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This was at another school but it still happens at my current one. My teacher would always say get into groups, and I'd always be alone. I cried so much.
What makes me nervous about school? -Leaving home -Not being in an environment or place I normally feel safe at -Everything I’m familiar with won’t be with me. -My friends and I don’t have the same classes. -Embarrassing myself -basically a lot of things
Things that make me anxious in school: - having no friends in class - group projects - presentations - bullies - being lonely cause no one cares - when the teacher says to partner up but you're always end up alone... - the teacher forcing you to join a group and you know that the kids in that group don't want you there -the teacher calling on you and you don't know what to say - tests -bad grades - homework - big projects that take months to finish (i want to die) - any kind of social interaction - loud and obnoxious people - German and French class - yeah pretty much everything. Edit: Damn... this comment is still getting attention somehow. I just wanted to say that I'm feeling a lot more good now and my relations with the people around me has improved. School is also going well for me even though there's still many things that cause me anxiety. But for the most part I'm doing way better then I ever was and I'm really greatful for that Also thanks for the many replies. It's comforting to know that I'm not alone. I really hope it gets better for you all as well
Yeah, you know what I’m only 10 and I’m struggling big time! I’ve not been getting the best sleep just from the thought of school, today I go back, so please pray for me.....lol 😭😭
@@avengers_geek1423 you will be fine. Try to sleep more and don’t procrastinate. Waiting till the last second to get an assignment completed will lower its quality and put more stress you. But don’t speed through to get it out of the way either. Hope your doing well 💚
im tired haha same but after I wake up I get really hyped up after I get a shower and prepare for school since it’s my last year aswell but tbh school is fun cuz it makes your day better with all your classmates making jokes or saying funny stories it just cheers me up😂 also best of luck!!!
For anyone going back to school (I am tomorrow), here’s some advice or how I think about it: - It’s school, what’s the worst it can do to you? Teachers can’t hurt you, even your parents have more control over you than them! - You’ve done this SO many times, do you even remember what happened last time? What subjects you had? No! This is the same as anytime else we are going back to school and you won’t remember this in a year. - These years won’t affect you later on in life. You can still succeed! To me, its crazy to think about that all kids around the world, 5 days a week, for hours meet together in a building to sit at a desk and learn. It’s just a few hours, at the end of the day, we all go back to our houses and live separate lives. Isn’t that weird to think about? Besides, we all have at least one friend we spend time with at school, who makes our lives so much better. They will make this experience way less scary! We are all going through the same thing and we will go survive through it. Good luck everyone!
Yes but noo my true friend is at another class 😭 its hard cuz today there will be hard classes and toxic people in my class and the problem with me is also cant concentrating properly in schoolwork and its always hard 😩😭💔
I’m always so worried about going back to school because of my social life. I don’t have any friends at my school, so I usually eat lunch alone and I just try to survive. Today I had an anxiety attack at the thought of being alone for the rest of my school life. I really don’t wanna life like this forever
I'm so sorry that you have to face school alone. I know the thought makes you anxious but try to be friendly with every interaction you encounter. Please don't shut people out~ It's a daunting task but, if you do this to every person you talk to, chances are that there will be one person who'll be interested to be your friend. And if you still feel lonely, join a club, get a hobby, or hang out at a place you like in school a lot. You are bound to meet some decent people there :3 It's okay to be alone~ It's okay to be anxious. But don't let that stop you from having fun. I just hope you have a fantastic school year this year and make lots of great friends X3 Good luck!
bites tell me about it I don't even have classes or lunch and recess with any of my friends and I feel like everyone hates me and that they don't want to be my friend and during school I had a breakdown
bites i relate , idk why but im just really anxious and i can’t find people i can really bond with atm. Previous year was a really tough year for me, i kept isolating my self and shit. I was/kinda am really lonely. (My english is bad sorry)
Ask to sit with other people that are alone! Or with anyone else that seems nice tbh. Or try to make some friends in class and ask if you could eat lunch with them. You can change your current situation, but yes it's hard.
me too, i feel like i'm gonna have a fucking heart attack, all the anxiety is tiring. since were going back to school face to face for me, people keep fucking mentioning school and it's so close and it makes me wanna die. like i will have a panic attack, idk what to do, it's been a long time since i've went face to face ever since quarantine, and i was really bad at focusing online, and i had a short attention spam, it sucks, for real.
Same, the worst is when you're alone in a class and worry about having to group up with people when you literally know no one. I get anxious about this too much
Same...specially when I have to “choose”the groups but I end up in a random group with people I hate and then I don’t wanna even do the work,then I wanna cry,then I just want to go home....I hate school.
ana leigh i’m also afraid of two teachers but i told my favourite teacher about them and they got someone to help me out, i hope you and other people can get something from this and i wish you all a good life ahead of you 😊
I was miserable in high school and most other school years. I had no friends really until my last year of college. That year was the best of my life because I was on the school paper. So I was working with people toward a common goal. We were able to bond over the job we did. If I could go back to school I would do the following: 1. Learn everything about health possible...organic food lots of water and meditation. 2. Exercise...find a exercise class or hobby I would do that..self defense classes would have made me a lot more confident in particular like boxing or jiu jitsu .3. join a club to find like minded people and weed out the jerks who just wanna screw around smoke and talk junk.
Things I’m worrying about Rn: -people finding things out about me that’s private - getting new friends -seeing people - talking to old friends - thinking I’m always doing something wrong - think I’m a bad person - just scared to talk to people again
oh god, i know what that's like. My first day back is tomorrow and im fucking terrified. Especially as im the 'weird kid' and stuff. No one wants to be my friend, plus literelly everyone hates me.
Things that make me worried or fall apart 1. Social interaction 2. Presentations/Performances you have to do SOLO 3. Making friends 4. Projects that takes more than a day to finish and deadline is in a day 5. Being a leader or the person who stands in front of the class 6 The fact that all the projects and all the effort you put into your work is enough for an "average" grade.
People staring at me is a fear of mine as well... and I only go certain days and I'm being told we will go to full schedule soon and I'm scared, crying, anxious about it.
@@melodyymoon Ik, I feel like every mistake I make people will notice and make fun of me...now I always keep my head down so I don't have to make eye contact 😅
Honestly, for me the most anxiety-inducing thing about school is socializing. I really have one friend but I only see her every other day in two classes and that's it. On A days I feel really lonely. I try to talk to other people but they already have their own friends, and I don't want to bother them y'know? Worst thing would be to be known as the "annoying kid"
Things that make me anxious about school: -being late -being lonely (sitting alone in class, ect.) -not knowing the answer to teacher's question -having to perform something in front of the whole class -the teacher calling me to answer the question and write it on the board (when i had to go write something on the board i would always shake really badly and feel like im about to pass out or burst into tears) -teacher calling my name and the whole class staring at me (i hate being in center of everyone's attention) -answering a question wrong (if i got a question wrong i would overthink it for a long time over and over and over again. Same overthinking goes to when i make ANY kind of a mistake) -being aware of everyone thinking im weird -i feel uncomfortable in school in general (cause of the amount of people) -handing in the test first (cuz as i said, i dont like having much attention) Idk what else to write down rn Actually when im writing this comment, im feeling anxious cause im scared someone will make fun of me (cuz i wrote something wrong or something like that) Have a good day •Reading this after a year, this is a dose of second hand embarrassment.
Once every single girl in my class sat in the back row line of tables together and I was sat in the row two lines in front all on my own with no one and it was like a lot of tables together in a line
the best advice i've gotten is remembering we all die one day. kinda morbid but it helps :) if ur scared about making a bad impression or something just remind yourself you have one life and even if you do something really embarrassing and they don't like you, we will all die one day and nobody will remember that moment. another really good thing to remember is that nobody really cares about your embarrassing moments. we're so obsessed with how people will think about us that we don't really think it is the other way around as well. sure they might not be at the same level but they still are worrying about what you think of them too. also try to name an instance where somebody has embarrassed themselves in front of you. you can probably only think of a few. now think of what impression you got from them. you probably think it's funny if anything ! it's important to laugh off your mistakes, other people will follow :)
I am starting Hi th School this year and I am REALLY nervous. Especially because I am moving up from a school of only 14 people so it is more the crowds than anything.....
It's not even three weeks into the new school year and i've already had 4 mental breakdowns. Not exaggerating. two and a half weeks in, on FOUR SEPERATE OCCASIONS, Sobbing, screaming, hyperventilation, thinking of negative things i shouldnt, etc.
@@_Yombo wdym imposter??? Im saying the comment you made to someone who feels upset or hurt by things irl wasnt the right choice like whats the point of what you said?
Things that make me worried 1. School 2.getting some one new to like then it's clear that they don't like you back 3. Being lonely 4.being late to class 5.bullys 6. Trying to make friends (I have 3 now made a new friend today) 7. Am scared that people will secretly be rude to me in social media I don't have snapchat or anything today I saw this girl zooming in my face then laughing at it 8. Failing I am right now 9. teacher choosing on you when you don't know what to say 10.parents getting mad because my low grades (I have higher now) 11. I HATE MATH
Maren Mol thanks I know am not alone but I am going to experience loneliness my bestfriend was the worst we are not friends anymore and my other friend is moving I joined this group of friends they don't talk to me a lot and I feel invisible thanks so much tho
To start off I am a quiet person and find it hard to make friends and can be very awkward at times. If that wasnt bad enough I get back to school anxiety all the time however my first day of Junior year high school was so bad today. I bearly had close friends in my classes and had no friends during my lunch period. I am seriously thinking about dropping out. I see some of my graduated friends stories on snapchat and I see how happy they are either at work or at home taking a break seeing this just makes me want to graduate quicker. I will update you guys on May 21, 2020
I was suppose to update you guys on May 21st but do to the current world events my school was canceled for the remainder of the year. So I've decided to just update you guys. To start off I was wrong for what I said. My Junior year ended up being the best year out of my previous years. I had lots of fun hung out with friends and overall just enjoyed the year. I wish this year didnt have to end so quick but it is what it is. I now really regret saying how I wish I would graduate fast. I am now sadden by the fact that next year is my last year of high school and will never ever see most people from school. Lesson: Enjoy your school times because one day we will look back and wish we were still in high school
Final update: It's officially been 2 years since I wrote this. I can not lie its been 4 months since graduation and I miss HS so much. Im just happy that I wont feel that back to school anxiety😂. Good luck to those of you still in School dont worry, push on, and best of luck in your future I hope all of you reach your dreams.
