Polyamorous Trio-Felix, Shannon and Brett

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  • Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Felix, Shannon and Brett, a polyamorous trio in Los Angeles.
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  • @lizfromthe603
    @lizfromthe603 Місяць тому +965

    You can tell the man on the left really loves this woman. You can tell Slipknot on the right could have lived the rest of his life perfectly happy without doing this interview 😂

  • @justsomeguywholikesmangoes1363
    @justsomeguywholikesmangoes1363 Місяць тому +908

    They look exactly how I'd expect a polyamorous trio to look.

    • @annawisniewska5103
      @annawisniewska5103 Місяць тому

      Stupid comment.

    • @greeneyedbandit5035
      @greeneyedbandit5035 Місяць тому +6

      Lol

    • @mydailyangel
      @mydailyangel Місяць тому +33

      in the black and white thumbnail, they look like a trio of hobgoblins lol

    • @Lauren2145-fi3ed
      @Lauren2145-fi3ed Місяць тому +17

      ​@@mydailyangelThat is an unkind thing to say

    • @mydailyangel
      @mydailyangel Місяць тому +9

      @@Lauren2145-fi3ed just my observation. Wasnt meant to be mean, just noticing.

  • @cynthynwill
    @cynthynwill Місяць тому +1138

    I remember someone once said “how come all the poly couples…..look like that?” This is EXACTLY what they meant. Like no shade they all have the same…aesthetic.😂

    • @slavi7191
      @slavi7191 Місяць тому +143

      I know exactly what you mean. You'll typically never see a very good-looking couple as polyamorous.

    • @slavi7191
      @slavi7191 Місяць тому +1

      @@acmhfmggru the men seem to lack masculinity.....not at all attractive.

    • @clairewilliams7762
      @clairewilliams7762 Місяць тому +1

      So fucked up but its true 😂​@@slavi7191

    • @leneo1731
      @leneo1731 Місяць тому +35

      @@slavi7191 You're absolutely wrong.
      I've even seen on TV young, good looking people who are poly.
      The one guy could've been a movie star or celebrity, he was gorgeous!
      Also the females involved were pretty.

    • @foristrothbert568
      @foristrothbert568 Місяць тому

      @@leneo1731 Right, because it's propaganda that the media is trying to push on people to be more degenerate in their behaviors and ruin the bonds of family.

  • @SouthernGyrl
    @SouthernGyrl Місяць тому +392

    So basically they learned nothing in sex addiction class

  • @jessjames29
    @jessjames29 Місяць тому +350

    when mark is speechless it tickles me

    • @rhondaphillips1479
      @rhondaphillips1479 Місяць тому +9

      love Mark.😍... I wanna know what he is thinking AFTER this interview !!!

    • @KualaLumpurMalaysia-le4yk
      @KualaLumpurMalaysia-le4yk Місяць тому +5

      Yes, the first time Mark didn't know what to ask 😂

  • @izzydeadyet7336
    @izzydeadyet7336 Місяць тому +820

    Damn I don’t even like having one boyfriend, two would be a nightmare

  • @maryamslater3082
    @maryamslater3082 Місяць тому +226

    I wish Mark would have asked them about their childhoods.. They said at the beginning that they were in some program for sex addicts.. What led them to that?

    • @baublesanddolls
      @baublesanddolls Місяць тому +9

      She said her childhood was messed up.

    • @Zoomer-te9us
      @Zoomer-te9us Місяць тому +7

      They were all adolescents introduced to porn and have never been treated…

    • @Commentleaver-c6x
      @Commentleaver-c6x Місяць тому +13

      It’s safe to assume everyone he interviews has a terrible and traumatic childhood.

    • @sandyrodriguez2803
      @sandyrodriguez2803 Місяць тому

      She mentioned hers at around 36:20

    • @akaku9
      @akaku9 29 днів тому

      @@Zoomer-te9us if you need treatment for porn addiction get into the shackles

  • @BMO_Creative
    @BMO_Creative Місяць тому +629

    First time I've ever heard Mark say he doesn't even know what to ask! LOL

  • @cherih.6370
    @cherih.6370 Місяць тому +313

    How come no one ever talks about sexually transmitted infections/diseases with these poly relationships?

    • @whoknowswhocares885
      @whoknowswhocares885 Місяць тому +25

      @@cherih.6370
      That’s usually never considered until they pick it up

    • @shannon_w.
      @shannon_w. Місяць тому +35

      Yeah I am kind of shocked that wasn't one of Mark's questions.

    • @talatalatikaani4770
      @talatalatikaani4770 Місяць тому +69

      People in this type of lifestyle are pretty adamant about testing and being safe.

    • @Floareintherain
      @Floareintherain Місяць тому +33

      I know two adult poly people with fairly normal adjusted outside lives, both have the rule that new people get tested and the whole ethical non monogamy means you can’t do stuff behind the back of the group. If you’re starting with someone, you have to communicate that and they have to respect the safety aspect.

    • @yogini3274
      @yogini3274 Місяць тому +28

      I have found poly and ENM folks are generally very up front and open about testing regularly and condom use, especially if a new partner is being considered. In my observations, the swinging community is much more reckless and there are often STI outbreaks among a whole group.

  • @MidnightRider1655
    @MidnightRider1655 Місяць тому +98

    Shes in control and they deal with it. I can sense that 2 minutes into the interview.

    • @chiefozzy7416
      @chiefozzy7416 26 днів тому

      I could see that but dude on the right is married to different chick so I think he just happy to get to fuck 2 different chicks

    • @tylcouli
      @tylcouli 12 днів тому

      Like gentlemen!

  • @josephine6480
    @josephine6480 Місяць тому +177

    If my man asked me to swing or open our relationship, all I would hear is “you’re not good enough so I want to cheat but I’ll make things fair for both of us”

    • @justjulie2826
      @justjulie2826 Місяць тому +9

      Same

    • @yvonnedeboer7535
      @yvonnedeboer7535 Місяць тому +1

      Me too😅

    • @ky11622
      @ky11622 Місяць тому

      Or “I love you but I’m bored and need new pu$$y”.

    • @kellyarnold1521
      @kellyarnold1521 Місяць тому

      Sounds like you’re hella insecure.

