My parents tried to beat my empathy out of me as a child. Interestingly, that is impossible, but it did make me fear and doubt my intuition for my entire life. In my 40s I got a boss that caused me to learn about narcissism, and through Gray Rocking this boss and reacquainting myself with my super powers of empathy, I began to notice my intuition being there with me the whole time, and that I was just doubting it. The signs were there from the beginning, and I didn't think I was as entitled to my intuition, as the narcissist felt entitled to theirs. I no longer try to convince people of my ideas, I now execute these ideas without seeking permission/input/support. Narcissists are not worth an empaths time.
This world needs every empath to thrive. It may be the only way we can heal all this generational trauma causing people to want to war with each other. I'm so sad for what your parents did to you. You do not deserve that. Keep that large heart beating, love and forgive. That intuition you're talkin about is 100% a superpower. Forgive those that want to do harm and walk away from them and embrace fellow empaths. Much love to you
Lol seems we have to take a number. Born the youngest of 4 to malignant narc mom(primarily because she resented my dad) and a sociopath father(Also either tried to beat the empathy out of me or basically just wanted a slave or an emotional punching bag). Essentially I was treated to be the slave/black sheep of the family and obviously as a child you just sort of go along while knowing things are not ok but as a child I think your brain tries to protect you from the trauma and tells you everything is ok(read that one as denial) while you know deep down that it really isnt so your gut/inner feelings/intuition starts to develop. Essentially I grew up with narcs and codependents to sum it up so I can see them from a mile away and I attract them on a subconcious level as. Not sure how that works however for a narc we seem like this ultra sweet candy that from the exterior it seems they can get their way with whatever not realising that our inner world and intuition is so deep that we are basically just giving them a chance and honestly by the end of this relationship, it ends up being a disaster of emotions for them that they can't control while for the empath, it's just another day dealing with the same toilet but just a different POS. I struggle with social interactions on the daily being the way that I am but I found a kinship with animals which seems magical but it's actually a logic based thing based primarily on positive and negative interactions and adding the human element along the way. I find it way easier to deal with them anyway because there are no feelings of malice, hatred, envy or jealousy the way humans perceive the emotion so both myself and the animals I work with are able to rationalize our emotions and build a better relationship long term.
It's interesting to read your comment because after watching several of these videos, I was thinking that I really want to meet other super empaths. And naturally, I'd explain that I think I am one. I would imagine that another super empath would "feel" my sincerity when stating that. Or maybe you are completely correct because I just reread your comment and I guess I wouldn't be "bragging" about it in the scenario I gave.
But I do still want to share that even humble people, appreciative people, kind people, super empathic people state their wonderful quality at times. Especially when arguing with people who falsly accuse them of not being grateful, not being a good listener, not being forgiving enough, etc. Of course, in most of these incidents (in my experience), trying to explain and prove to them that I do listen well and I care very much about everyone having a voice and ...and ... and I finally realize their mind games.... they were just switching the negative attributes they know they have been expressing and attempting to fool me into beleiving I was the bad one. I could feel their pleasure when I was desperately trying to prove to them that I do care. And I stated confidently how empathic I am, how I practice deepening my gratituide, some points I've learned from a video about quality listening skills, etc. So basically, there are times when empathic people state their qualities. And yes, I'm also aware that many people falsely claim it as well, especially if they are bragging about it or bring it up out of the blue.
@@jinamerica I do state them as well when it´s necessary. For example, when it comes to help people, to donate or especially, not buying certain products because they harm the environment!! I state that I DO care about nature and the environment, because I want to encourage people to do that too. And I use to state what I am because I want to learn more about what I am and talk to people who are my kind. But we do not BRAG ALL THE TIME about how much we care about animals, nature, whatever. We do not BRAG ALL THE TIME how much we donate to charity XY! We talk about what we do when it´s APPROPRIATE! 👍
They don't brag about it, but want to meet others. There's a difference. Navy corpsmen, are almost *all* super-empaths. They have to be, to be field medics. Situational awareness, knowing what others are feeling at all times. It's an entire community of them. It's not a bragging point, at all, but a search for others who are like others. Game recognizes game.
