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Season 3 Episode 11: The One Where Chandler Can't Remember Which Sister
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I remember the first time I watched this. When Monica asked if he trusted Rachel, I thought he was going to respond, "I trusted Carol" and that the would go a bit deeper with his trust issues but oh well.
Although interestingly, Carol's own infidelity was brought up when Ross got jealous over Emily. Rachel was in the room when Phoebe and Monica helped Ross realize his jealousy issues, which I always thought helped explain to her, Rachel, why Ross acted the way he did, and help set up for why she wanted to get back with him.
Yeah that would have been much better cause I get why Ross is like that but it's still wrong and unfair on Rachel's end
they did that later in the show though
Also later in this episode Mark brings a bottle of wine over to Rachels apartment, Ross calls & hears them & she gets mad at ROSS for being angry? Like wtf, I'd be pissed if my girlfriend was drinking wine with her male coworker at her apartment!
@@nickjacobs8507 uhh that never happened… i think u may be thinking of when mark invited himself to rachel’s crib when she told him she and ross broke up
02:24 "then get over yourself and grow up"
"You grow up"
😂😂😂 They are amazing
One of the best siblings.
2:28 The way ross said, "You grow up" 😂❤
This is why I really like Monica's character. She often helped Ross and Rachel get clarity when they were in disagreement and here, she was right. Ross's relationship with Rachel would only work if he trusted her and he clearly didn't. His experience with Carol affected him badly but the thing is, treating Rachel with suspicion and constant guilt over how overwhelming her job was in the initial months ultimately did push her away. Ross's suspicions might be valid but its beyond frustrating to see him consider Rachel as a helpless person with no will of her own who would just leave him because of Mark. Rachel is by no means perfect and is a very flawed character but her previous experience with Barry also taught her to value loyalty so Monica was basically right - the whole thing boiled down to whether or not he trusted Rachel.
Would you trust someone even after you've been cheated on so many times? Monica knew that all of Ross's girlfriends have cheated on him and Carol becoming a lesbian was the final straw. Monica should've understood why Ross is acting so paranoid about Rachel spending so much time with Mark instead of dismissing his feelings. It also didn't help that when Ross tried to patch things up with Rachel, she lied to him about Mark not being in her apartment.
@@loudboy317 yeah, because he was the one harping on about Mark when they fought in that episode when it wasn't even about that. Rachel asked for a break because he was always forcing her choose between him and her career and Ross would always bring the conversation back to Mark when its pretty common knowledge that Rachel wasn't even into him. Rachel lied to him because he was the one acting like an idiot about Mark - he and Rachel were clearly good friends at that point and Ross jumped to the worst assumption all on his own. He didn't even hear Rachel out. And seriously, how dumb and backwards is it to assume everytime your girlfriend hangs out with a male friend that they're involved? If Rachel really wanted to be with Mark, she could have easily left Ross way before the actual break up. She didn't need to lie to him.
Ross's behaviour is understandable but by no means justified. Rachel was loyal to him but annoyed by his behaviour towards her new job. Ross sunk his relationship on his own, Mark didn't even have to do anything.
for starters i hate monica in these situations. Sure, in some scenarios she will push rachel towards ross, but in many scenarios like this she helps rachel more than she actually does with ross. And also, ross wasn't wrong, mark wanted to go out with rachel and he could see that. Rachel was completely in the wrong in my eyes and monica only helped her rather than helping her own brother
Guys stop these comments, watch the series , enjoy it and done, stop livin in it , go study
I will say one thing. About that break. Go watch the episode where Ross gets a call and his answering machine records Rachel's message. She says "This whole breakup thing is stupid"
20+ years since that episode cant believe people still blame Ross. Ross did some stupid shit but so did Rachel, like breaking Ross and his girlfriend up in that beach episode, or showing up at his wedding.
Both were flawed. Both made mistakes. Both paid for it. Both ended up together. That's the happy ending.
Ross has great facial expressions. I always thought he was the greatest actor above them all.
He was without a doubt.
And he is SOOO funny. He can make the most simple things hilarious. Like the whole pivot thing with the couch coz he was too cheap to pay for delivery.. so good hahaha.
@@jcaylalove8713 this is my explanation
No. Rachel’s were the best, she is so natural and such a good actress.
I agree because I sort of find Ross annoying and unseferable but actually turns out Matthew Perry is just really nice and normal dude so he did an excellent job
I have always wondered why nobody cares when they were shouting in the coffee shop lol
Me too. Couldn't they hear their every conversation out loud.
Two words...... tee vee show
Ross and Monica are the best TV siblings!
They were way too close though
U mean Monica is best sister 😅
Before Lannisters took it to a different level.
