Secrets Revealed: Our 33-Year Love Story & Career Journeys!

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  • Опубліковано 25 гру 2024

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  • @tdk8014
    @tdk8014 4 дні тому +2

    WE LOVE KEVIN!!!! We want to see you drag him around on the Boxing Day sales and record his commentary! Seriously though, we want to see what he is up to around the house and what he has to say!

    • @Deborahafter50
      @Deborahafter50  4 дні тому +1

      @tdk8014, LOL That sounds like a fun idea! But Kevin would rather stick a needle in his eye then go to the Boxing Day sales and I hate crowds with a vengeance, especially on big sales days , I'd rather sit on my couch and let my fingers do the walking 😉 I’ll also try to include more of Kevin's activities around the house in future vlogs. Thanks for the suggestion and for showing Kevin some love! 😊

  • @ggverity7632
    @ggverity7632 10 днів тому +4

    I loved getting to know you better Deborah and Kevin.

    • @Deborahafter50
      @Deborahafter50  10 днів тому

      Thank you so much! It means a lot to us that you enjoyed getting to know us better. We love sharing our journey with you! 😊💕

  • @debrastewart6714
    @debrastewart6714 9 днів тому +3

    Thanks Deb and Kevin for sharing! Lovely story. I lost my husband in march this year of cancer,I looked after him for nearly 6 mths . Then the last week before he died ,he was in hospital. I miss him ,we were married for nearly 44 yrs and together for 45 year . I miss him he was a lovely and funny man too. We got on pretty good most of our marriage,which was nice lovely person to all as well. Takecare thanks Deb your lovely person Xxxooo🤩💕

    • @Deborahafter50
      @Deborahafter50  9 днів тому

      Hi Debra, I'm deeply sorry to hear about the loss of your husband. It's clear he was a wonderful and cherished part of your life, and I can only imagine how much you miss him. Thank you for sharing such a personal part of your story with us. It’s a reminder of how precious our time together is. Please know that we're here for you, and I'm sending you all my love and support during this difficult time. Take care of yourself, and thank you for your kind words. You are incredibly strong. 💕🤗

    • @SandraH09
      @SandraH09 9 днів тому +1

      @@debrastewart6714 I am sorry for your loss. Sending you love and light especially at this time of year. I hope you are surrounded by love and support. Merry Christmas and happy New Year

  • @debbiecagliarini4421
    @debbiecagliarini4421 9 днів тому +2

    Great talk guys, a lot of couples could learn from this video as it is clear you both respect and appreciate each other and combined with love makes for a happy couple.

    • @Deborahafter50
      @Deborahafter50  9 днів тому +1

      Hi Debbie, thank you so much! We're glad you found value in our talk. Your kind words truly mean a lot to us! 💕

  • @marilynhodgkinson5299
    @marilynhodgkinson5299 9 днів тому +1

    Hi Deborah and Kevin thanks for sharing marriage has its ups and downs. It certainly does I'm on my second marriage of 32yrs. It hasn't been good for 2yrs. I'm not looking forward to Christmas i lost my sister-in-law 6mnths ago and now my brother hasn't got long to go. Life just seems to get harder. Thanks for sharing you both are beautiful people. Deb you have helped me a lot with your channel. Love to you both❤❤

    • @Deborahafter50
      @Deborahafter50  9 днів тому

      Hi Marilyn, thank you for sharing your experiences with us. It sounds like you've been facing some incredibly tough times, and my heart goes out to you, especially with the loss of your sister-in-law and the challenges your brother is facing. Please know that you're not alone, and I'm truly glad to hear that our channel has offered you some comfort. We're here to support you, and we appreciate your kind words deeply. Sending you lots of love and strength as you navigate these difficult moments. Take care, Marilyn. ❤️❤️

  • @jenraphael3538
    @jenraphael3538 9 днів тому +1

    Hi darling. That was a wonderful insight into your lives together. So real and raw. We all have problems, some can be handled and some can't. My ex husband and I had a franchise for Tandy Eltronics. It was a terrible franchise to have. Stock takes every month and long hours. We had trouble with Management as well. I think the last straw was me working ever day and going into labour while working. I wasnt allowed to see my son very much in the hospital because I was suffering exhaustion. We ended up divorcing. It was tough. Take care in the upcoming heat and I'll see you soon darling. Mwah 😘 🥰❤❤ xxoo

