Hey Steph Im 19 years and I’ve been watching your videos for a while now and I was wondering if you have any business tips for starters that have a plan but are having a hard time going thru with it. Thank you for the awesome content and stay cold 🥶🤟🏽
My girl be asking “did really liked it Daddy?” after sex for not busting.Ever since I got on my purpose. She now sees how other women be checking me out and she clings on my arm as we been checked out (when we hang out) by other women. Now she even offers other women companionship. All this and some while still seeking my validation.
Never be a Yes man. Have set principles and do not break them for anyone. Example: helping a girl that you are smashing move is a good guy but helping a girl move that you hope will let you smash is being a nice guy...Be the Good Guy not nice guy.
BEING NICE DOES NOT AUTOMATICALLY MAKE YOU A GOOD PERSON. Nice is not the same as kind. Nice means weak! Don't be nice, be fair, specially to yourself. Mirror the behaviour of how they treat you. This is why improving yourself is key. Because when they see that you take good care of yourself, they will give the same level of respect that you give to yourself.
No cap Thanks for the message I didn't even realize nice had a different meaning from kind I always said I was a nice guy But I won't let nobody push me around now I'm just gonna say I'm a kind person but I won't let people always get there way or run over me thank you
@@isaacmendez9435 Dude, being nice doesn't mean you're weak, lol. The nice guy is more so synonymous with subservient guy. Being the nice guy is not about being the guy who's nice, it's about being the guy who overcompensates to appease people and gain their favor. The nice guy is a subservient person, being nice is a totally different thing from being the nice guy. People tend to misconstrue what is a nice guy, and they also seem to be unable to differentiate the nice guy from the guy who is nice.
Isaac Mendez you are not nice, you are "good". The word Nice has never represented anything of value. Keep focusing on yourself and 2 things will happen, either the other person will realize that you are worth more or you will 🙏
Nice guys are simply boring, predictable and fake. There is no mystery in a nice guy. Nice guys are easy to figure out. Yall need to be mysterious to keep these chicks inside their head thinking bout you all day long. Stay on your grind always, brotha.
Q Lock fuck, I feel you on this, I discovered steph not to long ago, and he was a wake up call. I was a gentleman for sure, and a nice guy because that’s just what I knew, so it was genuine. I did a lot of spontaneous shit, but I usually gave in to the same things, not stand up for myself, and not go for what I wanted(predictable). Now I’ve been transitioning over and trying it out and I feel more confident about myself knowing that I won’t get walked over again or taken advantage of with out me being aware and starting to practice.
Being a nice guy is the biggest mistake ANY MAN can make in his life. If you do things in order to make people perceive you as nice, only to get something in return, it will eventually rub off and people will see that you're not nice. It makes sense why women don't like nice guys, but actually are attracted to assholes: the latter is authentic to himself. Being a guy with morals and principles, isn't afraid to be honest in his viewpoints, and is always true to himself, will forever be attractive to high value women.
I know. From when I was 17 and under, I thought that being the nice guy was the way to go. From 18-25, those years really changed me and I'll never be the same again. I've let that nice guy persona version of me die. Good riddance.
"You don't have to show your coldest card right off the bat, you pull em out when its time to pull em out..." This the coldest play I heard in a minute.
I've gone soft. Backed out of a figh, relapsed, got nun goin for myself, and I stopped working out. Finna rewatch the past vids and get this shit together.
I remember I stated I was a nice guy at work once. My supervisor was in another room and yelled out, "DON'T BE NICE!" I learned my lesson the hard way but I LEARNED it.
Listen to this man!! He's the absolutely correct. My dumbass spent nearly $7k taking a "friend" to Hawaii for her birthday, she stayed away from me the whole trip and when we returned, the next day, she told me she's not interested in me sexually. Had I known, had I been listening since before that trip....that trip would not have happened. I was a stupid stupid man!