Funny, when I first watched this as a kid, I hated Monica in this scene, but then I later realised, yeah, Ross was the jealous jerk here and Monica was being a great supportive friend, she was right about him lol
I see it the other way around. In the end Ross was right about mark
@chvy6268 No, he wasn't, Mark had a crush on Rachel, so what? He never came on to her while she was with Ross. Having a crush doesn't mean that he was gonna try and ruin them.
Mark didn't come onto Rachel while she was with Ross. But that isn't even the point - what Mark felt was irrelevant, Rachel was never going to cheat on Ross or leave him for Mark. She wanted a job and Mark was professional.
@@j04370859
He jumped onto her the very moment they had a fight. Let's stop pretending that he was a good guy.
@@ocvetkovic3130
No, he wasn't. Mark wanted to bang her.
The way monica talked to Ross, It's a perfect tone,perfect gesture and so relatable🥰
Everyone needs a Monica in their life❤ I’ve always admired her and how she rides so hard for her friends!
Monica is 100% right here. Good for her.
Actually, she turned out to be Wrong Marc admitted having a Crush on Rachel
And marc turned out to be tge Reason for Ross n Rachels Break up. So Actually Monuca Fuckedup big time.
Agreed
Because you are a girl, but we know how men think and Ross is 100% right here.
They both have very good points. I agree with both Ross and Monica
Ok so when the roles are reversed then they should grow up as well....
So, He wanted her to stay as a waitress or some job she doesn't like just bcs he is insecure... For people who say Ross turned out to be right, yes, but imagine your bf/gf wants you not to pursue your dream job bcs someone at your work has a crush on you, how would feel about that?
Then he should not let her work at all, and give her enough money
Ross accepted his mistake. Very clearly. Rachel rarely does. She is stubborn as f.
Exactly! And he kept justifying that for like how long? YEARS! I don't say Rachel wasn't at wrongs sometimes BUT Ross clearly started it
@@ordenax really? Did u even watched the show 🙄
Ross was never right in this instance
Monica-grow up..
Ross-u grow up..🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ross was so willing to let Rachel miss out on her dream job because he was insecure.
yea watch the whole show and then regret commenting this
@@prithvirajmannur2775 just because Mark did have a crush on Rachel didn’t mean she was going to sleep with him while she was with Ross
@@prithvirajmannur2775 💯💯💯
She was never qualified for that job, the whole show is a joke. Rachel sucks
@@prithvirajmannur2775 found a Ross
I am so in love with Rachel's closet
Surgically remove the boyfriend 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
At the end Ross made a big fuss and ruined his relationship just because he didn't trust reachel. Just because somebody had a crush on her (I mean who wouldn't?) Does not mean Rachel was going to cheat on him. His insecurities screwed up that relationship :/
Its both way she manipulate Bonnie to shave her head. They were made for wach other, its just their insecurities that keeping the fuss. But they both want to do good for each other from the start.
rachel had more faults and red flags than ross imo.
Take a chill pill it's a show
You wanna talk insecurities. Rachel tried so hard to get ross in season2 , she made him break up with julie even though she was always good to her. And of course made bonnie bald and show up to Ross's wedding even though she knew she shouldn't have. And also look at it this way:- did the guy who got rachel her job did not try to take advantage of her when she was in a weak state? This means that after all that was his plan right. I think that many people forget how mean and selfish rachel is because you are blinded by her looks
@@TsukiRaiki It's not real, nor a competition. Or do you see ALL gorgeous women as competition
Whenever I see so called ROSCHEL, I always remember Gunther's famous words : What does Rachel see in this guy???
I get that ross is worried cause he lost Carol and you know rachel is like "the girl next door" type but ross needed to trust rachel.
That trust thing is definitely a big part of it, but also Ross had been in love with Rachel since the 9th grade (some 15 years at the start of the show?) but never dared act on it because he must have feared rejection by her. He was able to put Rachel out of his mind when he married Carol. Even after their chat early in the show when Rachel admitted that she'd known he had that crush on her, but she had seen him only as "Monica's geeky older brother" and he then asked her would it be ok if he asked her out sometime, he never did, and it took her realising she had feelings for him while he was with Julie to bring them together..... Then Mark appeared.
Ross should have seen a therapist
@@TheBandit025Nova The divorce lawyer certainly recommended it.
lol
Ross's relationship with Carol seriously messed him up. He has got almost no trust in his partners and freaks out when they get too close to others because that's exactly what happened with her. Sure he can be petty and untrusting, but I can see how he'd find it hard after that.
Rachel has been cheated on multiple times
There's a difference between untrusting, and actively sabotaging your girlfriends career.
It's fine if he feels uncomfortable, but he has to take that uncomfortable feeling and deal with it internally.
