Ladies if your interested just let him know. The games are over. Your actually going to have to tell him. We're tired of being labeled for not reading your mind.
listening to woman advices in these matter is being stupid. they are completely delusional. all lives being chased and desired and having everything done for them.
of course, a lot of women want a man that will put in the work. is it fair? probably not. does it matter? not really, since you can't really change this. Just find the right person who will appreciate you for who you are, be an honest person about what you want in the relationship and you should be fine (as long as you are attractive)
If a guy keeps looking at you, he’s a creep, but a girl does it and it’s a form of flirting? If she wants a date, she can grow a spine and ask the guy out
He's only a creep if she doesn't find him attractive. If she thinks he's hot i doubt she would have any problem. Unless his expression gives the impression he wants to kill somebody
I’m old now, but as I remember it, back in the 70’s, if I caught a young lady constantly glancing at me, she never turned me down when I asked to spend some time with her. 70’s females didn’t play stupid mind games.
And what if I don’t find the girl attractive? I'm getting on with my day. Just be yourself when you find a girl attractive. Don’t over complicate things. If she doesn't engage with you, accept she is not interested and move on.
Always playing games. They complicate things too much. Especially if you're not their type. So they'll make up stupid excuses to protect themselves from you, mostly because they have no courage to confront you.
Why the sneaky and childish games of using eye contact ? Hints can be easily mistaken, misinterpreted or not understood at all. If you give hints to signal that you're interested, you might as well walk over and talk to him, you know why? Because you're the one interested in him not the other way around, what if he's not interested in you? Have you asked yourself that ? You got a mouth, you can talk, right ? Instead of commanding guys to "be confident" and approach you even though you're the one clearly interested, you should probably teach girls to be honest and straightforward and quit their stupid mind games. Don't think that by making eye contact you've dropped the biggest rizz
Very good points. She is way too vague in her eye contact explanation. Just because a girl looks at a guy doent mean she wants him to approach, thats ridiculous
Had a girl looking at me once. Found out about it like six months later from a friend who asked me "hey, remember when we were all at the park last summer and so and so was there?". I had no clue at all. Had I suspected I would've assumed something was wrong with me and probably just ignored it. Things like this just never happen to me.
8 and 9 approaching? Your out of this world man, they put themselves in visible spot, but approaching? Maybe in group to analyze you or some ego boost on herself, or maybe some manipulation if the gf is with you. Dont listen to her
I love to play game "who will ignore more". It gives me chills 😂 Especially when women starts to play with her hairs, you can't look. It works and it's a lot of fun.
How should one react when wanting to show that they appreciate the looks and find the person attractive as well, but don't want to start a conversation (because they're in a relationship)? I have the feeling that there's an expectation when you smile back or hold eye contact, and the women may be even more disappointed if you don't approach them and continue flirting. But completely ignoring them feels rude too.
That's the opposite of what I do. If I find a woman attractive I try not to look at her because if she catches me looking she'll think I fancy her or something. I'm not really sure why that's a bad thing, it just terrifies me that a woman might know I find her attractive. Like if she knows she'll be repulsed by me.
I love to play game "who will ignore who more". It gives me chills 😂 She plays not interested, I'm having fun with observing sealing. When women starts to play with her hairs, I'm intrigued by chairs. It works and it's a lot of fun. Keep smiling and have fun. Isn't it all about fun? Dudes, it's game and you have to be less serious. That's the real test. After long play it's only matter of asking if she would like to eat something good.
I’m actually going to stay right in my lane and pretend like she doesn’t exist because she doesn’t! And in return, I’m going to keep all my money, my sanity, my freedom, my dignity and Grace!!
It's a 50/50 chance that you will either be called a creep or a flirt. So, no thanks. Not worth the effort. If i want to play the games, I have PlayStation.
Is this the same women that thinks a bear is safer than a man, that wants you to pay for everything, that will call the police on you for stalking her and use you best friend as her next victim? That girl?
no, i am going to stand right here and she is going to approach me if she is interested, and she is going to say that outright to me. she is going to say, "whats your name?", "im hungry, you wanna go get a bite to eat?", "hi, i think your cute", " i lost my number, can i have yours?" here is a free pickup line for the woman with names that guys call pretty or something to that effect. "what's your name?", "my name is Blaire", "Blaire? that's a pretty name"...... you say, "if you like my name so much, then you should hear my phone number." my point with all of this is that these games are ridiculous, if you are into a guy then you approach him because yall end up being the ones that determine the relationship anyway so why not be the initiators as well? or at least stop turning down so many decent guys for a "better looking bad boy".
