Things NOT To Say On A Date

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  • @Dominus564
    @Dominus564 Рік тому +2480

    That first girl is a unicorn. She is the first girl I've ever seen on these kinds of shows that is actually attractive, good natured, and has actual standards.

    • @npalmi88
      @npalmi88 Рік тому +3

      Dischrew

    • @paleman7611
      @paleman7611 Рік тому +277

      @overlordfemto7523 you have to go off porn, I'm sorry

    • @mariecoheng
      @mariecoheng Рік тому +178

      @overlordfemto7523You really completely disregarded all her good behaviors to complain about her looks. Go out and have some fresh air man.

    • @MrChainChomp
      @MrChainChomp Рік тому +9

      Yeah, it's a shame that she got an episode where she only got to go once...

    • @fijiboy_cr7
      @fijiboy_cr7 Рік тому +3

      Facts.

  • @eliudmuhu8124
    @eliudmuhu8124 Рік тому +3853

    Mark is doomed to be single forever, the way he is asking questions, his attitude, his response even his vibe is just off.

    • @stellaf0225
      @stellaf0225 Рік тому +223

      In addition, he's trying to date WAY above his level on the first try. That's something you can do later once you learn some lessons, but not your first 😅

    • @eliudmuhu8124
      @eliudmuhu8124 Рік тому +114

      @@stellaf0225 yeah, I feel sorry for the woman who will date him at this moment, that relationship will be so boring, there is no aspiration, no motivation, no energy, it would be a dull relationship

    • @stellaf0225
      @stellaf0225 Рік тому +59

      ​@eliudmuhu8124 😅more like a soul-sucking relationship, also did you see how Spencer went from being carefree with the first two girls and then the hot girl sits down and he tries to level himself up for her? Third girl..."I'm a pianist" 😆 second girl... he's talking about 💩 in a urinal 😆

    • @maxfieldstanton5411
      @maxfieldstanton5411 Рік тому +61

      Mark's 2nd message on dating apps is always "What do you smell like?"

    • @C.N.A.C.
      @C.N.A.C. Рік тому +17

      @@stellaf0225 Yeah, I'm familiar with the meme, but who thinks making a poop joke to someone you just met is a good idea?

  • @Bl913
    @Bl913 Рік тому +1919

    From someone who tried dating in this day and age you're 100% right. I legitimately had a girl say to me "I can't wait until our first argument".

    • @davidz3879
      @davidz3879 Рік тому +130

      She loves arguments?!

    • @robertbusek30
      @robertbusek30 Рік тому

      @@davidz3879maybe she likes the make-up s3x?

    • @cephalonplant4087
      @cephalonplant4087 Рік тому +73

      Why wait, lets do it now just start naming what popular TV shows are sucky

    • @agamersinsanity
      @agamersinsanity Рік тому +93

      I would walk away if she wants the drama

    • @HalleluJah337
      @HalleluJah337 Рік тому +87

      As a woman: I’m insulted that she said that to you.
      “First argument”? 🤦‍♀️
      I’m so sorry- we ain’t all like that, I promise.

  • @ruthcook726
    @ruthcook726 Рік тому +179

    The first girl is absolutely amazing. She's so kind and good natured. I wish her the best and hope she has the best significant other and a loving family with him.

  • @elisemeghan4065
    @elisemeghan4065 Рік тому +578

    the comically evil grin brett had when she said "like ruff greens" was priceless

    • @IsaacTeo411
      @IsaacTeo411 Рік тому +21

      😂I'll never see the sponsor segment coming

    • @commodorejones8044
      @commodorejones8044 Рік тому +4

      @@IsaacTeo411 It's _so_ good

    • @kommisar.
      @kommisar. 10 місяців тому +6

      @@IsaacTeo411 Of all "TDW" hosts, she is by far the best at the ad reads. Ben and Matt just act like they are reading from a script, and Matt doesn't even seem like he gives a shit most of the time. Her skills and experience in acting really shine through there.

    • @professorpsoop
      @professorpsoop 5 місяців тому +2

      Her product lead ins are immaculate

    • @-mxndxght-rxxn-
      @-mxndxght-rxxn- 3 місяці тому +2

      I KNOW RIGHT I HAD TO STOP MYSELF FROM LAUGHING I LOVE HER SO MUCH 😭😭

  • @amandarippee3785
    @amandarippee3785 Рік тому +1131

    I am a marriage and family therapist and I cringed so many times watching this. The first guy made me actually so, "oh no!" out loud multiple times.

    • @JohnAnderson-ev3lp
      @JohnAnderson-ev3lp Рік тому +16

      Must have helped a lot of women get paid.

    • @goldstein10493
      @goldstein10493 Рік тому

      @@JohnAnderson-ev3lp I don't see why not

    • @erictweedt
      @erictweedt Рік тому +18

      I am NOT a therapist and I said "oh no" out loud multiple times 😅

    • @Tates684
      @Tates684 Рік тому

      @@JohnAnderson-ev3lpand onlyFans

    • @diegoojeda2335
      @diegoojeda2335 Рік тому +1

      No hope at all.

  • @derek.....
    @derek..... Рік тому +961

    a girl goes on her a first date,her date drove them to a nice quiet country road and parked,the girl turned to him and said “ I have to be honest with you,I’m a call girl and if you want any action it will cost you $50!” her date looked at her and said” I have to be honest with you too,I’m a taxi driver and if you want ride back into town it’s going to cost you $100!”

  • @Doofwarrior88
    @Doofwarrior88 Рік тому +628

    Mark is the kind of guy who needs good friends that have really good charisma stats. Mark needs to learn from other guys who are going to coach him on putting his best foot forward.

    • @arcosprey4811
      @arcosprey4811 Рік тому +26

      And most importantly (as a first step to improving his sociality in general) they need to teach him positive outlook. Currently he has a very very negative outlook on life that NO ONE, let alone girls, would want to be a part of.

    • @elliott8596
      @elliott8596 Рік тому

      Mark might be autistic.

    • @maam-yj8ph
      @maam-yj8ph Рік тому +1

      He needs to then use those friends and skills to network himself into a better job situation before he goes on any dates.

