I don't understand why the feminists went from reasonably calm to IMMEDIATELY HOSTILE whenever they were challenged. That kills any kind of productive conversation, so frustrating...
I think that comes from arguing for an ideology, as opposed to examining ideas, principles, and outcomes individually. This is the same way that the guy who argued for patriarchy had the most reactive responses among the men. An ideology tends to have consistent and dependent principles, methods, and outcomes. When one part is challenged, it's a challenge to the whole. I think it's best to approach these discussions with the knowledge that no ideology is perfect, and that there will be valid critiques and grievances when the ideal meets the real. We're always working with incomplete information and resources. Issues are going to arise.
@@WalycraOfficial Feminism was ideological and toxically gynocentric from the very beginning. They were arguing for women to vote while 18 year old boys were being drafted against their wills into the trenches of WW1.
That's how you know you're on the more culturally dominant side - that you don't need to explain yourself with erudition, that righteous anger suffices as an argument.
There is actually a gender wage gap, it is just much smaller than was purported to be. When accounting for all other variables (such as if a role is full time or part time, years of experience, qualifications etc) there is still a small wage gap that can not be attributed to anything other than gender. It is only a few %, but academic studies and national statistics research do still show a small gender pay gap. But you also have to factor in the “tax on women” with things like tampon tax, meaning that the cost of living for women also tends to be slightly higher, making the effective “pay gap” bigger.
As far what I have seen, women are NEVER told to control their emotions. How many men have had a woman wakeup being upset or violent because they had a dream that you cheated or you were violent( far more than you would think). I have also had a woman threatened to call SA when I said no. This was not a date, but a favor to help rearange furniture. When another person can say you SA me and that may end your freedom or make it impossible find employment when you have done nothing wrong. That is a real consideration when it comes to helping or working together at your job. I have had to pay for a child that was not biologically mine that was born during a marriage. I did raise that child and had him 24/7 for years, BUT there was NO consequences for her cheating. By the way at the point she was owed me for child support, she was "forgiven" without notification. As at this point we deal with each other BUT, the County, State, and Federal systems certainly inflamed the conflict. Are most women like this? No but, there are way too many that are.
While it's not someone telling a girl to control her feeling blatantly. I have heard plenty of women say that stuff like periods are not an excuse for being mean. And that if you use your period as an excuse to be a bitch then you are just actually a bitch.
What was that old refrain from the “me too” movement? It’s all men until it’s no men? I think it works the same the other way around too. It’s all women until it’s no women.
One thing I’ve learned just from being alive is that whenever somebody gets defensive about a topic there’s always a good reason for it. By good reason, I mean that something happened to them where being challenged is not just seen as a normal thing but a threatening of identity. I dated a woman who talk to me about how she was always scared of arguing with people because she hated being wrong. Her dad would always use any chance to get one over on her to make her feel stupid and it took her a long time to realize that most people are not that way. It helped that I love debating and would explain exactly what I was doing in any discussion we were doing. That probably made her feel safe to open up about that. But yeah, don’t get angry at people when they get defensive because there may be more to it than you’re aware.
Never was told "man up"....been told be strong and wipe those tears, be strong because life is tough and will have to deal with much worse as you grow up....was good advice and will never forget, my dad being kicked out of house and saying goodbye for years showing me best way to wipe my tears comforting me when I was 5, 1 of most memorable memories I have, didn't tell me to "man up" just apologized and said something I have to deal with and it will be tough but I have to overcome it and be strong
42:23 - They responded to the direct question, "What would the perfect man look like, if they were everything that feminists want them to be?", by saying, "Men should be everything feminists want them to be." And not a single one of these ladies realized that they couldn't answer the question honestly.
Reading comments saying stay away from these topics just sounds like a person who doesn't like conversation unless you agree play if we don't have the heart conversation these issues will never get solved
@thomasalberts4597 That was I. After watching this kind of content for years, I have no issue with open discussion of any topic under the sun. YT, however, does. For reasons unstated, they have a major issue with it. They have done all kinds of things to people who wade in these waters, most resulting in having their income delayed or witheld. This does not happen to creators of dangerous fake animal videos, depictions of violence, or pro-feminist content. Its clear that their riding on the liberal bandwagon is just virtue signaling because there is nothing liberal about censuring content. A lesson today's left has yet to learn. I think its unfair, undemocratic, and un-American, but YT is a private entity, and they can do what they want with no warning.
What reciepts? The ones where she completely dismisses her HUSBAND a “MAN” is what stopped the bookstore guy? Right she dismissed the good side of men for the bad, when it fit her narrative, thats feminism for you.