You nailed it. "if you are into a guy then you approach him because yall end up being the ones that determine the relationship anyway so why not be the initiators as well? "
Do we need you? You approach girl and you’ll find a good man that was ok without you and will still be just fine, you might have lost a good chance for not talking to a man that doesn’t flirt just because of a eye contact… we’ll keep enjoying 🎉
Whatever happened to the contemporary theme of Equity/Equality and that women are equal to men in all things? Men should now equally expect women to make the first move. This will satisfy our feminist-oriented society.
Or she is just looking in the guy's direction while thinking about something unrelated. Or she is just looking for validation, but she's not single. We're humans. Communicating with words is already misleading enough as it is, so let's all be adults and tell people stuff with our mouth.
Some people just want to sit back and not do any work. As usual they want to play their dirty games. ☕ Not worth the risk, effort and time boys. Avoid them at all costs.
Like that but it’s not that simple woman look at you then act like they not attracted or they look at you and roll their eyes oh yeah like you have a chance with me act like their shit don’t stink
Why do you always want a guy to approach you? Why cant you approach men? Instead of just sitting there, why don't you people put in the effort of approaching guys?
A nice lady, probably in her 70's, said my shirt was a good color on me made me look handsome while I was getting my lunch one day... that was 6 years ago. I still remember this.
Literally just an hour ago a cute girl looked at me and held eye contact the whole time we walked over the crossroad to opposite directions. I’m to slow and just walked away. Should have talked to her. Damn.
I think its a sign that I either did something wrong and that I need to vacate the area immediately or that she finds me suspicious. I'm sorry but no one gives me attention of any sort unless I've somehow offended them or that they think I've done something wrong.
No you’re going to be very smart and walk away. What made her so damn special she couldn’t walk up to you and say hello I’m. But no again with the mind games women want to continue to play. But if you didn’t meet her standards and was looking at her. She would be like why is that creep looking at me. Guy’s don’t fall for this bull shit 💩 any more. Just walk away and be the better man😉
It's 2024. Girls need to drop these subtle signs and just go talk to the guy, but they won't do it because they fear rejection. Welcome to a guys world of taking risks and get used to it
If a girl looks at you it means something got in her eye, or she's ridiculing you for something wrong with your appearance. Don't take it as a sign of attraction fellas
Grasshoppers, save your wallets and half your future wealth. Do NOT approach, do not even look back. Make them approach you, and never put a ring on it.
True words. It's a gamble to marry these days. It's a 50/50 chance that the marriage will survive. Men have more to lose and women have more to gain in a marriage. It's a trap.
More likley she is doing mind games to feel desired and get her ego satisfied when rejecting you 😅
Common situation.
True dat.
Are you me ?
True if you've never been attractive to anyone
True very much
Ladies if your interested just let him know. The games are over. Your actually going to have to tell him. We're tired of being labeled for not reading your mind.
No she will actually come to you knocking on you door, heeey Jamie date me please
Just remember, Gents do not engage she already has a phone full of dudes anyway.
Totally Agree 🤠
She makes it sound so easy, but she has NEVER approached a stranger to ask out in her life. She's clueless 👎
listening to woman advices in these matter is being stupid. they are completely delusional. all lives being chased and desired and having everything done for them.
This is a new era folks, women need to approach men if they want a date
dude neither you or the entire mail of earth is a man
This day and age they gotta give it up before a date. Otherwise guys don’t wanna be a beta feeder and diner
@@mikeicee My only cravat is watch out for gold diggers. They have multiplied.
@@CharlesJohnson-y3r *caveat.
A cravat is an old fashioned neck tie.
@@PhialSubstance thanks for your correction
No. Guys, it’s all games. All the time. You wave her over to come to you.
No young men … don’t do this. Walk away let them play their games
Howdy hoo
Gentlemen please Never ever take advice from incels
Yeah, I did just that. Too much BS behind most women I dated and had relationships with.
@@MilaRoseRougeOkay 🐈 woman. You must be frustrated that no one is approaching you.