    • @Barbievel
      @Barbievel Місяць тому +8

      But that’s not what he said so that’s a you issue.

  • @latinaluisa
    @latinaluisa Місяць тому +275

    It seems like they found the right avenue for their sex addiction.

  • @machiel5888
    @machiel5888 Місяць тому +202

    I'm consistently more shocked by the comments here than by the content I see on the channel. People are all for "freedom" and "live and let live" until it's something that doesn't align with their lifestyle, and then they find it abhorrently unacceptable.
    I don't find this lifestyle attractive, but these 3 all appear to be consenting adults of sound mind. If they're happy like this, good for them. If they say they're happy, I have no reason not to believe them. I leave my own judgement out of it.
    I expect comments to be disabled on this post, just like on the FinDom woman. people get unbelievable nasty when they perceive a woman to be taking advantage of men, even when everyone involved is consenting and the only person who has a problem is the person not involved in the situation at all. People want to blame women for the choices that men make.

    • @katiemorgan4357
      @katiemorgan4357 Місяць тому +19

      Exactly this!

    • @simoneware1193
      @simoneware1193 Місяць тому +16

      💯 agreed. It’s not my bag either but each to their own. Whatever works.

    • @GypsyRock
      @GypsyRock Місяць тому +1

      Tldr?

    • @kcz81582
      @kcz81582 Місяць тому +22

      People have every right to say their opinion. That’s what the comment section is for

    • @p331083
      @p331083 Місяць тому +5

      Guess youre going to ignore the tidbit that they met in a sex addiction program?

  • @alexish8183
    @alexish8183 Місяць тому +174

    The comments are so annoying. Some of you cannot fathom non-conventionally attractive people having vibrant sex lives and happy non-traditional relationships. I really feel like if you were happy in your own life you wouldn’t feel the need to shame others for being different.

    • @pseudonamed
      @pseudonamed Місяць тому +42

      Right? Like whenever a really hot person talks about doing crazy stuff the comments are way more supportive, as if less conventionally attractive people just don't deserve to have fun

    • @internetcomment4440
      @internetcomment4440 Місяць тому +17

      Thanks for adding this. I agree

    • @whoknowswhocares885
      @whoknowswhocares885 Місяць тому +21

      You'd be singing a different tune when your partner gets VD.

    • @Pingchooka50
      @Pingchooka50 Місяць тому

      I don't care who these people have sex with. It's the fact that they have kids that bothers me.

    • @nephie1979
      @nephie1979 Місяць тому

      I totally agree..but they must have known that at the least 5 million people around the world would see this episode (from hos folliwers) and judge...they were made aware by Mark about that for sure...so I say let them do them..I am a married woman and know I am attractive and would love to have 2 husband's but being fairly attractive to folks ..no one wants to share...

  • @Emzdra
    @Emzdra Місяць тому +161

    As someone who can’t even look another way when I have a simple crush, lifestyles like this are insane to me.

    • @brunettezprettyr4296
      @brunettezprettyr4296 Місяць тому +10

      Well I mean, everyone's different. It's not your cup of tea but it's certainly theirs.

    • @lunarero
      @lunarero Місяць тому +3

      Same 😂

    • @Decades-pl2kl
      @Decades-pl2kl Місяць тому

      I have no idea what that means 😮

    • @ky11622
      @ky11622 Місяць тому +3

      Exactly! People who feel the need to have more than one partner have no sexual control.

    • @TheBradfords
      @TheBradfords Місяць тому +2

      And i cant see how thry truly love that person like a wife is inteended to love a husband. I hate to be this person but its just not right. ​@ky11622

  • @TTXX455
    @TTXX455 Місяць тому +175

    I’m at 12 minutes in …she won’t let them talk without interrupting.
    Including Mark.

    • @JBE608
      @JBE608 Місяць тому +4

      💯

    • @Seeme-s6i
      @Seeme-s6i Місяць тому +7

      She's confident!

    • @isileroglu
      @isileroglu Місяць тому +4

      So? She is super nice.

    • @thechrononaut1
      @thechrononaut1 Місяць тому +15

      ​@isileroglu I mean, that's pretty rude. It's not nice.

    • @mcbatface1
      @mcbatface1 Місяць тому

      @@Seeme-s6iIt’s possible to be confident without being a blowhard who doesn’t let anyone else get a word in edgewise.

  • @slavi7191
    @slavi7191 Місяць тому +159

    Do they get tested regularly?
    This dynamic would terrify me! 😨
    And there are kids in their households! 😢

    • @aceshigh5157
      @aceshigh5157 Місяць тому +7

      as long as the parents don't tell their kids that they're poly/don't involve them in the lifestyle, i don't see a problem with their lifestyle. i do think it would mess up the kids if they knew that mommy and daddy date other people. it would bring up abandonment issues/fear of their parents divorcing.

    • @slavi7191
      @slavi7191 Місяць тому +44

      @aceshigh5157 kids aren't stupid. You don't think a teenager can easily figure out their parents' relationship dynamics? My 10 year could, let alone a teenager.

    • @Pingchooka50
      @Pingchooka50 Місяць тому

      ​@@slavi7191exactly!!

    • @schoomzer
      @schoomzer Місяць тому +22

      @@slavi7191 I doubt if their priorities are with their children.

    • @tonyboehmer9311
      @tonyboehmer9311 Місяць тому +2

      No poly shit !!!!

  • @SpringAmbiance
    @SpringAmbiance Місяць тому +41

    Imagine their kids’ classmates seeing this sh!t.

    • @XWoodbineX
      @XWoodbineX Місяць тому

      exactly

    • @user-yg6dj7js8e
      @user-yg6dj7js8e Місяць тому +2

      I mean there's nothing particularly embarrassing about this? It's better than everyone knowing your parents are divorced or actively cheating on eachother.

    • @ISuckOffCops
      @ISuckOffCops 22 дні тому

      @@user-yg6dj7js8ekids don’t care bout this shit lol they’re gonna bully the shit out of them despite it

    • @omalilo1
      @omalilo1 21 день тому

      @@user-yg6dj7js8eyou sure? Your mom getting passed around? Lol

  • @thebrock12
    @thebrock12 Місяць тому +112

    Another awesome interview man I love hearing about the other side of peoples lives. It’s just so amazing how different we all are.

