Women Will Chase You If You Do This | The Black Knight Paradox
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Women are taught from an early age that it’s the man’s job to do the chasing. This is only half-true. When a man seduces a woman, he chases her, makes his move, and pushes through the woman’s initial resistance to become physically intimate with her. It’s at this point that the woman transitions from being passive (allowing the man to chase her) to being proactive (where she actively chases the man).
A successful seduction requires you to let go and stop chasing. You must let a woman come to you and express her interest in you by allowing her to chase you. If you fail to allow this transition to take place, don’t be surprised if the woman loses attraction for you and pulls away. The moment you focus on the relationship is the moment a woman starts to lose attraction. It’s tempting to tell a woman how you feel about her as though this will somehow soften her emotions and make her easier to seduce. When a man is focused on the relationship, he derails the seduction process. The woman used to dream of the day when a man would come along and sweep her off her feet. But when that day finally arrives something inside the woman tells her that love shouldn’t be this way, and she’s right, it shouldn’t.
One of the problems we face as men is a natural discomfort at the speed with which women respond to messages, want to see us, and are willing to progress the relationship. All this can leave a man feeling uncomfortable and uncertain about where he stands and where the relationship is headed. A woman knows when you’re chasing her out of desire as opposed to chasing her out of insecurity. This insecurity often leads men to take action in an attempt to gain clarity and calm their nerves, but instead of feeling calm, the man inadvertently pushes the woman further away from him.
Given a choice between freedom and commitment, you must always choose freedom. An attractive man is a man with options. Why would you want to sacrifice your options for the sake of one woman? Instead, if a woman chases you, she can only draw one conclusion: you must be high-value otherwise she wouldn’t be chasing you. Still, women continue to churn out the usual clichés: “If a man likes me, he should chase me” and “Women don’t chase, that’s a man’s job.” If you buy into this way of thinking, you become just another weak, beta male in hot pursuit. Your strength as a man lies in your ability to remain indifferent to a woman’s behavior, whether she’s chasing you or not.
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Women are very attracted to confident men...this is common knowledge. As soon as you start chasing her out of insecurity, she senses it and LOSES attraction. NEVER appear weak, needy or insecure in front of a woman! No woman is worth losing your dignity over.
223 likes but no comments, I had to comment to let you see that your comment is excellent 💪🏾.
One of the best lesson learned from this channel :
'Hey men out there, never be a relationship-focused guy.'
Chase FREEDOM not relationships…
Thanks, Doc
Yes! Chase your lifestyle, money, and build a great life. You will always be happy. Then the women will line up. Great advice!
Amen
Masculine facts
Jeff bezoz, Bill gates crying
your strength as a man lies in your ability to remain indifferent wether shes chasing you or not.. Matrix
Chase dreams and goals.thanks chris
Wish I’d known all this stuff 20 years and 3 heartbreaks ago.
U found it at the right time. Knowledge without experience means nothing.
True. @@g.a.d6988
I often attract women way out of my league because of this. Remember 90% of guys chase hot girls she's probably heard "you're hot", "you're beautiful" or "can I take you on a date" a million times before. Don't chase her you're lowering your value when you do, and when you do get her attention put her in the friendzone, make sure she knows she's in the friendzone. Make a comment using the word friend when you're talking to her something like "I finally have a friend who sees things my way". As soon as she hears you call her friend she's starts doubting her attraction level, off course you know she's hot but you can't say it to her all the time, make her work for your attention.
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months . All thanks to Mr Ali whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
@@robertpaul1372 4 months I'm sure she didn't go to church them 4 months if an ex is out of my life for 4 months without contact or still talking I'm moving on
@@deejaymark2871 Once an Ex, always an Ex.
@@deejaymark2871 lol those scammers
Hi Nigel...I need advice about getting women into emotional and rollercoaster with us
Yesterday I was nearby my ex gf gym ...I pop in and take a look if she is there.....she saw me and unhappy saying I dont trust her that she is there for exercises and felt I was there to check if she with man in the gym..