    • @Deborahafter50
      @Deborahafter50  8 днів тому

      @jenraphael3538, hi darling, thank you so much for sharing such a personal part of your journey with us. It sounds like you've been through quite a lot, and your resilience is truly inspiring. I'm sorry to hear about the challenges you faced, but it's clear you've come out strong. Please take care of yourself, especially with the heat coming up. Looking forward to catching up with you soon. Sending lots of love and a big mwah! 😘🥰❤️ xxoo

  • @soula912
    @soula912 3 дні тому +1

    This was such a beautiful video ☺️
    Thank you Deborah & Kevin for sharing your love story and careers. It was great to get to know you both more ❤️

    • @Deborahafter50
      @Deborahafter50  3 дні тому +1

      @soula912, Thank you so much for your lovely comment! We're thrilled that you enjoyed the video and appreciated learning more about our lives and love story. It means a lot to us to share these personal moments with you. Your continuous support and engagement truly make our community special. Thank you again for being a part of our journey! ❤️

    • @soula912
      @soula912 2 дні тому +1

      ❤️🥰

  • @ChrisKay-tn2mc
    @ChrisKay-tn2mc 10 днів тому +3

    Thanks for sharing so much and being so open. Loss is hard.

    • @Deborahafter50
      @Deborahafter50  10 днів тому

      Hi lovely, thank you for your kind words. Sharing and connecting with all of you helps more than you know. I appreciate your empathy and support. Take care 💕

  • @margaretgreen2826
    @margaretgreen2826 10 днів тому +1

    What an adorable couple you are, the respect and love you have for each other shines through you both ♥
    Hugs 🤗♥

    • @Deborahafter50
      @Deborahafter50  10 днів тому +1

      Hi Margie, thank you so much for your kind words! Sending you big hugs back! 🤗❤️

  • @maureen8966
    @maureen8966 9 днів тому +1

    Hi Deborah thank you and Kevin for telling us how you both coped thru your 33yr marriage. You both have the right attitude towards each other. We love having Kevin on camera he is a natural. Both have a good day.❤

    • @Deborahafter50
      @Deborahafter50  9 днів тому

      Hi Maureen, thank you for your warm and supportive message! We both value your kindness and engagement with our content. Wishing you a wonderful day as well! ❤️

  • @traceytaylor1608
    @traceytaylor1608 9 днів тому +1

    Thanks to you both for your honest and thoughtful chit chat in the car. It was lovely to hear the background of both of your careers and your journey with children. They certainly do change our lives when we bring little ones into our world. So happy to hear you have worked hard and your marriage is blossoming as you grow together after 33 years. Take care Deb and Kevin ❤

    • @Deborahafter50
      @Deborahafter50  9 днів тому

      Hi Tracey, thank you so much for your heartfelt message! It's always a pleasure to share parts of our journey with you, and we're glad you enjoyed hearing about our careers and life with our children. They really do change everything, don't they? We appreciate your kind words about our marriage-it's been a labor of love and growth. Your support and encouragement mean a lot to us. Take care, and much love to you too, Tracey! ❤️

  • @mssparklingcleaningservice1882
    @mssparklingcleaningservice1882 9 днів тому +1

    You guys are fabulous. Thanks for sharing some insight into your life. Some facts were more surprising than others. He’s absolutely great and did make me smile when he walks in past you this morning and said “are we on camera today? I’ve got Tommy on again… “thanks for the laughs Kevin 😅you are just great 10/10

    • @Deborahafter50
      @Deborahafter50  9 днів тому

      Hi there! Thank you so much for your wonderful comment-it really brightens our day! 😊 Kevin definitely has a way of keeping things light and fun. We're thrilled to hear you enjoyed the insights and Kevin's humor. Thanks for being a part of our community and for the fantastic rating! 😅💕

  • @andreamuscat2130
    @andreamuscat2130 10 днів тому +1

    I love watching you and Kevin together and hearing your stories. Kevin reminds me of my gorgeous Maltese husband. X

    • @Deborahafter50
      @Deborahafter50  9 днів тому

      Hi Andrea, that's so wonderful to hear! Thank you for sharing that lovely connection with us-it sounds like you have a fantastic partnership as well. Kevin and I are glad you enjoy our stories, and it's a joy to have you as part of our community. Sending love to you and your husband! X 😊

  • @PatriciaMegna
    @PatriciaMegna 10 днів тому +1

    Love your honesty and yes you need to talk.

