Men look for admiration and extra credit for something that they should be doing. As a responsible adult, you should be productive. Why don’t men be nice, caring, kind and faithful? Stop leading with just being productive and not having a criminal record.
@@crystal.holmesrespectfully That doesn’t make it less undesirable. At that size and shape one would think she would lead with her cooking homemaking skills. Not with degrees that have less utility to a potential mate .
All I heard was attitude, student loan debt, and being a functional adult who is also overweight. They want to control what the men they desire want. They want to make requirements for the men and then be able to tell the men what they'll give them in return. Doesn't work that way.
I was feeling like this female. Was trying to be competitive with me. So, I lied and told her. I had a Black belt in karate. Just to see what she would say. And, she said "me too". I was done after that!
The average man (especially Black men) should care about a woman's financial background since the average man's salary can't support a family on its own
@@melissasavage5996 yes but when women are adults and take care of themselves they have a terrible attitude. No man wants to deal with that Bullshyt. We want to be single before dealing with that BS.
Degrees are important to a certain degree b/c you don't want a woman who is slow either. Also, you do want the mother of your children to not be a Bimbo who is stupid beyond words. But, heck, you might think this woman is a Bimbo and stupid beyond words with degrees. LOL! I guess degrees aren't that important after all. Forget what I just wrote. 😂😂😂😂😅🤣
@@shaymalchione809Why are they telling everyone? I got a degree in Business and I barely tell people. I just hate those mofos that use their degrees like it makes them superior humans. At least let me ASK you about your degrees dam!
She really stepped out on the WRONG foot forward. Men want to know a womans PERSONALITY. A man desires love, peace, comfort, and support from a woman. She lost all that.
Or worse …imagine a man talking to women about him being good at cooking and house keeping and not being bothered too much about income because he’s prefer to be a homemaker . Man these women would run so damn fast 💨
@@ljthirtyfiver We need two incomes in this society. Both men and women. We can't afford being traditional. This isn't the age of industrialization when women started staying home. The typical man in the USA can't take care of a family of four in these days and times. For Black men, it's especially hard thanks to disparate treatment, discrimination, and unequal pay. Both sides have our of date expectations that don't fit our economic realities and never really did for Black folk.
Btw bros, not all of us can be business owners so we need to not only be more humble as human beings, but not too hard on ourselves (unless you enjoy depression). Personally I'd be proud of a prospective woman's accomplishments, becuz it points to her not being broke, so she's less likely to coz you problems financially in the future. However, a woman's financial competence isn't the only criteria I as a man look for from her character. If she's rich but is a vile human being, honestly, I want nothing to do with that. I don't want my kids coming out of that, & I don't wanna ever imagine myself living in the same household as that.
I lead with me just talking about everyday happenings in our lives. Talk about our interests, societal issues, politics, or anything we want to talk about. I just go with the flow and have a conversation.
Advise my Father gave me, if a man cannot appreciate your mind, he doesn't deserve your essence. He demonstrated this belief to my Mother and me every day
This is why so many men go for the 25 year old. Because this phase starts around 33 with women. They start worrying about what people got and don't got judging men. While the younger is still dating for what feels right. Which is the natural way of dating. Going off the vibe.
@@mateaukalua4426 Well you're probably right. Because their brain starts to change at 26. So more like 22 to 24 is the sweet spot. Women think it's about their age. But it's more about them being too damn pushy and not relaxed.
@Alphauniverse33 shoot I'm 24 and I do my best to get away from females my age because most times they don't just be too loud, immature and Social Butterflies on social media apps.🤢
Sound like she found the person she wants and that person is herself. All her energy went into her and you get out what you put in. She doesn't like the results but she crafted it all.
I don’t think they realize that men find the fact you don’t need them and what you have are into you only physically. Which means they don’t have to give you much anything for access to you.
As long as women hold the position that men should be a provider and majority bread winner of the family, then men will continue not to care about a women's business and financial accomplishments. They don't want 50/50 relationships. They want to be treated equally to men everywhere in life except for in relationships with men... make it make sense.
