Thank you for all your kind words, praises, and well wishes, I appreciate them greatly. Now let's answer some questions Yes to all of the below Talked to her Said hi Asked her over The shade cloth is stapled down like the first one Definitely Mental health problems Positively lonely Police say it's a civil matter Other questions No, I won't be screening the front, the rest of the street and I don't have problems We have been to Court twice We have been to Mediation She has called the Fire Brigade, the Police, and the council 4 times on me She is on a Promise to the Court, which means nothing, was the outcome I don't know if she has family Legal height is 1.8 meters high and can be built of any materials you desire Double layer of shade cloth Her behaviour has been happening since moving into her house 19 years ago People prior have sold up and left because of this behaviour I have only lived here for just over 12 months She has told me if I find her on the ground for whatever reason, then I'm to walk away and not help her. I'm pretty sure I wouldn't be able to do that and go out of sight and call 000 She's abused me, I have never abused her, nor raised my voice at her, I have spoken to her sternly with a swear word thrown in, just one mind you, 'Will you mind your own f...ing business' I do not trust this woman one bit, she has lied on court papers, lied about me and my friends, asked other neighbours about me, tormented the previous owner's dog, shoved a dead possum under my fence for my dog, stalked whoever turns up here, to see if they will go inside the house or come out the back to the Moo Cave. If there was a way for me to have a medical person asses her, I would endeavour to have that done. If now after reading this you still think that I'm the bad neighbour or I'm in the wrong, or whatever else was mentioned, then my channel isn't for you is my thinking and I'm truly sorry if you still feel this way. For those who have requested updates, I have parts 2 and 3 coming Part 4 will also be coming soon. Since screening the front fence, and her walking past to check what I had done, she has gotten herself a small dog, so she has been otherwise busy. I sincerely hope she is nice to it. Thanks again for the continued support of my Channel and Welcome to the New Subscribers Cheers Moo
We had a neighbor like this! Old woman that had nothing better to do….we got an Oto water sprinkler which we could trigger from the remote. When we would see her on our property, my husband would turn it on! Lol!
There’s a guy in San Diego that got tired of his truck getting ripped off of tools and what not so inside the truck he has is very strong sprinkler with a powerful nozzle that goes off when anybody gets near his truck at night
Watching videos like this make me thank god for my sanity. I couldn’t imagine caring this much about someone else’s life or their property. If staying in your own lane was a person that person would be me. My entire neighborhood could explode all around me and I’d make a path through the destruction to get to and from my house and I’d never say a word to anyone about it. Lol.
This is why I live in the country on 30 acres. I have kind neighbors and we look out for one another. Can't deal with crazy, petty behavior. It's as if people have forgotten how to just give a smile and a friendly hello.
Bless you, I agree. Is it so hard now a days for people to just be reasonably kind? I'm a Gen X raised by parents who went through the depression and WWII, and boy, did they ever go through it. They always had a smile and a kind heart towards others, for example, sharing ample gardens they grew after working full-time jobs and raising 6 kids. I consider myself lucky to have been raised on 30 acres also where we could run free, but we respected the boundaries of others as they did ours. This smile is for you 😊
From watching these episodes they remind me of a neighbor I had once. We had no idea, but he had dementia as well as being lonely, so he was at our house several times a day. We were talking to his son one day & he asked if his dad had been acting strange & we said "yea, a little, but we just figured he was friendly & lonely". That's when we found out about the dementia. He was constantly doing our yard work. We'd wake up & he's already raking, mowing, etc. We were gracious to him. It finally got to the point where he was doing this all over the neighborhood, at which point the son decided to place him in an old age home. Poor man died within 6 months. I hope you can find a good way to deal with this, but please remember.....if we are fortunate we will all get old & a lot of us will be lonely with alzheimer's/dementia. Grace is never misplaced. Even if it can make us really angry sometimes. Think of how you would want to be treated as an elderly person & proceed accordingly. But what do I know. I'm not there & I'm going completely off of less than 1 hour of videos. She could be an absolute witch for all I know.
Unfortunately, she has been doing this for the last 19years and I have been ignoring her for the past 12 months I have been living here, so she's the witch
How sad about the guy with dementia. Do you think his son putting him in a home ended up being the death of him? My mom's aunt wanted to stay home but she had a qound on her leg that she refused to take care of. She also lived alone and started calling the sheriff and nearby family members about there being somebody down in her basement. However, nobody was ever down there. So she started chaining up the garage, thinking they were coming in the garage. It was very sad to see. Had to force her into a home and she became a different person. She ended up unruly, refused to follow rules, and at one point even slapped another resident of the home in the face. That's something she *never* would've done. They had to keep her sedated or give her meds constantly so they could care for her and that wound. A few months later she ended up dying. I think she just gave up pretty much because she wanted to be home, always said she'd be going home, die at home, but I think realized she never was going home. Losing my mind is one my greatest fears.
It seems more a case of her being obsessively controlling imho. I have people like this in my family who I’ve had no choice but to go NC with. Her obsessive behavior towards OP makes me suspect she’s driven her family away and needs new “supply”. It’s really quite sad bc people who behave this way rarely have insight and rarely change. Everyone else is “The Problem”. Unless they look at themselves they will remain angry and alone. I am introvert so don’t mind being alone most of the time in my senior years. But I am not angry nor do I try to control anyone. And I LOVE my neighbors!
Yes, poster said the woman does have mental problems and been bothering neighbors for 19 years. ( If it were me I would try to get her interested in puzzles or something that will hold her attention for long periods of time?)
