I don't understand how some guys can pay any attention to this. No guy should have even the slightest bit of curiosity as to what a "female dating coach for guys" has to say. This is just free validation for her and others of the like...
no in her case it's good advice 1. work on yourself, increase your value 2. don't waste time if interest isn't returned 3. have balls and dont beat around the bush
Men if you're ever ready to pursue a good traditional woman, get your passports ready. With any luck you'll find one without ridiculous lip fillers, power combed eyebrows or princess syndrome. Happy hunting.
You're on the Internet WAY too much. If you want to find a good woman, you can try Church. If not there, then take a breath and find them at the grocery store, or working in customer service. Concerts, country music. Also, country bars that have dancing.
Of course it does, I deserve to be paid a wage if I did a job, so also, I deserve a quality woman if I've done the work to become a quality man and vice versa
@@philipuche6922 You WANT that. I don’t disagree there. Doesn’t mean you are going to get it. Imagine if you don’t get it and you go around telling people “i deseve this or that”. Should they agree and feel bad that you didn’t? Plus the quote went over your head.
I'm 48 never had a girlfriend before and it's not from lack of effort. I learned a long time ago to stop putting myself in weird situations where I'm labeled as a pushy overbearing narcissistic toxic control freak needy clingy creepy psycho stalker for chasing women too much.
Honestly a healthy relationship should be both people putting in the work. Because I promise long term one sided relationships are miserable and he will eventually find better. Remember quality over quantity. It also applies to men. Women who get lots of male attention have options. So do those men who get a lot of attention. Girls who sit around only waiting on the guy many times get passed over because there’s girls with more to offer. I know many get angry at me. It’s just the truth. It’s mostly desperate men who deal ik these relationships. If he’s planning all the dates. Doing all the work and getting little to none in return. A man with options will find someone who has more to offer. He has a lot to offer someome and doenst want to be used. He is more then happy to give a girl his whole world if she gives him hers
Don’t ask like that. Say: we should go out. When are you free? And then let her give you some days. If she doesn’t give you a definite days then she is not interested. You can ask again, at another time, but if she says no, or gives you a vague answer, then you stop asking. That doesn’t mean you ignore her. You just don’t ask again.
@philipuche6922 exactly. I was gonna be like why not ignore her? That doesn't make you a bad person. She wasn't interested so you're not a bad person for not investing anymore time in her. This is why real men don't pursue women. They pursue bettering themselves daily. I strive to better myself by pushing my limits all while ignoring women and you'd be surprised how much they like that LOL
Dude I went to a restaurant tonight to pick up a DoorDash order, looked at the multiple hostesses and said hi and they ignored me. All of them. I just wanted to get the order and leave. I felt so emasculated and infuriated. This is my experience with women. I’m done.
First, women working in restaurants get flirted with all the time and are almost ALWAYS super busy. If you want to get a woman's attention there, you're going to have to be exceptionally charming or witty. Plus, most women aren't interested in most men, no matter WHO they are.
For once, i agree with her on the second and third point. If she is not interested at all, so be it, she has every right not to be but i would rather be clear about my intentions if and when i am actually interested. About not making any effort on her side, that’s a completly different story but, at some point i give up and move on ( the same could be said about friendship in fact). The first, though, not quite. Even though i put in some work, it does not mean i deserve anything. That's not how it works.
Make sure you feel you deserve to be with a value woman. That one is so important … we are all going to dates without knowing if we are ready to do it …
Today I felt like I'm judging too much and I'm questioning myself too much and figured out that this way will make me a very serious guy and I will never find my half this way. So I stopped that and I say let's try , let's see how is she as person and I relised it's a better way to know and meet the person without too much thinking because now I think ,first you need to approach somehow ( obviously will not go as perfect as you think,but could work 😅)and after you will have answers to the questions you used to think at before, so you will know the real person which stands by your side. And keep in mind, as boy, never judge ,critic yourself ,cause that will make you a weak, shy and scared person.
I don't ask women out. For the women who give me choosing signals who I'm also attracted to, after small talk, I simply tell them where I'll be at whatever time and then tell her to get there around whatever time. Most of the time they tell me what time they'll be there or they IMMEDIATELY come back with a different date and time. I don't ask women those kinds of questions. I always assume they're interested because they've SHOWN interest. It's always a place I'll be anyway like a poolhall or bowling.
This woman still thinks we re in the pre instagram era. The game has changed lady keep up with the times. I know your DMs are full too so don’t act like you don’t know
bull meeting in real life has gotten all the more relevant now thanks to IG unless you're an Instagram personality with thousands of followers. If you are, then by all means..