It doesn’t help that Ross also keeps getting terrible advice from both Joey and Chandler about Mark. Monica may have given good advice to Ross, but she was still undermining him and she clearly couldn’t see this from Ross' perspective and just scolded him without helping him get over his trust issues and buried trauma.
So glad someone told him this
He should've gone to Monica for his Ross-Rachel drama
Monica expression at the end 😂😂😂😂😂😂
2:00 - 2:03 Oh, Ross... I think you are. 🤣🤣
I love this show i will never get bored from it
I dont even know how to describe it its so good
jeez how tall is that guy. monica is standing on the couch and still looking up.
Monica is the best sister in law…
Grow up... You grow up 😂😂 I can relate to that
Me and my sister
ross might be right in the whole situation with mark but rachel has every right to be annoyed because if you are in love with your partner they should trust that you don't do anything ross was very insecure this season he ruined his own relationship lmao
Except, he wasn't right. Even Mark never crossed any line after finding out that Rachel was in a relationship. They were both respectful and Ross lost his mind.
This was one of the very few times I thought Ross was a complete AH.
I love Rachel's outfit!
We will watch the whole series one clip at a time.
"Why don't you call himmmmmm"
Monica unknowingly screwed the pooch on that one…
Monica been the bestest friend
I love Monica for this
Thank you for adding all these clips, is it possible for you to add the scenes with Sandy the nanny
To be fair to Ross, Mark did hit on Rachel immediately afterwards and was planning the thing the whole time.
Alright, this problem with Ross's trust issues wouldn't go anywhere, even if Mark hadn't appeared on the scene. Bottom line is - Rachel didn't cheat on him. And it's actually pretty insulting to assume that everyone who helps you out a bit has the worst intention. Mostly people are (and rightly so) wary of strangers but Rachel was just trying to work at something she was good at. Working at a job you hate for three years after having given up a life of luxury would make even the laziest person career driven. It was a good opportunity and Rachel never treated Mark as anything other than a friend. Hell, even Gunther liked Rachel for the entirety of the show but he never even got close to being with her despite the fact that she was at the coffee house every day.
This whole thing was never about Ross, just like Monica said. And Rachel was clearly only interested in Ross so the Mark thing shouldn't even have been an issue.
To be fair to Rachel she didn't cheat ever and Ross cheated immediately with someone he didn't even know to punish her
@@mansishukla6779 okay so u r going to allow your boyfriend having female best friends and husband having his ex number if yes then totally correct how come male insecurity is a sin and female insecurity a pride like Monica did to Chandler when he was in okalhoma ?
Yes.... He is obvious about his tactics. Yet Rachel nor Monica can see the trap.
@@learnwithgaurav8060Bang on, unfortunately
Nice video Ross was jealous of Monica saying why don’t you call mark and Ross said what did I do to you
I think all the three of them didn't make sense.
Rachel and Monica were immediately excited after mark offered Rachel the job interview, not even questioning for a second whether this stranger is legit. They instantly believed that it's a good thing happening to her, I mean the stranger might be a rapist for all they know.
Ross was right to be suspicious but he was focussing on THE WRONG THING ENTIRELY. He kept being insecure that Rachel would leave him for mark. She won't cheat on him. While they can't trust mark it's not completely out the realm of possibility for him to be nice. All he should have done was escorted Rachel to that lunch and waited outside.
It's an old show. Those things weren't as mainstream of a concern as they are now. I mean they came out with the "stranger danger" slogan but still.
Always felt that ‘am I losing my senses’ and the final reaction from Courtney was very Meg Ryan in When Harry Met Sally. From memory I think there are a few episodes around the same time where that reaction pops up.
Looking back I have to agree with Monica on this. Ross needed to stop, grow up and think about this for a perspective for Rachel in her career.
Okay yes Ross had some trust issues after what happen with Carol, but he should have trusted Rachel more being that she wanted to do something with her career in fashion and Mark just trying to help her. Rachel only saw Mark as this great guy that was helping her get her a good job and not romantic in anyway.(okay later episodes things change but that's something different to discuss) Ross if he was a trusted and supported boyfriend should have at least trusted her, that would have been one of the signs to watch out for during their roller coaster of a relationship.
Personally i don't feel like the whole Ross/Rachel thing would work in actual life. She'd be perfect with someone bland like Mark. And Ross, too, had some great girlfriends in between his periods of being with Rachel. Not Emily, maybe, but Charlie was great. Mona probably not, too boring.
Carol didn't mess up Ross, his mom did, making him believe that he was perfect, leaving Monica almost as a stranger in her house, Carol could have been wrong, but Ross and every aspect is selfish because of what he was told to do.
Actually Carol did. In season 4, Phoebe mentions how before Carol left him, Ross used to be trusting, then when Carol left him he became paranoid
Monica is a complete hypocrite.