@Proudamerican329 I see narcissism here and a narcissist cannot sit down and do any puzzle. If people haven't studied psychopathy, sorry, I sincerely mean this in the nicest way, they don't have a clue.
This is just an evil person. Situation may never get better, but worse. You’ve been doing fantastic work in areas that you’ve covered. Although she seems to be getting possessive now, accessing any area to be of a nuisance or frustration. I would really consider not wasting precious years & packing up. Much ❤️
This is awful,I really feel for you.I have been through this before, thank goodness at the time my husband and I were renting. It had gotten to the point where I was on the verge of going crazy, and I really thought I was seriously going to hurt the neighbor,bad enough I would have been put in prison. It was to the point where I could no longer sleep,so in the middle of the night, one night,with no boxes,only trash bags(thank goodness they were the very thick black trash bags)I begin throwing all of our belongings in the bags(mind you i had three little boys)the next morning I told my husband we were moving in with Grandma, until we found a new place.Sometimes people can only take so much before they go crazy.
For those in comments making statements like "she's mentally ill, or lonely or keeping herself busy....be patient with her" etc - that is understood. But, regardless of the neighbors mental health, intentions whether good or not - OP has a right to her privacy, home, guests & property without it being interfered with too. OP has made effort to be a good neighbor to befriend this woman but the neighbor is absolutely not in her right mind and is hell bent on making her neighbors miserable with her petty behaviors. This neighbor has had 19 years of experience and success with her actions to get rid of neighbors around her so she's not changing any time soon until she does something the court can do something about. When these situations become "a Civil Matter" there literally is nothing you can do unless you capture an actual crime on film - and crazy neighbor lady has perfected her craft to avoid that for 19 years. @Moo Tube I am genuinely sorry you are experiencing this, and I hope some form of resolution can be found so you can have peace and enjoy the home you have made so lovely.
I would like to Thank you, for completely understanding the WHOLE situation. I believe that she does know what she is doing and that there may be some mental health at play too, I've watched her purposely do things and do it with a smirk on her face. This may not be much to some people but 12 months, 24-7 is a lot to take. Again, thank you so much for your wonderful supportive comment. Have a fabulous day, Cheers Moo 🐮
I just stumbled on you 2 days ago. Im in rural USA. I have a sneak theif lying drunken peeping tom for a building mgr so WHY on earth should i be invested in watching YOUR saga??? Because...I DONT FKN KNOW WHY, I JUST AM! I love what you did with your front shade screen and planters and all of it. 😊😊 I know some cannot figure out why this woman annoys you. For me, its personal boundries. I have my own that are unique to ME and do not enjoy them being infringed upon in any way. This new house is YOUR sanctuary unique to YOU. And you have done what you are able to do to be "your neighbors' keeper" anything beyond that is just infringement in your sanctuary. You are not being overly private even! Its sad, yes. But what aggravates each of us is different. That property is YOURS. And there is always a line with ANYONE...but its always in a different spot for everyone too.
I wish the video was 24/7 I can’t believe what I’m seeing! I wonder if her family knows about her antics? It was frightening that she was so close to that bank throwing branches down, she could have easily lost her footing at her age.
I just remembered a story of a man who worked at a mental institution. He began selecting a photo of someone with great troubles, and just spent time projecting love to them. Over time, he found it healed them. Having been doing a lot of cleanup gardening, it about funny that all your work was undone, cast back over the side. At least the grass was neatly whippersnipped.
In your first video many people were saying she was behaving this way bc she is lonely. I have a different opinion. She seems extremely controlling. I believe that her behavior has likely driven away her own family and if she had any friends it has driven them away too. So now you are her unfortunate target. She seems obsessed with you, not lonely. Also, this makes me beyond grateful for my neighbors. I only have one residential neighbor across the street (next door is a business that takes up the entire block). My neighbors across the street & I can see each other’s homes & yards & we look out for each other. Sometimes one of their dogs “elopes” & comes to visit. I escort her safely home. When my dog doesn’t notice someone who’s not supposed to be here wandering onto the property they let me know right away or call out to the person asking them why they are there. I’ve had horrible neighbors in the past. I hope I never have to sell this house or my neighbors don’t have to move. Your neighbor isn’t lonely. She MIGHT be narcissistic though.
Your neighbor is truly a “Karen” as in self entitled know it all control biotch!! People get killed over shit like this and you mean your court system will not make her stay off your property?
Hiya!! I’m from Maine (North East Coast of USA) I just found this little neighbor playlist, I hate that I love it!! At the 1:23 min mark the caption says: *Whipper Snipping* I think, I love this! In my neck of the woods we call it *Weed Whacking* or *Weed Eating* But I think I like yours better!!
Is she on your property? Do you own your property? If you do why not just fence the entire property as a good fence would fix this problem 100%..certainly this makes for a great Moo tube! Thanks for part 3..
When I was young and in my first apartment I had nosey neighbors so for a week I posted what I was doing everyday on my front door. Funny I can’t remember the outcome but I felt better.
This is why I’m afraid to own a house, I need to be ready to move when I’m miserable. I had a neighbor who would allow his dog to poop on my lawn and steps after I caught and asked politely don’t do that, he said if you don’t want it there you clean it up 😲 this is how fights start with neighbors
Wow! I really feel for you. I have great neighbors so I can't complain but if they were in my backyard doing this I would be asking him what the h they think they're doing
It’s council land behind my place, myself and a friend had been out there for a few weeks clearing it. She would walk daily along my back fence inspecting what I’d done for the day. Her head is down but her eyes are on me or my yard
Dear God, don't let me become my neighbors annoying nightmare! I'd have to build the tallest walls just to be at peace. That woman needs to take up a hobby other than being nosy!