She said she feeling stress if I dont trust her.. I told her if this goin to be our 3rd breakup ..I will not look back again and if me as The Man always listen to her ..I wouldn't like I am bound to her rules ... such as meeting her once a week for sex because she feel stress meeting me 4 times a week previously in our 7 years relationship it was only natural we text everyday but now she want to change the dynamics to what she want
Yesterday morning she text me to cancel our plan to go out
I didnt like it and I didnt reply her
She text me in the night that she Miss me..I didnt reply
She text me Honey Good Nite I didnt reply
She text me Good Morning..I replied ...
I think she is upset I didnt reply her last nite...
I will meeting her tonite ...
What should I do ..
Because last week she told me she broke up with me because I focus too much on her...she wanted me to focus on my job and told me she can text me but I cant text her ...she even told me reply her immediately...
I dont want another argument which cause our 2nd breakup...
So I let her say whatever she want...
If I dont reply or reply late is this going to make her love me more ?
It was a good get back together we went to eat and happy hour but now she want to only meet her once a week and I Ban from going to her gym or near her house ...
I think I will Not Care anymore on our 7 years relationship if she dont want me to grow the love ..
If I walk away I am depressed...and if I take her rule I am depressed I am not Man enough
I am chasing my dreams, my passions, my abs, never women
I chased a few and they ran from me but they came back chasing me after ignoring them, one is my current, trust me they love the chase
I like the phrase if you're not value man,woman will not chase you i.e transformation of body, business, character.
Patrice O Neal said it best: “Your happiness as a man is paramount. Don’t base your happiness on the woman. Your happiness should trickle down to her”
These animations need to be screened as after school edutainment.
This is well researched, honest & succinctly expressed. Excellent!
Excellent teaching.
Indifference is the key. Brilliant Sir.
What they say and what they responds to are different. Always remember that just watch what they do. 9/10 times their words are unstable just like their emotions
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months . All thanks to Mr Ali whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
Hi Reddo.. ..I need advice about getting women into emotional and rollercoaster with us
Yesterday I was nearby my ex gf gym ...I pop in and take a look if she is there.....she saw me and unhappy saying I dont trust her that she is there for exercises and felt I was there to check if she with man in the gym..
She said she feeling stress if I dont trust her.. I told her if this goin to be our 3rd breakup ..I will not look back again and if me as The Man always listen to her ..I wouldn't like I am bound to her rules ... such as meeting her once a week for sex because she feel stress meeting me 4 times a week previously in our 7 years relationship it was only natural we text everyday but now she want to change the dynamics to what she want
Yesterday morning she text me to cancel our plan to go out
I didnt like it and I didnt reply her
She text me in the night that she Miss me..I didnt reply
She text me Honey Good Nite I didnt reply
She text me Good Morning..I replied ...
I think she is upset I didnt reply her last nite...
I will meeting her tonite ...
What should I do ..
Because last week she told me she broke up with me because I focus too much on her...she wanted me to focus on my job and told me she can text me but I cant text her ...she even told me reply her immediately...
I dont want another argument which cause our 2nd breakup...
So I let her say whatever she want...
If I dont reply or reply late is this going to make her love me more ?
It was a good get back together we went to eat and happy hour but now she want to only meet her once a week and I Ban from going to her gym or near her house ...
I think I will Not Care anymore on our 7 years relationship if she dont want me to grow the love ..
If I walk away I am depressed...and if I take her rule I am depressed I am not Man enough
Spot on 🎯 thank you for this.
Keep up the great work
Channel so underrated
Love you man , you saved my life 👍
Like your videos. Keep it up
Chase your life goals and invest in yourself, not in women.
Chasing a Woman is a waste of Time!
That was my problem I quickly realized it and I QUICKLY changed it!
This is fact.focus on yourself and they will chase you
Be aloof disinterested and focused on your goals then women will try harder to get your attention
That’s what I did in middle school
I pretty much agree, most of men are not living their ideal life, so any portion of time dedicated to the creation of it is not wasted time, unlike chasing or taking women on dates.
At this point I'm very convinced that High Interest women are the only ones who should have the benefit of being in your life.
Chase a check
The animations are hilarious 😂😂
It is 100% correct
Loved the graphics and ofcourse the msg
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months . All thanks to Mr Ali whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
0:26 In short: A man will still need to initiate the chase 'first' for this transition to turn things around
How do you go about initiating the chase first?
