'Throw Away the TV' 😖 Wife Swap Highlight

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  • @BK-oe7cf
    @BK-oe7cf 5 років тому +8039

    She's gonna save that boy's life, It's not his fault, child obesity is poor parenting.

    • @BK-oe7cf
      @BK-oe7cf 5 років тому +452

      Hah Pls tell me ur being sarcastic. Prepubescent males are not curvy, they're obese, there's no healthy way to carry that fat in your midsection.

    • @BK-oe7cf
      @BK-oe7cf 5 років тому +21

      @1GoldRunner ✔💯

    • @raquelhernandez1209
      @raquelhernandez1209 5 років тому +3

      Yees it is!

    • @JP0411
      @JP0411 5 років тому +8

      @@BK-oe7cf you cant tell 🤣 curvy 😆😆

    • @Angie-no7qx
      @Angie-no7qx 5 років тому +9

      BB K honestly it can be from many reasons . Maybe parents love to spoil their kids and stuff not because only because they don’t care.

  • @davidbertrand6884
    @davidbertrand6884 5 років тому +4625

    That big boy is ten? He needs more physical activity

    • @whointhewhat
      @whointhewhat 5 років тому +203

      David Bertrand he’s so spoiled, cried over no tv? Really? Count your blessings

    • @lipsohlips97
      @lipsohlips97 5 років тому +144

      Nobody cooks so family eats out a lot and then he plays video games constantly and family doesn't interact... it's not his fault when adults are failing him :/

    • @familybroich3073
      @familybroich3073 5 років тому +12

      Mo Guns that makes zero sense because the Nigerian mom is big, her husband and children are not. Hell the white lady has one fat kid and you bark with nonsense 😂🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @leaschmitt2496
      @leaschmitt2496 5 років тому +62

      @@familybroich3073 it's way easier to get fat as an adult. Children and teenagers usually have killer metabolism and tend to be naturally active and running around. If a kid without medical issues becomes fat, usually a bad diet is to blame for it.

    • @mabu1363
      @mabu1363 5 років тому +33

      @@familybroich3073 Nigerian mom is big because she birthed 5 children! Same with the white mom, but the white mom is not helping her BMI by eating takeout 6 days out of 7. And I think in another clip she said that on Sundays the husband's mom comes over to cook. 🙄

  • @HeyLexxxie
    @HeyLexxxie 5 років тому +4342

    He doesn’t miss his mom in the previous clip he said he was happy to have the new mom. He’s just saying that to guilt them into letting him have his tv back.

    • @at5286
      @at5286 5 років тому +170

      HeyLexxxie yeah. The rules werent around long enough for him to use TV as a coping mechanism. Nice try kiddo 😂 I bet hell be crying when she leaves his family lol

    • @jamiejay8157
      @jamiejay8157 5 років тому +101

      That stuff doesn't work on African moms though

    • @x0xTHLover4Lifex0x
      @x0xTHLover4Lifex0x 5 років тому +93

      Yep that's manipulation...children are amazing at it if they have no structure and discipline

    • @jennyhampton8952
      @jennyhampton8952 5 років тому +2

      So so true only upset lost his fat pill

    •  5 років тому +6

      Duh. He's 10. 😂 I love this kid.

  • @lipsohlips97
    @lipsohlips97 5 років тому +7007

    I watched the full episode.. the only thing the Nigerian family was doing wrong was not pushing (or maybe even allowing?) their kids to have fun more. The other family was a MESS

  • @roachqueen1973
    @roachqueen1973 5 років тому +3370

    He’s 10??? Lord I thought he was at least 13-14!!! Boy get away from the damn game console and go outside and play.

    • @itsevie3143
      @itsevie3143 5 років тому +19

      YESSAAAA I was shocked

    • @72vince27
      @72vince27 5 років тому +12

      @Joyce Woodruff I deleted my comment before I even read yours. I realised it was a very mean unnecessary comment.
      I apologise.

    • @latashawalker49
      @latashawalker49 5 років тому +15

      Kids Today will never know the joys of Saturday morning cartoon, making mud pies, itching from grass, picking switches, or just being kids

    • @leaillex
      @leaillex 5 років тому +3

      It's the weight. Fat ages you.

    • @TheCandlekane
      @TheCandlekane 4 роки тому +15

      I thought he was 13 myself. Its not his fault. His generation was raised by lazy parents who gave their kids smartphones and electronics since they were babies. They are absolutely addicted to these things like a drug. It is sad and I feel sorry for this kid,

  • @BlankCanvasProductionss
    @BlankCanvasProductionss 5 років тому +3921

    How can u let your child get that emotionally attached to technology?

    • @teetoys76
      @teetoys76 5 років тому +66

      Queen Of Arts ur using technology as we speak . 🤔

    • @lipsohlips97
      @lipsohlips97 5 років тому +172

      Its quite easy and a modern day issue this generation of parents, who didnt grow up with this much technology, don't know how to handle. Plus, due to white mother's restrictive upbringing she believed kids should be allowed to do whatever they want.. so this happens :/

    • @nightlongg4758
      @nightlongg4758 5 років тому +85

      tee bizz being attached to technology and just using it are two different things.

    • @savagedragon79
      @savagedragon79 5 років тому +8

      You clearly don't have kids or remember being one.

    • @dothedo3667
      @dothedo3667 5 років тому +14

      @@teetoys76 yeah because using technology and being addicted to it are totally the same thing ... /s

  • @MichaelJacksonzGlove
    @MichaelJacksonzGlove 5 років тому +6403

    The American White lady's children are actually charming and adorable, they just need more structure.