    • @lburke2002
      @lburke2002 Місяць тому +2

      It's true, we are all so different. I love this channel because it gives me insight into lives and people that I would not otherwise have. Mark does an amazing job of interviewing. His comments seem honest, yet accepting of the person's lifestyle. His content is head and shoulders above the rest! I am a different person for watching SWU. ❤

    • @peachesandapril
      @peachesandapril Місяць тому +2

      Same. That's my draw to Mark's channel too. It's fascinating and I like hearing life from other peoples perspectives.

  • @Tammy-jl2io
    @Tammy-jl2io Місяць тому +120

    SO MANY negative comments.. Thank you Trio for your story. NO JUDGEMENT here! As long as people aren't hurting children, the elderly, or animals? I don't care what people do. To each their own.

    • @NuggingTheDumb
      @NuggingTheDumb Місяць тому

      Most people are hurting animals 😞

    • @HotSauce1317
      @HotSauce1317 Місяць тому +7

      You passed the vibe check. It’s too many problems in the world for me to run around being the “Love Police” lol

    • @morgansmith8300
      @morgansmith8300 Місяць тому +2

      Absolutely, I tell people the same thing! 👏🏼

    • @baublesanddolls
      @baublesanddolls Місяць тому +16

      Don’t think for a second that this isn’t messing their kids up.

    • @whoknowswhocares885
      @whoknowswhocares885 Місяць тому +5

      @@Tammy-jl2io
      You say no judgment but I’m very sure you wouldn’t step in this

  • @julieharden8671
    @julieharden8671 Місяць тому +184

    These people seem so happy and genuine... Cheers to you all for making the most out of life

    • @sciencenotstigma9534
      @sciencenotstigma9534 Місяць тому +15

      These three have a healthier relationship than a lot of couples I know. ❤

    • @eldoctorsimis
      @eldoctorsimis Місяць тому +9

      hell nah they aint happy lol

    • @kellyarnold1521
      @kellyarnold1521 Місяць тому +6

      @@eldoctorsimisyou sound jealous 😂

    • @eldoctorsimis
      @eldoctorsimis Місяць тому

      @@kellyarnold1521 why i would be jealous of these lame ass foos lol

    • @thirdeyesurvivor3886
      @thirdeyesurvivor3886 Місяць тому +8

      You really think both of these guys especially the guy on the right side look happy abs genuine? This is a depressing joke

  • @littlemiss_76
    @littlemiss_76 Місяць тому +145

    I was thinking it was just these 3 in the relationship, not the entire village. I am not a prude but the STD factor would be a huge risk.

    • @whoknowswhocares885
      @whoknowswhocares885 Місяць тому +31

      Biggest reason I don't believe poly is a good idea, you are sleeping with a sceptic tank.

    • @michelleacunzo4980
      @michelleacunzo4980 Місяць тому +9

      Ewww...no thanks ..I don't know how people do that...just dirty!

    • @JENKEN425
      @JENKEN425 Місяць тому

      YES FOR SURE, EVEN WITH CONDOMS IT CAN GO BAD. AND THEY BROUGHT CHILDREN IN TO THIS, SICK

    • @Alexxx492
      @Alexxx492 Місяць тому +6

      Condoms?

    • @michelleacunzo4980
      @michelleacunzo4980 Місяць тому

      @@whoknowswhocares885 hahaha!!! Yuck!! So true!!

  • @CuteCatsofIstanbul
    @CuteCatsofIstanbul Місяць тому +48

    Mark, in our overly sexualised world, can you please also interview people who are asexual, demisexual, gray sexual, aromantic and ALL the other terms on the spectrum? It can feel really really lonely out there so hearing our voice would be awesome!

    • @cicolasnage5684
      @cicolasnage5684 Місяць тому +12

      “Stop whining” - Arnold Schwarzenegger

    • @CuteCatsofIstanbul
      @CuteCatsofIstanbul Місяць тому +1

      @@cicolasnage5684 🤣

    • @Panhandlebluegrass1986
      @Panhandlebluegrass1986 Місяць тому +5

      LOL stop being a baby and you’d get some.

    • @user-yg6dj7js8e
      @user-yg6dj7js8e Місяць тому +4

      The comments on that kind of video would be WAY worse than the ones here. The average person has very little understanding of Asexuality and most don't care to learn or get the facts straight. Plus the Ace spectrum is so complex; having a few people "respresent" us seems like it'd be divisive, especially since even Aces have different definitions of what asexuality even means

    • @kiruxu
      @kiruxu 7 днів тому +2

      I’m demisexual. I couldn’t imagine having sex with someone that I didn’t have an emotional connection with. And although I appreciate their candour and was intrigued by their situation, this polyamory scenario is the absolute opposite of anything I would want.

  • @aplainjaneproduction8285
    @aplainjaneproduction8285 Місяць тому +37

    Brett's body language isn't looking too amorous to me

    • @monicaajala5668
      @monicaajala5668 4 дні тому

      He look like he don’t like the dynamic 😂

  • @atomikblondee1
    @atomikblondee1 Місяць тому +62

    I will never understand poly couples with kids in the home 😬

    • @sarah2.017
      @sarah2.017 Місяць тому +2

      The one polycule I have known personally did not involve children. However, the biology behind female monogamy really clicked for me when I saw an MTV program called "Sex In The 90s", in the late 1990s, about polyamory, and specifically a show about a woman with two husbands, one legal, the other common-law, I guess. Okay, what if she gets pregnant?
      As for that three-way, the third member left before the program even aired, the married couple divorced a few years after that, and he has since died, most likely by suicide.

  • @RetireandGo
    @RetireandGo Місяць тому +126

    [clicking my heels] "there's no place like home... there's no place like home.... there's no place like home ..... "

    • @michellehohlt1971
      @michellehohlt1971 Місяць тому +12

      Thank you for making me laugh. That was great, lmao!