Man WE ALL done did some questionable stuff in our past. I know I did! It's all embarrassing but now we know. And knowing is half the battle! - G. I. JOE
My G 7k on a bitch to Hawaii and she disrespects you bro That's tough and she doesn't even like you Broski I'm so sorry don't do it again Improve yourself improve your net worth then do that bitch Dirty bruh she used you for the trip you should've not gave a fuck This girl In my school did me dirty and told me to go talk to her then when I do she acts like she's embarrassed of me no Eye contact doesn't wanna talk to me nothing But she had the audacity to call me a pussy though That's why I'm not talking to her I Told my story on my instagram story and she got pissed off but I didn't expose her or Even respond she Dmed me today and I still haven't respond don't give a fuck my G fuck bitches Don't chase them
@@isaacmendez9435 yeah, man, of course, I could say now that the signs were there, but I didn't see them, we had fooled around a bit before, started with a single, then got to second base and once even got to third, I figured in Hawaii I hit that home run. Lay pipe in every corner of that island. Instead, she would walk out of the room when I walked in. But, the signs were there before that trip for sure, I was just too blinded by her looks. I just figured she had been done wrong by too many jerks in her past, that she was now happy with a good guy. But, my mistake. Never again.
@@deondavis05712 yeah, I get it now. Absolutely not the man I was before. If the girl isn't giving me a "hell yes", I'm not wasting my time. I'm the prize, no more chasing.
With all this knowledge Steph been spitting, some of these truths are terrifying. I'm just grateful I never had to go out and learn all this shit the hard way. Bless up G.
Most people will say growing up in a house with 6+ females, and me being the only male is “weak”, or “beta”; but it had its pros. This is where I learned to never a trust a female ( lol even tho it’s my family ). Just the stories I would hear, about them talking to multiple niggas, using niggas, etc. Also notice how none of my sisters dated the typical “nice” guy. It’s was always bad boys ( bloods, crips etc). You ain’t gotta be a thug, or nothing like that. Just have a backbone, and just showing her by leaving her isn’t gonna effect your grind.
Yoooo dead ass I seen my cuzo do this wit some other dude in the phone right after she was talking to her actual bad. Shit was crazy. I had my ear buds in so I acted like I ain’t hear here but, I couldn’t help to laugh. I played it off as I was watching something on my phone. These females belong to the streets bruh.
Facts. I tell people all the time my mama and sisters were the first females who showed me “A hoe gone be a hoe and it’s absolutely NOTHING you can do about it.”
It took a min for me to grasp this concept, I always felt guilt tripped into chasing and pursuing women. Wasted many teen years doing so. Now at 24 I’ve learned that it’s all worthless. A woman gone fwu if she want, fellas pick up on the small/subtle cues she gives. Remember the women with a price tag and constant validation seeking will eventually Deplete your manhood
Being nice don't make you weak or a simp it makes u a good person. But unfortunately we're in a bad world so save the nice-ness for heaven. And treat people as they deserve hear on earth
Here's the origin of the word: " Nice, it turns out, began as a negative term derived from the Latin nescius, meaning “unaware, ignorant.” This sense of “ignorant” was carried over into English when the word was first borrowed (via French) in the early 1300s. And for almost a century, nice was used to characterize a “stupid, ignorant, or foolish” person" 5 Qualities to display as an alpha male: 1. Autonomy 2. Boundaries 3. High Standards 4. Strong opinion 5. Be fun / Spontaneous These are key elements. Women say they like "assholes/jerks/bad boys", this is what they infer.
@@jeong-ilkajokaya3849 Thanks! Here's another similar note, ' If we translate the colloquial meaning of 'nice guy' into its Darwinian equivalent, a nice guy is an individual that assists other members of its species, at its own expense, to pass their genes on to the next generation. Nice guys, then, seem bound to decrease in numbers: niceness dies a Darwinian death" from Richard Dawkins' "The Selfish Gene" chapter 12, "Nice Guys Finish First".
Appreciate the knowledge but let me also drop a gem 💎 in old times way back, adult Greek men use to have sexual intercourse with young males as of way of grooming the boys into adult “Alpha” males. The young boys were referred too as “beta” until they grew up & then repeated the cycle with other young men to turn them Alpha. They also felt like sexual intercourse made the boys more ready for war. So the whole “Alpha & Beta male” terms is deeply related to pedophilia in Greek culture. 💯 But don’t just take my word I advise all to do your own research on the topic 🧠 they have us loosely using & refering to ourselves with these titles without the knowledge of where actually they come from.