@@ECJ49 See that cute girl there walking alone thru the shopping strip? Walk up and go say hello, start a conversation
It's simple if shes into you u don't have to chase just flirt a bit and you'll be able to tell bye the way she gets on simple
@@deejaymark2871 you will still need to kindle the interaction first hand if you don't know her. No women is going to approach you for that ever and even if she does, she will lose her respect for you
@@ECJ49 initiating isn’t chasing. Chasing is pursuing someone who isn’t interested
While I completely understand this dynamic now, it still makes me depressed. And I am even at the point where I am truly not focused on the relationship nor ever feeling anxiety and uncertainty about where I may stand with a woman. I used to have to pretend I felt this way. But yeah, it makes me sad that men have to act this way and simply must not be open and vulnerable with a woman. I honestly don't know how this will play out over a lifetime if it gets all the way to marriage (if that's even possible). I was married for 19 years and I frankly don't see how this sort of dynamic can endure.
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months . All thanks to Mr Ali whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
Don’t let all this UA-cam “ expert” advice get you down. Just be confident, a man of your word, have a spine and have goals and you’ll be fine
Perfect
Chris Canwell. You are the man! Thanks for this knowledge!
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@@ayyanabdi7796 thank you friend :)
Its canwell .
@@xenorad oh man I did write it perfect the first time
@@quattron-1126 🤣congo
Yes textbook. Like to read a girls veiw on this
Man I have read the atomic attraction n being just confused in
1. U promote both to follow n unfollow straight n process approach for the same scenes
2. Hug n embrace on first date, also told it's clinggy.
I don't want to trouble you but would be so kind to provide clearity in above both.
Yep, just keep riding your bikes
Freedom any day.
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months . All thanks to Mr Ali whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days
I use scarcity and it works well here in colombia fellas. I have easy access to beautiful women and yes I know why “I have access to a lot of dollars” the point is I know what I can do and get and exploit my options. I have a pair pf gorgeous women chasing me, I make them wait and go do my hobbies, without saying anything they know my hobbies come first
Women don't make senses. We can't every opossite
My exwife didn't start chasing me until after I bought a bmw and drove past her. She called me before the smoke disappeared out the tail pipe in passing her. You must as a man or woman improve ur outer appearance somehow.
I, Still, prefer the,"Owner of a Lonely- Heart"-Technique. :) ...Take your chances, Win or Lose her.
1st comment ☺️❤️
when is the new book coming coach ?
1st June
I like this and am doing this with someone. So how does it end? She chases you but then what? Does she ask you out? Does she hint she wants to be asked out? Does she get affectionate so you can get her to grant any request?
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Lmao no, i don't want to be chased by low quality women thanks. Being a single adult feels so free and amazing. I'm not going back for now. 👍
We are the prize as men. Don't even look there way. If a woman really is interested in that man she will go up to him and not close the window when she see him or run in the house, Lol.
Yep, that’s how I pick up a lot of women. You are right about that.
A woman is a teacher and a homeless man who is the prize?
If a woman has you as a friend and use are talking regularly it's clear that your 90% gonna succeed if you take it a step future women don't keep men as friends if there not interested i find that's the only reason women keep male friends who are straight 💯 😉
Women rarely approach
@@JamesGreenier if you pick up a lot of women, why are you watching this video?
So basically don't be a doormat for a woman.
Exactly. That’s about it
What to do when you try to pull away to increase attraction but she won’t leave u alone lol
Is it okay to show interest in the beginning?
I show them im interested to talk in the very first and then slowly pull back .. how can i do this effectively can u please elaborate
After the first sex you have to go slow. That was my mistake in my last relationship, i didn't go slow after the first sex but was too available
It only takes them to be interested in you for it to work out flirt and you'll see how she responds or give a few signs chat for a while then drop something like it would be fun to date you I'm sure or something like we should so have a coffee or drinks sometime it's that simple you'll know where you stand after that
Can anyone help me out here...
I am in a Long distance relationship with my girl online for 1 year then I visited my girl in Indonesia for a month (everything was perfect in person, met the parents treated me like their son) and we agreed to get engaged in another year.