    • @jjasnamakeup
      @jjasnamakeup 11 місяців тому

      AGREED!

    • @kommisar.
      @kommisar. 10 місяців тому +6

      The thing is with guys like Mark, who come across as know-it-alls despite knowing nothing, they are often unwilling to take advice because they lack the humility to know they suck at something and need help. He honestly comes across as a cocky asshole, rather than someone who just lacks the social skills to get a girl interested in him. He seems like the type to suck forever with girls, and yet think it's either no big deal or it's their fault. People like that just need to either have someone who care about them give them a good talk so they can realize how stupid they are, or just need to keep batting 0 until they are ready to admit they need help leaving their incel island because they want kids or whatever. He not only doesn't seem like someone who sucks with girls, but just doesn't care to learn. Contrary to what the girls he talked to said, he didn't seem like a nice guy.

  • @DarknessProphet
    @DarknessProphet Рік тому +204

    Woman: How would you be as a partner?
    Mark: Oh God....
    That really says it all, doesn't it?

    • @taylord1558
      @taylord1558 Місяць тому

      I honestly died laughing at this point 🤣 like omg! Dude!!

  • @PoliticalWonderland
    @PoliticalWonderland Рік тому +288

    To be fair; The guy everyone hating on for “exuding self loathing, not trying & not putting himself out there” is *literally trying & putting himself out there in THE MOST public way* possible by going on the show... I commend him for even showing up, let alone staying. Small steps deserve acknowledgment too.

    • @PoliticalWonderland
      @PoliticalWonderland Рік тому +5

      26:51 if anyone curious

    • @LightsaberGoBrrrrrr
      @LightsaberGoBrrrrrr Рік тому +45

      He didn’t do a great job here obviously but I agree with you. Putting yourself out there especially when you’re not used to it or comfortable with it should be commended. People won’t keep trying if you don’t give them due credit for trying

    • @LeBronyaJames
      @LeBronyaJames Рік тому +18

      He still set a bad mood though. He’s not void of any valid criticism, just like everyone else

    • @kommisar.
      @kommisar. 10 місяців тому +7

      Did anyone really say he wasn't putting himself out there? The problem isn't that he's shy and needs to open up; the problem is that he's an ass, whether purposefully or not. He says stuff anyone with who doesn't have Asperger's or is a grumpy old man at the end of his live who doesn't give a shit anymore should know. Even when I was younger and didn't know shit about talking to girls, I knew you didn't comment on them looking old. Everyone knows that. He's just not a good person to hang around with. I'll bet he has few if any friends too.

    • @juanchosevastian
      @juanchosevastian 10 місяців тому

      He is probably an autistic

  • @retread1083
    @retread1083 Рік тому +282

    The first girl would be a great date. She knows what she wants and is confident but not aggressive. Even if there was no chemistry, she's the kind of person who would be easy to be with, and the day or evening would be pleasant.

    • @kommisar.
      @kommisar. 10 місяців тому +7

      Yup, sucks she got stuck with that loser on the show. She's probably in a happy LTR by now while Mark is still desperately single.

  • @Katie.JesusIsKing
    @Katie.JesusIsKing Рік тому +428

    Oh mark 😂
    "You dont look elderly" made me laugh so hard 😂
    That first woman was absolutely wonderful. She will find a man that will uplift her and help her grow in her faith.

    • @DwerbHD
      @DwerbHD Рік тому +10

      I wish I could find a girl like that, luckily I'm only 16 and that doesn't matter much yet forme,but I hope that in the future I will be able to find an amazing girl like her

    • @charitythompson5649
      @charitythompson5649 11 місяців тому +1

      “Oh Mark” is right!!! He is socially awkward..hope he finds some cues from someone, anyone…

    • @kommisar.
      @kommisar. 10 місяців тому +5

      @@DwerbHD If faith is important to you, try to meet girls from church. That's what I hear anyway (not a religious person).

    • @SanchoPanza-wg5xf
      @SanchoPanza-wg5xf 2 місяці тому

      Have you ever been a man in his early 20s? A young man is most compatible with a woman a few years his junior. Women even five years older feel more like aunts than potential love interests. No shade, just telling it like it is.

  • @hansolo1487
    @hansolo1487 Рік тому +278

    "Don't play games with men if you don't want them to play games with you" is the best advice you can give women.

  • @F_S_Spyglass
    @F_S_Spyglass Рік тому +41

    Blind confidence and overwhelming charisma has been the only thing that has gotten me through my life

  • @Sandman60077
    @Sandman60077 Рік тому +84

    I have a feeling Mark learned a lot from this experience. As humans we can't always see and hear what we're like and how we come off to other people. But after Mark watched this I'd be willing to bet he made a lot of changes.

    • @megauser8512
      @megauser8512 11 місяців тому

      I sure help so.

    • @kommisar.
      @kommisar. 10 місяців тому

      MAYBE he did if he watched it afterwards and never realized how awkward and obnoxious he was, but otherwise I doubt it.

    • @Gabriel_F4924
      @Gabriel_F4924 8 місяців тому

      I don't think he did all that much tbf. Maybe he knows there's something wrong. He must have gone home thinking that something was wrong and started blaming the rejection on his looks or something. He doesn't know what or how to fix it. I don't want to blame it on his fam but how is his fam not helping put him on the right track? That can ruin a person. He's 24 with such a negative prospect on life and he's not the best looking guy but he's young and you know... valuable

    • @UserRobot215
      @UserRobot215 8 місяців тому

      The only change he needs to do is completely give up on dating and accept that he won't ever be desirable to women.

    • @ab-gail
      @ab-gail 23 дні тому

      Hope so. I wish him the best 🙏

  • @sarasweightlossjourney1432
    @sarasweightlossjourney1432 Рік тому +1734

    I love the brett covers, politics, relationships, silly things, etc. I never get bored with her content.