@@moneymakinkj6246 Those epicureans and their philosophy, "let's eat and drink, for we shall die tomorrow." Apostole Paul, had a tough time teaching Christianity to those greeks!...Thanks for the additional facts!
You know what I hate the most? When they get in your proximity with that "talk to me pease" face and when you ask them to simply have a casual conversation, they look at you like you're an alien. It's ridiculous. These girl are really out here with plain vanilla base game! No expansion packs at all!
Man I was just talking about this months ago, I knew I was in to something. A good guy has boundaries and knows his worth and a nice guy has no boundaries or respect for himself. Appreciate the vid G
“Instead of seeking validation from the people, just work on the product” you can use this any many aspects of your life. Life changing advice right there
To those that are more scientifically inclined, here's an excerpt on "nice guys" from Richard Dawkins' book "The Selfish Gene" chapter 12: "If we translate the colloquial meaning of 'nice guy' into its Darwinian equivalent, a nice guy is an individual that assists other members of its species, at its own expense, to pass their genes on to the next generation. Nice guys, then, seem bound to decrease in numbers: niceness dies a Darwinian death."
Damn focused on growing my business. Appreciate the help. I used to trip over girls but now I know they are a way to enjoy your life, but dont obsess/stress over them. Make some time for them but most of your time is for you. Always hold your principles and do not let them sell you a dream. But you gotta respect them and love them by loving yourself, first and foremost, and not accepting any BS.
I realized recently that I wasn’t as nice as I thought I was, because I was only nice to people outside of my immediate circle when I wanted something from them or was trying to keep them happy. It’s completely different when you do a favor for your mom because you love her vs when you do a favor for a girl you’re trying to get on your dick. And I’m convinced people can subconsciously sense that. One thing I’m trying to do is approach the world with a more loving attitude; what can I give the world today?
Good guys have healthy boundaries and limits. “Nice guys” don’t. And even worst, they go to extremes that are uncalled for!! 😳 I agree with you. Nice guys makes us cringe! 😬
I was about to complain about your thumbnail seeing how it ain't helping with my nofap streak and all, but then I thought, "pIz, I aint no lil bitch!" lmao! Keep doing what you're doing ! Much love brother
I love when you do videos about talking about the nice guy not because to talk down on them but because it motivates me to keep being who I am and keep being in my masculine frame all the time and laid back. Good video Brody
I’m 26 and I’m finally understanding this shit and it makes so much fucking sense the nice guy don’t roll doesn’t get you nowhere with work,family and women.
Yes, it a bit problem I have struggle with whole my life, i`m to a Nice guy. Is hard just to Change You personality, if You been a Nice guy the whole life. And women hate Nice guys. Is like a balance, You also have to show You a good man, that want to take care and protect her.
I try to get along with everyone because I don't like to cause drama but if someone gives me attitude or is a mean person then I cut that person off. As far as women goes I won't take a woman BS, I won't deal with her s*** tests, I will be upfront with her and I will always have confidence around women.
yo steph for real bro i keep watching this video alot to instill it into my brain because i was doing this and being unaware of why i was doing this , Social Conditioning & Seeking Validation . Thanks for making me Colder bro i really appreciate this knowledge
The Nice Guy™ phrase, yo, has been used so many times, I can't help but put the trademark next to it, because honestly, bruh, I feel it's become a *brand.*
Learned from experience fuck being nice I had to tell my homeboy the same thing being nice gets you no where also deep down I've always been cold it's my dna. The last time I played that nice guy bullshit is when I had a homegirl and I did whatever once I found out nothing was going to go down and she wasn't into me I let her ass go.
Damn this one of the best illustrations on the difference. So basically as soon as you start doing good/nice things as a manipulation tactic is where the line gets crossed.
I think anyone who defines themselves as a nice or good guy is questionable. It feels more like it's about being true to who you are and having boundaries.
Y’all need to join the patron fr but on this road on the red pill journey I’ve learned that being genuine doesn’t mean you’re a nice guy. If you’re inherently a nice person you’re genuine but like steph said you go out of your way to impress someone you’re a nice guy seeking validation
This just me. But I think woman that invest their time, energy, and income first with a man; is where the man should do the same back. But not over do it just match her energy.