    • @Charmedsas1
      @Charmedsas1 5 років тому +60

      I know right.

    • @kai-dp3cg
      @kai-dp3cg 5 років тому +173

      They seemed really helpful in the other parts where they helped in cooking too

    • @patricemcknight693
      @patricemcknight693 4 роки тому +129

      Yes they seem like good kids ,like you ssid they just need structure

    • @joemamaskitchen5177
      @joemamaskitchen5177 4 роки тому +32

      The 10 year old is a baby

    • @only4uhiddleston
      @only4uhiddleston 4 роки тому +27

      @@joemamaskitchen5177 he is but that's the moms fault 😅

  • @dflaming1371
    @dflaming1371 5 років тому +1942

    Notice that the "sheltered" (family oriented) kids adapted very well, but the ones raised to value fun alone were like a train wreck

    • @nicklebaby
      @nicklebaby 5 років тому +16

      Exactly

    • @Ashley-fd7cj
      @Ashley-fd7cj 5 років тому +47

      Dflaming 1 lol anyone can be good at adapting to fun, the other kids had to adapt to not have fun

    • @octoberrrrrrr
      @octoberrrrrrr 4 роки тому +11

      you say that as if any teenager would have a hard time adapting to having fun lmfao

    • @kanikagaral7637
      @kanikagaral7637 4 роки тому +7

      What I wanted to say. They adapt so well. They r welcoming to new people even though they r so different. They helped her get comfortable and feel at home. Was more supportive and not at all bratty like that 10 year old.

    • @boopboop7208
      @boopboop7208 4 роки тому +6

      Ashley Kids shouldn’t have to work hard. They should work smart. They should be given the room to organize their time for studying and whatnot and still have time to hang out with their friends. The Nigerian parents are bad too. Their children are so sheltered. They’re just not as bad as the white family.

  • @ellianaleah9512
    @ellianaleah9512 5 років тому +4022

    In all honesty, "fun" does not mean going out past midnight. My mom allowed us to go out and have fun, however we still had to be home by a certain time...
    This world is unsafe. And it's dangerous for beautiful young girls to be out that late, even in groups.

    • @shantoledwards130
      @shantoledwards130 5 років тому +22

      Straight up

    • @ShanteRoxxane
      @ShanteRoxxane 5 років тому +73

      Joyce Woodruff Mom is that you!? Haha I’m having flashbacks.

    • @PeggyRabbit32
      @PeggyRabbit32 5 років тому +22

      @Joyce Woodruff that is ridiculous.

    • @moogiejoogie3773
      @moogiejoogie3773 5 років тому +19

      Lmaoooo y’all are ridiculous like y’all didn’t go out ??? Those girls deserve it

    • @dashi7070
      @dashi7070 5 років тому +46

      @Joyce Woodruff I'm still 16 and my parents are like that. It is not fun to have your friends tease you for having helicopter parents. It had gotten to the point where my parents followed me into the movie theatre and everything and my friends had to help me to stand up for myself. My mom actually studied child development theory and knows that doing this is going to raise insecure children that can't handle change and cry over little dissapointments. They need someone to back them up and often times are not able to handle problems on their own or might even get over-depended on someone to set them straight. It is not good to treat your children that way. It's basic human science. Every psychologist warns parents when they are becoming "helicopter parents"
      And I do live in a black household. My mom has learned to behave differently and it shows how much happier I am. It has nothing to do with lack of respect. And I am not trying to interfer with the way you do your things I am just trying to give you advice. Times change.

  • @barbaracodner2504
    @barbaracodner2504 5 років тому +3558

    I love the Nigerian family but they got the "raising leaders" part wrong. A real leader knows how to interact with people from all walks of life. His kids are entirely too sheltered. It puts them at a disadvantage. They need a balance.
    The white family is a mess. The mom is a bum. Straight up! The dad is just going with the flow. They're not raising their children to their full potential, which is sad.

    • @dflaming1371
      @dflaming1371 5 років тому +83

      Barbara Codner eh in a way but its proven that healthy family orientation improves young people's ability to adapt, learn, and function overall, (I.e., see homeschoolers) they become independent thinkers instead of developing mob mentality

    • @reinal7896
      @reinal7896 5 років тому +105

      Dflaming 1
      And they might also be ignorant to other kinds of people bc they weren’t exposed to it. It’s all situational

    • @authanjohnson2483
      @authanjohnson2483 5 років тому +13

      You have to think they are from Nigeria, I'm Nigerian it's like New York u eat or be eaten

    • @waltermutandwa
      @waltermutandwa 5 років тому +13

      I have to disagree. In theory that's the way, it should be but look at most political leaders, royal families, company directors etc. Most have lived a sheltered life of private schools, skiing trips and horse ridind. Places were you don't find ordinary people. All that brings a certain kind of confidence that pushes them to be leaders.

    • @blueloverfrosty
      @blueloverfrosty 5 років тому +47

      @@waltermutandwa Just because you're in a leader position doesn't make you a great leader.

  • @comfortzone1223
    @comfortzone1223 5 років тому +622

    As a middle eastern ,i would take The Nigerian family anyday

    • @XHxneyOppz
      @XHxneyOppz 5 років тому +2

      Are your parents more strict? Why is that?

    • @aleashacasarez855
      @aleashacasarez855 5 років тому +23

      As an american, I would too.