  • @icweiss
    @icweiss Рік тому +557

    That last part is so true. I've found my girlfriend (to whom I will soon propose) because I started rooting my values in conservatism and Christian morality, all thanks to watching JBP and DailyWire content every day. I love everything y'all are doing and thank you for having the best impact on my life, aside from the Bible, of course. My girlfriend and I love your content, Brett! We watch you nearly every day! (Kathleen, if you see this, sorry to spoil the proposal but just act surprised and say yes please).

    • @offsewingdragons9142
      @offsewingdragons9142 Рік тому +58

      OH GOOD LUCK SIR!!

    • @APP-hm6bf
      @APP-hm6bf Рік тому +29

      Edit this comment stat 😅
      Edit: delete the comment and type it out again without the proposal part - you'll ruin the surprise man 😜

    • @samson9609
      @samson9609 Рік тому +38

      Commenting for proposal update!

    • @jadeekrueger5499
      @jadeekrueger5499 Рік тому +32

      On my fiancé and my first official date, we watched Ben Shapiro (now nearly 4 years ago). We're getting married in October.
      Good luck to you and your proposal!

    • @delightfulgenius4635
      @delightfulgenius4635 Рік тому +22

      Just change "Kathleen" to "Christy" and put "-- David" at the end and she might not know it's you. Then I'll delete my comment.

  • @wpgoodsonify
    @wpgoodsonify Рік тому +137

    Going on a dating show for a date to me is ridiculous. I personally won't date anyone like that. To each their own.

    • @themachine9366
      @themachine9366 Рік тому +6

      Honestly, I think people make too much of a big deal out of these. It is just talking with someone you don’t know and seeing if you vibe, maybe make a new friend.

  • @zada2423
    @zada2423 Рік тому +25

    Mark: “my life is depressing and I hate my job, you should date me” lol what a way to open up

  • @Alex-sq6rr
    @Alex-sq6rr Рік тому +26

    Brett is acting like such a therapist to the first guy I love it, like she even makes her sponsors fun which is pretty much impossible

    • @TheBatman667
      @TheBatman667 Місяць тому

      She is acting more like an incompetent moron tbh

  • @CoZmicBluez12
    @CoZmicBluez12 Рік тому +698

    I am a young teenage girl and Brett, I really have to say that it's awesome to be able to have someone like you to look up to on the internet; I don't relate to a lot of my female classmates. THANKS A MILLION!
    P.S: My mom doesn't allow me to use Tiktok so if I ever meet you (crossing my fingers), rest assured that I will just know you from TCS💜

    • @MbappeDaGoat
      @MbappeDaGoat Рік тому +34

      "I'm not like the other girls"

    • @wow-11N6a29
      @wow-11N6a29 Рік тому +53

      Me too, I’m English-Korean but most people I know are obsessed with all the American politics and try to copy leftists 😬 it’s getting really bad here in England and Brett is one of the only people that gives me hope for this generation 😂

    • @Foxie770
      @Foxie770 Рік тому +71

      Your mom is a good mom for keeping you off social media

    • @peacewithyou6341
      @peacewithyou6341 Рік тому +19

      Don't care about chionel, he's a troll, I saw him under different posts.

    • @jamesplymire5342
      @jamesplymire5342 Рік тому +35

      Your mom is saving you. Tik Tok is a cesspool. 😂❤

  • @thatmusiclover444
    @thatmusiclover444 Рік тому +563

    Finally, someone on the internet with common sense
    As a teenage girl I really look up to you❤

    • @paceysinclair8089
      @paceysinclair8089 Рік тому

      I normally hate women but I’ll make an exception for you since you watch and look up to Brett

    • @MbappeDaGoat
      @MbappeDaGoat Рік тому +5

      She's not a good role model

    • @fuckhumanity607
      @fuckhumanity607 Рік тому +48

      ​@@MbappeDaGoatyour Pfp isn't a good role model

    • @YourFatherftjkkug
      @YourFatherftjkkug Рік тому +39

      ​@@MbappeDaGoatwhat type of a role model are you? As a 13 year old GUY i look up to her

    • @thatmusiclover444
      @thatmusiclover444 Рік тому +15

      @@MbappeDaGoat and why is that

  • @RK_Insanityy
    @RK_Insanityy Рік тому +35

    I think Spencer is the kind of guy who makes good conversation on a first date to break the awkwardness. I think he just needs a chance lol

    • @somebody7070
      @somebody7070 10 місяців тому +5

      Yeah agreed. I love Brett but she immediately judged him on being an Atheist .
      No Brett, not believing in God does not make your life more meaningless , on the contrary life has more meaning because we don't believe in the afterlife so we make the best out of this one.
      It's a matter of taste and I like him :)

  • @IrishZOMBIE117
    @IrishZOMBIE117 Рік тому +3

    I don't know why I never see the ruff greens ad insert coming. You literally say something like "That's ROUGH" and I sit there waiting for the next bit and get hit with the ad read like of course it's about Ruff Greens. That's RUFF. Good lord.

  • @Z_MIB
    @Z_MIB Рік тому +512

    Way too many women get offended when you ask their age. It's a perfectly reasonable question.

    • @marias8007
      @marias8007 Рік тому +96

      Its because women are often judged based on their age, it's why they et defensive

    • @BunnyWatson-k1w
      @BunnyWatson-k1w Рік тому +45

      It may be cultural. In some parts of the world women embrace their age and don't hide it.

    • @jackieboud2490
      @jackieboud2490 Рік тому +123

      I don’t think she was necessarily offended by him asking her age…. It was the way he said it… And the fact that it was the very first statement out of his mouth 🤣 I would be thinking the same thing…. I must look really old if that’s the first thing you notice when meeting me! I personally believe that gentleman may be on the spectrum. He’s very abrasive.

    • @7arb-f-15
      @7arb-f-15 Рік тому +26

      Because women age like milk and men age like wine. So when a women is old she is SUPER insecure about her age. (not all women)

    • @rationalcynic8416
      @rationalcynic8416 Рік тому +61

      As a woman, I don't get it either. Although in this case, it's how he asked the question and the fact that it was the first thing he said to her. He also has a resting disgusted face, so he looks like he is disgusted by every person that sits in front of him. It's honestly better to have a rbf than have a resting "someone has dog crap on their shoe" face. 😂

  • @seekeroftruth9200
    @seekeroftruth9200 Рік тому +85

    Rule number one whenever you are greeting a person that is walking towards you while you are sitting is to stand up to greet them with a handshake, I am actually shocked that Brett didn’t notice that the frat boy type of guy failed to do so

  • @internetcatfish
    @internetcatfish Рік тому +145

    Dating seems like a massive headache and generally not worth it. There are too many subtle moves and social traps. Why can't people just be honest about what they actually want?

