Break-ups, Flirting & More! Q&A | Jessie B & Melanie Murphy
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- Опубліковано 7 лют 2025
- Break-ups, Flirting & More! Q&A | Jessie B & Melanie Murphy
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The way Melanie looks at Jessie honestly just shows how proud she is of her sister
I broke up with my boyfriend two days ago and it's was awful. He got really drunk and I had to ring his mum because he sent me a picture of a pill bottle threatening that if I didn't get back with him he would overdose. It was awful. When his mum stopped him he was just posting horrible stuff about me on his page and I've blocked him but one of his mates anomalously sent me a screenshot of the stuff he has been telling people about me. Some of it is horrible. He told my best friend of 10 years that I slept with her boyfriend of 4 years the night she broke up with him. It's horrible. But Jessie you said to be thankful so I just want to say how thankful I am that you two have these channels and make these videos because they give me an escape. Somewhere my mind can go to forget what is happening at the minute and just enjoy your company even if you will probably never even know who I am. If I am ever in Ireland I'll make sure to look out for you. Thank you both so much for being there for me even if you didn't know you were. I love you both xxx
I hope that you are better. All the best
Being grateful is sooo important!!
„Computer says no!“ YAAAAAS
You two do like really alike!! The nose, eyes, mouth, shape of face, slenderness, so alike!
For relationship question from the person married for only a year. COMMUNICATION is key. Those drives you use to take facilitated that. I've been married 20 years now. There are ups and downs in a relationship. I strongly recommend couples counseling. If you restore the communication and things really are shite and you both want to separate then OK. But restoring the communication may enable him to reconnect to you and enable him to share things that may be stressing him. You shouldn't be miserable in a relationship, I agree. But marriage isn't like a love movie and there are ups and downs. Much love and best wishes to anyone in that situation.
That is so true. Reletionship is not a movie. It is real like life and sometimes it's so deficcult but you just need to work on it and not to let go when something is not the way you want.
I love how long this video was. ❤️
"Your gut knows what your brain hasn't yet figured out"
The highlight of my day when I get a notification for one of your videos!!! Such a good way to relax on a Friday. Really hope to meet you at some point. Lots of love, Holly. Xx
Aw hope you enjoy watching my lovely, chill Fridays are the best! Really hope I meet you at some point too ❤️ Love you lots! xxx
If you're married, go for marriage counselling don't just give up so easily it's a life long commitment. Everyone struggles in marriage but we got through!
I know it's not related to your comment, but I just noticed your name and it's beautiful.
venting through writing really does help! Especially when you just want to let out your negative emotions (not a breakup, necessarily, but like people or situations that you feel frustrated or annoyed by etc) without burdening someone else with all your crap :D
though when it comes to breakups, I would really recommend talking to a close friend/sibling/relative if you can, because, as cliche as you might find it at first, the advice you receive could really help you deal with things; give you a new perspective that you wouldn't get by simply writing your feelings down.
Brilliant video as always! You are lovely and wise girls who never fail to make me smile! :)
This was so helpful. I just broke up with my boyfriend after knowing each other for two years and dating for 8 months. We had plans of moving in together but thing’s fell apart. You guys are my go-to when sad and you always help. Thank you so much!
