i agree with you to a certain extend if your goal is to be a player and get woman that are into players, then she is proabably right but if your goal is to love a woman and be loved then i dont know if what she says is the best advice each to theyr own, maybe she likes it like this, but everyone is different some woman like when you show effort and are " clingey" , they need that and some dont like that at all and it turns them off i think she just tells us what she likes and she likes the player types , she likes that stuff and there is nothing wrong with it but that doesnt mean its "nothing but facts" some woman dont like romance and some do, doesnt mean if she tells you to not be romantic that thats "nothing but facts" and you shouldnt be romantic.
Here are the 9: 1. Have self respect. 2. Don't give a f@ck 3. Be selfish 4. Act like you've been here before 5. You cant hurt me 6. don't ask for permission, ask for forgiveness. 7.Understand that a relationship is a choice. 8. Willingless to fail. Go after what you want. 9. Be unpologetically disciplined.
Every mom should teach thier sons this when they are 10! But nobody does it, here we are grown men getting schooled by Melli! Love how she just down grades the b's! Just love me some Melli!
Hell yes, I bet women across the world have a hit contract on her! The contract just got raised to 5 million! Babe if they come after you because you told us men the truth ! Please come to my house, hit or no Hit ! You got the key to door babe , Visa cc also!😂
I'm f***** up that people cant figure this shirt out on their own man I'm 41 years old and figured the s*** out in grade school watching my own mom and sisters 🤦🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️
@@DetroitFettyghost All the men I know who are good with women, had sisters. Those of us who grew up learning about women by watching disney-movies, have a terrible time.
1- willing to walk away 2- not giving a fuck 3- being selfish 4- act like you've been there before(never putting the bitch on a pedestal) 5- you can't hurt me mindset 6- don't ask for permission, ask for forgiveness 7- understanding that relationship is a choice 8- willingness to fail 9- be unapologitically disciplined
You've transformed me into a better risk taker not just with women but also in my career and other relationships. Thank you for being real. Your lessons are better than any book out there and the good side of it is that we are connecting emotionally with you while listening to you. It's rare to see such a person as you. More love from me to you.
I don’t hurt. I am strong. I don’t care if people don’t like me. I found this quote on Facebook a while ago that goes, “confidence is not, they’ll like me, confidence is, I’ll be fine if they don’t.” It hit deep. Noone can affect me. I’m focused and I don’t care what they think.
"When you want do something, nobody is going to do it for you. You have to do it for yourself. So, you gotta be selfish." Thank you Melli. Being selfish in a self-love way, not in I am against or want to hurt others, is the right thing to do.
1. Willing to walk away Don’t tolerate disrespect of any kind Rather be alone than be tolerated or undervalued 2. Not giving a fuck Be you, if she doesn’t accept it, it is what it is… 3. Be selfish Have goals and targets that occupy your time Don’t GIVE the bitch ALL your time. Make her wonder about you 4. Act like you’ve been there before Cool calm collected Remain in baseline masculinity Baby I’m HIMothy! 5. You can’t hurt me It’s a Mindset I AM Strong, I Am Confident, I AM Resilient, etc 6. Don’t ask for permission ask for forgiveness Make yourself happy if it works cool if not apologize Avoid sexually using this 7. Relationship is a choice I choose to be or not to be If she fits cool if not don’t sacrifice self respect. Accept the paths aren’t the same and continue with goals and plans 8. Willingness to fail Calculated risk forget failure it’s a reference point not who you are Look at what you aren’t happy with and work on it 9. Be unapologetically disciplined Don’t listen to peer pressure Stick to the plan Bitches should NEVER be priority
@@rgw1380rw correct no 2 “bad boys” do the exact same thing. This is just my opinion The biggest thing with “bad boys” is how they treat women before compared to after they get in the sack with women. You had good guys, bad guys and nice guys. Choose between good and bad but don’t be the nice guy. Good guy and bad treat women the same before getting with them. After is where they differ. Good guys aren’t so say nice, because they have no problem standing up for them selves, they have internal strength and are proud of who they are. They way they treat women before sex is the same as after. So yes no 2 guys (good bad nice) do the exact same thing Good and bad both have the two characteristics women want though: 1. Strength 2. Proud/confident in who they are with no apologies Nice guys: 1. Characteristically weak 2. Are embarrassed of who they are
@Kyle Broussard As a so-called nice guy, women wouldn't like to know that I'm far from weak, and I don't like to argue much without being violent when people are attempting to play with me. What many don't get is some so-called nice guys are very evil people that just have common sense enough to avoid counterproductive bs. I know myself. Tbh, bad boys aren't always Mr. Nice guy before they get what they want. Women have a habit of living in a fantasy world where they must fix the fake bad boy. They'll just ignore the red flags. I'm rather confident in myself because I get plenty of attention from women on a daily basis without trying or even really being in my best attire at times. The only female who thinks she's the only thing that I could get is a woman who is foolish as can be. I'm confident enough to be myself at all times. Coming from my background, I really never had to put on a front to get respect around some real wild types, plus I'm the same around wealthy people. Being nigga-ish or the center of attention isn't my thing. You'd have to know me to understand that I have friends and family from all sorts of walks of life. Tbh, those bad boys are weak to me. I see them as weak because they can weasel their way back into a woman's life or drawers by softening up. They also are usually playing by a woman's rules when it comes to their behavior. As I said, if I'm bad for business, there's no pause or anything that gives you the slightest thought that I'm there for anything other than chaos with a smile.