    • @TheOnlyAndreySotnikov
      @TheOnlyAndreySotnikov Рік тому +18

      I can't agree more. Dating is a waste of time. Brett's show reinforced this believe tenfold.

    • @jeremiahmud
      @jeremiahmud Рік тому +23

      "You have to walk a fine line between confidence and arrogance." That statement makes my brain hurt. Women are so picky and don't seem to accept any flaws.

    • @SD-mi2vc
      @SD-mi2vc Рік тому +2

      ​@@TheOnlyAndreySotnikovthat last video she did ooof. She's a bit naive. But thats by the by

    • @MLGBrownCat
      @MLGBrownCat Рік тому +2

      Arranged marriage is the way forward.

    • @TheOnlyAndreySotnikov
      @TheOnlyAndreySotnikov Рік тому +1

      @@MLGBrownCat Or dating people from other countries.

  • @gavinarscott5667
    @gavinarscott5667 Рік тому +24

    There are no words in the English language that describe how uncomfortable I felt while watching mark talk to women

  • @TheEarthRealm
    @TheEarthRealm Рік тому +9

    The two _attractive_ people ended up together. Go figure. 🤷🏿‍♂️

  • @fox60175
    @fox60175 Рік тому +89

    For the guy that said smelling like soap wasn't a deal breaker, wouldn't smelling like soap be a good thing? It means she won't stink.

    • @chicken2870
      @chicken2870 Рік тому +12

      The dealbreaker was stinking. Since she smelled like soap(good), her smell wasn’t a dealbreaker

    • @FabulosoSpray
      @FabulosoSpray Рік тому +2

      If soap is a deal breaker for him, I don't know what he's wanting her to smell like.

    • @MollyHuffle
      @MollyHuffle Рік тому +4

      He phrased it wrong. Mark is awkward a bit- bless him.

    • @ayeshaebrahim4873
      @ayeshaebrahim4873 7 місяців тому

      Soap means she actually washed. Anyone can spray perfume

  • @accucadd
    @accucadd Рік тому +64

    For the record, I became a fan of Brett from watching her TikTok content. She seemed very intelligent and based, for such a young woman and I then looked her up on UA-cam, watched a few videos and then subscribed. So, Brett, your TikTok videos may be your minimalist work, but it brought me to your UA-cam content and later a subscriber.

    • @SanchoPanza-wg5xf
      @SanchoPanza-wg5xf 2 місяці тому

      TikTok is bad, m'kay. Communists support the CCP. Are you one of them?

  • @thecatspajamas133
    @thecatspajamas133 Рік тому +74

    I'm on the same page as the first girl; truly respect her sticking to her guns and not dropping her faith based standards

    • @lukehenry1936
      @lukehenry1936 Рік тому +2

      I love your pfp!

    • @AliClovis2899
      @AliClovis2899 9 місяців тому +1

      Same!! For me, my faith in God is the MOST important thing in my life so if my partner/possible future partner is not a man of faith, like I'm sorry but this isn't going to work. He could be prince charming and perfect in everyday but if he doesn't have a relationship with Jesus, he's not the one for me.

  • @christopherrousseu6133
    @christopherrousseu6133 Рік тому +4

    Honestly, Brett should be a counsellor. She can probably easily stop someone from jumping off a bridge. This young lady is truly amazing! She is full of wisdom :)

  • @danskeeloNotHacked
    @danskeeloNotHacked 8 місяців тому +7

    I broke out a notepad for this one! As a recently divorced man, dating in this 2023 world is a nightmare. I'm hearing you Brett and thank you 😄

  • @FallenAngelHiroko
    @FallenAngelHiroko Рік тому +28

    HIm: Why can't I get a date?
    Girl: What's your favorite color?
    Him: My life sucks. Scratch that. The entire world sucks and my life is miserable.

  • @perryborn2777
    @perryborn2777 Рік тому +23

    Man rip Mark
    Dude already had a stressful time on the show, and then he gets showed to a whole other audience afterwards +criticism
    I really wish the best for him

  • @samathum4711
    @samathum4711 Рік тому +174

    Been watching since a few months into your channel, keep it up!! It's awesome to see, a channel like this is important for the culture.

    • @MbappeDaGoat
      @MbappeDaGoat Рік тому +1

      Nah. Seeing conservative channels ( like this one) trying to fit in with Gen Z is kinda cringe ngl.
      Like focus on the 50 year olds - thats your target audience mfs

    • @samathum4711
      @samathum4711 Рік тому +3

      @@MbappeDaGoat That's literally why this channel is so successful, what you said just isn't true. You just don't see it because it's "taboo" to be openly conservative especially for younger people. Cooper is literally in her early twenties, and just read the comments to see how many people "confide" in her.

  • @Whatisthehandle1435
    @Whatisthehandle1435 Рік тому +90

    JESUS IS KING AND HE LOVES YOU

  • @The_AndroidSentByCyberlife
    @The_AndroidSentByCyberlife Рік тому +6

    This has got to be my favourite comments section video! Bretts commentary on the hillarity of the video shes watching is brilliant. Shes also speaking alot of important facts.
    When she started talking about that guy who hated his life and had no family i burst out laughing.

  • @yt_hatesfreespeech
    @yt_hatesfreespeech Рік тому +84

    there is no such thing as a do or dont on a date, infact for me thats an instant dealbreaker, i dont wanna be with someone who tries to sell me on a pretend persona and hides their true self. dating is not that complicated, just be genuine, if it doesnt workout its for the best, you cant force a circle into a square, no one wins.