Jessie why are you so gorgeous? Ive just got broken up by my boyfriend today, and your videos instantly made me smile. Despite the stinging tears in my eyes, looking at your smile brightened my day. You will be my inspiration forever and always. I love you! 😞❤️❤️
My heart goes out to you so so much right now, I know how hard things must be for you right now. I'm so so sorry to hear that you have to be dealing with this because I know it isn't easy at all. Give yourself a period of time to grieve over this, when I had my breakups I gave myself like a week to cry and feel the pain & just let it all out & then after that you're going to just have to be like ye know what I am SO SO much better off without you and I don't need ANYBODY in my life who is going to make me feel this way. Because that's not what love is at the end of the day and you are going to look back at this in a years time, two years, three years and be like wow I have come so far and you will be so bloody proud of yourself. I promise you if I can do it so can you my gorgeous girl! You ARE going to be okay and you ARE going to come out of this SO much stronger on the other side. They came into your life to teach you a lesson and because that lesson was taught it was time for you both to move on - "we met for a reason either your a blessing or a lesson" absolutely love that quote it has got me through so much! Maybe try remind yourself of this when you feel things getting too much! Love you so much & thinking of you xxxx
Thankyou so much, I can’t believe I’ve never heard that quote before- it’s so inspiring. I appreciate your support, I hope things do get better, I really do. My heart is shattered at my feet at the moment, I will give myself a week just like you and begin to pick up the pieces one by one. It’s just he’s telling me he doesn’t want to talk things out or speak to me, it’s getting really hard😞❤️❤️
xxabxx and the fact someone won't talk things out with you says a lot about them, that's extremely selfish & weak & you shouldn't want someone who can't even give you an explanation in your life anyways ❤️
thankyou so much Jessie. It makes it harder when I know his mates, and he tells me hes at work so he cant come meet me, but he is always at his mates house who, who lives down the road from me. He is being so stubborn, he is not the boy he used to be. Thanks for the support xxxx
Melanie looks like she’s such a good listener. I dunno why I always look for that in people but I really admire when people give eye contact and really pay attention to what I’m/others are saying especially if it’s important . Like when Jessie is talking and Melanie is really listening to her I love it 😂 love you guys 😂💓
This is my favourite video of you guys! 💚 you two are such beautiful people and give amazing advice! Love you xxx
hmm, i'm not sure if 'relationships are supposed to be easy' is that true? a long term successful relationship has all kinds of trials, but the idea is that if it overall improves both people's lives, it's a good relationship. if you go through life thinking a good relationship is supposed to be an easy one, you'll give up on anything that starts to become anything. idk!
rachelkatwalsh I think of it as ‘loving the other should be easy’ and not ‘everything about the relationship should be easy’ 😊❤️
Of course a relationship will come across many obstacles, but it's about the basis of love that is supposed to be easy and not questioned. Love is hard sometimes but not complicated!
my nans just been admitted to hospital, and watching you girls’ videos just makes me smile, so thankyou so much lovelies💗
Please do a video on advice on what to do if you are unhappy in a relationship and what to do if your not sure if you should break up with somebody. Love you both❤️
Yes please make a video about intuition and following your gut. That would be great..😊
We most definitely will, I think it'd make a really interesting vid too! x
olivia cruz my mum and I call our gut instinct "the little voice" 😂
This breakup advice was so amazing, would love to see a full video on it
I think this is one of the best Q&I I have seen in a long, long time as it was so honest and straight from the heart < 3 thank you both < 3 cheers!
Awwww thank you so so much! Sending you so much love & I hope you're having a lovely weekend ❤️
Loved this video and I love the natural make up on you Jess!!❤️
I always get a smile on my face when I see a mention that you have uploaded a new video!😊 I just enjoy them so muchh❤️LOVE YOU
Awwwww I love this so much!💛 LOVE YOU MORE THOUGH okay. xxxx
YES FRIEND best part of the week!😆 So proud of how far you’ve come and the beautiful human you have become 😌 couldn’t ask for a better best frieeeend 💕✨✨
YES FRIEND I LOVE YOU FRIEND!! Stop your gonna get me all emotional, couldn't ask for a better best friend to share all my adventures with! ✨❣️
Lol never noticed the eye thing at all, you both look lovely!
I liked this one a lot. You two are so great to watch together.