    • @latifahnapoleon6466
      @latifahnapoleon6466 5 років тому +3

      Yesss ik i would have a full stomach💗☺

    • @friendlyenemy4654
      @friendlyenemy4654 5 років тому +13

      @@MsDudette21 it's not like we are beaten badly to the extent of injuries, it's more like being disciplined, and I am very glad my parents were strict with me, watching TV was a privilege😂😂, I used to work in the farms and playing was out doors, we spent a lot of time with our parents doing random activities...

    • @leeno68
      @leeno68 4 роки тому +1

      Asta Diagne and that’s on knafeh LMAOOOOO

  • @sibongilezandilewilliams6717
    @sibongilezandilewilliams6717 5 років тому +723

    What she did by taking away the TV was a great thing, it took me getting unemployed and loosing some stuff to realize my value, &my value is not my things

  • @koolaid801
    @koolaid801 5 років тому +214

    I give credit to Keiden because even though he was very upset he stayed respectful and did what he was told which is unusual for this show.

  • @star_light_kid
    @star_light_kid 5 років тому +858

    This is EXACTLY why most Nigerians kids excel in the US.

    • @Franskie266
      @Franskie266 5 років тому +7

      I see why myself

    • @tika3453
      @tika3453 5 років тому +10

      Star light Kid say is louder

    • @happinessloading1198
      @happinessloading1198 5 років тому +46

      @Ms. Living there is less opportunities in Nigeria to do that

    • @star_light_kid
      @star_light_kid 5 років тому +63

      Ms. Living If Nigeria worked like a normal country and there were opportunities to progress, believe me when I say that most of us will not be here. But we’ve been cursed with trash leadership which in turn has wrecked the country over time.

    • @reinal7896
      @reinal7896 5 років тому +27

      Star light Kid
      It happens all over the world. Poor countries lose their best citizens bc the successful and intelligent people like to often move elsewhere for better opportunity . This hurts their home country , but I understand .

  • @flowergirl1765
    @flowergirl1765 5 років тому +600

    That man is scared of his kids! Wake up man you are a Father. You get one shot.

    • @Ashley-fd7cj
      @Ashley-fd7cj 5 років тому +5

      Sgh 17 he’s not the real father and they already got divorced

  • @andrewmoss9876
    @andrewmoss9876 5 років тому +329

    He doesn't miss Mum he misses the TV that was funny trying to make them feel sorry for him hoping to get the tv back

  • @taylordowning2533
    @taylordowning2533 5 років тому +210

    I love the Nigerian family, but I do agree with Nikki, the children need to have a little bit more fun. The children in this episode were great, but Nikki's children needed more structure.

  • @savannahvick5266
    @savannahvick5266 5 років тому +922

    The white family really needs to go outside. He shouldn’t be having an emotional breakdown bc he can’t have a game in his room.

    • @helenemaja0912
      @helenemaja0912 5 років тому +8

      Before I got a computer I would often just draw and play, then when I got the computer I played on it but I still continued doing stuff without it. Today this dosent seem to be the case anymore with kids

    • @Bruhette
      @Bruhette 4 роки тому +13

      I can understand why he's doing that though. Believe it or not, there are a lot of people who's hobby is playing games and it can also be a way to distract themselves from any pain. Imagine not being able to do something that you enjoy doing and that helps you cope

    • @misssincere5762
      @misssincere5762 4 роки тому +1

      I agree...nothing wrong with going outside...

    • @growingupvlogs1480
      @growingupvlogs1480 4 роки тому +2

      @@Bruhette I am that one kid, though I cannot really help it because I was given electronics from a very early age. And I am very aware I am spoiled. have a computer, tablet, tv, and a phone. And I don't even use my tablet. I try to help my parents but It's hard to undo bad-parenting that happened to you. I sometimes wish they were a little more strict to me just so i wouldn't be such a fat blob sitting at my computer 8+ hours a day. Don't get me wrong I love being spoiled who wouldn't want to be spoiled but it makes me feel bad because my mom is very kind and my brother takes advantage over her by guilt-tripping her into buying him stuff. Now you may be wondering "Why not just force the changes yourself?" IT"S HARD, let me tell you. It's sort of for example: Imagine if all you ate was banana's. It'd be extremely hard to eat other things just because your habit is so dug into eating banana's and not anything else it's hard to decide to not eat a banana. Yk?

    • @infernas8445
      @infernas8445 4 роки тому +3

      I think that's very insensitive to the kid. It might not even be due to addiction, but suddenly their entire life being charged without their permission or consent.
      If somebody took my hobby away totally for a big period of time because they see it only as an addiction and a bad thing, and I just wanted a normal life, I would be upset too. Especially as a kid.
      And maybe videogames are a way for him to socialize anyways, I don't think she should have made a drastic change like that and expect a 10 year old to be happy.

  • @pccc145
    @pccc145 5 років тому +520

    The curly head boy is adorable. He cried about his console.. poor thing was crushed. His family should interact more.

    • @texasjaco9385
      @texasjaco9385 5 років тому +72

      No, he needs to be in some type of activity's outside of his room, and house. He isolates himself to play those video games.

    • @pccc145
      @pccc145 5 років тому +64

      Texas Jaco well of course. We can all see that. He’s also isolating himself to play video games because his family doesn’t spend much time together. His dad is always in the bedroom and mom has to take care of everything. He needs attention from them. That’s number one.

