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  • Опубліковано 10 лис 2021
  • Its time for a Q and A! In this video I will be answering your questions from my perspective as an Orthodox Jewish Homeschooling Mom of three. I will be sharing facets of my Orthodox life as I answer your questions on a variety of topics. The questions and my answers range from can Jews adopt? to how do you handle Diabetes on fast days? and Do we celebrate Christian holidays with my extended family? also How do you know what kind of Jew you are? and can you wear leggings under your dresses? and how do you handle the Mikvah during Menopause? and what is Kosher? And what makes a food kosher? And many many more! I answer each question based on my personal knowledge and experience to the best of my ability :)
    Hello and welcome! My name is Chana, I’m married to my best friend, and we have three wonderful children together. We also happen to be Orthodox Jews and we homeschool our kids. This video is a sneak peek into our daily lives :) You can see how this particular Jewish homeschool mom sets up her days, rolls with the punches, and gets it all done. Thanks for watching!
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  • @jaroffireflies
    @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +38

    If y’all have any follow up questions, feel free to let me know here and I’ll do my best to answer! Thank you for watching and I hope you are having a wonderful day!!! 💖

    • @anjahorn
      @anjahorn 2 роки тому +8

      My question: when do you plan, to come to frankfurt to drink a coffee with me ? :)

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +7

      @@anjahorn I love that! Hows this, while I have no travel plans now, when and if I do make it to Frankfurt, we will absolutely meet for coffee!!!

    • @dreaG45
      @dreaG45 2 роки тому +2

      I’m curious about why milk and meat cannot be eaten together. Thank you for your time. ❤️

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +10

      @@dreaG45 it stems from a verse in the Torah "Do not cook a kid in its mother's milk." This verse appears in the Torah three times, twice in Exodus (23:19 and 34:26) and once in Deuteronomy (14:21).

    • @dawnbaker9274
      @dawnbaker9274 2 роки тому +2

      Do you mix fibers in clothes?

  • @kaitlynwert6673
    @kaitlynwert6673 2 роки тому +36

    I really respect how there are certain things you hold back on, yet others where you're an open book. I appreciate that you always have the forethought to pause and really think through your answers to ensure you're not putting anything out that would be devisive. There's such a level of respect for other cultures.
    For example, I notice that you tend to hold back a bit on stuff relating to your parents and family, when it is an answer that is incredibly deep and personal, like your beliefs vs. their Christian ones. It's a delicate balance to put your life out there for the public, but to also keep a handle on how much is too much.
    To simplify my point, we have freedom of speech. But just because we have it, doesn't mean we have to exercise it and let everyone know every thought we have. Exercising restraint and not sharing things that might hurt or be sensitive spots to others shows how much you respect them, and ultimately, love them, which is the basis of what both of our religions believe. People like you are so refreshing to me. In a world that praises outspokenness as authenticity, and restraint in conversation as a threat to individuality, you are an example of how to walk and speak gracefully and preserve peace.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +10

      Thank you for your kind words :) I respect my family greatly and would never want to intrude on their privacy just because I chose to share about my life here :)

  • @lafemmerouge4271
    @lafemmerouge4271 2 роки тому +37

    Have you considered writing a novel of Miriam’s story from her POV? Your eyes really lit up when you talked about her and I think you may be a storyteller at heart. 📚

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +10

      That would be an amazing story!!!! If only I had the time!!!

    • @lisachatham8690
      @lisachatham8690 2 роки тому +2

      In this all I can say is that if you really want to do something and it is important to you, you will find the time. It may take decades to get done, but starting is the key. You are AMAZING and I would love to read the story from your point of view.

    • @chayastaub-krell6601
      @chayastaub-krell6601 2 роки тому +1

      @@jaroffireflies you could always wait until your children have grown up some. As they get older, they'll need less "hands-on" from you and do more independent work. This gives you some free time while they're doing their schoolwork. Even if it's only an hour or two a day, it will get done! I would love ❤ ❤❤ to read that book!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +6

      @@chayastaub-krell6601 one day then perhaps :) There is literally a stack of book ideas in my head that I would love to write!

    • @chayastaub-krell6601
      @chayastaub-krell6601 2 роки тому

      @@jaroffireflies and I'd be happy to read any and all of them!

  • @roseyc.5846
    @roseyc.5846 2 роки тому +31

    P.S. Chana, I totally agree about classifying "Harry Potter" as, 'fantasy'. At the end of the day, it is purely fictional. And, I love it! 🙂
    Rosemarie 💖

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +4

      Exactly!