The good guy and the nice guy are different indeed. But I'll add this: women don't want good guys/decent good men either. The reason is that women tend to operate on a low vibrational and graviate towards whatever is indecent and immoral (which is excitement for them) while the decent, good men to choose operate on a high vibrational level due to having a good moral compass (boring and lame to women). And therefore the good guy finishes last also.
Mann thank you bro for touching on this subject dropping Gems keep shining blessings to ya peace and love ✌🏾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾
The fucked up thing is what if I wanna buy food for a girl because I like them, and it's not about buying their love and attention? I feel like that will be seen as trying to buy it anyway. Maybe it's different if the woman is already in a relationship with me, or maybe it's not even that different. I don't know. What do you think?
Gentlemen…there’s a stark difference between being a genuinely kind person and a “nice guy” Never allow them to take your kindness for weakness…if she does…GHOST HER 🥶
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If she deserves it what’s wrong with that? I think you should
Hey Steph Im 19 years and I’ve been watching your videos for a while now and I was wondering if you have any business tips for starters that have a plan but are having a hard time going thru with it. Thank you for the awesome content and stay cold 🥶🤟🏽
My girl be asking “did really liked it Daddy?” after sex for not busting.Ever since I got on my purpose. She now sees how other women be checking me out and she clings on my arm as we been checked out (when we hang out) by other women. Now she even offers other women companionship. All this and some while still seeking my validation.
Almost forgot Thanks King
@@crclapss you
Stop being a yes man. Tell that woman “NO” sometimes fellas, if she don’t like it then she can LEAVE
Be like Vegeta not Goku!
Word
Never be a Yes man. Have set principles and do not break them for anyone. Example: helping a girl that you are smashing move is a good guy but helping a girl move that you hope will let you smash is being a nice guy...Be the Good Guy not nice guy.
That's my favorite word when it comes to women.....
Don’t be a yes man, be a no nigga
BEING NICE DOES NOT AUTOMATICALLY MAKE YOU A GOOD PERSON. Nice is not the same as kind. Nice means weak! Don't be nice, be fair, specially to yourself. Mirror the behaviour of how they treat you. This is why improving yourself is key. Because when they see that you take good care of yourself, they will give the same level of respect that you give to yourself.
No cap Thanks for the message I didn't even realize nice had a different meaning from kind I always said I was a nice guy But I won't let nobody push me around now I'm just gonna say I'm a kind person but I won't let people always get there way or run over me thank you
@@isaacmendez9435 Dude, being nice doesn't mean you're weak, lol. The nice guy is more so synonymous with subservient guy. Being the nice guy is not about being the guy who's nice, it's about being the guy who overcompensates to appease people and gain their favor. The nice guy is a subservient person, being nice is a totally different thing from being the nice guy. People tend to misconstrue what is a nice guy, and they also seem to be unable to differentiate the nice guy from the guy who is nice.
Isaac Mendez you are not nice, you are "good". The word Nice has never represented anything of value. Keep focusing on yourself and 2 things will happen, either the other person will realize that you are worth more or you will 🙏
Perfect answer 🔥
@@Rich20109 Thanks so much Rich ;-)
Nice guys are simply boring, predictable and fake. There is no mystery in a nice guy. Nice guys are easy to figure out. Yall need to be mysterious to keep these chicks inside their head thinking bout you all day long. Stay on your grind always, brotha.
Q Lock fuck, I feel you on this, I discovered steph not to long ago, and he was a wake up call. I was a gentleman for sure, and a nice guy because that’s just what I knew, so it was genuine. I did a lot of spontaneous shit, but I usually gave in to the same things, not stand up for myself, and not go for what I wanted(predictable). Now I’ve been transitioning over and trying it out and I feel more confident about myself knowing that I won’t get walked over again or taken advantage of with out me being aware and starting to practice.
_ LUNI _ spoken like a king
🙏🙏🙏🙏🌏🌏
Being a nice guy is the biggest mistake ANY MAN can make in his life. If you do things in order to make people perceive you as nice, only to get something in return, it will eventually rub off and people will see that you're not nice. It makes sense why women don't like nice guys, but actually are attracted to assholes: the latter is authentic to himself. Being a guy with morals and principles, isn't afraid to be honest in his viewpoints, and is always true to himself, will forever be attractive to high value women.