@@MilaRoseRougehoes don't tell men what to do
So, even tho shes interested, you still.gotta do the work. 😊
Yeah. Stupid feminist stuff.
of course, a lot of women want a man that will put in the work. is it fair? probably not. does it matter? not really, since you can't really change this. Just find the right person who will appreciate you for who you are, be an honest person about what you want in the relationship and you should be fine (as long as you are attractive)
women don't like rejection, they prefer rejecting men it's more fun for them that way.
I would rather hang out with a bear. Bears don't nag.
I see what you're doing here😂
I agree. A bear is much better company and SAFER!
@@sailorcowboyThey will ruin your life. Bears can ruin your life, but not necessarily.
Man has few natural predators in the wild bears lions tigers but the most dangerous of all is WOMAN
Bears won't accuse you of SA
If a guy keeps looking at you, he’s a creep, but a girl does it and it’s a form of flirting? If she wants a date, she can grow a spine and ask the guy out
Exactly 💯. The hypocrisy and their double standards.
He's only a creep if she doesn't find him attractive. If she thinks he's hot i doubt she would have any problem. Unless his expression gives the impression he wants to kill somebody
If the girl is looking af you.. have been targeted... but don't worry, nothing is gonna happen if your broke..
If she's too lazy to come say hi then she's too lazy to do anything in the relationship so no thank you
That's very true
Sometimes it's not laziness, it's shyness
Even if they do look at you, she'll still tell you no. There is no winning.
To be fair, she never said what happens after you say hi. Probably a reason for that.
I’m old now, but as I remember it, back in the 70’s, if I caught a young lady constantly glancing at me, she never turned me down when I asked to spend some time with her.
70’s females didn’t play stupid mind games.
Yah usually girls are just baiting you so they can get their ego boost when you ask them out. They also get to feel the joy of rejecting you.
And what if I don’t find the girl attractive? I'm getting on with my day. Just be yourself when you find a girl attractive. Don’t over complicate things. If she doesn't engage with you, accept she is not interested and move on.
The games that women play.
Blah-blah-blah-blah-blah . . .
Always playing games. They complicate things too much. Especially if you're not their type. So they'll make up stupid excuses to protect themselves from you, mostly because they have no courage to confront you.
Yeah, you can’t really tell, it’s possible she’s just being friendly or there’s someone behind you that she knows. 🤔
Always gotta be spatially aware, can't unring that bell...especially at work. If you can't do it, always be in the corner so no one is behind you.
Woman will approach/eye contact ONLY CHADS.
The single mom’s song popped in my head reading this.
Wom*a*n?
Back in our grandparents and parents days yes. Girls today nope
Why the sneaky and childish games of using eye contact ? Hints can be easily mistaken, misinterpreted or not understood at all. If you give hints to signal that you're interested, you might as well walk over and talk to him, you know why? Because you're the one interested in him not the other way around, what if he's not interested in you? Have you asked yourself that ? You got a mouth, you can talk, right ? Instead of commanding guys to "be confident" and approach you even though you're the one clearly interested, you should probably teach girls to be honest and straightforward and quit their stupid mind games. Don't think that by making eye contact you've dropped the biggest rizz
Very good points. She is way too vague in her eye contact explanation. Just because a girl looks at a guy doent mean she wants him to approach, thats ridiculous
Exactly 💯 Very well said. These girls are too much of themselves.
Correction, lil wizard.
Some women WILL approach and aren't concerned with petty little games. I think you'd be surprised !
Get your bail money ready, too...
This dating coach or whatsoever is walking red flag. I wouldnt take advice from her anyway
True. Self-proclaimed dating coach.
Massive red flag. She's great entertainment though with how bad her advice is.
Had a girl looking at me once. Found out about it like six months later from a friend who asked me "hey, remember when we were all at the park last summer and so and so was there?". I had no clue at all.
Had I suspected I would've assumed something was wrong with me and probably just ignored it. Things like this just never happen to me.
If she likes you enough, she will definitely approach you lol
Proofreading is your friend.
@Bob31415 thank you Bob!
@@GirlytheCorgi You're welcome 🙂🙂
8 and 9 approaching? Your out of this world man, they put themselves in visible spot, but approaching? Maybe in group to analyze you or some ego boost on herself, or maybe some manipulation if the gf is with you. Dont listen to her
If a girl looks at you, ditch her, she's got a mouth and she can talk to you instead of dropping unclear hints and stupid mind games
Exactly 💯. They and their stupid mind games.
