To the single mum, my thoughts as a single mum myself find a way to say it in between conversations and especially at the beginning. What I do is that when a man asks me out for a first date I will decline and say I'm taking my son out. That way he already knows there is a child. It has made it easier for me. If he then chooses to pursue me further it's at a point of knowledge about me in that regard.
For the person going through depression I too struggle with bouts but when I turn to God listen to preachings and pray I cry it out and feel refreshed also I talk to the people I pray with and once its out there its half solved also netflix distracts my mind do get some comedies laugh it out
I think the single mum issue is similar to a man not telling you he is married or with kids after getting you to love him and he says he wasn’t ready to let you know,you will definitely feel lied to right .
About the single mum.. She's a mum. That should be one of the first things he should learn about her. If the purpose of dating is to get to know each other, then how is this information he doesn't know.. I agree with Fiona. It's a huge part of who she is.. And she should be able to share it with this man early..
8:09 Prim, I know what you are talking about. When I was about 15, a lady known to our family told me the same thing. I was starting to put on that adolescence weight and she said, " you need to lose weight. Fat women smell " 😮. You have reminded me of that incident.
Oh Thx ladies for this Prim am waiting for that topic about weight I need it so much I want to even cry wen I listen to u about weight those comments about not getting clean in between oh Lord talk about it gal, I too have emotional eating problems Claire u r gorgeous love u guys y'all
I used not to love my lips 👄 coz they are big, they used to abuse me mbu oleega agamwa but I'm now used, thank you ladies coz u have done some great work in us. Self confidence is key.
Thoughts on the single mum dilemma, girl that man is lying. He’s not in love bay simply trying to overwhelm you with love to mask something. There is something he’s not being transparent about. Take your time with it, time will reveal his true intentions.
Thank you@ Clair for your submission on 'pulling'I agree that sexuality is introduced to us at such a young age.i think it corrupts young minds so early which I find unfortunate..I don't agree
I really need atopic about body size....shape etc. Was born with chinese head( no nkona) and my cheeks are chubby but men.....i feel so so funny mostly with my cheeks. Feel like doing surgery for cheecks
Question 1, leave married folks alone. Stay away from them at all costs. Question 3: I think people are used to seeing girls fighting when they have different opinions which is not the case every time; I think younger and unguided females suffer more from this. Question 4: Declare you have children immediately, day 1 just say it because it is not changing overnight. Question 5: Pulling and any other sexual thing should be introduced much later maybe after puberty hits 16+ and it needs to be a personal choice. Question 6: Depression can be dealt with by knowing it is not who you are, it is an emotion. Get help for whatever emotion presents itself. Last question: God and praying is the only solution to witchcraft and whatever mess is around. 😂
This is to the first question----.Are the suggestive comments via social media or in person? Because if the comments are via socials,why are you still friends on socials? If the comments are in person, why are you lingering around him? Detach from married exes! If he made the suggestive comments in person, leave it alone, walk away and create bounderies. Some of these ladies linger around that is why their exes are still making suggestive comments. Repect your self and detach.
Question one. CALL IT OUT!!!! People like that man thrive on making women feel like they are crazy.. Call it out and have a candid conversation about it..
About the single mum lady, i dont think she is really hiding it or has delayed to tell the guy as you guys are emphasizing it coz she says she's just known the guy for 2 weeks. 2 weeks isnt really a long time.
I am with Claire on the fact that omission of an important detail like having a child is lying. A child is an extension of you unless you give them up for adoption and cut off ties. you must mention it ON THE FIRST DATE. How that is not obvious I don't even understand. I agree that a woman is so much more than her children but you have no business getting to know all the other parts of a mother if her having a child is something that you are not ok with. By the way same goes for men. He must let a woman he is pursuing know immediately. Period.
19:50 Personally, I think single moms/Dads should give this information on the first date. Hi. My name is X. I am a mom/Dad of 2 or whatever number it is. Having children is a critical part of any individual. Give your potential partner a chance to choose. To me, this falls in the same category as someone being transgender. Say it on the first date.
you guys the issue of weight affects both sides ,"small" and "fat" am suffering with the way I look,guys am extremely tiny and the world has taught me to be more insecure. It sucks,its so draining oh God.