I don't know whether to watch your or Mel's video first hahaha xx LOVE YOU XX
Aoife Gill they must do it on purpose 😂
IT BETTER BE MINE (SAY IT IS) hahaha only messing! LOVE YOU! xxxx
I love your videos together, they're so funny and yet useful 😂😍
Aw thank you so much hehe! 🙈❣️
Jessie when you become a beautician I would deffo come to you because your make-up is always on point. Thanks for the upload my lovely and the hard work you put into making each video ❤xx
I would be more than honoured to have you as one of my customers yas! 😍 Ohh thank you ever so much my darling, you never fail to make me burst into smiles! ❣️ xxx
Ahh, you answered my question. Thank you so much!!! Loved the video ❤️
can't believe how happy 26 minutes can make me :)
xxxPaulaxxx
❤️😩 so much love!
you guys have became my fave youtubers it's not often I see irish ones. ❤
Literally buzzing i got the notification for your video 😍 love you girls you both look beautiful as usual 💚 hope you had a mint week jessie
Agh love your comments! Thank you so much babe we both love you so so much! Hope you also had a mint week my gorgeous girl! 💘 x
You are both so lovely and it’s clear how much you want to help people :)
Omg seriously girls, thanks for mentioning "the Secret". I haven't heard it before but it really influences my daily life right now!
Your makeup is so cutee here Jessie!! 💖You guys give the best advice :)
My favorite thing is how they always both spontaneously sing the same thing at the same time!
P.s. Is it just me or is Jessie more beautiful than ever in this video? As soon as it started my heart was a flutter. I was caught off guard by her look!
You two totally fancied Pete at the same time, I can tell :'DD
Ahhh love you two 😍 After a rubbish few days this video is just what I need to cheer me up with my two favourite people ever ❤ Thank you so much for uploading this Jessie, love yahh xxx
We love you too gorgeous! Awh thats the sweetest thing ever, I hope the next few days are much better than your last few have been! Love you so much 💖 xxx
Finally! I'm waiting for it and your video made me pumped up! Love you gorgeous!
YAS this made me pumped hehe, love you lots babe! ❣️
thank you this really helped me, you twos are lucky to have eachother
Take a shot every time Mel or Jessie say “like”😂😂 love you girls !
Nothing will ever make me as happy as when both of you collab 🙌🏻
Yes do a video about trusting your gut!
Hi Jessie, love your videos with Mel because they are hilarious 😂❤️
you girls are adorable, I love these chatty videos! love you 💖
Hehe thank you so much girl! Love you lots 💛
You two are the best and just make my day.
I'm struggling badly with a separation, I have been with my partner for thirteen years and am now thirty got married two years ago snd had a baby I nee then that we were not right for each other as it was s controlling relationship and I was not happy but never went with my gut instinct. I have now left my husband and sm learning to find myself slowly but surely!
If you go to Spain, I totally can recommend doing a roadtrip through Andalusia, it's amaaazing. And the people, the Food, the Drinks!! Tinto de verano is the best thing on warm summer nights, it's like sangria, but better:)))
Loved this video so much, really cheered up my day, thank you!
I love Jessie's smile
Yayyaya you answered my question 🌹🌹 love you girlies you gorg 💗 Been watching since day 1 💋💋💋
Yaaaaas!❤️ Love you lots, agh you've no idea how much that means to me the fact you're still supporting me.. I'll never be able to thank you enough!!✨😩☺️
Of course darls you both amazing 🌹🌹
y’all upload at the same time how do I choooooose
Hehe your just gonna have toooooo 😉(pick me pick me pick me) haha
I have found out that visionalize the problem and get it out of your head it much easier to look at it with different eyes.
