Until it's one breakup to many, one failure to many. Until you wake up in your mid 30's, alone, failing at life even tho all you do is try with everything you have; only to be broken up with and laid off (again). Until the day you realize you are a leftover, the second choice, the one who just isn't good enough. When that happens, nothing makes it better, time makes it worse; and the best you can hope for is just to survive (Maybe).
***** I think you've been looking the wrong way. Not all men are like that. Actually those guys that who just go for one night stands aren't men, there boys. You've been looking at boys. Men take care of there woman and keep em for good. Boys go for girls that are sluts, do drugs and live a fake life. If you change your self to a woman than you'll find a man. If you keep looking at boys, than you'll get nothing but boys, and say the same shit.
My friend showed me this video while I was going through my breakup last winter. It was difficult for me to watch, I cried so much at th first couple of seconds. I closed it right away because I knew the video was so close to the truth, it was hard for me to accept that this will be my reality. At the time, I wished so hard for us to get back together. We were together for almost 4 years, it couldn't have ended there...not when I needed him the most. At the time, I didn't want to live anymore because the person I needed the most, left me aside. I was going through personal problems which put a strain on our relationship. However, I kept telling myself that this is only temporary...the storm will eventually subside. I had to keep in mind that I am a fighter, a survivor, an independent woman. I watched this video today to see how much progress I've made. I cried again, not when it showed the first step but when it showed the last couple steps. Why? Because I did it. I made it through the hardest time of my life and I survived. There are absolutely no words to describe the pain I was going through all of 2015...I rly thought I wouldn't make it. Right now, I feel happy. I feel excited. Relieved. Renewed. I am not going to lie, there are times where I do miss my ex and wonder how he is doing. I have relapsed an immense amount of times, but that is ok. Everything you are going through is ok. I feel happy rebuilding myself. I am finally finding me again. I'm learning more about myself and realizing the fact that this quiet little girl has a strong bone in her body. The fact that I am still single doesn't bother me because I am enjoying the time that I have for myself. I wanted to share this because I was never a believer about things ever getting better, BUT THEY DO. PLEASE WAIT, GIVE TIME AND NEVER GIVE UP. You will see the end of the tunnel and a light will be shining for you to see that you made it out of the dark.
so happy you made it! after reading your comment I got more hope that I will be better one day just like you. I broke up with my bf a month ago.. after being together for 7 years lived together for 5 years.. I watched this video 4 years ago and I cried already even though I was in a relationship with my ex now back then. I will remember this comment you wrote cause its so real. THANK YOU
I am now breakup with my bf. I read your comment and it make me a little relief. Thanks for the comment. Please tell me I will also pass this hard time.
@@YuYu-xr5fb Hello there. I hope you are doing well. I'm glad to hear that you were able to find a sense of relief from my story. It's a difficult battle, but what is life without any challenges to face? Allow yourself to feel how you are currently feeling. If you need to cry, pls cry. If you need to vent, pls share. If you need guidance, pls ask & never apologize for anything, it is all part of the healing process. It hurts to see the person you loved and cared for turn and face the other direction. However, I always believe in things happening for a reason. Just remember, the people who are meant to be in your life are the ones who are willing to stay, regardless at how hard things get. Don't make time for someone who isn't willing to make time for you. I don't know your story nor your situation, but I do know that you are strong and you can fight through anything. Breakups are hard, but ask yourself, what have you learned from the relationship? What can you take away from it? Were you always happy? Can you be ok being alone? It really is a blessing in disguise because once you realize that you are truly okay, you can fully appreciate the amount of growth made. Believe in yourself, love yourself & most importantly, take care of yourself my friend.
Hey guys, whoever is experiencing a heart break I promise it gets better. I'm finally able to watch this video without crying and I feel happier without him. It gets better, through time. I promise.
I never fully understand how painful breakups can be until I'm going through the ending of my first serious relationship. 5 years, 5 years full of beautiful memories and a promise that we'll be together forever. He broke the promise along with my heart and now I'm here alone picking up the pieces.
Ended a 3 year long distance relationship a few hours ago. Now having a jkfilms, Domics, and Wong Fu productions marathon (: Update: hello! I’m still here haha. Much happier and learned to smile whenever I thought about that particular relationship. We were young and carefree, it was an amazing experience nonetheless. All is good! Hope all of you are doing well. Thank you for your kind words ☺️
This video is about to hit its 10 year mark. I really appreciate this video a lot. It reminds me of how a girl thinks after a breakup. It also reminds me to treat one just right. 9 years... I still remember the day this video was uploaded. Thanks Wongfu
This is so real, I always come back here even though I’m in the best place. It reminds me of what I’ve felt before and it brings me so much peace. Wrongful really popped off w this tbh.
AsianProdigyProductions i just went through the same. My first love and I didn’t do anything wrong but yet he treated me like crap and didn’t choose me. But I want to let go. But I can’t. I really want to but I need more time.
@@eval3509 i couldnt fall in love despite even being in a 3 year relationship before. I finally fall in love with my best friend and we have to break up because it's for the best. He was my best friend, my lover, my first love and was the one. Watching this video hurts like hell. I've been hurt many times in life and had people i loved died. It feels as he died except he's alive and in idk a year or even a couple years from now he'll meet someone knew and fall in love it kills me thinking about that. I even thought, "what if im still agonizing over him while he falls in love and happier with her?" I hope we both can get over each other and find the one.
my first love, got relationship for 3 years, then LDR for 3 months, but he broke me up because we're in different religion and his mom doesn't approve us
Some guys feel the same way. Me for example, My gf broke up with me on valentines and i was going through everything in this vid, except it went on for a year and i dont wear make up.
I definitely think guys have it rough too if they are halfway decent just watching my daughter's break ups. The decent guys take the high road after the emotions die down a bit. I didn't realize how deeply teenage guys could feel about a relationship. You always hear about the guys who don't care and use girls.
Life tobelived thats cause the guys who do care arent allowed to admit to it, and even if they did it wouldnt be as known or emotionally provoking so the story wouldnt get to most people... and with guys this video does a pretty good job almost the exact same
I used to watch this every time I’d go through a break up and it’s helped me process and move on from those relationships. Years later, I’m now going through divorce with the one person I thought I’d spend a lifetime with. It feels so unreal to be here again and I hope this really isn’t the end.
same here, but think of all the courage it took to finally give up bc you never saw a future, you thought he'd at least support, respect. You can be better :) (your case must be different)
It did take courage, I guess, but it was a stupid decision. I knew I loved him and let other people get in my head because they were people who I thought cared about me, but they just knew how to play with my mind. The good news is that he gave me a second chance and we're back together. :)
When you watched it like a 100 times and finally thought you could make it through the whole video without crying and then the music kicks in at the end and guess what happened
When my boyfriend and I broke up, I watched this several times and I cried each time. It hasn't been that long since then but I don't cry anymore watching this and I think that's progress. I'm at step/stage 2 and I feel much better.
Aselin Chen I agree. I could share my personal insight with you, I'm 25 now, and made sure to document my emotions, feelings, and thoughts through-out this journey of being with someone. It wasn't easy but I'm still here. Quite frankly, at least from this persepctive of Carley, it's almost the exact same (for me at least) with a few minor exceptions. I hope this helps.
Aselin Chen As Brandon stated, its pretty much the same process with perhaps one of the exceptions being the desire to "reestablish" one's "masculinity," by finding someone new a little bit sooner maybe? to make ourselves feel a little bit better? (doesn't work very often though lol).
Never had a break up... seeing this makes me not want to experience one. It made me feel so bad for her, I cried for her wow... you guys really know how to get to people! Also, I may have been crying just seeing that kevin was in this... maybe.
***** I will. I just don't want to experience the break up part. Just watching this made me cry... I could never imagine myself literally in this situation... I'd probably die.
+lIlIIlIIIlIIIIlIIIII That's really sad and unfortunate. I feel bad for you. But SHE wasn't worth it. The love the gave HER wasn't worth it. The time you spent with HER wasn't worth it. Because SHE wasn't worth you. Don't give up on love. Your first love isn't always your true love. That's like saying your first attempt is always your last attempt. No. You keep trying till things go right. And I'm fully sure, that you will meet the girl who IS worth your time, love and presence!
lIlIIlIIIlIIIIlIIIII Sadly sometimes pain is part of the process... and im more than sure that your true girl, your other half will meet you soon. And that pain you had? You won't even remember it. Then again, they always say you always remember your first love. And if she was unfaithful, then that's like remembering your first mistake right? And thank you. You seem very kind. I know your girl is out there somewhere!
I.... just cried so hard. It's so hard. I want to get out of it. But I'm glad to know I am not alone. I was the first one to break up with the person rather than being the one who was dumped. I did it because the relationship is so unhealthy. We both are depressed. I find myself wanting to get back again but I stop myself so hard.
Me too I literally am the same as you and it's hard because I love him so deep and I keep looking at old message etc but time is a healer hope your doing ok
It may be tough to start with, but you will get through it. Don't dwell on the bad things. Don't think of the rough journey that u will go through. Think about the goal. As they say, eyes on the prize. Jk. Try to think more about the better person u will be after all the hard times.
It's gonna hurt like a bitch, but surround yourself with friends. Actually get up and do things with them. Find distractions. Don't try to do that "staying friends" crap, because it never works.
i actually didn't want that line in, especially the word "cute". And I almost wanted to cut that whole scene out, heh. It was insisted otherwise. Sorry that I was there.
It's heartbreaking to know how someone so important to you decides to just walk out of your life one day. All the memories made. The secrets told, trust, a bond made, etc..then one day it's put to an end. I understand if someone isn't happy in a relationship it's better to leave, but what I don't understand is the opposite of that. How can someone tell you that they will be there for you, that you can always talk to them, how they will stay by your side right to your face and prove that all wrong? Just throw away everything they said. It's sad to know that, once there gone, there gone. And this video proves so much. Each step and feeling. That's what makes it a beautiful video to watch because you can connect to it and see what's basically happens.
From time to time, I come back to watch older WF videos, and this is a favorite. It reminds of where I was 7 years ago (separation and divorce of almost a 20 year relationship), and where I am now (happily married to a wonderful woman who is turning into my best friend).
I just ended a three year and eight month relationship. It was my doing, but I'm having a hard time. We had the same friends, and he was my best friend. It's been almost two months, and I'm having a hard time not having any one left to talk to. His family is bashing me on social media, my former co-workers (which is where he works currently) won't speak to me, and almost all of our friends aren't my friends anymore - they're his. I told one of our best friends (we called ourselves the "tri-force" - like Legend of Zelda) to stay being his friend and help him through this, but I think I forgot to tell him I still need a friend as well. This video is kind of helping me keep going. It's helping me to stay positive. Thanks Wong Fu :)
Majority who came to see this video also had a bittersweet ending, it's been 5 months later after a 2 year relationship. It was tough when you love someone so much yet the timing was off. And peace of mind wasn't available. Sleepless nights, I took all the items out and returned it and also threw some out. And yes, guys do cry. I cried while driving. Like baby mode. As time goes by, you'll realize it's just one of those tough trials. Or that movie 500 days of summer. Where some people are meant to fall in love but not meant to be together. Keep that in mind. All I know she's with someone new already after a month. Fast and leaves a poor taste but not all people are the same. I, on the other hand seeing this girl and I'm at the courting stage. Date is set on the 23rd. Wish me luck. Be strong! Smile. Mr right is Right around the corner. I'm not looking for someone better. I'm looking for someone who's right with me. Take care.
+Yuuko I understand what you're feeling. I ended an almost 10 1/2 year relationship the beginning of the year. The first few months were rough, torture, and a nightmare. It does get better, even if you wake up one day and just go "whoa, i made it" Continue to stay positive with all that you got. And just keep watching Wong Fu as they always got their fans back :)
Stacie Nguyen I'm sorry to hear it didn't work out. Weird how you can be with someone for so long and in the blink of an eye, it's all over. Then, at some point, you don't even know them anymore. Thank you for your kind words. I've been keeping busy with work, and school. Just keeping my head up and talking to the people who didn't leave when I left my ex. I hope you are doing well though :)
Angelo Mendiola I know it will get better one day. And I'm over him - I mean, you get over someone pretty quick when they don't defend you during the relationship or after the breakup. It's just hard changing routine, and realizing who were my friends and who weren't. I'm sorry about the breakup between you and your ex. Long relationships are wonderful, but devastating when they end. But I think all of us - even people reading this who may have been in a similar situation - will be just fine. Life goes on. And you're right Angelo, maybe Mr. Right is just around the corner. :)
+Yuuko Very true. I basically grew up with this guy and everything I am is because of it. From friends, to best friends, to thinking forever, to now just living my life. I'm lucky I'm still in my early 20's but I gotta say, dating in the adult world is scary. I'm really just doing me. Do the best you can for yourself and every day do one thing that makes you happy, even if it is as small as just eating a piece of chocolate :) Every experience, whether bad or good, take it in strides. They each are there for you to learn from.
my gf broke up with me few days ago..i promise not to cry..but this video..this video....push me through the barrier...and now i am just crying non stop
It's okay :) it's healthy to cry. You shouldn't not cry. Just remember, crying isn't for the weak, it is for those that have been strong for too long :)
Yeah David. You are the person who introduced me and my mates here in Australia to Wong Fu. Yeah! Aussie Aussie Aussie - yeah, I am that guy from the Sydney concert a few years back. You are the best mate! I really like your music, your story, your Ted lecture and that you introduced me to Wongfu and Rian Hiag and all.