Melli, you are seriously one of the ONLY female creators helping men date that sounds genuine. Most of the female youtubers sound like they just Google the same stuff and then read from a teleprompter. Your advice is incredibly down to Earth and I can attest that all your tips actually do work. Subbed.
#1 is definitely the truth. There was this woman at my job I used to work with and the first two times I approached her she spoke to me as if she wasn’t interested in even casual conversation & I’d end up walking away within the first 45 seconds and I’d say “well anyways, hope you have a nice day and I’ll see you around.” The third time I see the same woman were talking a little bit and then I say the same thing, “alright, well I’ll see you around.” This time she asks me why do I always walk away from her early on in our talk. I answered really bluntly by saying “You don’t seem too interested which I think is unfortunate”. And she basically ended up telling me she’s not used to guys constantly walking away from her and SHE later on that same day asked if I’d ever consider going out with her 😂
@@africkinamerican No, I thought so too at first but the more we talk and reminisce about HOW we started talking she said her attraction to me came because I was WILLING to walk away at any given point. She’s definitely not shy, just the hard to get and make you chase type.
Women are wired to love what's rare to have. Even if she's your boss at the office, avoid running around her like others do, be your cool, careless and selfish guy, and she'd need your attention especially if you speak confidently, not allowing her level get into your brain. Melly is right for saying "walk away." Oh yes, "don't give a fu*k." Most women have only beauty as their greatest energy. Take down the "beauty mindset" and you have a girl asking you why you're treated her badly. And if that question comes, you're doing it right. Don't try to change. The moment a woman feels she's in control of the relationship, it grows could. You get the point now.
This is great, because I'm already like this anyway but not in an arrogant way. This video is just basically like put yourself first, and if she is worth your time, then go for it. But don't ever feel like you "need" someone. Just be yourself and have boundaries, and this isn't being a "bad boy" either really.
Good advise on many things, the only disagreement I have is that humans do need companionship. This can come in many forms, I have found my life is better in so many ways with a good partner. Also, a lot of these things are not just for bad boys, use this advise for life in many different ways. Confidence is one of the most attractive traits for any human.
Agreed..humans are social beings and so we do need companionship but companionship should come naturally.We should never feel the urge of trying to make someone like you..she should like you for who you're.I learned long time ago to go for what i want so if i meet a woman and we don't click for whatever reason..i don't even waste my time..i walk away.This has saved me from a lot of heart aches.
That was fun, entertaining, and comforting. It feels like I subconsciously do a lot of these things but I still don't believe I can get what I want. Her yelling like that reminds me of my friend, and my mother, both of which are sick of seeing me looking and sounding defeated. Thanks for this.
This is some real talk here. Much of this advice boils down to the fact that you have to know who you are and be a whole person comfortable with yourself before ever trying to find the one. If you are dating to "complete" yourself or to fill a hole in your life or personality you're going to have a bad time.
I just freaking love how brutally honest you told the truth because this is what young men like myself should be hearing now days to help them grow up smarter n not been taken advantage of by those out there that's jus waiting 💯✌️✌️
Thank you for your advice, my ex- girl friend still criticize for for being selfish, for refusing to change my habits that shame her( anything attracting to much attention ..like running backward before my tri-athlon training, wich can look akward) Didn't i have a chid with her, i would have turned the page.. your words are helping me!
I have been watching your content for about a year or so and I like listening to you, you are a great content creator and advisor! You keep it real!!!! Love your content!!!!
True Story: I was chasing this chick for 22 years. 22 YEARS Y'ALL! Through low-value boyfriends and crap marriages, I was her bestfriend who knew all her shit and the side dude UNTIL I listened to Melli's videos. After applying the Melli Method, I cut her off for 3 months and by then she dumped her boyfriend and became thirsty for me saying I was "The One" these past 2 decades. Gotta also give respect to the late Kevin Samuels for the "high value man" concept. Thanks Melli😘
@@UfwMikeyy , nah brother. When the investment doesn't yield returns, either you write it off, use it for a better investment, or take the loss and keep it moving. I wrote it off.