I know. From when I was 17 and under, I thought that being the nice guy was the way to go. From 18-25, those years really changed me and I'll never be the same again. I've let that nice guy persona version of me die. Good riddance.
"You don't have to show your coldest card right off the bat, you pull em out when its time to pull em out..." This the coldest play I heard in a minute.
I've gone soft. Backed out of a figh, relapsed, got nun goin for myself, and I stopped working out. Finna rewatch the past vids and get this shit together.
Ahmir Watson you got it fella!
Keep your head up G! Life is marathon not a race. Be patient
Change is coming bro 💯💪🏾
Its been 7 months, this is a grind check, how you doing?
we need a update dawg 🤣
"I'm not no nice guy, I'm just a good guy, the bad guys should really stay on my good side"- Chance The Rapper
Steph really out here changing my life for the better
The best thing you can do is become selfish and take care of yourself first. Than everything will be attracted towards u
Just don’t be afraid to rock the boat fellas, gotta speak your mind and have your own opinion. Stand up for yourself g
Yes, that a problem i have, i always to a Nice guy.
fred I never have that problem anymore
Janus B nice guys finish last like they say
Lemon26 💯
@@gtmfred yes, it have been a problem with all my ex, also have trouble with my girlfriend now
Purpose over women.
Love and respect from South Africa 🇿🇦
Same here G Johannesburg Fam
My niggaaaa👊🏾
Awe...all the way from Bloemfontein
All the way from Pretoria homie 👊👊👊
Awe from Cape Town
I remember I stated I was a nice guy at work once. My supervisor was in another room and yelled out, "DON'T BE NICE!" I learned my lesson the hard way but I LEARNED it.
Is your supervisor a woman
I aint talked to any women since november... i don't even have the urge no more ... life is good
Dats saying alot...Staying on your purpose and the right one will come about 100
Listen to this man!! He's the absolutely correct. My dumbass spent nearly $7k taking a "friend" to Hawaii for her birthday, she stayed away from me the whole trip and when we returned, the next day, she told me she's not interested in me sexually. Had I known, had I been listening since before that trip....that trip would not have happened. I was a stupid stupid man!
Man WE ALL done did some questionable stuff in our past. I know I did! It's all embarrassing but now we know. And knowing is half the battle! - G. I. JOE
My G 7k on a bitch to Hawaii and she disrespects you bro That's tough and she doesn't even like you Broski I'm so sorry don't do it again Improve yourself improve your net worth then do that bitch Dirty bruh she used you for the trip you should've not gave a fuck This girl In my school did me dirty and told me to go talk to her then when I do she acts like she's embarrassed of me no Eye contact doesn't wanna talk to me nothing But she had the audacity to call me a pussy though That's why I'm not talking to her I Told my story on my instagram story and she got pissed off but I didn't expose her or Even respond she Dmed me today and I still haven't respond don't give a fuck my G fuck bitches Don't chase them
@@isaacmendez9435 yeah, man, of course, I could say now that the signs were there, but I didn't see them, we had fooled around a bit before, started with a single, then got to second base and once even got to third, I figured in Hawaii I hit that home run. Lay pipe in every corner of that island. Instead, she would walk out of the room when I walked in. But, the signs were there before that trip for sure, I was just too blinded by her looks. I just figured she had been done wrong by too many jerks in her past, that she was now happy with a good guy. But, my mistake. Never again.
@@deondavis05712 yeah, I get it now. Absolutely not the man I was before. If the girl isn't giving me a "hell yes", I'm not wasting my time. I'm the prize, no more chasing.
Simp man simp man yea that you
With all this knowledge Steph been spitting, some of these truths are terrifying. I'm just grateful I never had to go out and learn all this shit the hard way. Bless up G.
A wise man learns from other peoples mistakes.
i learned it the hard Way and im Happy i did
To truely understand you need to learn it the hard way
@@sharkskin0078 faccs
Then you’ll never truly understand
Facts. Even feminists hate nice guys deep down. Protect Steph at all costs
Most people will say growing up in a house with 6+ females, and me being the only male is “weak”, or “beta”; but it had its pros. This is where I learned to never a trust a female ( lol even tho it’s my family ). Just the stories I would hear, about them talking to multiple niggas, using niggas, etc. Also notice how none of my sisters dated the typical “nice” guy. It’s was always bad boys ( bloods, crips etc). You ain’t gotta be a thug, or nothing like that. Just have a backbone, and just showing her by leaving her isn’t gonna effect your grind.