Very informative, I care but found myself not being very tolerant of b.s. this will require some thought. On the issue of, di I have those bounderie skills. I can be very obstinate
I will say being a super empath, I did discover that I could break every player in huge poker tournaments and my one of my final table strategies would be to use my intuition and such to do psychological warfare instead of playing cards. I've watched how fast someone would click their mouse to check, bet, raise, and occasionally I'd feel confident enough to start calling out their hands after I folded or saying I'm gonna call them in the chat. But there is a downside to being almost that intuitive, there's not only a big red x you wear but also flashing neon signs and air raid sirens. To wrap this up, that would lead to many getting involved in a big hand not only when they shouldn't have been but simply just itching to take my chips. And since poker is a game of chance which you can minimize your risk, the luck part would sometimes make someone's day. And that's when I picked up the most important lesson, to be successful, you're playing long term strategy. Enjoyed the video and men or women, if you've got the goods, I'd recommend testing your skills out in poker. You're also very good with numbers and math and that's something on the fly you're already at a huge advantage. I will say my last year of college, I did rough calculations. I had 250$ total investment and was sitting on a varied bankroll of anywhere from 6-8,000$ weekly.
Oh, there's that. Definitely that. When you absorb everything. I feel *EVERYTHING* I was always good at blackjack, but I don't care much for gambling, but you can read tells, body language, posture, shoulder tension, eyes darting this way, or that way.
@Josh Andersen Exactly, I don't really talk about this because people don't always comprehend it equally. You know what it is, though! Good points, sir! Thx!
I am a highly empathic person and it has proved to be the undoing of two narcissistic bosses I have worked under. One left for another area and the other had one complaint too many after my campaign against them and exit strategy. If you subjugate yourself to the point you are like a puppet, you follow what they want and things go wrong and its still your fault, thats a big red flag and a wake up call. Through no fault of my own I was made to stand in front of my staff and tell them a project failed because of me, but it wasn't me and something snapped later! Being damaged and attacked by narcissists was something that I have tolerated all of my life, until I almost had a bipolar manic breakdown and started plotting. Something changed in me when I watched what they were doing to others, and it triggered a fire in me. I documented everything that they did in both cases and went on a covert attack. I messaged my partner every time something happened, so I had times and details to refer to and so could build a dossier of evidence. When I felt I had enough to take them down, I simply stepped into the office, looked them in the eye and told them the gloves were off. I knew what they were all about and I was going to take them down! (Not advised for the faint hearted!) In both cases I learned from an old sailor friend. I knew they were going to try to take me down, so I developed an exit strategy before hand. He used to say, if you are going to lose a fight, hurt them as much as you can before you go down! I just wanted to damage their reputation and plans as much as possible before I left. I did this out of empathy for others primarily, and I will admit also out of revenge. I have characteristics that narcissists absolutely cannot stand! Most innate, but out of self love others have been developed. I spot them easily, have firm boundaries, I dont fear them, I am not impressed by them, I shun them, I am happy and successful, I am authentic, I love truth and am not afraid to speak my mind. My partner I met afterwards is a phycologist and has suffered at the hands of narcissists her whole life. My understanding has deepened and I now simply have zero tolerance and call them out on their shit, if it is safe and practical to do so. I have since gone on to become an activist. I have developed skills from these situations which I have since used to set up groups to help others. This is a big silver lining and I consider narcissists to be my greatest teachers. Although I pity them, if I see them hurting others I will shine a light on it. Its slightly paradoxical, as I get a kick out of hurting them which seems a bit narcissistic in itself! I suppose I get alot of satisfaction out of preventing them from hurting others. We are all on the spectrum. I have from a young age felt the feelings of others around me and feel little love or joy around narcissists. I have a powerful radar to pick them out. I developed bipolar in school from being singled out by narcissists. I have honed my skills over the years and now like to challenge them. I enjoy the fight and the drama and the satisfaction of doing something positive. I am a bit of an adrenaline junky and a narcissists worst nightmare! When a person hits rock bottom and has nothing to lose, it can be very dangerous for an abuser. When this person tastes success in there assault on the abuser they can gain the confidence to say NO not anymore! That's how I feel, I think I can be far more conniving than the most brutal narcissist and I like to try and beat them at their own game.