2014: i met you and talked to you in person. Bought your album which contained songs about being single. And now im single too.... :( thanks for the autograph though
I always come back to this video when I need a boost--regardless of if I'm going through a breakup or not, the journey she goes through from being not ok to being ok gives me hope.
wow im surprised by some of the comments on here.. theres some real haters out there.. for a group of people who started out making videos from when they were young with barely any budget.. to now making memorable videos that are so moving with millions of views.. i'm happy for you guys. great job man. keep up the good work and ignore the stupidity of online..
It isn't stupidity and it isn't hating. If you can't take criticism then you never advance (although clearly WFP has taken NONE of the feedback to heart except for the positive ones). It's undeniable that this narrative is one of the weakest in recent releases; though that's not saying much considering the lackluster content in general. While the idea might be worth filming (here's a hint, it isn't), it certainly wasn't fleshed out well in reality.
turtlehater2 It may not be hating but what is to say that the criticism was constructive? And how are you to say that WFP "clearly has taken NONE of the feedback to heart"? They clearly read the comments and write stories that a great majority of the audience can relate to beyond multiple boundaries. Yes, this may not have your favorite narrative of their overall releases but it does not entitle you to claim how Wongfu responds in terms of feedback because I highly doubt you've filtered through the feed reading it all. pwangs,Wongfu, and the actors did a fantastic job and I took her voiceover to be the clear-headed part years later that is saying what she would have told herself then. I was touched and can only hope that someday I will fall in love as deeply as that.
turtlehater2 lol why does your name have the word hater in it? but seriously, when considering all the amazing projects wfp has done, im pretty sure its really hard to come up with original ideas. I'd love to see your amazing debut on youtube turtlehater2
My relationship of 7.5 years just ended. She was literally a quarter of my life. I don't know who I am without her. It's going to be really hard from now on.
I'm still remember i found this video few months after I broke up with him, and keep watching this repeatedly while crying on my bed and didn't want to get up and do anything. Just curled up in my bed and cry for hours. 10 months later, I'm watching this video again and proudly say that, I'm now has move on to 'renewed' stage :') Life do gets better.
I'm with you lol it's been 9 months on my end with no closure and no contact. Watching this video again doesn't have the same effect on me 9 months ago. Funny thing is I'm with someone now and it's been 2 months with this new special girl in my life.. Yesterday, I got s text from my ex. She asleep how I was doing and wanted to know my personal life. I could clearly tell she wasn't doing right just by she text. So she told me she's not with the guy anymore. Our relationship lasted almost 3 years. Then she found this guy she had in the past and got together after a month we split. Most painful thing ever. But I'm passed all that, and telling her that I'm with this girl is refreshing and I'm very much happy where my heart is at.
+Angelo Mendiola Your new girl is so lucky because you think about new beginning, new future, and fresh start with her and not looking back at the past. My ex? we broke up because he's still can't forget his past girl and clearly he doesn't think of me as his future. We were bestfriend. We started our relationship right after he broke up with his gf. I knew, he didn't like me. I always knew. Maybe I shouldn't confess to him and accept him to become from bff to bf. He was my happy pill, my world, my everything. I still remember that day when I called him and ask what's wrong, he just cried and said sorry that he's not a right guy for me, he keeps saying this relationship won't worked out. Because of his ex before me, he said he can't take the risk to be in a relationship again. I ask him why don't this time, just believe in me, believe in us. Let' starts everything all over again, just hold my hand and we take the risk together. i want to take care of him and make him happy. But he keep saying I'm deserve better. Right now, I'm just want to be happy in my life and not looking back at past. Now we are just two strangers with memories who walk past each other in the hallway everyday.
I lost him in september. Officially mid September. He moved on a day later to the girl who tried to break us up. I was broken for a month but now i am stronger than ever. I feel so free. I go out and hang with my friends. I go running every morning and I am smiling everyday. I used to be so sad thinking of him and that she stole him and I wuld get upset when friends send me stuff bout them but now? Now im just like okay thats cool lets talk about something else. I lost a three year relationship to some btch but that's okay. Im okay. So to whoever is out there still sad. You can do it. Keep going keep smiling because each day that pasts is one day you have lived without them.
+Note Galaxy you just have to realize your own self worth and realize you deserve better than what they have to offer. It may hurt like hell and it definetly sucks but keep going. Surround yourself with friends and people who care about you. Its not the end of the world because someone better will come along the way. Trust me :)
+VancityGirl45 Hi, really happy to hear that you moved on, I just experience more or less the same situation as you, my girl fell in love with another boy while still maintaining a relationship with me. It was 4 years of memories and its all gone within a month's time. I don't know how can I get out from this mess and I feel really hurt each day when I see them together doing things what we used to do, always. I'm trying to distract myself with a lot of things but I realise nothing has made me feel better cause the feeling keep coming back no matter how. How can I be like you?
+Superksyman just focus on yourself. Surrond yourself with friends and family who care about you and remember there's better people out there who deserve you and will find you. If they were meant to be with you they wouldn't have left you for someone else... You will be okay!
+Glysentte Mier that's perfectly.. its not about how long its take to finally moved on.It's been 5 months since my boyfriend brokeup with me , and Im on stage 3 :) I thought I was going to cry when I watched this but seems like it makes me feel stronger :)
Dear Reader/Viewer, You are beautiful, smart, funny and the world wouldn't be the same without you. Please don't stress, wipe away your tears, and smile for the world again, because you are special and unique in every way. Everything will be Ok.
I've cried over my ex almost every night or every night. At some point of time, I feel like 'whats the point of crying?' because i have cried for him for so long. It helps me to move on, and get over him but not 100%. Crying as often as possible actually helps. One day you will naturally like it is no point crying over that person. Go on, cry. But make sure NOBODY knows or checks you out
Today, I ended my first relationship ever, after 3 years of being tgt. I first watched this short when I was 13-14 and knew nothing about love and have returned to it throughout the years. I would read all the comments and wonder if I myself would ever be coming here in the midst of my own breakup. I didn’t even want to imagine how painful it could be. But today, it ended up happening. And this video hit me like a truck. Thank you Wong Fu for creating a video that so poignantly portrays all the emotions one feels during a breakup and the process of healing. To everyone going through a breakup rn, sending you hugs. We’ll make it through and come out of this stronger. ❤️
Be strong you will get thru it and it will be alright. I think going through the process is hard and necessary .For at the end you become stronger and wiser than before.
I know this video is old af, but here I am. My long distance girlfriend of 4 years just broke up with me... I mean, yeah what did I expect, long distance relationships isnt for everyone. Knowing the risks, I still did it. Fought hard for it. And now, for that same reason I'm now alone by myself. I know no one will read my comment because the video and comments are old, but it does give me comfort knowing im not the only one going through this. This video resonates so much when things make sense, it was the perfect moment to watch it. Thank you Wong Fu and thank you for all the testimonies from all of you that will help people going through hard time like me right now in 2024.
I read your comment. Time will heal everything. This video stands the test of time and is still very relevant to lots of people who experience breakup and hardships. I even watch it when I feel lonely and it gives me hope and inspiration.
I read your comment too brother. My LDR of two years ended just the other day after I respected her decision to end it even though my opinions differed. I thought I fought hard to the very end as well. I don't personally know you but I hope you're doing better now 5 months after you commented. I'm now down a Wong Fu rabbit hole right now trying to understand what went wrong in my own relationship
@@tivee1 damn bro I'm sorry for you. It's never easy. Most important is that it was for the best for you also. And well if you didn't have the choice, it means she didn't deserve you in the first place. Trust me. You deserve to be loved the way you want. I don't feel any better tbh, that break-up particularly broke me to pieces. She texted me back after a few months out of despair because she felt alone. Not because she really wanted to be with me. And I took the courage to tell her not to text me back. I stood for myself, I'm not a backup plan whenever she feels sad or bad. So Bro, yes, watch them WongFu videos if that helps you feel better. Let yourself feel those emotions so you can come back stronger! Do not try to understand what went wrong. You did your best and trying to understand why won't bring her back Bro. What's done is done. If the person really loved you, she would have stayed despite all the hardships. We all have our limits. We need to know when they are crossed so it doesn't destroy us.
@@YourSweetPotato same for me. I often watch different videos from them and they help me understand myself better but also helping me going through those feelings and emotions.
I remember watching this video 6 years ago when going through a break up….. I promise guys! It gets better! You will find your person! Today I’m happily married and so very happy and thankful! You will get through it!
The last time I needed a wakeup Wong Fu released "Strangers Again" and I've been in dire need of a wakeup for a nonspecific amount of time and all the time I can only think of her and how long it will be until I'm over her and what a "normal" amount of time to get over someone is. I couldn't be more pleased with the answer of the question "How long was I there" in the prelude to Release in this which was "It doesn't matter." It makes me feel validated to know that it will happen but at my own pace and there is no other pace that should matter - which is what I thought but always fear being "wrong" in a sense (if that makes sense?). Thank you Wong Fu for always finding a way to evoke such strong emotions in me when I feel dead half the time. This could not have come at a better time. Keep up the amazing work everyone.
This really hit hard. Its been 3 weeks since my break up and I've been feeling so lost. Sometimes I'm ok and sometimes I just miss him a lot and want to call him. I know he wasn't good for me but I do miss the person he was when we first started dating. I'm trying my best to work on myself and move on and I can't wait to see the person that I become in a few months or even years
@@bluebee825 Thank you! I've gotten so much better. I became closer with a lot friends that I didn't have a chance to hang out with much just because I was with my ex all the time. They were the ones that took me outside and made me try out new things and helped me find what genuinely made me happy. I've never loved myself so much and I don't blame myself for everything anymore. Its so crazy how much time healed me but I couldn't ask for better people by my side :)
I'm in the stage of reminiscing and retracting. I can't help it but lay in bed with my broken heart and cry it all out. I watched this over and over to motivate myself and move on with my life. But as of right now, im still trying to pass this stage and get on with rebuilding myself. I'm just too weak right now that I cant even pull myself up from my bed. I'm just too broken that the pieces can't put itself back together. When can I finally pass this stage? How long will it take? How long will I have to wait?
just realize that you are not alone and many others have experience this stage as well. be strong. i know its not easy and easier for me to say it. but please be strong. take your time. time will mend your wounds. its the routine that you miss.
dont worry about when you will get out of that stage because i did the same you thing you did. Like the video said, its okay. Its okay to miss its okay to cry. It took me a month to get over it. Weeks of crying being helpless depress alone wanted to be loved. Dont force yourself. Just let it happen. Right now im in the 2nd stage. (:
I think the beautiful thing about this short is that it is applicable to much more than just a difficult breakup. My first love was a horrible, abusive individual and it took me years to get through all the stages after we broke up - but the thing that I found most compassionate about this video was someone telling the heroine, "It's okay to feel exactly how you feel right now." A lot of people had advice when I was going through tough times, but not one of them said, "It's okay to feel the way you feel." Thank you for making a video that tells people they do not need permission to feel how they feel or to react the way they are reacting. ♥ Wong Fu Productions, you are truly inspiring. ^^ I am happily married now, but I still find watching this video comforts me when I am having a rough day.
INKDOG Thank you for sharing your story. It was definitely a conscious decision to make the short not end with finding someone new. Allow yourself to go through the necessary emotions, use them to make yourself better. Glad you made it out to a happy marriage. You'd be a great example to many here. =)
I remember when my girlfriend and I used to watch this same exact video a year ago. We have been going out for two years and we have broken up last week. I remember when we would always reassure each other about how we would never end up like this. It's just sad because something that I have never expected became a reality and it's terrifying. I just want to let anyone out there who is in a relationship still, never take your loved one for granted because you will never know when your special someone will be gone. Just like what happened to me.