Monicas outfit is impeccable
Despite resulting circumstances, Ross turned out to be right
Mark later admitted he’s had a crush on Rachel
so what? Did he think Rachel would cheat?
That does not mean Rachel was going to cheat on him so his attitude was wrong.
But then mark never made a move on Rachel while they’re tgt
So if a guy has a crush on Rachel, she cant work with him?
@@ispeakcockney5387 same thing when Rachel is pregnant suddenly Ross can't date a girl who has crush on him just because
1:58 lol
ross was only jealous and insecure because of his past issues with carol. it's still bad but understandable
Rachel outfit..😍😍
One thing Ross was right = no man in the world is "just nice" with women , especially the pretty and beatuliful women
You speak for all men do you ? .....Plenty of men are just friends with women.
However, that doesn't mean rachel was going to do something.
He was dating rachel, did he really thought no one was going to be attracted to her? It was all about trust.
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@@ngrp27 Exactly Noelia, I agree with you.
@@ngrp27 Yes, but still when you now someone is offering your gf a job because he wants to make a move on her, you have to admit it's not really pleasent feeling
Monica is not able to trust Chandler when he is away for Christmas in Tulsa
It's weird that Monica didn't say that (don't you trust her) to herself when her husband was with that pretty girl in Oklahoma, you should tell yourself to grow up.🤷🤷
After looking at a lot of the comments, a lot of you are questioning if Rachel would ever cheat on Ross despite him later to be proven right about Mark having a crush on Rachel. Well, keep in mind that even if Rachel would NOT cheat on Ross, he was still fearful that she would. In a later episode, "The One with All the Jealousy", Ross opened up and stated that the whole Mark situation is really hard for him to handle because of the heartbreak and betrayal that he went through with Carol. Carol cheated on Ross with Susan WHILE Carol was still married to Ross! Even if Monica later stated that practically all of Ross' girlfriends in high school cheated on him, she didn't take into account the huge difference between dating someone in high school and being married to someone. Dating someone is one thing, but being married to someone is definitely another. Carol walked down the aisle and promised to love, cherish, and honor Ross in sickness and in health, but she never kept that promise while Ross did, and it hurt him! That kind of betrayal isn't just something you can brush off like in high school, it cuts really deep, and that's what Ross wanted to avoid. Yeah, he should've been more supportive of Rachel and should've trusted her more, but the fear he had of going through all of that pain, betrayal and heartbreak again was too strong. We all know how powerful fear and depressing memories can be, so we should cut Ross and any other characters who also have tragic backstories a little more slack. If you all make more of an effort to look past the exterior, you might see a bit more humanity in those characters than you previously thought.
Yes! Totally Agree!
Moreover when Rachel expressed to Ross that how she's so freaking out with the idea of her sister Jill and Ross dating, Ross immediately understood Rachel and was upto ending terms with Jill.
Wonder why Rachel never reverted in the same way when Ross was freaking out, Rachel never bothered to understand Ross completely and how he functions!
But i guess that's the case with mostly all relationships, women never put everything into men and only see them as a mean to enhance their life and increase comfort and convenience.
But the whole thing involves Rachel's career. Can't Ross try to understand how important is it for Rachel to build her careet
@@peterparker01 Jill wants to date Ross only to spite Rachel so Rachel has to stop it
So what is the solution? What does being understanding towards Ross entail?
Not having a career and waitressing all life?
Not make friends or even interact with male colleagues?
Or locking Rachel in a golden cage only family and common friends can access?
I believe Rachel explained and reassured Ross patiently several times and requested to have more faith in her.
I agree with you that a lil bit humanity and empathy and effort is required. However, ultimately it is up to each of us to tackle our own hangups, insecurities and past trauma. People like Ross should go for therapy rather than go crazy on other people (including gf). Because no matter how much you love each other, love cannot replace professional help.
Ross never took into account that Rachel was cheated on so many times, some of them to her face, but she never cheated on any of the men, even if she had a right to at that time. They could've bonded over that and promised never to make those mistakes. Rachel thought she was with someone who would completely understand and help her grown.
Since Friends is a comedy show so many things get taken as a joke when really they’re actually pretty serious issues. A lot people are calling Ross insecure and petty but forget that he married the first woman he had a serious relationship with then after years of marriage Carol _cheated_ on him with another women and came out as a lesbian, (something that got very ghosted over, just because it was two women it DOES NOT make it ok to cheat). He was then expected to completely accept this, be treated like nothing more than a sperm doner by Carol and Susan during the pregnancy, (e.g them choosing baby names without him), along with being demeaned and belittled by Susan at every chance she got as well.