Awesome. Similar stories but you and I both know it takes time, patience and long term planning to pull those moves off. Your sailor friends advice is on the money. Tell him I said thanks and I'll try to use that as well in calculations because you know it's inevitable that were going to run into this time and Time again willing or unwilling, if not to defend yourself then knowing us you going to be trying for someone else who isn't able to. You have great fortitude, I'm working on that at the moment. I kinda ran a simulation in my head based on past experience so I kinda get what you did, how you did it and still worked out your exit strategy. I think because we see the whole picture of the forest and not the individual trees that we are able to make those calls. Your antagonists are always trying to jump from one tree to the next or use a vine to swing across a large distance to get where they need to be but kinda moot if your opponent has a clear view of you, where you are going and a list of what your next moves are. Simple strategy.
I'm a Super Empath Xman or S.E.X. INJF. How can I help. Truly, I totally discourage the licensed therapy relationship because it's a relationship where people are treated like objects or seen as objects and they aren't. And when you get emotionally bonded with a licensed therapist yet it's a business relationship (licensed) then the focus is also partly that business relationship as well, OVER / at the peril of any natural emotional bond which can be extremely harmful and was for me and that wasn't mental therapy by definition at all, it was the opposite. REAL therapy is if it was done for the rewards OF the emotional bond and friendship. Because of this relationship, licensed therapists are VERY UNSAFE, irresponsible, unwise / foolish and as they treat people as if they are objects then that's called a psychopath which is what they are. They are what they are obedient to. As an INJF I'm an introvert, yet I totally test also to be a 100% extrovert, so I'm an omnivert. The way and reason why I'm an introvert is because I do go by feelings and take on many feelings. When I get over loaded I tend to walk into other rooms to be alone or to go on walks. However I can be around people longer if we are talking about feelings. I can be around people for longer periods of time if I an one with those people or person and I really like to be as one with people. I could be with a pet or , spouse all day as long as we are as one.
Holy crap dude. Your comment comes across as predatory using many sexual inuendos and it feels like you are trying to get emotionally weak people to respond to you. Just sayin' it like it is
I'm a supernatural empath yes we have intuition yes we can heal yes we know we are lie to we also have other gifts you talk to spirits yes they known our name has nothing to do narcissistic what is supernatural impact gets pushed the spirit world pushes back we also command spirits to get back in bodies we also control lights
In my opinion being a empath doesn’t make you special and super gifted. Empathy is a human emotion like a sixth sense. Some people are either born with a stronger sense then other while others are more in tune with it then others. If you listen to the video a super empath is just a regular empath who have gained control over vs letting it control them. Nothing special people just growth.❤
My parents tried to beat my empathy out of me as a child. Interestingly, that is impossible, but it did make me fear and doubt my intuition for my entire life. In my 40s I got a boss that caused me to learn about narcissism, and through Gray Rocking this boss and reacquainting myself with my super powers of empathy, I began to notice my intuition being there with me the whole time, and that I was just doubting it. The signs were there from the beginning, and I didn't think I was as entitled to my intuition, as the narcissist felt entitled to theirs. I no longer try to convince people of my ideas, I now execute these ideas without seeking permission/input/support. Narcissists are not worth an empaths time.