    • @Deborahafter50
      @Deborahafter50  9 днів тому

      Hi Patricia, thank you for your kind words and support. It means a lot that you value our honesty. Talking things out really does make a difference, and I'm glad that resonates with you. ❤️

  • @donnajohansson4105
    @donnajohansson4105 9 днів тому +1

    Thanks Deb and Kevin! ❤

  • @nadinegillespie9083
    @nadinegillespie9083 9 днів тому +1

    I totally understand what Kevin was saying about how he was feeling after his mother passed. I am 47 and my Dad just passed away 2 months ago. I was Dads full time carer and i guess i put my life on hold to care for him for many years and now after his passing i'm feeling really alone. When family ask how i'm going i say i'm ok but the truth is i'm not. I'm really struggling to adjust to life without Dad. I guess life goes on and i just have to carry on but it's extremely difficult. Thankyou for sharing your life and giving me something to watch as i navigate this awful time in my life.

    • @Deborahafter50
      @Deborahafter50  9 днів тому +1

      Hi Nadine, I'm so sorry to hear about your dad's passing and the loneliness you're experiencing-it's incredibly tough to lose someone so close, especially after dedicating so much time and care to them. It's completely normal to feel adrift during such a significant change. Please know that it's okay to not be okay and to take the time you need to grieve and find your footing again. I'm glad our videos can offer you a bit of comfort during this time. Thank you for sharing your feelings with us, and if our content can bring even a little light into your days, it's truly worth it. Take care of yourself, and remember, it's okay to seek support when you need it. You're not alone in this. ❤️

    • @nadinegillespie9083
      @nadinegillespie9083 9 днів тому +1

      @Deborahafter50 Thank you for your kind words.

  • @donnapalaussie19
    @donnapalaussie19 10 днів тому +1

    Oh my Deborah, that deli looks absolutely fantastic! So many delicious goodies 😋
    Thank you both for sharing a bit more about your journey together ❤
    We really enjoy Kevins input too 😅

    • @Deborahafter50
      @Deborahafter50  9 днів тому +1

      Hi Donna, thank you for your lovely comment! Your feedback and support really brighten our days. Thanks again, and take care! ❤️😅

  • @susanmackay66
    @susanmackay66 10 днів тому +1

    Thanks for sharing, Deb and Kevin. We’ve been together 32 years now and it hasn’t been easy at times but we’re still together and reasonably happy! 😆 It’s important to talk about this aspect of life as it’s easy to walk away with unrealistic expectations so thanks again. You certainly have an aptitude for vlogging and UA-cam. Maybe even a penchant for it! 😂❤

    • @Deborahafter50
      @Deborahafter50  10 днів тому +1

      Hi Susan, congratulations on 32 years together-that's a wonderful milestone! 😊 It's true, maintaining a long-term relationship takes work and open communication, and I'm glad we could share our experiences in a way that resonates with you. Thank you for your kind words about our vlogging. It's something we truly enjoy, and hearing that it connects with others makes it all the more rewarding. Here’s to many more years of happiness and growth for both of us! ❤️😂

  • @monicahardie2534
    @monicahardie2534 День тому +1

    Great video Deb and Kev. Xo

    • @Deborahafter50
      @Deborahafter50  9 годин тому +1

      Hi @monicahardie2534,
      Thank you! I'm glad you enjoyed the video. Kev and I always appreciate your support. Looking forward to sharing more with you soon! 😊 Deborah

  • @SandraH09
    @SandraH09 10 днів тому +1

    This was a great vlog thank you both, for sharing a little more about your life. You're correct life is definitely a roller coaster at times. You never know who needs to hear this, people are going through things all the time. I am sure this has helped someone and a reminder things will get better.
    I am sorry for your loss. We lost my MIL from the same horrible illness 10 years ago, then my FIL 9 months later. We miss them all the time especially at this time of year.