    • @Lena-uh3ky
      @Lena-uh3ky Місяць тому +3

      😂

    • @RetireandGo
      @RetireandGo Місяць тому +3

      @@michellehohlt1971 you are welcome. it is in good fun, i am just being a goof 🙂

    • @RetireandGo
      @RetireandGo Місяць тому +1

      @@Lena-uh3ky have a great day !

    • @Last_Chance.
      @Last_Chance. Місяць тому +1

      ​@@Lena-uh3kyI hope you have a beautiful day sweetheart

  • @amh00130
    @amh00130 11 днів тому +3

    Polyamorous relationships just seem like one big HPV party

  • @Themilkman95
    @Themilkman95 Місяць тому +69

    This is how I picture a polyamorous trio

  • @kell90
    @kell90 Місяць тому +13

    Going between the two men and having other sexual relationships with others = walking STI risk!

  • @livewithnick
    @livewithnick Місяць тому +120

    What’s the point of being married if you have sexual and emotional relationships with other people? 🤷‍♂️🤔

    • @trppytoes7506
      @trppytoes7506 Місяць тому +1

      Retardation my friend, these look like the type of people who think there's more than two genders.

    • @saint333s
      @saint333s Місяць тому +21

      Right! Marriage is an oath to one another. Just stay single and okay the field. This is just a joke to marriage. Ugh! There's just no point in being married at that point 😐

    • @lorand-edmondiszlai9416
      @lorand-edmondiszlai9416 Місяць тому +33

      What's the point to watch and/or listen Soft White Underbelly and judge people after? You reduced the world to your understanding... and this is not the idea of this youtube channel.

    • @ksmithpmp
      @ksmithpmp Місяць тому +8

      What’s the point of inviting the government into your life and signing an unconscionable contract with a woman? Are there any benefits for a man that he doesn’t have with cohabitation and not getting married?

    • @tydupont8084
      @tydupont8084 Місяць тому +5

      @@lorand-edmondiszlai9416well said.

  • @christydavis5250
    @christydavis5250 Місяць тому +30

    Love that they are so open about everything and genuinely seem happy with all involved!

  • @kayem9909
    @kayem9909 Місяць тому +31

    Slipknot just started warming up at the end of the interview 😂

    • @samb9403
      @samb9403 Місяць тому

      Lol...vn reference, was thinking that too..the lady's hair

    • @XWoodbineX
      @XWoodbineX Місяць тому

      He defrosted a little

  • @golden1807
    @golden1807 Місяць тому +90

    What a trio!
    Geraldo Rivera, Melissa McCarthy and John Goodman!

  • @myshavikes6263
    @myshavikes6263 Місяць тому +12

    They seem so happy and open. I am also polyamorous and I feel a lot of what theyre saying. For people asking questions about STDs: MOST polyamorous people, are consistently getting tested on a regular bases. For me std checks are mandatory before sleeping with a new person. Also I don't have unprotected sex with anyone but my primary partner and vice versa. Everyone is very open about their sexual health status.
    Also not all relationships have to be sexual. There are many people on the asexual spectrum that are in polyamory as well, and they may only be in romantic and/or platonic relationships with other partners. Some polyamorous people have a lot of sex, and some barely have any. Everyone is different and likes different relationship dynamic

  • @GrayStarKiller
    @GrayStarKiller Місяць тому +16

    shannon is running both these men and honestly im kinda here for it

  • @aroseinwinter05
    @aroseinwinter05 Місяць тому +36

    Interesting interview - they’re all so down to earth & know themselves & each other very well ❤ I’m definitely monogamous, so I appreciate a glimpse into a different PoV. Love the respect Felix has for Brett & Brett for Felix, as well as their respecting Shannon. Of course. A different way to love & live, but certainly not wrong when between consenting adults.

    • @lindsayp9691
      @lindsayp9691 14 днів тому

      I wouldn’t say they are down to earth. I respect them being different . But they seem broken and hurt within and have a need to fit in with not fitting in.

  • @buddy.boyo88
    @buddy.boyo88 Місяць тому +55

    all polyamorous couples look like this ! the meme is real !

  • @nitemareman1
    @nitemareman1 Місяць тому +85

    These are the people that never got this out of their system in their youth. They weren’t pretty or handsome and it didn’t come easy. So they have to have an adult adolescence.

    • @mor4439
      @mor4439 Місяць тому +20

      Sums it up nicely. Something rather juvenile about their understanding of relationships and their actual role in society at large.

    • @harrypottah8889
      @harrypottah8889 Місяць тому

      or maybe they just wanna fucc two people.

    • @kcz81582
      @kcz81582 Місяць тому +4

      Very good point !

    • @allisonschneider924
      @allisonschneider924 Місяць тому +8

      Astute observation 😂💯👍

    • @13lilsykos
      @13lilsykos Місяць тому +4

      So basically the pretty people peeked in HS and these people are peeking now?

  • @sweetnsalty4602
    @sweetnsalty4602 Місяць тому +25

    They seem like super sweet people and I really love Shannon‘s hair💜💜

    • @Nxsta125
      @Nxsta125 Місяць тому +2

      I love her hair too!!

    • @sweetnsalty4602
      @sweetnsalty4602 Місяць тому +1

      @@AngelaHubbard258 I hope you start feeling better so you don’t feel the need to put people down anymore. Sending lots of love your way💯💜

    • @themfoosdidit
      @themfoosdidit Місяць тому +1

      anglo saxon people 😂

    • @grantmctaggart9942
      @grantmctaggart9942 Місяць тому +1

      Ehhh pretty sure you mean she hardly lets anyone get a word In talks over everyone and you a clearly controlling

  • @freckletopia7956
    @freckletopia7956 Місяць тому +11

    The comments in this video really show how prejudiced people are towards polyamory. Live and let live, they're happy and not hurting anyone.

  • @Echo-o-o
    @Echo-o-o Місяць тому +13

    This was way fun to watch--I was pleasantly surprised. The three of them are so likeable and at the same time different from each other.

  • @tennesse9243
    @tennesse9243 Місяць тому +53

    Love is beautiful however, even when it doesn’t fit in the standard ideas. I don’t get why people are so hateful.