I thought she was about to go headfirst into the ditch at one point. That would have been a shame…😂 Is that bit your land? I couldn’t work out what was happening
I've watched all 3 videos. IMO she may be a nosy neighbour but you are obsessed and going to incredible lengths to shield her view. You're also making her yard and your own yard look hideous. Blue/green tarps?? In this video she looks like she is cleaning up a bunch of sticks and and making the common area much cleaner. I wouldn't want to live next door with ugly tarps hanging over my side of the fence.
When someone is watching your every move, every day, all-day, and there's a legal limit to the height of a fence you can go to, tarps were the easiest and quickest fix there was to block her, everything I've done to block her as been because of her actions and its all on my side of the fence, nothing is hanging over or on her side. I'm not sure if you have read my pinned post but that explains more and it tells you that it's not just me she has done this too but to all that have lived here for the past 19 years. She was not clearing out the back at all, she was undoing the work that had already been done.
@@MooTube23 Not sure if this is the case, i'm not a doctor, but usually, over stepping boundaries over years and decades is signs of a "cluster b disorder". This, of course, isn't always the case. It could be dementia, schizophrenia, bipolar, ocd, etc. But if none of those apply, then the most likely is npd. npd are boundary pushers, attention hogs, people needers to the extreme...pretty much gremlins in human form. You say "no", and they say "yes". You put down a line, they walk across it. You put up a wall, they hop over it. You say "don't talk to me", they call you everyday, several times a day... i've dealt with a few. just wanted to explain a plausible reason
I had a mosey neighbor, Ray, I was planting sunflowers at my back fence when he came over and asked me what I was doing. I said planting sunflowers if that was alright with him. (He was always a nuisance). He said he didn’t give a damn as long as his horses didn’t eat them. I said well unless your horse gets on my property, it’s my right to do what I wanted. I’m pretty sure he’s the one who shot my dog “Sam” because Sam was found way down the road in a ditch. Horrible man! He’s since passed but not sure if he went up or down. Just not a nice guy.
She is on council land so she isn't trespassing and the one time I knew she had been on my property I didn't have a camera down that side of my house plus she admitted to being on my property in Mediation and with the privacy act that comes with Meditation I can't have her charged for it
sadly this is not and repeat NOT a senior old lady or guy problem...the problem also includes entitled people, young, middle age, karens, and so forth. I myself -a senior- do not like to mingle with neighbors because past experiences.. however i am surrounded by black folks that have loud and when i said laud i mean loud music, fights, screaming matches, parties every single weekend...and when their guest live there trash everywhere...traspasing to my property and i suppost jut to take it...I live by myself, female and old...perfect target right... then 3 houses down from my backyard i have a new neighboor which loves to crank his same song over and over and over and over and so loud that even inside my home with my computer watching videos i can hear his music...one of my close neighbors move thanks to him, and hoa never helps. Now the two old couple move out and just the new people sprayed my backyard with pesticides.. so yeah...one can try to be alone, say just hi...need help i am here for you...but come on...common sense, courtesy and respect have to come both ways...I am in the process of building a tall fence, with yes, double black ground cover and plants, trees to cover window view and noise, that is the back and on the frony I am building the fence between the black folks so they stop using my drive way as easement...I do not like confrontations, but i will not allow anyone to bully me or try to scare me....i have the problem i fix the problem...no asking nicely no talking no bull...just build a tall fence and i will install the cameras.
Unless im missing something, im assuming she niavely thought her strimmer could cut thru whatever was holding that log down, mental health issues or not, her acting like xhe couldnt be asked, to try harder & succeed in cutting those ties, she deserves to be at least nominated for an oscar tb seriously honest...i stand & applaud.
So, is she on your property as you are on the other side of the fence? I'm just trying to figure it out as she's weed whacking clearly. Moved the log a few times while your camera moved around for diff view angles. Confused. Never saw her try to pick up the log once you mentioned it was fastened to the ground.
I really think that Neighbour is Definately suffering with Mental health Issues- for that Reason - Please be Extra Carefull of her - and make sure your Dog is safe when you are not home - If this is really disturbing your Peace of mind - maybe Consider Moving - if possible Life is too short to be living in Dread. Take care.
Is there a way you can extend your side fence so she can't easily get on your property back there? I know all about annoying neighbors. Theres different ways in the US to handle the situation so thats why i ask. 15+ yrs here. Sad when you can't sit on your own driveway quietly and not be harassed.
Can you buy that property back there? Or is it easement? She would poop her pants if a snake jumped out at her. Or a trapdoor spider xD She just did that so she can look in your back windows. But yea it looks ok. I liked the log look, but hey.
So sorry you have a terrible neighbor like this . All we can do just be nice and pray over them and show kindness it eats them up when we show kindness. Heck bake her a cake and take it to her but let it be the last one , kindness . Many blessings be with you and yours as you go . Big Hugs and Lots of Loves !
If that area behind your fence is public land, you don't have a lot against thus. And there's a possibility that pulling wood out of a creek or waterway might be interrupting a habitat for lizards or frogs. She has an OCD disorder. It's more common that people realise.