    • @hyacinthdibley2420
      @hyacinthdibley2420 5 років тому +13

      pc cc right...and he watches tv because he misses his mum. They all need time with each other definitely. He’s so adorable. I’m surprised he cried rather than throw a tantrum.

    • @Ikajo
      @Ikajo 5 років тому +4

      Yet I would spend hours upon hours reading as a kid. Something that once upon a time was seen as harmful. Allowing a kid some screen time isn't bad as long as it is limited and supervised.

    • @newleif9739
      @newleif9739 5 років тому +3

      Ive seen many children act like that when having things taken off them and its not because their families dont spend time with them either

  • @sonyaryles
    @sonyaryles 4 роки тому +51

    The Nigerian mum is amazing, empathetic, strong. She allows the children to be heard when they get upset. Love her family

  • @elenawilliams32
    @elenawilliams32 5 років тому +565

    Oh my gosh, Keegan crying over having his game console taken away is pathetic! His parents are failing in raising an independent, educated and resilient young man. He's going to be living in their basement at 40 because he won't have any life skills!

    • @elenawilliams32
      @elenawilliams32 5 років тому +4

      @Drgnfli I agree that it's not always going to end with all men living in their parents basements at 40. Your boys- now men obviously have drive, motivation and a social conscience to go into the careers they've chosen. I can see that some men (some women too) probably use gaming as a stress release after work. Unfortunately, I hear from wives of men who are addicted to gaming and it causes so many arguments. Eg; Wife-Can you bath the kids while I cook dinner? Husband- Yes, I'm just going to finish this level first. (30 minutes later) W- Dinners ready! Why haven't the kids been bathed? H- I had an extra power and couldn't stop the game or I'd lose!
      This petty selfish crap causes a lot of resentment. If it's ongoing then the ramifications are miserable for the whole family. I hope your sons know when enough is enough. If they're married with children I sincerely hope that their priorities are in order and their families come first!

    • @tsear2614
      @tsear2614 5 років тому +15

      It's not pathetic. He's 10. Newsflash, kids cry about toys & things getting broken all of the time cuz... well you know... they're children. Now when grown men cry when their favorite sports team loses a championship, then yeah that's kinda pathetic. The kid at least owns his video game

    • @infernas8445
      @infernas8445 4 роки тому +3

      @MazzyDoodle Yup
      I'm really upset how everyone is siding with her and don't have any empathy for the kid.
      It's his hobby and something he loves, too much of anything is not good, but she took it away suddenly and a large portion of it.
      I think her bias is not at all helpful, she doesn't try to understand him at all and only sees his addiction.

  • @janebetti195
    @janebetti195 5 років тому +50

    The Nigerian son was so polite and sweet!! He’s so cute like what the heck!?!?!?

  • @mimirose3009
    @mimirose3009 5 років тому +36

    *That gasp* 😯😯😯 when she told him she was taking his game & tv. His soul left his body lol

  • @vinnyguerrero5067
    @vinnyguerrero5067 5 років тому +161

    “UR NOT A BABY”

  • @imtherealtammygonna6216
    @imtherealtammygonna6216 4 роки тому +19

    She truly cares for that child’s development so much she actually cried. Nigerian moms are a different breed❤️❤️

  • @destini_b3505
    @destini_b3505 5 років тому +69

    i love the Nigerian mom im sorry. like she is so good with children & shes wise.

  • @onthemoney8356
    @onthemoney8356 5 років тому +101

    Both of these mother's are perfect to instill balance to each other's families. I love them both!

    • @jessicavictoriacarrillo7254
      @jessicavictoriacarrillo7254 5 років тому +17

      Yes! Though Nigerian father was talking about how he wants to raise his children as leaders but to be a leader means you're gonna lead different people and some of those people are not going agree with you or they came from a different family and that's important for his kids to actually interact with different people

    • @86Sentra
      @86Sentra 5 років тому

      how can u like the blonde mom lmaoo

  • @jacelyncollazo2760
    @jacelyncollazo2760 5 років тому +16

    That Nigerian mom was everything!!! I wish I had a mother like that!!! God bless her!!!

  • @mrspaceforever
    @mrspaceforever 5 років тому +78

    10?!?!?!?!?!?! no sir!! by the way he is acting I’m so glad she took it

    • @politereminder6284
      @politereminder6284 5 років тому +9

      Even adults get upset when their gadgets are out of commission. It's a natural symptom of withdrawal from addiction.

  • @tabbyc3970
    @tabbyc3970 5 років тому +58

    10 years old? I don’t think so. He really needs to be more active. He’s so hooked on the tv. It’s really sad.

  • @sandriatyson6517
    @sandriatyson6517 4 роки тому +26

    Kaegan is so cute I give him an A for his performance 🤣 he said that he misses his mom so he tries to watch tv to forget about it😆

    • @ilivehere123
      @ilivehere123 Рік тому +1

      I found it manipulative, I hear this crap all the time 😂

  • @kenziejones1922
    @kenziejones1922 4 роки тому +36

    The Nigerian children need more freedom and fun so they can have a childhood, while the American kids need more structure. Their both charming children

    • @randomperson8994
      @randomperson8994 2 роки тому +4

      I agree. They both have things families need to improve on. But the american woman thought that "lifes not about working" honestly every thing is work

  • @desimoe2506
    @desimoe2506 5 років тому +564

    The white woman is looking at it from her eyes and those are Nigerians they did not come to America to have or give their children fun, they came to America to have a better life for their children and their children's futures. As a black American fun is not the 1st option when it comes to living every day in my life and raising my Son.