An experience like that would naturally result in major trust issues and in real life Ross would probably still be in therapy for it! I wish the show had taken note of that but it was always seen as a ‘funny’, even in the later episodes when it’s brought up about Carol ruining Ross’ trust in his girlfriends it’s still taken as joke and used to embarrass Ross! 😡
His experience with Carol had nothing to do with Rachel. And he didn't just mind that Rachel was friends with Mark, he also had a problem with how her job was a bit too demanding for his liking. He was set in his career - he knew what he wanted to do and he was very well established in the field he had chosen but Rachel was still struggling with her career. He was essentially making her choose between him and her job (even after Mark left Bloomingdale's) and he ridiculed her job instead of trying to be supportive.
Exactly, you’re the older sibling so act like it
1:06 😅🤣
2:00 yes
And finally she kissed Mark 😂😂
Talk about trust Now.
I imagine a scenario where Rachel worked with Chandler, where all the guys wanted her, he would be way more comfortable with Mark if that happened.
Fully understand Ross nervousness, especially for Rachel, for whom he waited for 9 years before he got her and then it is more obvious to nervous. This is absolutely normal, especially to guys, and especially in a situation where you get your partner after a lot of wait and perseverence and then you are bit nervous all the time because you are afraid you might lose your partner because although you got them but you know your partner is way more better than you and so the world will not stop hitting on your partner and one bad day, one bad luck, and your partner might find someone more appealing and have a change of mind and feelings.
He may have been too worried, but Ross wasn’t wrong about Mark. And Monica should have been more understanding of Ross’s concerns, especially considering his history with Carol and how much he loved Rachel. Plus the fact that, again, he wasn’t wrong about Mark.
So what.. he's not dating Mark but Rachel, she is hot, she will have dozens of men crushing on her no matter which office she works in. Ross also broke off his marriage with Emily because she couldn't trust him (even though she has valid reasons to not trust Ross).
@@user-j1spswelskisj I never said he was completely in the right, but it’s understandable to be concerned when your girlfriend is being pursued by another guy and she won’t even admit that it’s happening. And like I said, he was right. Mark was the first person Rachel called in their big fight, and he was the first person she dated after they broke up. I’d say that validates Ross’ concerns.
In Ross defense, he was right about mark trying to sleep with Rachel
Monica was right. Just because Mark might want to sleep with Rachel doesn't mean she wants to sleep with him.
Then Ross turned into a hypocrite and slept with the copy place woman.
Whilst I agree that she never expressed wanting to sleep with him, a responsible partner would acknowledge that the other party (Mark) may want to be more than friends and reassure Ross that A. They are aware of the possibility that it’s not as genuine as it seems, and B. That he needs to trust her. Acting dumb as if it’s not even on her radar is a huge sign of disrespect to Ross, even if it is simply a confidence booster for her. No one can pretend that they don’t feel attraction signals from somebody that has interest, especially somebody that is mixing personal and professional like Mark was.
2:00 "am I loosing my senses?"
Didn't Monica had trust issues when Chandler spent Christmas with a beautiful woman?
I liiiiive 4 Mon stepping up on the couch which the all worship to look him in the eyes 👀 and reads him good...
Even when she's his sister passing over his trust issues with Carol. She should've understood deeply, but her desire to make a point to the ridiculous answers she's heard was stronger.
2:20 no he doesn't😂
Rechal look so beautiful in this dress
But to be fair Ross was right Mark did intentionally come between him and Rachel which resulted in their break up.
I know what Ross is saying and everything and I understand the logic of "just because he wants to, do you think he gets to - and grow up!"
But even Joshua does admit a lot later on that he's always had a crush on her which supports what Joey says a guy doesn't go up to a woman he doesn't like or isn't attracted to and offers her a job!
Even Chandler goes on to tell Monica it's ok for him to flirt but not okay for her and his reason "you think you're flirting, no big deal, but to a guy it's finally! Someone who wants to sleep with me!"
Which both Chandler's and Joey's behaviour supports this in earlier seasons with women. Joey takes Ross's baby out with him and Chandler to score dates for women to think oh, how swweeeettt! Then Ross trying to flirt with the pizza lady and all he talks about is gas's, it's also shows in the Big Baby theory how all of the blokes one way or another try to get it on with women, unsuccessfully or successfully.
Even Barney in how I met your Mother and all the schemes he pulled to get women to sleep with him - random guys don't do things out of the goodness out of their own hearts to help women out that they don't want to at some point get it on with her.
Don't you think that's a horrible thing to generalize about men?
Speaking from experience, genuinely, I've had male friends who had a crush on me but didn't pursue it, they sublimated it instead which is totally a thing and you should look it up. Meanwhile, I've had random weirdos come at me expecting sex after saying atrocious garbage...
