HIS PARENTS DIDN'T APPROVE AT FIRST & HOW WE NAVIGATED THAT SEASON! TOLULOPE AND GBEMIGA ADEJUMO
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- Опубліковано 30 кві 2022
- Finally sharing a part of our story that I have promised for a while now. I just really hope it inspires or enlightens or heal. Let me know if you found this helpful in the comments below. xo
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I like how you tell us stories about yourself but still manage to keep a lot of things private. Yes we like gist but a lot of UA-camrs don't apply wisdom when they are creating content.
Your last sentence 👏👏🏿👏🏽👏🏾
Ok hunty!
It’s called wisdom just like you rightly mentioned, before someone will now use it against them tomorrow. Some Nigerians are wicked
So good!!!! Like you’ve said it all📌
Thank you so much 🥰
Madam tolulope looks exactly like her mom in the video
Thank you for sharing your story. My husband and I also faced heated and heart breaking parental consent issues for about 3 years. My dad eventually consented last year in September 2021, and 3 months later, January 1 & 6, 2022 we celebrated our traditional and church wedding ceremony. God fought all our battles and moved every mountains. Today we are happily married to the glory of God.
How was your relationship in those 3 years?
Where there times either party felt uncertain about the fight or second thoughts ??
@@shalomtutu we were never uncertain. Infact, it made our bond stronger. The storms were from external parties, but we were intentional with being united.
In my case it was association of my husband's friend because one of them had made advances at me and I rejected.
My husband told them he doesn't mind loosing all of them as friends
We had the wedding 17 yrs after waxing stronger and stronger
The devil will always rage against the will of God
May 10th will be our 12th anniversary. We had similar story. Not hear say but more of tribal difference. I knew from.the get go what tribes were off limits for me but in my mind it was just friendship. So when now friendship turn marry me, the conversation changed. I forewarned my husband and Marshalled forces with my uncles to go ahead of me to.my parents. I made my uncles access him n when they approved i had all the support i needed to face my parents. We triumphed. 2 weeks to.the wedding his mom out of no where said " NOPE" We had to fight that too. Marshalled all the church elders n pastors to go ahead of us
We won. Hasn't been smooth sailing all the way but to Gods glory we r still standing. 3 precious girls n 12 years of Gods goodness.
I can soo relate with this. My mom said soo many nasty things to dissuade me for no just cause;honestly. My elder sister made matters worse but we had soo much peace and joy being with each other.When I didn't introduce any other person to them after 3years; they let me be. It was then my mom worked on it spiritually and got a go-ahead. Most reasons are trivial and bias honestly. 4.5years in marriage,I couldn't have asked for a better partner. Tables have turned,the stone that wasnt wanted is now the chief cornerstone.
Glory be to God.
May God continually keep you guys together in peace and bliss( amen)
How did you do it. Because I'm facing the same thing. My elder sister is making matters worse.
@@amarachiinyimah1073 hi,sis! I feel you totally. We were tenacious as we had both prayed about it from the scratch and was double sure we were meant to be. We also enjoyed each other's company soo much that the heat didnt have effect on us at all. We cried together (tbh), held each other's hands,communicated more often,fantasized together, hung out without sending anyone. Once it's meant to be ehn,it will be. Loads of love from me to you🥰
Imagine letting go of a woman like Tolulope, you're both incredibly strong. Such a spiritual woman with a dignified spirit.
May the Lord continue to bless your home and shower you with love. AMEN
To think that i was in that phase but mine was on the basis of culture and i prayed to God that "God, let your perfect will be done" the relationship didn't work and here i am fulfilling purpose and waiting on God. God bless you and PG so much. I don't usually comment but your lives, marriage and parenting has been nothing but a blessing to me.
This marriage is one that assures me that good marriages still exist 🥰
*Pause Video*
Aunty Tolulope is so fineeeeeee... Such a flawless beaut! Kaiii, Abba dey create abeggggg...
*Back to the video*
Wow! Today May 1st is my wedding anniversary. It is my 12th year of marriage and it has been God all the way. This particular matter is relatable. I won't say more than that. Thank you, Solutions mama for putting this out. It will help so many relationships and even marriages. God Almighty will continue to bless your home and ministry.
Happy wedding anniversary! 12 years to the glory of God and forever to go in Jesus name
Tolu, you look so much like your mom today.
PG I salute you.
One key lesson for me: as parents, the life you live can affect your children's lives in ways unimaginable. Thankfully you mum is an amazing person, but just imagine if the rumors were true.
May God help us to 'live' a name that would open doors for our children not the reverse.
True. Amen
Oh yes!!!! Oh yes!
Can we take a moment to acknowledge PG's accent!✨👏
The conclusion of this video is God's grace and faith....
Am 24yrs old boy, i sometimes still ask myself why i watch your videos but Aunt Tolu, thanks for the mentorship...