This would absolutely drive me insane and so far, I’m pretty sane. It’s like someone else said, “it’s my personal space”! And that is yours and she should be told to respect that. Does she have any family you can talk to about her behavior?
I couldn't work out if on this one if she is not on Moo's land. If she is not she can do what she likes and looks to be carefully tidying up - doing good. if she is on Moo's land then that is trespass and she has no business there.
It's Council, most people maintain their own area out the back. She called the Council 3 times regarding the work that had been done, they thanked me for my efforts and told me it looked fabulous
Is this common area, it just looks like she is weed eating and that is how you would weed eat? So what’s the problem there? If it’s your yard that’s different.
It is not a common area. She is weed eating not in her own yard but has crossed over the fence line and is in the neighbor's yard that she has been caught trespassing in before.
Jeez its relentless -how is your mental health -this really equates to stalking. Its good you have a record of this - I dont think youd have a leg to stand on re the public land but it sure demonstrates a pattern of behaviour
Can't police contact a family member? This poor woman obviously is suffering from mental health issues. She could get hurt, so appears she is a danger to herself. 😞
What would happen if you just completely ignored her? Is there no social services or church help or anybody that can come and visit her once a week or so? Something to help pull her out of her own insanity or loneliness back to the real world?
@@joanrobinson9193 actually I did and I saw how the woman has mental issues. Maybe she has dementia so she will do or act normally once in a while and then go back to wherever her mind goes. Its actually sad to see. I wish she were in a facility able to handle her issue instead of just letting her go on like this.
Looks like the poor old thing needs busy work, i bet if you put your thinking cap on you could probably help her out, sticks are free all over the place.
Btw, my husband was a trucker for 35 yrs and me for 10 plus escort car for oversize loads...is one of your pets named KENWORTH? Or a friend? Whomever it is I LOVE THAT! BUT MINE WOULD BE NAMED STAR CAR😂😂😂😂
You need a more productive hobby. Try gardening. Plamt some nice evergreens or flowering trees in front of the fence and before long you'll have a pretty view of your yard that'll take your mind off your neighbor. I favor landscaping over homemade screens because 1) most jurisdictions require the fence builder to give the neighbor the prettier side, 2) do-it-yourself screens scream neighbor issues to would-be homebuyers and 3) homemade screens look like sh*t after a couple of years. Start planting now, add to your garden each year some bushes, native plants and bushes, and pretty soon you'll have improved your home value while completely thwarting your neighbor.
Thank you for all your kind words, praises, and well wishes, I appreciate them greatly.
Now let's answer some questions
Yes to all of the below
Talked to her
Said hi
Asked her over
The shade cloth is stapled down like the first one
Definitely Mental health problems
Positively lonely
Police say it's a civil matter
Other questions
No, I won't be screening the front, the rest of the street and I don't have problems
We have been to Court twice
We have been to Mediation
She has called the Fire Brigade, the Police, and the council 4 times on me
She is on a Promise to the Court, which means nothing, was the outcome
I don't know if she has family
Legal height is 1.8 meters high and can be built of any materials you desire
Double layer of shade cloth
Her behaviour has been happening since moving into her house 19 years ago
People prior have sold up and left because of this behaviour
I have only lived here for just over 12 months
She has told me if I find her on the ground for whatever reason, then I'm to walk away and not help her. I'm pretty sure I wouldn't be able to do that and go out of sight and call 000
She's abused me, I have never abused her, nor raised my voice at her, I have spoken to her sternly with a swear word thrown in, just one mind you, 'Will you mind your own f...ing business'
I do not trust this woman one bit, she has lied on court papers, lied about me and my friends, asked other neighbours about me, tormented the previous owner's dog, shoved a dead possum under my fence for my dog, stalked whoever turns up here, to see if they will go inside the house or come out the back to the Moo Cave.
If there was a way for me to have a medical person asses her, I would endeavour to have that done.
If now after reading this you still think that I'm the bad neighbour or I'm in the wrong, or whatever else was mentioned, then my channel isn't for you is my thinking and I'm truly sorry if you still feel this way.
For those who have requested updates,
I have parts 2 and 3 coming
Part 4 will also be coming soon.
Since screening the front fence, and her walking past to check what I had done, she has gotten herself a small dog, so she has been otherwise busy. I sincerely hope she is nice to it.
Thanks again for the continued support of my Channel and Welcome to the New Subscribers
Cheers Moo
I can't believe how invested i am in this. 😀
Me too! I have so much to do today but here I am.😊
The old lady saga…
Same
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We had a neighbor like this! Old woman that had nothing better to do….we got an Oto water sprinkler which we could trigger from the remote. When we would see her on our property, my husband would turn it on! Lol!
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There’s a guy in San Diego that got tired of his truck getting ripped off of tools and what not so inside the truck he has is very strong sprinkler with a powerful nozzle that goes off when anybody gets near his truck at night
Watching videos like this make me thank god for my sanity. I couldn’t imagine caring this much about someone else’s life or their property. If staying in your own lane was a person that person would be me. My entire neighborhood could explode all around me and I’d make a path through the destruction to get to and from my house and I’d never say a word to anyone about it. Lol.
My golly...she seems to have alot of energy!
I think when she in the zone, her adrenaline pumps
This is why I live in the country on 30 acres. I have kind neighbors and we look out for one another. Can't deal with crazy, petty behavior. It's as if people have forgotten how to just give a smile and a friendly hello.