    • @k_roc200-32
      @k_roc200-32 Місяць тому +6

      Love is beautiful HOWEVER I feel they aren't looking for love,they are just acting on physical fetishes

    • @tennesse9243
      @tennesse9243 Місяць тому +13

      @@k_roc200-32 seems to me you didn’t watch the whole video:)

    • @naelyneurkopfen9741
      @naelyneurkopfen9741 Місяць тому

      ​@@tennesse9243There's no love in this, it's perversion. I know you want filth to be normal, but it's not.

    • @pseudovictim
      @pseudovictim Місяць тому +8

      Don't confuse love for lust

    • @tennesse9243
      @tennesse9243 Місяць тому +3

      @@pseudovictim man you didn’t watch the whole video either

  • @aliciagrajeda9953
    @aliciagrajeda9953 Місяць тому +44

    She said, " A lot of the people we were meeting were gross!" 🙄🤔😆

    • @beeandbloomhomestead
      @beeandbloomhomestead Місяць тому +8

      I know the fact that she was saying that that's what made me laugh😅 she's a looker😅😅

    • @garrettcampbell8039
      @garrettcampbell8039 Місяць тому

      She would probably think a single guy like me would be 'gross', so that's why I don't even bother.

    • @Gram820
      @Gram820 Місяць тому

      She has more than high libido. Her childhood has messed her up.

    • @micro-uhgresh-uhnn
      @micro-uhgresh-uhnn Місяць тому

      Imagine that 😂

  • @thomasdavison7184
    @thomasdavison7184 Місяць тому +128

    Well as an American I am all for absolute freedom. As long as you aren't hurting someone else live your life how you want.

    • @aliciablanchard2500
      @aliciablanchard2500 Місяць тому +19

      @@thomasdavison7184 More people need to learn this concept. It doesn’t have to be my cup of tea for me to say cheers to them for finding what makes them happy. They get to choose what happiness looks like for them just as I get to choose what makes me happy. We don’t all have to be the same with the same beliefs.

    • @allisonschneider924
      @allisonschneider924 Місяць тому +8

      This is hurting my gag reflex 😂

    • @number3123
      @number3123 Місяць тому +14

      My religious beliefs aside, this dynamic definitely will hurt and affect their children’s lives dramatically

    • @myvibe9641
      @myvibe9641 Місяць тому +3

      Exactly. So many rude comments calling them gross. So borrow minded. You have a healthy approach. Life's to short to worry about what other people are happy about.

    • @dustinrustick8450
      @dustinrustick8450 Місяць тому +2

      Having an opinion on it doesn't impact their freedom to do it.

  • @Mmmmkaaay
    @Mmmmkaaay Місяць тому +144

    This is my Cleopatra fantasy. Men fawning over me. 🤣🤣
    So far only my male cat is onboard...

    • @ArdentNotary
      @ArdentNotary Місяць тому +6

      Bahaha omg yes

    • @jaymegallo5575
      @jaymegallo5575 Місяць тому

      @@acmhfmggruno

    • @mrmustard007
      @mrmustard007 Місяць тому

      @@Mmmmkaaay loved you unconditionally, the rest ?

    • @Mmmmkaaay
      @Mmmmkaaay Місяць тому +4

      @@acmhfmggru No. Narcissism is when you have such a low image of yourself that you act like you are better than everyone in an effort to counteract the dismal low self esteem. It also causes a person to act entitled and to never admit when they're wrong. They also have issues having compassion and empathy.
      Believe me, I've suffered from plenty of narcissists. I am definitely not one. I just have a fantasy of wanting to be adored after a lifetime of rejection. Does that make sense? 😁

    • @WeDontRocKWitShEeP
      @WeDontRocKWitShEeP Місяць тому

      😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

  • @Emzdra
    @Emzdra Місяць тому +25

    I would love to hear the kids opinions on this from their own mouths

    • @morganlebepe4378
      @morganlebepe4378 Місяць тому +2

      why?

    • @savvagecabbage23
      @savvagecabbage23 Місяць тому

      @@morganlebepe4378because it will inevitably have negative effects on them

    • @cstorres8243
      @cstorres8243 Місяць тому +4

      I would have been mortified if my parents showed up on the Internet talking about f*ing anything that moves.

    • @katiechaz1208
      @katiechaz1208 Місяць тому +3

      @@cstorres8243okay and that’s you 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @akaku9
      @akaku9 Місяць тому

      @@katiechaz1208 Huge defense, here we're really pulling out all the stops aren't we?

  • @nikkinteddyluv
    @nikkinteddyluv Місяць тому +13

    The love her husband has is so perfect. Thanks for sharing this

  • @hilaryhodus8585
    @hilaryhodus8585 Місяць тому +17

    I like their attitudes and honesty; as someone said, ‘communication is key’ and they seem to understand that. Their lifestyle may not be everyone’s cup of tea, and if not, don’t drink! otherwise, live and let live.

  • @Nxsta125
    @Nxsta125 Місяць тому +9

    I love how Felix explained "love" as more than just a feeling, spot on!!100% relate.

  • @bloatyheadrob
    @bloatyheadrob Місяць тому +95

    Dude on the right hates this loll

    • @wesleyalan9179
      @wesleyalan9179 Місяць тому +19

      Ahhh, he's in it for the $ just like he's in it for the nookie😂

    • @GypsyRock
      @GypsyRock Місяць тому +12

      @@wesleyalan9179"I did it all for the nookie WHAT the nookie"🎵🎵

    • @aceshigh5157
      @aceshigh5157 Місяць тому +7

      @@GypsyRock as a slipknot fan, something tells me he also doesn't like limp.

    • @JanzZone
      @JanzZone Місяць тому +11

      Not really. He’s just got a grumpy face but he’s cool with this. 😊

    • @misterwallace3479
      @misterwallace3479 Місяць тому

      @@GypsyRock AND you can take that cookie, and stick it up......

  • @lisastember7242
    @lisastember7242 Місяць тому +6

    It was such a joy to see you guy’s, being so open, so honest… I hope all three of you have a long beautiful life.

  • @connorchavez5584
    @connorchavez5584 23 дні тому +3

    The way people in the comments refuse to understand that someone else's lifestyle is their business and no one is forcing you to live the same. "If my partner did this-" who caaaares

    • @deadbythirty4254
      @deadbythirty4254 10 днів тому

      Literally, they expect everyone to live life the same way who gives af if they ain’t causing problems.