Completely missing the point. The fact that a man would only respect another man, and she was treated as property at worst, a second class citizen at best, is the point. It shouldn’t /need/ her husband to be there for her to be not abused by men in public. That is the toxic side of masculinity. As a man, I have sadly seen this all too often when out with women - when men look to me for “permission” and size me up first. It is depressingly common - and I am likely only seeing a fraction of what women are subjected to.
the women in this video are so frustrating, they don’t get it and they’re not trying to get it, they’re just living in their own world with what they’re told by those around them
Few years back my wife used terms, toxic masculinity, woman does not need a man to be complete, gaslighting etc. This movement on the internet ended our 40 years together 34 married. Must have been tough got out quickly! LOL Alone now not saying I like this, but Life goes on. Stay busy guys when it happens best advice I could give.
Britt, please be very, very careful with this kind of content. I love your channel and this sort of content but I want to see you stick around. But YT has a very low tolerance for these types of topics. Many have been demonetized or had new subscriptions held back or worse. Pro- Feminism content receives rewards, while anti-feminist viewpoints receive censure and a lot of negativity.
@brittreacts You are welcome. I want you to be successful here for a long time. I dont know how big a hassle it is, but maybe you can set up an associated channel or separate channel if you want to continue down this path so that when the torch brigade comes, they won't take down your entire empire. I don't want to mention how many others have suffered this fate. I think I may know why they want to censor this kind of content, but I can not understand why the 1st amendment does not apply to private companies.
So your warning Britt that she risks censorship and she should self censure her channel . The content is still here and I see her subscriptions haven’t dropped off.
@manonthemoog it's because of people like you that this happens. You should be telling her to post more and stand up to this dumb way of life people are trying to instill
I'll be so happy when the day comes when people will finally understand that us men and women aren't build equally to one another and are just biologically different 🤦
I think there was a case with Ruth Bader Ginsburg, where she actually defended a man who was denied assistance for caring for his mother. He was being denied because normally it would be the wife who takes care of older relatives, and the law was written to give money to women who are doing that not men. I don’t remember the name of the case, but I’m sure someone can easily find it.
Also see comments about "being careful" yeah can get some issues here and there but your channel will grow substantially with type of content, way beyond music etc....wouldnt worry too much about, maybe short term but overall just follow your heart, clearly have strong opinions and will be very appreciated by many, might take a little while to gain traction but you could make an entire career from if stand on your morals
What do we think about; Changing how we interact with each other. Like, move from thinking about each other and therefore ourselves as just our physical bodies (men/women, color of skin)to we speak for ourselves? I have actually practiced being this way, i do not think of each other as men/women/color(only when describing each other physically) and therefore I don't refer to someone by there physical form> i say their name or describe that person/individual. Thinking this way allows me to truly be me and i can actually share my true voice! When people generalize like they are in this video, self gets lost and if we continue living that way who i am gets lost. I absolutely welcome everyone's thoughts!!
I agree with you on the “Black Lives Matter” comment. I’m Asian and I understand and understood what the statement meant. One of my friends, also Asian, doesn’t. He thinks it’s blacks lives matter more and there is no talking to him about it. I personally always look at both sides and will always respect people’s right to their view. Agree to disagree, but respect their right to their view goes along way.
I'm black, but I agree with your friend. I've never from the beginning seen black lives matter as an inclusive statement because there was never a time where you could expand that. The second you tried to say asian lives matter as well you were said to be trying to take away attention from the movement. It was also built on a flat lie. Every human saying black lives matter know that a young civilian black male is a greater threat to my life than a cop of any color. Yet never once did I hear any of the "allies" speak out against Pookie or Daquan on the block.
The problem is that there are many things that ARE zero sum. For example right now women make up about 60% of college admissions. This is worse than when title 9 was implemented.
The issue there is not college admissions, but a failure of the education system and society to encourage as many men to continue an academic path. Eg society puts more pressure on men to “go get a job” as just one example.
45 female here...i think its ridiculous to say men shouldnt joke and have locker talk is hypocritical. Many women like to joke and slander men...especially about sexual stuff.
The way that one girl attacked the man for actually coming prepared to a debate/ conversation of perspectives is insane to me. Sorry but if you feel so strongly about your point of view, you should be able to defend it with fact and research. Otherwise you’re just another sheep following the herd.
On the topic of family courts, a lot of feminists (a lot of women in general) don't know the history of their own activism. In a patriarchy, such as those that still exist in parts of the Middle East and Africa, when a married couple divorces the husband gets full custody of all their children because he has sole financial responsibility for them under that patriarchal system. In the west, this was also the case until the mid-19th century when divorced mothers began to advocate for being allowed to maintain contact with their children after divorce. After.several decades of fighting for custody, the law was changed so that mothers retained custody of their children after divorce. At the same time, child support laws were introduced because the fathers still retained the financial responsibility for their children even if they no longer had custody. Initially, default maternal custody only applied to children under 5 years old on the grounds that children that young still needed to be breastfed (the length of time infants are breastfed for has decreased significantly in the past century or so). Further advocacy by women's groups then pushed this up to 12 years old, which in the UK is where it remains (children over 12 are allowed to decide for themselves which parent to live with). So when a feminist blames family court issues on patriarchal norms she clearly doesn't know the history of women's rights or patriarchy.