    • @dothedo3667
      @dothedo3667 5 років тому +120

      They're really happy without the partying and that type of thing, they have a great time at home, it's fantastic. However they're pretty old now and I do think they need some time to go out and meet people and socialize, as that's an important skill in adulthood (and any age). They probably know how but some time with friends (outside of school) without your family makes sure your life is balanced. Just a bit of it.

    • @IceleanRobertson
      @IceleanRobertson 5 років тому +2

      Exactly. ❤

    • @jessii7642
      @jessii7642 5 років тому +62

      I fully understand that but at the end of the day kids need to have fun and socialise with people their own age.

    • @jessicavictoriacarrillo7254
      @jessicavictoriacarrillo7254 5 років тому +52

      @@dothedo3667 It is important to interact with people outside your family because you will be in the work force and hour and the real world where you will interact with people who were brought up differently

    • @delfs9103
      @delfs9103 5 років тому +16

      It's important to have fun, if it is a possibility then they should do it.

  • @albatross9719
    @albatross9719 4 роки тому +12

    I really like the Nigerian mother's accent.... She's very calming to listen to.

  • @paf2587
    @paf2587 5 років тому +292

    The Nigerian father is speaking straight facts about the leaders

    • @kayleelesheski2254
      @kayleelesheski2254 5 років тому +70

      PA F yes but I also think that the kids are feeling resentful of all their rules, and that could turn on the parents in the future

    • @paf2587
      @paf2587 5 років тому +23

      @@kayleelesheski2254 perhaps, but their direction is much brighter than the children of the non-nigerian woman. There's a greater chance of those children having much worse relationships with their parents let alone the world, than the Nigerian children.

    • @blendedtonesable
      @blendedtonesable 5 років тому +51

      @@kayleelesheski2254 you don't understand the culture of Nigerians. There is no turning on parents. Too much respect is expected.

    • @kayleelesheski2254
      @kayleelesheski2254 5 років тому +25

      PA F oh for sure I agree with that statement, some direction is better than no direction. I just think the Nigerian parents need to allocate a bit of time in the week for their teens to be teens, not them going buck wild but going out and having fun with friends and their parents knowing where they are at

    • @kayleelesheski2254
      @kayleelesheski2254 5 років тому +16

      blendedtonesable I doubt that has never happened but I still stand by them feeling resentful, you can already tell what the teens feel by their facial expressions and the excitement they got when they finally got to have some fun and make a friend

  • @ChristSaves88
    @ChristSaves88 5 років тому +81

    “Leaders do not walk like ordinary people walk.” 🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @grylltheonion
      @grylltheonion 5 років тому +21

      However, one must learn the walk of their own people in order to be a true leader.

  • @nyth123456
    @nyth123456 5 років тому +2663

    I love how the Nigerian mom explained to the kids why the changes are being made and presented an alternative to what their used to. It isnt only about the activity but the valuable excitement of an activity.

    • @jessicavictoriacarrillo7254
      @jessicavictoriacarrillo7254 5 років тому +62

      Also I love that she seems to be open to suggestions some of the other kids have like one of the little ones was asking if they're gonna play a game

    • @ebomb6838
      @ebomb6838 4 роки тому +10

      i just watched the episode. And it said, in the akinibode family, the oldest daughter is attending college, and in the mullis family, Kimi and her husband have separated

  • @frankieschultz3050
    @frankieschultz3050 5 років тому +96

    when I was first watching this I thought this boy was ridiculous and I’m sure other people do too, But when he said the reason he watches TV is to forget about his mom being gone, it made me feel really bad for him because every night I go on my phone and I have to watch something or else I cannot sleep because it is my way of coping with all the scary things in my life and my terrible anxiety.

    • @valhinkle6500
      @valhinkle6500 5 років тому +73

      That wasn't the reason he wanted to watch t.v. as a mom I saw right thru that. He's not missing mom half as much as he misses his game console lol.

    • @akjhwhj33
      @akjhwhj33 5 років тому +32

      Val Hinkle 100% he’d throw the same tantrum even if his mum was there

    • @frankieschultz3050
      @frankieschultz3050 5 років тому

      akjhwhj33 but it made sense

    • @MemoeBeni
      @MemoeBeni 5 років тому +9

      No...he had that tv b4 mom was gone🙄

    • @dawnes
      @dawnes 5 років тому +20

      Nahhhhh that was manipulation lol

  • @nicholas8476
    @nicholas8476 4 роки тому +9

    These shows are a great demonstration of how important a balance between fun and discipline are to a healthy relationship and family..

  • @lovelykoi6844
    @lovelykoi6844 3 роки тому +7

    KEAGAN WAS 10??!!? I THOUGHT HE WAS 14 LMAOOOO

  • @simran9334
    @simran9334 5 років тому +11

    “It’s not the end of the world” I feel like that’s what every international mom says😂 my mom says that to everything

  • @XPikabikaX
    @XPikabikaX 4 роки тому +21

    "I miss mom, I try to watch to TV to forget about it"
    Yeah sure, no wonder you watch it and play video games when she's there 🙄😂 (I love it when kids say dumb stuff in an attempt to have things their way)

    • @smokersally1973
      @smokersally1973 3 роки тому

      Yes if that was true then why was he addicted in the first place? Why wasn't he with his mom????