  • @jordanalberts874
    @jordanalberts874 Місяць тому +10

    I really enjoyed this one. I’m an open minded person but I could never share my husband but this made me applaud open couples because now I see that you must have insane trust and also insane self confidence to do this lifestyle right! Love it.

  • @kaylaw1370
    @kaylaw1370 Місяць тому +6

    I'm monogamous. My husband and I want no other than each other, BUT this couple answered a lot of "how does that work questions?"They seem to have a lot of communication, which was surprising to learn. I would not nor want that life, but I'm not here to judge others who do. I hope they are all living their happiest unusual life. Life is short. Just stay in my lane wishing everyone the best as I drive by. I found my happy I think if the world can find their own happy, the world would be a better place.

  • @gsutton219
    @gsutton219 10 днів тому +1

    What I find SUPER interesting about situations like these, is that if it is a woman with multiple husbands/ boyfriends then the group is generally unattractive but if it’s a man with multiple women then the group is generally attractive.

  • @Nxsta125
    @Nxsta125 Місяць тому +11

    I highly respect and appreciate the open communication in this trio, heightens the respect, love and loyalty at the end of the day. Enjoyed this interview a lot!!

  • @bloatyheadrob
    @bloatyheadrob Місяць тому +96

    This never ends well

    • @mattparr3038
      @mattparr3038 Місяць тому +11

      100%, never works out well either.

    • @tydupont8084
      @tydupont8084 Місяць тому +16

      Typically no, but they’ve been doing it for 9 years. It seems to be working for them right? It won’t work with most people because honesty and jealousy is the big issue

    • @mattparr3038
      @mattparr3038 Місяць тому +5

      @@tydupont8084 seems to be? Things aren't always as they seem. When you know you have an audience, youred say anything. Behind the scenes in real life, i think there would be more issues than it's worth.

    • @k_roc200-32
      @k_roc200-32 Місяць тому +1

      Never!

    • @bloatyheadrob
      @bloatyheadrob Місяць тому +6

      @@tydupont8084did you watch the video? these people are clearly miserable and extremely jealous and insecure

  • @katrinascheuermann763
    @katrinascheuermann763 Місяць тому +23

    Imagine this is your mom or dad. Wow

    • @jeffreyrose686
      @jeffreyrose686 Місяць тому +6

      With the amount of abusive or absent dads out there, I’d bet there’s a lot of people who would prefer a loving poly parent to what they have

    • @morganlebepe4378
      @morganlebepe4378 Місяць тому

      happy mom and dad?

    • @eustab.anas-mann9510
      @eustab.anas-mann9510 Місяць тому

      Dont be a bigot

    • @FrankLuck1
      @FrankLuck1 Місяць тому

      I wish this would've been my biggest problem with my father growing up

  • @leannaharding2224
    @leannaharding2224 Місяць тому +28

    Thanks again mark I love all your videos, so insightful and educational ❤

  • @jackandlill
    @jackandlill Місяць тому +31

    Boy it sure seems like the comment section is full of perfect, beautiful people! Keyboard cowboys & cowgirls - judging people they don't know & most not even having the capacity, tenacity or common courtesy to listen to what these 3 have to share about their alternative way of life!! Of course we are all entitled to our own opinions - but the nasty & unnecessary comments are just really sad!! Thank you Felix, Shannon & Brett for having the courage to share a way of life & love & sex that you have found that works for you!!

    • @schoomzer
      @schoomzer Місяць тому +1

      You're a little judgy, too. Let them judge others, so do you!!!

    • @jackandlill
      @jackandlill Місяць тому +1

      @@schoomzer Never said I wasn't! I know the golden rule...every time you point a finger there are 3 pointing back at you!

    • @schoomzer
      @schoomzer Місяць тому +1

      @@jackandlill Sure....you're doing a great job. Thanks for being such a huge source of enlightenment. Lol

  • @susan6741
    @susan6741 Місяць тому +4

    I'm not sure if this lifestyle would be for me, but I would love to have friends like these three people in my life. They just seem like completely awesome people who happen to live a different way. And I appreciate awesome people, no matter how they want to live. We need more of this type of acceptance, and a whole lot less judgement.

  • @elizabethmwangi5529
    @elizabethmwangi5529 Місяць тому +5

    The husband looks a little jealous of Brett, seems she likes Brett too, constantly going for his hand.Brett is so emotionally connected to her,he looks hurt when she mentions about other boyfriends.

  • @christinageo1940
    @christinageo1940 Місяць тому +68

    Poor woman, she needs the validation so badly.. when at 5.40 she says they both get jealous of her, she seems so happy, bless her. And she really likes to hear herself talk 🤣 Those kids will have some problems growing up

    • @tyrellanderson4722
      @tyrellanderson4722 Місяць тому +2

      They have kids??

    • @kcz81582
      @kcz81582 Місяць тому +1

      Yep

    • @aceshigh5157
      @aceshigh5157 Місяць тому +4

      that's the one thing i always have issues with. they mentioned that the kids know the slipknot dude, which is fine, but i really hope the kids don't know that the parents are poly. that just wouldn't be appropriate.

    • @Emi-t1d
      @Emi-t1d Місяць тому +2

      ​@@tyrellanderson4722 Yes. Early on she said they have kids.

    • @1FairyGothMother
      @1FairyGothMother Місяць тому +3

      Only that isn’t what happened. She said the BF got jealous. Not that they both do.

  • @shesamime
    @shesamime Місяць тому +4

    I see a lot of people commenting about the risk of STDs in poly relationships. Most poly relationships have a general rule that you use external protection (condoms, etc.) with new partners, and are tested regularly anyway. It all relies on trust. Just like monogamous relationships trust their partner not to cheat on them and get an std, poly partners trust their partners to take necessary precautions to protect themselves and their polycule.

    • @Feliciations
      @Feliciations 23 дні тому

      HPV and herpes can be transmitted even with condoms. And men can't be tested for HPV. It is risky, just a risk that all involved have to be aware of and agree to.