From my experiences and observations, I don't view those so-called bad boys we find many women complaining about as truly being bad. They do just enough to keep themselves relevant and aren't exactly guys who straight up don't give a fu
This is a problem with black men vs white women. Black men are seen as the lowest of all, broke and dumb, by white wonen. A white woman AUTOMATICALLY sees a black man as LOWER - not her best option. Fat white women nobody wants are always seen with a tall muscular Black Man, who thinks he is dating up just because his fat girl is white. It is opposite. The fat white horror of a woman is dating up!
I just don't like bombarding my mental about getting women. That feels like giving them to much power. Coodles on the discipline. Thanks for the reinforcement and clarity.
I wish had been my big sister, she would have saved a ton of heart ache. Plus her humor is outrageously funny. Listen young brothers, because her words gold.
I love her ways! is so amazing and natural how she teaches us, very very special "therapist"and so blessed men should feel to have her on our side (it's an awakening opportunity for all of us whom suffer the consequences of this society that has been putting men down )
She's right i notice everytime i walk away from the girl next door, she start texting me the minute she go back in her house. Even when she was surrounded by other guys, she says "hello" i say "hey" and walk my cool self to my yard
Great advice, I have learned to naturally develop these personality traits and attitudes, and I’m not even close to being a bad boy, I’d be considered as closer to a nice looking mellow nice guy, and ever since I changed to this way of thinking I have had minimal problems attracting women.
I could look at you and listen to you all day, no simp shit, but I just love how you come across and most of what you are saying is what I'm teaching my teenage daughter, I'm a single Dad and I raised my daughter alone. But in my mind I'm always the shit, if you're here you're here and if you're not I don't give a fuck, life goes on.
I just stumbled across this and holy crap, I’ve watched hundreds of these videos cuz I really enjoy studying the art of sexual tension and bonding and everything about it. But this one was by far the best and honest video I’ve ever heard. It spoke to my white ass. Girl you are bad to the bone! And lemme tell ya, it takes a real woman to come out with those words. Sometimes it wasent even just about guys getting girls, it was about life in general, being an overall better and self respecting person. I’ve recently been finding out who I am thanks to sobriety that I’ve never felt so alive in my life! You are a chief mate!! All love! Peace, positivity! ✌🏼🫡
Hello Melli, I don’t know exactly how I stumbled across your channel, I am sure glad I did and I have always enjoyed every episode I have watched thus far. You are absolutely hilarious and down to earth with take on things👍
Mellie, your so right I happened to do the same, I couldn't bother with my Ex/ w being so hang up another person, who haven't given her all she wanted, and so I found out she still had a crush on that, individual I have respect for myself I walk away
9:23 Never ask for forgiveness. You say "I know I f*cked up. I'm gonna try to do it better next time." - Maybe add "I'm gonna make it up to you" if situation deserves it. That's it. Never say I'm sorry, Forgive me. I apologise. etc...
Love the selfish part, it's from the bible that it is taught to be the good Samaritan. BUT, even the Samaritan only helped the person that could not help him no matter how hard they tried. That person really needed some help. Everybody else can help themselves, but want someone to simp for them so they don't have to do it.
You see the crazyness is here, so let's go! 😂 You're pretty entertaining tbh 😂 And I first I was eyerolling at another woman giving advice to men, but you're pretty much spot on.
You are the best everything what you saying makes hundred percent sense for me continue to doing all your videos and I will like all of her over here. You are on UA-cam the best than everybody else.
Being a "bad boy" isn't about being bad. It's having standards and valuing yourself. Don't let anyone cross your boundaries man or woman and dick you around. It's believing in who you are and what your about. It's knowing... when you know yourself and how the world works. You know not to put yourself out and be treated like a batch. Unfortunately in this culture men don't know. Unless they have been burned one to many times which is a good thing.
My philosophy is to talk to whoever you are interested in as long as you are not getting either bad vibes or low interest once you initiate conversation,otherwise very coolly walk away
I agree with this whole message! Recently, I have an older gentleman and a few younger guys trying, but they exhibit the behaviors you just stated not too do! The older man compliments me too the point, it makes me feel uncomfortable! I feel the lust from him. I do feel like he puts me on a pedestal. And, I can do no wrong in his eyes. Now, I just ignore him, but he still tries to be in my face. The younger ones kind of got the message, that I wasn't interested.
Bump the female. This video is about hustle and attainment! I love it! Real talk, you could truly sell an ongoing seminar if you find the right place and audience. And I guarantee I can help!
She’s honestly the only woman I don’t mind listening to when it comes to giving advice to men. She’s not bias at all. Speaking nothing but facts.