This world needs every empath to thrive. It may be the only way we can heal all this generational trauma causing people to want to war with each other. I'm so sad for what your parents did to you. You do not deserve that. Keep that large heart beating, love and forgive. That intuition you're talkin about is 100% a superpower. Forgive those that want to do harm and walk away from them and embrace fellow empaths. Much love to you
Lol seems we have to take a number. Born the youngest of 4 to malignant narc mom(primarily because she resented my dad) and a sociopath father(Also either tried to beat the empathy out of me or basically just wanted a slave or an emotional punching bag). Essentially I was treated to be the slave/black sheep of the family and obviously as a child you just sort of go along while knowing things are not ok but as a child I think your brain tries to protect you from the trauma and tells you everything is ok(read that one as denial) while you know deep down that it really isnt so your gut/inner feelings/intuition starts to develop. Essentially I grew up with narcs and codependents to sum it up so I can see them from a mile away and I attract them on a subconcious level as. Not sure how that works however for a narc we seem like this ultra sweet candy that from the exterior it seems they can get their way with whatever not realising that our inner world and intuition is so deep that we are basically just giving them a chance and honestly by the end of this relationship, it ends up being a disaster of emotions for them that they can't control while for the empath, it's just another day dealing with the same toilet but just a different POS.
I struggle with social interactions on the daily being the way that I am but I found a kinship with animals which seems magical but it's actually a logic based thing based primarily on positive and negative interactions and adding the human element along the way. I find it way easier to deal with them anyway because there are no feelings of malice, hatred, envy or jealousy the way humans perceive the emotion so both myself and the animals I work with are able to rationalize our emotions and build a better relationship long term.
A GENUINE Super Empath does not brag about being one, to begin with. So, all those who claim being Empaths and Super Empaths: No, you are not! Period.
It's interesting to read your comment because after watching several of these videos, I was thinking that I really want to meet other super empaths. And naturally, I'd explain that I think I am one. I would imagine that another super empath would "feel" my sincerity when stating that. Or maybe you are completely correct because I just reread your comment and I guess I wouldn't be "bragging" about it in the scenario I gave.
But I do still want to share that even humble people, appreciative people, kind people, super empathic people state their wonderful quality at times. Especially when arguing with people who falsly accuse them of not being grateful, not being a good listener, not being forgiving enough, etc. Of course, in most of these incidents (in my experience), trying to explain and prove to them that I do listen well and I care very much about everyone having a voice and ...and ... and I finally realize their mind games.... they were just switching the negative attributes they know they have been expressing and attempting to fool me into beleiving I was the bad one. I could feel their pleasure when I was desperately trying to prove to them that I do care. And I stated confidently how empathic I am, how I practice deepening my gratituide, some points I've learned from a video about quality listening skills, etc. So basically, there are times when empathic people state their qualities. And yes, I'm also aware that many people falsely claim it as well, especially if they are bragging about it or bring it up out of the blue.
@@jinamerica I do state them as well when it´s necessary. For example, when it comes to help people, to donate or especially, not buying certain products because they harm the environment!! I state that I DO care about nature and the environment, because I want to encourage people to do that too. And I use to state what I am because I want to learn more about what I am and talk to people who are my kind. But we do not BRAG ALL THE TIME about how much we care about animals, nature, whatever. We do not BRAG ALL THE TIME how much we donate to charity XY! We talk about what we do when it´s APPROPRIATE! 👍
@@jinamerica So, you´re one of my kind? Yes, would like to meet others like me too, I understand that. Perfectly understood!
They don't brag about it, but want to meet others. There's a difference. Navy corpsmen, are almost *all* super-empaths. They have to be, to be field medics. Situational awareness, knowing what others are feeling at all times. It's an entire community of them.
It's not a bragging point, at all, but a search for others who are like others. Game recognizes game.
Yes, a super-empath here! :) and proud to be one!
No you are not
How do You know youre it
@@jude9876 real super empath right here.
Hi, Super Empath here! And I hear Voices yeah me!
Have an Awesome Day ❤
I didn't think I was going to like this. It is very clever. I like it.