While I agree with almost all of your comments. (I'm a man, so my DNA won't let me agree 100% with anyone 😂) Your comment about just because of growing up in a bad situation doesn't mean you have to live that way. I grew up in an extremely dysfunctional home like you did, I used it as an example of who I didn't want to become.
😂😂 cracking up at your DNA comment. Yes, that was my point. Maybe I didn’t explain it properly; I was struggling at times lol. But yes… live in SPITE of and not BECAUSE OF!
@brittreacts i started writing the next "Not the next great American novel, but the next better than average sarcastic satire novel" based on Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus called "For those living on the planet earth Men are assholes/Woman are insane" It's a semi autobiographical tragic comedy about my love life".
It's odd that in one breath she tells him that she doesn't need him to protect her just not to harm her, and then in the next breath she says she can protect herself. Because the first statement seems to require men to exert a level of self control that *is* protecting her by default that renders the second statement moot. And she doesn't seem to recognise this. She's talking to him like he represents all men and his decisions on how to behave towards her apply to all men. I've heard a lot of feminists talk like this. Like men are a hive mind who all follow one another like ants and if one man decides something it applies to all men. And it has never made any sense to me because i can only control the behavious of myself. I have no control over the decisions and choices of other men. And the same applies to women. The decisions of one woman on how to behave don't transfer to all women. I wish i could work out where this idea comes from and how to get rid of it. Because it gives me as a man an expectation of a hyperagency that i don't have over other men. Or over humans in general.
Listening to feminists and MRAs describe one another is often like listening to mirror conversations. She only hears anger from MRAs but feminist rhetoric is often full of anger. Anger they feel righteous about but too often can't accept when others are angry for what they also think are righteous reasons. Too much tone policing and not enough listening goes on in these debates.
I think it would have been better to talk about what things Feminism gets right and what it is at this point starting to destroy... and that in turn explains the counter "Men's Rights" movement. Sadly, video series like the one the video came from is not aiming for a resolution, and all I learned it is far easier than it should be to find the extremes in any given topic. *Bea: Atleast seemed like she was trying to understand. I feel of the women, she was the best of the debate. *Alyesha: I feel like she simply can't be open to what men have to say due to her experiences she has had. I get why she has her viewpoints, and in her environment she is from, feminism actually is needed more respect for. I wish her best, hopefully she can forgive males as a whole, one day. *Mimi: The worst by a long shot. Her and Derrick were the weaks one up there for a debate. Mimi at one point was shutting down Kursat for laying out the ills that men have. That is exactly why a men's rights movement is a thing in the first place. In Mimi's mind it seems you can express yourself as long as you agree with her opinions. *Kursat: He was the most understand of both viewpoints, and he tried to be tactful in his engagement. *Zach: He did okay, but he should not have questions why Alyesha was the way she was. Kursat later answered the question aimed at Zach, but Zach could had focused on mens overall ills instead of sidestepping and putting Alyesha on the stand. *Derrick: He just sounded all full of himself. He brought up a few things, but he never went into any details on his viewpoints. I could see a conversation on how modern Feminism is destroying dating and marriage could have been useful. Anyways, Best to you and your family, Britt.
Here’s the deal, everyone wants things the way they want it. People are different, some people want the traditional way and others want a more progressive way. Why don’t we just respect other peoples views and agree to disagree. The guy in the yellow sweatshirt is lying to himself and us. Understand people dwell on the things that negatively affect them and don’t often see the advantages they have. Like Bill Burr said, The reason I (men) get a $1 more an hour is in the event the titanic goes down I have to go down with the ship, paraphrasing.
Emotions are hard for men the only ones woman will accept is angry or happy. Being sad and crying is looked down upon. I have only cried twice in a relationship one the woman broke up with me a couple weeks later. I was crying because my friend died. The second was when Dad died I married her. So that a 50/50 chance they will look down on you so why take a chance. Lots time what woman call toxic masculinity comes when they are not attracted to the man but the man they are attracted to it’s sexy can be same things. A lot of men’s right group don’t believe men and woman can be best friends unless sleeping together. The man will always be trying sleep with the woman or wait his turn.