That’s a fact
And she’s straightforward!! Rare trait
Check ( Olivia Alexa) and ( MyNonLeatherLife) both speak facts too that women are afraid to say
@@EternalGeneral True love theses two future Goddess.
i agree with you to a certain extend
if your goal is to be a player and get woman that are into players, then she is proabably right
but if your goal is to love a woman and be loved then i dont know if what she says is the best advice
each to theyr own, maybe she likes it like this, but everyone is different
some woman like when you show effort and are " clingey" , they need that
and some dont like that at all and it turns them off
i think she just tells us what she likes and she likes the player types , she likes that stuff and there is nothing wrong with it
but that doesnt mean its "nothing but facts"
some woman dont like romance and some do, doesnt mean if she tells you to not be romantic that thats "nothing but facts" and you shouldnt be romantic.
Here are the 9:
1. Have self respect.
2. Don't give a f@ck
3. Be selfish
4. Act like you've been here before
5. You cant hurt me
6. don't ask for permission, ask for forgiveness.
7.Understand that a relationship is a choice.
8. Willingless to fail. Go after what you want.
9. Be unpologetically disciplined.
You finished strong, that last one is it 👏
Don’t even ask for forgiveness. Whether they like it not F that
Thanks 🙏
Wrong.never ask for forgiveness that's a weakness.alfa men make mistakes but we don't apologize for it . We own up to it. Simp
James Bond
Every mom should teach thier sons this when they are 10! But nobody does it, here we are grown men getting schooled by Melli! Love how she just down grades the b's! Just love me some Melli!
she got det big momma energy ong
😂👌
Got to Put that pu##y on the chainwax
Every mom should teach their kids where to kiss when they’re 10.. with live practice..
@@triggerskull bro!
Cmon.
We need to protect this woman at all costs!❤
Hell yes, I bet women across the world have a hit contract on her!
The contract just got raised to 5 million!
Babe if they come after you because you told us men the truth !
Please come to my house, hit or no
Hit ! You got the key to door babe ,
Visa cc also!😂
I'm f***** up that people cant figure this shirt out on their own man I'm 41 years old and figured the s*** out in grade school watching my own mom and sisters 🤦🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️
@@DetroitFettyghost All the men I know who are good with women, had sisters. Those of us who grew up learning about women by watching disney-movies, have a terrible time.
Do the opposite to the norm. Worked for George from Seinfeld.
When you hear a woman call other women bitches….you know she’s spitting facts💯
And to be honest, she was spitting real facts.
Yep
It's just for clicks and views
THIS IS FACTS
🔥
1- willing to walk away
2- not giving a fuck
3- being selfish
4- act like you've been there before(never putting the bitch on a pedestal)
5- you can't hurt me mindset
6- don't ask for permission, ask for forgiveness
7- understanding that relationship is a choice
8- willingness to fail
9- be unapologitically disciplined
You've transformed me into a better risk taker not just with women but also in my career and other relationships. Thank you for being real. Your lessons are better than any book out there and the good side of it is that we are connecting emotionally with you while listening to you. It's rare to see such a person as you. More love from me to you.
@DaLabel 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@DaLabel he still don't get it lol
Crazy bro 😂
@Srttzzz709 😂
@@TonyWedd I don't get it either. Straight up. What does two people riding bikes into a piece of steak mean?
I don’t hurt. I am strong. I don’t care if people don’t like me. I found this quote on Facebook a while ago that goes, “confidence is not, they’ll like me, confidence is, I’ll be fine if they don’t.” It hit deep. Noone can affect me. I’m focused and I don’t care what they think.
@@יש_המשיח Good day to be alive.
Kio
Yes you do... Nice try
We've got to stay focused brothers
Very true
This lovely lady's advice is beyond priceless - you don't need a therapist - just listen to Melli - she puts it straight down the line!
Watching this video can save any man years of useless therapy. Life saver. Lol.
if guys dont like her she dont care ha?
Why read a 569 page book about women phycology when we can listen to Melli preach straight facts
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I've heard most of this before, but the way you put it over really drives it home! Thank you.
"When you want do something, nobody is going to do it for you. You have to do it for yourself. So, you gotta be selfish." Thank you Melli. Being selfish in a self-love way, not in I am against or want to hurt others, is the right thing to do.
This woman makes great points, and what she's saying makes sense.
She's 100% right and absolutely a force to be reckoned with in the looks department!!! We'll spoken 💯
1. Willing to walk away
Don’t tolerate disrespect of any kind
Rather be alone than be tolerated or undervalued
2. Not giving a fuck
Be you, if she doesn’t accept it, it is what it is…
3. Be selfish
Have goals and targets that occupy your time
Don’t GIVE the bitch ALL your time. Make her wonder about you
4. Act like you’ve been there before
Cool calm collected
Remain in baseline masculinity
Baby I’m HIMothy!
5. You can’t hurt me
It’s a Mindset
I AM Strong, I Am Confident, I AM Resilient, etc
6. Don’t ask for permission ask for forgiveness
Make yourself happy if it works cool if not apologize
Avoid sexually using this
7. Relationship is a choice
I choose to be or not to be
If she fits cool if not don’t sacrifice self respect. Accept the paths aren’t the same and continue with goals and plans
8. Willingness to fail
Calculated risk forget failure it’s a reference point not who you are
Look at what you aren’t happy with and work on it
9. Be unapologetically disciplined
Don’t listen to peer pressure
Stick to the plan
Bitches should NEVER be priority
Thank you buddy I almost had to go and screenshot the whole thing while skipping right and left
I've seen so-called bad boys that don't exactly practice those things.