Yoooo dead ass I seen my cuzo do this wit some other dude in the phone right after she was talking to her actual bad. Shit was crazy. I had my ear buds in so I acted like I ain’t hear here but, I couldn’t help to laugh. I played it off as I was watching something on my phone. These females belong to the streets bruh.
ONG BRO W FUCKING COMMENT
@@rezlerr_ bruh Facts! Same thing with my female cousin we live under the same roof and it's crazy asf! Girls be on some Bs bruh Foreal
Facts. I tell people all the time my mama and sisters were the first females who showed me “A hoe gone be a hoe and it’s absolutely NOTHING you can do about it.”
It took a min for me to grasp this concept, I always felt guilt tripped into chasing and pursuing women. Wasted many teen years doing so. Now at 24 I’ve learned that it’s all worthless. A woman gone fwu if she want, fellas pick up on the small/subtle cues she gives. Remember the women with a price tag and constant validation seeking will eventually Deplete your manhood
The brutally honest truth. This hit me hard & made me understand what I’ve been doing wrong my whole life. Time to change my mindset.
Showing Respect (good) vs Seeking Approval (“nice”)
Being nice don't make you weak or a simp it makes u a good person. But unfortunately we're in a bad world so save the nice-ness for heaven. And treat people as they deserve hear on earth
Always hold her accountable if shes done you wrong let her know your no push over.
I've seen many girls faces just cringe up when I was straight simpin'. Never understood what seemed to be going on back then.
Here's the origin of the word:
"
Nice, it turns out, began as a negative term derived from the Latin nescius, meaning “unaware, ignorant.” This sense of “ignorant” was carried over into English when the word was first borrowed (via French) in the early 1300s. And for almost a century, nice was used to characterize a “stupid, ignorant, or foolish” person"
5 Qualities to display as an alpha male:
1. Autonomy
2. Boundaries
3. High Standards
4. Strong opinion
5. Be fun / Spontaneous
These are key elements. Women say they like "assholes/jerks/bad boys", this is what they infer.
Honestly, this is one of the realest comment I have seen in a minute. I am going to copy this and use as daily guide to follow. Thanks.
@@jeong-ilkajokaya3849 Thanks! Here's another similar note, '
If we translate the colloquial meaning of 'nice guy' into its Darwinian equivalent, a nice guy is an individual that assists other members of its species, at its own expense, to pass their genes on to the next generation. Nice guys, then, seem bound to decrease in numbers: niceness dies a Darwinian death" from Richard Dawkins' "The Selfish Gene" chapter 12, "Nice Guys Finish First".
Appreciate the knowledge but let me also drop a gem 💎 in old times way back, adult Greek men use to have sexual intercourse with young males as of way of grooming the boys into adult “Alpha” males. The young boys were referred too as “beta” until they grew up & then repeated the cycle with other young men to turn them Alpha. They also felt like sexual intercourse made the boys more ready for war. So the whole “Alpha & Beta male” terms is deeply related to pedophilia in Greek culture. 💯 But don’t just take my word I advise all to do your own research on the topic 🧠 they have us loosely using & refering to ourselves with these titles without the knowledge of where actually they come from.
@@moneymakinkj6246 Those epicureans and their philosophy, "let's eat and drink, for we shall die tomorrow." Apostole Paul, had a tough time teaching Christianity to those greeks!...Thanks for the additional facts!
Another day in the Coldest class of all time 📚🥶💊
You know what I hate the most? When they get in your proximity with that "talk to me pease" face and when you ask them to simply have a casual conversation, they look at you like you're an alien. It's ridiculous. These girl are really out here with plain vanilla base game! No expansion packs at all!
Steph is defently a wise man. I wish I knew all this back in my early 20s. I'm 42 now.