I don't think it's deception to not tell anyone you have a child in the beginning. It's when you're comfortable. First few dates, you're getting to know me not my family. Maybe after 3 months, is a bit too much but early on, maybe protect your space for a bit. Get to know the person. Cause I'm way too afraid of pedos who pry on single mothers
This is a sincere request for you ladies. There was a time I was a follower and I felt left out when you use luganda and sent in my concerns and stopped listening for a while hoping you'd use a more common language to most .....when you incorporate Kenyans or our content creators whenever you are referring to subjects we are your consumers as well accomodate us ...HONESTLY I feel not heard as a part of the unpopular opinion because of the language barrier ...really I think i am at a point of completely not being a part of this family because of the language ...we are left hanging..hopefully you see this since the rest have been going unheard
I think masturbation happens with regular friction from walking for women. Pulling never was a thing I experienced but from simple friction of thighs in bed, haibo, the curiosity grew
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To the single mum, my thoughts as a single mum myself find a way to say it in between conversations and especially at the beginning. What I do is that when a man asks me out for a first date I will decline and say I'm taking my son out. That way he already knows there is a child. It has made it easier for me. If he then chooses to pursue me further it's at a point of knowledge about me in that regard.
Hi, watching from Kenya. I have wondered what pulling is, I had to google it. Really interesting, never heard of that before. Thank you!
Yesss, voluptuous it is, I love love your self confidence Claire
Thank you ladies ❤buh am i the only one who thinks who need part 2 of this was busy listening to prim then boom 😂😂end
For the person going through depression I too struggle with bouts but when I turn to God listen to preachings and pray I cry it out and feel refreshed also I talk to the people I pray with and once its out there its half solved also netflix distracts my mind do get some comedies laugh it out
Unpopular opinion is my therapy 😊😊😊so thanks Ladies ❤❤❤❤❤
I think the single mum issue is similar to a man not telling you he is married or with kids after getting you to love him and he says he wasn’t ready to let you know,you will definitely feel lied to right .
Exactly. omission is lying
Hello ladies
Please do this again. I really enjoyed this episode. Be Blessed
About the single mum.. She's a mum. That should be one of the first things he should learn about her. If the purpose of dating is to get to know each other, then how is this information he doesn't know.. I agree with Fiona. It's a huge part of who she is.. And she should be able to share it with this man early..
8:09 Prim, I know what you are talking about. When I was about 15, a lady known to our family told me the same thing. I was starting to put on that adolescence weight and she said, " you need to lose weight. Fat women smell " 😮. You have reminded me of that incident.
Oh Thx ladies for this Prim am waiting for that topic about weight I need it so much I want to even cry wen I listen to u about weight those comments about not getting clean in between oh Lord talk about it gal, I too have emotional eating problems Claire u r gorgeous love u guys y'all
Assembled and ready. Excited to watch!
Thank you guys we need more of the weight topic please
We need to solicit for this channel if that’s what it takes because what just 😮happened😂.
Claire I think what you are calling allowing it is learning to live with it which in itself is progress. Sending cyber hugs.
Congratulations on the 30K subscribers milestone!!!🥂🥳🎊
I love you guys, you always remind me of how beautiful African women are ❤
Ironic how Clair says she’s content with her overweight and 7months later now she wants to do a bariatric surgery to get rid of the fat 😅😂
Friends' honesty is the best policy. You sleep well at night and any time.
I used not to love my lips 👄 coz they are big, they used to abuse me mbu oleega agamwa but I'm now used, thank you ladies coz u have done some great work in us. Self confidence is key.
Thoughts on the single mum dilemma, girl that man is lying. He’s not in love bay simply trying to overwhelm you with love to mask something. There is something he’s not being transparent about. Take your time with it, time will reveal his true intentions.
Virtual hugs Prim, listening to you journey on body shaming.
Thank you@ Clair for your submission on 'pulling'I agree that sexuality is introduced to us at such a young age.i think it corrupts young minds so early which I find unfortunate..I don't agree
I really need atopic about body size....shape etc. Was born with chinese head( no nkona) and my cheeks are chubby but men.....i feel so so funny mostly with my cheeks. Feel like doing surgery for cheecks
ku fines for late coming wabaddewo embeera hahahahahahaha
I noticed too😂
Bt generally on that question that included fine on late coming, there was embeera somewea.
Watching
aahh that runyankole proverb was terrible🤣🤣🤣🤣
Continuation please....
