Should I Fight For My Marriage or Let Go? When is it Time to Move On?
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- Опубліковано 12 вер 2024
- This video will help you make peace with making this decision. Stop agonizing. I’ll help you see what is stopping you from deciding and how to move forward, confident in your final choice. Should I fight for my marriage or let go? If that question is tormenting you, I’m here to show you the way through the pain and into the happy, calm, grounded, hopeful future you want.
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I’m Rachael Sloan, Master NLP Practitioner, certified life coach, and the creator of Better Beyond Divorce. I've helped hundreds of men move past the shock, betrayal, grief and anger they experience both during and after a divorce, to a place of clarity, calm and confidence. I hope to help you do the same.
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Should you fight for your marriage or let it go? If you are separated or going through a divorce, you probably spend a fair amount of time wondering if you can save marriage from divorce. Can you? Should you? When is it time to give up on your relationship with spouse and when is it time to fight for your marriage?
If you fight for marriage during divorce, you might save your marriage. If you do, what happens next? You rebuild your life with your wife, get to know each other again. It will be hard. But maybe it can be better than before.
Or is it time to give up on your marriage? If you decide to let go, you have to move on alone. Meet new people. Build a new life. Maybe it feels freeing, or exciting. But it’s also scary, and you miss your ex, or your kids or the stability of your old life.
So. Should I fight for my marriage or let it go? What’s the right choice? I get asked this question a lot! It all comes down to this: you want to be happy in the future, and you want to avoid suffering or being in pain in the future.
And you’re pretty sure that if you can just do the right thing, you can make that happen. But you don’t know which it is. Should you fight for your marriage or let it go?
Not exactly for me. My wife filed for divorce after 24 years and she refuses to reconsider. Saving my marriage isn't up to me. I'm not running away, I'm being thrown away!
The moment I was served the divorce papers, I let go. From that moment on the only thing on my mind was the details of separation
Yup wrong choice. Going to die alone. Rather than fight to save the 17 year marriage, I gave up when she shut down and cheated on me, their wasn’t any remorse or guilt or sadness or teers from her, so I just walked away ashamed and hurt beyond belief. I’ve been running toward death keeping so busy for 26 years avoiding thinking about her or any women or any relationship. She won, I lost. I have everything I wanted out of life except the one I loved that betrayed me without shedding a single teer. I tried one brief relationship after the divorce that ended the exact same way. Cheated on me with her childhood friend and married him two weeks after our split. Women are fucked up!!!!
I love this Rachael. You are amazing at what you do and it shows. I love the way you speak and your videos are so insightful. Thank you 🙏🏼
The power of doubt is fear of the worst possible outcome. AKA Catastrophizing.
Why are we all so afraid of being alone? Shouldn’t we be looking at that more deeply?
I’ve embraced my “loneliness” post divorce. I don’t want to get back into a relationship for a “warm body” kind of thing. Seems crappy for that person.
It has been terrifying, but I feel like I’ve learned how to be with me. I’m not “alone”. I got me!!❤
Finding your channel really helpful, thank you so much for all you have done on here!
You're very welcome! I'm glad to hear it's helping!
I made the right choice I’m not afraid of being alone I don’t want anyone! I couldn’t love or trust again that was my choice!
It was my choice to love myself and walk away from a bad marriage!
We come alone and die alone, worldly things get left behind even the people we love! Everything is on loan to us in this life! Crazy but it’s true right!!😢
You have all the red flags she talked about.
thank you Rachael for sharing such helpful wisdom.
You're welcome. Thank you for watching. I'm really glad this one was helpful.
I just want to be a billionaire is that too much to ask
#3 IMO being married to someone with NPD doesn’t allow for personal growth. There is only one (correct) answer for some people even if it’s an unpleasant truth.
I agree - there are certain situations where we find ourselves focused on pure survival, and there isn't enough safety or space to grow or heal our wounds. Recognizing that and choosing to leave that situation can be incredibly difficult, especially when you love or deeply care for the other person. I'm really sorry if you find yourself in a situation like that.