If the young fella in the yellow hoodie tried to look a little more appropriate and kept his feelings out of most of the questions I'd say this is a great panel 😅 He made some decent points but gotta admit most of the time when he spoke it felt like one of those cringy yt shorts 😬 Dialogue is important. Check on your bros (male or female), and just accept that a % of the population is going to think differently than you. No need to change the world 🤷
That channel is interesting, I used to watch it more; however it’s become people just arguing and not listening to the other side. Why can’t people see the flaws of their side? I most always feel somewhere in the middle is the correct position.
I really wish these parents were better these days because from what I've seen all over UA-cam and tik tok and my own personal experience these women in my age bracket al they care about is what a man can do for them and not what they can build together and i never hear them mention any type of real emotional connections. There so 1 sided im 35 and ive given up ill die alone
Awesome react as always Brit! Have never made a request but would kindly ask if you can please react to “Patrice O’Neal | How To Embrace Confrontation” by ThinkBIGAnimation. It’s an incredibly insightful video into the mind of one the greatest comedians of our time and think it aligns with some of the topics from this video. Thanks for all you do fam, keep it up. Much love and God bless 🙂🙏🏾👍🏾
Jubilee isn't that good. The questions asked are vague & don't allow real insights. It's too controlled & at times too much of an argument with no real discussion.
No ,Brit and i love you and am very happy that you have a family that you can allow your husband to be the man.But the days where me were the head of the family because they were the man were not great for everyone.My mother was a wife in those days my siblings and i lived in a house under a mans rule.You idea of a patriarchal marriage only works if the man or head of the family is goid.To many times with power comes abuse physical and psychological.My father is his role as leader so distroyed my faith in a good man this even a man acting slightly like my boss makes and has made me run.so i guess what im trying to tell you is the good ole days were not that great,and yes my mother did finally leave but without help from even her family because the abuse we suffered was seen as her fault.Not the head of the families fault not all leaders are capable of being good leaders.
Jubilee Middle Ground has many many amazing dialogues to taste. Recommend them all. I believe that honest, respectful dialogue can offset manynof our current issues.
I would love for Britt to do a single video detailing a moment where BLM was what she claims. I don't think at any moment from it's inception that black lives matter was inclusive of other lives. It feels like she just bought into the tagline, but from the first day blm was exclusive, and based on a lie that I'm not sure she fully sees yet. Highest cause of death for me is another young black man. You're going to march for my life by protesting cops? What about the demons on the corner? If you're not addressing them, your movement is a joke.
If going do this content. it is good because it help understand you better. do something that has more facts like Jordan Peterson vs Cathy Newman. I will warn you it has lots of facts in it and by end I guarantee you will not like Cathy. My 87 year old mother watched this with me and she agreed with Jordan by end and caused us to talk about lots of points. ua-cam.com/video/aMcjxSThD54/v-deo.htmlsi=Fgwu5yd3YngQL245
Debate content and ASMR? I see this as an absolute win.
You know what... I didn't even think of it this way. Thanks!! lol!
I don't understand why the feminists went from reasonably calm to IMMEDIATELY HOSTILE whenever they were challenged. That kills any kind of productive conversation, so frustrating...
Feminist 101...
Modern Feminism, the original Feminism was good and needed back then
I think that comes from arguing for an ideology, as opposed to examining ideas, principles, and outcomes individually. This is the same way that the guy who argued for patriarchy had the most reactive responses among the men. An ideology tends to have consistent and dependent principles, methods, and outcomes. When one part is challenged, it's a challenge to the whole. I think it's best to approach these discussions with the knowledge that no ideology is perfect, and that there will be valid critiques and grievances when the ideal meets the real. We're always working with incomplete information and resources. Issues are going to arise.
@@WalycraOfficial Feminism was ideological and toxically gynocentric from the very beginning. They were arguing for women to vote while 18 year old boys were being drafted against their wills into the trenches of WW1.
That's how you know you're on the more culturally dominant side - that you don't need to explain yourself with erudition, that righteous anger suffices as an argument.
It blows my mind how many women still believe the wage gap myth!
There is actually a gender wage gap, it is just much smaller than was purported to be. When accounting for all other variables (such as if a role is full time or part time, years of experience, qualifications etc) there is still a small wage gap that can not be attributed to anything other than gender. It is only a few %, but academic studies and national statistics research do still show a small gender pay gap.
But you also have to factor in the “tax on women” with things like tampon tax, meaning that the cost of living for women also tends to be slightly higher, making the effective “pay gap” bigger.
I know right. Liberal think tanks have even run the math & debunked.
As far what I have seen, women are NEVER told to control their emotions. How many men have had a woman wakeup being upset or violent because they had a dream that you cheated or you were violent( far more than you would think). I have also had a woman threatened to call SA when I said no. This was not a date, but a favor to help rearange furniture. When another person can say you SA me and that may end your freedom or make it impossible find employment when you have done nothing wrong. That is a real consideration when it comes to helping or working together at your job. I have had to pay for a child that was not biologically mine that was born during a marriage. I did raise that child and had him 24/7 for years, BUT there was NO consequences for her cheating. By the way at the point she was owed me for child support, she was "forgiven" without notification. As at this point we deal with each other BUT, the County, State, and Federal systems certainly inflamed the conflict.