  • @jasonbrittain9258
    @jasonbrittain9258 Місяць тому +101

    when I was younger, it didn’t seem like there were so many weird people out there like there is now

    • @Looch1717
      @Looch1717 Місяць тому +40

      Internet has been a game-changer for people finding each other. "weird" people now have an avenue to find each other, express themselves, and also to dig deeper into whatever thing they were curious about or fantasising about.
      Before, people were forced to be more closeted about things because there was no way of finding others like yourself. I also think that the internet has led to people going way deeper into weird stuff than they would have ever done without it.

    • @I-am-permabanned-from-replying
      @I-am-permabanned-from-replying Місяць тому

      There was more of a healthy social fabric back in the day. Now the weirdness is an aftereffect of people being more encouraged to follow their darker and lower impulses.

    • @whoknowswhocares885
      @whoknowswhocares885 Місяць тому +13

      @@Looch1717
      I really think a lot of people should have stayed closeted with something like this.

    • @wesleyalan9179
      @wesleyalan9179 Місяць тому +6

      ​@@Looch1717
      You're correct, I was gonna say the same thing.

    • @millhouse313
      @millhouse313 Місяць тому +11

      The internet has skewed society so much.

  • @dolosang
    @dolosang Місяць тому +10

    yikes. The poor children, living in a household where no sexual boundaries exist. Horrorific.

  • @psnisy1234
    @psnisy1234 Місяць тому +6

    It's clears she RUNS the relationship.

  • @tka1528
    @tka1528 Місяць тому +23

    In my early 30s I met a girl like that, she had me talk to her husband on the phone before we met in person and all he wanted me to do is respect and treat his wife good. It was the most bazzar thing I have ever encountered. She was wild and into everything and then some, whatever I wanted to do was fine with her, I was vanilla before meeting her and she showed me some really wild times

    • @brysoncain7506
      @brysoncain7506 Місяць тому +5

      You did adultery hopefully you repented and don't have Wild times with married ladies anymore... god bless u

    • @deez2569
      @deez2569 Місяць тому

      ​@@brysoncain7506 *long**sigh* 🙄

    • @katiechaz1208
      @katiechaz1208 Місяць тому +3

      @@brysoncain7506are you God?

    • @ravenesqueone3033
      @ravenesqueone3033 Місяць тому

      It's not adultry if you're not married.​@@brysoncain7506

    • @ronjohnson4059
      @ronjohnson4059 Місяць тому

      @@brysoncain7506I’m crying 😭😭😭😭😭 literally in tears rofllllllllllllllll

  • @sunnyquinn3888
    @sunnyquinn3888 Місяць тому +5

    "A crapton of communication", that's really the key to everything right there.

  • @Isnotreal42
    @Isnotreal42 Місяць тому +81

    Stay hard boys or this is going to be you. Work out, fight hard

  • @sv7544
    @sv7544 Місяць тому +6

    This is the cutest “partnership”ever! You can see how everyone respects each other and we’re so honest.

  • @Papdog429
    @Papdog429 Місяць тому +42

    Rotate screen to landscape mode for optimum viewing experience

    • @brianstewart9470
      @brianstewart9470 Місяць тому +3

      🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴

    • @goergeskaplan2910
      @goergeskaplan2910 Місяць тому +3

      Oh come on!! You can't make me laugh like that and feel so guilty at the same time. Not cool Bru... o_O

    • @scottgibbons2904
      @scottgibbons2904 Місяць тому +2

      And turn on ones favorite youtube music station too

    • @Matt-fn1km
      @Matt-fn1km Місяць тому +2

      Nah I’m fine thanks 😆

    • @solangelalebron1348
      @solangelalebron1348 Місяць тому

      To see the ugly creatures bigger? ....Never.

  • @Hardcastle83
    @Hardcastle83 Місяць тому +42

    I notice something with polyamorous triples;
    2 girls 1 guy - everyone is hot
    2 guys 1 girl - everyone is repulsive

    • @aliciablanchard2500
      @aliciablanchard2500 Місяць тому +22

      This world is filled with judgement. I disagree, these three are not repulsive. Do they look like people you would see in a runway modeling event, maybe not. Repulsive, no they aren’t repulsive.

    • @giacomopiccinini9157
      @giacomopiccinini9157 Місяць тому +12

      Harsh words, but I’d be lying if I said I disagree

    • @Chocolatesauce81
      @Chocolatesauce81 Місяць тому +3

      lol

    • @Redheadedpepper
      @Redheadedpepper Місяць тому +1

      Thanks girl. That's what we are about. No judgement and promoting peace and love and helping others. ​@@aliciablanchard2500

    • @aliciablanchard2500
      @aliciablanchard2500 Місяць тому +1

      @@acmhfmggru what works for someone else doesn’t have to work for me. I get to choose just like they get to choose what works best for them. What they are doing in their life doesn’t impact me or others and for that reason I can’t do anything but say “cheers to being happy whatever that may look like”🥂

  • @vh1775
    @vh1775 Місяць тому +48

    Exactly what I thought they’d look like

    • @expectthabest951
      @expectthabest951 Місяць тому +10

      😂😂💯

    • @trppytoes7506
      @trppytoes7506 Місяць тому +9

      Yeah that's why they are all sleeping together, because no one else wants to jump in the sheets with them.

    • @ellenpederson-lewis8557
      @ellenpederson-lewis8557 Місяць тому +1

      That's just rude. On this channel, judging doesn't work.

  • @Sometimeslifeiscrazy
    @Sometimeslifeiscrazy Місяць тому +6

    Those poor fucking kids.

  • @kristystevens5773
    @kristystevens5773 Місяць тому +18

    Loved this interview Mark. Great one! It gave me and mine a discussion

  • @peggygreeby5065
    @peggygreeby5065 Місяць тому +19

    Doesn't this get confusing? A and B are married, they bring in C, who is also married to D, and D sometimes joins in. On the side of that are E and F, who, I think, see A and B, plus A and E see each other outside of the rest, add that to swinging, and poly-way too many, I could never keep track of it all. Throw in heirachy and I'm done!
    On a side note, we're all human, with emotions we can't always control, and this can go wrong in SO MANY ways. It's easy enough to say you won't get emotionally involved when you meet someone, but who can guarantee that? This is a minefield, the next step could blow your leg off.