    • @XPikabikaX
      @XPikabikaX 3 роки тому +2

      @@smokersally1973 His mom left cuz it's wife swap, and Ik for a fact that it's not true. Just pay attention to him, you'll see he doesn't really seem bothered by the fact that she's gone, he cares more about technology so he's using his mom as an excuse to get what he wants

  • @huguettetchiapi1126
    @huguettetchiapi1126 4 роки тому +17

    I'm shockedd, I have african parents and they shout at me if i stay at uni past 8pm to do work yet she's making it a rule to stay out past midnight with friends??!? I'd be laughing too XDD

  • @KennieDoll
    @KennieDoll 29 днів тому +1

    As a former military kid, I did that same act of crying when I was in trouble or didn’t get my way everytime my dad was deployed. I still missed my dad, as he probs does his mom, but it seemed to somehow bring me to tears when I wanted to guilt trip my mom😂😂

  • @jennachristine8227
    @jennachristine8227 4 роки тому +7

    Okay but my I lost my breath when I saw the mom in her beautiful Nigerian garments 😍😍🥺🥺

  • @kesharaa2355
    @kesharaa2355 5 років тому +42

    There needs to be a balance in the Nigerian household.
    That white family... whew... lots of help needed and more discipline.

  • @journeybeyondthesea
    @journeybeyondthesea 5 років тому +7

    The Nigerian mom is amazing. She reminds me of my African mom 😭💞

  • @judgejhf7848
    @judgejhf7848 2 роки тому +4

    This is why this show is great. Each mother has something to contribute to the other family. One mother is helping the teenagers who desperately need to evolve in this next stage with making friends and going out, and the other is teaching responsibility and… well not being or acting like a spoiled brat

  • @bluewhale4270
    @bluewhale4270 5 років тому +123

    White kid:"I'm miserable i don't know what I'm gonna do" Me:"Boy!!! Some exercise"

  • @bluepheonix2455
    @bluepheonix2455 5 років тому +5

    This specific episode of wife swap was really great for me, because it reminds me a bit of my household. We have a similar dynamic to the Nigerian family, except we do have technology and consoles and stuff, because we believe that not everything is about work, but also not everything is about fun. To raise a child, you need discipline, but raising children isn’t all about discipline. I think discipline is more setting a guideline of what house rules to follow so everybody gets along, rather than reward and punishment. Every day we come home, do our chores, finish/start our homework, and then we can do what we like. I have a tv in my room, but getting it was a big thing, because I had to earn it. And because of that, I’m not hooked on it or spoiled by it, because it wasn’t just given to me. A few years ago I got an xbox, also a big thing, but it went in the living room. At the time, I was pretty hooked and always wanted to play it, and after some time of saving up I bought my own games, so it was allowed in my room. And because I wasn’t on it 24/7, and I grew to understand that moderation is important, I’m not a brat about it. Right now I play a lot of video games, and spend a lot of time in my room and I’m a bit of a nerd, but when I’m not playing video games I’m not jut sitting doing nothing, I’m reading, or drawing, or coding, and I eat healthy to balance out my lifestyle habits that involve a lot of sitting, so I’m not unhealthy. I think the Nigerian family has a good level of moderation, because they are pretty strict and work oriented, but they’ve grown in an environment where it isn’t forced upon them, and it isn’t seen as “work”. Fun is subjective, and even though to others it may seem like a chore, I agree that cooking as a family is a nice thing, and spending time as a family is fun on its own. It balances itself out, because the work oriented environment isn’t seen as work. The Caucasian American family is a little bit of a Mess.

  • @BreeNicky
    @BreeNicky 4 роки тому +7

    Ok so leaders don’t have friends then huh? 😂😂

  • @official_briitv4472
    @official_briitv4472 4 роки тому +5

    The fact that the Nigerian mom was crying because the boy was so addicted to tv really shows that she really wants to help them and make there lives better.

  • @SKmoi
    @SKmoi 4 роки тому +5

    he went from "better than our old mom" to "i miss mom" real quick huh lol

    • @smokersally1973
      @smokersally1973 3 роки тому +1

      He thought she was nicer than his mommy but then he was in for a shock

  • @texasjaco9385
    @texasjaco9385 5 років тому +31

    I'm sorry, I'm not trying to body shame, or be mean. That 10yr boy Keign's weight is completely outta control. I know some kids are chubby when their young, and eventually slim out to a healthy weight. But that boys weight is obese and can create major health issues. New mommy I could gave a high 5 and a pat on the back, taking that game and TV outta his room. I would've called his tail out when he tried to play them. As soon as he said he missed mom, and watches TV to make himself feel better. So what's ur excuse when ur mom is there. He needs to enroll in some type of sports or activities that keep him busy. Cuz he's eating because he's bored. How could his parents let this get so outta control? It's hard enough being around other children that bully. They have let him make himself a big red target for other kids to pick on him. That's not even the major part of the weight. His heart is being over worked, hes a risk for diabetes, sleep apnea, and the list goes on. This is border line abuse and child neglect. If he was a pack of bones and malnourished, children services would be all over it. So the something should apply in this situation. Him and mom could do it together. They could go to a nutritionist get healthy meal plans, make out a workout plan, go for walks in the evening. Cuz let's face it he's learned his eating habits from her, she's killing herself and him with all that fast food cuz she's to lazy to cook. U can follow a recipe just as easy on star maps for directions to food places. Had he just been a little chubby I wouldn't had said anything. But his weight has gotten to a dangerous stage. I'm just concerned for him, I truly am, I'm not trying to throw no shade at him.