omg finally someone else who does the same as me, i just blocked everything and get them completely out my life, otherwise i'll be tempted to have a wee peak lmao love you two babes x
Yesss girl, I've done it with people I've only dated and not even gone out with too.. really helps you get over someone!! I'm so bad for having a wee peak hahaha, love you!❤️
JESSIE I WAS WATCHING SALON CONFEDENTIAL AND I SEEN YOU!!! I LOVEDDDDDD YOUR EYE MAKEUP PLZZZ DO A TUTORIAL❤️❤️
You look FLAWLESS in this Jessie 😍😍😍❤️ so jealous :(( xxx I love you both😍😘 you bring me such joy xxxx
You're too kind babe!😩 thank you so much but there's no need to be jealous you are also flawless WE ALL ARE❤️ We both love you so so much, sending you huge hugs xxxx
trust is the lock and communication is the key
Your videos always cheer me up Jessie 😀 love how bubbly and funny you are!! Plus you're just so damn gorgeous (even with a bun! 😉)
Aw this is so so lovely! Thank you so much Matt means a lot!☺️❤️
I decided to watch Jessie's video first 😝♥️
Hey beautiful how are you? I’ve just got an A in my first piece of coursework for the year. So happy, thank you for making me into the best version of myself and just know you are amazing and I can’t wait for the day that I actually meet you and give you a hug (sounds creepy I know haha). You are my biggest inspiration and I can’t thank you enough ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Hey Melanie, how are you doing? Was watching some old videos the other day and I just thought how beautiful you are and how amazing your content is. I also just want to thank you too for how real each video is and how you make us as teenage girls feel so much more positive about ourselves. Love you both lots 💕💕
GIRRRRL I am so so proud of you, congratulations you're amazing! You should be so proud of yourself, agh I am so excited for the day I get to give you a hug too.. don't worry we can be creepy together hahaha! So much love for you baby girl and I hope you have a weekend full of happiness & positivity! 💕 xx
Jessie B Hehe, you make me so happy xxx
Hey loved your video it was brilliant and love watching both of your videos and channels. What just want to ask do you have any links as to where I can buy the book the Scecret? Thanks in advance xx
Ye both look amazing in this video !!!
LOVE LOVE LOVE FOR YOU TWO❤❤❤
Omg I'm so so so so excited for the Halloween holidays O week off YASSSSSS enjoy Queens
YAAAS HOLIDAYS YAS! Hope you have the best midterm ever girl, & have a fab halloween ✨
I want to go to Spain with my sister too!!! Love you both.
Just wanted to say that, ive been going through a lot lately with my long distance girlfriend and her dissaproving parents lately. Legit broke down like 4 times in school yesterday, and that your guys' collabs make me laugh so hard, which has been greatly needed. So thank you. Especially for that comment "sort your eye out." I dunno why that made me laugh so hard. Alright, done rambling. 😂 one question though. Here in the U.S. when we are turning 18 we arw seniors in high school, so what age are you and how is it different for you? ♡
Litterally my fave duo love you xx❤❤
THE SWEETEST!! Love you so so much! xx
Honestly I love u guys so much ur both so funny and I wish I could meet both of u in the future ur so beautiful ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Agh we both love you so much too my lovely, hopefully we will get to meet you in the future eeeek! ❤️ no back that up, WE WILL MEET, we will.
Jessie B aww ur so cute how u reply to everyone's comments I can't wait to meet u I WILLL this has just made my day ur both so inspirational ♥️♥️♥️♥️
Loved this video! You girlies are so cute 💜
YAS! You are so lovely, have a fab weekend gorgeous girl! 💕
Hattie Hammersley iii
Loove these videos, ily x
So happy to hear you enjoyed, love you so much! xxx
I love you, i wish i was as smart and down to earth like you Xx ❤️
Omg !! Jessie you look so gorgeous in your his video!! obviously Mel does, but Jessie you look so natural and unreal! Your smile makes my day and watching your videos genuinely make me feel so happy!! My true inspiration forever and always! I'll always stick with you through your UA-cam journey like I always have, aw😭😍 have a lovely weekend xox
Ellie my absolute angel this comment has made my whole week 😫 Thank you so so much from the bottom of my heart, this comment has made my whole body smile! You've no idea what it means to me that you have & will stick with me through my journey I honestly couldn't ask for anymore from you! ♥️ You're my little diamond & I can't thank you enough! I love you lots & hope you have a fab weekend because you deserve nothing less xxx
My eyes aren't the same size. I never even noticed it until someone pointed it out when I was in the 2nd grade and the whole fucking class came to see like I was a circus animal. I still can't focus on anything other than the fact that my one eye is so small. I never noticed that either one of you had it as well. But it's nice to know that I'm not alone. Xx
I have it too! My eyebrows sit differently as well. I had never noticed until about 3-4 months ago but now it really bothers me when I do my makeup. I think we worry and notice it more on ourselves than on other people. You're not alone and you're definitely no circus animal! xx
Megan Horsburgh This really made my day. Xx
Janca vd Westhuizen Aw I'm glad to hear it! I hope you have a lovely day xx
Me too! I hate my eyes so much because of it 🤦🏻♀️
Same. It made me feel super insecure when I was younger.