The lighting seems off or is it just me?
Question 1, leave married folks alone. Stay away from them at all costs. Question 3: I think people are used to seeing girls fighting when they have different opinions which is not the case every time; I think younger and unguided females suffer more from this. Question 4: Declare you have children immediately, day 1 just say it because it is not changing overnight. Question 5: Pulling and any other sexual thing should be introduced much later maybe after puberty hits 16+ and it needs to be a personal choice. Question 6: Depression can be dealt with by knowing it is not who you are, it is an emotion. Get help for whatever emotion presents itself. Last question: God and praying is the only solution to witchcraft and whatever mess is around. 😂
whaaaat the episode ended just like that??? mutujooze ba aunt😂😂😂😂
At least they should have left Prim’s point in the description box😂
@@miriam_miriam right!!!!
too much love from kenya,,also we're missing out on the ugandan jokes,not fair,kindly fix that
This is to the first question----.Are the suggestive comments via social media or in person? Because if the comments are via socials,why are you still friends on socials? If the comments are in person, why are you lingering around him? Detach from married exes! If he made the suggestive comments in person, leave it alone, walk away and create bounderies. Some of these ladies linger around that is why their exes are still making suggestive comments. Repect your self and detach.
Question one. CALL IT OUT!!!! People like that man thrive on making women feel like they are crazy.. Call it out and have a candid conversation about it..
But its still ok, even if you dont pull. Am 28, been told about it ,not done it & am ok
But that last question 😂😂
Prim complete your statement 😅😅
About the single mum lady, i dont think she is really hiding it or has delayed to tell the guy as you guys are emphasizing it coz she says she's just known the guy for 2 weeks.
2 weeks isnt really a long time.
I am with Claire on the fact that omission of an important detail like having a child is lying. A child is an extension of you unless you give them up for adoption and cut off ties. you must mention it ON THE FIRST DATE. How that is not obvious I don't even understand. I agree that a woman is so much more than her children but you have no business getting to know all the other parts of a mother if her having a child is something that you are not ok with. By the way same goes for men. He must let a woman he is pursuing know immediately. Period.
19:50 Personally, I think single moms/Dads should give this information on the first date. Hi. My name is X. I am a mom/Dad of 2 or whatever number it is. Having children is a critical part of any individual. Give your potential partner a chance to choose. To me, this falls in the same category as someone being transgender. Say it on the first date.
you guys the issue of weight affects both sides ,"small" and "fat" am suffering with the way I look,guys am extremely tiny and the world has taught me to be more insecure. It sucks,its so draining oh God.
I too couldn't believe phiona was called the thin one because am struggling to gain weight atleast upto her size
@@miriamkhlea5375 exactly. If I get to kemi's size,then ive arrived
prim am so proud of you omg how did you even cut weight
And y is that a red flag noo darling it’s not
I don't think it's deception to not tell anyone you have a child in the beginning. It's when you're comfortable. First few dates, you're getting to know me not my family. Maybe after 3 months, is a bit too much but early on, maybe protect your space for a bit. Get to know the person. Cause I'm way too afraid of pedos who pry on single mothers
This is a sincere request for you ladies.
There was a time I was a follower and I felt left out when you use luganda and sent in my concerns and stopped listening for a while hoping you'd use a more common language to most .....when you incorporate Kenyans or our content creators whenever you are referring to subjects we are your consumers as well accomodate us ...HONESTLY I feel not heard as a part of the unpopular opinion because of the language barrier ...really I think i am at a point of completely not being a part of this family because of the language ...we are left hanging..hopefully you see this since the rest have been going unheard
We know what pulling is in Zim🇿🇼
only tell a man you have kids if he is already taking care of you and is willing to take care of them. if not, dont bother
On day one of someone showing interest you mention your child.
The lighting quality is going down
15:50 SHE JUST SNOBBED IT....done with this podcast 🚮🚮
I think masturbation happens with regular friction from walking for women. Pulling never was a thing I experienced but from simple friction of thighs in bed, haibo, the curiosity grew
Safe Places
Witchcraft is Real at work places...hmmmmm people are not easy but GOD is Bigger than Charm😢
That thing of pulling and masturbation. Hooooo its really so real and addictive and tge worst thing is getting out of it.
Looking too short or too tall for a woman😂