Very informative, I care but found myself not being very tolerant of b.s.
this will require some thought.
On the issue of, di I have those bounderie skills.
I can be very obstinate
Im kinda un between an empath and a súper empath, but striving to be a super empath
I will say being a super empath, I did discover that I could break every player in huge poker tournaments and my one of my final table strategies would be to use my intuition and such to do psychological warfare instead of playing cards. I've watched how fast someone would click their mouse to check, bet, raise, and occasionally I'd feel confident enough to start calling out their hands after I folded or saying I'm gonna call them in the chat.
But there is a downside to being almost that intuitive, there's not only a big red x you wear but also flashing neon signs and air raid sirens.
To wrap this up, that would lead to many getting involved in a big hand not only when they shouldn't have been but simply just itching to take my chips. And since poker is a game of chance which you can minimize your risk, the luck part would sometimes make someone's day.
And that's when I picked up the most important lesson, to be successful, you're playing long term strategy.
Enjoyed the video and men or women, if you've got the goods, I'd recommend testing your skills out in poker. You're also very good with numbers and math and that's something on the fly you're already at a huge advantage.
I will say my last year of college, I did rough calculations. I had 250$ total investment and was sitting on a varied bankroll of anywhere from 6-8,000$ weekly.
Oh, there's that. Definitely that. When you absorb everything. I feel *EVERYTHING* I was always good at blackjack, but I don't care much for gambling, but you can read tells, body language, posture, shoulder tension, eyes darting this way, or that way.
@Josh Andersen Exactly, I don't really talk about this because people don't always comprehend it equally. You know what it is, though! Good points, sir! Thx!
I am a highly empathic person and it has proved to be the undoing of two narcissistic bosses I have worked under.
One left for another area and the other had one complaint too many after my campaign against them and exit strategy.
If you subjugate yourself to the point you are like a puppet, you follow what they want and things go wrong and its still your fault, thats a big red flag and a wake up call.
Through no fault of my own I was made to stand in front of my staff and tell them a project failed because of me, but it wasn't me and something snapped later!
Being damaged and attacked by narcissists was something that I have tolerated all of my life, until I almost had a bipolar manic breakdown and started plotting.
Something changed in me when I watched what they were doing to others, and it triggered a fire in me.
I documented everything that they did in both cases and went on a covert attack. I messaged my partner every time something happened, so I had times and details to refer to and so could build a dossier of evidence.
When I felt I had enough to take them down, I simply stepped into the office, looked them in the eye and told them the gloves were off.
I knew what they were all about and I was going to take them down! (Not advised for the faint hearted!)
In both cases I learned from an old sailor friend. I knew they were going to try to take me down, so I developed an exit strategy before hand. He used to say, if you are going to lose a fight, hurt them as much as you can before you go down!
I just wanted to damage their reputation and plans as much as possible before I left. I did this out of empathy for others primarily, and I will admit also out of revenge.
I have characteristics that narcissists absolutely cannot stand! Most innate, but out of self love others have been developed.
I spot them easily, have firm boundaries, I dont fear them, I am not impressed by them, I shun them, I am happy and successful, I am authentic, I love truth and am not afraid to speak my mind.
My partner I met afterwards is a phycologist and has suffered at the hands of narcissists her whole life. My understanding has deepened and I now simply have zero tolerance and call them out on their shit, if it is safe and practical to do so.
I have since gone on to become an activist. I have developed skills from these situations which I have since used to set up groups to help others. This is a big silver lining and I consider narcissists to be my greatest teachers.
Although I pity them, if I see them hurting others I will shine a light on it.
Its slightly paradoxical, as I get a kick out of hurting them which seems a bit narcissistic in itself! I suppose I get alot of satisfaction out of preventing them from hurting others. We are all on the spectrum.
I have from a young age felt the feelings of others around me and feel little love or joy around narcissists. I have a powerful radar to pick them out.