I have school tomorrow and I don't know how I feel about it...I have a club that starts next week and I think I forgot everything...to be honest that's making me more nervous than anything. They all hate me😔
I’m so anxious about school because I’m scared of disappointing my parents and myself and my stomach just feels wrong and I’m scared for tests, quizzes, homework. I just don’t wanna go I just wanna stay hidden away, I’m gonna cry now
@@artdaze a lot of people struggle from school anxiety, believe in yourself because you all have beautiful souls and you guys deserve happiness and peace. I hope school goes well for you and please don’t let the anxiety win❤️
@@kassadi2523 no you’re not the only one. You are an amazing person and I want you to fight that anxiety away and bring peace in. I know you can do it and please fight the anxiety because it will be your enemy for almost your whole life! I believe in you and I hope you have a great school year
i hate school so much, next month i have a full week of exam, and i dont know why but i'm already worrying about it now. i'm literally crying while watching this video, i still dont know how to calm myself down. i really wanna try to talk about it to my parents about it, but i'm too scared to talk to them, whenever i talk about school stuffs i always cried for some reason. exam, i fear it, literally i am so scared of it, since this quarantine thing i started to search my homework answers on google since i though that i would graduate before online school is over, and also because of i really cant understand a single thing about what i'm studying. i hate it, is it just me being dramatic or what, i just hate it. i know this comment is really long but i just wanna share how i'm feeling, and also sorry if i use some wrong grammar or my grammar is not so correct, english isnt my first language.
come back from school eat sleep eat study do chores sleep wake up do the same thing cant use ps or pc or laptop or go outside even on weekends i can barley use my phone and i dont feel like studying and i need good grades or else im dead
Presentations or group projects....I’ve had really bad experiences...One year in my history class I had a panic attack when giving a presentation and the teacher just sat there like okay whatever keep going. Then kids started laughing at me. Then after kids continued to make jokes about me. Felt like I was dying yet no one cared. I still get laughed at from time to time due to my really bad anxiety. So I always back out from group projects or presentations. I was recently cast and accepted to an acting/modeling school on the weekends and I have my normal public school on weekdays (obviously) and my talent school is trying to help me with my anxiety so hopefully I’ll be better this year.
The main reason why I'm always anxious is because I usually always end up eating lunch alone because of my social anxiety. It's especially hard for me a closeted introvert to go out and make friends because I move so much. It's hard getting comfortable at one place to later restart, and make new friends. Super scared for tomorrow since it's my first day of school there :((
What makes me anxious about going to school? People, teachers, getting on time, having to hold pee, having to finish work on time, having to go to lunch when I NEVER want to, presentations, group projects, physical education, and not being able to just be with myself and not focus on anyone or anything else (even when I'm making my work)
I overthink everyday of going to school so I end up crying for a few minutes- and ruin my day with doing everything at last moment and end up having more anxiety and look like a fool sitting at my seat not knowing anything kind of pushes me to have confidence bc I care about ppls opinions I always try to do something I always struggle with laziness My eyes would hurt a lot if I stay on my phone to much so that’s a thing also 🤦♀️
@@FantasmaOlvidado1 number 2 "they pretend they didn't hear when you said something important to you(emotions etc)/ when you complained about them ignoring you" yea, been there too
Lavendoenix Lav Relationships are so complicated, in my experience i have been not even in 1 that is worth it, I already accepted the fact that i am probably gonna be alone for the rest of my life, but its okay if you are you own best friend i started to found joy in my solitude, its not that bad, sometimes it will get incredibly lonely but i prefer that than to be in a fake relationship, i dont need that burden, my freedom is all i need. Sorry for the bad english and have a good day. ☺️
I’m most scared about finding everything. It’s not necessarily that though, it’s more along the lines of: Being alone while everyone else understands. Reaching awkwardly out for help and admitting that I don’t know what to do The stress of reactions if I walk in late And anxiety about the judgement I receive from all of it.
things that make me anxious : - walking into school late - not being ready when i’m in school eg. being out of breath, drinking water, showing that i need something or am not okay - stomachs rumbling but never being hungry - teachers thinking you aren’t listening but you are your just quiet - when people say “ that’s the first time i’ve heard you talk “ - and honestly so fking many more but i can’t list them all
its good to be a nerd I SUCK AT MATH IM IN 7th grade and I dont even know most x tables man!! its because I was in special needs and I didnt learn times!! god I wish I was a nerd I hate being the dummest kid in the world!!
@@huskyhuskymac1530 Uh you don't need to memorize times table it's just a convenience thing, you can always solve it on paper or use fingers. I'm studying calculus, statistics, and high level algebra, but I still need calculator for my times table XD, that's why they allow calculators for minor problems in college.
hey, everyone out there who is stressing about school, don’t! I felt this way too, but hey, everything gets better. Try to keep a positive mindset, and think about the positives about school. Scared of a presentation? Don’t be. People won’t just openly judge you, especially if you haven’t done anything wrong. Your mind just makes you think that way. Scared of getting called on by the teacher? Me too. But I realized, if you don’t know the answer, don’t be afraid to speak up. We’re not perfect beings, and teachers don’t expect us to know everything either.
Thank you, it’s just easier said than done to not be nervous, my school starts tomorrow and I am kinda panicking because I just had a big fight with my parents and idk if they will help me if I need help
Sadie's Randomness That’s alright! I’m sure your relationship with your parents will get better soon. If not, you always have your teacher and friends to help you with your work. :)
@@-monmon-885 I’m going into year 8 next year. When I was going into year 7 I felt EXACTLY like you. I was terrified. Honestly everyone else feels the same. There’s so many more people at middle school then there is at primary. You will meet loads of different Types of people there. Everyone will feel the exact same as you. Nobody on there first day are gonna be mean or loud. They will feel the exact same- scared and worried about what people will think about them. They won’t even notice you because they will be worrying about what people think about THEM. Honestly the teachers understand it’s your first day and that you’re nervous. Everyone is
Everything that includes contact with other people being teachers or students makes me anxious, Physical education makes me anxious too I don't like PE because everyone in my class is good at volleyball and I suck at it (and this year we are doing a lot of volleyball), I'm always afraid of making mistakes and saying something stupid things.
I really needed this because literally in the second day of school I've had 3 anxiety attack and whenever I even see the door of the school I get really anxious
Anyone watching this who has school tommorow or is just anxious about school in general, you got this. Nothing lasts forever. Your doing great. Allow yourself to feel anxious. Dont let your 'what if' thoughts control your life when the future is unknown.
But i am not good at studies and i don't really go to school alot and because of that my teachers are always mad at me and i have my school tmrw and i don't know what will happen this is just the starting of my 10th grade( it's not starting i have already survived 4 monts of this class but ya) and ik my teacher is gonna insult me tmrw because i was again absent and i couldn't study because of stress!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Im anxious about social interactions since I absolutely suck, presentations, good grades, and I mostly don’t disappoint others, I just think of scenarios where I mess up
Don’t worry about presentations it’s important to remember they are for your teacher! Nobody else. Nobody else opinion matters because everybody is worrying about themselves and thinking the same thing . Other people just find things easier because they don’t care about your opinion. Be yourself and that’s the best thing you can do. Believe in yourself and you can do anything! Try to catch yourself making up scenarios and change them to positive because 90% of the time it’s all in your head. You will be fine 😊
right before covid, i’ve lost all my friends and didn’t have anyone to group up with. i’m also not very good at keeping up with homework. teachers are always intimidating and belittling me. i get very awkward during free time as i don’t have any friends so books were my escape. when the pandemic hit, it was the greatest relief. it felt like all the burden of expectations and pressure were magically lifted off of my shoulders but in a week, schools are opening back up and i don’t think i’m ready to go through all that bs again :’) currently overwhelmed with anxiety but i don’t have anyone to talk to. my online friends are busy with school, my parents tell me my allergies are made up so God knows what they’ll say when I tell them I don’t feel mentally healthy and my siblings are too young to understand. yall stay safe tho
Same 😞i am in 6 grade and i have anxiety since kindergarten i used to vomit in school and before school and now people know me as a weird kid i don't talk i already embarrassed myself so many times in 3rd and 2nd grade also i didn't go to school in January and February everyone laughs at me i always end up having an mental breakdown nobody wants to talk to me and i hesitant to talk with others and end up not talking i used to have a friend but now she doesn't talk to me i tried to talk to her but she just spoke for a min and go back talking to other students i just wanna be free i wanna stay in a cave forever.*sigh*nobody is gonna even see this. This is literally a second hand embarrassed so sorry for wasting your time:(:.
Same...My schools opening tomorrow and ever since quarantine started, my anxiety worsen and i was just really desperate i would do anything so that i won't have to go to school. I told my mom about this before but...Things didn't go my way. Let's just say it got worse. She just doesn't understand anything and she make me feel like she's the victim. I honestly hate it when parent tell me "God is everything. Talk to god. God will help." Like. How can he even help me? He does nothing. I can't see, hear or feel him. As an atheist it's just so annoying and i wish i would open up and tell them i don't believe in their gods but they might bully me.
Here's what is in my anxiety bag!: * To start, its a blue bag with flowers that is as big as a typical pencil case, and looks just like one. Very discreet. *I have essential oils, mint and lavender *A tiny bottle with gold glitter and water that i can shake and I love the sight of glitter. It really helps. *This little purple and green texured "fidget tool" It's one of those sensory FX brand things from walmart. *I wear an amithyst necklace that I LOVE and its pretty to look at, and great to feel. *Lastly, I have this little pin glitter keychain from five below, that i hook onto the lil bag! I hope this helps and gives you more inspiration. Remember; you are loved and beautiful/handsome and 100% valid. You got this.
I severely suffered for years because of school, I would throw up and cry hundreds of times throughout the school years. I was never a bad kid I was just really scared and missed a lot of class because of it which always led me to the principals. I was getting verbally abused by my mom about my stubbornness to go to school and she would yell so bad and scream almost every morning before threatening me. I needed help and years later went into a really hard journey of therapy that didn’t help much, now my problem has turned into me not wanting to go to work and I always feel like a failure, I haven’t worked in years. I’m a hard worker and was a good student, I just didn’t have the right help when I needed it and now I feel like all I have is trauma from so many little things
They're making everyone in my district go back to school in person this year. It's been a whole year and a half of completely virtual for me and I was hoping that would continue because I mostly enjoyed it. But nope. Now I get to look forward to the anxiety of being inside a classroom (now with kids who don't care about mask mandates because neither do their parents) exemplified.
Hello, i came back again. I know it's common to be nervous on their first day of school. But for me it's been 3 days, i still feel worried, scared, emotional about it. I am trying my best to overcome it, and i hope you guys too! I'm sure things will eventually gets better.
We got into a group and they needed us to draw something scenery, they knew that I know how to draw so they assigned it to me. But my “it's not enough” mindset got in and now I haven't gone to school for a week because of the guilt I feel for my classmates.