    • @amelianoire4619
      @amelianoire4619 2 роки тому +3

      I agree 100% as well. To me, it's no different than mermaids, unicorns, or dragons. I was raised in a rather strict Christian household/ community and as a child, I wasn't allowed to read/ own the books, or any books/ games/ movies that were along those lines. I absolutely adore Harry Potter and couldn't imagine not sharing that wonderfully whimsical world with my children now. I wish that more people, especially those of religious backgrounds shared these views. The world is serious enough as it is; let the kids (and us adults as well) dream and imagine.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +2

      @@amelianoire4619 totally agree! Thank you for sharing your perspective

  • @elizabethgrogan8553
    @elizabethgrogan8553 2 роки тому +22

    I've always yearned to know as much as I can about other Cultures/Religions. It makes living in our multicultural world easier for me. Whilst there are those I can easily set aside because of Cult like practices, I learn so much from others. I had some preconceived notions of Judaism in my early life, I now love the principles. A keen interest in history, at school, led to my visits to the concentration camps a few times. That is a tragic and sobering encounter. I've been to Ann Frank's attic accommodation in Amsterdam and devoured books on that era. Your videos now open up the family situation to me. I love the happiness you exude. For a brighter, safer future, we must learn from the past. So many communities have contributed much to society. I like to respect others, even though our backgrounds and cultures are poles apart. I want my daughter to be without prejudice, so that she can gracefully proceed. You are a shining example of your culture.

    • @KerbyKast
      @KerbyKast 2 роки тому +6

      Agreed! So many rich cultures to learn about.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +3

      Thank you so much for your lovely comment 💜

    • @lisachatham8690
      @lisachatham8690 2 роки тому +1

      I also love to learn about other cultures and religions and such. I am currently searching for a good fit for me in relation to religion, I have been LDS since I was 16 years old and recently found I had more questions than answers in the Church. I am exploring all and your channel is helping me with the Jewish side of my journey. I just am not sure about the holidays and the Shabbat part because my husband is Southern Baptist and most likely will not convert. I just don't know where I belong yet and it makes me very uneasy because I feel the second coming is very close and I feel unprepared.

  • @_tardigrade
    @_tardigrade 2 роки тому +10

    I really appreciate that you want to be a foster parent for teenagers in the future ❤

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +4

      Thanks :) I used to work with CPS caseworkers and I just have such a place in my heart for all those kids especially the teens 💜

  • @elsands9774
    @elsands9774 2 роки тому +2

    Love your Q&A videos. Your able to make the Q&A videos so relaxing and educational. You do such a fabulous job answering questions/explaining.
    As always, a joy to see you’ve uploaded a video 💕

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +2

      Thank you so very much! And thank you for being here :)

  • @MediocreComedian
    @MediocreComedian 2 роки тому +4

    As always, a video upload from Jar of Fireflies makes for a better day. I love that you share with us so many things since I feel we are a village. Have a great week Chana ❤️

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +1

      Hooray! So glad that you enjoyed :) Hope you are having a wonderful day!

  • @OurBucketListHasHoles
    @OurBucketListHasHoles 2 роки тому +1

    Great Q&A video Chana. You always put great thought into all your videos. I love hearing about your traditions, holiday preps, homeschool and etc. You are very blessed with such a beautiful family 💜

  • @aturnerw
    @aturnerw 2 роки тому +2

    I absolutely love your Q&A’s! You will answer anything and everything asked. Much appreciated

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +1

      You’re so very welcome! Thanks for being here!

  • @sandraottway5618
    @sandraottway5618 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you Chana, i loved the q & a, and you answered both my questions. love to you all xx

  • @gailresko8315
    @gailresko8315 2 роки тому +4

    Chana, This was marvelous! Thoroughly enjoyed and learned a lot. Thank you. I look forward to every episode. It's like meeting with a dear friend every time. Much love to you and your family.

  • @maryreynolds5310
    @maryreynolds5310 2 роки тому +2

    Great questions today! Thanks Chana for answering them too…you are quit understanding to the fact we are mostly clueless on many issues, even pretty private one’s.
    Have a beautiful day 🤗

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you Mary! I’m so glad you’re here :)

  • @Estikm82
    @Estikm82 2 роки тому +3

    I absolutely love these q and a videos, I think u do such an amazing job answering all the questions that pertain to our beautiful religion, good job chana 👏🏻

  • @barbarashames1372
    @barbarashames1372 2 роки тому +1

    It's always wonderful to learn so much from your Q&A. Thanks for sharing!