@anthonyharrison7728, yes. And as long as women are the ones who get pregnant, women will hold the position that men should be the provider and majority breadwinner.
An older man, who some would consider a high value man and passport bro, who was a close friend of the family and who had romantic interest in me told me when I was in my thirties that men simply want to be nurtured and taken care of. That's it. It amazes me that you have many women who just don't process something so simple. He definitely set the bar on how I should be treated as a woman and he was so good to me. If only we agreed about the topic of family. Great advice Phil!
Society has created this since the 60’s to capitalize on women as well. It helps the corporations become wealthier leaving the women with relationship issues and manly
If man was built in the image of God I think the modern woman is built in the image of Satan. Satan was an angel but left his nature trying to be God. We’re seeing the women want to be the men and reject their nature. Mutating into a gender fluid mess like the artwork. The modern woman is demonic 💯
Yes it's good that a women doing good in life. But as Men WE DONT CARE. We have degrees too, we pay bills too, we can own business. Just nurture us. That's it
The only time that is relevant is when a man thinks your experience as a business owner will make you more understanding and nurturing about the demands of his business. His interest ends there. BUT when I was a law student at Georgetown University the Hoya players used to come to our cafeteria , we would joke that they were looking for smart wives. Certainly wasn’t our cafe’s food! Nothing wrong with a smart pretty lady, I’ve bagged a couple of high value husbands.
A man at a family homes dinner 🍽 that I didn't know told me out of no where, I don't care about your education. I was confused because I did not bring up my profession or education. I think I should be the only 1 that cares about my education because I poad for it & made the sacrifices for it. With that said, education & career should not be the lead nor the emphasis when getting to know anyone.
@JohnBoyed-fo6fm I am NOT apart of ya'll! Again, I didn't know that msn; didn't identify with him at all. Therefore, his opinion of me was not welcomed or needed.
ASA FAMILY : Well said and well done . Women hear well , but they aren’t really listening too well ! B1 and reparations family , and in the form of CASH AND LAND payments as well also ! ASA FAMILY :
Facts but they're hypergamous nature won't let them date down they want to date up with an established guy and control him and compete with him and try to boss him around. And that guy that's established doesn't want no independent boss babe s3x only 🤣🤣🤣
Only time I care how much a woman makes is when she says "you want to be a house husband" if she want's to keep me then it matters otherwise.... who cares?
No they think the can look like singer (1) seal and get a 10. This is why I stress to women to have their own so they don't pick men based on what he makes. Pick them for how they treat them and look as well
@@melissasavage5996seal is rich so his looks are irrelevant. Average handsome men can be single forever especially if we have standards no matter how humble they are.
If she went to a job interview saying how well she cooked, cleaned, keep house, nurture kids, supportive of her man ......would she get the job? NO...............because she is there for a job and NOT relationship......so WHY are they bringing their skills to a relationship?
With all that stuff she says she has, I have the same stuff & I've never mentioned any of that to any woman. She'd eventually find out just by hanging around.
She got all these accomplishments, and will still want a man to come in and take care of her..that wanting a man that is equal to them is crap, they wlil want a man that is greater
She's a selfish 304 probably in a lot of debt is not fit more friendly he's very masculine. She doesn't seem like a nurturer orator she better just go to the sperm bank. No man of value will put up with her.
@@coacosweets Nah, I'm a black woman. Saying it's a 'Western issue' is disingenuous. With Yt women the complexion for protection and higher wage earners is almost a given. Don't be mixin' me in their mess.
@@coacosweets WE already know we can go deeper. Some things are better off when we 'GET IT' on the ride back home. God bless and thanks for passing my way. ❤
So she has all those achievements but 0 personality traits. Outside her degrees and certicates everything she mentions is here today and gone tomorrow.