Bless you, I agree. Is it so hard now a days for people to just be reasonably kind? I'm a Gen X raised by parents who went through the depression and WWII, and boy, did they ever go through it. They always had a smile and a kind heart towards others, for example, sharing ample gardens they grew after working full-time jobs and raising 6 kids. I consider myself lucky to have been raised on 30 acres also where we could run free, but we respected the boundaries of others as they did ours. This smile is for you 😊
From watching these episodes they remind me of a neighbor I had once. We had no idea, but he had dementia as well as being lonely, so he was at our house several times a day. We were talking to his son one day & he asked if his dad had been acting strange & we said "yea, a little, but we just figured he was friendly & lonely". That's when we found out about the dementia. He was constantly doing our yard work. We'd wake up & he's already raking, mowing, etc. We were gracious to him. It finally got to the point where he was doing this all over the neighborhood, at which point the son decided to place him in an old age home. Poor man died within 6 months. I hope you can find a good way to deal with this, but please remember.....if we are fortunate we will all get old & a lot of us will be lonely with alzheimer's/dementia. Grace is never misplaced. Even if it can make us really angry sometimes. Think of how you would want to be treated as an elderly person & proceed accordingly. But what do I know. I'm not there & I'm going completely off of less than 1 hour of videos. She could be an absolute witch for all I know.
Unfortunately, she has been doing this for the last 19years and I have been ignoring her for the past 12 months I have been living here, so she's the witch
How sad about the guy with dementia. Do you think his son putting him in a home ended up being the death of him?
My mom's aunt wanted to stay home but she had a qound on her leg that she refused to take care of. She also lived alone and started calling the sheriff and nearby family members about there being somebody down in her basement. However, nobody was ever down there. So she started chaining up the garage, thinking they were coming in the garage. It was very sad to see. Had to force her into a home and she became a different person. She ended up unruly, refused to follow rules, and at one point even slapped another resident of the home in the face. That's something she *never* would've done. They had to keep her sedated or give her meds constantly so they could care for her and that wound. A few months later she ended up dying. I think she just gave up pretty much because she wanted to be home, always said she'd be going home, die at home, but I think realized she never was going home.
Losing my mind is one my greatest fears.
It seems more a case of her being obsessively controlling imho. I have people like this in my family who I’ve had no choice but to go NC with. Her obsessive behavior towards OP makes me suspect she’s driven her family away and needs new “supply”. It’s really quite sad bc people who behave this way rarely have insight and rarely change. Everyone else is “The Problem”. Unless they look at themselves they will remain angry and alone. I am introvert so don’t mind being alone most of the time in my senior years. But I am not angry nor do I try to control anyone. And I LOVE my neighbors!
Yes, poster said the woman does have mental problems and been bothering neighbors for 19 years. ( If it were me I would try to get her interested in puzzles or something that will hold her attention for long periods of time?)
@Proudamerican329 I see narcissism here and a narcissist cannot sit down and do any puzzle. If people haven't studied psychopathy, sorry, I sincerely mean this in the nicest way, they don't have a clue.
I think an electric fence is in order.
This is just an evil person.
Situation may never get better, but worse.
You’ve been doing fantastic work in areas that you’ve covered.
Although she seems to be getting possessive now, accessing any area to be of a nuisance or frustration.
I would really consider not wasting precious years & packing up. Much ❤️
Thank you 🙏 but we have to stay put for now 🤞
This is awful,I really feel for you.I have been through this before, thank goodness at the time my husband and I were renting. It had gotten to the point where I was on the verge of going crazy, and I really thought I was seriously going to hurt the neighbor,bad enough I would have been put in prison. It was to the point where I could no longer sleep,so in the middle of the night, one night,with no boxes,only trash bags(thank goodness they were the very thick black trash bags)I begin throwing all of our belongings in the bags(mind you i had three little boys)the next morning I told my husband we were moving in with Grandma, until we found a new place.Sometimes people can only take so much before they go crazy.
Oh dear. I can't believe I m watching this saga 😂😂😂😂.
Love your home and wish you stay calm in this situation ❤❤❤❤.
Greetings from London ❤❤❤
😊 thank you, Hi London
For those in comments making statements like "she's mentally ill, or lonely or keeping herself busy....be patient with her" etc - that is understood. But, regardless of the neighbors mental health, intentions whether good or not - OP has a right to her privacy, home, guests & property without it being interfered with too. OP has made effort to be a good neighbor to befriend this woman but the neighbor is absolutely not in her right mind and is hell bent on making her neighbors miserable with her petty behaviors. This neighbor has had 19 years of experience and success with her actions to get rid of neighbors around her so she's not changing any time soon until she does something the court can do something about. When these situations become "a Civil Matter" there literally is nothing you can do unless you capture an actual crime on film - and crazy neighbor lady has perfected her craft to avoid that for 19 years. @Moo Tube I am genuinely sorry you are experiencing this, and I hope some form of resolution can be found so you can have peace and enjoy the home you have made so lovely.
I would like to Thank you, for completely understanding the WHOLE situation. I believe that she does know what she is doing and that there may be some mental health at play too, I've watched her purposely do things and do it with a smirk on her face. This may not be much to some people but 12 months, 24-7 is a lot to take. Again, thank you so much for your wonderful supportive comment. Have a fabulous day, Cheers Moo 🐮
@@MooTube23 Well bless her heart... (not a good thing if you're from N. America, it's a side eye at the fact your heart NEEDS blessing)
@@MooTube23 my pleasure dear. I know you must be absolutely frazzled with the situation. I'm whole heartedly sorry you have to endure this.