I developed bipolar in school from being singled out by narcissists. I have honed my skills over the years and now like to challenge them. I enjoy the fight and the drama and the satisfaction of doing something positive. I am a bit of an adrenaline junky and a narcissists worst nightmare!
When a person hits rock bottom and has nothing to lose, it can be very dangerous for an abuser. When this person tastes success in there assault on the abuser they can gain the confidence to say NO not anymore! That's how I feel, I think I can be far more conniving than the most brutal narcissist and I like to try and beat them at their own game.
Awesome. Similar stories but you and I both know it takes time, patience and long term planning to pull those moves off. Your sailor friends advice is on the money. Tell him I said thanks and I'll try to use that as well in calculations because you know it's inevitable that were going to run into this time and Time again willing or unwilling, if not to defend yourself then knowing us you going to be trying for someone else who isn't able to. You have great fortitude, I'm working on that at the moment. I kinda ran a simulation in my head based on past experience so I kinda get what you did, how you did it and still worked out your exit strategy. I think because we see the whole picture of the forest and not the individual trees that we are able to make those calls. Your antagonists are always trying to jump from one tree to the next or use a vine to swing across a large distance to get where they need to be but kinda moot if your opponent has a clear view of you, where you are going and a list of what your next moves are. Simple strategy.
Im definitely a super empath then, thanks for making me aware of this 😉 👍
Can you be super empath and dilling with cpsd ?
Yes
Yes
I'm a Super Empath Xman or S.E.X.
INJF.
How can I help.
Truly, I totally discourage the licensed therapy relationship because it's a relationship where people are treated like objects or seen as objects and they aren't. And when you get emotionally bonded with a licensed therapist yet it's a business relationship (licensed) then the focus is also partly that business relationship as well, OVER / at the peril of any natural emotional bond which can be extremely harmful and was for me and that wasn't mental therapy by definition at all, it was the opposite.
REAL therapy is if it was done for the rewards OF the emotional bond and friendship.
Because of this relationship, licensed therapists are VERY UNSAFE, irresponsible, unwise / foolish and as they treat people as if they are objects then that's called a psychopath which is what they are. They are what they are obedient to.
As an INJF I'm an introvert, yet I totally test also to be a 100% extrovert, so I'm an omnivert.
The way and reason why I'm an introvert is because I do go by feelings and take on many feelings. When I get over loaded I tend to walk into other rooms to be alone or to go on walks.
However I can be around people longer if we are talking about feelings. I can be around people for longer periods of time if I an one with those people or person and I really like to be as one with people. I could be with a pet or , spouse all day as long as we are as one.
Are you a true empath? I would love to learn with you. Im only half, maybe 3/4..... The other is abuse. Love
Therapy can teach skills tho. Helpful!
Holy crap dude. Your comment comes across as predatory using many sexual inuendos and it feels like you are trying to get emotionally weak people to respond to you. Just sayin' it like it is
Clairvoyant Empath over here 😊
I'm a supernatural empath yes we have intuition yes we can heal yes we know we are lie to we also have other gifts you talk to spirits yes they known our name has nothing to do narcissistic what is supernatural impact gets pushed the spirit world pushes back we also command spirits to get back in bodies we also control lights
This is incorrect information. Sorry y'all.
You is not lying believe you.this is codependency.does that not empath.
True empaths don’t brag or tell others they are an empath.
@@user-wg3wj6ur9z FACT'S 💯🎯
Super Empath right here 🙋🏼♀️
Being super empath are easily get emotionally touch.
In my opinion being a empath doesn’t make you special and super gifted. Empathy is a human emotion like a sixth sense. Some people are either born with a stronger sense then other while others are more in tune with it then others. If you listen to the video a super empath is just a regular empath who have gained control over vs letting it control them. Nothing special people just growth.❤
Like to see empaths as nuns and super empaths as knight templars. Both serve light but the other don't mind getting in the mud with the narcicist.
I wish I can get married to my fellow super empath one day 😢