Are most women like this? No but, there are way too many that are.
Not all women, but usually it's most women
While it's not someone telling a girl to control her feeling blatantly. I have heard plenty of women say that stuff like periods are not an excuse for being mean. And that if you use your period as an excuse to be a bitch then you are just actually a bitch.
What was that old refrain from the “me too” movement?
It’s all men until it’s no men?
I think it works the same the other way around too.
It’s all women until it’s no women.
One thing I’ve learned just from being alive is that whenever somebody gets defensive about a topic there’s always a good reason for it. By good reason, I mean that something happened to them where being challenged is not just seen as a normal thing but a threatening of identity. I dated a woman who talk to me about how she was always scared of arguing with people because she hated being wrong. Her dad would always use any chance to get one over on her to make her feel stupid and it took her a long time to realize that most people are not that way. It helped that I love debating and would explain exactly what I was doing in any discussion we were doing. That probably made her feel safe to open up about that. But yeah, don’t get angry at people when they get defensive because there may be more to it than you’re aware.
This is a great point! Thank you for sharing this point of view. Grace is always an option! Have the day you deserve 🥰
8:00 "I don't need you to protect me, I just need you not to harm me"
Yeah and I need you not to lump me in with men who harm others.
the men are coming with facts and logic, the women and coming with feelings and anecdotes (allegedly)
do these women understand that they are abusive? classic abuser behaviour. discredit someone so you can treat them any way you like.
It's so sad to witness
@@brittreacts How are they abusive? 🤨 they had weird point yes, but abusive???
Never was told "man up"....been told be strong and wipe those tears, be strong because life is tough and will have to deal with much worse as you grow up....was good advice and will never forget, my dad being kicked out of house and saying goodbye for years showing me best way to wipe my tears comforting me when I was 5, 1 of most memorable memories I have, didn't tell me to "man up" just apologized and said something I have to deal with and it will be tough but I have to overcome it and be strong
42:23 - They responded to the direct question, "What would the perfect man look like, if they were everything that feminists want them to be?", by saying, "Men should be everything feminists want them to be."
And not a single one of these ladies realized that they couldn't answer the question honestly.
Reading comments saying stay away from these topics just sounds like a person who doesn't like conversation unless you agree play if we don't have the heart conversation these issues will never get solved
@thomasalberts4597 That was I. After watching this kind of content for years, I have no issue with open discussion of any topic under the sun. YT, however, does.
For reasons unstated, they have a major issue with it. They have done all kinds of things to people who wade in these waters, most resulting in having their income delayed or witheld.
This does not happen to creators of dangerous fake animal videos, depictions of violence, or pro-feminist content. Its clear that their riding on the liberal bandwagon is just virtue signaling because there is nothing liberal about censuring content. A lesson today's left has yet to learn.
I think its unfair, undemocratic, and un-American, but YT is a private entity, and they can do what they want with no warning.
What reciepts? The ones where she completely dismisses her HUSBAND a “MAN” is what stopped the bookstore guy? Right she dismissed the good side of men for the bad, when it fit her narrative, thats feminism for you.
Completely missing the point. The fact that a man would only respect another man, and she was treated as property at worst, a second class citizen at best, is the point. It shouldn’t /need/ her husband to be there for her to be not abused by men in public. That is the toxic side of masculinity. As a man, I have sadly seen this all too often when out with women - when men look to me for “permission” and size me up first. It is depressingly common - and I am likely only seeing a fraction of what women are subjected to.
Oh come on Britt, that’s not only “his experience” that’s the experience of the majority of men who aren’t supermodels
the women in this video are so frustrating, they don’t get it and they’re not trying to get it, they’re just living in their own world with what they’re told by those around them
Glad you are reacting to this type of content. Especially since you have a son. This is gonna be a huge aspect of the world he'll be an adult in.
Few years back my wife used terms, toxic masculinity, woman does not need a man to be complete, gaslighting etc. This movement on the internet ended our 40 years together 34 married. Must have been tough got out quickly! LOL Alone now not saying I like this, but Life goes on. Stay busy guys when it happens best advice I could give.
Britt, please be very, very careful with this kind of content. I love your channel and this sort of content but I want to see you stick around. But YT has a very low tolerance for these types of topics. Many have been demonetized or had new subscriptions held back or worse. Pro- Feminism content receives rewards, while anti-feminist viewpoints receive censure and a lot of negativity.
Noted, I appreciate your feedback!