My first love and I were together 5 years (1 yr together in person and 4 yrs long distance). He couldn’t continue the relationship or see a future with me anymore. This video is helping me so much even though i’m having the hardest time accepting his decision. I’m not ready yet but i’m going to do my best to move forward with my life.
You posted this comment 6 months ago. I'm sure it hasn't been easy... Just a little encouragement from someone who's been in your shoes, keep pushing fwd sis- it does get better 🙂🤗
I think im in the circle of all the steps. I cried hard, miss him, feel a bit better, go out, have some smile, accidentally saw thing remind me of him.... Then think hard & let it go... Then try to rebuild a new me, try to love myself more... And after 4 months, the circle repeat. I end up crying...missing him..dont want to go out etc...
Moni Tif Same here. It has been 6 months now. It feel exactly the same about it. He is into another relationship right now. Anyway how are you now? Been a year since you commented.
I'm recovering from a crushing breakup of my own right now, and I've never had such a strong emotional connection to an entire video before. Although this video made me cry violently and loudly, it also gave me hope for the future. Wong Fu, thank you from the bottom of my heart for reminding me that it will get better and eventually the huge weight of pain and fear will be lifted. This video gave me the push I needed to start moving toward phase 2.
I reckon he either quit UA-cam or taking a break to try and pursue his career as a real actor! There's a new upcoming movie featuring Justin Chon and KevJumba.. www.imdb.com/title/tt1396523/?ref_=nm_knf_i4 So.. who knows? He might come back? :D
Having this video recommended to me 8 years after I first watched it, and right as I am going through the most painful breakup I've ever had, really hurts my soul. I now not only hurt because there is no longer an 'us', but also because one day, there may come a time when I am happy again without her. Just the thought of her not being in my mind all day and night, and the heavy emotions of our time together no longer carrying any weight anymore, truly hurts.
WHY I HAVE A BROKEN HEART THAT WON'T HEAL...when my gf broke up with me, I went through all of this. I'd be walking alone in the mall and I thought I saw her and I'd turn around and she was gone. I didn't brush my hair before I went to school and my friends acted like they were helping by saying they hated her or that I could do better. I stayed in bed all day and sat at my computer, constantly checking my facebook and my phone for any trace of her. I even changed her name on my phone to the worst mistake I ever made. All caps. It's been two months and I still struggle. I need someone to inspire me, someone who I will fall for. But they're not there. I just need a fresh start but I can't find it. I wish i could move on but it's not that easy. I see life without her except when I see her out and about, which just is a kick to the groin. anyone else going through this, please respond. I can't feel like I'm the only one. I can't move on. I am utterly alone. I am lonely. I have friends, but they don't understand. They are all in relationships and happy. I've never felt worse in my life. She broke my heart and a few halfhearted compliments and empathetic texts from friends who are in healthy relationships doesn't help. Now my best friend is hanging out with my ex, as if the rest wasn't already hard enough. That's my story. and i wish it would come to an end.
ahh man im in that situation but a lot earlier than you the relation end up 2 days ago and gosh it hurt so fking much i really gave my heart to her, i loved her since i was 9 years old and always took care of her and i had an stupid childwish i was sure to always be with her, man when her friend were bad and abandon her i took care of her every single time and i helped her to open her eyes and see how precious she was and she did and she said to fking me : i think i dont need someone how i can relate i like more being alone... gosh she brooked up my love soon badly i think i will change for sure but my advice to you is forget her she made you cry a river.. well LIFE will make her cry you an ocean. block her dont contact her at all man cuz it hurt more and more btw i was with her for 2 years haha what a waste of my precious life. BE HAPPY MAN DONT WORRY THERES A LOT LO OF GIRLS IN THE WORL U WILL FIND SOMEONE BETTER FOR SURE
Don't be stuck thinking about someone who isn't thinking about you and moving on. It's rough, you need to think about yourself now and what's best for you. Not that I know her or you but if you say she's out and about, it's time to have that one last cry and start taking steps in the right direction just like in this great Wong fu video! Good luck!
kiet math You loved her since you were 9 and you were with her for 2 years? So does that make you 11 years old? If so, it's really too early to be thinking about who you're going to spend the rest of your life with, you'll both be completely different people in 10 years so take it slow, don't rush into these things, enjoy life for another few years without these kinds of worries
Like Monkiram said, It's too early to make a decisions like that and get stuck with such stuffs. I am a guy and you are,too. And usually, people in this world does not understand or believe in once, if we say to them that "I've been cheated or i'm a broken-hearted,atm'' No, They never will. Guys, they will make a fun of us. Girls, they will think we're just acting innocent or some just doesn't care whatsoever. But believe me, I do know these stuffs. I've been through these stuffs, too. My ex girl(SHE WAS MY FIRST LOVE), she cheated, lied and dumped me with the guy who's my bench partner. I did it all, i gave it all. That was never enough, though. It was really hard to move on and new start over but somehow i did. I used to cry, too, whenever i re-read our convo. but somehow i moved on. What i recommend you is, delete all the conversation,photos,number and so on. Don't try to be in contact with her. Most of all, TRY TO MAKE YOURSELF BUSY!! THIS IS REALLY IMPORTANT. Make plans with your friends and try to stay with them or you can play games or do whatever you like. JUST DON'T STAY ALONE. It will worsen your wound. Try to live your life in real world not just in virtual world. Good luck, bro. I know it's hard but not impossible eh.
i watch it everyday and i still cry, even though it's been a month. maybe because everything we did was my firsts. that's why I'm having hard time letting him go. and then we have to meet every week because of work, and that's not helping at all. i hope one day I'll get over him and smile at him for letting me meet better man 😔 but I don't know when that time will come
We've all been there before. The road to recovery is very rough. I would know. Long story short, it's been 9 months now. No closure and no contact. Yesterday, I got a text from her. She asked me how's my day and wanted to know about my personal life. And we did talked about questions left unanswered. It feels good to finally release one lasting unwanted energy. So I'm currently in a relationship with this special girl and I love where my heart is at and I'm very much happy. Sad to say it's not the same thing for her since she revealed she's not with the guy who she replaced me with after a month of our 3 year relationship. Things will find its way. I wish you the best. I know you can do it. Hang in there. If you want someone talk to.im here to assist. Random man from Seattle.
I lost him last night. I cried myself to sleep. I woke up and cried some more. I'm watching this video and guess what? More crying. I don't know what to do
I remember going through a breakup. I watched this over and over again to remind myself that I could do it and make it. It took me almost a year and a half to reach the last step. It was hard- a lot of crying, a lot of fighting, a lot of reminiscing, a lot of suicidal thoughts. It was tough but I decided to heal on my own. Now, I found him. The man I’m about to marry. To you who’s reading this, I may not know your situation but whatever it is, take your time to heal. Go through the process. Give yourself more time. What’s meant for you will happen to you. So while you’re rebuilding yourself, pray for the ONE and keep fighting! You truly deserve someone better that is willing to give their all to you. You CAN do this. You’re so much stronger than this.
Thank you so much this it made me feel so much better I broke up with my boyfriend three months ago we haven’t talked since then but still have each other on social media I cried every hour every day for three months straight I still cry sometimes but not as bad as before but I do miss him especially he was my first boyfriend when we broke up I felt so suicidal things have gotten a little easier but I still have that fear that I’m not going to find someone as much as I liked him connection wise or what if I never find that person or what if I’m gonna be alone for the rest of my life. I really hope I find someone that will treat me how I’m suppose to be treated would love if gave any advice on how you coped and what helped you because sometimes I still feel lost.....
yessenia velasquez Hi! I’m so glad this touched you. I truly understand how you feel. You must be in a difficult place right now. And I’ve been there before, I thought that I could never find anybody who I could have a connection like I had but it’s all wrong, you see there is someone and there will be someone. It just seems so clouded and impossible to find someone because of the pain we feel. But trust me, you’ll get there. It’s all about walking through the process. Take your time. He was also my first boyfriend, I remember fighting for him so hard and then I realized, I’m wasting all of my energy in fighting for someone who’s never coming back. And honey, he doesn’t deserve that. He should be running after you, not you after him. So here’s how I did it. I focused on MYSELF, my FAMILY, and my FRIENDS. I went out and hung out with them, surrounded myself with good friends, I spent more time with my family, we would go on vacations. I also got rid of everything that reminds me of him. I did a room makeover, I stopped watching movies that would trigger my emotions, I mainly focused on making myself beautiful inside and out so that I could be ready for the next man that would love me. I understand if you feel lost, feel hurt but don’t stay there. Someone you DESERVE is going to love you, is going to treat you right, is going to take you out on an adventure, and make you feel so important. It’s all about just WAITING and HEALING. And when you’re all okay and you have found someone, come back to this comment, I want to hear more about you!
Blueberry1261 thank you a lot for sharing with me. I try to talk to other guys so I can get that validation but it just makes me more sad and makes me miss my ex more than I start to cry cause I haven’t fully healed yet I’m actually crying as I write this cause the pain is so unbearable and I just miss my ex a lot. I feel like he moved on already cause he hasn’t tried to contact me my thoughts always keep me hopeful that he will come back but I don’t think that’s gonna happen which crushes me I know I broke up with him but it made me feel guilty like I made a mistake even though I didn’t get the respect I deserved the memories of us always makes me miss him so much. I wish he stayed the same like in the beginning of the relationship but along the way I never made me a priority, constantly would lie to me and I have a feeling he was cheating on me. I feel so alone like I have no one I just want to be happy again....
yessenia velasquez what do you mean by validation? To feel important? If that’s so, trust me you don’t need it. You don’t need anyone to make you feel that you’re enough. You’re enough just the way you are. Believe me. Don’t take any word from other guys. Their words will only fail you in the end. And I know it’s hard, it’s sad but hey cry if you need to, cry til you get over it, cry til you’re tired of crying over him and then from then on I want you to decide for yourself that this will be the end of crying. I want you to start picking up yourself and move on. Honestly girl, we all make mistakes, but for someone to reject you and treat you with disrespect over a mistake just shows that he’s not worth it. Do you seriously want to put up with a guy who will just break your heart? He can’t even keep up with you now what more if you guys keep this relationship going. Someway or the another, he’ll end up doing stuff behind your back. So big NO. You need a man not a boy. But you know what sis, you just wait and see. I promise, don’t give up just yet, you will be happy and someone is going to make that a priority for you. Happiness is a choice. Do you want to stay home and think about him all day? No he doesn’t deserve your attention at all. So don’t be sad, it’s his lost not yours. Just keep doing whatever helps you move on. All will be better again. I promise. You’re not alone okay?
Blueberry1261 I just wanted to feel important to him every time I would tell him he would always ignore the problem it just made me feel worse about myself no matter what I do I think about him and I start to cry for hours I just want this pain to go away so badly I want to be happy again with my life and it feels like I never will be again. I don’t know what I did to deserve this but everyday I start to feel worse about my self and I don’t know what to do that’s why I feel so alone like I have nobody........
I denied how I really felt when my last relationship ended... I pretended like I was never feeling hurt or sad, in order to stay strong and move on quickly and get my life started. It did help... but during that time I could still feel the heaviness in my heart for a while. That is what doesn't sound good or healthy... now my heart/chest feels like this almost all the time and with other stress...
Hi. I am sorry to reply to your comment. I went through the same thing like you. He leave me by saying we will still meet in the future. However, he returned to his home country to get marry with the girl his parent set for him. Apparently he knew her for like 2 years plus. He agreed for that. I only knew about this after few days of his departure. I got angry like you did, however it got worse. Cry out loud. I did that. I even forgave him, however he should try to stay away from me. All I wanted to do to him is throwing coffee on him. At least, I did what Demi Lovato wrote in his lyrics. I practically revenge on him. And yes, later on, you'll realize it was much wonderful without him around. For me, I finally found that I could love someone new and fill this emptiness with new things. :-) You will too. Cry is not a bad thing actually. Denial? I went through that within that 10 days.
You can still try to feel those emotions that are buried in your heart. It will maybe lift the weight. Also, just know you're not weak for being sad over someone (or something).
Thank you for your kind words... it's key to find peace and wellness within yourself and be around those who truly love you and bring joy and happiness in your life. This is the journey and challenge I am taking on in my life right now.
It's one of our life experience in relationship which needs to go thru. Yes breakup hurts so much that could tear ur heart apart but then again life needs to go on. No matter how long u've been crying for, that person you once loved would no longer coming back to you, so it's not worth it. Let's move on and be free
Sabrina Tan Lian Ping at the start, it may seem like it's the end but soon you will start feeling better so don't worry and let time heal you! No need to do anything much, when the time is right you will be able to walk out of this!