Yall sound silly. I dont get how a woman being accomplished is a turn off unless you have an insecurity And since were leading with strawman and hypotheticals -- what if you meet a woman who started her own nursery and cooking business -- then whats the problem with that? And even if its not related to those, I've dated hard working women who cooked and clean so im lost why saying you also are accomplished means you wouldn't These same guys that get turned off by that want a traditional housewife type but couldnt afford a single income family lifestyle, generally speaking I tried to be Mr.Hero and date down so ive done what this guy is preaching and it aint no different. As long as it aint onlyfans, im all for a date or two
You're not going to change biology and what we men are attracted to. We want a nurturer/ cater of a woman for not only us but far offsprings. Men are the go-getters and the creators of resources and women are the creators of children that's how it's supposed to be women are not supposed to be stressed out and on antidepressant medication trying to compete and be like men. What's the point of a woman becoming go-getter? Statistics show and data shows women are still hypergamous they don't do 50/50 relationships they will never turn a male peasant into a king let him be to stay at home Dad while there out working they still want a man that they can look up to a leader a provider a protector a provisioner but that man don't want the back. What he wants is a nice feminine submissive nurturer/ cater/helpmate
The fact that y'all don't know what men want. Is the sad part. You're going to have to figure it out it's biology don't nobody teach us how to understand and attract women we already know when women want. It's biology figure it out
Women dont like men bragging but men dont care if you are accomplished beings accomplished dont mean you are a pure good hearted person
I love how you worded that. So true
She is on the fast track to hitting that proverbial wall!
Modern women want extra credit for just being a regular ass adult.
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Modern BW want it.
Men look for admiration and extra credit for something that they should be doing. As a responsible adult, you should be productive. Why don’t men be nice, caring, kind and faithful? Stop leading with just being productive and not having a criminal record.
@donnamcintosh2109 Because those traits get you rejected by women silly
Everything but the gym membership
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That's the standard, moden, Western frame.
@@crystal.holmesrespectfully That doesn’t make it less undesirable. At that size and shape one would think she would lead with her cooking homemaking skills. Not with degrees that have less utility to a potential mate .
Yes us men like the feminine aspects of a woman "not" a womans financial contributions.
Unlike them that worry about what men make.
She should still contribute to the household
All I heard was attitude, student loan debt, and being a functional adult who is also overweight.
They want to control what the men they desire want. They want to make requirements for the men and then be able to tell the men what they'll give them in return. Doesn't work that way.
Don't forget them business are probably in tax default
Me too.
@Mr.Boring_Man exactly!
I was feeling like this female. Was trying to be competitive with me. So, I lied and told her. I had a Black belt in karate. Just to see what she would say. And, she said "me too". I was done after that!
She was definitely being competitive with you. SMH.
Omg lol
Yea I need to lie and say my book sold 10000 copies they will be like. Me too. 😂
I'm a pre - White belt.
You all still stressing the American woman? You better get you a South or Central American woman and witness the closest thing to royalty.
They think we men think like them, we don't care about your accomplishments, that's in your mind
That's being an adult of surviving
The average man (especially Black men) should care about a woman's financial background since the average man's salary can't support a family on its own
@@melissasavage5996 yes but when women are adults and take care of themselves they have a terrible attitude. No man wants to deal with that Bullshyt. We want to be single before dealing with that BS.
Not woman is trying to be a boss chick. Young women like myself just want to not have to financially depend on men
You all still stressing the American woman? You better get you a South or Central American woman and witness the closest thing to royalty.
Them Degrees and accomplishments sure do be stroking their ego…, like we give a Flying F Phil…😂
Degrees are important to a certain degree b/c you don't want a woman who is slow either. Also, you do want the mother of your children to not be a Bimbo who is stupid beyond words. But, heck, you might think this woman is a Bimbo and stupid beyond words with degrees. LOL! I guess degrees aren't that important after all. Forget what I just wrote. 😂😂😂😂😅🤣
And they didn’t get them for men. They got them for themselves.
@@shaymalchione809 … so Fing What. Are you mad? 😂
@@shaymalchione809Why are they telling everyone? I got a degree in Business and I barely tell people. I just hate those mofos that use their degrees like it makes them superior humans. At least let me ASK you about your degrees dam!
@@fbarigorrall-blacknot mad, but what good is it to the man? If anything there’s a good chance that she’s in debt from those degrees.