Men have the responsibility of controlling themselves, they know that, and saying that they're always "like that" doesn't exempt them from that responsibility, nor does it warrant generalizing the idea that they all befriend women while secretly plotting something.
Some do, they're pigs.
Edit: Mark liked Rachel, and knew he couldn't have her, some didn't pursue her romantically till she broke up with Ross. Everything prior to that was platonic, he didn't ask for any "favors", he never !ade it weird. Yes it increased his chances of going out with her, but that was still up to her, and for all he knew she could have married Ross instead
@@samf.s.7731 he still offered her a job because he'd a crush on her. Fair enough he didn't make a play for her until after her and Ross broke up and it wasn't a generalisation. I was pulling out clips where men have gone after the women they want whether they knew women were romantically involved with someone or not.
I even remember listening to a radio and there was a survey about what do men think when a woman smiles at them do they think she's just being nice or that they are in there! And 88.8% of men believed that they were in a shot of having sex with her
Perhaps there are a small percent of men who think the woman was only being friendly but that number was small
It’s sexual grooming behaviour let’s get that clear. Would another guy have been offered the same job, in the way it was to Rachel in the diner? Would he have been invited to dinner? The mixing of personal and professional in that way means only one thing. If it was truly platonic reasonable boundaries would have been in place to ensure it remained professional - not offering to come over with Chinese food. Sleeze mate. Rachel should have acknowledged that it may not be genuine and reassured Ross that A. She realised this, and B. He needed to trust her.
You grow up........ Ross killed it
He is going to prep her as in what you do before you surgically remove the boyfriend - #EPIC
The way Ross was kissing on Rachel 🥹
So Monica is responsible for we were on a break.
It would have been interesting if his trust issues were something he had to work on and overcome
Ross really needed therapy after Carol
You see people, this is why the relationship ended. Not because of the “We were on a break” fiasco, that was just the result of a relationship that was going down.
He was right
Some red flags in 'Friends' that should have sent Rachel running from parents baby spoiled Ross, she fell in love with him but ross waved some major red flags along their road to love,the two ended up together but we're still not sure why.
He took impulsiveness to a whole other level.
Friends Ross Rachel Julie
Rachel is in for a surprise when she picks up Ross at the airport, he is a recent divorcee and new father and still hopelessly in love with Rachel, Ross returns from China with a girlfriend in the season two,"The One with Ross's New Girlfriend."
Did he date around or work his way up to a committed relationship? No. Instead, he dove right in like a stage-five clinger.
Ross repeats this pattern when, a mere five episodes later, an unplanned date with Emily in "The One With Joey's Dirty Day" becomes a full-blown engagement in the aptly titled "The One With All The Haste."
He lied about their friendship to sabotage Rachel's future prospects with Paolo.
Rachel Green and Paolo were instantly attracted to one another on "Friends."Rachel meets an Italian hunk named Paolo during a citywide blackout in "The One with the Blackout." When Ross notices their undeniable chemistry, he lies to Paolo about his relationship with Rachel by saying that they are "a thing." When Paolo doesn't get the memo (he doesn't speak English fluently,) Ross resorts to insults. But as it turns out, "crap weasel" was lost on Paolo, too.
"Crap weasel"??? Okay, weirdo.
He had no respect for Rachel's boundaries,
Rachel shared personal information with Ross,personal and professional boundaries meant nothing to Ross.
When he found out that Joey's video camera had accidentally taped Ross and Rachel having sex, Ross neither told her nor destroyed said tape.
A few seasons later, he put his career at risk by dating one of his students and continued to date her even though her father (played by Bruce Willis) disapproved. He even had the nerve to visit the dad's cabin with her against his wishes.
He also hijacked Carol and Susan's anniversary and ate all their dinner in "The One Without the Ski Trip," and took over Joey and Chandler's apartment in "The One Where Ross Moves In."
And when Monica explicitly told Ross not to bring his monkey to her and Rachel's apartment because the pet had peed on their table before, what does he do? He brings his monkey to the apartment.
He felt threatened when Rachel began pursuing her professional passion.
Rachel was swamped at work and Ross did not care,fed up with serving coffee, Rachel decides to finally pursue her dream fashion gig in "The One Where Rachel Quits." She does so with the help of a handsome man named Mark who helps Rachel get a job as a buyer at Bloomingdale's.
Enter Ross' insecurities: He thinks that Mark is only helping Rachel to sleep with her, so proceeds to mark his territory. He also complains whenever Rachel prioritizes her budding career over their relationship and even shows up at her job unannounced, seeking attention.
In "The One With All The Jealousy," Ross spots Mark kissing a woman and physically separates the two before realizing the woman is not Rachel, but Mark's girlfriend.
He secretly stayed married to Rachel.
Ross Rachel Wedding Friends Vegas
It's amazing what can happen when you combine liquor, chemistry, and Sharpies.