While everyone is getting into tears because of this video, I'm smiling, because I did it all, without realizing. It took me quite a lot of time, but at the end of the day, I am happy with myself. I don't feel lonely, in fact, I am happy being alone, I have my freedom, time for my family, friends and much more. People come, and leave. Just accept this fact, and you'll always remain happy.
This helped me. Big time. I am the kind of person who doesn't easily move on from a heart break. I fall hard. Really hard that I forget to give a little space for myself. I realized I should not be watching nor reading 5 stages of GRIEF or MOVING ON but the stages on how to find yourself - the best version of yourself. Now, I can see that the memories are still there but I felt better. I am waking up every morning with a purpose. I became more open-minded and more matured in facing reality and I am enjoying being single. I am very certain that because of the things that happened in the past; I will be able to handle my next relationship better and I know I will be leaving something for myself so as to not forget who I am and to be able to give that next person love that we both deserved. Thank you WONG FU PRODUCTIONS! You rock! ;)
I just realized because Phillip makes an appearance at the end, this short feels like an unofficial sequel to "Strangers Again." But hey, maybe that's just me. Keep up the good work!
That would actually be a pretty cool thought! Would be amazing if it was revealed to be true. Then again, its the ambiguity that makes us wonder and give even greater meaning and appreciation for things (:
I watched this right after my breakup which was 3 months ago (together for 3 years lived together for less than a year) Just kept replaying this over and over again. Thinking what did I ever do wrong to deserve so much heartbreak? Later to find out, right after we broke up. It didn't take him long to find a girlfriend. Made me think every single day what did I do wrong? Is there something wrong with me? How can he move on so fast? But to this day.. I realized I need to let go of the past and live in my present and for my future. Life is too short to be stuck on someone who never deserved you. Nothing is wrong with you. You guys just weren't meant to be. Can I say I completely moved on? Of course not. But I'm finally letting go of my hatred and bitterness.. And I'm finally trying to become a better version of myself. A better version of myself that someone else deserving will love and accept. Hopefully those going through a breakup from a long term relationship realize that.. You deserve to be happy.
Going through this right now. Not a relationship, but a very special friendship. The thought of losing someone so close to you feels like a stab in your heart, the person you secretly fell in love with and that they won't know, the person that you went over the limit for, and the one who helped you discover the real you... will be all gone sooner or later. But I will be honest. I was the one that messed it up. Running away from problems won't help anything. I learned the hard way. But always use the past and learn from it.
Thank you Wong Fu Productions so much. To anyone who's going through a break up, this helps so much. I feel so much better and I am going through the stages myself whenever theres a break up, thank you WongFu, you made something special that changes my life. This isnt my first time watching this and certainly isnt my last
really well made video. I went through a divorce at 55 and break ups are hard at any age. I wish someone had told me some of my conflicted feelings were normal and you can still love someone but need to break up with them. You may even love them when you sign the divorce papers but you know full well you can't stay in an unhealthy relationship. A small piece of caring stays in your heart after the anger leaves but opening the heart for new love is necessary.
been there felt that way. got over it and when you least expect it you will find the one. i had a breakup not so long ago and 1yr later i am happy with someone else! :) happily engaged; i hope everyone finds happiness ♡ blessings
Me and my Girlfriend broke up last summer after almost three years of ups and downs, we broke up before, but we always felt the urge to come back cause the change is so drastic when you have that one person for so long in your life. When we came back we always tried to make it better, but we made it worse, to the point where we just hated each other, awww what happened to us? It was never easy, it was so damn hard. But after it we realized, we just had to let go, letting go; one of the most difficult things to do in life, but we have to, and we can just hope for the best, some say that maybe people leave our lives because someone better will come along. But I don't agree with that, "better' is not the right thing to say, maybe "the right one" will eventually come along and those people who will stay for good...
This is exactly what happened to me...I just broke up with my bf last night and it hurts so much having to let go after trying so hard for so long to make things work... Your words are really encouraging...
Thank you for posting this.. My first boyfriend and I recently broke up and I can't get used to not having him around. I repeatedly consider calling him to get back together but after reading this I know it's not the right thing to do. Thank you again
It's different for everyone. Watching this makes me think that it's more normal to think about him. It takes as long as you need. I force myself to get up and reflect on life and try to socialize as much as possible. I'm mixing all those stages together. There really are moments that I feel life is happy and there are so many possibilities awaiting. Yet when I close the door turn off the nights, I miss him. I wonder and I write about him in my diary even if he never really appeared. He was in my mind, occupying many of my thoughts. I ask myself when will it stop? And I don't know the answer right now. What I did figure out is that the questions that the current me asks, the future me will have an answer to.
Kevin R I moved on and found someone that adores me. Of course there’s ups and downs but I realized I need to relax more. Too much reflection leads to rumination. It’s probably really rough now with covid and that means some days, it’s okay to feel absolutely shit and have no motivation. Praise yourself for just eating or getting up. It’ll get better
This video helped me get over my first boyfriend 6 years ago. We were together for 2 years and then he broke my heart. It took me almost 2 years to get over him. Til this day I still come back and watch it, it means a lot to me. 💗 Wong Fu productions videos have helped me through a lot of tough times in the past
my boyfriend of 6 years just broke up with me. a week later, he’s started to see someone new. i can’t even describe how much it hurt even to watch this video.
Sigh. Im sorry. Life can be so cruel. I hope you find your real forever person. Pls dont close yourself off from love. This one just wasnt meant for you.
@@Mushokabanji I thought that my heart stopped beating at that moment. He has new girlfriend in just 1 week after. Just one day before breaking up he still said he love me.
Minh Ngọc I’m a guy and I’m going through this same thing. After my ex broke up with me I was definitely on stage one. I didn’t even want to get out of bed. 4 weeks ago she recently added me back on Snapchat after 4 months of not talking or anything . She even messaged me on Snapchat. Everything was going good until she told me she was dating someone else. That sent chills all through my body and I immediately started back to stage one. And I’m still here regretting messaging her. Why would she come back into my life just to hurt me again?
My relationship just ended yesterday and of course it still hurts a lot because it wasn't a lack of feelings but bad timing. Gonna be in stage 1 for awhile but I know I'll get through it eventually :/
Irene Sp You will get through this! I recently got back together with my bf. Take this time to recover and focus on yourself and your needs. As painful as it was, I'm grateful for the time we spent apart so I could take a step back and evaluate my life and goals
I remember watching this a long time ago... I didn't need it then. 5 years later... my first love, first heart break, and I'm back to this video. Man this is going to hurt.
"Before Us" or riot.
Rito pls
DOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOM IT IS ME MAILE REMEMBER ME
Domzz I fan!!
Then the Last of Us
oh my gosh DOMMMMMMMM!!!!!!!!!!!!! hi c:
To everyone experiencing a recent break-up, I promise you with time it'll get better. Keep your head up
thanks homie
I really thank you.
WOOJONG WHATCHU DOING HERE
Until it's one breakup to many, one failure to many. Until you wake up in your mid 30's, alone, failing at life even tho all you do is try with everything you have; only to be broken up with and laid off (again). Until the day you realize you are a leftover, the second choice, the one who just isn't good enough. When that happens, nothing makes it better, time makes it worse; and the best you can hope for is just to survive (Maybe).
woojong *-* you're the cutest. love your videos
Some people were meant to fall in love but not meant to be together.
It hurt reading that D:
+Angelo Mendiola Can this really happen? When both really loves each other, but yet couldn't be together? What are the possible reasons for that?
+Angelo Mendiola AHH THAT COMMENT HIT ME SO HARD MAN WHY WOULD YOU DO THIS TO ME
+Sophia Cortina lmao so true
Been there
This is like a metaphor for how much we miss Kev.
Ikr I miss him so much
Sad, sad situation.
so true..
so true😭😭😭I was just thinking about it
sadly yes
lol the fact that phil cast himself as the cute guy in the coffee shop
+EyewristChin Lol yeah
+Iris Cause he has the looks for it.. =P
Iris hahahahah
Sweet Love nah, i look way better than him
Hahaha I think he's aware that he's ridiculously attractive
I need that voice in my head. It's probably the most beautiful, most reassuring voice I've ever heard...
+Eden Chan DONT DO DRUGS
+Eden Chan what about morgan freeman's voice?
alex pan Nah, man
+Eden Chan your's is better.
The worst part is knowing he won't feel the same way
You don't know that.
Dots And Lines Totally. Guys don't feel.
hasen195 that's bullshit, I'm a guy and I really just needed to watch this video after my last relationship
tmbshon My comment was meant as sarcasm. I'm a guy myself, and I've had such experiences.
***** I think you've been looking the wrong way. Not all men are like that. Actually those guys that who just go for one night stands aren't men, there boys. You've been looking at boys. Men take care of there woman and keep em for good. Boys go for girls that are sluts, do drugs and live a fake life. If you change your self to a woman than you'll find a man. If you keep looking at boys, than you'll get nothing but boys, and say the same shit.
My friend showed me this video while I was going through my breakup last winter. It was difficult for me to watch, I cried so much at th first couple of seconds. I closed it right away because I knew the video was so close to the truth, it was hard for me to accept that this will be my reality. At the time, I wished so hard for us to get back together. We were together for almost 4 years, it couldn't have ended there...not when I needed him the most. At the time, I didn't want to live anymore because the person I needed the most, left me aside. I was going through personal problems which put a strain on our relationship. However, I kept telling myself that this is only temporary...the storm will eventually subside. I had to keep in mind that I am a fighter, a survivor, an independent woman. I watched this video today to see how much progress I've made. I cried again, not when it showed the first step but when it showed the last couple steps. Why? Because I did it. I made it through the hardest time of my life and I survived. There are absolutely no words to describe the pain I was going through all of 2015...I rly thought I wouldn't make it. Right now, I feel happy. I feel excited. Relieved. Renewed. I am not going to lie, there are times where I do miss my ex and wonder how he is doing. I have relapsed an immense amount of times, but that is ok. Everything you are going through is ok. I feel happy rebuilding myself. I am finally finding me again. I'm learning more about myself and realizing the fact that this quiet little girl has a strong bone in her body. The fact that I am still single doesn't bother me because I am enjoying the time that I have for myself. I wanted to share this because I was never a believer about things ever getting better, BUT THEY DO. PLEASE WAIT, GIVE TIME AND NEVER GIVE UP. You will see the end of the tunnel and a light will be shining for you to see that you made it out of the dark.
thank you so much for this
so happy you made it! after reading your comment I got more hope that I will be better one day just like you. I broke up with my bf a month ago.. after being together for 7 years lived together for 5 years.. I watched this video 4 years ago and I cried already even though I was in a relationship with my ex now back then. I will remember this comment you wrote cause its so real. THANK YOU
I am now breakup with my bf. I read your comment and it make me a little relief. Thanks for the comment. Please tell me I will also pass this hard time.
@@YuYu-xr5fb Hello there. I hope you are doing well. I'm glad to hear that you were able to find a sense of relief from my story. It's a difficult battle, but what is life without any challenges to face? Allow yourself to feel how you are currently feeling. If you need to cry, pls cry. If you need to vent, pls share. If you need guidance, pls ask & never apologize for anything, it is all part of the healing process. It hurts to see the person you loved and cared for turn and face the other direction. However, I always believe in things happening for a reason. Just remember, the people who are meant to be in your life are the ones who are willing to stay, regardless at how hard things get. Don't make time for someone who isn't willing to make time for you. I don't know your story nor your situation, but I do know that you are strong and you can fight through anything. Breakups are hard, but ask yourself, what have you learned from the relationship? What can you take away from it? Were you always happy? Can you be ok being alone? It really is a blessing in disguise because once you realize that you are truly okay, you can fully appreciate the amount of growth made. Believe in yourself, love yourself & most importantly, take care of yourself my friend.
Thank you so much for sharing❤️your words are helpful and I wish everyone that can relate to this get out of it eventually
tbh, this is the best video to watch after a break up
Hey guys, whoever is experiencing a heart break I promise it gets better. I'm finally able to watch this video without crying and I feel happier without him. It gets better, through time. I promise.
Lmao I fell in love with someone else and I’m back to step 1. Since he broke up with me a month ago.
Thanks I really needed this. Hope you're doing well too
I never fully understand how painful breakups can be until I'm going through the ending of my first serious relationship. 5 years, 5 years full of beautiful memories and a promise that we'll be together forever. He broke the promise along with my heart and now I'm here alone picking up the pieces.
things will get better =) in time. just believe they will. sending you positive vibes... because thats really tough. heartbreak is terrible.