She really stepped out on the WRONG foot forward. Men want to know a womans PERSONALITY. A man desires love, peace, comfort, and support from a woman. She lost all that.
She needs to be on that fitness journey
Just imagine men running off at the mouth like this about their accomplishments....Congrats on being a functional adult ma'am...
Right. LOL!
Or worse …imagine a man talking to women about him being good at cooking and house keeping and not being bothered too much about income because he’s prefer to be a homemaker . Man these women would run so damn fast 💨
Clearly it is a problem because why do BM hate women who are accomplished? She’s a normal functioning adult that is lacking in many a BM.
@ljthirtyfiver lol great come back. 👌🏾
@@ljthirtyfiver We need two incomes in this society. Both men and women. We can't afford being traditional. This isn't the age of industrialization when women started staying home. The typical man in the USA can't take care of a family of four in these days and times. For Black men, it's especially hard thanks to disparate treatment, discrimination, and unequal pay. Both sides have our of date expectations that don't fit our economic realities and never really did for Black folk.
EVERYTHING EXCEPT THE GYM MEMBERSHIP.
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Facts I could care less Stfu. Was up with the back rubs😂😂😂😂😂
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Who you are>>>>>>>>What you got
Btw bros, not all of us can be business owners so we need to not only be more humble as human beings, but not too hard on ourselves (unless you enjoy depression).
Personally I'd be proud of a prospective woman's accomplishments, becuz it points to her not being broke, so she's less likely to coz you problems financially in the future. However, a woman's financial competence isn't the only criteria I as a man look for from her character. If she's rich but is a vile human being, honestly, I want nothing to do with that. I don't want my kids coming out of that, & I don't wanna ever imagine myself living in the same household as that.
Well said! 💯
I lead with me just talking about everyday happenings in our lives. Talk about our interests, societal issues, politics, or anything we want to talk about. I just go with the flow and have a conversation.
Imagine running a business that doesn't care about what its consumers want!!!
She not ugly she just overweight
Makeup
Bad attitude doesn’t help either
Average or a touch above with an excess 40 pounds.
Hideous attitude. I can’t see anything past that.
I agree
Facts Phil Facts 💯
She really doesn't need a man. I pay my own bills woman.
Nah what she needs is a fitness plan
Masculine modern women we don’t need.
Sure we so
I am one who always tries to conversate about what kind of house I can keep and how much I like to cook, but im still single. 😊😊
Advise my Father gave me, if a man cannot appreciate your mind, he doesn't deserve your essence. He demonstrated this belief to my Mother and me every day
Great video coverage Phillip 💯 In the words of Smokey Robinson and the Miracles... My mama told me you better shop around
I agree with Phil about this. Yes, can you cook etc. But everybody can't be a size 0!!
This is why so many men go for the 25 year old. Because this phase starts around 33 with women. They start worrying about what people got and don't got judging men. While the younger is still dating for what feels right. Which is the natural way of dating. Going off the vibe.
Meh I don't know man I am 30 and every woman I come across a lot of women 25-34 who are all the same.
@@mateaukalua4426 Well you're probably right. Because their brain starts to change at 26. So more like 22 to 24 is the sweet spot. Women think it's about their age. But it's more about them being too damn pushy and not relaxed.
@Alphauniverse33 shoot I'm 24 and I do my best to get away from females my age because most times they don't just be too loud, immature and Social Butterflies on social media apps.🤢
Sometimes you just gotta tell it straight, like it is!
Sound like she found the person she wants and that person is herself. All her energy went into her and you get out what you put in. She doesn't like the results but she crafted it all.
I don’t think they realize that men find the fact you don’t need them and what you have are into you only physically. Which means they don’t have to give you much anything for access to you.
As long as women hold the position that men should be a provider and majority bread winner of the family, then men will continue not to care about a women's business and financial accomplishments.
They don't want 50/50 relationships.
They want to be treated equally to men everywhere in life except for in relationships with men... make it make sense.
@anthonyharrison7728, yes. And as long as women are the ones who get pregnant, women will hold the position that men should be the provider and majority breadwinner.