Rachel and Ross get married after a drunken weekend in Las Vegas in "The One in Vegas" and "The One in Vegas - Part 2." They agree to annul the union, but Ross never mails the paper, keeping yet another secret from Rachel.
In "The One Where Ross Hugs Rachel," she finds out and is justifiably angry.
He was condescending and arrogant.
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Ross was cute and cuddly until he wasn't.
Whenever Ross spoke to Rachel, his intelligence trumped hers - and everyone else's for that matter. He loved pointing out what she didn't know and scolding her about what he felt she should be doing.
In "The One With The Racecar Bed," Ross discovers that the only thing he and Rachel's father have in common is their love of roasting Rachel for not having renter's insurance.
Weird flex.
He should seek help/ therapy, He had serious anger issues.Ross could not control his anger. Though he was a grown man, he frequently threw temper tantrums .
Speaking of yelling, Ross screamed at his boss,losing his job in the process.
His aggression was so intense that it may have lost him custody of his son Benjamin, according to some fan theories.
He was super vindictive.
Ross was the king of petty.
Their breakup quickly spiraled into a feud. Ross bickered with Rachel about who had custody of their friends. Then in "The One with the Tiny T-Shirt," Ross made a big deal about getting his stuff back in front of everyone.
Let's not forget that he even dated Rachel's little sister Jill, played by Reese Witherspoon. The two were supposedly cool by then but petty is petty, and dating the younger sis of your ex is the textbook definition.
The list is endless gzb
Did you know, Cox had to campaign for Monica to be rewritten back then, because Monica was reportedly the least popular character with audiences? So hard to believe, isn't it? Incidentally, Ross, he wasn't wrong to be suspicious of Mark, or to put it another way, he was right and his shouty sister was wrong.
So what if Mark had a crush on her though? So Rachel shouldnt try to pursue her dream job because this dude may or may not like her? You literally missed the point of Monica's lines.
Ross in this episode and in the next few was really cringe.. The jealousy went too far. I get his suspicion about Mark, but he didn’t listen to Monica’s advice about trusting Rachel and when he went into Rachel’s office when she said she was busy was just really embarrassing to watch
you grow up 😁
Ross was right all along. Rachel and Monica were naïve to think otherwise. Could Ross handle it differently? I think yes.
That’s it Ross liked the spoiled, stuck up, dependent Rachel and she was evolving.
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Ross was so pathologically jealous. I know, I know he was traumatized by his (first) divorce, but still he failed to respect Rachel's work and ruined his relationship with her by being repeatedly disruptive at her office.
It's like Rachel said. Was he going to pee around her desk to mark his territory?
It's one thing to have trust issues. But a complete other thing to try and sabotage your girlfriends job opportunity over it.
Anyone defending Ross here needs to get their head out their ass.
God Ross was so annoying with this jealousy
Ross is so cute
Ross was right here. Monica was wrong.
No, Monica was right. Even if Mark was interested in Rachel, that doesn't mean Rachel would cheat on him. Mark didn't make a move until Ross and Rachel broker up. Ross' insecurities caused the break.
@@canuck21 Watch the whole lead-up.
@@THETRIVIALTHINGS I've watched it many times. Monica is not wrong.
@@canuck21so why couldn't she trust Chandler then? If she is so correct.
@@philjames81489th season and friends have so much plot holes
Come on.. i see why it bothers Ross.. it's natural.. shows he actually cares!!!
This is one of the key moments since when l found Ross absolutely miserable and petty. Ever since the list, this and then so insecure that he cheated which he justified. Rachel went out with Mark, weeks, after they broke up and even then she couldn’t do it cause she felt like she was cheating. Carol's case was different from Rachel. It was about a closeted gay person in 80s who finally came out.
What does you grow up means I mean was he meant monica grew up so fast intellectualy or is like monica you grow up (height ) first then tell me? Someone please help me out with this.
It means intellectually not physically
@@yamil.343 okay ty big help
Well what do you know
Ross was right
For all the idiots claiming Ross overreacted.
Look at the serious of events lofically. Forget your contempt of him.
1. A complete stranger offers a job to woman, for which Rachel was not qualified for at all.
2. The only reason she got the job is because Mark told her fhe answers. (Considering it is suppose to be her dream job. She did nothing in hed life to be qualified to do it. (Just spending daddy's money isn't be a professional personal assistent or work in sales.)
3. Why did Mark not give his office number? No, he gives her his personal home number.
4. Mark clearly pretended to be a perfect guy infront of Rachel to manipulate her. Look at when he is whispering in Rachel's ear about Ross. Why does he need to say anything about it? This is straight out the playbook on manipulation and Rachel is falling for it. Hook, line and sinker.