Time heals all, im sure you will find someone else in the future :)
I come to this video everytime I experience a heartbreak. It’s like a comfort video
Ended a 3 year long distance relationship a few hours ago. Now having a jkfilms, Domics, and Wong Fu productions marathon (:
Update: hello! I’m still here haha. Much happier and learned to smile whenever I thought about that particular relationship. We were young and carefree, it was an amazing experience nonetheless. All is good! Hope all of you are doing well. Thank you for your kind words ☺️
@JasmineV That's a healthy way to start recovering. Be strong ! --- With love :)
Literally me too. 3-4yrs together and he told me he loves me but the next he broke it off out of the blue. Im in such pain but Wong Fu man lol
same ended a 5 months ldr now causing myself hard ,and blaming and trying to move on
Same
How do you even type a (: God bless
Lol, Philip writing about how cute he is.
Very sneaky, Philip. Very sneaky indeed.
hahaha
TRUE
Haha thats what I thought too! xD
where's that part?
TianTiannie when it says there's nothing wrong with smiling at that cute guy in the coffee shop! xD haha
This video is about to hit its 10 year mark. I really appreciate this video a lot. It reminds me of how a girl thinks after a breakup. It also reminds me to treat one just right. 9 years... I still remember the day this video was uploaded. Thanks Wongfu
This is so real, I always come back here even though I’m in the best place. It reminds me of what I’ve felt before and it brings me so much peace.
Wrongful really popped off w this tbh.
I think it's harder when it's your first love... Because I don't want to let go
AsianProdigyProductions i just went through the same. My first love and I didn’t do anything wrong but yet he treated me like crap and didn’t choose me. But I want to let go. But I can’t. I really want to but I need more time.
@@eval3509 i couldnt fall in love despite even being in a 3 year relationship before. I finally fall in love with my best friend and we have to break up because it's for the best. He was my best friend, my lover, my first love and was the one. Watching this video hurts like hell. I've been hurt many times in life and had people i loved died. It feels as he died except he's alive and in idk a year or even a couple years from now he'll meet someone knew and fall in love it kills me thinking about that. I even thought, "what if im still agonizing over him while he falls in love and happier with her?" I hope we both can get over each other and find the one.
my first love, got relationship for 3 years, then LDR for 3 months, but he broke me up because we're in different religion and his mom doesn't approve us
OMG KEVV JUMBAAAA O_O!!!! YAY!!!
I see you Wengie!! Hehe luv your channel!!
Hiiiiii
HE'S ALIVE!!!!
wengie you like Kevin too?😍
+KatrinaYap My name is Katrina Yap too! Lol.. just had to point that out.
I rmb watching this film when my relationship started, and I came back watching it again when it all ended.
Charis Stephany i feel you....
Me too
I really want to see this on a boy's point of view tbh
Some guys feel the same way. Me for example, My gf broke up with me on valentines and i was going through everything in this vid, except it went on for a year and i dont wear make up.
Sarah B. IKR!
I definitely think guys have it rough too if they are halfway decent just watching my daughter's break ups. The decent guys take the high road after the emotions die down a bit. I didn't realize how deeply teenage guys could feel about a relationship. You always hear about the guys who don't care and use girls.
Life tobelived thats cause the guys who do care arent allowed to admit to it, and even if they did it wouldnt be as known or emotionally provoking so the story wouldnt get to most people... and with guys this video does a pretty good job almost the exact same
guys don't give a fuck once it's over we don't think about it we simply move on no point in grieving a dead relationship
I used to watch this every time I’d go through a break up and it’s helped me process and move on from those relationships. Years later, I’m now going through divorce with the one person I thought I’d spend a lifetime with. It feels so unreal to be here again and I hope this really isn’t the end.
The beginning is almost exactly what dealing with a breakup looks like.
Because you've had so many.
GamerX998 It is true what Simon said, obviously you've never experience an actual break up like this. So what you've said was really stupid.
BasicallyJoyce
I never said it wasn't true.
GamerX998 i know you didnt. but just because he had so many ex doesn't mean he didnt experience the feelings.
GamerX998 Yea you don't have to be rude
I broke up with him and yet I'm the one having the hardest time with it. I never knew you could regret something so much.
Same here. It hurts even more that he seemed to move on faster and I'm still at stage 1.
same
same here
same here, but think of all the courage it took to finally give up bc you never saw a future, you thought he'd at least support, respect. You can be better :) (your case must be different)
It did take courage, I guess, but it was a stupid decision. I knew I loved him and let other people get in my head because they were people who I thought cared about me, but they just knew how to play with my mind. The good news is that he gave me a second chance and we're back together. :)
When you watched it like a 100 times and finally thought you could make it through the whole video without crying and then the music kicks in at the end and guess what happened
9 months has passed and watching this video doesn't add pain or sadness anymore. I'm so relieved and happy
+Angelo Mendiola I'm happy for you
+popepic0 Im also happy
Ikr
This is literally me. I keep on challenging myself not to cry even after 100x of watching it
When my boyfriend and I broke up, I watched this several times and I cried each time. It hasn't been that long since then but I don't cry anymore watching this and I think that's progress. I'm at step/stage 2 and I feel much better.
Angelica Jazmin I do that too! I've been doing it 5 months now and i'm in the rebuilding step and it feels so good. All the best!
Miracle Wong cant wait to be in that step...uhh...it's the 2nd day
Irene Sp it gets easier. But I'd be lying if I said that I haven't had relapses. It hurts like hell but at least you'll know that that love was real.
I'm just curious how are you now?
Same. Im also curious?
This is very deep. Really shows how women feel after break up. Maybe you can make a male version of this and help us to see the insights of men?
Aselin Chen And men.
Aselin Chen I agree. I could share my personal insight with you, I'm 25 now, and made sure to document my emotions, feelings, and thoughts through-out this journey of being with someone. It wasn't easy but I'm still here. Quite frankly, at least from this persepctive of Carley, it's almost the exact same (for me at least) with a few minor exceptions. I hope this helps.
Aselin Chen As Brandon stated, its pretty much the same process with perhaps one of the exceptions being the desire to "reestablish" one's "masculinity," by finding someone new a little bit sooner maybe? to make ourselves feel a little bit better? (doesn't work very often though lol).
Trust me on this one, for atleast me and a couple other guys out there... this is the male version :/
Wong fu did a video called "Strangers Again"
Maybe what you're looking for
i've watched this a million times, and i cannot even exaggerate how true it is
You are right its just like that
The girl actor is so pretty even if she tries to look gross she still pretty!
+Cynthia Gomez The magic of Victoria Park, dude.
Jabari Spears a
Never had a break up... seeing this makes me not want to experience one. It made me feel so bad for her, I cried for her wow... you guys really know how to get to people! Also, I may have been crying just seeing that kevin was in this... maybe.
***** I will. I just don't want to experience the break up part. Just watching this made me cry... I could never imagine myself literally in this situation... I'd probably die.
+lIlIIlIIIlIIIIlIIIII That's really sad and unfortunate. I feel bad for you. But SHE wasn't worth it. The love the gave HER wasn't worth it. The time you spent with HER wasn't worth it. Because SHE wasn't worth you. Don't give up on love. Your first love isn't always your true love. That's like saying your first attempt is always your last attempt. No. You keep trying till things go right. And I'm fully sure, that you will meet the girl who IS worth your time, love and presence!
lIlIIlIIIlIIIIlIIIII Sadly sometimes pain is part of the process... and im more than sure that your true girl, your other half will meet you soon. And that pain you had? You won't even remember it. Then again, they always say you always remember your first love. And if she was unfaithful, then that's like remembering your first mistake right? And thank you. You seem very kind. I know your girl is out there somewhere!
+Ryan Kam Lol dunno what you mean by that
+Ryan Kam sorry I genuinely didn't understand your comment...
I.... just cried so hard. It's so hard. I want to get out of it. But I'm glad to know I am not alone. I was the first one to break up with the person rather than being the one who was dumped. I did it because the relationship is so unhealthy. We both are depressed. I find myself wanting to get back again but I stop myself so hard.
+MsErikaOh same
Me too I literally am the same as you and it's hard because I love him so deep and I keep looking at old message etc but time is a healer hope your doing ok
Literally the same here..
+Anke J. Geef niet op Anke. Ik weet dat we 't kunnen.
Same :(
7 months later... I'm still on step one... why are you like this to me heart.
same
some times you just got to think with your mind, time heals all and keep telling yourself its not the end of the world
Just entered step one. This is going to hurt, isn't it.
It may be tough to start with, but you will get through it. Don't dwell on the bad things. Don't think of the rough journey that u will go through. Think about the goal. As they say, eyes on the prize. Jk. Try to think more about the better person u will be after all the hard times.
+Alice Lolita Oh yes...
It's gonna hurt like a bitch, but surround yourself with friends. Actually get up and do things with them. Find distractions. Don't try to do that "staying friends" crap, because it never works.
just wondering how you are doing?
does life gets better? I hope life gets better :)
Much MUCH better :3 Thanks ^.^
I always revisit this video whenever I or a friend goes through a breakup. This is honestly a masterpiece
Once he walked out the door, KevJumba was never seen again. Ever.
Suspect except on college campuses where he is preaching about his new found religion. hes gone nuts
^^ he didn't go nuts he's doing what he believes in and what he wants
JimmyxMurphy wait can you explain to me? What is he preaching about?
Byamba N he's breaching about hare Krishna google it
6465naruto its really good
Phil set himself up for this I just know it haha. "That cute guy in the coffee shop" He called dibs on the part.
Well, he did write it! ;)
lol lol lol
i actually didn't want that line in, especially the word "cute". And I almost wanted to cut that whole scene out, heh. It was insisted otherwise. Sorry that I was there.
pwangs But it was a good scene! I'm glad you kept it in. All good-natured teasing on our part, of course. :)
It's heartbreaking to know how someone so important to you decides to just walk out of your life one day. All the memories made. The secrets told, trust, a bond made, etc..then one day it's put to an end. I understand if someone isn't happy in a relationship it's better to leave, but what I don't understand is the opposite of that. How can someone tell you that they will be there for you, that you can always talk to them, how they will stay by your side right to your face and prove that all wrong? Just throw away everything they said. It's sad to know that, once there gone, there gone. And this video proves so much. Each step and feeling. That's what makes it a beautiful video to watch because you can connect to it and see what's basically happens.
From time to time, I come back to watch older WF videos, and this is a favorite. It reminds of where I was 7 years ago (separation and divorce of almost a 20 year relationship), and where I am now (happily married to a wonderful woman who is turning into my best friend).
I just ended a three year and eight month relationship. It was my doing, but I'm having a hard time. We had the same friends, and he was my best friend. It's been almost two months, and I'm having a hard time not having any one left to talk to. His family is bashing me on social media, my former co-workers (which is where he works currently) won't speak to me, and almost all of our friends aren't my friends anymore - they're his. I told one of our best friends (we called ourselves the "tri-force" - like Legend of Zelda) to stay being his friend and help him through this, but I think I forgot to tell him I still need a friend as well. This video is kind of helping me keep going. It's helping me to stay positive.
Thanks Wong Fu :)
Majority who came to see this video also had a bittersweet ending, it's been 5 months later after a 2 year relationship. It was tough when you love someone so much yet the timing was off. And peace of mind wasn't available. Sleepless nights, I took all the items out and returned it and also threw some out. And yes, guys do cry. I cried while driving. Like baby mode. As time goes by, you'll realize it's just one of those tough trials. Or that movie 500 days of summer. Where some people are meant to fall in love but not meant to be together. Keep that in mind. All I know she's with someone new already after a month. Fast and leaves a poor taste but not all people are the same. I, on the other hand seeing this girl and I'm at the courting stage. Date is set on the 23rd. Wish me luck. Be strong! Smile. Mr right is Right around the corner. I'm not looking for someone better. I'm looking for someone who's right with me. Take care.
+Yuuko I understand what you're feeling. I ended an almost 10 1/2 year relationship the beginning of the year. The first few months were rough, torture, and a nightmare. It does get better, even if you wake up one day and just go "whoa, i made it" Continue to stay positive with all that you got. And just keep watching Wong Fu as they always got their fans back :)
Stacie Nguyen I'm sorry to hear it didn't work out. Weird how you can be with someone for so long and in the blink of an eye, it's all over. Then, at some point, you don't even know them anymore. Thank you for your kind words. I've been keeping busy with work, and school. Just keeping my head up and talking to the people who didn't leave when I left my ex. I hope you are doing well though :)
Angelo Mendiola I know it will get better one day. And I'm over him - I mean, you get over someone pretty quick when they don't defend you during the relationship or after the breakup. It's just hard changing routine, and realizing who were my friends and who weren't. I'm sorry about the breakup between you and your ex. Long relationships are wonderful, but devastating when they end. But I think all of us - even people reading this who may have been in a similar situation - will be just fine. Life goes on. And you're right Angelo, maybe Mr. Right is just around the corner. :)
+Yuuko Very true. I basically grew up with this guy and everything I am is because of it. From friends, to best friends, to thinking forever, to now just living my life. I'm lucky I'm still in my early 20's but I gotta say, dating in the adult world is scary. I'm really just doing me. Do the best you can for yourself and every day do one thing that makes you happy, even if it is as small as just eating a piece of chocolate :) Every experience, whether bad or good, take it in strides. They each are there for you to learn from.
my gf broke up with me few days ago..i promise not to cry..but this video..this video....push me through the barrier...and now i am just crying non stop
It's okay :) it's healthy to cry. You shouldn't not cry. Just remember, crying isn't for the weak, it is for those that have been strong for too long :)
its okay spongebob is here
Well done my friends. :*)
DAVID!!