Dang, now that I think of it, anxiety has been controlling basically my entire life. So, my elementary school days mainly consisted of online school, as well as homeschool, so I didn't at all feel prepared to be going to a public junior high. I had gone over where all of my classes were about a thousand times, but it still felt really confusing. I was scared about my locker, making friends, and even just getting good grades. I honestly regret how I acted back then.. the amount of excused absences I had.. and sure enough, my grades got worse. I felt trapped that entire year and didn't make a single friend. It was a terrifying experience. But this year, I'm trying out a slightly new program. Once a week, we'll do a fun social activity, and then the rest of the learning is online. I think this will match my pace just a bit more, and maybe I'll even make some friends. I want to make it my lifetime goal to overcome this anxiety, I want to be able to make friends, and feel free again. But it all starts one step at a time, and if I do that, I think I'll be able to experience life like I never have before. I'd assume by the video title that I'm very likely not the only one here who has anxiety, it's slightly reassuring to know that I'm not alone with this. So, to all my anxious friends out there, let's get through this next school year together! We're all stronger than we think, and we can overcome this anxiety and live life to its fullest! We got this!
Reasons I’m nervous about going back to school: - What people will think of me (I want everyone to like me) - What the boys will think of me - I don’t like being a “loser.” I want to be known as one of the popular girls. (Dont ask why... I don’t know either) - I specifically know who is going to be in my class, and there are a couple of boys I like.... this is going to be very uncomfortable for me being in the same class as them :((( - Gym time UGH. I’m not a competitive type of girl. And keep in mind our gym class is NOT split (boys w boys, girls w girls) so all the boys always yell at u if u do something wrong. And for me it’s very embarrassing and uncomfortable for example doing bench ball infront of everyone. So I always take a note with me saying “I sprained my leg” so I can sit out. - I have severe anxiety (especially in school) And when I do, I get VERY nauseous. Which is horrible. I even had to call my mom a couple of times because of it. - I ABSOLUTELY HATE SEATING PLANS! Especially if I’m seated with boys. I’m very uncomfortable sitting with the people I don’t like. So this is a big deal for me. - I also cant STAND presentations. I always ask the teacher if I can present privately to her. 😓 P.S we are getting a new teacher for our class this year and I’m afraid this teacher might not allow me to present privately... - NEEDLES. Believe it or not.. our school always gives kids needles ( grade 7’s and grade 8’s) I got a few last year, and let me tell u it is horrible waiting in line seeing all the other kids chill, and then there’s u who wants to cry. I need to get another needle this year ( grade 8 ) so I’m hella nervous 😩 If anyone has advice for me on how to survive this year... plz let me know ASAP :)
Horseloverhear2 I don’t have any advice but how was 8th grade? It was probably not bad cause you had to miss school cause of the pandemic I’m guessing?
Prisha Dabhi to be honest, 8th grade was better than expected :D I had a rlly funny teacher and great students. The boys in my class that I didn’t like, luckily got moved at the beginning of the year and got switched to another class. I did have anxiety nausea a couple of times, when I had to present in front of the class, but thankfully our teacher didn’t make us present a lot. I also lost some friends, but gained new ones. The year ended off early (cuz of the pendemic) but overall I’d say that it was good. I’m going into high school now, without a lot of my friends, so I rlly hope it will be another great year. Thanks so much for asking and bringing this back to me ❤️
Horseloverhear2 glad to hear it went well, i hope your freshman year goes good and you get nice friends, and good grades. Also I hope your anxiety goes away. Good luck for your coming days! I’m going to 8th grade this year and I hope everything goes great.
I am so scared 😭. I am going back tomorrow and the shops are closed and I can't get my supplies or my school uniform. I have been having panick attacks all morning. I just.....I can't breathe. I don't wanna move but I have so much that I have to do.
Being happy in school then the covid 19 stopped the school And I don’t know what happen and when the school is open Which makes me stress and think how my life will be 😑😑😑
School starts tomorrow and I feel anxiously ill. And the fact that I'll be a "new kid" is not making things any better. I am afraid I won't get along with my peers, that I won't do well in my studies, and everything would be new and unfamiliar. I hope this academic year would treat all of us well. For the person reading this, everything will be alright eventually.
School starts in 1 day I’m nervous, I’m unprepared and have no friends at school, but I know that it will be everyone’s first day and everyone will feel just as nervous as I so yeah I hope I’ll be fine. I try to imagine my dream lifestyle and pretend im living that lifestyle so hope that works. Goodluck to everyone:)) I’ll try to update Update!- so, I was very lonely and wasn’t the happiest today but let’s hope the rest of the school year is better:) update 2: I accepted the fact that I might be lonely but I actually communicated a lot more with people today. I still feel sad and I barely have an appetite anymore,but it’s okay I hope things get better
What makes me nervous, is that honestly I’m scared if I don’t get questions right and then the class just makes fun of me. I also just feel like I can’t be myself in school..
it’s not that i don’t like school, it’s really fun it’s just every morning when i wake up i can’t go. i panic, cry, and freak out. and when i stay home halfway through the day i feel so guilty.
Things that made me anxious in school: - anxiety hits me as soon I step my foots in school - assemblies (have to perform something on stage) - im so insecure about myself - becomes introvert - lack confidence - Attendance (kinda low voice) - socializing with students - scared of some teachers - average in studies - no many friends - scared to go in corridor (feels like everyone is judging me) - pretty, beautiful, girls in group makes me jealous - hw/ studies
Things that make my mind implode with stress: -Talking with people -Having to answer questions in class -Group projects -Presentations -Eating during lunch -The "spotlight" in any scenario -People noticing or asking about my mental state. -Accidentally messing up even if nobody noticed. -Where I sit -Having to tell everybody I do meet that I am trans and my preferred name/pronouns.
i have a lot of the same problems :/ i’m also trans but i don’t tell anyone except my one friend knows who goes to another school but, on top of everything you said i have to deal with being misgendered all the time but i’m used to it
If anyone sees this now. I’m really nervous about going back to school because we are sticking in forms and staying in bubbles and I don’t have friends in my form so I’m dreading it so if you’re seeing this then don’t worry because it will get better eventually
•create your own anti anxiety kit 0:33 •walk through your schedule before your first day 1:38 •fix your sleeping schedule 2:20 •invest in a good planner/diary/journal 2:55 •plan your "me time" on the weekends 3:47
What makes me anxious about school is everything! I can't relax myself when doing presentations and recitations (especially individuals) I will get really nervous when presenting and me getting nervous ruins everything I do because I can't focus, my voice will get shaky, my moves will be awkward and I can't do any eye contacts to my teachers. I am quite a loner but I do have some friends but most of the time they'll leave me, I really hate being alone especially during the time when you need to go to the cafeteria, It felt like everything is awkward and It feels like everyone is watching me because I am alone. Meeting new people is also every difficult for me because I don't know their intentions whether they want to be friends with or say some uncomfortable words. I don't participate in any competition in our school cause I hate opening up, my overthinked that I'll fail, I'll feel embarrassed or I'll feel like everyone is going to laugh at me. I hate saying my problems to my friends and my classmates they'll think I'm too dramatic, I always put a smile on my face. When I'm grade 8 there's an award called "most cheerful" 4 of my classmates got it and I was one of them, I feel happy and also sad at the same time it was a mixed emotion, they didn't really know that I am struggling at anything. I always going to be kind to them so that I'll build up my reputation to everyone. Sometimes when there's a project I'll give up my time to rest finish it all up. I also printed some paperworks for them because not all of us have any printers, I would print up like 23 copies of our worksheet and I would distribute them in the morning so that they can fill them up. Everything is a struggle especially when it's back to school.
oml I’m so nervous and scared :,( mostly because of gym, pacer test, presentations, just talking in general to the ppl at my school Idk how to explain it, if my friends will be in my classes, and just everything ngl I’m prolly gonna cry on the first day of school tbh
I like banana milk omg nooo i forgot about gym i have to ho to my new school in 2 hours im so nervous not the school part but people part because i have erythrophobia and social anxiety
School starting tomorrow for me. This is my first year going in person. The last 2 years I was online, now I’m back in person. I’m so nervous, I don’t know..But I just want to say I feel you ❤️
1. a lot of people. 2. I'm expected to talk to them. 3. sometimes i don't know where to go, and just any other uncertainty. 4. loud. 5. preparing for class. 6. deadlines i just want to curl up in my blanket and lie. home is so comfortable 😭 and when i get home, i just watch short videos because I'm really tired but it doesn't help, and then i should do my homework, and then i do it at school.
What im stressed about since the comment section is somehow still sorta active: - Not having any friends in most of my classes - When one of the friends that I do have classes with goes with someone else for a group project and im left alone and sad - Finding classes on time - Making friends - Learning how to open a locker again - Getting lost and getting to class late but the door is locked so you have to knock - going to the right classes at the wrong times - accidently crying and not being able to make it stop - Gym - Swimming in gym - Changing in gym - Presentations - Those teachers who think that the kids love them and try to act cool The only two classes on my schedule that I dont hate already are Art and Lunch because the art teacher is very chill and nice and my whole grade has lunch together so I can see my friends.
I had social anxiety episodes the first two years when I went to a new school due to being a loner with everyone else already settled in one “gang” or another. the problem is still there, but anxiety doesn’t get to me as much as before. it’s kind of sad, but I guess instead of actually working on socializing with new people I got to enjoy what I had by studying, reading and drawing more.
What happens to me every yr Bad butterflies Stomach aches Feeling nauseous At lunch I feel sick and don’t wanna eat even at break I only like talking to some close friends the rest of the people I don’t wanna interact with My headteacher changes so I hate when rules change
school is even worse with erythrophobia omg. if you don’t know already erythrophobia is a irrational fear of blushing/going red. so since your always so worried about it even eye contact or just someone glancing at you and looking away is enough to make you panic and go blood red. (especially when your as pale as snow, like me). it’s even worse when you do it so much your known for being the kid who blushes for no reason. for anyone who is suffering from erythrophobia (including myself) I want you to know you are NOT alone. I know sometimes you might feel as if you are because most people aren’t even aware of what erythrophobia is. nothing is “wrong with you” and you are valid. of one of those annoying kids point out that you are red just say “mhm! red is a nice color on me”. don’t let it get to you! you’re so much better than that. and if it does get to you it’s alright just try to build up your confidence as you go and find ways that help you cope with it since there is medication (yet I believe) or cure. your amazing! stay safe. :)
i always feel anxious when i get back to university 😂😂 worried about all the things. friends, lectures, subjects. this video helps me to at least relax a little bit, anyway i just got back to uni what a coincidence.