  • @dianneblake8101
    @dianneblake8101 2 роки тому +11

    Good morning from Maine! Seeing your notification of a new post always makes my day! I have a head cold right now, too. We teach our kids to share and then they give us things like this, lol! Hope everybody is healthy and happy soon!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +3

      Oh no! I hope you feel better soon! It’s the worst to have these headcolds! Like it’s not so bad that you want to stay in bed all day (as if we could lol) but we need to rest to get better lol

  • @cherylcalac8485
    @cherylcalac8485 2 роки тому

    Love how you are so honest and to the point!

  • @mariacawdron2488
    @mariacawdron2488 2 роки тому +1

    I love your q&a videos, so informative, I've learned loads, thank you xx

  • @oxymom2002
    @oxymom2002 2 роки тому +2

    So many great questions! Thank you for sharing all of this information with us. 💜

  • @villemokellin
    @villemokellin 2 роки тому +1

    I learn so mutch form your videos, Love the Q and A :)

  • @lupeaguilera8348
    @lupeaguilera8348 2 роки тому +2

    As always Thank you for sharing your life with us. 🙂

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +2

      My pleasure :) Thanks for watching Lupe!

  • @jennifer_u
    @jennifer_u 2 роки тому +1

    Love your Q&As. Hope you’re feeling better!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you! Yes I’m feeling much better today thank you :)

  • @ednahenrich3627
    @ednahenrich3627 2 роки тому +1

    It always brightens my day to see you've uploaded a new video. You are so open to our questions, even those that seem very personal & almost prying. Glad you are all feeling better. I always feel so bad for moms of littles when they get I'll. No bed rest for moms.
    I have a question about a different area of life. I have a friend who also does extreme marathons. She and her husband do 55 and hundreds several times a year. They always sound like they have such a great time. What was your favorite extreme marathon and why?

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +2

      Great question! I was going to stop taking questions but I’m adding this because it’s such a fun topic :) Thank you!

  • @annemcclelland5036
    @annemcclelland5036 2 роки тому +1

    Just love your Q&A’s. It is so interesting and one learns so much from you, just ❤️ your channel.

  • @franbowers7032
    @franbowers7032 2 роки тому +2

    Hi Chana wow what a great video I always learn so much from them. Hope you and your family are well x

  • @cmgobin
    @cmgobin 2 роки тому +12

    Enjoyed the content and your matter-of-fact way of discussing issues like adoption and menopause. Thanks for sharing!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much Crystal! And thanks for being here!

  • @stackywood
    @stackywood 2 роки тому +1

    I loooove your videos and look forward to when you post!

  • @joannamugliston9853
    @joannamugliston9853 2 роки тому +4

    In short: just love your stories. Q and A session was very interesting. Thank you for sharing your life with us.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +1

      So glad you enjoyed! Thanks for being here Joanna!

  • @iceeyes3875
    @iceeyes3875 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for answering my questions! I always enjoy learning about your religion and the way your eyes light up talking about certain things, makes all the videos so joyful! Much love ❤️

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you so very much! And thank you for the great question!

  • @roseyc.5846
    @roseyc.5846 2 роки тому

    This was super interesting, Chana! Of course, I enjoy all your videos, no matter what the topic or subject. Also, you have the most adorable laugh, and, you're very youthful and "cool" in your demeanor. Thank you for sharing; have a good Shabbat. 🙏💐
    Rosemarie 💖

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому

      Thank you so much as always Rosemarie for your kind words:)

  • @estim7641
    @estim7641 2 роки тому +3

    I recently came across your channel and now love watching your videos. I grew up in (and still am a part of) the orthodox community in NY, I am sephardi as well. I love the insight and the perspective that you bring. Living in the orthodox community in NY is very insulating, so I love seeing how you bring everything and everyone together.
    I always wanted to visit Texas, I know there is a wonderful community there. Sending lots of love from NY

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +1

      Hello! Welcome! I’m so glad that you are here! Ya I am wayyyy out of town here in Texas :) Bit it’s a beautiful place! The people are amazing! You should definitely visit if you get the chance!

  • @myboyzr2
    @myboyzr2 2 роки тому +1

    Another wonderful video Chana! Hope you continue to feel better..always love when our kids share colds!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +2

      Thank you so much! Thankfully I am feeling so much better!

  • @vergieclark131
    @vergieclark131 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for sharing I really enjoyed learning about your way of life ! 🥰💜

  • @winnieewing7730
    @winnieewing7730 2 роки тому +7

    You answered the questions very clearly. Enjoyed everyone. Ireland.

  • @dawnbaker9274
    @dawnbaker9274 2 роки тому +1

    What a lot of super questions. Thanks for instructing.

  • @karenhill1739
    @karenhill1739 2 роки тому +1

    What a very informative session, I loved it. You explain everything in a great way thank you.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +1

      You are so welcome! Thank you so much for being here!