    • @SherLock55
      @SherLock55 Рік тому +12

      That's basically everyone in this day and age, most hide behind a persona on what they think people want/like. But I agree, just be yourself and if that's not good enough for the other person then they're not for you.

    • @delightfulgenius4635
      @delightfulgenius4635 Рік тому +12

      So yes, be genuine, but there are definitely rules and structure. #1: Don't insult them. #2: Don't go dressed in a bikini.

    • @yt_hatesfreespeech
      @yt_hatesfreespeech Рік тому +1

      @@delightfulgenius4635 Bras count as tops here in United States in 2023, so you cant really do anything abt the bikini part lol, thats our new culture, less clothes = more empowerment for women

    • @ShootingStarStudio
      @ShootingStarStudio Рік тому +3

      But at the same time, I do think that when you're on a date, especially a first date, you want to put your best self on display. You're not getting that second date by putting all your worst traits front and center.

    • @kristinewberg7656
      @kristinewberg7656 Рік тому +3

      @@ShootingStarStudio I guess it depends on what your goal is. You don't have to put your worst self on display, but you shouldn't be pretending you're a better version of yourself than you are.

  • @lianajames1250
    @lianajames1250 Рік тому +35

    Something I like to do every time I watch Brett is play a little game I like to call, “What’s the Ad?” Where I guess when she will slide in the ad. And then today, I did NOT expect that slide in

  • @mementomolly2944
    @mementomolly2944 Рік тому +41

    Couldn't stop laughing when Brett said "Ew I paused at the wrong time!" lol

  • @Diamondminer892
    @Diamondminer892 Рік тому +4

    I like how this channel covers all sorts of things, and that you don’t have look at the screen to consume the content. I’ve just been listening to her for sound when I’m working on something

  • @silver9wolf6
    @silver9wolf6 Рік тому +21

    This was fun! Loved Brett tutoring all the guys 😂

  • @Ph0enix7373
    @Ph0enix7373 Рік тому +65

    Every button video is almost always an excellent example of what you should never do on a date

  • @A5Wag
    @A5Wag Рік тому +78

    She really turned a man’s downfall to her ad read. This is getting out of hand Brett 😂

  • @timtimtimmay4654
    @timtimtimmay4654 Рік тому +87

    Mark is the kind of dude who's hobbies sound like writing manifestos if you get my drift... Kudos for that awesome Christian woman Jasmin for helping him in the best ways possible given the situation.

    • @mikeoxlong3676
      @mikeoxlong3676 Рік тому +5

      He's autistic. Why are y'all so damn mean?

    • @timtimtimmay4654
      @timtimtimmay4654 Рік тому +9

      @@mikeoxlong3676 Because there is no disclaimer that he is, and he fits the personality that usually snaps due to lack of social interaction, brash opinions, and ostracization from society. There was nothing mean about the comment, very much a direct observation. Maybe others will recognize this that know him and try to socialize with him so he can get a better idea of his condition and how to work with it.

    • @maffe_distroyer
      @maffe_distroyer Рік тому +5

      ​@mikeoxlong3676 he dosent say so, so ur just assuming

    • @MrShadownetwork
      @MrShadownetwork Рік тому +13

      ⁠@@mikeoxlong3676why does awkward automatically means autistic

    • @foultarnished0101
      @foultarnished0101 Рік тому

      And that's a bad thing??? He's supposed to be Mr Perfect? Jesus fking christ you people...

  • @man-observing-world
    @man-observing-world 6 місяців тому +1

    That first girl was terrific! I wish her all the best and a life of happiness.

  • @baahubali3213
    @baahubali3213 Рік тому +9

    Oh gods thank you so much for this, mark has been fumbling the entire time😂 I honestly got second hand embarrassment from him

  • @ryanjohn5393
    @ryanjohn5393 Рік тому +15

    I’m engaged to my high school sweetheart so I haven’t experienced any first dates since I was 17. I knew I was blessed to have her before watching some of these videos but the modern dating scene comes off so miserable and depressing.

  • @UnknownHumanWoman
    @UnknownHumanWoman Рік тому +70

    Things not to say when on a date with Brett Cooper... "Brett please burp in my face"

    • @chillbuni
      @chillbuni Рік тому +11

      It’s weird. There’s a lot of commenters saying that

    • @UnknownHumanWoman
      @UnknownHumanWoman Рік тому +4

      @@chillbuni Because they would love to hear Brett burp

    • @devins7810
      @devins7810 Рік тому

      Why do these freaks want Brett to fart and burp in their face?

    • @AdamPruett
      @AdamPruett Рік тому +8

      😂 that's both weird and hilarious at the same time.

    • @tbp_Nxon3727
      @tbp_Nxon3727 Рік тому +1

      @@UnknownHumanWoman why lol

  • @yuushiixx
    @yuushiixx Рік тому +28

    Things not to say on a date with Brett.
    “Is your brother Ben okay with you being here?”

    • @robertbusek30
      @robertbusek30 Рік тому +15

      When you’re dating an ordinary girl, you go to meet her father to gain his approval. When you date Miss Cooper, you have to meet Ben Shapiro, Michael Knowles, Andrew Klaven, and Matt Walsh to gain their approval…

    • @rationalcynic8416
      @rationalcynic8416 Рік тому +4

      ​@@robertbusek30I can imagine Matt either not giving a sh*t or being the hardest one to please, nothing in-between.

    • @robertbusek30
      @robertbusek30 Рік тому +2

      @@rationalcynic8416 Mr. Walsh took Miss Cooper fishing and built a gingerbread house with her. I think he’d be hard to please…

    • @visaman
      @visaman Рік тому

      ​@@robertbusek30Elon Musk.

    • @edwardjones2129
      @edwardjones2129 Рік тому +1

      ​@@visamanGiven what happened to Elon's daughter it only makes sense that he would be overprotective from here on out

  • @nothinwatever
    @nothinwatever Рік тому +1

    I can’t stand when people say there’s no higher power because if there is it doesn’t care about us or it’s cruel or why am I not rich? Why am I not getting what I want clearly, the higher power doesn’t care about me…. Did your parents when you were a child give you everything you want they give you ice cream for dinner because that’s what you wanted. That’s the whole point of a higher power. It knows better for you. What’s good for you and what isn’t and you just have to listen to it and follow it. It’s not cruel or evil just because you’re not getting everything you want in life.