What makes me anxious is -not being good enough -me struggling in my math class :( -don’t wanna be judged -not looking good enough -rude teachers -bullies -no time for fun since there’s a lot of homework and sh -making fake friends -feeling homesick -not spending enough time with my pets :( I’m an sensitive over thinker
Woah i relate to every single point of this list 😕 but i bet that we'll both get through it (try to think of the future and all of the freedom you'll get once you're done with school, its what i do and it sorta helps)
Things that make me anxious: -im not close with any classmates that I have -the prof might be scary -the requirements might be very heavy or need a social interaction -thesis stuff that i need to do and i still dont have much of an idea Im very scared.
Why i hate school : -waking up at 6 am and lack of sleeping -leaving home where I belong and I feel safe at -I will loose myself and start forgetting about myself and I question myself -I try to be like others -being far far sway from things you have talent to do -I simply have no time for my personal life and I can't even exercise -kids are not my type and I have nothing to say to them and it's even harder when you are introverted I really hate school and I'm happy that I have 1 year left to end highschool
Sameee 😭😭 and the worst teachers calling u without raising ur hand in a hard class and i always can't concentrate on schoolwork its just the worst and in 1 hour im going to school 😫😭😔
@@frstarz Starz.school is hard for everyone. Specially in country that I'm living. We should take exam for entering universities and pressure above us is undeniably hard. We should study hard af for about 3 years. And I can tell that teachers in school are the best part of my day. I lost myself in thoughts and homeworks and everything. But the only hope that's left for me it's that one day I can study and work in my favorite major Just this
what make me anxious about going back to school? being lonely, having no friends,making friends,talking to people,people from last year(idk why but im scared to see them this year),school schedules,teachers,new environment,covid 19 :( stay safe everyone!!
I went to school last tuesday, and I couldn't find any classes. So I asked some kids in my school. Apparently (hard word hope you know what I mean...) those kids were my classmates. They said just stay with us then you'll be alright. I have already made alot of friends at my new school :D
Mariah Noemi I was a freshman last year and I was so worried that I wouldn’t be able to make friends because I’ve been in my old school since I was like 8 now I’m 15 so it was a big change for me but you can always find someone you can talk to and you can end up being really good friends even if you’re not the most outgoing person
Things im worried and nervous about school . :: -people barging into the bathrooms ( with no locks ) without knowing that im inside the bathroom changing my pads , -no one to comfort me like a friend would do . -bullying me because i have pimples on my forehead . -teacher shaming me for everything
i’m so scared to go back because with one year of not having in person school my anxiety has become so much more tolerable and i don’t want all of my progress to go out the window
Things I’m anxious about in school - being out of place - other people judging me - failing a test/recitation - being lonely - thinking I’m doing something wrong - not acting based upon what they like
I'm so scared to go back to offline learning after a whole year of online classes. I don't have friends and almost everybody in my class has their own group and they don't pay attention to anything I say, that's what I feel. And I feel really scared cause my books are incomplete and most of the time I doubt myself even if I know the right answer , I stand like a dumb person when teachers ask me any question tho I know the right answer I doubt myself and that makes me feel anxious, that if I give the wrong answer all my classmates will judge me and make fun of me. I LACK SELF CONFIDENCE SINCE I JOINED COACHING INSTITUTE FOR JEE PREPARATION. I was a good student. I topped in almost all the exams and when I joined the coaching classes my self confidence was reduced I don't trust myself anymore, I always feel anxious about the unknown and I start getting panic attacks before going to the classes. My parents don't understand me and the say that I'm overacting. I don't know how to express myself. Can anyone give me an advice regarding my problem? 😢
Same happens with me when I go to school I feel anxious having some anxiety, having a feeling of vomiting n headcahe also being scared of test projects which makes me more anxious . Don't know how it arised but I can relate my pain wit all these things also feel sorry for myself and u
DUDE I CAN TRULY RELATE TO YOUR SITUATION. Im good at the studying and im confident in the stuff i've learnt. I can even explain it to anyone but when the teacher asks me a question I FREAK OUT. I GET PANIC ATTACKS and I can literally feel my heart pounding in those situations. ITS NOT THE BOOKS IM SCARED OF!!! ITS THE PEOPLE!!! :/
@@omdyamannagol2288 Glad to know that someone can relate to my situation. But finally after wasting 2 years of my life in that stupid institution, I'm free. I stopped attending their JEE classes after 12th boards. I'm studying from UA-cam for my upcoming competitive examination. Life cannot be more peaceful. I am starting to improve and there is no more stress or anxiety. I'm gaining my self confidence slowly. I hope I can crack my upcoming exam. A small advice, try communicating with your parents, approach your mom first. Tell her about your problems. They have the best solution for everything. You will grow out of this situation only and only if you communicate with ur family and close friends. 😇
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Psych2Go thank you! :D
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Psych2Go for where I am, it is almost the end of the school term
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What makes me anxious is everything from getting class on time, talking to people, and after school activities
Relatable.
SAMMEE
same
Me too
I’m glad some people know how I feel ( ˘ω˘ )
scariest thing is when the teacher says to get in groups but you have no friends in the class
Yup
REPRESSED TEARS yeah
This was at another school but it still happens at my current one. My teacher would always say get into groups, and I'd always be alone. I cried so much.
🙁
REPRESSED TEARS I never have anyone
What makes me nervous about school?
-Leaving home
-Not being in an environment or place I normally feel safe at
-Everything I’m familiar with won’t be with me.
-My friends and I don’t have the same classes.
-Embarrassing myself
-basically a lot of things
Bruh same. Schools are reopened and I don't want to go
@@Not_a_Schizo same bro I am scared af
@@Not_a_Schizo Yup..here in my country we had festival and now it is over..I AM SCARED
I can relate so much!!
@@preetyghimire1669 yes in my country too, there isn't a festival now for the rest of the year
Things that make me anxious in school:
- having no friends in class
- group projects
- presentations
- bullies
- being lonely cause no one cares
- when the teacher says to partner up but you're always end up alone...
- the teacher forcing you to join a group and you know that the kids in that group don't want you there
-the teacher calling on you and you don't know what to say
- tests
-bad grades
- homework
- big projects that take months to finish (i want to die)
- any kind of social interaction
- loud and obnoxious people
- German and French class
- yeah pretty much everything.
Edit: Damn... this comment is still getting attention somehow. I just wanted to say that I'm feeling a lot more good now and my relations with the people around me has improved. School is also going well for me even though there's still many things that cause me anxiety. But for the most part I'm doing way better then I ever was and I'm really greatful for that
Also thanks for the many replies. It's comforting to know that I'm not alone. I really hope it gets better for you all as well
gaara wtf are u doing here
This is such a mood though..
Bro r u my secret identical twin
UGH me to :(
I go to high school tmmrw ah
WHAT MAKES ME SAD IS THAT MOST OF US SEARCHED FOR THIS 😭
;(
Ye
Yeah, you know what I’m only 10 and I’m struggling big time! I’ve not been getting the best sleep just from the thought of school, today I go back, so please pray for me.....lol 😭😭
@@avengers_geek1423 you will be fine. Try to sleep more and don’t procrastinate. Waiting till the last second to get an assignment completed will lower its quality and put more stress you. But don’t speed through to get it out of the way either. Hope your doing well 💚
@@sirnarwhal6425 Thanks so much, you are a very kind person. Thing I love about this is that you don't even know me and you still care :)))
i think the saddest thing about this is how miserable it sounds. I hate school so much.
I don't hate it I'm just scared.
i have heard that school memories r the best...but for me n some students just like me it would have become a biggest nightmare in their lifes
Same, I don't hate but I am scared but u are not alone
I’m so worried about school I’m literally crying.
wow thank you guys for liking my comment I promise you things get better💕
Same
I litterly cried of laughter reading this bc it so true and I'm having that issue now and it's the worst experience ever.
Plz don't be worried about it. Everything will be okay and be strong always :)
I'm going to a new secondary school I'm soo anxious
@@faizeenraza7998 thanks
school starts tomorrow and im so anxious i just wanna hide in a cave forever.
im tired haha same but after I wake up I get really hyped up after I get a shower and prepare for school since it’s my last year aswell but tbh school is fun cuz it makes your day better with all your classmates making jokes or saying funny stories it just cheers me up😂 also best of luck!!!
Me too...
That’s how I feel pretty much every year
Same 😭
Don’t worry...everything will be fine ❤️
For anyone going back to school (I am tomorrow), here’s some advice or how I think about it:
- It’s school, what’s the worst it can do to you? Teachers can’t hurt you, even your parents have more control over you than them!
- You’ve done this SO many times, do you even remember what happened last time? What subjects you had? No! This is the same as anytime else we are going back to school and you won’t remember this in a year.
- These years won’t affect you later on in life. You can still succeed!
To me, its crazy to think about that all kids around the world, 5 days a week, for hours meet together in a building to sit at a desk and learn. It’s just a few hours, at the end of the day, we all go back to our houses and live separate lives. Isn’t that weird to think about? Besides, we all have at least one friend we spend time with at school, who makes our lives so much better. They will make this experience way less scary! We are all going through the same thing and we will go survive through it. Good luck everyone!
Yes but noo my true friend is at another class 😭 its hard cuz today there will be hard classes and toxic people in my class and the problem with me is also cant concentrating properly in schoolwork and its always hard 😩😭💔
The friend that makes my life better doesn't exist.
@@Lvyelyn Relatable
Wait what friend? Im literally just an air to everyone
We go 6 days here in India and our school times sometimes is 8 hrs 😢
I’m always so worried about going back to school because of my social life. I don’t have any friends at my school, so I usually eat lunch alone and I just try to survive. Today I had an anxiety attack at the thought of being alone for the rest of my school life. I really don’t wanna life like this forever
I relate to this so much
I'm so sorry that you have to face school alone. I know the thought makes you anxious but try to be friendly with every interaction you encounter. Please don't shut people out~ It's a daunting task but, if you do this to every person you talk to, chances are that there will be one person who'll be interested to be your friend.
And if you still feel lonely, join a club, get a hobby, or hang out at a place you like in school a lot. You are bound to meet some decent people there :3
It's okay to be alone~ It's okay to be anxious. But don't let that stop you from having fun. I just hope you have a fantastic school year this year and make lots of great friends X3 Good luck!
bites tell me about it I don't even have classes or lunch and recess with any of my friends and I feel like everyone hates me and that they don't want to be my friend and during school I had a breakdown
bites i relate , idk why but im just really anxious and i can’t find people i can really bond with atm. Previous year was a really tough year for me, i kept isolating my self and shit. I was/kinda am really lonely.
(My english is bad sorry)
Ask to sit with other people that are alone! Or with anyone else that seems nice tbh. Or try to make some friends in class and ask if you could eat lunch with them. You can change your current situation, but yes it's hard.