  • @martaupward5992
    @martaupward5992 2 роки тому +1

    You are such a breath of fresh air! I love your posts.

  • @janithgottfried8320
    @janithgottfried8320 2 роки тому +1

    I am very curious as to what crafts you and your family do, I love your craft room! Thank you for sharing and enjoy!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +1

      I enjoy quilting, knitting, miniatures, and watercolors best :)

  • @jaysondavis7064
    @jaysondavis7064 2 роки тому +2

    Ohmygoodness! What a great video! I learned so much today. I just love how you are so willing to share and answer questions. I pray you are feeling much better. Blessings, Shawn 😀

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +2

      Thank you so much Shawn! Thankfully I am feeling so much better today!!!

    • @jaysondavis7064
      @jaysondavis7064 2 роки тому

      Also, when I was asked about why as a Christian I would read and and allow my children to read Harry Potter my answer was 2 part 1) I love the bond of friendship throughout the series and 2) never once after reading the books have I or my children felt the urge or have we cast any spells on anyone. The books are great fantasy, not real witchcraft.

  • @debbiebrookover5189
    @debbiebrookover5189 2 роки тому +4

    Thanks for answering so many of my questions. I am not Jewish but it is wonderful to learn. Thanks for teaching me the value of cleaning up the kitchen. It really lifts my spirts to clean up thoroughly once a week and then keep it clean the rest of the time. You are so talented. I would love you to show the hanging on the wall that has the birds. I love it. What are your favorite candle smells? What is the candle at the end of Shabbot? I love the chicken soup recipe. I make it all the time now. Thanks for keeping your site going. I love watching you.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you for your kind words! I love sweet and home smelling candles :) the candle at the end of Shabbat is for the havdalah ceremony. I have a couple videos about it here: ua-cam.com/video/w74LbV5sQGM/v-deo.html and here: ua-cam.com/video/fbaFF1TtR3Q/v-deo.html enjoy!

  • @lisanewell4646
    @lisanewell4646 2 роки тому +1

    Great video, I’ve learned so much from everyone’s questions.

  • @tiagorman1553
    @tiagorman1553 2 роки тому +6

    Thank you for sharing more information about our Jewish culture with everyone. Being culturally aware helps aid all of us in understanding and encourages dialogue and hopefully respect for every culture.😊

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +1

      You are so very welcome Tia! Thank you so much for your kind and encouraging words 💜

  • @debbiewoell3247
    @debbiewoell3247 2 роки тому +1

    Watching your videos just brighten my day! Thank you for your videos.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +1

      I'm so glad! Thank you so much Debbie!!!

  • @CherylNoe
    @CherylNoe 2 роки тому +1

    I loved your Q&A's. Thank you!

  • @dreaG45
    @dreaG45 2 роки тому +2

    Hello Chana! I was looking forward to your video today. ❤️❣️

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +2

      Hello Andrea! Thanks so much for being here!

  • @amma3536
    @amma3536 2 роки тому +1

    Take care and God bless!! You have such a happy attitude. Love it that you love your life.

  • @NicSullivan15
    @NicSullivan15 2 роки тому +4

    Love this and the range of questions from the in depth religious to whether you get your eyebrows done. It's great and I managed to watch the whole video in one go while my youngest son (who I had at 43 after having my oldest son at 34 so I didn't start young either) was asleep because usually I watch a video in at least three separate chunks, not always on the same day either xxx

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +3

      Wow that’s amazing you got to what this all in one go! I couldn’t even do that when I tried to give it a final watch through after I finished editing last night 😂 So glad you enjoyed :) Thanks for being here Nicole!

    • @NicSullivan15
      @NicSullivan15 2 роки тому +1

      @@jaroffirefliesyou're welcome xxx

  • @Jackie-dm1ye
    @Jackie-dm1ye 2 роки тому +3

    Wow! Another wonderful Q & A video Chana! I’m glad you’re feeling better.
    Your answers to the kosher questions are answered so well! I’m asked about why certain fish aren’t kosher, especially shellfish, so I just wanted to add that fish have both requirements of fins and scales.
    Talking about Bella how dog food meet certain requirements remind me of reading the cat food labels so very carefully, at the time we had cats.
    Have a very nice Shabbat!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +3

      Thank you for adding that about the fish needing scales and fins! That’s a great point:) Shabbat shalom!