@@rgw1380rw correct no 2 “bad boys” do the exact same thing. This is just my opinion
The biggest thing with “bad boys” is how they treat women before compared to after they get in the sack with women.
You had good guys, bad guys and nice guys.
Choose between good and bad but don’t be the nice guy.
Good guy and bad treat women the same before getting with them. After is where they differ. Good guys aren’t so say nice, because they have no problem standing up for them selves, they have internal strength and are proud of who they are.
They way they treat women before sex is the same as after.
So yes no 2 guys (good bad nice) do the exact same thing
Good and bad both have the two characteristics women want though:
1. Strength
2. Proud/confident in who they are with no apologies
Nice guys:
1. Characteristically weak
2. Are embarrassed of who they are
@Kyle Broussard As a so-called nice guy, women wouldn't like to know that I'm far from weak, and I don't like to argue much without being violent when people are attempting to play with me. What many don't get is some so-called nice guys are very evil people that just have common sense enough to avoid counterproductive bs. I know myself.
Tbh, bad boys aren't always Mr. Nice guy before they get what they want. Women have a habit of living in a fantasy world where they must fix the fake bad boy. They'll just ignore the red flags.
I'm rather confident in myself because I get plenty of attention from women on a daily basis without trying or even really being in my best attire at times. The only female who thinks she's the only thing that I could get is a woman who is foolish as can be. I'm confident enough to be myself at all times. Coming from my background, I really never had to put on a front to get respect around some real wild types, plus I'm the same around wealthy people. Being nigga-ish or the center of attention isn't my thing. You'd have to know me to understand that I have friends and family from all sorts of walks of life.
Tbh, those bad boys are weak to me. I see them as weak because they can weasel their way back into a woman's life or drawers by softening up. They also are usually playing by a woman's rules when it comes to their behavior.
As I said, if I'm bad for business, there's no pause or anything that gives you the slightest thought that I'm there for anything other than chaos with a smile.
Melli - You are wonderful. I have NEVER seen / heard anybody communicate as inspirationally as YOU do !
downright honest you are Melli. You really are giving some men the confidence. Well done. You just mentioned 80% of what i do and it works
Are you reading my mind, i love your brutal honesty
Melli, you are seriously one of the ONLY female creators helping men date that sounds genuine. Most of the female youtubers sound like they just Google the same stuff and then read from a teleprompter. Your advice is incredibly down to Earth and I can attest that all your tips actually do work. Subbed.
#1 is definitely the truth. There was this woman at my job I used to work with and the first two times I approached her she spoke to me as if she wasn’t interested in even casual conversation & I’d end up walking away within the first 45 seconds and I’d say “well anyways, hope you have a nice day and I’ll see you around.” The third time I see the same woman were talking a little bit and then I say the same thing, “alright, well I’ll see you around.” This time she asks me why do I always walk away from her early on in our talk. I answered really bluntly by saying “You don’t seem too interested which I think is unfortunate”. And she basically ended up telling me she’s not used to guys constantly walking away from her and SHE later on that same day asked if I’d ever consider going out with her 😂
Thanks bruh
There's always the chance that she's just shy or socially awkward and it takes a lot for her to get up the energy and or courage.
@@africkinamerican No, I thought so too at first but the more we talk and reminisce about HOW we started talking she said her attraction to me came because I was WILLING to walk away at any given point. She’s definitely not shy, just the hard to get and make you chase type.
Booty Clappin Sounds Dima!
Did you smashed tho bro bro ?
Women are wired to love what's rare to have. Even if she's your boss at the office, avoid running around her like others do, be your cool, careless and selfish guy, and she'd need your attention especially if you speak confidently, not allowing her level get into your brain.
Melly is right for saying "walk away." Oh yes, "don't give a fu*k." Most women have only beauty as their greatest energy. Take down the "beauty mindset" and you have a girl asking you why you're treated her badly. And if that question comes, you're doing it right. Don't try to change.
The moment a woman feels she's in control of the relationship, it grows could. You get the point now.
👍👍👍👍👍❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thanks for this advices sir
100
Facts am low key fucking a huge govt official, everybody fears, but I don't and bagged her.
😮cold- cold- cold. Love ya!
This is great, because I'm already like this anyway but not in an arrogant way. This video is just basically like put yourself first, and if she is worth your time, then go for it. But don't ever feel like you "need" someone. Just be yourself and have boundaries, and this isn't being a "bad boy" either really.