Right on time! Already got an anxiety attack from the thought that I'll fail this year so I need this
Aww. Hope the best!
You got this Kyla. You're going to crush it this year
Kyra Slegers dame I always get scared I will fail , but I always pass my classes.
I legit start to cry when the teacher forces us into a group activity like I don't wanna get to know people I just wanna finish school
me too, i feel like i'm gonna have a fucking heart attack, all the anxiety is tiring. since were going back to school face to face for me, people keep fucking mentioning school and it's so close and it makes me wanna die. like i will have a panic attack, idk what to do, it's been a long time since i've went face to face ever since quarantine, and i was really bad at focusing online, and i had a short attention spam, it sucks, for real.
Same that's tough
Whenever I hear about school I get panic like I cry daily after coming back from school 🙃
Whats makes me anxious about school is talking to people , groupworks, being alone and also one of my teacher , she makes me so nervous ...
Same, the worst is when you're alone in a class and worry about having to group up with people when you literally know no one. I get anxious about this too much
Same...specially when I have to “choose”the groups but I end up in a random group with people I hate and then I don’t wanna even do the work,then I wanna cry,then I just want to go home....I hate school.
ana leigh i’m also afraid of two teachers but i told my favourite teacher about them and they got someone to help me out, i hope you and other people can get something from this and i wish you all a good life ahead of you 😊
My teacher makes me super Nervous bc when she is mad she will get super mad
Same my teacher even bullied me. She said to my whole class that I’m stupid and that everything I do is wrong
I spend the whole summer worrying about going back to school and I just want to stop worrying
✋☹️
I was miserable in high school and most other school years. I had no friends really until my last year of college. That year was the best of my life because I was on the school paper. So I was working with people toward a common goal. We were able to bond over the job we did. If I could go back to school I would do the following: 1. Learn everything about health possible...organic food lots of water and meditation. 2. Exercise...find a exercise class or hobby I would do that..self defense classes would have made me a lot more confident in particular like boxing or jiu jitsu .3. join a club to find like minded people and weed out the jerks who just wanna screw around smoke and talk junk.
same 😭😭 I want to enjoy my summer but I keep getting anxiety about school
And I thought I was the only one going insane...
Bruh same thought I was the only one. If any you find solution for this please tell me.
Things I’m worrying about Rn:
-people finding things out about me that’s private
- getting new friends
-seeing people
- talking to old friends
- thinking I’m always doing something wrong
- think I’m a bad person
- just scared to talk to people again
This doesn't help because I get anxiety from people at school.
Same i feel you, todsy's the firstvday again Abd i feel so sick im shaking so much
I feel you
Same. Tomorrow is my first day of school and I’m so scared that I’ll get a panic attack
oh god, i know what that's like. My first day back is tomorrow and im fucking terrified. Especially as im the 'weird kid' and stuff. No one wants to be my friend, plus literelly everyone hates me.
GarretWattsIsSpooky oh my god tomorrow is my first day to a brand new highschool and I’m honestly so nervous mostly frim the students and teachers
Things that make me worried or fall apart
1. Social interaction
2. Presentations/Performances you have to do SOLO
3. Making friends
4. Projects that takes more than a day to finish and deadline is in a day
5. Being a leader or the person who stands in front of the class
6 The fact that all the projects and all the effort you put into your work is enough for an "average" grade.
Yes this is exactly me
Took the words right out my mouth
People staring at me is a fear of mine as well... and I only go certain days and I'm being told we will go to full schedule soon and I'm scared, crying, anxious about it.
And o agree with you..
@@melodyymoon Ik, I feel like every mistake I make people will notice and make fun of me...now I always keep my head down so I don't have to make eye contact 😅
Honestly, for me the most anxiety-inducing thing about school is socializing. I really have one friend but I only see her every other day in two classes and that's it. On A days I feel really lonely. I try to talk to other people but they already have their own friends, and I don't want to bother them y'know? Worst thing would be to be known as the "annoying kid"
Exactly
i feel you..
also i love your pfp
@@arandomhumanontheinternet617 thanks!
I can’t even bring myself to talk to anyone because I’ve often been told that my voice is disgusting
Things that make me anxious about school:
-being late
-being lonely (sitting alone in class, ect.)
-not knowing the answer to teacher's question
-having to perform something in front of the whole class
-the teacher calling me to answer the question and write it on the board (when i had to go write something on the board i would always shake really badly and feel like im about to pass out or burst into tears)
-teacher calling my name and the whole class staring at me (i hate being in center of everyone's attention)
-answering a question wrong (if i got a question wrong i would overthink it for a long time over and over and over again. Same overthinking goes to when i make ANY kind of a mistake)
-being aware of everyone thinking im weird
-i feel uncomfortable in school in general (cause of the amount of people)
-handing in the test first (cuz as i said, i dont like having much attention)
Idk what else to write down rn
Actually when im writing this comment, im feeling anxious cause im scared someone will make fun of me (cuz i wrote something wrong or something like that)
Have a good day
•Reading this after a year, this is a dose of second hand embarrassment.
same ;((
Cold showers bro
Finally someone who worries about the same things that i do!
I’m honestly surprised that someone has the exact same view of when it comes to school as me..
Once every single girl in my class sat in the back row line of tables together and I was sat in the row two lines in front all on my own with no one and it was like a lot of tables together in a line
I used to struggle with this when at school. Unfortunately we didn't have videos like this back then lol
Agree
Sameeee
After watching this I'm still anxious
hannah harris 😬
At least your not in school lucky
the best advice i've gotten is remembering we all die one day. kinda morbid but it helps :) if ur scared about making a bad impression or something just remind yourself you have one life and even if you do something really embarrassing and they don't like you, we will all die one day and nobody will remember that moment.
another really good thing to remember is that nobody really cares about your embarrassing moments. we're so obsessed with how people will think about us that we don't really think it is the other way around as well. sure they might not be at the same level but they still are worrying about what you think of them too.
also try to name an instance where somebody has embarrassed themselves in front of you. you can probably only think of a few. now think of what impression you got from them. you probably think it's funny if anything ! it's important to laugh off your mistakes, other people will follow :)
Thank you! While reading this, it made me feel better ❤️🩹 school starts tomorrow for me.
Remember the universe is extremely huge and we are ants
who is going back to school after quaratine?? well.... I DO AND I'M SCARED
physical school is back in a few months and im hella anxious about it. I just want to stay at home bcoz i suck at socializing ))):
@Asri Rajbhandari my biggest fear is walking in the classroom and everyone staring at you 🥺
going back to school monday and i’m scared. it’s a new school that i’ve never been to. don’t know anyone or where anything is
@@clover2110 literally i’m crying trying not to make any noise i physically don’t have it in me to go through school again i go back next tuesday
I’m going back to school tomorrow and I’m dreading it
Don’t g me wrong but this video made me more anxious
@@qu1nceeee I feel you so much
Let's b strong for next year :(✊
Alexia Simiand im so anxious about it :/
I am starting Hi th School this year and I am REALLY nervous. Especially because I am moving up from a school of only 14 people so it is more the crowds than anything.....
@@anna-ew9fy me too but we're queens we're gonna do it let's be confident✊
Exactly 😩
It's not even three weeks into the new school year and i've already had 4 mental breakdowns. Not exaggerating. two and a half weeks in, on FOUR SEPERATE OCCASIONS, Sobbing, screaming, hyperventilation, thinking of negative things i shouldnt, etc.
Weebs 🤓
@@_Yombo what a comment to leave for someone who is venting 🤡
@@mordicai-cq1cr Venting!? They're the impostor!?
@@_Yombo wdym imposter??? Im saying the comment you made to someone who feels upset or hurt by things irl wasnt the right choice like whats the point of what you said?
@@mordicai-cq1cr It was a joke
Things that make me worried
1. School
2.getting some one new to like then it's clear that they don't like you back
3. Being lonely
4.being late to class
5.bullys
6. Trying to make friends (I have 3 now made a new friend today)
7. Am scared that people will secretly be rude to me in social media I don't have snapchat or anything today I saw this girl zooming in my face then laughing at it
8. Failing I am right now
9. teacher choosing on you when you don't know what to say
10.parents getting mad because my low grades (I have higher now)
11. I HATE MATH
2 and 3 especially. I've had 2 happen alot.
1, 3 and presentations make me worried af.
•Ssapphire• same omfg
Maren Mol thanks I know am not alone but I am going to experience loneliness my bestfriend was the worst we are not friends anymore and my other friend is moving I joined this group of friends they don't talk to me a lot and I feel invisible thanks so much tho
Maren Mol they remind me of my 5th and 4th grade friends they was the best I don't want to look lonely because it's my fear I need them
To start off I am a quiet person and find it hard to make friends and can be very awkward at times. If that wasnt bad enough I get back to school anxiety all the time however my first day of Junior year high school was so bad today. I bearly had close friends in my classes and had no friends during my lunch period. I am seriously thinking about dropping out. I see some of my graduated friends stories on snapchat and I see how happy they are either at work or at home taking a break seeing this just makes me want to graduate quicker. I will update you guys on May 21, 2020
@no name 2005 I am also in 8th grade and it's scary yes, but it's over much quicker than you except :)
You got this g see you in may twenty won twenty twenty.
I was suppose to update you guys on May 21st but do to the current world events my school was canceled for the remainder of the year. So I've decided to just update you guys. To start off I was wrong for what I said. My Junior year ended up being the best year out of my previous years. I had lots of fun hung out with friends and overall just enjoyed the year. I wish this year didnt have to end so quick but it is what it is. I now really regret saying how I wish I would graduate fast. I am now sadden by the fact that next year is my last year of high school and will never ever see most people from school.
Lesson: Enjoy your school times because one day we will look back and wish we were still in high school
@@zerdtheg3995 Thx bro
Final update: It's officially been 2 years since I wrote this. I can not lie its been 4 months since graduation and I miss HS so much. Im just happy that I wont feel that back to school anxiety😂. Good luck to those of you still in School dont worry, push on, and best of luck in your future I hope all of you reach your dreams.
It’s currently 1am and I’m having an anxiety attack and I have school tomorrow 👁👄👁
same 😭
me currently having anxiety because my teacher wants to talk to me in like 5 minutes and my grades are also dropping👩❤️💋👩
How was it?
I have school tomorrow and I don't know how I feel about it...I have a club that starts next week and I think I forgot everything...to be honest that's making me more nervous than anything. They all hate me😔
@@z4hr4_x me too, my school open tomorrow and it my first year in high school. I’m so scared 😟
I’m so anxious about school because I’m scared of disappointing my parents and myself and my stomach just feels wrong and I’m scared for tests, quizzes, homework. I just don’t wanna go I just wanna stay hidden away, I’m gonna cry now
I thought I was the only one...