    • @shaunp9592
      @shaunp9592 Рік тому

      Tell that to the little children and women who are beaten and raped. " Don't worry, god allows them to do that to you because it's better for you". There's a big difference between not giving people everything they want and being a real god who protects women and children. He's a "god", shouldn't have any problem at all preventing it if he actually "cared".

    • @nothinwatever
      @nothinwatever Рік тому +1

      @@shaunp9592 god created free will it’s up to us to decide what you will chose to do with it I believe there is Devine plan for everyone and everything, just because someone doesn’t deserve this cruel treatment, which I agree no one DESERVES that but you need to be able to step back and look at the bigger picture. Take, for example a woman that’s raped, perhaps after that, happens to her she goes to the police and now this man finally gets arrested. Perhaps he’s raped dozens of other women before her, but none came forward and it took her (this one strong women) getting raped to be able to have that man put behind bars, and stop him from continuing to hurt other women. God knows what you can handle and are strong enough to endure. Just because things don’t play out in some magical fairy tale way doensnt mean it’s not happening for a reason and greater purpose. Maybe a mom was with an abusive partner, and it took her seeing him beat her children to finally leave that guy. And save her family. Other victims of abuse, usually end up becoming advocates and fighting for, and helping protect other people of abuse, and saving thousands of lives, which they would not be doing if it hadn’t happened to them selfs. Bad things happen for a reason whether you like it or not, and when you can step back and look at the bigger picture of where those negative experiences can lead to good experiences in life you will appreciate the divine higher power and plan he has set for all of us. Open your mind a little bit maybe.

  • @SpiffySpecs
    @SpiffySpecs Рік тому +4

    2:23 If I said that my job is depressing out loud and I know that this is going straight to UA-cam, I can expect my boss to fire me the next day.

  • @lylea9352
    @lylea9352 Рік тому +13

    I find that the more positive you become, the more opportunities come your way, too.

  • @afriendorfoe
    @afriendorfoe Рік тому +18

    I recently had a guy tell me his ex-fiance was very paranoid while he was cheating on her.

    • @economiccrisis9267
      @economiccrisis9267 Рік тому +1

      Men are always going to desire to be with more than one woman

    • @pataflafla-ns6vw
      @pataflafla-ns6vw Рік тому

      @@economiccrisis9267maybe men can learn to keep it in their pants

    • @Clovud
      @Clovud Рік тому +1

      @@economiccrisis9267 and women will always desire a man that already has a woman.

    • @vigbokwe69
      @vigbokwe69 Рік тому

      What kind of guy is that?

    • @lizajane2971
      @lizajane2971 Рік тому

      Wow, that's a gaslighting narcissist right there ! 😮

  • @stevewright2972
    @stevewright2972 Рік тому +10

    Brett Cooper is a National Treasure. The Last Couple though. It was abundantly clear when she leaned forward hands together and literally peeling this dude with her eyes that she was going to say Yes no matter what kind of imperfection she noticed. Brett Rocks !

  • @tisscience5693
    @tisscience5693 Рік тому +11

    Lol brett love your facial reactions to the dates, it really makes it more comedoc

  • @Abejaved
    @Abejaved Рік тому +4

    Mark really finds the ONE and only reply that is wrong for every question.

  • @MysteryMastery69
    @MysteryMastery69 Рік тому +18

    My name is Mark, this video made me feel uncomfortable. Having Brett stare at the camera scolding Mark was very, very awkward.

    • @mima_piedade
      @mima_piedade Рік тому +2

      I know that with a name like mine I would never experience this, I met three people with my name my whole life and two of them are my relatives.

    • @MysteryMastery69
      @MysteryMastery69 Рік тому +1

      @@mima_piedade well that's a big plus in this scenario. Seriously I didn't expect to feel so personally attacked, but man it was like my mom was scolding me. Count your blessings dude. 😅

  • @MegaAntonyp
    @MegaAntonyp Рік тому +65

    Gonna stick up for Mark here. When you say just be confident, it's very difficult. Like you saying I can't swim and me just throwing you in the deep end and me saying just swim.

    • @Samantha-ew7yn
      @Samantha-ew7yn Рік тому +20

      As difficult as it may be, it's something he needs to work on

    • @MegaAntonyp
      @MegaAntonyp Рік тому +14

      I agree, i'm not trolling or anything here just commenting. The more pressure we put on them the worse it gets. Tricky just to work on it, looks like he's trying. Best of luck Mark.

    • @joshsaunders6392
      @joshsaunders6392 Рік тому

      @@Samantha-ew7yn obviously spergatron

    • @lifeinanutshell7147
      @lifeinanutshell7147 Рік тому +7

      "Honesty is the best policy," she said. "Don't say that to women!" she said, when Mark was being blunt. Not sure what Brett really wants here. Honesty or fake charisma/decorum? Draw the line better.

    • @Iceaxe0410
      @Iceaxe0410 Рік тому +5

      It's almost second nature for him I'm sure. He probably doesn't even realize he' being so negative which isn't conducive for any communication unless if it's a group of similar minds. There was a time when I focused on the negative. The part that saved me was I am quiet and don't talk much. I'm a good listener in that respect. When I do answer I was also blunt and straight to the point. I do believe Mark needed to at least be a little bit more mindful and think through his responses. If you notice, he didn't answer the original question what brings him joy. He only focused on the opposite; things that doesn't bring him joy. That's one way to end the conversation which I get. I'm not really a people person being an introvert and rather be left alone. Maybe, he's the same in that respect? Do it long enough, and when you are in an uncomfortable position where interacting with someone is required, doesn't always go so well.
      I would say he doesn't need confidence. No, what he needs is a bit of practice and formula/structure to follow in communications. The confidence comes after you have a plan/strategy and have done it enough times to be comfortable repeating it. Could be simple as always having a neutral or positive answer of your own for questions you ask the other. The likelihood of the same question being reflected back at you is very high. I don't think he was prepared to answer his own question. I get that it's a spur of the moment, but he should probably have a list of questions on the ready with his own responses.