I can't believe she is doing all that and not noticing you're filming.😅
She knew, it doesn't bother her
I don't get it, it's almost like watching Benny Hill 40 years ago. Unbelievable😮
I just stumbled on you 2 days ago. Im in rural USA. I have a sneak theif lying drunken peeping tom for a building mgr so WHY on earth should i be invested in watching YOUR saga??? Because...I DONT FKN KNOW WHY, I JUST AM! I love what you did with your front shade screen and planters and all of it. 😊😊 I know some cannot figure out why this woman annoys you. For me, its personal boundries. I have my own that are unique to ME and do not enjoy them being infringed upon in any way. This new house is YOUR sanctuary unique to YOU. And you have done what you are able to do to be "your neighbors' keeper" anything beyond that is just infringement in your sanctuary. You are not being overly private even! Its sad, yes. But what aggravates each of us is different. That property is YOURS. And there is always a line with ANYONE...but its always in a different spot for everyone too.
Thank you, yes indeed, boundaries which unfortunately she has no idea about.
Love the music.
Staking the log in place was a brilliant idea! Is she on your property with a weed eater?
I wish the video was 24/7 I can’t believe what I’m seeing! I wonder if her family knows about her antics? It was frightening that she was so close to that bank throwing branches down, she could have easily lost her footing at her age.
If I knew her family I would inform them without a doubt
(in captain Kirks voice) Scotty, Bones...I ..just..can't ..look away. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I really do wish you well and peace sweetheart 💕
My goodness dealing with all this mess 🤦♀️🥺
Thank you I really appreciate it
I just remembered a story of a man who worked at a mental institution. He began selecting a photo of someone with great troubles, and just spent time projecting love to them. Over time, he found it healed them. Having been doing a lot of cleanup gardening, it about funny that all your work was undone, cast back over the side. At least the grass was neatly whippersnipped.
Whippersnipped eh? Cute name! We call that a weed eater, nothing so fun as a whippersnipper!
We call them weedwhackers lol
I like yours better
I'm sorry I thought a cup of tea and a talk would help but you are right she's bonkers
Having a crazy neighbour is not fun. Yes, I've now subscribed as I need to see part 4!
it's coming VERY soon
In your first video many people were saying she was behaving this way bc she is lonely. I have a different opinion. She seems extremely controlling. I believe that her behavior has likely driven away her own family and if she had any friends it has driven them away too. So now you are her unfortunate target. She seems obsessed with you, not lonely. Also, this makes me beyond grateful for my neighbors. I only have one residential neighbor across the street (next door is a business that takes up the entire block). My neighbors across the street & I can see each other’s homes & yards & we look out for each other. Sometimes one of their dogs “elopes” & comes to visit. I escort her safely home. When my dog doesn’t notice someone who’s not supposed to be here wandering onto the property they let me know right away or call out to the person asking them why they are there. I’ve had horrible neighbors in the past. I hope I never have to sell this house or my neighbors don’t have to move. Your neighbor isn’t lonely. She MIGHT be narcissistic though.
I agree with you, yes. Having lovely neighbours is nice, this is the first one that's not for me.
Your neighbor is truly a “Karen” as in self entitled know it all control biotch!! People get killed over shit like this and you mean your court system will not make her stay off your property?
Hiya!! I’m from Maine (North East Coast of USA) I just found this little neighbor playlist, I hate that I love it!!
At the 1:23 min mark the caption says:
*Whipper Snipping*
I think, I love this! In my neck of the woods we call it *Weed Whacking* or *Weed Eating*
But I think I like yours better!!
@N.Sardone lol welcome and yes you are correct, Snipping is doing the activity and Snipper is the tool 👌
Is she on your property? Do you own your property? If you do why not just fence the entire property as a good fence would fix this problem 100%..certainly this makes for a great Moo tube! Thanks for part 3..
When I was young and in my first apartment I had nosey neighbors so for a week I posted what I was doing everyday on my front door. Funny I can’t remember the outcome but I felt better.
This is really interesting...enjoyed the series so far. Your neighbor something else.
This is why I’m afraid to own a house, I need to be ready to move when I’m miserable. I had a neighbor who would allow his dog to poop on my lawn and steps after I caught and asked politely don’t do that, he said if you don’t want it there you clean it up 😲 this is how fights start with neighbors
Definitely mental issues, Loneliness and old age cranky ness. But not all people are cranky.
Wow! I really feel for you. I have great neighbors so I can't complain but if they were in my backyard doing this I would be asking him what the h they think they're doing
It’s council land behind my place, myself and a friend had been out there for a few weeks clearing it. She would walk daily along my back fence inspecting what I’d done for the day. Her head is down but her eyes are on me or my yard
Dear God, don't let me become my neighbors annoying nightmare! I'd have to build the tallest walls just to be at peace. That woman needs to take up a hobby other than being nosy!
Plant a hedge.
I have
Im officially 100% invested!
I thought she was about to go headfirst into the ditch at one point. That would have been a shame…😂 Is that bit your land? I couldn’t work out what was happening
No, it's council land but each property usually looks after it in some way or another
I think we need live stream now for the full effect
Im waiting for u to put in a xprinkler system. Great idea on here
Maybe one day! lol
So confused, she's in YOUR backyard moving the log and sticks and using the weed wacker?? Or thats her yard??? Im so lost.