If she actually likes you she will either "accidently "bump into you or just start talking to you , d9nt approach them no matter what...
Don't ask fish for advice on catching fish, ask a fisherman.
I love to play game "who will ignore more". It gives me chills 😂
Especially when women starts to play with her hairs, you can't look. It works and it's a lot of fun.
I did this not knowing i spilled coffee on my shirt...so embarrassing 😂
I can see you are looking at me..just curious.
😂😂😂😂
Thanks for the warning, now I will know what signs to avoid.
And why she shouldn't do the first move? 🤷
Because she is lazy and wants you to do the work. She is a parasite who'll suck your blood your whole life.
Never listen this kind of advice, you will regret all your life.😂
Who would have thought that when a girl keeps looking at you, it probably means she's interested.
How should one react when wanting to show that they appreciate the looks and find the person attractive as well, but don't want to start a conversation (because they're in a relationship)? I have the feeling that there's an expectation when you smile back or hold eye contact, and the women may be even more disappointed if you don't approach them and continue flirting. But completely ignoring them feels rude too.
That's the opposite of what I do. If I find a woman attractive I try not to look at her because if she catches me looking she'll think I fancy her or something.
I'm not really sure why that's a bad thing, it just terrifies me that a woman might know I find her attractive. Like if she knows she'll be repulsed by me.
I love to play game "who will ignore who more". It gives me chills 😂
She plays not interested, I'm having fun with observing sealing.
When women starts to play with her hairs, I'm intrigued by chairs. It works and it's a lot of fun.
Keep smiling and have fun.
Isn't it all about fun?
Dudes, it's game and you have to be less serious.
That's the real test.
After long play it's only matter of asking if she would like to eat something good.
I’m actually going to stay right in my lane and pretend like she doesn’t exist because she doesn’t! And in return, I’m going to keep all my money, my sanity, my freedom, my dignity and Grace!!
It's a 50/50 chance that you will either be called a creep or a flirt. So, no thanks. Not worth the effort. If i want to play the games, I have PlayStation.
As a man I’m more likely to have spilled something on my shirt to be honest
Don't reward her dropping hints! Your future self will thank you
What? Love, I would prefer to deal with a bear than deal with the mind games these women are engaging with.
Then she laughs and walk away while other people stares and feel bad for you 😂😂😂
Playing hard to get is out of control.
Damn shirt shows all spills!!!
Is this the same women that thinks a bear is safer than a man, that wants you to pay for everything, that will call the police on you for stalking her and use you best friend as her next victim? That girl?
no, i am going to stand right here and she is going to approach me if she is interested, and she is going to say that outright to me. she is going to say, "whats your name?", "im hungry, you wanna go get a bite to eat?", "hi, i think your cute", " i lost my number, can i have yours?" here is a free pickup line for the woman with names that guys call pretty or something to that effect. "what's your name?", "my name is Blaire", "Blaire? that's a pretty name"...... you say, "if you like my name so much, then you should hear my phone number." my point with all of this is that these games are ridiculous, if you are into a guy then you approach him because yall end up being the ones that determine the relationship anyway so why not be the initiators as well? or at least stop turning down so many decent guys for a "better looking bad boy".
You nailed it. "if you are into a guy then you approach him because yall end up being the ones that determine the relationship anyway so why not be the initiators as well? "
Or she is disgusted by your looks, is making fun of you, etc. Many reasons for her to keep looking.
Too risky. Too dangerous.
Try “Hi (smile) My name is Phil, may I know your name?” This is called a normal conversation.
What if my name isn’t Phil
Shit my names not Phil I’m screwed 😭
Yeah I'm not Phil either.
And then she will call you a creep and call the police, NO THANKS.
She should be in jail for giving bad advice
I’ll just assume I got something on my shirt.
If she wants something, she has to do the first move.
Oh hell NO,..... I'm not going to approach her...... but Running in Opposite direction 😅❤😂
Do we need you? You approach girl and you’ll find a good man that was ok without you and will still be just fine, you might have lost a good chance for not talking to a man that doesn’t flirt just because of a eye contact… we’ll keep enjoying 🎉
Words should not be that difficult from her, she wants me to do what she's interested in so no!
Hell no we won’t go. It’s time for them to make the moves. Otherwise you get labeled a creep by a sociopath.