5. When Rachel says "lets go on a break." Why doss mark get involced again and come to rachels apartment? And when Ross called he knowingly spoke loud so to intentionally upset Ross and it worked like a charm. Rachel did not sleep with Mark but is allowing herself to be manipulated. Then she and monica are the one's whom gaslight Ross.
They dismiss his feelings and treat him like shit.
Ross should have dumped her ths moment she refused to listen to reason.
People bitch about ross's attitude. Yet Rachael wad equally awful.
She was jealous and interfered with Ross and julie tried to sabotage their relationship.
When Ross wax with Bonnie she again interefed and ruined their relationship.
When Ross was about to get married to Emily she ruined the wedding.
When Ross was with Mona again Rachel acted up and ruined his relationship.
Just like the times Ross ruined Rachel's. They are equally jealous.
Looks like she is more excited to meet Mark than the interview typical Rachel
At the end... Ross was right 😁
And he proved to be right all along.
And at the end, Ross was right, Mark did wanted to sleep with Rachel. We man we know each other it’s not a trusting your girl issue 😗
It's like you didn't understand what Monica's point at all. The issue here is trust. It doesn't matter that Mark is interested in Rachel, Ross needed to trust Rachel.
@@canuck21as Monica trusted Chandler during okalhoma episode
Actually, who wouldn't bother some random guy taking out your girlfriend for lunch like that?I mean, come on, is there really a guy who would go through all that work just, in order just to help without expecting anything?
So? Sure he can get bothered but Rachel is a very pretty girl. How many times would Ross have to put up with guys approaching Rachel? He just needed to trust her which he didnt, that was the issue. Mark had a crush. So? Just another boy friendzoned, thats what he was and Ross was too dumb to realize it. Rachel put Mark on that zone from the start. People like to say that Ross was right because Rachel did eventually go out with Mark and thats bull. She accepted to go on one date with him AFTER the break up which ended quickly because she confessed Mark that she always saw him as a friend and went out with him only to get back at Ross. So even when Rachel was free to be with Mark, she didnt. How was Ross ever right to be so jealous of their realtionship when it was so one sided? Like it makes me lool so hard when I see Ross screwing up so bad the relationship. I mean, Mark didnt even have to make a move on her. He just watched Ross making a fool of himself, Rachel getting frustated and finally the two breaking up. THEN he made his move. Unfortunately for him, he also thought he could be sth more to Rachel than a friend but both he and Ross were wrong.
tbh ross and rachel having such toxic relationship in the beginning made me want to kinda skip re-watching these earlier seasons. Thiss is why I like season 5 and later ones more where monica and chandler start to date and ross n rachel are just friends
Wow just wow monica is same girl who make chandler leave his job because she is jealous about the wendy and she has nerve to comment on Rachel plus Rachel dated Mark the minute she broke up with Ross shows Ross was right about Mark and all ladies supporting Rachel here are the one who don't let their husband/bf has a female bf or his ex contact number no wonder people are termed misogynist the moment they speak truth here I become a misogynist in eyes of man hating feminist
1. Lol Tulsa is like 5 years later in the story. Monica and Chandler both have their jealousy moments but they handled those much better than Ross and Rachel. And Monica didn't make Chandler leave his job. He quit after that girl made a pass on him
2. Before Rachel dated Mark, ross actually slept with someone else... Um hello??? Then weeks later she went out on a date with Mark and even then couldn't really pursue it because of Ross. You know it seem like she actually left Ross for Mark
Ross was right from the very beginning
No he wasn't. He made a big fuss and ruined his relationship just because he didn't trust reachel. Just because somebody had a crush on her (I mean who wouldn't?) Does not mean Rachel was going to cheat on him. His insecurities screwed up that relationship.
@@aracelichely2954 Ross had all rights to feel insecure after situation with Carol. Rachel was the one being a d*ck and completely ignoring it. She never had any understanding of the situation nor empathy, she never even mentioned it... But what should we expect from someone that selfish.
@@H2P_Gucio She didnt? She spent half her time trying to reassure Ross that Mark was a friend to her. And it didnt matter if he had a crush because she loved him and no one else. Ross pretended to understand her and then went all jealous and possesive the next day. Rachel felt suffocated by a toxic partner who doesnt trust her and wont support her on her new career. Still she didnt break up with him, she just asked Ross for a break so they could sort things out which he spend sleeping with someone else lol she sure loved him, because after that stunt he pulled at her office and later he had the nerve to not even apologize... yeah I would have dumped his ass, forget the being on a break part.
Monica used to be such a mature character in the earlier seasons and then being with Chandler brought out her insecurities more and grew her obsessiveness up to a crazy level. It's sad how the writers counter-developed her and Joey's characters for the sake of comedy...