  • @TheOne-tz6kj
    @TheOne-tz6kj 5 років тому +12

    I think the Nigerian children's reaction to the rule change said it all...

  • @princesspaintbrush156
    @princesspaintbrush156 5 років тому +2

    Living for this Nigerian family. Iconic and truly inspirational.

  • @cherielockwood3
    @cherielockwood3 4 роки тому +5

    Man that woman a straight Supernanny Nigerian style!

  • @licieswelt
    @licieswelt 5 років тому +4

    "We are leaders raising leaders"
    Yassssssssss!

  • @soulsingermukbanger3902
    @soulsingermukbanger3902 5 років тому +48

    10 going on 30

  • @greyfinch1468
    @greyfinch1468 5 років тому +5

    This makes me want to use the Nigerian family values for my future family. What a wonderful way to raise children.

    • @jesusisapisces
      @jesusisapisces 5 років тому +3

      Just let them socialise/go out with their friends from time to time.

  • @noirlily3413
    @noirlily3413 5 років тому +21

    "Get up and wipe your nose"... That bogey was bunji jumping and it didn't bother the kid... YUCK!!!

  • @DreamBelief
    @DreamBelief 4 роки тому +2

    Is that boy seriously crying because he can't have tv and games for a few days?! My god! I don't blame him. I blame the parents for never instilling even a drop of resilience, strength etc in him. How will this boy handle life?!

  • @kayleelesheski2254
    @kayleelesheski2254 5 років тому +70

    I love nikki and her facial expression, she’s just so deadpan all the time

  • @kait5914
    @kait5914 4 роки тому +2

    That poor baby. I feel like he’s so attached to the TV because it’s the only thing that actually brings him comfort.

  • @Spearsy1995
    @Spearsy1995 5 років тому +21

    They do realise that they signed up to try a different way of living right ?

  • @retiredreligion
    @retiredreligion Рік тому +1

    bro is 10 years old being that big. this change was the best for him. no more video games, Doritos and mountain dew.

  • @alexiakelley4245
    @alexiakelley4245 4 роки тому +4

    Can the Nigerian family adopt me? 🤣❤️

  • @smhatheworldwelivein
    @smhatheworldwelivein 2 роки тому +2

    EXACTLY PREACH GIRL

  • @Emily-cl2jl
    @Emily-cl2jl 4 роки тому +4

    I love the Nigerian mom's outfit!!! She looks so beautiful.

  • @Michelle-bc7tl
    @Michelle-bc7tl Рік тому +1

    I love the Nigerian’s family values and culture. They are wholesome, kind and respectful. Good job parents!

  • @nahfam627
    @nahfam627 3 роки тому +3

    Friends are very crucial for kids. I dont understand how a parent who wants a successful child cant see that. Can prepare them all you want for leadership positions but if you isolate them from their peers they're not going to make it as leaders. Leaders know how to make strong connections, pick the right person for a job, read people, and convince them to follow instructions. Theres a lot of nuances that goes into being leader. I think you'll find that anytime your in a group and you have multiple people fighting for leadership positions, ultimately the group decides

  • @smokersally1973
    @smokersally1973 3 роки тому +2

    Nigerian mom would make a good nanny.

    • @jazzyj6640
      @jazzyj6640 2 роки тому +1

      No. She has her own family to look after.

  • @yellowstone
    @yellowstone 5 років тому +145

    Watch the full episode here: prmnt.net/2SIdty0

    • @raevyn001
      @raevyn001 4 роки тому +5

      Thanks for this!
      Making the episode available to watch online is something I don't see very often, but appreciated seeing here.
      - Grateful viewer of random stuff

    • @sandriatyson6517
      @sandriatyson6517 4 роки тому

      Thank you for allowing everyone to watch this episode!!! It was a great episode to watch thanks again for sharing

  • @lilyg1537
    @lilyg1537 4 роки тому +1

    The lady who took away the TV is BEAUTIFUL inside and out! She's a great mom.

  • @mathwizree
    @mathwizree 5 років тому +42

    The boy wall being plastered has me wondering what happened. Does anyone know? Looks like he punches the wall...he needs another outlet like sports.

    • @WildKatVixon
      @WildKatVixon 5 років тому +7

      I wondered if anyone else caught that. It 100% looks that way to me too. I’m a handy(wo)man and I fix allot of this in homes. Including mine when I bought it.

  • @stormiekey8613
    @stormiekey8613 4 роки тому +2

    I think both moms did good with the rule changes but the Nigerian mom is killing it. Like this ladys outfits are beautiful her attitude is wonderful and i just think shes wonderful.

  • @hailey561
    @hailey561 4 роки тому +7

    “I need to distract from it so that’s why I watch it” Jesus this kid is a good little manipulator

  • @michaylaariel
    @michaylaariel 4 роки тому +2

    ok but don’t come back before 12?? does she not understand that the reason why they didn’t do that in the first place is because it’s DANGEROUS🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @jadarose15
    @jadarose15 5 років тому +5

    He just wanted his wife to cook and have a say. I’m still shocked they’ve separated! I thought the other mom gave them great tools to use to help their marriage a family. Those kids loved helping paint and cook.

    • @mjohnson1741
      @mjohnson1741 2 роки тому

      Shocked? They had like 5 marriages already combined?