@@artdaze me too :(
@@artdaze a lot of people struggle from school anxiety, believe in yourself because you all have beautiful souls and you guys deserve happiness and peace. I hope school goes well for you and please don’t let the anxiety win❤️
@@kassadi2523 no you’re not the only one. You are an amazing person and I want you to fight that anxiety away and bring peace in. I know you can do it and please fight the anxiety because it will be your enemy for almost your whole life! I believe in you and I hope you have a great school year
I’m so scared school is tomorrow and I already vomited
The entire school makes me anxious I'm anxious of people it's SOCIAL ANXIETY 😭😭😭💔
i hate school so much, next month i have a full week of exam, and i dont know why but i'm already worrying about it now. i'm literally crying while watching this video, i still dont know how to calm myself down. i really wanna try to talk about it to my parents about it, but i'm too scared to talk to them, whenever i talk about school stuffs i always cried for some reason. exam, i fear it, literally i am so scared of it, since this quarantine thing i started to search my homework answers on google since i though that i would graduate before online school is over, and also because of i really cant understand a single thing about what i'm studying. i hate it, is it just me being dramatic or what, i just hate it.
i know this comment is really long but i just wanna share how i'm feeling, and also sorry if i use some wrong grammar or my grammar is not so correct, english isnt my first language.
I understand you perfectly. I literally don’t know any of the math we learned because i never understood it so I looked stuff up.
come back from school eat sleep eat study do chores sleep wake up do the same thing cant use ps or pc or laptop or go outside even on weekends i can barley use my phone and i dont feel like studying and i need good grades or else im dead
It said "class 1-A" plus the kid was drawing all might BNHA fans confirmed
What’s BNHA?
@@atheris1641 in Japanese it's boku no hero academia in English it's my hero academia an anime highly recommend it if you didn't watch it
Oh thanks! I’ve heard of it but I’ve never actually watched any animes, might try it :)
@@atheris1641 it's really great my favourite anime currently
Presentations or group projects....I’ve had really bad experiences...One year in my history class I had a panic attack when giving a presentation and the teacher just sat there like okay whatever keep going. Then kids started laughing at me. Then after kids continued to make jokes about me. Felt like I was dying yet no one cared. I still get laughed at from time to time due to my really bad anxiety. So I always back out from group projects or presentations. I was recently cast and accepted to an acting/modeling school on the weekends and I have my normal public school on weekdays (obviously) and my talent school is trying to help me with my anxiety so hopefully I’ll be better this year.
It will get better =)
ik this comment is 2 years ago but I’m sorry bb and I hope things got better 💕
The main reason why I'm always anxious is because I usually always end up eating lunch alone because of my social anxiety. It's especially hard for me a closeted introvert to go out and make friends because I move so much. It's hard getting comfortable at one place to later restart, and make new friends. Super scared for tomorrow since it's my first day of school there :((
Update: it went well met some friends to sit with! Had a great day ^^
@@isaverse7851 yay I’m so happy for you!
What makes me anxious about going to school?
People, teachers, getting on time, having to hold pee, having to finish work on time, having to go to lunch when I NEVER want to, presentations, group projects, physical education, and not being able to just be with myself and not focus on anyone or anything else (even when I'm making my work)
I overthink everyday of going to school so I end up crying for a few minutes- and ruin my day with doing everything at last moment and end up having more anxiety and look like a fool sitting at my seat not knowing anything kind of pushes me to have confidence bc I care about ppls opinions I always try to do something I always struggle with laziness My eyes would hurt a lot if I stay on my phone to much so that’s a thing also 🤦♀️
Same, I hope you are doing well
The fact that one time the teacher asked me "you have no friend?" in front of the whole class and I just can't answer
Hey can you do "signs you're falling for the wrong person" if its okay.
I'll like that too
Good idea.
Number 1 alert sign “ they show more interest in your things or money rather than yourself”. Been there it fucking blows.
@@FantasmaOlvidado1 number 2 "they pretend they didn't hear when you said something important to you(emotions etc)/ when you complained about them ignoring you" yea, been there too
Lavendoenix Lav Relationships are so complicated, in my experience i have been not even in 1 that is worth it, I already accepted the fact that i am probably gonna be alone for the rest of my life, but its okay if you are you own best friend i started to found joy in my solitude, its not that bad, sometimes it will get incredibly lonely but i prefer that than to be in a fake relationship, i dont need that burden, my freedom is all i need. Sorry for the bad english and have a good day. ☺️
I’m most scared about finding everything. It’s not necessarily that though, it’s more along the lines of:
Being alone while everyone else understands.
Reaching awkwardly out for help and admitting that I don’t know what to do
The stress of reactions if I walk in late
And anxiety about the judgement I receive from all of it.
Trust me man. Most people don’t know what they’re doing. But some people give off the impression that they do because they travel in large groups.
This is the exact same thing for me .😭😭😭😭
I feel you
But we all are in this together ❤️
Same
things that make me anxious :
- walking into school late
- not being ready when i’m in school eg. being out of breath, drinking water, showing that i need something or am not okay
- stomachs rumbling but never being hungry
- teachers thinking you aren’t listening but you are your just quiet
- when people say “ that’s the first time i’ve heard you talk “
- and honestly so fking many more but i can’t list them all
My fears are passing, getting in class in time, and basically just trying to fit in since I am more of a nerd,
its good to be a nerd I SUCK AT MATH IM IN 7th grade and I dont even know most x tables man!! its because I was in special needs and I didnt learn times!! god I wish I was a nerd I hate being the dummest kid in the world!!
@@huskyhuskymac1530
Uh you don't need to memorize times table it's just a convenience thing, you can always solve it on paper or use fingers.
I'm studying calculus, statistics, and high level algebra, but I still need calculator for my times table XD, that's why they allow calculators for minor problems in college.
hey, everyone out there who is stressing about school, don’t! I felt this way too, but hey, everything gets better. Try to keep a positive mindset, and think about the positives about school. Scared of a presentation? Don’t be. People won’t just openly judge you, especially if you haven’t done anything wrong. Your mind just makes you think that way.
Scared of getting called on by the teacher? Me too. But I realized, if you don’t know the answer, don’t be afraid to speak up. We’re not perfect beings, and teachers don’t expect us to know everything either.
I’m just scared of the corona 🙃
Thank you, it’s just easier said than done to not be nervous, my school starts tomorrow and I am kinda panicking because I just had a big fight with my parents and idk if they will help me if I need help
Sadie's Randomness
That’s alright! I’m sure your relationship with your parents will get better soon. If not, you always have your teacher and friends to help you with your work. :)
thank you :)
For me I have a talent show real soon, I'm scared that I will embarrass myself in front of everyone!
I’m scared of:
Group projects
All the people
P.e
Certain subjects
Not being able to get to get to my chair
Teachers
After school stuff
And more...
Yes I’m going to school tomorrow I’m scared hope no one bully me or make fun of me hope I make good friends and new ones
@@-monmon-885 are you starting middle school?
@@Beth4lifez yes!:(((
@@-monmon-885 I’m going into year 8 next year. When I was going into year 7 I felt EXACTLY like you. I was terrified. Honestly everyone else feels the same. There’s so many more people at middle school then there is at primary. You will meet loads of different Types of people there. Everyone will feel the exact same as you. Nobody on there first day are gonna be mean or loud. They will feel the exact same- scared and worried about what people will think about them. They won’t even notice you because they will be worrying about what people think about THEM. Honestly the teachers understand it’s your first day and that you’re nervous. Everyone is
@@Beth4lifez I’m in 8th grade too! When I went to school now no one care about you or look at you weirdly I has happy!:)
Everything that includes contact with other people being teachers or students makes me anxious, Physical education makes me anxious too I don't like PE because everyone in my class is good at volleyball and I suck at it (and this year we are doing a lot of volleyball), I'm always afraid of making mistakes and saying something stupid things.
I love quarantine online school so much. Now it's over, and school starts again, it's so much worse
I really needed this because literally in the second day of school I've had 3 anxiety attack and whenever I even see the door of the school I get really anxious
Anyone watching this who has school tommorow or is just anxious about school in general, you got this. Nothing lasts forever. Your doing great. Allow yourself to feel anxious. Dont let your 'what if' thoughts control your life when the future is unknown.
Stella Fairfield thank you🤧
@@tartar9891 your welcome😇
But i am not good at studies and i don't really go to school alot and because of that my teachers are always mad at me and i have my school tmrw and i don't know what will happen this is just the starting of my 10th grade( it's not starting i have already survived 4 monts of this class but ya) and ik my teacher is gonna insult me tmrw because i was again absent and i couldn't study because of stress!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Im anxious about social interactions since I absolutely suck, presentations, good grades, and I mostly don’t disappoint others, I just think of scenarios where I mess up
Don’t worry about presentations it’s important to remember they are for your teacher! Nobody else. Nobody else opinion matters because everybody is worrying about themselves and thinking the same thing . Other people just find things easier because they don’t care about your opinion. Be yourself and that’s the best thing you can do. Believe in yourself and you can do anything! Try to catch yourself making up scenarios and change them to positive because 90% of the time it’s all in your head. You will be fine 😊
@@alexav9536 For me, the teacher makes us do presentations for other students..
right before covid, i’ve lost all my friends and didn’t have anyone to group up with. i’m also not very good at keeping up with homework. teachers are always intimidating and belittling me. i get very awkward during free time as i don’t have any friends so books were my escape. when the pandemic hit, it was the greatest relief. it felt like all the burden of expectations and pressure were magically lifted off of my shoulders but in a week, schools are opening back up and i don’t think i’m ready to go through all that bs again :’)
currently overwhelmed with anxiety but i don’t have anyone to talk to. my online friends are busy with school, my parents tell me my allergies are made up so God knows what they’ll say when I tell them I don’t feel mentally healthy and my siblings are too young to understand. yall stay safe tho
Same 😞i am in 6 grade and i have anxiety since kindergarten i used to vomit in school and before school and now people know me as a weird kid i don't talk i already embarrassed myself so many times in 3rd and 2nd grade also i didn't go to school in January and February everyone laughs at me i always end up having an mental breakdown nobody wants to talk to me and i hesitant to talk with others and end up not talking i used to have a friend but now she doesn't talk to me i tried to talk to her but she just spoke for a min and go back talking to other students i just wanna be free i wanna stay in a cave forever.*sigh*nobody is gonna even see this. This is literally a second hand embarrassed so sorry for wasting your time:(:.