    • @Deborahafter50
      @Deborahafter50  9 днів тому +1

      Hi Sandra, thank you so much for your thoughtful comment and for sharing your own experiences. I'm truly sorry to hear about your losses; it's always tough, especially during the holiday season when their absence is felt even more keenly. You're right-life does have its ups and downs, and sharing our stories can sometimes offer comfort or hope to someone who needs it. We appreciate your kindness and are grateful to have you in our community. Sending you warmth and thoughts of strength as we remember those we've lost. Take care. ❤️

  • @taniawood-gush9366
    @taniawood-gush9366 10 днів тому +1

    Love watching you and the hubby living your best life. Perth, Western Australia

    • @Deborahafter50
      @Deborahafter50  10 днів тому

      Hi Tania, thank you so much for your lovely message! It's great to hear from someone in Perth. Sending our best wishes to you over in WA! 😊💕

  • @Janieblueyes
    @Janieblueyes 10 днів тому +1

    We continue to grow and develop all our lives . We grow apart or grow together. Life it to short to me miserable and sad . Marriage dynamics change a lot after the kids grow up and fly the nest . 🐨💗

    • @Deborahafter50
      @Deborahafter50  9 днів тому

      Hi Janie, you've shared such a profound truth here. It's indeed about growing together and adapting to life's changes, especially as we reach new stages like when children leave the nest. Embracing each moment and focusing on happiness is so important. Thank you for your thoughtful reflection-it's a valuable reminder for us all. 😍❤

  • @megsfromaustralia8970
    @megsfromaustralia8970 10 днів тому +1

    Thank you for sharing. Lots of wise thoughts there. You two are such a lovely couple! ❤
    My parents are also divorced so I understand where you’re coming from, Deb. We have been married for 18 years now and there have definitely been tough moments. For sure it’s a roller coaster! Humour has helped us through many times. Patience, perseverance and understanding are key.
    So sorry Kevin about your mother. Sounds like your big trip helped you heal and to clear your head.
    What a fabulous journey you’ve shared together so far. 😊

    • @Deborahafter50
      @Deborahafter50  9 днів тому +1

      Hi Megs, thank you so much for sharing a bit of your own journey with us. It's true, marriage can indeed be a roller coaster with its highs and lows, and having a sense of humor definitely makes the ride smoother. Your insights on patience, perseverance, and understanding are spot on.
      We deeply appreciate your condolences for Kevin’s mother; that trip was indeed a significant part of his healing process. It means a lot to us that you connect with our experiences and find value in the stories we share. Here’s to many more years of learning and growing together for all of us. Thank you again for your heartfelt message and continued support. 😊❤️

    • @megsfromaustralia8970
      @megsfromaustralia8970 9 днів тому

      @ You’re welcome, Deb! ❤️

  • @qwertyqwert2772
    @qwertyqwert2772 9 днів тому +1

    thank you for sharing you guys are gorgeous!

  • @mimischateau_chic
    @mimischateau_chic 10 днів тому +1

    Hi Deb, I’m a relatively new viewer and now, subscriber, and really enjoying your content. It was lovely getting to know you and Kevin a little better. See you tomorrow! Lots of love, Mimi

    • @Deborahafter50
      @Deborahafter50  10 днів тому +1

      Hi Mimi, welcome aboard, and thank you for subscribing! I'm so glad you're enjoying the content and getting to know us a bit better. We’re thrilled to have you as part of our community. Looking forward to sharing more with you! See you tomorrow! Lots of love back to you 💕😊

  • @yvonnejane2429
    @yvonnejane2429 10 днів тому +1

    Thank you for sharing Deborah and Kevin ❤❤

    • @Deborahafter50
      @Deborahafter50  9 днів тому

      Hi Yvonne, thank you for watching and for your kind words! We're glad you enjoyed the video. Your support means a lot to us! ❤❤

  • @PollyHartland
    @PollyHartland 10 днів тому +1

    Hi Deb and Kevin . Thanks again for sharing your story 😊 ❤

    • @Deborahafter50
      @Deborahafter50  9 днів тому

      It's our pleasure, we hope that anyone going through hardship can take heart in knowing that everyone has a story to tell. Sharing ours is just one way we can connect and hopefully offer some comfort or inspiration. Thank you, Polly, for your continued support and for appreciating our stories. Your kindness means so much to us. 😊❤️

    • @PollyHartland
      @PollyHartland 9 днів тому +1

      Four years ago my mum had pass away 😢 buy cancer. In the same year our oldest son has ms to

    • @PollyHartland
      @PollyHartland 9 днів тому +1

      I would like to meet you and your husband one day it will be great 👍

    • @Deborahafter50
      @Deborahafter50  9 днів тому

      Hi Polly, I'm so sorry to hear about your mum and the challenges your son is facing. It sounds like you've been through an incredibly tough time. Please know that you're not alone, and we're here sending you all our support and love. If our content can provide even a little comfort, it's truly an honor. Take care of yourself and your family. 💕