@brittreacts You are welcome. I want you to be successful here for a long time.
I dont know how big a hassle it is, but maybe you can set up an associated channel or separate channel if you want to continue down this path so that when the torch brigade comes, they won't take down your entire empire. I don't want to mention how many others have suffered this fate. I think I may know why they want to censor this kind of content, but I can not understand why the 1st amendment does not apply to private companies.
So your warning Britt that she risks censorship and she should self censure her channel . The content is still here and I see her subscriptions haven’t dropped off.
@artsolano6762 Nothing would make me happier than to be proven wrong.
I just wish I had the foresight to warn a few other content creators.
@manonthemoog it's because of people like you that this happens. You should be telling her to post more and stand up to this dumb way of life people are trying to instill
He's not an incel....he could find a woman to have sex with... he's a self proclaimed "victim" based on his standards and projects
I'll be so happy when the day comes when people will finally understand that us men and women aren't build equally to one another and are just biologically different 🤦
15:07 A big point here is for men it's "toxic" if men don't emote the way women emote.
I think there was a case with Ruth Bader Ginsburg, where she actually defended a man who was denied assistance for caring for his mother. He was being denied because normally it would be the wife who takes care of older relatives, and the law was written to give money to women who are doing that not men. I don’t remember the name of the case, but I’m sure someone can easily find it.
Also see comments about "being careful" yeah can get some issues here and there but your channel will grow substantially with type of content, way beyond music etc....wouldnt worry too much about, maybe short term but overall just follow your heart, clearly have strong opinions and will be very appreciated by many, might take a little while to gain traction but you could make an entire career from if stand on your morals
The only person on here I agree 100% with is Britt!
What do we think about;
Changing how we interact with each other. Like, move from thinking about each other and therefore ourselves as just our physical bodies (men/women, color of skin)to we speak for ourselves?
I have actually practiced being this way, i do not think of each other as men/women/color(only when describing each other physically) and therefore I don't refer to someone by there physical form> i say their name or describe that person/individual. Thinking this way allows me to truly be me and i can actually share my true voice! When people generalize like they are in this video, self gets lost and if we continue living that way who i am gets lost. I absolutely welcome everyone's thoughts!!
I agree with you on the “Black Lives Matter” comment. I’m Asian and I understand and understood what the statement meant. One of my friends, also Asian, doesn’t. He thinks it’s blacks lives matter more and there is no talking to him about it. I personally always look at both sides and will always respect people’s right to their view. Agree to disagree, but respect their right to their view goes along way.
I'm black, but I agree with your friend. I've never from the beginning seen black lives matter as an inclusive statement because there was never a time where you could expand that. The second you tried to say asian lives matter as well you were said to be trying to take away attention from the movement. It was also built on a flat lie. Every human saying black lives matter know that a young civilian black male is a greater threat to my life than a cop of any color. Yet never once did I hear any of the "allies" speak out against Pookie or Daquan on the block.
Oh Britt, you don't know the rock you looked under 😂
uh oh!! lol
I think this "debate" wasn't very good, it was all over the place, it felt like each side was discussing a very different topic
The problem is that there are many things that ARE zero sum. For example right now women make up about 60% of college admissions. This is worse than when title 9 was implemented.
The issue there is not college admissions, but a failure of the education system and society to encourage as many men to continue an academic path. Eg society puts more pressure on men to “go get a job” as just one example.
the tampon thing also wasn’t a good point, women survived for thousands of years without tampons
Not just that but every item is taxed when purchased
45 female here...i think its ridiculous to say men shouldnt joke and have locker talk is hypocritical. Many women like to joke and slander men...especially about sexual stuff.
The way that one girl attacked the man for actually coming prepared to a debate/ conversation of perspectives is insane to me. Sorry but if you feel so strongly about your point of view, you should be able to defend it with fact and research. Otherwise you’re just another sheep following the herd.
I think everybody should be In cell's, or maybe put down there cell phone's this is the very reason why men are walking away.
On the topic of family courts, a lot of feminists (a lot of women in general) don't know the history of their own activism.
In a patriarchy, such as those that still exist in parts of the Middle East and Africa, when a married couple divorces the husband gets full custody of all their children because he has sole financial responsibility for them under that patriarchal system.
In the west, this was also the case until the mid-19th century when divorced mothers began to advocate for being allowed to maintain contact with their children after divorce. After.several decades of fighting for custody, the law was changed so that mothers retained custody of their children after divorce. At the same time, child support laws were introduced because the fathers still retained the financial responsibility for their children even if they no longer had custody.
Initially, default maternal custody only applied to children under 5 years old on the grounds that children that young still needed to be breastfed (the length of time infants are breastfed for has decreased significantly in the past century or so). Further advocacy by women's groups then pushed this up to 12 years old, which in the UK is where it remains (children over 12 are allowed to decide for themselves which parent to live with).