  • @MsPossums
    @MsPossums 2 роки тому +1

    So interesting. I learn something every time I watch you 🙂

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +1

      I’m so glad! Thank you! And thanks for being here :)

  • @Penny-bt4gc
    @Penny-bt4gc 2 роки тому +3

    Hello from Alberta Canada. Love the Q & A videos. It’s interesting to learn Jewish traditions and culture. Thanks for sharing.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much for watching! I’m so glad you’re here!

  • @lareid529
    @lareid529 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for talking about your side of the family. I commented on an older video that I wondered if you interacted with your birth family and you answered! I totally understand not spending Christian holidays with your family but it's still important IMO for your kids to interact with them and get to know them!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +3

      I absolutely adore my family I just want to respect their privacy which is why I don’t talk about them much here :)

  • @sue1263
    @sue1263 2 роки тому +1

    Another great video I feel as if I learned a lot. Thank you for lighting up the internet as you show how you live your faith.

  • @elizabethwittig5978
    @elizabethwittig5978 2 роки тому +1

    thanks for answering my question. im learning so much from you.

  • @meglangdon1944
    @meglangdon1944 2 роки тому +1

    Love the Q&A videos.It is so enjoyable and important to learn the basis of other people’s religion and culture.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much Meg! And thanks for being here :)

  • @kaydublin5164
    @kaydublin5164 2 роки тому +1

    Love that you answer questions, love learning about your religion and your family.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much Kay! I am so glad that you are enjoying these :)

  • @christenagervais7303
    @christenagervais7303 2 роки тому +1

    I really like your honest and forthright answers!

  • @kristinmiller4779
    @kristinmiller4779 2 роки тому +1

    Good morning Chana I'm always excited to watch your DIL❤❤

  • @AbrahamsBridges
    @AbrahamsBridges 2 роки тому +1

    Chana, you’re awesome! Love you! 😃

  • @trishpolk640
    @trishpolk640 2 роки тому +4

    Oh Chana!!!! You are so awesome! I want to give a shout out to you for speaking about fostering and adopting teens. I was a caseworker for that age group. They are a tough bunch and rightly so. They have been through the wringer. Anyhoo, you are wise to wait until your kids are older than the new child's age. It can really cause many issues. I think you guys will rock at it!!!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +3

      Thank you so much Trish! I used to work with CPS caseworkers and I met a lot of the kids as they were entering care (I was usually a caseworkers first stop because the nonprofit I worked for supplied nice new bags, new clothes, new toys, new stuffed animals, new shoes etc) so I’ve heard so many stories and I just want to take every single one home with me! But like you said, better to wait until my kids are older :) I’ll get there!

  • @plazas1242
    @plazas1242 2 роки тому +1

    Very informative. Thank you for this podcast.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +1

      You’re so welcome! Thanks for being here :)

  • @edwinahughes7386
    @edwinahughes7386 2 роки тому +1

    Love the video very informative and interesting ,hope you are all better now xx

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +2

      Thanks so much 😊 Yes, thankfully I am feeling much better today

  • @marianglynn9479
    @marianglynn9479 2 роки тому

    Chana, once again , thank you for answering these questions, I am so enjoying following your life and learning about Judaism. Many Blessings on you and your family

  • @laurag5583
    @laurag5583 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you! It was like visiting with a friend!

  • @kailinngillen1182
    @kailinngillen1182 2 роки тому

    Loved this Q & A. Thank you so much for sharing. Prayers and blessings for a peaceful day. 🙏❤🙏❤

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому

      Thank you so much!

    • @kailinngillen1182
      @kailinngillen1182 2 роки тому +1

      @@jaroffireflies I have seen quite a few UA-camrs get a sponsorship from "Circuit " this last week. You are such an amazing crafter maybe you could reach out to them to see about a sponsorship with you. ❤❤👍👍 I absolutely love your videos.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +1

      @@kailinngillen1182 you’re so kind and thank you for thinking of me with that!

  • @larissafaller3193
    @larissafaller3193 2 роки тому +5

    Another great video! I truly enjoy your Q&A videos. I'm familiar with a lot of Jewish traditions, holidays, and rituals through friends and "fun fact" my mother, who is Danish was an upstairs maid in the Israeli Consulate in Copenhagen, Denmark, just prior to her university studies. Much of what she learned there was taught in our home although we are Lutheran. Food somewhat confuses people who are not aware of the Jewish faith. To me, it makes sense as I grew up with it...and being an American child of European parents, lol! Many blessings to you and your family and I hope all of you feel better soon. 😊

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +4

      Thank you so much! I loved hearing your story! And yes thankful feeling much better today :)

  • @debra333
    @debra333 2 роки тому +6

    Hi, sweet Chana! I love this informative video. And any child, natural or adopted, would be a lucky soul to be raised in your loving home. 🫂❤

  • @vsibirsky
    @vsibirsky 2 роки тому +15

    One of fondest memories growing up in an observant family was tearing the toilet paper for the family and visitors before Shabbos. At 5 years old I couldn'took or clean or polish the silver but I knew how to tear things up!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +5

      Ha! That’s awesome! Thank you so much for sharing :)

  • @SusanP674
    @SusanP674 10 місяців тому +1

    I love your Q & A videos 💚

  • @rayniebee
    @rayniebee 2 роки тому +2

    I think it was really neat how you mentioned that sometimes your doctor would give you the all clear to fast, but your Rabbi would err on the side of caution and say you shouldn't. It's lovely how that duty of care is taken seriously and in your best interest.