  • @chasep1310
    @chasep1310 3 роки тому +1

    Sad, actually made her cry ...
    this little kid loves tv more than his own family/humans

  • @ravenleannparker6892
    @ravenleannparker6892 5 років тому +88

    She sounds so racist when shes like ifollowed y'all rules iate y'all's food and wore y'all's clothes. Thee ignorance.

    • @Ashley-fd7cj
      @Ashley-fd7cj 5 років тому +40

      Raven leann parker how is that racist??? Jesus Christ you guys throw the word racist like it’s candy

    • @Ashley-fd7cj
      @Ashley-fd7cj 5 років тому +2

      Raven leann parker if it was a black person saying it I guess it wouldn’t be racist

    • @ravenleannparker6892
      @ravenleannparker6892 5 років тому +3

      @@Ashley-fd7cj if it was a blk person I'd say thee same thing. Chill.

    • @queent6078
      @queent6078 5 років тому +10

      It’s not racist . It’s literally everyone’s response on the show when it’s time for them to make they’re own rules .

    • @jemwithouttheholograms8806
      @jemwithouttheholograms8806 5 років тому +4

      There is nothing racist about that.

  • @tarynn9537
    @tarynn9537 4 роки тому +2

    all of the Nigerian kids seem so respectful and kind i wish i could be their friend ahh

  • @eirmoc
    @eirmoc 5 років тому +6

    Keigan looks exactly like the boy from bad Santa! Wow!

  • @rebbyblooms
    @rebbyblooms 3 роки тому +1

    There's a proper balance of shelter and freedom that every household needs

  • @TheRealest215
    @TheRealest215 5 років тому +19

    Wow! I watched this whole episode and 😲. Honestly I thought it would be a disaster but both families really learned valuable lessons. Kinda sad at the 4 months later update, but maybe that's the takeaway from alternative knowledge.🤔
    Wish them all the best.❤

    • @karana9201
      @karana9201 5 років тому +1

      What's the update?

    • @TheRealest215
      @TheRealest215 5 років тому +27

      @@karana9201 The Akinbode family started to try to balance discipline with a little more freedom for the children. Also, one of their daughters went out of state to attend college.
      Sadly, with the Mullis family, the parents decided to separate. I think in part due to the fact that they were able to get a glimpse of what an inclusive and loving family dynamic was like. Wish they could have used the lesson to work through their issues.

  • @moopycrazytigerkingyearsago
    @moopycrazytigerkingyearsago 4 роки тому +3

    Im not nigerian but nigerians moms are not very rude but reasonable and try to raise you right

    • @nkeiruka5930
      @nkeiruka5930 4 роки тому

      moopy crazy tiger king 1055 years ago. I'm from Nigeria but I'm not a mom yet plus thank you

  • @Hotcashe1
    @Hotcashe1 5 років тому +80

    Yall are really picking on a 10 year old boy in the comments.

    • @JC-qx3sr
      @JC-qx3sr 5 років тому +9

      Stir Fry wtf is wrong with people . Hes a kid .

    • @rileygmx3404
      @rileygmx3404 5 років тому +24

      Even the lady recognised it was the parents fault, he is just a child and knows no different

    • @nightlongg4758
      @nightlongg4758 5 років тому +7

      Most of the comments if seen were not really picking on him. People were just surprised that he is much younger.

    • @susand5241
      @susand5241 4 роки тому

      Im picking on the parents lack ....they allow this innocent to basically be morbidly obese bc they'd rather shove him off to games and tv than be active woth him

  • @TheFreshCookies0
    @TheFreshCookies0 3 роки тому

    They couldn't tell the kid to put on a clean white shirt? LMAOOOO

  • @mattsprayberry0
    @mattsprayberry0 5 років тому +18

    That boy is bigger than I am and I am pretty big myself.

  • @jessicahines5814
    @jessicahines5814 3 роки тому +1

    I feel like the Nigerian mom is amazing

  • @leah1590
    @leah1590 5 років тому +5

    Love the Nigerian family.

  • @tingle_sugar1817
    @tingle_sugar1817 4 роки тому +1

    The Keigan is literally me when the wifi stops working for 2 seconds Imfao.

  • @almanotolrado7744
    @almanotolrado7744 4 роки тому +3

    This boi really say he watches tv only cus it distracts him from missin his ma LMAO

  • @layanghannam4322
    @layanghannam4322 4 роки тому +1

    the dad was like "we dont let leaders walk with ordinary people" such a savage

  • @dothedo3667
    @dothedo3667 5 років тому +8

    Really? Can't even handle a break from video games when you know you get it back in a few days?

  • @JohannaD7288
    @JohannaD7288 5 років тому +2

    Great episode. It’s too bad it didn’t work out with the Mullis family.

  • @lalalola2772
    @lalalola2772 4 роки тому +3

    4:30 😭he fr lied bout missing his mom

    • @LifeAsYanaM
      @LifeAsYanaM 4 роки тому

      I didn’t think anyone caught that 😂

  • @keyzplease3220
    @keyzplease3220 4 роки тому +1

    How are they going to be leaders when they are scared to meet new people

  • @prettygirlprogression
    @prettygirlprogression 5 років тому +16

    Nigerian are leaders everyone should know that! Lol Their culture prides themselves on excellence. Much respect ✊🏿

  • @bubbles7398
    @bubbles7398 4 роки тому +2

    “Because I took the T.V. out of your room” Meanwhile there is a T.V. right on his wall

    • @letssmile3564
      @letssmile3564 4 роки тому

      they took the cable, so it's just tv monitor