Same...My schools opening tomorrow and ever since quarantine started, my anxiety worsen and i was just really desperate i would do anything so that i won't have to go to school. I told my mom about this before but...Things didn't go my way. Let's just say it got worse. She just doesn't understand anything and she make me feel like she's the victim.
I honestly hate it when parent tell me "God is everything. Talk to god. God will help."
Like. How can he even help me? He does nothing. I can't see, hear or feel him. As an atheist it's just so annoying and i wish i would open up and tell them i don't believe in their gods but they might bully me.
Here's what is in my anxiety bag!:
* To start, its a blue bag with flowers that is as big as a typical pencil case, and looks just like one. Very discreet.
*I have essential oils, mint and lavender
*A tiny bottle with gold glitter and water that i can shake and I love the sight of glitter. It really helps.
*This little purple and green texured "fidget tool" It's one of those sensory FX brand things from walmart.
*I wear an amithyst necklace that I LOVE and its pretty to look at, and great to feel.
*Lastly, I have this little pin glitter keychain from five below, that i hook onto the lil bag!
I hope this helps and gives you more inspiration. Remember; you are loved and beautiful/handsome and 100% valid. You got this.
thank you ❤️
I severely suffered for years because of school, I would throw up and cry hundreds of times throughout the school years. I was never a bad kid I was just really scared and missed a lot of class because of it which always led me to the principals. I was getting verbally abused by my mom about my stubbornness to go to school and she would yell so bad and scream almost every morning before threatening me. I needed help and years later went into a really hard journey of therapy that didn’t help much, now my problem has turned into me not wanting to go to work and I always feel like a failure, I haven’t worked in years. I’m a hard worker and was a good student, I just didn’t have the right help when I needed it and now I feel like all I have is trauma from so many little things
Only if you had not shit others and carry your own work and think that your fine
We all have 1 life righttttt
Hope your having a wonderful life
POV: u don’t want to go back at all and ur stressing
They're making everyone in my district go back to school in person this year. It's been a whole year and a half of completely virtual for me and I was hoping that would continue because I mostly enjoyed it. But nope. Now I get to look forward to the anxiety of being inside a classroom (now with kids who don't care about mask mandates because neither do their parents) exemplified.
@Solomon Odonkoh ?
@Solomon Odonkoh you've confused me so much that my anxiety for school has disappeared, I thank you
@@whoopnoop4043 what did Solomon Odonkoh commented?
Hello, i came back again. I know it's common to be nervous on their first day of school. But for me it's been 3 days, i still feel worried, scared, emotional about it. I am trying my best to overcome it, and i hope you guys too! I'm sure things will eventually gets better.
Great mindset bro, I hope things get better for you in school!
We got into a group and they needed us to draw something scenery, they knew that I know how to draw so they assigned it to me. But my “it's not enough” mindset got in and now I haven't gone to school for a week because of the guilt I feel for my classmates.
What about school gives me anxiety? The fact that I have no friends
thank you so much for this! i have anxiety, and going back to school really stresses me out. this makes me feel a lot better about going back :)
Thank you for these, I recently had an anxiety attack at school
I know everyone is constantly judging me and I just want to be nice to people but everyone thinks I’m stupid.
Dang, now that I think of it, anxiety has been controlling basically my entire life. So, my elementary school days mainly consisted of online school, as well as homeschool, so I didn't at all feel prepared to be going to a public junior high. I had gone over where all of my classes were about a thousand times, but it still felt really confusing. I was scared about my locker, making friends, and even just getting good grades. I honestly regret how I acted back then.. the amount of excused absences I had.. and sure enough, my grades got worse. I felt trapped that entire year and didn't make a single friend. It was a terrifying experience. But this year, I'm trying out a slightly new program. Once a week, we'll do a fun social activity, and then the rest of the learning is online. I think this will match my pace just a bit more, and maybe I'll even make some friends. I want to make it my lifetime goal to overcome this anxiety, I want to be able to make friends, and feel free again. But it all starts one step at a time, and if I do that, I think I'll be able to experience life like I never have before. I'd assume by the video title that I'm very likely not the only one here who has anxiety, it's slightly reassuring to know that I'm not alone with this. So, to all my anxious friends out there, let's get through this next school year together! We're all stronger than we think, and we can overcome this anxiety and live life to its fullest! We got this!
Reasons I’m nervous about going back to school:
- What people will think of me (I want everyone to like me)
- What the boys will think of me
- I don’t like being a “loser.” I want to be known as one of the popular girls. (Dont ask why... I don’t know either)
- I specifically know who is going to be in my class, and there are a couple of boys I like.... this is going to be very uncomfortable for me being in the same class as them :(((
- Gym time UGH. I’m not a competitive type of girl. And keep in mind our gym class is NOT split (boys w boys, girls w girls) so all the boys always yell at u if u do something wrong. And for me it’s very embarrassing and uncomfortable for example doing bench ball infront of everyone. So I always take a note with me saying “I sprained my leg” so I can sit out.
- I have severe anxiety (especially in school) And when I do, I get VERY nauseous. Which is horrible. I even had to call my mom a couple of times because of it.
- I ABSOLUTELY HATE SEATING PLANS! Especially if I’m seated with boys. I’m very uncomfortable sitting with the people I don’t like. So this is a big deal for me.
- I also cant STAND presentations. I always ask the teacher if I can present privately to her. 😓 P.S we are getting a new teacher for our class this year and I’m afraid this teacher might not allow me to present privately...
- NEEDLES. Believe it or not.. our school always gives kids needles ( grade 7’s and grade 8’s) I got a few last year, and let me tell u it is horrible waiting in line seeing all the other kids chill, and then there’s u who wants to cry. I need to get another needle this year ( grade 8 ) so I’m hella nervous 😩
If anyone has advice for me on how to survive this year... plz let me know ASAP :)
Horseloverhear2 I don’t have any advice but how was 8th grade? It was probably not bad cause you had to miss school cause of the pandemic I’m guessing?
Prisha Dabhi to be honest, 8th grade was better than expected :D I had a rlly funny teacher and great students. The boys in my class that I didn’t like, luckily got moved at the beginning of the year and got switched to another class. I did have anxiety nausea a couple of times, when I had to present in front of the class, but thankfully our teacher didn’t make us present a lot. I also lost some friends, but gained new ones. The year ended off early (cuz of the pendemic) but overall I’d say that it was good. I’m going into high school now, without a lot of my friends, so I rlly hope it will be another great year. Thanks so much for asking and bringing this back to me ❤️
Horseloverhear2 glad to hear it went well, i hope your freshman year goes good and you get nice friends, and good grades. Also I hope your anxiety goes away. Good luck for your coming days! I’m going to 8th grade this year and I hope everything goes great.
Prisha Dabhi Thank you so much and I’m sure it will! 😊
Don't worry just do mantra Jaap 20 minutes a day and you will be happy
It worked for me
4:08
Goals for the school year -
-TO GET THROUGH IT
Sprinkelle
big ass mood
my school starts tmmrw and im so scared
I am so scared 😭. I am going back tomorrow and the shops are closed and I can't get my supplies or my school uniform. I have been having panick attacks all morning. I just.....I can't breathe. I don't wanna move but I have so much that I have to do.
Same, I much prefer online school.
I am going tomorrow wish me a luck
@@diyabhatt452 good luck wish me luck too I'm going tomorrow
Being happy in school then the covid 19 stopped the school
And I don’t know what happen and when the school is open
Which makes me stress and think how my life will be 😑😑😑
School starts tomorrow and I feel anxiously ill. And the fact that I'll be a "new kid" is not making things any better. I am afraid I won't get along with my peers, that I won't do well in my studies, and everything would be new and unfamiliar. I hope this academic year would treat all of us well. For the person reading this, everything will be alright eventually.
School starts in 1 day I’m nervous, I’m unprepared and have no friends at school, but I know that it will be everyone’s first day and everyone will feel just as nervous as I so yeah I hope I’ll be fine. I try to imagine my dream lifestyle and pretend im living that lifestyle so hope that works. Goodluck to everyone:)) I’ll try to update
Update!- so, I was very lonely and wasn’t the happiest today but let’s hope the rest of the school year is better:)
update 2: I accepted the fact that I might be lonely but I actually communicated a lot more with people today. I still feel sad and I barely have an appetite anymore,but it’s okay I hope things get better
hey! i hope that you first day of school goes well :) update us when you can
@@SalomiiiMSP thankyouuu!!!!!
This is reletable
What makes me nervous, is that honestly I’m scared if I don’t get questions right and then the class just makes fun of me. I also just feel like I can’t be myself in school..
I absolutely relate to you! I understand how you feel. Your not alone 💕 ❤️
Just thinking of going to back to school and feel this pressure makes me wanna cry
Jcne ur not alone lol
it’s not that i don’t like school, it’s really fun it’s just every morning when i wake up i can’t go. i panic, cry, and freak out. and when i stay home halfway through the day i feel so guilty.
i’m not sure what even makes me nervous for school, just whenever i think of school it brings in all of these negative thought of school.
Same I also made a HUGE mistake and my anxiety just went 📈
Heel Entertainment awe it’s ok bb everything will be ok :)
Things that made me anxious in school:
- anxiety hits me as soon I step my foots in school
- assemblies (have to perform something on stage)
- im so insecure about myself
- becomes introvert
- lack confidence
- Attendance (kinda low voice)
- socializing with students
- scared of some teachers
- average in studies
- no many friends
- scared to go in corridor (feels like everyone is judging me)
- pretty, beautiful, girls in group makes me jealous
- hw/ studies
There is not a single point that I can't relate 😔💔
Things that make my mind implode with stress:
-Talking with people
-Having to answer questions in class
-Group projects
-Presentations
-Eating during lunch
-The "spotlight" in any scenario
-People noticing or asking about my mental state.
-Accidentally messing up even if nobody noticed.
-Where I sit
-Having to tell everybody I do meet that I am trans and my preferred name/pronouns.
i have a lot of the same problems :/ i’m also trans but i don’t tell anyone except my one friend knows who goes to another school but, on top of everything you said i have to deal with being misgendered all the time but i’m used to it
If anyone sees this now. I’m really nervous about going back to school because we are sticking in forms and staying in bubbles and I don’t have friends in my form so I’m dreading it so if you’re seeing this then don’t worry because it will get better eventually
How'd it go g
•create your own anti anxiety kit 0:33
•walk through your schedule before your first day 1:38
•fix your sleeping schedule 2:20
•invest in a good planner/diary/journal 2:55
•plan your "me time" on the weekends 3:47
What makes me anxious about school is everything! I can't relax myself when doing presentations and recitations (especially individuals) I will get really nervous when presenting and me getting nervous ruins everything I do because I can't focus, my voice will get shaky, my moves will be awkward and I can't do any eye contacts to my teachers.