"you have boundaries and leave when she doesn't show interest" that's why I've been single my entire life, because no woman showed interest.
Aww...would you like a Gauntlet full of infinity stones !!!
Hit the gym. Increase your sex appeal.
@user-qm5er2cc1p 🤔 huh bro?
You probably skipped her 1st step
@@philipuche6922 what's the first step?
Stop teaching man ,teach the woman to not be gold diggers 😅😅😅😅😅
Most of you don't have gold anyway 😂
@jenster29 money 💰 is gold
🤠👌
Tell the woman to not be frigid
@@jenster29exactly. So adjust your expectations accordingly.
There no right to say this when you literally date a girl because she's pretty
Looks like this dating couch knows nothing as everyone else!🤣
I don't understand how some guys can pay any attention to this. No guy should have even the slightest bit of curiosity as to what a "female dating coach for guys" has to say. This is just free validation for her and others of the like...
You are right. Because the attractive woman can always monetarize her assets independent of how frigid she may be
Yup. If you want to learn how to hunt deer, you talk to a hunter, not the deer.
no in her case it's good advice
1. work on yourself, increase your value
2. don't waste time if interest isn't returned
3. have balls and dont beat around the bush
I hear you, but to be fair, those are 3 valid points that a man should adhere to so they don't get twisted
@@Pythoner My point is that you don't want to get that advice from a female...
Men if you're ever ready to pursue a good traditional woman, get your passports ready. With any luck you'll find one without ridiculous lip fillers, power combed eyebrows or princess syndrome. Happy hunting.
Passport Bros are really sad. Please don’t exploit foreign women because you can’t be a real man in North America.😂😂
You're on the Internet WAY too much. If you want to find a good woman, you can try Church. If not there, then take a breath and find them at the grocery store, or working in customer service. Concerts, country music. Also, country bars that have dancing.
a healthly masculine man doesn't waste his time pursuing women. they pursue him!
Her advice is of course: You put in the work at first, so you feel good about you.
LMAO
What´s about she puts the work first?
Never ask the fish...
A man tells a woman what he's going to do and invites her to join him... pursuing women is a waste of time.
Very true
What she is talking about worked 80 years ago. Women now days are totally different and more carnal.
She could make a video on how to identify frigid woman
Actually good advice. Thanks
I watched the first bit and immediately thought “deserve’s got nothin to do with it”
Yeah, I lost interest at that point myself.
Of course it does, I deserve to be paid a wage if I did a job, so also, I deserve a quality woman if I've done the work to become a quality man and vice versa
@@philipuche6922 You WANT that. I don’t disagree there. Doesn’t mean you are going to get it. Imagine if you don’t get it and you go around telling people “i deseve this or that”. Should they agree and feel bad that you didn’t? Plus the quote went over your head.
I aint pursuing no women. Bin there Done that. I am on my own now And I love it. Money enough and no nagging
I'm 48 never had a girlfriend before and it's not from lack of effort.
I learned a long time ago to stop putting myself in weird situations where I'm labeled as a pushy overbearing narcissistic toxic control freak needy clingy creepy psycho stalker for chasing women too much.
Honestly a healthy relationship should be both people putting in the work. Because I promise long term one sided relationships are miserable and he will eventually find better.
Remember quality over quantity. It also applies to men. Women who get lots of male attention have options. So do those men who get a lot of attention. Girls who sit around only waiting on the guy many times get passed over because there’s girls with more to offer.
I know many get angry at me. It’s just the truth. It’s mostly desperate men who deal ik these relationships. If he’s planning all the dates. Doing all the work and getting little to none in return. A man with options will find someone who has more to offer. He has a lot to offer someome and doenst want to be used. He is more then happy to give a girl his whole world if she gives him hers
Don’t ask like that. Say: we should go out. When are you free? And then let her give you some days. If she doesn’t give you a definite days then she is not interested. You can ask again, at another time, but if she says no, or gives you a vague answer, then you stop asking. That doesn’t mean you ignore her. You just don’t ask again.
You can just ignore her bro, she's not interested. Unless you wanna end up in her friend zone
@philipuche6922 exactly. I was gonna be like why not ignore her? That doesn't make you a bad person. She wasn't interested so you're not a bad person for not investing anymore time in her. This is why real men don't pursue women. They pursue bettering themselves daily. I strive to better myself by pushing my limits all while ignoring women and you'd be surprised how much they like that LOL
Dude I went to a restaurant tonight to pick up a DoorDash order, looked at the multiple hostesses and said hi and they ignored me. All of them. I just wanted to get the order and leave. I felt so emasculated and infuriated. This is my experience with women. I’m done.