  • @patriciagreene5842
    @patriciagreene5842 2 роки тому +2

    We have germ over sharers here too, lol I look forward to your videos! Feel better soon!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you! I think I’ve finally beaten the cold!!!

  • @sklugmann7206
    @sklugmann7206 2 роки тому +2

    my son-in- law is a diabetic father of four and a paramedic. Medically speaking fasting is possible but not always a good idea. Glad Chana that you have such a great relationship with your Rav.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +1

      That’s why I said he may be able to start but might not be able to finish :) We shall see!

  • @ayalastrauss-resnick4177
    @ayalastrauss-resnick4177 2 роки тому +1

    Hi Chana, I am really enjoying your channel. You have a beautiful family. As a frum from birth (FFB) 32 year old woman I am really inspired by your story. Growing up Jewish is part of my DNA. The fact that you accepted all the mitzvot upon you as an adult is really amazing. Thank you for sharing your life with us!!

  • @KerbyKast
    @KerbyKast 2 роки тому

    Amazing amount of information about Judaism. So helpful! I really enjoyed listening and learning. Thank you Chana! (And thanks for answering my question 😊)

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +2

      Thank you so much! Both for watching and for your question!

    • @KerbyKast
      @KerbyKast 2 роки тому

      I admire your confidence in sharing your life. Your channel is building community and connection and that is really cool!

  • @victoriaheisser7137
    @victoriaheisser7137 2 роки тому +1

    I really like your Q&A videos....so informative...

  • @RochelWaldman
    @RochelWaldman 2 роки тому +10

    Hi Chana, Love your Video's Thanx so much! I am a Diabetic (I am in my 50's, and have been a Diabetic for about 10 years.) I do not fast on most Fast days, excluding the 9th of Av and Yom Kippur. I always speak with my rabbi before those fasts and if I feel ill, I drink water( a certain amount called Shiurim).every 9 minutes when needed. Of course I really do not want to drink but I need to really watch my sugar stays at a healthy number on these days. I do what is needed.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +5

      Life always comes first! As we say, we live by the Torah not die by the Torah :) Thank you for sharing your experience with us

  • @karenhopper1691
    @karenhopper1691 2 роки тому +7

    Fascinating and interesting. You do a great job of answering your questions. I loved your answer about Harry Potter and the explanation about fantasy. I think it is important that our children know the difference and enjoy their imaginations. It can be a healthy way to expand their minds. My favorite books as a child were the "Wrinkle In Time" series. I would be curious to know if you have read them and think they are appropriate. Thank you for such an informative video! ❤

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +2

      Hi Karen! So glad you enjoyed! Yes, I read A Wrinkle in Time but not since I was a kid, so I’d have to read it again before I could give you my opinion there :)

  • @rebeccanichol
    @rebeccanichol 2 роки тому +3

    What a brilliant video - so full of information! I'd love to meet Miriam as well and Deborah.

    • @KerbyKast
      @KerbyKast 2 роки тому +1

      I have often wondered about the perspective of Moses’s mother and her bravery in keeping Moses alive for three months and setting him in a basket to try to save his life further. Also, Pharaoh’s daughter who’s heart was softened by this Israelite infant and eventually brought him up in Egypt.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +2

      Thank you! So glad you enjoyed! Oh yes Deborah was a brilliant one as well!

  • @vergieclark131
    @vergieclark131 2 роки тому +1

    Hope you feel better ! 💜🙏🏼

  • @AdrianaOhh
    @AdrianaOhh 2 роки тому +2

    Love your videos!!!!

  • @Thestephouse1
    @Thestephouse1 2 роки тому +1

    Great vid! Thank you ❤ it would be lovely to hear you talk more on the topic of the women in the old testament 😘🙏

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +1

      So glad you enjoyed! And thank you for the video suggestion!