I have the eye thing too!! My oldest sister kinda has it but it’s nowhere near as obvious as mine x
Your make up is stunning in this one Jessie ♥
Yay!! Another video!! I love when you collab with Melanie. I don’t know if you remember me but I commented what has happened to me at the start of the year xx
YAS QUEEN! Of course I remember you, how are you getting on now darling? xxx
Jessie B I’ve started an hour a day at a different school just to help me get back in to it. I’ve started to go to therapy but nothing from my “friends” still. Not seeing anyone from school is really hard because I got on really well with them but nothing in 8 months is ridiculous. It was my birthday on Friday and no one said happy birthday with was upsetting but what can ya do. I hope your doing well xx
4:23 i can't stop laughing at the spit flying at the camera hahaha
as i say the lock is trust the key is communication
What lipstick r u wearing? I think its really pretty xx
jess your eyes with that make up!
Hey Jessie, I am always so blown away by your gorgeous face, I confess I'm a bit jealous, I wish I had a face like yours and at the same time I am just glad to watch you, your beauty, your energy, your humbleness...your sister Melanie has such a charm too..
I love you so much Jessie, even if it's through a screen, I wish I could meet you someday, and it's the first time that I say that to a youtuber. Even if I have few chances to meet you, who really knows ?
Do not worry, it's not an obsession of mine, it's just a spontaneous surge of tenderness for you..
Excuse me if there are some mistakes in my english again, I am not totally bilingual and I'm very tired too..
Love you !
Was one of your phones going off every so often during the video? I have my phone set to the same noise when I get a Snapchat, so I was going mad repeatedly thinking I had a notification and there was nothing there haha
Please please give your tips on how to flirt. On how to make someone know you like them.. I'm still in school (15) and have never gone out with anyone but there's loads of boys that I think are nice. I just really want to be able to flirt! 😢💚
Never dated so never had a break up, also never flirted so this should be a great and interesting video!
Hope you enjoyyyy! ❤️
Hahha my flirting is awful or well I'm guessing so cos I have a non existent love life 😂😂 brilliant video tho you 2 are hilarious when u together
I feel you baby I feel you 🤦🏻♀️😂😂
There's a ten year age gap between me and my sister and honestly the best thing for us was when she moved out!!
Watched yours firssst 😅👀
Love this ♥️
YAS!❤️✨
"I am feckin' oblivious as well, I have no notion."
I love Irish accents so i'm creeping on everything you two say, but oh my Gawd that one stuck out to me
gee whiz! I swear you two get more beautiful!
i think you're the most beautiful siblings i've ever seen
I've got the same Popeye thing! It's so irritating but sometimes it makes a photo look extra cheeky
Hehe that's fo sure, look on the bright side we can look cheeky without even trying haha 😅👌🏻
What lippy are you wearing Jess? It looks so good on you! Xx
Love the ginormous bun😁👍
😍😍😍 I really love your voice sound and your beautiful eyes. You are a little irish angel. I love your kindness and your perfection. I💜U Jessie
I love you too!😩✨🙈😙
Do either of you go to Dublin uni?
Thinks to self 'Oh shit, this is a long one. I'll watch half for now, half later.'
Watches whole thing, feels like 10 min.
Always enjoy watching videos from the two of you. There's always such a positive vibe, and I absolutely love love LOVE the amount of support you guys give to your viewers. With that being said, if anyone needs to message me my instagram is @abbey.graceee so just shoot me a message on there and tell me what's up. I'm in university right now studying to become a counselor, so I can assure you that I actually do care about your problems. Much love always!!
Thank you SO so so much girl, and thank you so much for being such a kind amazing down to earth human and caring about others! The world needs more of this yes yes yes!! xxxx
Yiz are as cute! 💚
Love you two xx