I am quite a loner but I do have some friends but most of the time they'll leave me, I really hate being alone especially during the time when you need to go to the cafeteria, It felt like everything is awkward and It feels like everyone is watching me because I am alone. Meeting new people is also every difficult for me because I don't know their intentions whether they want to be friends with or say some uncomfortable words. I don't participate in any competition in our school cause I hate opening up, my overthinked that I'll fail, I'll feel embarrassed or I'll feel like everyone is going to laugh at me. I hate saying my problems to my friends and my classmates they'll think I'm too dramatic, I always put a smile on my face.
When I'm grade 8 there's an award called "most cheerful" 4 of my classmates got it and I was one of them, I feel happy and also sad at the same time it was a mixed emotion, they didn't really know that I am struggling at anything.
I always going to be kind to them so that I'll build up my reputation to everyone. Sometimes when there's a project I'll give up my time to rest finish it all up. I also printed some paperworks for them because not all of us have any printers, I would print up like 23 copies of our worksheet and I would distribute them in the morning so that they can fill them up.
Everything is a struggle especially when it's back to school.
honestly that's such a terrible award to give.
oml I’m so nervous and scared :,(
mostly because of gym, pacer test, presentations, just talking in general to the ppl at my school Idk how to explain it, if my friends will be in my classes, and just everything ngl I’m prolly gonna cry on the first day of school tbh
I like banana milk omg nooo i forgot about gym i have to ho to my new school in 2 hours im so nervous not the school part but people part because i have erythrophobia and social anxiety
im going to highschool after 8th grade is over and im SOO scared. im freaking out and i have mad anxiety😖😖😖
When I go back to school I’m just gonna do my work and eat lunch and go home and do that over and over again wow I sound depressed
To be honnest i will like to do that istead of going on school trips and do sports
Clown I hate sports
Compte Secondaire hope everything goes well! Please update when you come back from school
Watching this the night before my first day of school in my new school 🥲🥲
Good luck! You'll be fine, I'm also here but I'm going into year 10 😔🥲
you’ll be totally fine ! the first day is scary but i promise by the second week you’ll feel like you’ve been there forever, good luck 🧡🧡
Lmao same let’s just hope all goes well tho
Same-
School start like tomorrow
and i fucking need this so MUCH
edited: im literally crying, shivering, teeth chattering, butterflies in my stomach, etc.
2 years passed🔪
School starting tomorrow for me. This is my first year going in person. The last 2 years I was online, now I’m back in person. I’m so nervous, I don’t know..But I just want to say I feel you ❤️
I LOST IT WHEN I SAW ALL MIGHT ON THAT LITTLE PICTURE LMAOO
1. a lot of people.
2. I'm expected to talk to them.
3. sometimes i don't know where to go, and just any other uncertainty.
4. loud.
5. preparing for class.
6. deadlines
i just want to curl up in my blanket and lie. home is so comfortable 😭
and when i get home, i just watch short videos because I'm really tired but it doesn't help, and then i should do my homework, and then i do it at school.
I can feel u sme here
Psych2go: Be sure to sleep.
Me watching at 1 AM and starting school tomorrow: Ah shi-
What im stressed about since the comment section is somehow still sorta active:
- Not having any friends in most of my classes
- When one of the friends that I do have classes with goes with someone else for a group project and im left alone and sad
- Finding classes on time
- Making friends
- Learning how to open a locker again
- Getting lost and getting to class late but the door is locked so you have to knock
- going to the right classes at the wrong times
- accidently crying and not being able to make it stop
- Gym
- Swimming in gym
- Changing in gym
- Presentations
- Those teachers who think that the kids love them and try to act cool
The only two classes on my schedule that I dont hate already are Art and Lunch because the art teacher is very chill and nice and my whole grade has lunch together so I can see my friends.
I'm sorry for everyone feeling so anxious but thank you for making me feel less alone
I had social anxiety episodes the first two years when I went to a new school due to being a loner with everyone else already settled in one “gang” or another. the problem is still there, but anxiety doesn’t get to me as much as before. it’s kind of sad, but I guess instead of actually working on socializing with new people I got to enjoy what I had by studying, reading and drawing more.
What happens to me every yr
Bad butterflies
Stomach aches
Feeling nauseous
At lunch I feel sick and don’t wanna eat even at break
I only like talking to some close friends the rest of the people I don’t wanna interact with
My headteacher changes so I hate when rules change
school is even worse with erythrophobia omg. if you don’t know already erythrophobia is a irrational fear of blushing/going red. so since your always so worried about it even eye contact or just someone glancing at you and looking away is enough to make you panic and go blood red. (especially when your as pale as snow, like me). it’s even worse when you do it so much your known for being the kid who blushes for no reason. for anyone who is suffering from erythrophobia (including myself) I want you to know you are NOT alone. I know sometimes you might feel as if you are because most people aren’t even aware of what erythrophobia is. nothing is “wrong with you” and you are valid. of one of those annoying kids point out that you are red just say “mhm! red is a nice color on me”. don’t let it get to you! you’re so much better than that. and if it does get to you it’s alright just try to build up your confidence as you go and find ways that help you cope with it since there is medication (yet I believe) or cure. your amazing! stay safe. :)
i always feel anxious when i get back to university 😂😂
worried about all the things. friends, lectures, subjects. this video helps me to at least relax a little bit, anyway i just got back to uni what a coincidence.
I'm starting college next year, how is it?
What makes me anxious is
-not being good enough
-me struggling in my math class :(
-don’t wanna be judged
-not looking good enough
-rude teachers
-bullies
-no time for fun since there’s a lot of homework and sh
-making fake friends
-feeling homesick
-not spending enough time with my pets :(
I’m an sensitive over thinker
Woah i relate to every single point of this list 😕 but i bet that we'll both get through it (try to think of the future and all of the freedom you'll get once you're done with school, its what i do and it sorta helps)
Things that make me anxious:
-im not close with any classmates that I have
-the prof might be scary
-the requirements might be very heavy or need a social interaction
-thesis stuff that i need to do and i still dont have much of an idea
Im very scared.
I always feel stressed and lonely when I go to school. Sometimes I even cry to sleep before school.
Same
Its 1 am here and im crying rn
Why i hate school :
-waking up at 6 am and lack of sleeping
-leaving home where I belong and I feel safe at
-I will loose myself and start forgetting about myself and I question myself
-I try to be like others
-being far far sway from things you have talent to do
-I simply have no time for my personal life and I can't even exercise
-kids are not my type and I have nothing to say to them and it's even harder when you are introverted
I really hate school and I'm happy that I have 1 year left to end highschool
Sameee 😭😭 and the worst teachers calling u without raising ur hand in a hard class and i always can't concentrate on schoolwork its just the worst and in 1 hour im going to school 😫😭😔
@@frstarz Starz.school is hard for everyone. Specially in country that I'm living. We should take exam for entering universities and pressure above us is undeniably hard. We should study hard af for about 3 years.
And I can tell that teachers in school are the best part of my day.
I lost myself in thoughts and homeworks and everything.
But the only hope that's left for me it's that one day I can study and work in my favorite major
Just this
@@hastifallah73 oh yeah! :) i came back from school and its better than yesterday! :D
what make me anxious about going back to school? being lonely, having no friends,making friends,talking to people,people from last year(idk why but im scared to see them this year),school schedules,teachers,new environment,covid 19 :( stay safe everyone!!
Thank you!
I love learning but I hate socialising 😫
I went to school last tuesday, and I couldn't find any classes. So I asked some kids in my school. Apparently (hard word hope you know what I mean...) those kids were my classmates. They said just stay with us then you'll be alright. I have already made alot of friends at my new school :D
Aww that's so sweet
ur lucky :( hope that’s me when I start freshman year tomorrow im so nervous
Mariah Noemi I was a freshman last year and I was so worried that I wouldn’t be able to make friends because I’ve been in my old school since I was like 8 now I’m 15 so it was a big change for me but you can always find someone you can talk to and you can end up being really good friends even if you’re not the most outgoing person
Things im worried and nervous about school . ::
-people barging into the bathrooms ( with no locks ) without knowing that im inside the bathroom changing my pads ,
-no one to comfort me like a friend would do .
-bullying me because i have pimples on my forehead .
-teacher shaming me for everything
I get panic attacks quite often and I get anxious that people think I want attention
i’m so scared to go back because with one year of not having in person school my anxiety has become so much more tolerable and i don’t want all of my progress to go out the window
Same
Things I’m anxious about in school
- being out of place
- other people judging me
- failing a test/recitation
- being lonely
- thinking I’m doing something wrong
- not acting based upon what they like
I'm so scared to go back to offline learning after a whole year of online classes. I don't have friends and almost everybody in my class has their own group and they don't pay attention to anything I say, that's what I feel. And I feel really scared cause my books are incomplete and most of the time I doubt myself even if I know the right answer , I stand like a dumb person when teachers ask me any question tho I know the right answer I doubt myself and that makes me feel anxious, that if I give the wrong answer all my classmates will judge me and make fun of me. I LACK SELF CONFIDENCE SINCE I JOINED COACHING INSTITUTE FOR JEE PREPARATION. I was a good student. I topped in almost all the exams and when I joined the coaching classes my self confidence was reduced I don't trust myself anymore, I always feel anxious about the unknown and I start getting panic attacks before going to the classes. My parents don't understand me and the say that I'm overacting. I don't know how to express myself. Can anyone give me an advice regarding my problem? 😢
Same happens with me when I go to school I feel anxious having some anxiety, having a feeling of vomiting n headcahe also being scared of test projects which makes me more anxious . Don't know how it arised but I can relate my pain wit all these things also feel sorry for myself and u
DUDE I CAN TRULY RELATE TO YOUR SITUATION. Im good at the studying and im confident in the stuff i've learnt. I can even explain it to anyone but when the teacher asks me a question I FREAK OUT. I GET PANIC ATTACKS and I can literally feel my heart pounding in those situations.
ITS NOT THE BOOKS IM SCARED OF!!! ITS THE PEOPLE!!!
:/
@@proffoctopus66yearsago22 Exactly. You got my point.
@@omdyamannagol2288 Glad to know that someone can relate to my situation.
But finally after wasting 2 years of my life in that stupid institution, I'm free. I stopped attending their JEE classes after 12th boards. I'm studying from UA-cam for my upcoming competitive examination. Life cannot be more peaceful. I am starting to improve and there is no more stress or anxiety. I'm gaining my self confidence slowly. I hope I can crack my upcoming exam.
A small advice, try communicating with your parents, approach your mom first. Tell her about your problems. They have the best solution for everything. You will grow out of this situation only and only if you communicate with ur family and close friends. 😇