HI DAVID.
Yeah David. You are the person who introduced me and my mates here in Australia to Wong Fu. Yeah!
Aussie Aussie Aussie - yeah, I am that guy from the Sydney concert a few years back.
You are the best mate! I really like your music, your story, your Ted lecture and that you introduced me to Wongfu and Rian Hiag and all.
mootfw2001 rian hiag? Ryan Higa? :P
2014: i met you and talked to you in person. Bought your album which contained songs about being single. And now im single too.... :( thanks for the autograph though
I always come back to this video when I need a boost--regardless of if I'm going through a breakup or not, the journey she goes through from being not ok to being ok gives me hope.
We all want KevJumba back in our lives... :(
Yeah
+Amethyst Cahill yeah totally
+Amethyst Cahill KEVIN LOOKS SUPER SKINNY HERE! Is he well??
SheenShow I guess we can all hope and trust that he is healthy and well with his activities these days
Amethyst Cahill Didn't hear abt him in this year...
Great stuff as aways, guys. Except Phil. X
I WANNA SEE NAT IN A WF VID
Your comment says "no", but your eyes, your eyes say "yes".. and they're twitchin.. wth??
Nat!!!
Alix she already has! it's a quiz thingy :)
I want nat to be in one og Wong Fu's shorts. . . I hope XD
wow im surprised by some of the comments on here.. theres some real haters out there.. for a group of people who started out making videos from when they were young with barely any budget.. to now making memorable videos that are so moving with millions of views.. i'm happy for you guys. great job man. keep up the good work and ignore the stupidity of online..
Thanks for understanding what we've been through, and where we're still striving to go. =)
It isn't stupidity and it isn't hating. If you can't take criticism then you never advance (although clearly WFP has taken NONE of the feedback to heart except for the positive ones). It's undeniable that this narrative is one of the weakest in recent releases; though that's not saying much considering the lackluster content in general. While the idea might be worth filming (here's a hint, it isn't), it certainly wasn't fleshed out well in reality.
Couldn't agree with you more.
turtlehater2 It may not be hating but what is to say that the criticism was constructive? And how are you to say that WFP "clearly has taken NONE of the feedback to heart"? They clearly read the comments and write stories that a great majority of the audience can relate to beyond multiple boundaries. Yes, this may not have your favorite narrative of their overall releases but it does not entitle you to claim how Wongfu responds in terms of feedback because I highly doubt you've filtered through the feed reading it all. pwangs,Wongfu, and the actors did a fantastic job and I took her voiceover to be the clear-headed part years later that is saying what she would have told herself then. I was touched and can only hope that someday I will fall in love as deeply as that.
turtlehater2 lol why does your name have the word hater in it? but seriously, when considering all the amazing projects wfp has done, im pretty sure its really hard to come up with original ideas. I'd love to see your amazing debut on youtube turtlehater2
My relationship of 7.5 years just ended. She was literally a quarter of my life. I don't know who I am without her. It's going to be really hard from now on.
felt the same way and it is harder when they move on with someone else but we have to block all the distraction :D
@@x1llestx Dear my fellow Viets, I promise everything will be fine. Keep on going. I will too 🥺
How are you feeling these days?
Yeah 3 years after how are things going?
I'm still remember i found this video few months after I broke up with him, and keep watching this repeatedly while crying on my bed and didn't want to get up and do anything. Just curled up in my bed and cry for hours. 10 months later, I'm watching this video again and proudly say that, I'm now has move on to 'renewed' stage :')
Life do gets better.
I'm with you lol it's been 9 months on my end with no closure and no contact. Watching this video again doesn't have the same effect on me 9 months ago. Funny thing is I'm with someone now and it's been 2 months with this new special girl in my life.. Yesterday, I got s text from my ex. She asleep how I was doing and wanted to know my personal life. I could clearly tell she wasn't doing right just by she text. So she told me she's not with the guy anymore. Our relationship lasted almost 3 years. Then she found this guy she had in the past and got together after a month we split. Most painful thing ever. But I'm passed all that, and telling her that I'm with this girl is refreshing and I'm very much happy where my heart is at.
+Angelo Mendiola Your new girl is so lucky because you think about new beginning, new future, and fresh start with her and not looking back at the past. My ex? we broke up because he's still can't forget his past girl and clearly he doesn't think of me as his future. We were bestfriend. We started our relationship right after he broke up with his gf. I knew, he didn't like me. I always knew. Maybe I shouldn't confess to him and accept him to become from bff to bf. He was my happy pill, my world, my everything. I still remember that day when I called him and ask what's wrong, he just cried and said sorry that he's not a right guy for me, he keeps saying this relationship won't worked out. Because of his ex before me, he said he can't take the risk to be in a relationship again. I ask him why don't this time, just believe in me, believe in us. Let' starts everything all over again, just hold my hand and we take the risk together. i want to take care of him and make him happy. But he keep saying I'm deserve better. Right now, I'm just want to be happy in my life and not looking back at past. Now we are just two strangers with memories who walk past each other in the hallway everyday.
It's so weird how much this actually helps isn't it? :)
I lost him in september. Officially mid September. He moved on a day later to the girl who tried to break us up. I was broken for a month but now i am stronger than ever. I feel so free. I go out and hang with my friends. I go running every morning and I am smiling everyday. I used to be so sad thinking of him and that she stole him and I wuld get upset when friends send me stuff bout them but now? Now im just like okay thats cool lets talk about something else. I lost a three year relationship to some btch but that's okay. Im okay. So to whoever is out there still sad. You can do it. Keep going keep smiling because each day that pasts is one day you have lived without them.
how did u get over this kinda betrayal..i m not able to...angry sad nd not gud enuf
+Note Galaxy you just have to realize your own self worth and realize you deserve better than what they have to offer. It may hurt like hell and it definetly sucks but keep going. Surround yourself with friends and people who care about you. Its not the end of the world because someone better will come along the way. Trust me :)
+VancityGirl45 Hi, really happy to hear that you moved on, I just experience more or less the same situation as you, my girl fell in love with another boy while still maintaining a relationship with me. It was 4 years of memories and its all gone within a month's time. I don't know how can I get out from this mess and I feel really hurt each day when I see them together doing things what we used to do, always. I'm trying to distract myself with a lot of things but I realise nothing has made me feel better cause the feeling keep coming back no matter how.
How can I be like you?
+Superksyman just focus on yourself. Surrond yourself with friends and family who care about you and remember there's better people out there who deserve you and will find you. If they were meant to be with you they wouldn't have left you for someone else... You will be okay!
This gives me hope..
2 weeks. Still on step one.
Fricken 2 months for me
wow yall must of been together for a long time. I know how you feel I've been there.
+Jesus Garcia 1 month already and I'm still here :(
1 week and im still at stage 1. :(
+Glysentte Mier that's perfectly.. its not about how long its take to finally moved on.It's been 5 months since my boyfriend brokeup with me , and Im on stage 3 :) I thought I was going to cry when I watched this but seems like it makes me feel stronger :)
The breakup story of Kevjumba and UA-cam
Dear Reader/Viewer, You are beautiful, smart, funny and the world wouldn't be the same without you. Please don't stress, wipe away your tears, and smile for the world again, because you are special and unique in every way. Everything will be Ok.
I've cried over my ex almost every night or every night. At some point of time, I feel like 'whats the point of crying?' because i have cried for him for so long. It helps me to move on, and get over him but not 100%. Crying as often as possible actually helps. One day you will naturally like it is no point crying over that person. Go on, cry. But make sure NOBODY knows or checks you out
+dbm cecillia Crying is one of the best way to relieve stress. It's okay to cry :) I'm crying too, on this inside.
Today, I ended my first relationship ever, after 3 years of being tgt. I first watched this short when I was 13-14 and knew nothing about love and have returned to it throughout the years. I would read all the comments and wonder if I myself would ever be coming here in the midst of my own breakup. I didn’t even want to imagine how painful it could be. But today, it ended up happening. And this video hit me like a truck. Thank you Wong Fu for creating a video that so poignantly portrays all the emotions one feels during a breakup and the process of healing. To everyone going through a breakup rn, sending you hugs. We’ll make it through and come out of this stronger. ❤️
Be strong you will get thru it and it will be alright. I think going through the process is hard and necessary .For at the end you become stronger and wiser than before.
I know this video is old af, but here I am.
My long distance girlfriend of 4 years just broke up with me... I mean, yeah what did I expect, long distance relationships isnt for everyone. Knowing the risks, I still did it. Fought hard for it. And now, for that same reason I'm now alone by myself.
I know no one will read my comment because the video and comments are old, but it does give me comfort knowing im not the only one going through this.
This video resonates so much when things make sense, it was the perfect moment to watch it. Thank you Wong Fu and thank you for all the testimonies from all of you that will help people going through hard time like me right now in 2024.
I read your comment. Time will heal everything.
This video stands the test of time and is still very relevant to lots of people who experience breakup and hardships. I even watch it when I feel lonely and it gives me hope and inspiration.
I read your comment too brother. My LDR of two years ended just the other day after I respected her decision to end it even though my opinions differed. I thought I fought hard to the very end as well. I don't personally know you but I hope you're doing better now 5 months after you commented.
I'm now down a Wong Fu rabbit hole right now trying to understand what went wrong in my own relationship
@@tivee1 damn bro I'm sorry for you. It's never easy. Most important is that it was for the best for you also. And well if you didn't have the choice, it means she didn't deserve you in the first place. Trust me. You deserve to be loved the way you want.
I don't feel any better tbh, that break-up particularly broke me to pieces. She texted me back after a few months out of despair because she felt alone. Not because she really wanted to be with me. And I took the courage to tell her not to text me back. I stood for myself, I'm not a backup plan whenever she feels sad or bad. So Bro, yes, watch them WongFu videos if that helps you feel better. Let yourself feel those emotions so you can come back stronger!
Do not try to understand what went wrong. You did your best and trying to understand why won't bring her back Bro. What's done is done. If the person really loved you, she would have stayed despite all the hardships. We all have our limits. We need to know when they are crossed so it doesn't destroy us.
@@YourSweetPotato same for me. I often watch different videos from them and they help me understand myself better but also helping me going through those feelings and emotions.
I remember watching this video 6 years ago when going through a break up….. I promise guys! It gets better! You will find your person! Today I’m happily married and so very happy and thankful! You will get through it!
The last time I needed a wakeup Wong Fu released "Strangers Again" and I've been in dire need of a wakeup for a nonspecific amount of time and all the time I can only think of her and how long it will be until I'm over her and what a "normal" amount of time to get over someone is. I couldn't be more pleased with the answer of the question "How long was I there" in the prelude to Release in this which was "It doesn't matter." It makes me feel validated to know that it will happen but at my own pace and there is no other pace that should matter - which is what I thought but always fear being "wrong" in a sense (if that makes sense?). Thank you Wong Fu for always finding a way to evoke such strong emotions in me when I feel dead half the time. This could not have come at a better time. Keep up the amazing work everyone.
LucJenson I'm glad our work could help you once again. That means so much to us.
I just lost my guy after 8 years of being together. And this video is sooooo true.. But it helps! Love it!
This really hit hard. Its been 3 weeks since my break up and I've been feeling so lost. Sometimes I'm ok and sometimes I just miss him a lot and want to call him. I know he wasn't good for me but I do miss the person he was when we first started dating. I'm trying my best to work on myself and move on and I can't wait to see the person that I become in a few months or even years
Same
I hope you’re one step closer to being the person you want to be and one step closer to being happy
@@bluebee825 Thank you! I've gotten so much better. I became closer with a lot friends that I didn't have a chance to hang out with much just because I was with my ex all the time. They were the ones that took me outside and made me try out new things and helped me find what genuinely made me happy. I've never loved myself so much and I don't blame myself for everything anymore. Its so crazy how much time healed me but I couldn't ask for better people by my side :)
I'm in the stage of reminiscing and retracting. I can't help it but lay in bed with my broken heart and cry it all out. I watched this over and over to motivate myself and move on with my life. But as of right now, im still trying to pass this stage and get on with rebuilding myself. I'm just too weak right now that I cant even pull myself up from my bed. I'm just too broken that the pieces can't put itself back together. When can I finally pass this stage? How long will it take? How long will I have to wait?
