overcome lust then it proves the fact that you don't know yourself and haven't found self discipline and love for yourself as you let the physical rule you when in fact it should be the spirit /soul whatever you wish to call inner. Peace

  • @vm1876
    @vm1876 4 роки тому +7

    Wow that is eye opener,why relationship many times fails

  • @mrinalmarak9539
    @mrinalmarak9539 4 роки тому +33

    m a Christian but I love Sir Sadhuguru's mindset 💖💖

    • @pencilrussell4711
      @pencilrussell4711 2 роки тому

      Knowledge is universal, has nothing to do with church domination

    • @rachey5300
      @rachey5300 2 роки тому +1

      I am Christian too but I love watching his videos. Lots of wisdom.

  • @rbrekhababu5
    @rbrekhababu5 4 роки тому +178

    The essence of life is to maintain of substance of character 😇 If U truly love someone definitely U wont get attracted to someone else 😊

    • @irfanac1862
      @irfanac1862 4 роки тому +4

      Vry true

    • @Bettieoaminh
      @Bettieoaminh 4 роки тому

      True 🙏💅

    • @sunrise3585
      @sunrise3585 3 роки тому

      It's true

    • @pranavgohel6710
      @pranavgohel6710 3 роки тому +2

      100% right

    • @mitchellb2145
      @mitchellb2145 3 роки тому +2

      What? Are we looking at a different videos? Atleast from the perspective as an audience as anonymity, see the agreement that choices are choices, if people are interested in getting to know me just say high or be straight up, cryptic doesn't fair well in real engagements,for some all it takes is starting the conversation, for real, I'm sick of always feeling u authentic or misread...geuss it's my fault. For real though. 😉Don't judge a book by their cover, assuming sets us up for "preemptive" mess ups, if something doesn't sound right call people out on it (if you care) most don't until I'm off to my own adventures 🙏😕😉

  • @macsaplala0831
    @macsaplala0831 4 роки тому +77

    ❤️ This is the epitome of a GURU, wisdom.

  • @himanshurajdev9991
    @himanshurajdev9991 3 роки тому

    The "Runanubandha" seems so apt in these COVID-19 scenario. Explains Why we did Namaskars. Eye opener.

  • @thomasthuku3781
    @thomasthuku3781 3 роки тому +4

    I love Sadhghuru teachings..Thank you sir for the great knowledge and teachings
    Watching from Kenya 🇰🇪 🇰🇪🇰🇪

  • @anirudhsharma2384
    @anirudhsharma2384 4 роки тому +1

    Left video at 08:25...
    Tried to find the answer but all i heard was MEMORY... couldn't wait anymore

  • @Healthnwellness373
    @Healthnwellness373 3 роки тому +3

    I believe This lines from sadguru changes to a whole new level of parenting and bringing up their childs ✌👌

  • @lindajanefyvie9267
    @lindajanefyvie9267 4 роки тому +5

    Attracted someone,working so hard on changing that!🙏can bring only guilt,shame&remorse.then a need to find the way to be rid of those feelings. "Pleasure but no joy!💔"

    • @lindajanefyvie9267
      @lindajanefyvie9267 4 роки тому

      @Sophia William who?& how?is this gonny be some spellcaster con thing?

  • @vaibhavbharteeya
    @vaibhavbharteeya 4 роки тому +7

    I’ve learnt quite a new thing today. The ‘Runanubandh’ 😁🙏🏻

  • @hiteshk8758
    @hiteshk8758 4 роки тому +5

    How can I get to your level of observational intelligence. I feel like a rock underground in comparison to Sadhguru's stellar brilliance.

  • @thomaswaffle5121
    @thomaswaffle5121 3 роки тому +4

    Love isn't a feeling you give to one person. Teal Swan said love is accepting someone as a part of yourself and wanting the best for them. This reality tries to make you owned. You can't be attracted to more than one person. That's ownership and controlling. If I've told you I love you, I still do and always will.

  • @rrrfrazierable
    @rrrfrazierable 4 роки тому +2

    Guru teaches with grandmotherly gentleness

  • @BlessingsandButterflies810
    @BlessingsandButterflies810 4 роки тому +2

    Sadhguru have enough wisdom for anyone to last a lifetime!!!! I love it!!!:))

  • @divinebred
    @divinebred 4 роки тому +3

    How lucky we had Sadhguru in our Northeast! I wish I had been been there. 🙏🏿

  • @BetterBeings_official1
    @BetterBeings_official1 7 місяців тому +1

    question is - what is your priority --- loved it

  • @ColdHeartedEnd
    @ColdHeartedEnd 4 роки тому +76

    I just love listening to him. That Indian girl who asked the question is quite attractive :)

  • @itsjustart24
    @itsjustart24 2 роки тому

    Thats so true..Indian society men and woman work so close together even in buses and there is respect and ease when u talk to fellow Indians..

  • @dannydetonator
    @dannydetonator 4 роки тому +4

    I've tried for a year to find gaps in SG wisdom. Some notions aside, i haven't been able to contest this wisdom. Therefore it rings true. Even if my experience(or lack of it in this matter) makes me doubtful, there is a level of understamding this life - we can all strive to reach.

  • @omtoolika
    @omtoolika 3 роки тому +1

    Simply speechless on how much sense & wisdom when he says "Biological Integrity"..wouldn't even have ever understood the importance of the 'why' behind it, if it was not for Sadhguru. Really.. thank u🙏💖

  • @mansijadon1397
    @mansijadon1397 4 роки тому +14

    He's the living legend here to provide light of wisdom to all of us❤️

  • @vamsinarasingam7664
    @vamsinarasingam7664 4 роки тому

    The only man I have ever seen!
    What ever may be question he will answer it infact he will not just answer our questions he will just prove it by realising it ourself....
    He's a dwan of konwladge
    No bias no confusion he is such a man with infinite set of solutions with abandoned knowledge!

  • @ayeable83
    @ayeable83 4 роки тому +5

    I just love the way Sadhguru says hello 👋 love it.

  • @karstenburger9031
    @karstenburger9031 3 роки тому

    Fascinating answer, and avoiding moral rigidity and shame, guilt, social disgrace.

  • @sharmabrothers3385
    @sharmabrothers3385 3 роки тому +4

    His knowledge and understanding of every aspect is so profound and today I got my answers of my questions.