Since I returned to Australia she has only been texting a bit and only voice calling maybe once a week, I asked I would like a video call like we used to cause long distance but she says she's too busy or can't now (which is odd considering I'm meant to be her finance she can't spend 2 minutes out of her day for a just video call).
I'm frustrated because I told her that I've been missing her and want to see her again over video call but nothing has happened then she went silent for a week, there's been no affection back from her and she hasn't told me she is missing me unless I ask her.
Any idea what's going on?
Bro. Let her Chase you. Dont tell her how you feel.
@@lukeArmstrong524 It's a serious relationship, we are going to get engaged so why wouldn't you tell your significate other how you're feeling ??? :S
@@Blazingwheel because it destroys attraction. Women prefer mystery and a man who she has to work for to get his attention.
Are u sure u still want to go ahead with this relationship? Red flags are flashing like a Christmas tree & it feels like u are pulling teeth!
@@lukeArmstrong524 totally agree with you man... good very good....🙂
Does No Contact works on married ex? After marrying a guy, after 3 months, she calls me every now and then.. when i answer the call she doesn't speak.. don't know what's going on.. wht to do n how to react.. appreciate your help
She left you and married another guy after 3 months?
Just dont answer and dont ever hope to get back with her
@@acrididi She broke up with me, married the other guy & now, after 3 months of marriage, she keeps calling me 😁
@@savage-kc1nz Yeah.. but she keeps calling me from unknown numbers.. how many numbers I need to block 😁??? Don't knw why she's doing this..
@@neonstarx8634 yeah, after reading it again I understood what you meant. First of all I feel for you man, believe me, secondly I say it's an easy situation regarding what to do, don't answer her calls and never contact her again. Ask for professional help in case you need help moving on. Peace
In my case...
She was upset cause of his bestfriend then she tells me what happened with her and gets sad while explaining.
Then I think she's sad i have to give her sometime to heal herself.
After 2 days we started talking normally then she said to me "you are the one who puts me in a good mood and I trust you" then another day i send her a msg she replied immidietely but when I ask what are you doing? she blocked me! Why?
Also remember she pulls me before so I use NC after a week she msg me!
What does this mean this time why she blocked me while talking.?
Can anyone pls help me?
She's going through emotional turbulence. Wait it off
@@phil4863 Hi ..I need advice about getting women into emotional and rollercoaster with us
Yesterday I was nearby my ex gf gym ...I pop in and take a look if she is there.....she saw me and unhappy saying I dont trust her that she is there for exercises and felt I was there to check if she with man in the gym..
She said she feeling stress if I dont trust her.. I told her if this goin to be our 3rd breakup ..I will not look back again and if me as The Man always listen to her ..I wouldn't like I am bound to her rules ... such as meeting her once a week for sex because she feel stress meeting me 4 times a week previously in our 7 years relationship it was only natural we text everyday but now she want to change the dynamics to what she want
Yesterday morning she text me to cancel our plan to go out
I didnt like it and I didnt reply her
She text me in the night that she Miss me..I didnt reply
She text me Honey Good Nite I didnt reply
She text me Good Morning..I replied ...
I think she is upset I didnt reply her last nite...
I will meeting her tonite ...
What should I do ..
Because last week she told me she broke up with me because I focus too much on her...she wanted me to focus on my job and told me she can text me but I cant text her ...she even told me reply her immediately...
I dont want another argument which cause our 2nd breakup...
So I let her say whatever she want...
If I dont reply or reply late is this going to make her love me more ?
It was a good get back together we went to eat and happy hour but now she want to only meet her once a week and I Ban from going to her gym or near her house ...
I think I will Not Care anymore on our 7 years relationship if she dont want me to grow the love ..
If I walk away I am depressed...and if I take her rule I am depressed I am not Man enough
What if you havent gotten intimate yet(sex) but have done some things get me 😜 can i walk away to increase respect...and see if she chases?
Do not chase wemen only women , beware in thailand 😭😭😭😭
Why thailand women?
You might be chasing the dingaling out there!
😂
@@laxusdraxler2267 trans
bruhh
Why wasting your precious time chasing women when you can chase money and Focus on yourself
Don’t chase only attract. Women are behaving this way because they are too spoiled. With all the options they have.
Good God what’s the fucking point
Ladies do not chase men! Grow a pair!