An older man, who some would consider a high value man and passport bro, who was a close friend of the family and who had romantic interest in me told me when I was in my thirties that men simply want to be nurtured and taken care of. That's it. It amazes me that you have many women who just don't process something so simple. He definitely set the bar on how I should be treated as a woman and he was so good to me. If only we agreed about the topic of family. Great advice Phil!
I, I, I. Not a team player.
Facts
Talk about what they have but not trying to pay no bills
Society has created this since the 60’s to capitalize on women as well. It helps the corporations become wealthier leaving the women with relationship issues and manly
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You can tell em to your blue in the face' they still want get it.
Why want they? 😐
It's like Eve vs Adam. Eve wanted what Adam had.
If man was built in the image of God I think the modern woman is built in the image of Satan.
Satan was an angel but left his nature trying to be God. We’re seeing the women want to be the men and reject their nature. Mutating into a gender fluid mess like the artwork.
The modern woman is demonic 💯
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She managed to locked down everything but a better attitude and some running shoes.
I love the snoopy touch lol
Yes it's good that a women doing good in life. But as Men WE DONT CARE. We have degrees too, we pay bills too, we can own business. Just nurture us. That's it
That's called being an adult!! Life is about choices and trade offs....
She is making herself Ms. Untouchable to men worldwide! LOL!
Ray Cash- a pimp in my own mind lol
Damn that's a classic😅😂
A DEGREE IS NOTHING MORE THAN A PERMIT TO DO BUSINESS, IT DOESN'T MEAN THAT YOU ARE SMART 🤓
Its ALWAYS the chix with the UP and UNDER guts that have the most to say 🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️. You got all shyt, but no gym membership 😂😂😂
She didn't state that she still owe for her education
The only time that is relevant is when a man thinks your experience as a business owner will make you more understanding and nurturing about the demands of his business. His interest ends there.
BUT when I was a law student at Georgetown University the Hoya players used to come to our cafeteria , we would joke that they were looking for smart wives. Certainly wasn’t our cafe’s food! Nothing wrong with a smart pretty lady, I’ve bagged a couple of high value husbands.
Swear women just be talking
A man at a family homes dinner 🍽 that I didn't know told me out of no where, I don't care about your education. I was confused because I did not bring up my profession or education. I think I should be the only 1 that cares about my education because I poad for it & made the sacrifices for it. With that said, education & career should not be the lead nor the emphasis when getting to know anyone.
On social media y'all lead with it a lot. Men care about nurtures/ caters for them in The Offsprings. Something tangible
@JohnBoyed-fo6fm I am NOT apart of ya'll! Again, I didn't know that msn; didn't identify with him at all. Therefore, his opinion of me was not welcomed or needed.
Yes absolutely. Some U S men are all complaining about U S women.
Exactly 💯 💯
Good luck
its robust af seeing them fold because we arent gonna change to the BS....
LOL what are you gonna do now?!?!?!? adapt or die
ASA FAMILY :
Well said and well done .
Women hear well , but they aren’t really listening too well !
B1 and reparations family , and in the form of CASH AND LAND payments as well also !
ASA FAMILY :
She became the man she needed. 😅😂
She should date a guy who wants to be a stay at home dad
Facts but they're hypergamous nature won't let them date down they want to date up with an established guy and control him and compete with him and try to boss him around. And that guy that's established doesn't want no independent boss babe s3x only 🤣🤣🤣
What Katt Williams said about masculine women is true. 😂😂
She is built like a linebacker 😅
Only time I care how much a woman makes is when she says "you want to be a house husband" if she want's to keep me then it matters otherwise.... who cares?
I have heard young men complaining about 4 who think they are 8 and 9's. Be humble and feminine if you want the man you want. If not good luck.
What's with this number rating? Do we get to rate men as well? If so, what number do you give yourself??😊 I'm just asking no shade.
No they think the can look like singer (1) seal and get a 10. This is why I stress to women to have their own so they don't pick men based on what he makes. Pick them for how they treat them and look as well
@@melissasavage5996seal is rich so his looks are irrelevant. Average handsome men can be single forever especially if we have standards no matter how humble they are.