This is the old sister I never had, I’m glad UA-cam suggested your channel! Thanks sister
The sister you can duck (f) and tell all your friends about it with pride.
mhennnnn!! you litteraly blew my mind away on this one.. everything was like you were talking directly to me.... bless you baby!!
Good advise on many things, the only disagreement I have is that humans do need companionship. This can come in many forms, I have found my life is better in so many ways with a good partner. Also, a lot of these things are not just for bad boys, use this advise for life in many different ways. Confidence is one of the most attractive traits for any human.
Agreed..humans are social beings and so we do need companionship but companionship should come naturally.We should never feel the urge of trying to make someone like you..she should like you for who you're.I learned long time ago to go for what i want so if i meet a woman and we don't click for whatever reason..i don't even waste my time..i walk away.This has saved me from a lot of heart aches.
She not saying you don't need companionship she's saying you don't need it with an unworthy woman
Best advice ever. I'm saving this for my 16 yr old son to see.
@ᴍᴇʟʟɪ ᴍᴏɴᴀᴄᴏ I might need you to marry him. I'm scared he's gonna end up with one of these skanks. He's a good looking and respectful kid.
@ᴍᴇʟʟɪ ᴍᴏɴᴀᴄᴏ my son Loved your advice but the first thing he said was “YOU KNOW HER”??👀
Wish I had a dad like you lmao 😂
That was fun, entertaining, and comforting. It feels like I subconsciously do a lot of these things but I still don't believe I can get what I want. Her yelling like that reminds me of my friend, and my mother, both of which are sick of seeing me looking and sounding defeated. Thanks for this.
Take it a day at a time brother
This is some real talk here. Much of this advice boils down to the fact that you have to know who you are and be a whole person comfortable with yourself before ever trying to find the one. If you are dating to "complete" yourself or to fill a hole in your life or personality you're going to have a bad time.
always love your honesty... reminds me off the advice my sister used to give me
◾ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛɪɴɢ, ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ɴᴏᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴍʀ ᴅᴀɴɪᴇʟ ;ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ᴇᴛʜ ɪᴅᴇᴀs...............
📱ᴛᵉˣţ𝄍✉𝑾𝒉𝔮ᴛᵗ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝🧬...
✚▫️𝟏𝟓𝟒𝟎𝟖𝟏𝟔𝟒𝟔𝟐𝟕✉....
ʟᴇᴛ ʜɪᴍ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪ ʀᴇғᴇʀʀᴇᴅ ʏᴏᴜ◦◦...........
that's a good sister. Keeping it real.
YO!! I love her mentality. She's speaking TRUTH!! For those who question themselves, FOLLOW HER ADVICE!!
I just freaking love how brutally honest you told the truth because this is what young men like myself should be hearing now days to help them grow up smarter n not been taken advantage of by those out there that's jus waiting 💯✌️✌️
She’s my favorite UA-cam person ! It’s the eyes and accent!
Thank you for your advice, my ex- girl friend still criticize for for being selfish, for refusing to change my habits that shame her( anything attracting to much attention ..like running backward before my tri-athlon training, wich can look akward)
Didn't i have a chid with her, i would have turned the page.. your words are helping me!
I needed to hear this, excellent advice to help attract woman you actually want, not just available for you.
This woman is hilarious, fast becoming my favourite UA-cam channel.
I'm a married man and you are preaching the gospel!
I love this girl. She speaks the truth and it’s so refreshing.
I have been watching your content for about a year or so and I like listening to you, you are a great content creator and advisor! You keep it real!!!! Love your content!!!!
True Story: I was chasing this chick for 22 years. 22 YEARS Y'ALL!
Through low-value boyfriends and crap marriages, I was her bestfriend who knew all her shit and the side dude UNTIL I listened to Melli's videos.
After applying the Melli Method, I cut her off for 3 months and by then she dumped her boyfriend and became thirsty for me saying I was "The One" these past 2 decades.
Gotta also give respect to the late Kevin Samuels for the "high value man" concept.
Thanks Melli😘
Hope you didn’t go back to 22 year of attention showing
@@UfwMikeyy , nah brother. When the investment doesn't yield returns, either you write it off, use it for a better investment, or take the loss and keep it moving. I wrote it off.
fucking shine king💫👌🏾
THE PAST TWO DECADES LMAO 😂 IM FUCKEN DEADDDD
@@Kevfrom95 , she had the yams. 🤷🏽♂
Melli Monaco makes so much sense to me!You are such a VIBE!
You dont have to be a bad boy to walk away from a female if she does not wanna talk to you. As a man we just say ok and then walk away
Right on.👍
From my experiences and observations, I don't view those so-called bad boys we find many women complaining about as truly being bad. They do just enough to keep themselves relevant and aren't exactly guys who straight up don't give a fu
Melli keeping it real and looking good doing it
Mind blowing, truly great stuff. Keep it up
I like what she said that " the moment she thinks you are lower, you're done! " And that came from a female!! 👍🏾
Be done, then watch her end up in the same position many other women end up in.
