Really interesting! I don’t think my ex is an out and out narcissist, but he does look for validation from others in the form of Instagram posts etc... also when I did meet up, because he reached out, he asked me what I had learned from the breakup, as if he was totally blameless and it was me who had to do the learning. I have learnt so much but not to benefit him, but me. My ex is the sort of person who will play the victim role and therefore it’s everybody else. To me there has been no learning on his part. Honesty do not waste time trying to self Improve for others. Do it for yourself and yourself only.
Thank you very much for your comment. Your ex would definitely have made mistakes (all dumeprs and dumpees make mistakes). No one is perfect. It certainly sounds like he has some negative traits which could mean you would find a better connection with someone new.
I am stuck for six years with a covert narcissist, at least with someone that has this traits and some more. I know now that me wanting her back is propably just trauma bond, not LOVE.
@@vincentbos Hi Vincent! Yes I am feeling more positive this year so far. Continuing to work on my health and fitness and seeing great results and feeling better. Also, I do have those moments of thinking about what happened as you familiar with my story😉 but I try to remain positive and sometimes I refer back to the email coaching you provided to stay focused. Thank for continuing to be supportive and providing great content.💖
@@vincentbos Thank you so mich Vincent! I look forward to continuing my progress and happiness in new love in the future. Thank you for always being so positive 🙂!
Hi Boss! Could you, please, stop referring to 'the junk folder' in your vids? You don't want to give an association between your valuable content and spam/junk to people's brain. I promise you at least 100 new subscribers in the future. 🌻
Thank you Karla :) Sadly, a lot of my emails end up in people's junk folder. They don't check it and then think I haven't responded :( So I have to remind people.
Really interesting! I don’t think my ex is an out and out narcissist, but he does look for validation from others in the form of Instagram posts etc... also when I did meet up, because he reached out, he asked me what I had learned from the breakup, as if he was totally blameless and it was me who had to do the learning. I have learnt so much but not to benefit him, but me. My ex is the sort of person who will play the victim role and therefore it’s everybody else. To me there has been no learning on his part. Honesty do not waste time trying to self Improve for others. Do it for yourself and yourself only.
Thank you very much for your comment. Your ex would definitely have made mistakes (all dumeprs and dumpees make mistakes). No one is perfect. It certainly sounds like he has some negative traits which could mean you would find a better connection with someone new.
@@austinikhide9161 no as that would be a waste of my time and money.
I am stuck for six years with a covert narcissist, at least with someone that has this traits and some more.
I know now that me wanting her back is propably just trauma bond, not LOVE.
Hi Karla, you have a fantastic future ahead of you. The important thing is you move forward now with positivity.
@@vincentbos hi Boss!
Yeah, you are surely right, even if it doesnt feel like it YET. My biggest problem moved out....I should count my blessings.
Actually, a lack of empathy IS the number ONE hallmark of narcissism. Beware
I'm grateful I've not had dealings with a narc relationship wise 🙏 Tip top as always Vincent 👌
Thank you Lisa. I'm glad you haven't had to encounter a person with these negative traits.
Thank you, man! Hugs. ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you too!
Great insight as always!🙂
Thank you Lady! Are you feeling more positive in 2021?
@@vincentbos Hi Vincent! Yes I am feeling more positive this year so far. Continuing to work on my health and fitness and seeing great results and feeling better. Also, I do have those moments of thinking about what happened as you familiar with my story😉 but I try to remain positive and sometimes I refer back to the email coaching you provided to stay focused. Thank for continuing to be supportive and providing great content.💖
@@ladyshantae6252 you are making great progress and improving every single day. Keep moving forward with positivity and happiness will find you soon.
@@vincentbos Thank you so mich Vincent! I look forward to continuing my progress and happiness in new love in the future. Thank you for always being so positive 🙂!
@@ladyshantae6252 you are a fantastic person and have a very exciting future ahead!
Thanks you sir
Really need to hear this
Thank you ☺️
Thank you Malcolm, how are you today?
Great video
Glad you enjoyed it Nim, how are you feeling right now?
Good my friend
Hi Boss!
Could you, please, stop referring to 'the junk folder' in your vids?
You don't want to give an association between your valuable content and spam/junk to people's brain.
I promise you at least 100 new subscribers in the future. 🌻
Thank you Karla :)
Sadly, a lot of my emails end up in people's junk folder. They don't check it and then think I haven't responded :(
So I have to remind people.
I checked all boxes for my ex...