Thank you Pastor Gbemiga, your sense of thinking is second to none... Baba with the vibes
The way he looks at you❣❣❣❣awwwwww❣❣❣you guys look so cute. God over everything🙏🙏🙏🙏
Tolulope Solutions, you are beginning to look like your mother in law ooo💕
I love this couple and I'll keep voicing it. Being african, Nigerian to be precise, i didn't really grow up in a home where love is very evident, never heard my dad say "i love you" to my mom or we his children verbally. Almost impossible for my mom to say "I'm sorry" when she offends us. So i really do appreciate the love you share with each other and the kids too. I pray to get a man this intentional about God, love and all of what you have❤❤❤
Happy Father's day PG
Thank you! May we always be better for ourselves and generations coming through us
@@TolulopeSolutions
Going through similar situations also
I messaged you on instagram that I needed to talk to someone pls can u reply
I need to ask u someone pls🙏 or I can even call you
BLESSED! POWERFUL!! LORD LET YOUR WILL BE DONE IN MY LIFE
I watched this twice,I love your calmness, Tolulope is my daughter name too,may God continued to bless your home
A blessed home indeed.
I feel blessed after seeing this video.
Thank you, ma and sir.🙏🏾
Wow! I love this testimony. All glory to God.
Thanks so much for sharing. This came in season for me. God bless you and continue to keep you both.
I kind of understand where PG parents are we’re coming from. For the kind of background he’s from they wouldn’t want anything to soil that. And looking out for their son wasn’t a bad idea at all. I must applaud his parents for that. And I’m thankful for what you guys have it’s divine and strong. Blessings thanks for sharing.
To God be the glory amen. Great testimony and I really respect PG much more!!!! May God Almighty continue to bless your marriage and your family in Jesus mighty name !!!! Amen
Thank you for this Aunty Sols...!! 👏💕
Thanks for sharing guys,I really needed dis discussions.. God's will is always the foundation of such issues.
PJ is so amazing! God bless you Tolu
Thank you for always reaffirming that good marriages exist. You always inspire me
It's the way he looks at her with so much love for me
PG is a whole vibe and more! 🔥🔥🔥
Been waiting for this Story !!! Thank God 😊😊💃💃💃
This is indeed a blessing, thanks for sharing
Love you both, God bless you for this!
Always so good!!! Thank you both 👌❤️
So much wisdom! Thank you for sharing this Solutions mama and PG
You are both heroes and champions. The man was bold enough to tell you. God granted you wisdom also. These matters is a very tricky one. May God help us
Thank you the Team solutions for putting this together. God bless you richly.
The Solutions family
Full of wisdom✌
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS. MY FAITH HAS BEEN FIRED UP!!
Thanks for the prayers
Team solution aaah u are a blessing to me .I always get motivated anytime i listen to u
Thank God you stood your ground. It showed you are truly a man and you truly wants her otherwise, it would have been over. Tolu owns you a lot of gratitude FOREVER for being a man!!!
Thanks so much for this, I love you both.
Thanks so much for this, it's so timely 🙇♀️
I relate with this 100%
A piece of my story as well.....
In the end,God is praised and glorified.
This video is just about the will of God,that’s what I learnt ❤️🥰
Minister Solutions this is so timely.... God Bless You
Ma/sir ,thank u for sharing this. It's indeed deep and I have learned alot. God bless u🙏
Watching for the second time 🔥🔥. The wisdom here is too much. It's always a time to learn. Is it just me, it's been so long we had PG on the channel.
The video we have been waiiiiiting fooor.... Osheeey 💃💃💃💃 I remember your Mum and mother in law little conversation during your WOMEN ADVICE celebration day(abi wetin them dey call am) let me get my popcorn and watch 💃💃
This beauty and glory is blindingggggg😍😍😍😍✨✨✨
Am currently going through a thrivia issue in my relationship now. And this is a blessing right now.
I am blessed ,insisting on the will of God ,and prayer cover thank sir and ma
Mama Solutions, you're amazing. God bless you for being in tune with the spirit.
Solutions Mama and PG be dishing out gems and also entertaining us. I'm here for it.
GOD bless and keep you both. Thank you for sharing, much love 💕😍💓
Wow! I love the Adejumos, I was a founding member of Agape Christian Assembly at Oluwatuyi then, my sibblings and I did choreography tire in that church. Lol. They are great people, you are blessed to have them as in laws and vice versa. I am not suprised they could apologise to PG when they realized the truth. Most parents will not, they will just turn it to ogboju.
I totally agree! I celebrate you Ma
Love love love this!!!