  • @derekzimmerman220
    @derekzimmerman220 Рік тому +15

    Me and my friends have a joke that one guy is going to wear a lobster suit to our weddings. So we always joke that the first question is to see if the girl will allow this. One of my female friends said not to do this, because it would scare women away to talk about marriage right away. I simply said something along the lines of "if they don't have a sense of humor or they are not ready for marriage then why would we be doing this."

  • @We_silly
    @We_silly Рік тому +2

    5:40 my catholic uncle married to a my non-catholic aunt. Recently they got remarried through the Catholic Church and my two cousins got baptized last Easter! God will accept you with open arms at any time! God bless!

  • @Sandman60077
    @Sandman60077 Рік тому +4

    I literally laughed when he saw the second girl reaching for the button and he quickly hit it before she could reject him. And lets face it, that was a rejection button, those women weren't sitting there like "OMG you're amazing! There's no way I'm good enough for you so I'll just reject myself!"

  • @TheRedAnvil40
    @TheRedAnvil40 Рік тому +28

    Brett: This guy could have a conversation with anyone
    *Mark re-enters the room*

  • @Ashleyxoful
    @Ashleyxoful Рік тому +13

    I found you on UA-cam shorts a couple days ago and you are amazing ! You speak up on topics most people are afraid to even mention. Your voice is very easy to listen to and I have binged so many of your shorts and videos in the past couple days. Thank you for speaking out and bringing awareness. Subscribed ! ❤

  • @SalveMaria777
    @SalveMaria777 Рік тому +27

    This new age thing of watching people go on dates for the first time and critiquing there life is very gross and dosent add value to society in anyway

    • @wulfheort8021
      @wulfheort8021 Рік тому

      We are observing how degenerated society has become. Now piss off.

    • @MrShadownetwork
      @MrShadownetwork Рік тому +1

      True gives off “on know how to be a better human than you do”

    • @SalveMaria777
      @SalveMaria777 Рік тому

      @@MrShadownetwork holier-than-thou

  • @Cesar-pq2ck
    @Cesar-pq2ck 7 місяців тому

    I never knew what my type was when young. But when I was 20 I met my now wife and I just knew “she’s the one” and still is 26yrs later.
    You don’t need to date countless people to know “you’re type”.

  • @supernicktendo64
    @supernicktendo64 Рік тому +5

    I rarely comment on videos like these, though I feel compelled to say that Brett's views on dating, feminism, and the current socio-political landscape feel very astute to a similar background and established values I find in myself and my own family. Things I very much find respectable.
    The thing that I really wanted to say is that confidence has always been touted as a very positive and desirable trait in men to women, and it really is such a fine line between confidence and arrogance. It is something I have expressed concerns to others about and tried to see their perspective. Is confidence in this context simply the ability to holds strong and uplifting belief in ones self and their abilities? Or is it about putting your best foot forward even to the extent of hiding your less appealing traits to provide the best appearance?
    I feel that current society spouts the first as the ideal, but in all honesty points to the second being more generally attractive. It's certainly something I feel something all men should consider and balance against their values, making sure that you are providing not only a strong belief in yourself, but a humbleness to know that we aren't perfect but are wanting to accept that and be more. That would be a man I respect more.

  • @jfva9537
    @jfva9537 Рік тому +12

    Love Brett’s impressions of “Boss babes”. Cracks me up every time.

  • @nkfd4688
    @nkfd4688 Рік тому +63

    Dating and relationships to me are very personal, and I couldn't do this whole "display" effort on a show or an online channel to play off of the other person. That's creepy!

    • @vladraduandrei5227
      @vladraduandrei5227 Рік тому

      finaly a guy that gets it, i m the same man. These people seem to treat like a joke, but then again i ain t promiscous and don t adhere to a hook up culture

  • @romeomonteverde
    @romeomonteverde Рік тому +5

    Mark, rule number 1, have even a little bit of confidence. But not too much since that's called arrogance. Rule 2, never ask a girl about her age. Age is just a number, remember that. What's important is their attitude and how they talk. Btw confidence is very important. Even if you don't have any, fake it till you make it. Not in a lie your way out of it kind of way, but try to hide your insecurities, remember that you're there to meet people, you're there to be out of your comfort zone. So just be comfortable being out of your comfort zone once in a while, that will really help you meet people. That said, if you really are introverted then this kind of meetup isn't for you. Best to stick to chatting with a girl first then work your way up to meeting them personally.
    Btw that guy who did the joker impression sucked. He sounded more like Owen Wilson 😂

  • @kati.grwm3
    @kati.grwm3 11 місяців тому +13

    Thank you for talking about core values! I grew up in a split religion house hold and it was so hard on us. Constantly feeling like your pleasing one while disappointing another! I also felt in between the 2

  • @heatison11
    @heatison11 3 місяці тому +1

    Asking what kind of food a woman likes isn't forcing her to pick a restaurant, it's helping HIM pick a restaurant that she'll like. Twice in my life I've taken a girl out for sushi only to find out they don't eat fish

  • @alfredjohnson2647
    @alfredjohnson2647 Рік тому +33

    Let's be fair to Mark. He was at least optimistic enough not to reject himself before speaking.

  • @shawnshields521
    @shawnshields521 Рік тому +9

    It's really easy for women to bash guys like him. Don't get me wrong, he is blunt. But, what areas do men have to actually get help in this? Either you have it or you don't.
    Also, once you are behind, it is near impossible to catch up as a guy because women 100% do not care. So once you're behind, you just keep falling. Then you get ruthlessly torn apart for it.
    That in itself justifies his negative view on the world of dating.

    • @Mwinslow1467
      @Mwinslow1467 Рік тому +3

      it’s like when a job wants you to have years of experience but you can’t get years of experience when no job wants to hire you because you have no experience

    • @shawnshields521
      @shawnshields521 Рік тому +1

      @@Mwinslow1467 Lol yup. Don't get me wrong, I understand the rationale. But, it ends up being a massive problem a generation or two down the line.