Whatever happened to the contemporary theme of Equity/Equality and that women are equal to men in all things? Men should now equally expect women to make the first move. This will satisfy our feminist-oriented society.
If a girl keep looking at you you're gonna leave the building and go home and watch Netflix.
Thank me later. I'm saving you tons of money 🤑
Nobody looks... I am surely a Ghost.
Or she is just looking in the guy's direction while thinking about something unrelated.
Or she is just looking for validation, but she's not single.
We're humans. Communicating with words is already misleading enough as it is, so let's all be adults and tell people stuff with our mouth.
Some people just want to sit back and not do any work. As usual they want to play their dirty games. ☕ Not worth the risk, effort and time boys. Avoid them at all costs.
Like that but it’s not that simple woman look at you then act like they not attracted or they look at you and roll their eyes oh yeah like you have a chance with me act like their shit don’t stink
Why do you always want a guy to approach you? Why cant you approach men? Instead of just sitting there, why don't you people put in the effort of approaching guys?
She's a creep
Easy said than done 🙌🙌🙌😂👌
Don't believe her. You might be looking like a creep😂
Then she aint the one for me. I'm high value ie out of her league. Stop it universe.
I don't even remember the last time a chick looked at me.
A nice lady, probably in her 70's, said my shirt was a good color on me made me look handsome while I was getting my lunch one day... that was 6 years ago. I still remember this.
Me either. They just don’t seem to like me that way I guess
@@UnorthodoxKnox Mine was 7 years ago. There was also the lady 6 years ago staring at me...but it was just that my fly was down, at least she told me.
@@UnorthodoxKnox Imagine what she looked like 40 years ago.
No we don't want to go to jail!!
Literally just an hour ago a cute girl looked at me and held eye contact the whole time we walked over the crossroad to opposite directions. I’m to slow and just walked away. Should have talked to her. Damn.
You did the right thing. Don't ever regret it over a girl. It's not worth your time and energy.
Ima spill something on my shirt so a girl will look at me, chardonnay so she'll think I'm rich.
I keep thinking about it 😅
I think its a sign that I either did something wrong and that I need to vacate the area immediately or that she finds me suspicious. I'm sorry but no one gives me attention of any sort unless I've somehow offended them or that they think I've done something wrong.
Welcome to the parlor said the Spyder to the Fly
And if that is the case, run like hell. Do not get married.
Dont ask a deer how to hunt a deer
That's awesome. Can I steal it?
Deer don't want to be hunted
naah get in to your bad ass car with a v8 and drive away !
We chose the bear. Have fun w your cats
She was with her boyfriend though I wanted to approach but also respect the relationship
But if i wanna play games i have a ps4 at home
Fellas it's a trap, i repeat it's a trap... Walk away as fast as possible
If Chad is occupied he obviously is not going to walk over nor do anything.
No you’re going to be very smart and walk away.
What made her so damn special she couldn’t walk up to you and say hello I’m.
But no again with the mind games women want to continue to play.
But if you didn’t meet her standards and was looking at her.
She would be like why is that creep looking at me.
Guy’s don’t fall for this bull shit 💩 any more. Just walk away and be the better man😉
What even if we don't like em back?? 🤔
It's 2024. Girls need to drop these subtle signs and just go talk to the guy, but they won't do it because they fear rejection. Welcome to a guys world of taking risks and get used to it
Highly unlikely...Spilled on my shirt, something in my teeth,
And if she has her bf near? Nope sorry
or I like his hair, clothes, etc.
or I'm looking at something/somebody else on the same trajectory.
Bla bla bla... Keep ete contact and ask: have I spilled something on my shirt?
She's trying to make her bf jealous. 😂
Okay...fine...but can you tell us what a woman is so that we will not accidentally trigger "her"?
Ignore and say creep
If a girl looks at you it means something got in her eye, or she's ridiculing you for something wrong with your appearance. Don't take it as a sign of attraction fellas
Pro Tip: Don't date Blaine
Thanks anyways I might use it
Grasshoppers, save your wallets and half your future wealth. Do NOT approach, do not even look back. Make them approach you, and never put a ring on it.
True words. It's a gamble to marry these days. It's a 50/50 chance that the marriage will survive. Men have more to lose and women have more to gain in a marriage. It's a trap.
A woman looking at me is creepy. Not a Chad type anyways.
Women don’t approach my ex came to me. I didn’t even know who she was before that day
They avoid eye contact.