This is a problem with black men vs white women. Black men are seen as the lowest of all, broke and dumb, by white wonen. A white woman AUTOMATICALLY sees a black man as LOWER - not her best option. Fat white women nobody wants are always seen with a tall muscular Black Man, who thinks he is dating up just because his fat girl is white. It is opposite. The fat white horror of a woman is dating up!
This woman is a legend
I’ve learned all this through trial and error.
Excellent video, M&M
She is telling the truth guys need to listen. No one is gonna love you more than you. She is right 100%
I just found you today and i can't be any happier....i love you Melli....you're just fucking real and your teachings are pure
I just don't like bombarding my mental about getting women. That feels like giving them to much power. Coodles on the discipline. Thanks for the reinforcement and clarity.
@melli … this world needs more “real” women like you 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
I wish had been my big sister, she would have saved a ton of heart ache. Plus her humor is outrageously funny. Listen young brothers, because her words gold.
Its good to get this information from a real woman awesome stuff im digging it..
I love her ways! is so amazing and natural how she teaches us, very very special "therapist"and so blessed men should feel to have her on our side (it's an awakening opportunity for all of us whom suffer the consequences of this society that has been putting men down )
If you apply most of what she’s gave us in your life you’ll see a change in your life
◾ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛɪɴɢ, ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ɴᴏᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴍʀ ᴅᴀɴɪᴇʟ ;ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ᴇᴛʜ ɪᴅᴇᴀs...............
📱ᴛᵉˣţ𝄍✉𝑾𝒉𝔮ᴛᵗ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝🧬...
✚▫️𝟏𝟓𝟒𝟎𝟖𝟏𝟔𝟒𝟔𝟐𝟕✉....
ʟᴇᴛ ʜɪᴍ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪ ʀᴇғᴇʀʀᴇᴅ ʏᴏᴜ◦◦...........
She's right i notice everytime i walk away from the girl next door, she start texting me the minute she go back in her house. Even when she was surrounded by other guys, she says "hello" i say "hey" and walk my cool self to my yard
Thank you We Men Really Admire you talking all !!
Absolutely right baby...totally agree with everything your saying honey ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I love when Melli’s craziness show’s out 😘
◾ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛɪɴɢ, ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ɴᴏᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴍʀ ᴅᴀɴɪᴇʟ ;ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ᴇᴛʜ ɪᴅᴇᴀs....................
📱ᴛᵉˣţ𝄍✉𝑾𝒉𝔮ᴛᵗ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝🧬...
✚▫️𝟏𝟓𝟒𝟎𝟖𝟏𝟔𝟒𝟔𝟐𝟕✉....
ʟᴇᴛ ʜɪᴍ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪ ʀᴇғᴇʀʀᴇᴅ ʏᴏᴜ◦◦...............
Get it boy!!!
They all a little crazy she can’t hide it
Great advice, I have learned to naturally develop these personality traits and attitudes, and I’m not even close to being a bad boy, I’d be considered as closer to a nice looking mellow nice guy, and ever since I changed to this way of thinking I have had minimal problems attracting women.
I could look at you and listen to you all day, no simp shit, but I just love how you come across and most of what you are saying is what I'm teaching my teenage daughter, I'm a single Dad and I raised my daughter alone.
But in my mind I'm always the shit, if you're here you're here and if you're not I don't give a fuck, life goes on.
Every point hits the nail right on its head. This video is men's essentials.
I just stumbled across this and holy crap, I’ve watched hundreds of these videos cuz I really enjoy studying the art of sexual tension and bonding and everything about it. But this one was by far the best and honest video I’ve ever heard. It spoke to my white ass. Girl you are bad to the bone! And lemme tell ya, it takes a real woman to come out with those words. Sometimes it wasent even just about guys getting girls, it was about life in general, being an overall better and self respecting person. I’ve recently been finding out who I am thanks to sobriety that I’ve never felt so alive in my life! You are a chief mate!! All love! Peace, positivity! ✌🏼🫡
Love how straight up she is 👌🏽
Hello Melli, I don’t know exactly how I stumbled across your channel, I am sure glad I did and I have always enjoyed every episode I have watched thus far. You are absolutely hilarious and down to earth with take on things👍
◾ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛɪɴɢ, ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ɴᴏᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴍʀ ᴅᴀɴɪᴇʟ ;ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ᴇᴛʜ ɪᴅᴇᴀs...............
📱ᴛᵉˣţ𝄍✉𝑾𝒉𝔮ᴛᵗ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝🧬...
✚▫️𝟏𝟓𝟒𝟎𝟖𝟏𝟔𝟒𝟔𝟐𝟕✉....
ʟᴇᴛ ʜɪᴍ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪ ʀᴇғᴇʀʀᴇᴅ ʏᴏᴜ◦◦...........