    • @MrShadownetwork
      @MrShadownetwork Рік тому +1

      @@Mwinslow1467and thus why dating is like a job interview

  • @dirtybird311
    @dirtybird311 Рік тому +4

    I’ve been married for 21 years, and if for whatever reason I end up back in the dating pool, I’m just not going to do it. Seems like a nightmare.

  • @JollyMonette
    @JollyMonette 3 місяці тому

    There’s nothing more beautiful than people giving up their own safety to help others. My husband is a first responder, and it is one of many things that makes him so attractive. He is strong and brave, yet caring and gentle all at the same time.

  • @BattleKing00
    @BattleKing00 3 місяці тому

    Something I would like answered as a guy is why is it so important that we have to put in 100% of the effort of planning a date? I'll do it, I just don’t understand why. From my perspective he was showing initiative by asking what places she likes, because he didn't wait, he got strait to the point and basically said "I'm getting the ball rolling and am already planning things, but I want your input." If it was me, I'd plan it, but I want your input in where we go so I'm not worrying that you'll be miserable the whole time because I picked somewhere you don’t like. I just want to know why being concerned about your wants and needs is a bad thing.

  • @camera2painting
    @camera2painting Рік тому +4

    If Brett sat down, Mark would be ejecting himself so quickly that he would look like a passenger in a James Bond car.

  • @user-ez3il1yy6i
    @user-ez3il1yy6i Рік тому +7

    It's No Mystery What Makes Your Show Awesome For Me , Your Attitude ,The Way The Way You React With All You Have , And The List Goes On And On And On !!! 💯

  • @YouKnow1561.
    @YouKnow1561. Рік тому +70

    I'm sorry Brett but these reactions are entertaining. I'm excited for similar videos in the future. 😂

  • @TheInterestingInformer
    @TheInterestingInformer Рік тому +3

    I’m honestly not the best with women, struggling a bit with finding fun conversation topics and keeping it flowing… but seeing Mark’s interactions made me feel like Chris hemsworth at a party with single moms or something

  • @truenoguy4159
    @truenoguy4159 Рік тому +3

    If women can’t even pick a restaurant, then how can they be respected as leaders in society?

  • @justnotherdayanddontbedik
    @justnotherdayanddontbedik Рік тому +41

    Dating in this generation I think I will hard pass !!I just don't feel like I'm equipped for that drama

    • @erikt1713
      @erikt1713 Рік тому +2

      In what generation will you date instead? You mean you do not want a partner at all?

    • @justnotherdayanddontbedik
      @justnotherdayanddontbedik Рік тому

      @@erikt1713 well I'll date bret

    • @maffe_distroyer
      @maffe_distroyer Рік тому +1

      Be direct , if the girl ask for tiktok , just leave , any person that see that as a priority, is a hard pass

    • @MrShadownetwork
      @MrShadownetwork Рік тому +2

      @@erikt1713the generation that actual wants to help men instead of telling them to just grow up and watch someone to learn the quote “right way” to be a man

    • @Critical525
      @Critical525 Рік тому

      This is why this generation is soft and weak,we see something challenging,we won't even atleast try,we'd rather deflect.

  • @impersonalbrand2513
    @impersonalbrand2513 Рік тому +12

    my personality is unnervingly similar to Spencer's and it's funny because when i was single i went on dates with a few women who told me basically the same thing as Brett: they would reluctantly--almost as if it pained them--admit that i'm funny and charming but then they would tell me i'm "just not serious relationship material." and then we'd proceed to hang out for another 2-3 hours lmao

  • @AdamPruett
    @AdamPruett Рік тому +6

    "Spencer are you good with your fingers"😂
    "They are long fingers"😂WTH

  • @Perykvaal
    @Perykvaal 4 місяці тому

    Instead of asking her, "What do you like to eat," the guy can still take the initiative *and* be conscientious of her needs by asking, "Is there anything you can't or don't like to eat?"

  • @JJDunn-fl9qg
    @JJDunn-fl9qg 2 місяці тому +1

    THEY NEED TO LET BRETT HOST HER OWN DAILY WIRE BUTTON SHOW

  • @bloodwolfgurl
    @bloodwolfgurl Рік тому +5

    I am gemini and I guess I tend to be really chill and observant, a lot like Michael. I've met others who tend to be similar too, but you can't judge everyone by their zodiacs. I believe your personality is rooted both by your nature, in your genes, and also by your family as you grow up. Stars do not dictate any of that.

  • @achilles5409
    @achilles5409 Рік тому +13

    Brett has the BEST ad transitions

  • @greyLeicester
    @greyLeicester Рік тому +8

    That last girl had a brilliant and lovely personality. She won me over immediately

  • @jazminleonardo8892
    @jazminleonardo8892 2 місяці тому +1

    The last two that won were so nervous that the other would press the button. 😂

  • @ADragon-gi9mr
    @ADragon-gi9mr 5 місяців тому

    He's being honest. He is only talking about his family not every family and job. He probably is trying to improve his life. Most people are. It's not that easy. He didnt say his whole life was miserable. A lot of things are awful and people try to make it better. People get stuck in bulls---, Brett. No matter how hard they try.

  • @deepergodeeper7618
    @deepergodeeper7618 Рік тому +9

    i use the line "You smell different when you are awake" works everytime

  • @independence412
    @independence412 Рік тому +10

    lmao assuming his room is dirty has me laughing my ass off that was funny 😂

  • @meleebrawler6462
    @meleebrawler6462 Рік тому +11

    Well, this is easily one of the most interesting concepts for a dating show I’ve seen yet.

  • @benjahimuselfu1552
    @benjahimuselfu1552 Рік тому +1

    the transition to "Ruff Greens' was too good to anticipate, she never misses

  • @lucashummel5952
    @lucashummel5952 11 місяців тому +1

    “That’s rough buddy”-zuko atla
    “Just like rough greens”- Brett
    That was a good Segway into an ad

  • @jameslast3192
    @jameslast3192 Рік тому +9

    That Mark guy was just weird from the outset and then he just started talking. He made me feel queasy straight off the bat! How negative can you get!