You all still stressing the American woman? You better get you a South or Central American woman and witness the closest thing to royalty.
If she went to a job interview saying how well she cooked, cleaned, keep house, nurture kids, supportive of her man ......would she get the job? NO...............because she is there for a job and NOT relationship......so WHY are they bringing their skills to a relationship?
wow
They all say the exact same thing but want different results. Clearly most women do not listen to men.
With all that stuff she says she has, I have the same stuff & I've never mentioned any of that to any woman. She'd eventually find out just by hanging around.
She got all these accomplishments, and will still want a man to come in and take care of her..that wanting a man that is equal to them is crap, they wlil want a man that is greater
I think she's looking for companionship, not a man to take care of her. That's why she listed her ability to financially take care of herself.
She's a selfish 304 probably in a lot of debt is not fit more friendly he's very masculine. She doesn't seem like a nurturer orator she better just go to the sperm bank. No man of value will put up with her.
You all still stressing the American woman? You better get you a South or Central American woman and witness the closest thing to royalty.
You all still stressing the American woman? You better get you a South or Central American woman and witness the closest thing to royalty.
Lies lies lies .
Most men these days , care about a woman's accomplishments.
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hmmmmm...why not talk about the elephant in the room? You're excellent on talking about every thing else. I just want to know whom I'm talking to???
Did you just refer to her as an elephant?? An Elephant 🐘 I'm dead 😅😂
@@coacosweets Those that know KNOW.
@@coacosweets Nah, I'm a black woman. Saying it's a 'Western issue' is disingenuous. With Yt women the complexion for protection and higher wage earners is almost a given. Don't be mixin' me in their mess.
@mflournoy2971 Oh, OK!! Now I agree. That whole part 👍🏾👍🏾
@@coacosweets WE already know we can go deeper. Some things are better off when we 'GET IT' on the ride back home. God bless and thanks for passing my way. ❤
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She kinda heavy
Phil double standards. God bless the child who has his own ".
I can’t with her.
🗣️ what that mouf do? Can you cook steak 🥩 and potatoes 🥔 how many babies you want?
So she has all those achievements but 0 personality traits. Outside her degrees and certicates everything she mentions is here today and gone tomorrow.
Her attitude is bad but not so her body.
Yall sound silly.
I dont get how a woman being accomplished is a turn off unless you have an insecurity
And since were leading with strawman and hypotheticals -- what if you meet a woman who started her own nursery and cooking business -- then whats the problem with that? And even if its not related to those, I've dated hard working women who cooked and clean so im lost why saying you also are accomplished means you wouldn't
These same guys that get turned off by that want a traditional housewife type but couldnt afford a single income family lifestyle, generally speaking
I tried to be Mr.Hero and date down so ive done what this guy is preaching and it aint no different.
As long as it aint onlyfans, im all for a date or two
You're not going to change biology and what we men are attracted to. We want a nurturer/ cater of a woman for not only us but far offsprings. Men are the go-getters and the creators of resources and women are the creators of children that's how it's supposed to be women are not supposed to be stressed out and on antidepressant medication trying to compete and be like men. What's the point of a woman becoming go-getter? Statistics show and data shows women are still hypergamous they don't do 50/50 relationships they will never turn a male peasant into a king let him be to stay at home Dad while there out working they still want a man that they can look up to a leader a provider a protector a provisioner but that man don't want the back. What he wants is a nice feminine submissive nurturer/ cater/helpmate
She's a non-Proverbs 31:10-31 Woman! Next!
Notice also she doesn't do eye contact which tells me she's insecure, she's the man she wants
Yup, she should enjoy herself.
She accomplished in life but she is a failure in the fit catagory.
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A yo who's man's is this
No should care about accomplishment s.
Modern western women? What's that?
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So, what do men care about? Stop the nonsense and have an intelligent conversation and stop putting down women.
The fact that y'all don't know what men want. Is the sad part. You're going to have to figure it out it's biology don't nobody teach us how to understand and attract women we already know when women want. It's biology figure it out