  • @debbierosenzweig8801
    @debbierosenzweig8801 2 роки тому +3

    Hi Chana, great educational& informative video. Regarding the issue of not ripping toilet paper, I had extended family at my house for Sukkot. I set out boxes of tissues in each of the bathrooms. Within one day, the toilets were completely backed up. I learned that tissues should never be thrown into the toilet. I wanted to make you aware so you don’t have the same awful experience and an expensive bill from the plumber.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you! Sorry you had that experience!

  • @andreaknibbs9328
    @andreaknibbs9328 2 роки тому +1

    I cackled at the modesty during childbirth reply - love your direct honest and sweet answers !

  • @jackandpicklesvlogs
    @jackandpicklesvlogs 2 роки тому +5

    This video touched my heart. My husband and I are in the adoption process, so you gave me butterflies 😊
    Hugs, Chana ❤

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +3

      Oh SQUEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!! 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜 I cannot love this enough!!!!!!

    • @jackandpicklesvlogs
      @jackandpicklesvlogs 2 роки тому +2

      @@jaroffireflies We will be waiting a while, but we've got names already picked 😁

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +3

      @@jackandpicklesvlogs so amazing!!!! I be praying the wait is short!

  • @behindthegrandadventure3518
    @behindthegrandadventure3518 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you Chana for answering my question I'm sorry I didn't introduce myself but my name is Jennifer. Hope you have an amazing rest of your week.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you for the introduction Jennifer!

  • @chayastaub-krell6601
    @chayastaub-krell6601 2 роки тому +1

    Hey Chana! Love these Q & A vids!
    Leggings yes! Funny story - being in Florida when I started dressing modestly, I never thought to ask about what we would do in cold weather. My Dad became naftir in December many years ago. Our family cemetery is in NY. There was a huge blizzard predicted for that night (which, Baruch Hashem, never happened!) and the temps were well below freezing. I talked to my Rebbetzin about how to dress and she told me thermal shirt and pants under my clothes, leggings and, of course, boots. I still wear leggings under my skirts now. We do get cold here sometimes. Like last Shabbos and Sunday, when it in the 40s at night and only in the low 60s during the day. This Shabbos and Sunday, they're predicting the same, maybe even cooler. We will also some years get down to 15 or so for a week or two in January. 🥶
    To the person who asked about the status of eggs - in addition to what Chana explained ... this rarely, if ever, happens nowadays but if you find an egg inside of a chicken (or other bird), it is considered meat and can't be eaten with dairy.
    And, yes, the real reason your husband came to America was to meet you. It, of course, wasn't yet time to meet you. The job opportunity was just Hashem providing a practical reason. Many times, our bashert (soulmate) is in another country, on the other side of the world and it seems like it would be impossible to meet. But, Hashem has His ways 😃!
    Take care and Shabbat Shalom!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому

      Thanks for sharing your leggings story :) And the fun fact about the egg in the chicken! I didn’t know that and it’s fascinating!!!!!

  • @jronkowski4346
    @jronkowski4346 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you very educational.

  • @karenherman8653
    @karenherman8653 2 роки тому

    Love your way of answering questions and taking the time to do so. My son is type 1 diabetic and has spoken to our rabbi many times about fasting and our rabbi always has the same answer “ no” fasting. It’s just to risky so my son eats enough to keep his blood sugar in the safe zone. He is an adult so I don’t have to worry as much anymore.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому

      Thanks Karen! Yes I assume the answer will be no for my son as well. He really wants to fast (at least at this point in his life) so we shall see.

  • @LadyWeasel
    @LadyWeasel 2 роки тому +1

    I love the Q & A videos

  • @idmouse
    @idmouse 2 роки тому +1

    Maybe some day we can show you around this area and Yellowstone. It would be so fun to get to know you. You have this... authentic isn't the right word because duh of course you are, this fun personality that kinda pulls you in.
    As I mentioned in a comment on your last video I have found this channel both very interesting and informative. Please keep it up. And let me know if Yellowstone is ever in the cards. My family would love to show the short ones the wonder of wonderland.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +2

      Thank you so much! You are so kind! If I ever get up your way I would love to take you up on your generous offer :) I would love to visit that part of the country again! I have yet to go to Yellowstone.

    • @idmouse
      @idmouse 2 роки тому

      @@jaroffireflies #soon. It would be so fun. Between Yellowstone, craters of the Moon, and grand Teton so much fun and learning to be had.

  • @sandykalmeyer9523
    @sandykalmeyer9523 2 роки тому +1

    Another beautiful video and I learned so much again. It seems like there’s always something new to learn about Shabbat. Can you bathe or wash your face, brush your teeth? What about food items. Can you cut your meat? I love hearing about Shabbat. What a wonderful 24 hours.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +1

      Great questions! We can wash our faces, but not shower or bathe. No flossing our teeth. We can cut our meat :)

    • @leahwithheld783
      @leahwithheld783 2 роки тому

      You can’t remove your makeup but you can wash your face? Those are the same thing for me. How does that work?