We’re just a generation of men brought up by our mothers , glad I found this channel at 20
Same
22 now I feel ya
Man I was just talking about this months ago, I knew I was in to something. A good guy has boundaries and knows his worth and a nice guy has no boundaries or respect for himself. Appreciate the vid G
“Instead of seeking validation from the people, just work on the product” you can use this any many aspects of your life. Life changing advice right there
To those that are more scientifically inclined,
here's an excerpt on "nice guys" from Richard Dawkins' book "The Selfish Gene" chapter 12:
"If we translate the colloquial meaning of 'nice guy' into its Darwinian equivalent, a nice guy is an individual that assists other members of its species, at its own expense, to pass their genes on to the next generation. Nice guys, then, seem bound to decrease in numbers: niceness dies a Darwinian death."
AMS and Steph need a damn collab. For real ! 💯 keep taking the pill guys. Salute !
I got a big tall black friend in my class looking like a gangsta but he's blue pill as fuck, I told him and he just doesn't understand
12:17 The nice guy's gonna constantly push towards the goddamn wall when the wall ain't going no where💯
2:35 I thought the sweat on your hoodie was just part of the design. lol
Tie-dye
The grind is real 3 uploads G🙏💯respect it
StephIsCold is the man! Love this. StephIsCold has inspired me to make my Dating and Relationships channel! 👌🏽
Dating and relationships what is yo profile pic
Moody That is one of the Thumbnails of one of my recent videos (about orgasms)
Dating and relationships ✊🏾🔥
*GOOD GUY = 🔴REDPILL*
*NICE GUY = 🔵BLUEPILL*
Damn focused on growing my business. Appreciate the help. I used to trip over girls but now I know they are a way to enjoy your life, but dont obsess/stress over them. Make some time for them but most of your time is for you. Always hold your principles and do not let them sell you a dream. But you gotta respect them and love them by loving yourself, first and foremost, and not accepting any BS.
I realized recently that I wasn’t as nice as I thought I was, because I was only nice to people outside of my immediate circle when I wanted something from them or was trying to keep them happy. It’s completely different when you do a favor for your mom because you love her vs when you do a favor for a girl you’re trying to get on your dick. And I’m convinced people can subconsciously sense that. One thing I’m trying to do is approach the world with a more loving attitude; what can I give the world today?
I thought that was the design of the hoodie...But nah, StephisCold’s hoodie is drenched in sweat from the stepmaster 😂 💪🏽
Good guys have healthy boundaries and limits. “Nice guys” don’t. And even worst, they go to extremes that are uncalled for!! 😳 I agree with you. Nice guys makes us cringe! 😬
That 2k is no joke losing will.have you re evaluating yo life 😂😂
saiyanGamerxx no cap 😂
Facts
I was about to complain about your thumbnail seeing how it ain't helping with my nofap streak and all, but then I thought, "pIz, I aint no lil bitch!" lmao! Keep doing what you're doing ! Much love brother
greenshorts37 it helps actually, because it strengthens the mind of controlling yourself.
Cue exposure therapy
I dont even get urges from that, more like aggressiveness
Look forward to these type of video’s so I can apply different things daily. Keep digging @stephiscold 🙏🏽💯
Hood girls view common respect as being nice.
Man I was that nice guy for a long time and fr it suck ass. Stephiscold keep doing your thing man you helping out a lot of guys bro!
I love when you do videos about talking about the nice guy not because to talk down on them but because it motivates me to keep being who I am and keep being in my masculine frame all the time and laid back. Good video Brody
I’m 26 and I’m finally understanding this shit and it makes so much fucking sense the nice guy don’t roll doesn’t get you nowhere with work,family and women.
12:06 “What happened? You okay, babe.” 🥸🤣
Steph you a role model for me, thank you from Pittsburgh
3 in a row you tryna bless us g 🤝
I thought the his hoodie had a Design but, it was sweat 😂😂😂
I’m late for the sermon. Forgive me Rev. Steph
Yes, it a bit problem I have struggle with whole my life, i`m to a Nice guy. Is hard just to Change You personality, if You been a Nice guy the whole life. And women hate Nice guys. Is like a balance, You also have to show You a good man, that want to take care and protect her.