This really blessed me. Hearing your story help start a healing process
You are so wise ma! I love listening to you so much!!! I just learn the importance of having that strong relationship with God!! Thank you💕
So looking forward to this! Thank you for sharing. 😇❤️
Gosh,you guys are great today,a joy to watch .Wow,pls keep it up.❤️
Awwww...... so glad to have PG back again....thank God
Wedding Anniversary and birthday months. 🎂
Amen, thank you so much for sharing this, I really got to note alot, may God continue to bless, protect, guide and direct this family greatly, Amen
"Our parents have foresight and experience" No truer words! They see more than we can and it's important to listen to them, as much as it is 'importanter' to pray. Just that evil manipulations come through those counsels of theirs sometimes. Emphasis on "Prayer-cover your relationship/marriage", it's the most important thing.
Thank you Solutions!
Thanks for sharing this. Showing that situations are not always rossy and it not at every issue you run. Sometimes you face it, if not you might be missing out of something beautiful.
It looks like this is for me. God, thanks very much for always coming through. Your will be done.
Thanks very much for this video sir and ma.
I love u two dearly. May God continue to use u both to bless our generation
Beautiful couple " ha o ti get mi" thanks for sharing this and for the words of wisdom
Great video thanks for sharing. Always good to conduct due diligence to aviod stories that touch. Pray we all meets God's plans and purpose for our lives Amen.
This was so helpful. I look at both of you and I pray and desire a union tgis beautiful and whole
You’re so right!!! The will of God that has been revealed to you should always be your anchor in decision making. Loved this!
Thanks for sharing. God bless you both
I definitely need to watch this, its a phase of my life right now😢😢...
Mine was tribe issues and my husband now parents fought him because we are not from the same tribe, Igbo and Yoruba thing, but thank God for him , he knows what he want and he fought for us, he came out to tell me that his parents said he can't marry me too and I was really down and I told him we can prove them wrong, it's wasn't easy but here we are today happily married ❤️
Sis please how can I reach you ?. I’m currently in this situation and I really need wisdom on how to move ahead.
@ADA, WHERE ARE YOU BASED. I CAN SUPPORT YOU THROUGH. 💯
I'm currently in this situation too, pls I really need help/wisdom to pull through....
@@omolaraokunade4092 i don't know how I will reach out to you, but you can message me on my Instagram page too
@@faithonu2655 what's your handle?
Hmmmm, PG always have something that aligns with something I've been through and he gives out just the perfect encouragement. God knows it will be easy to say no to a stranger and so, he brings the test from within. Solutions abeg no jealous, you too sweet pass.
Only the counsel of the LORD shall stand. Glory!
Thank you for sharing. To me this shows that everything that will be built will be tested, but it's important to stay anchored by God.
Amen. Thank u so much, this is just prompt
The good thing is we all can see how mummy FF ADEJUMO loves you so much right now.
I love you guys
The love and friendship 👌💛💚
It's good to hold on to God's word
The man's conviction for me
Thanks for sharing. Bless your heart. A lot of marriages failed in my family because proper checks were not done about the families before the marriages , not a lot was known about praying about the union,asking for the will of God to be done and finally waiting to hear specifically from God.
Most of the knowledge I have now is like knowledge or wisdom after the devastating stories/lives. Praying now for the God of restoration to intervene in all the cases.
God bless you and your husband for this video.
That will of God prayer yeah! It's powerful. I'm not married yet but I've seen it work things out for me. And I know it'll work in my life in Jesus' name. Amen.
The prayer of God’s will is so important. His will above ours always !!
Your hubby has hus mums personality to an extent.its nice to see.Your mother -inlaw is Gold a treasure . Her messages has transformed my life soo much .Thanks for sharing.
Beautiful family. Thank you for sharing its amazing 😊 💖
Insist on God's will and then cover with prayers👌...my take home msg!
Thank you so much for this
God bless you both
God's will supercedes men's will. God bless PGee for staying strong and trusting you that much. Two beautiful individuals that are so charming 🤗 love you both 💕💕❤️❤️
Baba solutions is no more shy.So happy for both of you.
Wow....
You guys are so Golden....
And Happy New Month to the entire family 💗
Being in the will of God is key. Always wonderful to see how much you both love God and trust His direction. God bless you and your family always!
The place of God and believing in one another is key.
May we not make costly mistakes in life
This video is timely. Thank you for sharing. 💓
I really can relate!! The Test came from family members that we trusted!! But thank God for the conviction we had and the input of prayers!! Thank you for sharing!! I love you Fam!!
Wow never knew your hubby was so funny 😂
He's a lovable person with great sense of humor 😀
Thanks So much for this Solutions... This came at the right time 🥺
This is so instructive. Thank you for sharing..
Thank you so much Ma for sharing. This is answered prayers for me. God bless you richly!
PG is cracking me up🤣🤣been so stressed all week,this is good to watch.African parents always look out for their children when it comes to marriage honestly😁but God’s will prevails.