  • @daphnelandsborough3663
    @daphnelandsborough3663 2 роки тому +1

    You do an amazing job with your eyebrows. I really hope one day you do adopt a foster child. My dad helped found a shelter in Arizona for abused children. God bless you for wanting to do that. I helped out there a lot and saw a lot of children just wanting a hug

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому

      Thank you Daphne! I really hope I can adopt as well :)

  • @billiebluesheepie2907
    @billiebluesheepie2907 2 роки тому

    I fostered two teenage girls and a baby until her teens a few years ago and sort of keep in touch with them from time to time, all are now mums (one has three children, the other two both have a single son!) and all are doing great.
    Sadly I was never able to have my own children and I really valued the experiences they gave me, even the ones that were hard at the time!
    I think it’s made me a much better person.
    Billie.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому

      Thank you so much for sharing your experience Billie 💜 You sound like a wonderful person!

  • @stephaniebell9093
    @stephaniebell9093 2 роки тому +1

    Boker tov Hannah. I am looking for a book (small if possible) that has the morning prayers and all the barukas. The little book you had in one of your videos (when you did handwashing) didn't look like a full size siddur, so I am wondering if there is something like what I am looking for. LOL . My rabbi loving called me a new baby jew the other day. I had to smile and laugh. Thank you for sharing all you do. Your conversion videos have made me realize I don't have to get it all down at one time - it will take time. Amazing - I really can't learn it all in a short time. Love my journey and love the fact that I can laugh at myself.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +1

      Hi Stephanie! Many siddurs come in different sizes. I have my regular weekday and Shabbat siddurs in two different sizes of the exact same book :) If you are Ashkenaz check out the Artscroll Women's Siddur. If you are Sephardi check out the Orot Sephardi siddur :) Hope that helps!

  • @susang1711
    @susang1711 2 роки тому +1

    I love the tartan you chose. Which tartan is it? Is it associated with a particular clan?
    Will you show us the costum when you've completed it?
    I love your videos. They can never be too long!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +1

      Thanks Susan! It’s my family tartan and that’s how I chose it :) I’ll definitely show the finished costume! Though I’m reconsidering at this point because I’m not sure what size I’ll be then 🧐

  • @michellesunshinestar
    @michellesunshinestar 2 роки тому +1

    I'm teaching myself ASL!! I know the alphabet. There are videos on UA-cam, and I bought a book from Amazon. I once ran into a def person at Target. I was able to sign what I wanted in the alphabet, and she found it for me!!

  • @colleenorrick5415
    @colleenorrick5415 Рік тому +1

    Chana, you don’t need make up - you have gorgeous skin and natural colour. You’re a natural beauty.

  • @roseyc.5846
    @roseyc.5846 2 роки тому +1

    P.P.S. Sorry, Chana..last one! I love your "simple" self-care. Hair covered, usually not wearing makeup, jewelry, etc. That'd be me, too. You always look so fresh and pretty! Rosemarie 💖

  • @michaelurvoy
    @michaelurvoy 2 роки тому +1

    Hello, Chana, I hope that you and your family are well. I cannot believe it is almost Shabbos again already! Gut Shabbos! Also, I cannot believe how close Hanukkah is now. November seems to be flying by.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +2

      I know!!!! Plus early Hanukkah this year! I’m looking at thanksgiving but I need to plan for Hanukkah at the same time!!! Shabbat shalom my friend!

    • @michaelurvoy
      @michaelurvoy 2 роки тому +1

      @@jaroffireflies That is one of the great things about being a Brit! No Thanksgiving for me to worry about. Haha! Good luck with it all. :)

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +1

      @@michaelurvoy 😂😂😂 valid point!

  • @elizabethlinehan2576
    @elizabethlinehan2576 2 роки тому +1

    Love the bloopers.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +1

      Yay! Thanks for sticking around till the end!

  • @jen71ski
    @jen71ski 2 роки тому +1

    I always enjoy your question and answer videos. The outtakes at the end were funny. Are there any videos that you have made that explains how you came up with your UA-cam and Instagram title jar of fireflies?

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 роки тому +2

      Thank you so much Jennifer! I did talk about that in a previous video, here is a link: ua-cam.com/video/8pzYkrZHtzU/v-deo.html Enjoy!

    • @jen71ski
      @jen71ski 2 роки тому

      @@jaroffireflies thank you!!