First, women working in restaurants get flirted with all the time and are almost ALWAYS super busy. If you want to get a woman's attention there, you're going to have to be exceptionally charming or witty. Plus, most women aren't interested in most men, no matter WHO they are.
Women like that don't want the "work in progress" guy. They want the finished product.
Stay away from those gold diggers
Gold digging is like a religion. Those who practice it do it till the last day of life
For once, i agree with her on the second and third point. If she is not interested at all, so be it, she has every right not to be but i would rather be clear about my intentions if and when i am actually interested. About not making any effort on her side, that’s a completly different story but, at some point i give up and move on ( the same could be said about friendship in fact).
The first, though, not quite. Even though i put in some work, it does not mean i deserve anything. That's not how it works.
Never pursue/chase women. Work hard in you instead.
If you pursue woman that are not attracted to man you have little little chance
nothing wrong with making the first move and making your interest known
of course if you see it's going nowhere, so quit wasting your time
I’m handsome guy… therefore the girl should ask me out. End of story. And hopefully not one with fillers in their lips.
I don't like the plumpers, either. But better than no lips like Nicole Wallace🙄
@@My2centsfuturestrader lol… while true, that’s the LEAST of her problems and why I hate her.
So you are being chosen. You are not choosing. Absolute difference
Make sure you feel you deserve to be with a value woman. That one is so important … we are all going to dates without knowing if we are ready to do it …
Glad to get a woman's advice on this.v
why am i pursuing a migraine?
Today I felt like I'm judging too much and I'm questioning myself too much and figured out that this way will make me a very serious guy and I will never find my half this way. So I stopped that and I say let's try , let's see how is she as person and I relised it's a better way to know and meet the person without too much thinking because now I think ,first you need to approach somehow ( obviously will not go as perfect as you think,but could work 😅)and after you will have answers to the questions you used to think at before, so you will know the real person which stands by your side. And keep in mind, as boy, never judge ,critic yourself ,cause that will make you a weak, shy and scared person.
How a healthy masculine man pursues a woman…
He doesn’t…
That’s what makes him healthy and masculine.
I'm 85% of this. I got a few nuances to work out. Thing is, I get a good number of phone numbers, buy not a lot of conversions to first dates. Ugh.
Ma'am, you will be more succesful if you tell woman to start approaching men, because in the situation as it is today, NO MEN will approach woman...
Let them pursue me, I don't have the time for it.
If you pursue woman that are not attracted to man you have no chance
What about in long distance situations.
Leave your bank statement with loads on money on the side table . Have a quality car on your drive . Then barely speak. Job done
that just might work
Why are you in a car that's not driving,,,
That about what we're all worth
Women
I don't ask women out. For the women who give me choosing signals who I'm also attracted to, after small talk, I simply tell them where I'll be at whatever time and then tell her to get there around whatever time. Most of the time they tell me what time they'll be there or they IMMEDIATELY come back with a different date and time. I don't ask women those kinds of questions. I always assume they're interested because they've SHOWN interest. It's always a place I'll be anyway like a poolhall or bowling.
Men work on yourself , but NEVER pursue (chase) women it will be an instant game over
You ladies asked to be left alone. Therefore you are not giving correct advice.
Who is paying for taking her out Tuesday?
Funny. Woman giving advice haha
This woman still thinks we re in the pre instagram era. The game has changed lady keep up with the times. I know your DMs are full too so don’t act like you don’t know
She's clueless of course.
bull
meeting in real life has gotten all the more relevant now thanks to IG
unless you're an Instagram personality with thousands of followers. If you are, then by all means..
Lip fillers is an automatic no
Lol you wish men still cared.
Hard to find quality nowadays 😂
The only thing she says that's useful and not verbal diarrhea is the part where she tells you to be direct in asking the girl out.
Bro we don't need advice from a female how to get females. You are the fish we are the fisherman.
NAH I am good,I don't need a women cost to much money to take care prefer keep my money to travel
No. I'm afraid of women, thanks!
What is wrong with her pursuing him?…
maybe just use the ai on a phone to talk with a woman instead?
Ok and what a “not quality woman” looks like?
All the girls that low quality guys want chased by. Her point is.. a woman doesn’t chase
No disrespect, but I don't take dating advice from women. Teach women to be respectful.
Don't pursue her