I've watched all 3 videos. IMO she may be a nosy neighbour but you are obsessed and going to incredible lengths to shield her view. You're also making her yard and your own yard look hideous. Blue/green tarps?? In this video she looks like she is cleaning up a bunch of sticks and and making the common area much cleaner. I wouldn't want to live next door with ugly tarps hanging over my side of the fence.
When someone is watching your every move, every day, all-day, and there's a legal limit to the height of a fence you can go to, tarps were the easiest and quickest fix there was to block her, everything I've done to block her as been because of her actions and its all on my side of the fence, nothing is hanging over or on her side. I'm not sure if you have read my pinned post but that explains more and it tells you that it's not just me she has done this too but to all that have lived here for the past 19 years.
She was not clearing out the back at all, she was undoing the work that had already been done.
@@MooTube23 Not sure if this is the case, i'm not a doctor, but usually, over stepping boundaries over years and decades is signs of a "cluster b disorder". This, of course, isn't always the case. It could be dementia, schizophrenia, bipolar, ocd, etc. But if none of those apply, then the most likely is npd.
npd are boundary pushers, attention hogs, people needers to the extreme...pretty much gremlins in human form.
You say "no", and they say "yes". You put down a line, they walk across it. You put up a wall, they hop over it. You say "don't talk to me", they call you everyday, several times a day...
i've dealt with a few.
just wanted to explain a plausible reason
@@specialtwice4975Spot On ! Exactly.
"Specialtwice", Makes me wonder if you are a twin or mom of twins😏
OMG!!!. I get the feeling that she likes being on camera.
S9he is so busy. She has a lot of energy
Is that your property she's on?
I had a mosey neighbor, Ray, I was planting sunflowers at my back fence when he came over and asked me what I was doing. I said planting sunflowers if that was alright with him. (He was always a nuisance). He said he didn’t give a damn as long as his horses didn’t eat them. I said well unless your horse gets on my property, it’s my right to do what I wanted. I’m pretty sure he’s the one who shot my dog “Sam” because Sam was found way down the road in a ditch. Horrible man! He’s since passed but not sure if he went up or down. Just not a nice guy.
She is 80 wow I hope I got that much energy like she has😊
If she’s trespassing, can’t you call the police on her? Or extend the fence out?
She is on council land so she isn't trespassing and the one time I knew she had been on my property I didn't have a camera down that side of my house plus she admitted to being on my property in Mediation and with the privacy act that comes with Meditation I can't have her charged for it
sadly this is not and repeat NOT a senior old lady or guy problem...the problem also includes entitled people, young, middle age, karens, and so forth. I myself -a senior- do not like to mingle with neighbors because past experiences.. however i am surrounded by black folks that have loud and when i said laud i mean loud music, fights, screaming matches, parties every single weekend...and when their guest live there trash everywhere...traspasing to my property and i suppost jut to take it...I live by myself, female and old...perfect target right... then 3 houses down from my backyard i have a new neighboor which loves to crank his same song over and over and over and over and so loud that even inside my home with my computer watching videos i can hear his music...one of my close neighbors move thanks to him, and hoa never helps. Now the two old couple move out and just the new people sprayed my backyard with pesticides.. so yeah...one can try to be alone, say just hi...need help i am here for you...but come on...common sense, courtesy and respect have to come both ways...I am in the process of building a tall fence, with yes, double black ground cover and plants, trees to cover window view and noise, that is the back and on the frony I am building the fence between the black folks so they stop using my drive way as easement...I do not like confrontations, but i will not allow anyone to bully me or try to scare me....i have the problem i fix the problem...no asking nicely no talking no bull...just build a tall fence and i will install the cameras.
Unless im missing something, im assuming she niavely thought her strimmer could cut thru whatever was holding that log down, mental health issues or not, her acting like xhe couldnt be asked, to try harder & succeed in cutting those ties, she deserves to be at least nominated for an oscar tb seriously honest...i stand & applaud.
So, is she on your property as you are on the other side of the fence? I'm just trying to figure it out as she's weed whacking clearly. Moved the log a few times while your camera moved around for diff view angles. Confused. Never saw her try to pick up the log once you mentioned it was fastened to the ground.
Yeah, this lady is going through great lengths to see what you are doing over there..
Does she even touch the grass with the whipper snipper
I don't think so, she does get it caught up in a weed though
This should be on neighborhood wars...lol
I feel for the lady I had the same problem for 20 years
She is absolutely batty. People commented that you are the bad neighbor? I am invested in this now.
I really think that Neighbour is Definately suffering with Mental health Issues- for that Reason - Please be Extra Carefull of her - and make sure your Dog is safe when you are not home - If this is really disturbing your Peace of mind - maybe Consider Moving - if possible Life is too short to be living in Dread. Take care.
Thank you and we will
Is there a way you can extend your side fence so she can't easily get on your property back there? I know all about annoying neighbors. Theres different ways in the US to handle the situation so thats why i ask. 15+ yrs here. Sad when you can't sit on your own driveway quietly and not be harassed.
I've planted shrubs out there now
Can you buy that property back there? Or is it easement? She would poop her pants if a snake jumped out at her. Or a trapdoor spider xD She just did that so she can look in your back windows. But yea it looks ok. I liked the log look, but hey.
I wonder if there is some undiagnosed AuDHD there.
Yes definitely
So sorry you have a terrible neighbor like this .
All we can do just be nice and pray over them and show kindness it eats them up when we show kindness. Heck bake her a cake and take it to her but let it be the last one , kindness .