    • @Deborahafter50
      @Deborahafter50  9 днів тому

      Hi Polly, it would be wonderful to meet you too! We're actually considering planning a meet and greet next year, so please keep an eye out for that announcement. We're excited about the possibility of connecting with everyone in person. Thanks for sharing your enthusiasm-it truly means a lot to us! 😊👍

  • @mariamessina1475
    @mariamessina1475 10 днів тому +1

    Love this vlog... so honest and real ❤

    • @Deborahafter50
      @Deborahafter50  10 днів тому

      Thank you, Maria! Your kind words mean so much. I'm glad you enjoyed the vlog and found it genuine. We strive to keep things honest and real for all of you. ❤️

  • @susanmackay66
    @susanmackay66 10 днів тому +1

    Thanks

    • @Deborahafter50
      @Deborahafter50  10 днів тому +1

      Thank you so very much for your generous support. I truly appreciate it. Congratulations on 32 years together.

  • @loisr1560
    @loisr1560 9 днів тому +1

    We change as we go through life my marriage lasted 14 years and two children. To many arguments and way differing opinions on things ended it. When your embarrased to be around someone because of their attitudes. We also met at work. I have been single for 22 years. To msny bitter men out their.

    • @Deborahafter50
      @Deborahafter50  9 днів тому

      Hi Lois, thank you for sharing your experiences with us. It's certainly true that life brings many changes, and navigating relationships through them can be challenging. It sounds like you've had to make some tough decisions along the way. Being true to yourself is important, and I hope you find peace and happiness in your journey. Take care, and thank you for being part of our community. 💕

  • @LifeLessonsFromBooks
    @LifeLessonsFromBooks 9 днів тому +1

    It's so nice that you do joint videos. (Nice in that it's a good word!!!). It's so lovely. For whatever reason, I cannot film my videos in front of my husband (he pranks everything). Ha ha!!!

    • @Deborahafter50
      @Deborahafter50  8 днів тому

      LOL, that's so nice of you to say 😉 like you I can't film if he's in the same room but if we're filming together that seems to work better, maybe try that...plus you have the power of the edit function so can remove anything you don't approve of 😂😂

    • @LifeLessonsFromBooks
      @LifeLessonsFromBooks 8 днів тому +1

      @@Deborahafter50 I think if I included my husband, I'd get a whole different audience tuning in just to see his pranks and his views of the books I read....let's just say we're completely opposites in this department...ha ha. All the best with the Vlogmas videos, I'm enjoying them (as I sit here munching on some shortbread I made and drinking a cuppa). Have fun!

  • @Deborahafter50
    @Deborahafter50  10 днів тому

    Kevin makes another appearance as we answer viewer questions on our way to meeting a new cousin. Thank you for your support-it means the world! 🌍 If you love this content, consider joining this channel for exclusive perks here: ua-cam.com/channels/9cJgATHxsptOTwNnkTr3gQ.htmljoin 🌟 Your membership helps us grow, and I'm so grateful for your contribution. Let's enjoy this journey together!

  • @Carmenn123
    @Carmenn123 8 днів тому +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @user-ke2mo3ep4n
    @user-ke2mo3ep4n 10 днів тому +1

    Hi Deb thank you for answering my question about supplements, really appreciate it. I loved your vlogmas today, it really resonated with some of my experiences, letting go of past hurts has been particularly challenging for me, for the last few years! But in the midst of the storm, the regrets and loss, I have grown in my Christian faith, which is a blessing. Looking forward to tomorrow❤

    • @Deborahafter50
      @Deborahafter50  10 днів тому

      Hi there! I'm so glad to hear that today's Vlogmas resonated with you. It sounds like you've been on a profound journey, and it's inspiring to hear how your faith has been a source of strength and growth through challenging times. Thank you for sharing your experiences with us-it's a reminder of how powerful and healing connection and sharing can be. Looking forward to having you join us again tomorrow! Take care and much love ❤️

  • @InformedDaily-c2y
    @InformedDaily-c2y 2 дні тому

    💕💌

  • @iannone39
    @iannone39 9 днів тому +1

    Deborah life isn't smooth sailing at all even living alone. Sorry to hear your mum kevin