So when a feminist blames family court issues on patriarchal norms she clearly doesn't know the history of women's rights or patriarchy.
Why wouldn't she come with answers. He brought his little research . She thinks insults wins the debate.
"Let's be Humans".......words for 2025.....Blessings to y'all!!!🙏🇺🇲🙏⚜️⚜️⚜️
While I agree with almost all of your comments. (I'm a man, so my DNA won't let me agree 100% with anyone 😂)
Your comment about just because of growing up in a bad situation doesn't mean you have to live that way. I grew up in an extremely dysfunctional home like you did, I used it as an example of who I didn't want to become.
😂😂 cracking up at your DNA comment. Yes, that was my point. Maybe I didn’t explain it properly; I was struggling at times lol. But yes… live in SPITE of and not BECAUSE OF!
@brittreacts i started writing the next "Not the next great American novel, but the next better than average sarcastic satire novel" based on Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus called "For those living on the planet earth Men are assholes/Woman are insane" It's a semi autobiographical tragic comedy about my love life".
It's odd that in one breath she tells him that she doesn't need him to protect her just not to harm her, and then in the next breath she says she can protect herself.
Because the first statement seems to require men to exert a level of self control that *is* protecting her by default that renders the second statement moot. And she doesn't seem to recognise this.
She's talking to him like he represents all men and his decisions on how to behave towards her apply to all men. I've heard a lot of feminists talk like this. Like men are a hive mind who all follow one another like ants and if one man decides something it applies to all men. And it has never made any sense to me because i can only control the behavious of myself. I have no control over the decisions and choices of other men.
And the same applies to women. The decisions of one woman on how to behave don't transfer to all women.
I wish i could work out where this idea comes from and how to get rid of it. Because it gives me as a man an expectation of a hyperagency that i don't have over other men. Or over humans in general.
Listening to feminists and MRAs describe one another is often like listening to mirror conversations.
She only hears anger from MRAs but feminist rhetoric is often full of anger. Anger they feel righteous about but too often can't accept when others are angry for what they also think are righteous reasons.
Too much tone policing and not enough listening goes on in these debates.
I think it would have been better to talk about what things Feminism gets right and what it is at this point starting to destroy... and that in turn explains the counter "Men's Rights" movement. Sadly, video series like the one the video came from is not aiming for a resolution, and all I learned it is far easier than it should be to find the extremes in any given topic.
*Bea: Atleast seemed like she was trying to understand. I feel of the women, she was the best of the debate.
*Alyesha: I feel like she simply can't be open to what men have to say due to her experiences she has had. I get why she has her viewpoints, and in her environment she is from, feminism actually is needed more respect for. I wish her best, hopefully she can forgive males as a whole, one day.
*Mimi: The worst by a long shot. Her and Derrick were the weaks one up there for a debate. Mimi at one point was shutting down Kursat for laying out the ills that men have. That is exactly why a men's rights movement is a thing in the first place. In Mimi's mind it seems you can express yourself as long as you agree with her opinions.
*Kursat: He was the most understand of both viewpoints, and he tried to be tactful in his engagement.
*Zach: He did okay, but he should not have questions why Alyesha was the way she was. Kursat later answered the question aimed at Zach, but Zach could had focused on mens overall ills instead of sidestepping and putting Alyesha on the stand.
*Derrick: He just sounded all full of himself. He brought up a few things, but he never went into any details on his viewpoints. I could see a conversation on how modern Feminism is destroying dating and marriage could have been useful.
Anyways, Best to you and your family,
Britt.
BTW, hoping for more ShowOnHead response Videos. 😉
You just earned a subscription from me. I came for the Shoeonhead videos, but you kept me coming!
13:22 - How does a guy get treated for not conforming to gender norms, not just by men but by women?
Here’s the deal, everyone wants things the way they want it. People are different, some people want the traditional way and others want a more progressive way. Why don’t we just respect other peoples views and agree to disagree. The guy in the yellow sweatshirt is lying to himself and us. Understand people dwell on the things that negatively affect them and don’t often see the advantages they have. Like Bill Burr said, The reason I (men) get a $1 more an hour is in the event the titanic goes down I have to go down with the ship, paraphrasing.
I’m with you Brit, my man and the men in my life need to protect me.
If you don‘t have a system that you believe in, whatever it is, why should you behave in a specific way that does not benefit you?
Where's the holding women accountable? I thought we are equal so start holding them.
Woman, stop apologizing for fueling up. Outworking most people and saying sorry. 🙄
I'd like to ask these women who's been putting out the fires in L.A.?