Many blessings be with you and yours as you go .
Big Hugs and Lots of Loves !
If that area behind your fence is public land, you don't have a lot against thus. And there's a possibility that pulling wood out of a creek or waterway might be interrupting a habitat for lizards or frogs. She has an OCD disorder. It's more common that people realise.
Maybe you could buy the fake hedge/ivy webbing to cover the fence to block the view instead of the unattractive matting you used. 😊
You should start live streaming 24/7. I’d say I’m joking but I’m not 😅
This would absolutely drive me insane and so far, I’m pretty sane. It’s like someone else said, “it’s my personal space”! And that is yours and she should be told to respect that. Does she have any family you can talk to about her behavior?
Agreed, and I don't know sorry
OOOOOooooOo im invested now!
Imagine getting to that age and being so miserable. 😮
I’m new here. Is that YOUR yard she’s in? Or is it shared ?
Welcome
It's council land, what I'm trying to point out is more her intent on being a bad neighbour
I couldn't work out if on this one if she is not on Moo's land. If she is not she can do what she likes and looks to be carefully tidying up - doing good. if she is on Moo's land then that is trespass and she has no business there.
It's council land, please read my pinned post
I need a neighbour like her this is hilarious😂😂
No you don't, no one does
I’ll bet you can have her… hahahaha
I’m hooked…
Where she is strimming, is that your property or hers or council? I am confused but invested
It's Council, most people maintain their own area out the back. She called the Council 3 times regarding the work that had been done, they thanked me for my efforts and told me it looked fabulous
Is this common area, it just looks like she is weed eating and that is how you would weed eat? So what’s the problem there? If it’s your yard that’s different.
It is not a common area. She is weed eating not in her own yard but has crossed over the fence line and is in the neighbor's yard that she has been caught trespassing in before.
Why the heck is she behind your yard, and your side of fence??? wtf?
To get a good look 👀 lol
Jeez its relentless -how is your mental health -this really equates to stalking. Its good you have a record of this - I dont think youd have a leg to stand on re the public land but it sure demonstrates a pattern of behaviour
Yeah, the area out back is a no-leg zone, it's more about showing her intent and yes how relentless she is
Does she know she’s a UA-cam star?
she is very well aware that she was being filmed and I have been within my rights to do so from my property
Can't police contact a family member? This poor woman obviously is suffering from mental health issues. She could get hurt, so appears she is a danger to herself. 😞
Why is she worried about what's behind YOUR yard in the first place?
No idea
She is a Nolife Lisa😅😅😅
Hey, keep our name outta this 😂
What would happen if you just completely ignored her?
Is there no social services or church help or anybody that can come and visit her once a week or so? Something to help pull her out of her own insanity or loneliness back to the real world?
I have ignored her, have you read my pinned post explaining more?
If that's a road I see, people are KNOWN to throw out things like caltrops from cars for no reason....
Council land and a creek
Whipper snippering. In USA we call it weed whacking. I like your term better!
lol cheers
So, who does that side of the fence belong to?
Maybe she’s just really lonely.
👍❤️❤️❤️🤣
Is she whipper snippering her property or yours ?
This seems over the top on all ends....
and it is, which is my point
Invite her in for yea she is just lonely
I already have
Oh me too!!🫢
She really needs a hobby!
Unfortunately she has one! You’re watching it.
This is her hobby
Looks like a good neighbor trying to give a helping hand to your efforts????
You obviously haven’t been watching the whole story.
@@joanrobinson9193 actually I did and I saw how the woman has mental issues. Maybe she has dementia so she will do or act normally once in a while and then go back to wherever her mind goes. Its actually sad to see. I wish she were in a facility able to handle her issue instead of just letting her go on like this.
@@wendybenson5903 assumptions and privelage.
😩😭😂
I have a bad neighbour as well, she is tormenting me for 23 years, like a policewoman
Whose property is she busy cleaning up?
No bodies, she's making a mess again by throwing them back down there
Looks like the poor old thing needs busy work, i bet if you put your thinking cap on you could probably help her out, sticks are free all over the place.
How old is she? Wow she can move a log? She can bend? What State do you live in?
Btw, my husband was a trucker for 35 yrs and me for 10 plus escort car for oversize loads...is one of your pets named KENWORTH? Or a friend? Whomever it is I LOVE THAT! BUT MINE WOULD BE NAMED STAR CAR😂😂😂😂
He's a friend of mine’s dog, Kenworth is also a rescue furbaby 💕
😳 😲 What the heck ❓🤯
Have you ever invited her for coffee? A little kindness can really change someone!
why would you want a crazy person in your house???
You need a more productive hobby. Try gardening. Plamt some nice evergreens or flowering trees in front of the fence and before long you'll have a pretty view of your yard that'll take your mind off your neighbor. I favor landscaping over homemade screens because 1) most jurisdictions require the fence builder to give the neighbor the prettier side, 2) do-it-yourself screens scream neighbor issues to would-be homebuyers and 3) homemade screens look like sh*t after a couple of years. Start planting now, add to your garden each year some bushes, native plants and bushes, and pretty soon you'll have improved your home value while completely thwarting your neighbor.
Lol I couldn't be more productive if I tried lol I never stop 🚫
Steaked Staked
What is she doing in your property??? Grrr
Seems like to me. She's doing what you should be doing.
seems that you haven't read my pinned post or whats written in the video I'm sorry to say