still the church cuz they r not tell women the truth from the bible to help create wife’s. instead they lying and play on their emotions so they empty out their purse. they not even stress it’s a sin to be gay. y is that
No I do not believe the church is responsible for a lack of marriage. However, I do believe that the church does not teach correctly about marriage which may contribute to the black communities lack of really understanding of marriage as needed and therefore contributes to the lack of. Black marriages survive and thrive.
The modern black church (80s and beyond) is definitely culpable with the reduction of black married couples and black male attendance at our churches! We’ve prioritized (and low-key campaigned) the alternatives to natural marriage (feminism and female independence from traditional roles), coping and therapy based teaching vs directional and alignment with God’s natural order for men and women (which we low key now consider abusive/destructive), and the place/role of men in the local church. You may consider this a simplistic take, just look at the average congregation and observe the dynamics. You embrace alternatives to natural order, you get un-natural outcomes.
Oops y’all are responsible for a lot of things. Black church is known for being toxic, I haven’t found a good one to walk into YET. I’ve been looking for it for 2 years.
Jamaal Bryant you should be the last one talking about marriage when you’ve cheated on your wife in every woman you probably been involved with I’m not a hypocrite I’ve cheated as well but I’m not preaching to a congregation either these pastors always pray with the vulnerable women and then have their hands on their ass as soon as they turn around smh
Exactly!!! He's the last mf I want hear from on this subject. He doesn't respect marriage at all, he had multiple children out of wedlock with women from his own congregation.
Wake upppppppp WE ARE THE CHURCH NOT BUILDING.... WE ARE AT FAULT .....because we dont talk HONESTLY about men not wanting to marry to be able to play the field. MEN are afraid to marry. When you hear men talk to each other about it its jokes and laughter about it then they scoot on to another subject.. its never talked about in depth.. its so surface level talk unfortunately.
Men, aren't afraid of marriage as much as they are afraid of divorce. How many women are raised to be wives?? Men are not afraid to marry sweet, femine, fit, cooperative women who understand who the Most High created them to be-helpmates.
Dr Umar isn't married and does not go to church…who’s the blame for him? 😳
still the church cuz they r not tell women the truth from the bible to help create wife’s. instead they lying and play on their emotions so they empty out their purse. they not even stress it’s a sin to be gay. y is that
🙏🏿 🙏🏿 🙏🏿😅🤦🏿♂️
Mic drop
He wants a larger platform...
No I do not believe the church is responsible for a lack of marriage. However, I do believe that the church does not teach correctly about marriage which may contribute to the black communities lack of really understanding of marriage as needed and therefore contributes to the lack of. Black marriages survive and thrive.
The sustem is responsible for people not getting married!
YES! When men can't afford to support a family, they don't marry. They'll make babies, but not marry.
Why?
The modern black church (80s and beyond) is definitely culpable with the reduction of black married couples and black male attendance at our churches! We’ve prioritized (and low-key campaigned) the alternatives to natural marriage (feminism and female independence from traditional roles), coping and therapy based teaching vs directional and alignment with God’s natural order for men and women (which we low key now consider abusive/destructive), and the place/role of men in the local church. You may consider this a simplistic take, just look at the average congregation and observe the dynamics. You embrace alternatives to natural order, you get un-natural outcomes.
The church is a culprit in the system
this look like 2 gay men talking right now
I believe Holiness is still right. I don't think the church is responsible for women not being married
Oops y’all are responsible for a lot of things. Black church is known for being toxic, I haven’t found a good one to walk into YET. I’ve been looking for it for 2 years.
I agree with Umar. Ya'll be in every corner of the hood...and honestly, I dont be seeing much improvement in our community.
ps: im a christian.
😮 Dr. Right
Jamaal Bryant you should be the last one talking about marriage when you’ve cheated on your wife in every woman you probably been involved with I’m not a hypocrite I’ve cheated as well but I’m not preaching to a congregation either these pastors always pray with the vulnerable women and then have their hands on their ass as soon as they turn around smh
Christopher Wray
Exactly!!! He's the last mf I want hear from on this subject. He doesn't respect marriage at all, he had multiple children out of wedlock with women from his own congregation.
yeah pure to make their pockets fat
Wake upppppppp WE ARE THE CHURCH NOT BUILDING.... WE ARE AT FAULT .....because we dont talk HONESTLY about men not wanting to marry to be able to play the field. MEN are afraid to marry. When you hear men talk to each other about it its jokes and laughter about it then they scoot on to another subject.. its never talked about in depth.. its so surface level talk unfortunately.
Men, aren't afraid of marriage as much as they are afraid of divorce. How many women are raised to be wives?? Men are not afraid to marry sweet, femine, fit, cooperative women who understand who the Most High created them to be-helpmates.
true now days u have women and gay pastors😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 funny
The black Church and black pastors have been telling black women that they don't need a man to be complete. Yes the church is at fault.
Why do women need a man to be complete?
@@broco6608 because she is incomplete without one.