Same here
Please marry me
This video is LOADED with info on changing your mindset for the life you want to live and getting the bi…woman you wanna bag!
👏👏👏👏🔥🔥🔥🔥
In other words, you have to become someone other than yourself to keep someone who's not worth it entertained and complaining.
Melli wants us to fake it till we make it. I like it!
Mellie, your so right I happened to do the same, I couldn't bother with my Ex/ w being so hang up another person, who haven't given her all she wanted, and so I found out she still had a crush on that, individual I have respect for myself I walk away
I learned this a long time ago she's funny and spot on lol
Well said Melli, Loving the raw energy!
Her coach lines are the best.😂😂😂
Thanks Melly for this one
Dis sista is brutally honest but that's what every man as well as women need and that's honesty. Bless up sista ✊🏾✊🏾💪🏾💯‼️
You deserve a follow for telling so many facts girl👀
Girl we just love you for telling it like it is 💯
9:23 Never ask for forgiveness. You say "I know I f*cked up. I'm gonna try to do it better next time." - Maybe add "I'm gonna make it up to you" if situation deserves it. That's it. Never say I'm sorry, Forgive me. I apologise. etc...
i love how you put that.perfect
You are one of the best human dynamics interpersonal psychologists I have ever seen! You are 100% spot on! I love you.
Love the selfish part, it's from the bible that it is taught to be the good Samaritan.
BUT, even the Samaritan only helped the person that could not help him no matter how hard they tried.
That person really needed some help.
Everybody else can help themselves, but want someone to simp for them so they don't have to do it.
If you don't love yourself it's impossible to love others..!
You are funny! Love your personality, Melli.
I love this women she tells it like it is
I love your advice and your attitude melli keep up the good advice
You see the crazyness is here, so let's go! 😂 You're pretty entertaining tbh 😂 And I first I was eyerolling at another woman giving advice to men, but you're pretty much spot on.
I needed this great video 🥰
Melli I Love your tutorials 😁😁😁 Don't ask for PERMISSION, ask for FORGIVENESS. Got it! And BE UNAPOLOGETICALLY DISCIPLINED....OMG!!!! 💕💕💕💕💕 Thanks Hon
The whole world love your attitude (on behalf of everyone)✌🔥
Wow! Right on point girl, thanks
You are the best everything what you saying makes hundred percent sense for me continue to doing all your videos and I will like all of her over here. You are on UA-cam the best than everybody else.
Being a "bad boy" isn't about being bad. It's having standards and valuing yourself. Don't let anyone cross your boundaries man or woman and dick you around. It's believing in who you are and what your about. It's knowing... when you know yourself and how the world works. You know not to put yourself out and be treated like a batch. Unfortunately in this culture men don't know. Unless they have been burned one to many times which is a good thing.
Thats not being a bad boy
That is not a bad boy. A bad boy is a selfish asshole, who’s cute, has issues, has potential, wastes that potential, and likes getting in trouble 😂
My philosophy is to talk to whoever you are interested in as long as you are not getting either bad vibes or low interest once you initiate conversation,otherwise very coolly walk away
Thank you Sis for taking time out of your life to Sprinkle Game and Remind us💯❤️
I agree with this whole message! Recently, I have an older gentleman and a few younger guys trying, but they exhibit the behaviors you just stated not too do! The older man compliments me too the point, it makes me feel uncomfortable! I feel the lust from him. I do feel like he puts me on a pedestal. And, I can do no wrong in his eyes. Now, I just ignore him, but he still tries to be in my face. The younger ones kind of got the message, that I wasn't interested.
A love how u put it out real talk sis
Idk how I came across this 😄 but my internet knows what I needed and I’m here for it! ✔️ I’m about to subscribe, roll one ☝🏾 and watch on 👀🍃😂
Bump the female. This video is about hustle and attainment! I love it! Real talk, you could truly sell an ongoing seminar if you find the right place and audience. And I guarantee I can help!
I love your energy, very intriguing
Thanks for the post!
You look so natural and beautiful 😊 I think long straight hair will be so good on you ❤
Hola Melli, your advices have help me a lot with my relationship and improve myself , blessings
◾ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛɪɴɢ, ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ɴᴏᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴍʀ ᴅᴀɴɪᴇʟ ;ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ᴇᴛʜ ɪᴅᴇᴀs...............
📱ᴛᵉˣţ𝄍✉𝑾𝒉𝔮ᴛᵗ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝🧬...
✚▫️𝟏𝟓𝟒𝟎𝟖𝟏𝟔𝟒𝟔𝟐𝟕✉....
ʟᴇᴛ ʜɪᴍ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪ ʀᴇғᴇʀʀᴇᴅ ʏᴏᴜ◦◦...........
Actually almost everything she says I already do but I still love listening to her lol
🤣🤣 She's funny and also very real. You got a new sub here. 👍🏼🙂