I try to get along with everyone because I don't like to cause drama but if someone gives me attitude or is a mean person then I cut that person off. As far as women goes I won't take a woman BS, I won't deal with her s*** tests, I will be upfront with her and I will always have confidence around women.
Bro this A1 advice bravo🔥🔥🔥
If you stand for nothing you’ll fall for everything!
yo steph for real bro i keep watching this video alot to instill it into my brain because i was doing this and being unaware of why i was doing this , Social Conditioning & Seeking Validation . Thanks for making me Colder bro i really appreciate this knowledge
This energy intimidates a lot of people
Thanks for the video. This is definitely the one we all need to be watching multiple times a year to remind ourselves and hit the refresh button.
OK so I knew one of his videos was really gon hit home for me... Appreciate it my guy
The Nice Guy™ phrase, yo, has been used so many times, I can't help but put the trademark next to it, because honestly, bruh, I feel it's become a *brand.*
Steph blessing us with the triple upload 💪
Shout out to to big homie steph. He changed my whole outlook on females instead of trying to change them I just gotta play the game
i like the “wall” concept🙏🏿
3 uploads in 1 day? Sheesh steph 🔥
3 uploads in a row🥳✅Bless u bro!!
Be a great guy not a nice guy/simp
Back to back to back ! Slow down some G 😂
Learned from experience fuck being nice I had to tell my homeboy the same thing being nice gets you no where also deep down I've always been cold it's my dna. The last time I played that nice guy bullshit is when I had a homegirl and I did whatever once I found out nothing was going to go down and she wasn't into me I let her ass go.
Damn this one of the best illustrations on the difference. So basically as soon as you start doing good/nice things as a manipulation tactic is where the line gets crossed.
Again....that wall is UNDEFEATED 😂
I think anyone who defines themselves as a nice or good guy is questionable.
It feels more like it's about being true to who you are and having boundaries.
Triple upload 😳🔥🔥🔥🔥
Y’all need to join the patron fr but on this road on the red pill journey I’ve learned that being genuine doesn’t mean you’re a nice guy. If you’re inherently a nice person you’re genuine but like steph said you go out of your way to impress someone you’re a nice guy seeking validation
Thank you Steve, this video really hit deep😮😮😮
Big like the mafia
Another banger!
Fallow your guys passion and dreams and meet woman on the way, woman arent everything, yout dreams are!
6:31 I'm dead lmaooo
The nice guy makes her buhhhhh
I once gave a girl some of moms cooking at my old job it did not work she had her mind set on a another dude
This just me. But I think woman that invest their time, energy, and income first with a man; is where the man should do the same back. But not over do it just match her energy.
strapz805 facts
I ain’t gone lie the beta in me missed Draya in the thumbnail 🤷🏽♂️
U doin gods work out here steph, keep it up champ! More blessings and success onna way!
The good guy and the nice guy are different indeed. But I'll add this: women don't want good guys/decent good men either. The reason is that women tend to operate on a low vibrational and graviate towards whatever is indecent and immoral (which is excitement for them) while the decent, good men to choose operate on a high vibrational level due to having a good moral compass (boring and lame to women). And therefore the good guy finishes last also.
Mann thank you bro for touching on this subject dropping Gems keep shining blessings to ya peace and love ✌🏾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾
Before the video even started, (and I have a girl) I said to myself “I really might need to hear this”
I’m starting to look at steph like my og, never met this man in real life 🤣
"I'll give you the shirt off my back, but I won't f*cking hesitate to bury you in the desert". My code...
The fucked up thing is what if I wanna buy food for a girl because I like them, and it's not about buying their love and attention? I feel like that will be seen as trying to buy it anyway. Maybe it's different if the woman is already in a relationship with me, or maybe it's not even that different. I don't know. What do you think?
Gentlemen…there’s a stark difference between being a genuinely kind person and a “nice guy”
Never allow them to take your kindness for weakness…if she does…GHOST HER 🥶
DAMN I NEEDED THIS!!
Good video Steph👍🏾😎 I wonder how many Simps😢 woke up from this video😂😂😂
Thanks for this video bro, this video was needed for guys like myself
Three uploads in a day slow down some G😂😂🐐
Big facts bro. Keep preaching 👏 💯
Nice don't finish last, they don't finish at all
True like those people in the mall always stopping everyone