Please react to "Trans Conservatives vs Trans Liberals | Middle Ground" from Jubilee and/or Blair White's talk about it
Emotions are hard for men the only ones woman will accept is angry or happy. Being sad and crying is looked down upon. I have only cried twice in a relationship one the woman broke up with me a couple weeks later. I was crying because my friend died. The second was when Dad died I married her. So that a 50/50 chance they will look down on you so why take a chance. Lots time what woman call toxic masculinity comes when they are not attracted to the man but the man they are attracted to it’s sexy can be same things. A lot of men’s right group don’t believe men and woman can be best friends unless sleeping together. The man will always be trying sleep with the woman or wait his turn.
If the young fella in the yellow hoodie tried to look a little more appropriate and kept his feelings out of most of the questions I'd say this is a great panel 😅
He made some decent points but gotta admit most of the time when he spoke it felt like one of those cringy yt shorts 😬
Dialogue is important. Check on your bros (male or female), and just accept that a % of the population is going to think differently than you. No need to change the world 🤷
That channel is interesting, I used to watch it more; however it’s become people just arguing and not listening to the other side. Why can’t people see the flaws of their side? I most always feel somewhere in the middle is the correct position.
Andrew Tate is toxic masculinity
I really wish these parents were better these days because from what I've seen all over UA-cam and tik tok and my own personal experience these women in my age bracket al they care about is what a man can do for them and not what they can build together and i never hear them mention any type of real emotional connections. There so 1 sided im 35 and ive given up ill die alone
it's heartbreaking.. truly.
Respect and love the differences if we were all the same images be a lot of eagoes respect and love the difference that's what makes life beautiful
You should watch/react to The red pill documentary by Cassie Jaye. It's about this aubject.
Congrats on the home schooling.
The second you he she it _ I automatically lose respect for you
Awesome react as always Brit! Have never made a request but would kindly ask if you can please react to “Patrice O’Neal | How To Embrace Confrontation” by ThinkBIGAnimation. It’s an incredibly insightful video into the mind of one the greatest comedians of our time and think it aligns with some of the topics from this video. Thanks for all you do fam, keep it up. Much love and God bless 🙂🙏🏾👍🏾
You can not identify as an incel. It isnt real lol. Im sure dude could get laid if he went out of his house. Its all voluntary
He could voluntarily pay for it in Las Vegas. So yeah, not as real as a lot of self-proclaimed incels say it is.
Jubilee isn't that good. The questions asked are vague & don't allow real insights. It's too controlled & at times too much of an argument with no real discussion.
No ,Brit and i love you and am very happy that you have a family that you can allow your husband to be the man.But the days where me were the head of the family because they were the man were not great for everyone.My mother was a wife in those days my siblings and i lived in a house under a mans rule.You idea of a patriarchal marriage only works if the man or head of the family is goid.To many times with power comes abuse physical and psychological.My father is his role as leader so distroyed my faith in a good man this even a man acting slightly like my boss makes and has made me run.so i guess what im trying to tell you is the good ole days were not that great,and yes my mother did finally leave but without help from even her family because the abuse we suffered was seen as her fault.Not the head of the families fault not all leaders are capable of being good leaders.
Jubilee Middle Ground has many many amazing dialogues to taste. Recommend them all. I believe that honest, respectful dialogue can offset manynof our current issues.
i really enjoyed hearing both sides. I'm excited to explore more!
Could not watch with all the chewing and lip smacking.
People call ASMR....I find weird, like yo why not eat etc off cam lol... You eat politely but some be nuts with it smackin n sh*t everything lol
😂😂😂
Can you not eat while recording.
She clearly explained why she needed to eat while recording in the beginning
Like, LITERALLY😂😂
I can but I won’t 😋 have the day you deserve!!
@@brittreacts you can do whatever tf you want, whenever the f you want. It’s you’re channel. lol
BLM was only about black lives for about 30 seconds.
@antipathy17 I thought that the National Rifle Association was being a little too on point with their short-lived "NO LIVES MATTER" campaign.
@@manonthemoog except that was a meme and not a real campaign LOL!
I would love for Britt to do a single video detailing a moment where BLM was what she claims. I don't think at any moment from it's inception that black lives matter was inclusive of other lives. It feels like she just bought into the tagline, but from the first day blm was exclusive, and based on a lie that I'm not sure she fully sees yet. Highest cause of death for me is another young black man. You're going to march for my life by protesting cops? What about the demons on the corner? If you're not addressing them, your movement is a joke.
If going do this content. it is good because it help understand you better. do something that has more facts like Jordan Peterson vs Cathy Newman. I will warn you it has lots of facts in it and by end I guarantee you will not like Cathy. My 87 year old mother watched this with me and she agreed with Jordan by end and caused us to talk about lots of points.
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the men are coming with facts and logic, the women and coming with feelings and anecdotes (allegedly)