Theres no time limit on these things.... sadly. your heart will mend sooner or later. :)
just realize that you are not alone and many others have experience this stage as well. be strong. i know its not easy and easier for me to say it. but please be strong. take your time. time will mend your wounds. its the routine that you miss.
Try eating.
dont worry about when you will get out of that stage because i did the same you thing you did. Like the video said, its okay. Its okay to miss its okay to cry. It took me a month to get over it. Weeks of crying being helpless depress alone wanted to be loved. Dont force yourself. Just let it happen. Right now im in the 2nd stage. (:
Life is hard, but trust me it'll only get better. Think of good old Patrick eating icecream. :)
I think the beautiful thing about this short is that it is applicable to much more than just a difficult breakup. My first love was a horrible, abusive individual and it took me years to get through all the stages after we broke up - but the thing that I found most compassionate about this video was someone telling the heroine, "It's okay to feel exactly how you feel right now." A lot of people had advice when I was going through tough times, but not one of them said, "It's okay to feel the way you feel."
Thank you for making a video that tells people they do not need permission to feel how they feel or to react the way they are reacting. ♥ Wong Fu Productions, you are truly inspiring. ^^ I am happily married now, but I still find watching this video comforts me when I am having a rough day.
INKDOG Thank you for sharing your story. It was definitely a conscious decision to make the short not end with finding someone new. Allow yourself to go through the necessary emotions, use them to make yourself better. Glad you made it out to a happy marriage. You'd be a great example to many here. =)
I remember when my girlfriend and I used to watch this same exact video a year ago. We have been going out for two years and we have broken up last week. I remember when we would always reassure each other about how we would never end up like this. It's just sad because something that I have never expected became a reality and it's terrifying. I just want to let anyone out there who is in a relationship still, never take your loved one for granted because you will never know when your special someone will be gone.
Just like what happened to me.
dead bc kevin was cute in this
When is he not?
no one wants to fuck an emasculated short "cute" asian guy with no confidence. Girls only wanna fuck chad.
Owen Wu r/niceguys
My first love and I were together 5 years (1 yr together in person and 4 yrs long distance). He couldn’t continue the relationship or see a future with me anymore. This video is helping me so much even though i’m having the hardest time accepting his decision. I’m not ready yet but i’m going to do my best to move forward with my life.
You posted this comment 6 months ago. I'm sure it hasn't been easy... Just a little encouragement from someone who's been in your shoes, keep pushing fwd sis- it does get better 🙂🤗
Things will get better:)
Samuel S-Moua thank you! fast forward to almost a year and I’m doing great and so much happier ☺️😁
Lomani Seninawanawa hey sis! thank you so much! it’s been almost a year I can’t believe it. I’m really so much happier. I hope you are doing well ❤️
@@mydarlinglina That is awesome to hear! 😀 Yes- doing great here too, thank you 😊 Lots of love from Fiji ❤️
her voice is so relaxing
When you hear that one person that you would do anything for has fallen out of love with you hurts the most .... 💔😞
I think im in the circle of all the steps. I cried hard, miss him, feel a bit better, go out, have some smile, accidentally saw thing remind me of him.... Then think hard & let it go... Then try to rebuild a new me, try to love myself more... And after 4 months, the circle repeat. I end up crying...missing him..dont want to go out etc...
Moni Tif Same here. It has been 6 months now. It feel exactly the same about it. He is into another relationship right now. Anyway how are you now? Been a year since you commented.
I feel the same.
God I feel this so hard right now. I'm still stuck in the first phase though, sometimes jumping to the second but I somehow always fall back...
pandannep =( cliche to say..but time really does heal. hang in there
I'm recovering from a crushing breakup of my own right now, and I've never had such a strong emotional connection to an entire video before.
Although this video made me cry violently and loudly, it also gave me hope for the future.
Wong Fu, thank you from the bottom of my heart for reminding me that it will get better and eventually the huge weight of pain and fear will be lifted. This video gave me the push I needed to start moving toward phase 2.
even in videos kevjumba's disappearing
Son Goku Kevjumba! I like it :)
Son Goku He's been abroad building/running a school for children who need education. I wonder if he is back for good or just for a visit
I reckon he either quit UA-cam or taking a break to try and pursue his career as a real actor! There's a new upcoming movie featuring Justin Chon and KevJumba.. www.imdb.com/title/tt1396523/?ref_=nm_knf_i4
So.. who knows? He might come back? :D
Son Goku see his instagram
Having this video recommended to me 8 years after I first watched it, and right as I am going through the most painful breakup I've ever had, really hurts my soul. I now not only hurt because there is no longer an 'us', but also because one day, there may come a time when I am happy again without her. Just the thought of her not being in my mind all day and night, and the heavy emotions of our time together no longer carrying any weight anymore, truly hurts.
WHY I HAVE A BROKEN HEART THAT WON'T HEAL...when my gf broke up with me, I went through all of this. I'd be walking alone in the mall and I thought I saw her and I'd turn around and she was gone. I didn't brush my hair before I went to school and my friends acted like they were helping by saying they hated her or that I could do better. I stayed in bed all day and sat at my computer, constantly checking my facebook and my phone for any trace of her. I even changed her name on my phone to the worst mistake I ever made. All caps. It's been two months and I still struggle. I need someone to inspire me, someone who I will fall for. But they're not there. I just need a fresh start but I can't find it. I wish i could move on but it's not that easy. I see life without her except when I see her out and about, which just is a kick to the groin. anyone else going through this, please respond. I can't feel like I'm the only one. I can't move on. I am utterly alone. I am lonely. I have friends, but they don't understand. They are all in relationships and happy. I've never felt worse in my life. She broke my heart and a few halfhearted compliments and empathetic texts from friends who are in healthy relationships doesn't help. Now my best friend is hanging out with my ex, as if the rest wasn't already hard enough. That's my story. and i wish it would come to an end.
you're not alone ! God loves you !
ahh man im in that situation but a lot earlier than you the relation end up 2 days ago and gosh it hurt so fking much i really gave my heart to her, i loved her since i was 9 years old and always took care of her and i had an stupid childwish i was sure to always be with her, man when her friend were bad and abandon her i took care of her every single time and i helped her to open her eyes and see how precious she was and she did and she said to fking me : i think i dont need someone how i can relate i like more being alone... gosh she brooked up my love soon badly i think i will change for sure but my advice to you is forget her she made you cry a river.. well LIFE will make her cry you an ocean. block her dont contact her at all man cuz it hurt more and more btw i was with her for 2 years haha what a waste of my precious life. BE HAPPY MAN DONT WORRY THERES A LOT LO OF GIRLS IN THE WORL U WILL FIND SOMEONE BETTER FOR SURE
Don't be stuck thinking about someone who isn't thinking about you and moving on. It's rough, you need to think about yourself now and what's best for you. Not that I know her or you but if you say she's out and about, it's time to have that one last cry and start taking steps in the right direction just like in this great Wong fu video! Good luck!
kiet math You loved her since you were 9 and you were with her for 2 years? So does that make you 11 years old? If so, it's really too early to be thinking about who you're going to spend the rest of your life with, you'll both be completely different people in 10 years so take it slow, don't rush into these things, enjoy life for another few years without these kinds of worries
Like Monkiram said, It's too early to make a decisions like that and get stuck with such stuffs. I am a guy and you are,too. And usually, people in this world does not understand or believe in once, if we say to them that "I've been cheated or i'm a broken-hearted,atm'' No, They never will. Guys, they will make a fun of us. Girls, they will think we're just acting innocent or some just doesn't care whatsoever. But believe me, I do know these stuffs. I've been through these stuffs, too. My ex girl(SHE WAS MY FIRST LOVE), she cheated, lied and dumped me with the guy who's my bench partner. I did it all, i gave it all. That was never enough, though. It was really hard to move on and new start over but somehow i did. I used to cry, too, whenever i re-read our convo. but somehow i moved on. What i recommend you is, delete all the conversation,photos,number and so on. Don't try to be in contact with her. Most of all, TRY TO MAKE YOURSELF BUSY!! THIS IS REALLY IMPORTANT. Make plans with your friends and try to stay with them or you can play games or do whatever you like. JUST DON'T STAY ALONE. It will worsen your wound. Try to live your life in real world not just in virtual world. Good luck, bro. I know it's hard but not impossible eh.
i watch it everyday and i still cry, even though it's been a month. maybe because everything we did was my firsts. that's why I'm having hard time letting him go. and then we have to meet every week because of work, and that's not helping at all. i hope one day I'll get over him and smile at him for letting me meet better man 😔 but I don't know when that time will come
i lost him this morning and i'm crying so much uhg..
We've all been there before. The road to recovery is very rough. I would know. Long story short, it's been 9 months now. No closure and no contact. Yesterday, I got a text from her. She asked me how's my day and wanted to know about my personal life. And we did talked about questions left unanswered. It feels good to finally release one lasting unwanted energy. So I'm currently in a relationship with this special girl and I love where my heart is at and I'm very much happy. Sad to say it's not the same thing for her since she revealed she's not with the guy who she replaced me with after a month of our 3 year relationship. Things will find its way. I wish you the best. I know you can do it. Hang in there. If you want someone talk to.im here to assist. Random man from Seattle.
I lost him last night. I cried myself to sleep. I woke up and cried some more. I'm watching this video and guess what? More crying. I don't know what to do
kevjumba is in there
I remember going through a breakup. I watched this over and over again to remind myself that I could do it and make it. It took me almost a year and a half to reach the last step. It was hard- a lot of crying, a lot of fighting, a lot of reminiscing, a lot of suicidal thoughts. It was tough but I decided to heal on my own. Now, I found him. The man I’m about to marry.
To you who’s reading this, I may not know your situation but whatever it is, take your time to heal. Go through the process. Give yourself more time. What’s meant for you will happen to you. So while you’re rebuilding yourself, pray for the ONE and keep fighting! You truly deserve someone better that is willing to give their all to you. You CAN do this. You’re so much stronger than this.
Thank you so much this it made me feel so much better I broke up with my boyfriend three months ago we haven’t talked since then but still have each other on social media I cried every hour every day for three months straight I still cry sometimes but not as bad as before but I do miss him especially he was my first boyfriend when we broke up I felt so suicidal things have gotten a little easier but I still have that fear that I’m not going to find someone as much as I liked him connection wise or what if I never find that person or what if I’m gonna be alone for the rest of my life. I really hope I find someone that will treat me how I’m suppose to be treated would love if gave any advice on how you coped and what helped you because sometimes I still feel lost.....
yessenia velasquez Hi! I’m so glad this touched you. I truly understand how you feel. You must be in a difficult place right now. And I’ve been there before, I thought that I could never find anybody who I could have a connection like I had but it’s all wrong, you see there is someone and there will be someone. It just seems so clouded and impossible to find someone because of the pain we feel. But trust me, you’ll get there. It’s all about walking through the process. Take your time. He was also my first boyfriend, I remember fighting for him so hard and then I realized, I’m wasting all of my energy in fighting for someone who’s never coming back. And honey, he doesn’t deserve that. He should be running after you, not you after him. So here’s how I did it. I focused on MYSELF, my FAMILY, and my FRIENDS. I went out and hung out with them, surrounded myself with good friends, I spent more time with my family, we would go on vacations. I also got rid of everything that reminds me of him. I did a room makeover, I stopped watching movies that would trigger my emotions, I mainly focused on making myself beautiful inside and out so that I could be ready for the next man that would love me. I understand if you feel lost, feel hurt but don’t stay there. Someone you DESERVE is going to love you, is going to treat you right, is going to take you out on an adventure, and make you feel so important. It’s all about just WAITING and HEALING. And when you’re all okay and you have found someone, come back to this comment, I want to hear more about you!
Blueberry1261 thank you a lot for sharing with me. I try to talk to other guys so I can get that validation but it just makes me more sad and makes me miss my ex more than I start to cry cause I haven’t fully healed yet I’m actually crying as I write this cause the pain is so unbearable and I just miss my ex a lot. I feel like he moved on already cause he hasn’t tried to contact me my thoughts always keep me hopeful that he will come back but I don’t think that’s gonna happen which crushes me I know I broke up with him but it made me feel guilty like I made a mistake even though I didn’t get the respect I deserved the memories of us always makes me miss him so much. I wish he stayed the same like in the beginning of the relationship but along the way I never made me a priority, constantly would lie to me and I have a feeling he was cheating on me. I feel so alone like I have no one I just want to be happy again....
yessenia velasquez what do you mean by validation? To feel important? If that’s so, trust me you don’t need it. You don’t need anyone to make you feel that you’re enough. You’re enough just the way you are. Believe me. Don’t take any word from other guys. Their words will only fail you in the end. And I know it’s hard, it’s sad but hey cry if you need to, cry til you get over it, cry til you’re tired of crying over him and then from then on I want you to decide for yourself that this will be the end of crying. I want you to start picking up yourself and move on. Honestly girl, we all make mistakes, but for someone to reject you and treat you with disrespect over a mistake just shows that he’s not worth it. Do you seriously want to put up with a guy who will just break your heart? He can’t even keep up with you now what more if you guys keep this relationship going. Someway or the another, he’ll end up doing stuff behind your back. So big NO. You need a man not a boy. But you know what sis, you just wait and see. I promise, don’t give up just yet, you will be happy and someone is going to make that a priority for you. Happiness is a choice. Do you want to stay home and think about him all day? No he doesn’t deserve your attention at all. So don’t be sad, it’s his lost not yours. Just keep doing whatever helps you move on. All will be better again. I promise. You’re not alone okay?
Blueberry1261 I just wanted to feel important to him every time I would tell him he would always ignore the problem it just made me feel worse about myself no matter what I do I think about him and I start to cry for hours I just want this pain to go away so badly I want to be happy again with my life and it feels like I never will be again. I don’t know what I did to deserve this but everyday I start to feel worse about my self and I don’t know what to do that’s why I feel so alone like I have nobody........
I denied how I really felt when my last relationship ended... I pretended like I was never feeling hurt or sad, in order to stay strong and move on quickly and get my life started. It did help... but during that time I could still feel the heaviness in my heart for a while. That is what doesn't sound good or healthy... now my heart/chest feels like this almost all the time and with other stress...
Anyways I love every single film all of you put together as a team. Been a fan for a few years :) Keep at it
Hi. I am sorry to reply to your comment. I went through the same thing like you. He leave me by saying we will still meet in the future. However, he returned to his home country to get marry with the girl his parent set for him. Apparently he knew her for like 2 years plus. He agreed for that. I only knew about this after few days of his departure. I got angry like you did, however it got worse. Cry out loud. I did that. I even forgave him, however he should try to stay away from me. All I wanted to do to him is throwing coffee on him. At least, I did what Demi Lovato wrote in his lyrics. I practically revenge on him. And yes, later on, you'll realize it was much wonderful without him around. For me, I finally found that I could love someone new and fill this emptiness with new things. :-) You will too. Cry is not a bad thing actually. Denial? I went through that within that 10 days.
You can still try to feel those emotions that are buried in your heart. It will maybe lift the weight. Also, just know you're not weak for being sad over someone (or something).
Just like the video showed...it's ok to cry and stay home or in bed. You have to let it out in order to bring new feelings inside
Thank you for your kind words... it's key to find peace and wellness within yourself and be around those who truly love you and bring joy and happiness in your life. This is the journey and challenge I am taking on in my life right now.
breakup does need times to go thru to forget someone who once hurt you most before you're able to be yourself again
You're right. Now I'm going through these.
Sabrina Tan Lian Ping be strong! I have been through this too!
It's one of our life experience in relationship which needs to go thru. Yes breakup hurts so much that could tear ur heart apart but then again life needs to go on. No matter how long u've been crying for, that person you once loved would no longer coming back to you, so it's not worth it. Let's move on and be free
Thank you Ethan's and YanYan's advice.
Sabrina Tan Lian Ping at the start, it may seem like it's the end but soon you will start feeling better so don't worry and let time heal you! No need to do anything much, when the time is right you will be able to walk out of this!
While everyone is getting into tears because of this video, I'm smiling, because I did it all, without realizing. It took me quite a lot of time, but at the end of the day, I am happy with myself. I don't feel lonely, in fact, I am happy being alone, I have my freedom, time for my family, friends and much more.
People come, and leave. Just accept this fact, and you'll always remain happy.
I like how Phil wrote the whole thing and did the role of the cute guy himself xD
Shabduli Shinde Hehe IKR
That killed me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
That guy in that video reminds me of kevjumba. He's used to do awesome videos on youtube . I wonder where he's at now. I miss that guy.
from what i've heard he's a douche and I don't miss him.
It is kevjumba ahahaha
Doing Martin Scorsese films! :)
I do miss his YT videos though.
uhm, i hope im not missing a joke or anything but that IS kevjumba. im glad to see him alive and well.
This helped me. Big time. I am the kind of person who doesn't easily move on from a heart break. I fall hard. Really hard that I forget to give a little space for myself. I realized I should not be watching nor reading 5 stages of GRIEF or MOVING ON but the stages on how to find yourself - the best version of yourself. Now, I can see that the memories are still there but I felt better. I am waking up every morning with a purpose. I became more open-minded and more matured in facing reality and I am enjoying being single. I am very certain that because of the things that happened in the past; I will be able to handle my next relationship better and I know I will be leaving something for myself so as to not forget who I am and to be able to give that next person love that we both deserved. Thank you WONG FU PRODUCTIONS! You rock! ;)
your voice is so calming to listen to
I watch this after every breakup/heartbreak I have. I'm back again
I just realized because Phillip makes an appearance at the end, this short feels like an unofficial sequel to "Strangers Again." But hey, maybe that's just me. Keep up the good work!
That would be so cool
OMG YOU'RE RIGHT WHOAAAA
That would actually be a pretty cool thought! Would be amazing if it was revealed to be true. Then again, its the ambiguity that makes us wonder and give even greater meaning and appreciation for things (:
Saw KevJumba in the thumbnail and got so happy. YOU'RE ALIVE :)
your channel is amazing
He was in a movie produced by martin scorsese, so fuck yea hes alive
he looks mad skinny now
IKR! Yea came here when I saw Kevin the thumbnail lol but I thought it was an old video tho cuz he's not on UA-cam now you know
Carly is every kevjumba fan.
Facts
Lol! Gals
#Truth
Rosetta277 my name is carly
Rosetta277 sadly
What about the steps where you found out he's already moved on with someone new....
Minh Vo from the moment breaking up I started to accept the idea that he has a new gf now....
I watched this right after my breakup which was 3 months ago (together for 3 years lived together for less than a year) Just kept replaying this over and over again. Thinking what did I ever do wrong to deserve so much heartbreak? Later to find out, right after we broke up. It didn't take him long to find a girlfriend. Made me think every single day what did I do wrong? Is there something wrong with me? How can he move on so fast? But to this day.. I realized I need to let go of the past and live in my present and for my future. Life is too short to be stuck on someone who never deserved you. Nothing is wrong with you. You guys just weren't meant to be. Can I say I completely moved on? Of course not. But I'm finally letting go of my hatred and bitterness.. And I'm finally trying to become a better version of myself. A better version of myself that someone else deserving will love and accept. Hopefully those going through a breakup from a long term relationship realize that.. You deserve to be happy.
I wish there was a nice little voice after a break up. Wow
That'd be awesome.
Would like to see the guys' side
"Strangers again"
aznxbb
I know that! I mean guys side with kev in the short, he seems like a good actor.
aznxbb Strangers Again isnt about the break up. It's about the whole relationship.
Going through this right now. Not a relationship, but a very special friendship. The thought of losing someone so close to you feels like a stab in your heart, the person you secretly fell in love with and that they won't know, the person that you went over the limit for, and the one who helped you discover the real you... will be all gone sooner or later. But I will be honest. I was the one that messed it up. Running away from problems won't help anything. I learned the hard way. But always use the past and learn from it.
Thank you Wong Fu Productions so much. To anyone who's going through a break up, this helps so much. I feel so much better and I am going through the stages myself whenever theres a break up, thank you WongFu, you made something special that changes my life. This isnt my first time watching this and certainly isnt my last
really well made video. I went through a divorce at 55 and break ups are hard at any age. I wish someone had told me some of my conflicted feelings were normal and you can still love someone but need to break up with them. You may even love them when you sign the divorce papers but you know full well you can't stay in an unhealthy relationship. A small piece of caring stays in your heart after the anger leaves but opening the heart for new love is necessary.
Divorce is so intense. I never thought I'd go through one.
4 years late, but thank you for writing this ❤
been there felt that way. got over it and when you least expect it you will find the one. i had a breakup not so long ago and 1yr later i am happy with someone else! :) happily engaged; i hope everyone finds happiness ♡ blessings
here I am again, this is my go to therapy every after a break up i go through.
Me and my Girlfriend broke up last summer after almost three years of ups and downs, we broke up before, but we always felt the urge to come back cause the change is so drastic when you have that one person for so long in your life. When we came back we always tried to make it better, but we made it worse, to the point where we just hated each other, awww what happened to us? It was never easy, it was so damn hard. But after it we realized, we just had to let go, letting go; one of the most difficult things to do in life, but we have to, and we can just hope for the best, some say that maybe people leave our lives because someone better will come along. But I don't agree with that, "better' is not the right thing to say, maybe "the right one" will eventually come along and those people who will stay for good...
This is exactly what happened to me...I just broke up with my bf last night and it hurts so much having to let go after trying so hard for so long to make things work... Your words are really encouraging...
*sigh, i know right. Thank you and good luck to us both!
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Thank you for posting this.. My first boyfriend and I recently broke up and I can't get used to not having him around. I repeatedly consider calling him to get back together but after reading this I know it's not the right thing to do. Thank you again
Medgy26 Im glad i am helping others by my words and experience
It's different for everyone. Watching this makes me think that it's more normal to think about him. It takes as long as you need. I force myself to get up and reflect on life and try to socialize as much as possible. I'm mixing all those stages together. There really are moments that I feel life is happy and there are so many possibilities awaiting. Yet when I close the door turn off the nights, I miss him. I wonder and I write about him in my diary even if he never really appeared. He was in my mind, occupying many of my thoughts. I ask myself when will it stop? And I don't know the answer right now. What I did figure out is that the questions that the current me asks, the future me will have an answer to.
Do you have any answers for me? It's been 7 months and I'm thinking the same things
Kevin R I moved on and found someone that adores me. Of course there’s ups and downs but I realized I need to relax more. Too much reflection leads to rumination. It’s probably really rough now with covid and that means some days, it’s okay to feel absolutely shit and have no motivation. Praise yourself for just eating or getting up. It’ll get better
the voice over idea is from the movie "Her"
a lot of short films do voice over actually.
***** youre right. but the way the voice over talks to the person is def from that movie
Dave Dancis Wong Fu has made atleast 6 other short movies that all came out before the movie her it's just the director Philip Wang's style.
escoofimpakt oh i see
troll alert
This video helped me get over my first boyfriend 6 years ago. We were together for 2 years and then he broke my heart. It took me almost 2 years to get over him. Til this day I still come back and watch it, it means a lot to me. 💗 Wong Fu productions videos have helped me through a lot of tough times in the past
my boyfriend of 6 years just broke up with me. a week later, he’s started to see someone new. i can’t even describe how much it hurt even to watch this video.
Chia Castejon same here girl, I thought I was over him but the moment I found out he has a new girlfriend I was taken back to step one
Same situation here.. How are you holding up?
Sigh. Im sorry. Life can be so cruel. I hope you find your real forever person. Pls dont close yourself off from love. This one just wasnt meant for you.
@@Mushokabanji I thought that my heart stopped beating at that moment. He has new girlfriend in just 1 week after. Just one day before breaking up he still said he love me.
Minh Ngọc I’m a guy and I’m going through this same thing. After my ex broke up with me I was definitely on stage one. I didn’t even want to get out of bed. 4 weeks ago she recently added me back on Snapchat after 4 months of not talking or anything . She even messaged me on Snapchat. Everything was going good until she told me she was dating someone else. That sent chills all through my body and I immediately started back to stage one. And I’m still here regretting messaging her. Why would she come back into my life just to hurt me again?
My relationship just ended yesterday and of course it still hurts a lot because it wasn't a lack of feelings but bad timing. Gonna be in stage 1 for awhile but I know I'll get through it eventually :/
My relationship ended about two hours ago. it's a very painful thing...
same here
Angel M me too...exactly the same!
Irene Sp You will get through this! I recently got back together with my bf. Take this time to recover and focus on yourself and your needs. As painful as it was, I'm grateful for the time we spent apart so I could take a step back and evaluate my life and goals
CARRRL THE LLAMA you will get through this!
I remember watching this a long time ago... I didn't need it then. 5 years later... my first love, first heart break, and I'm back to this video. Man this is going to hurt.
Me and my boyfriend just broke up an hour ago and this really made me feel a little bit better. Thankyou