  • @lburke2002
    @lburke2002 Місяць тому +19

    They are well adjusted people. I appreciate the candid interview. I understand this lifestyle better. Thank you!!

    • @user-nj9db2tg9w
      @user-nj9db2tg9w Місяць тому +2

      You know the definition of well adjusted means “their behavior is not difficult or strange and they are reasonable and have good judgement.” These people are not well adjusted people in society. 😂

  • @emilypashak9834
    @emilypashak9834 Місяць тому +5

    Loved this interview, they were absolutely lovely and so down to earth about it! I am poly as well and love when it is served in the right light and context because it is not so scary and evil, it is just another way to do things on earth while we are here! We should be open to experiences with the people we love and who love us right back!.

  • @noriwilliams4637
    @noriwilliams4637 Місяць тому +51

    I feel sorry for their children.

    • @shriekingbushpigshrieking
      @shriekingbushpigshrieking Місяць тому

      yep. they're already behind the 8 ball.... at least mom is happy which is the important thing here...

  • @ktcooki276
    @ktcooki276 Місяць тому +46

    I'd rather spend half an hour talking to these guys than some of you toxic nobs in the comments real talk.

    • @janusb.7032
      @janusb.7032 Місяць тому +12

      You're so much of a better person than everyone else! You truely are the best virtue signal-er in this comment section.

    • @whoknowswhocares885
      @whoknowswhocares885 Місяць тому +6

      @@ktcooki276
      Just admit that you wanna get in on the Poly nightmare.

    • @famlomshalom7348
      @famlomshalom7348 Місяць тому +3

      Sounds like someones partner told them they have to sit and watch 😂😂

    • @naelyneurkopfen9741
      @naelyneurkopfen9741 Місяць тому

      Because you're an amoral pervert. That's literally not a flex.

    • @iamnoone940
      @iamnoone940 Місяць тому +1

      @@famlomshalom7348Then perform cleanup afterwards 😂

  • @sheadjustedhercrown1633
    @sheadjustedhercrown1633 Місяць тому +11

    If unhealed trauma was a video..

  • @MsSianGentle
    @MsSianGentle Місяць тому +10

    This is terrifying… all I can think of is the amount of std’s that are potentially in the mix 😷

    • @katiechaz1208
      @katiechaz1208 Місяць тому +2

      Terrifying? What if they just get regularly tested? Not that terrifying if you’re responsible

    • @MsSianGentle
      @MsSianGentle Місяць тому

      @@katiechaz1208 sure that would be great but 1 thing I’ve learnt in life is you can’t rely on humans to be responsible.

    • @Feliciations
      @Feliciations 23 дні тому

      And testing is AFTER the fact. So you can have an STD and spread it, but not test positive right away.

    • @jennyb6025
      @jennyb6025 19 днів тому

      Exactly… the three of them, plus slip knots partner, all daring other people who are all dating other people… they said that they’ve slept with some a$$holes… it only takes one person who isn’t regularly tested or faked it/ only just contracted and there could be a pretty large outbreak.
      Imagine if it was gonnareah, herpes or HIV…
      Sounds like the web spreads pretty wide when they are all multiple dating.. 😮

  • @ArdentNotary
    @ArdentNotary Місяць тому +32

    They’re charming and clearly have love for one another. I dig it. Let your freak flag fly, baby!

  • @sidneydykes5032
    @sidneydykes5032 Місяць тому +32

    It’s crazy these two 50 year old men are sharing this 2 and somehow think they aren’t schmucks

  • @angelica9684
    @angelica9684 Місяць тому +10

    Love this interview, gives you a different perspective. All my monogamist relationships ended in disaster.

    • @Sergio-nb4hj
      @Sergio-nb4hj Місяць тому +2

      Sounds like a skill issue. You're not good at loving people

  • @IrisDel-qo8xi
    @IrisDel-qo8xi Місяць тому +2

    People are so rude with these comments
    They look happy and that's what they want to do with THEIR lives
    I think part of the reason people especially men don't like their lifestyle is that the woman also has lovers of her own. It would be totally ok with them if only the man was sleeping with others

    • @ellaelle6964
      @ellaelle6964 7 днів тому

      I completely agree. The comments here are so sad and judgemental. These people want to share their story about what works for them. I thought the viewers of this channel were mostly open minded and non judgemental…

  • @rpnp2
    @rpnp2 Місяць тому +8

    I don't think this would work out well for 99.5% of the population. But not my life, so not going to pass any judgement.

  • @Zoomer-te9us
    @Zoomer-te9us Місяць тому +3

    “We’re not dealing with that kind of drama”
    Girl is holding hands with two men

  • @trppytoes7506
    @trppytoes7506 Місяць тому +16

    God UA-cam sucks. They delete the comments that call these people on their bull shit and when we say what everyone else is thinking. These kind of people are ruining society.

  • @pandaeats1858
    @pandaeats1858 Місяць тому +1

    They seem so happy and they healthy. They have more communication than most marriages.

  • @yvonnedeboer7535
    @yvonnedeboer7535 Місяць тому +1

    Very nice to see these people so nice and open about this.
    No jealously! The guys calling themselves brothers.
    Perfect situation for the three of them. ❤

  • @mattyx25
    @mattyx25 Місяць тому +5

    Polyamory is for people with a scheduling kink.

  • @antimaxsmacks
    @antimaxsmacks Місяць тому +6

    I’m glad they’re happy or whatever, but this seems like an absolute mess. To each their own, though…

  • @barryferris3950
    @barryferris3950 Місяць тому +2

    I like them . They are happy . No judgement here. They are open and communicate very well .

  • @darlingpriceless
    @darlingpriceless 6 днів тому

    I'm from Nigeria and VERY much interested in polyamory...but it's a taboo to think or talk about it... hence the reason I'm single.
    It's a relief to know that people can talk about this beautiful lifestyle FREELY

  • @ky11622
    @ky11622 Місяць тому +6

    Tell me you have no sexual control without telling me you have no sexual control.

  • @darlalove
    @darlalove Місяць тому +9

    I hope like hell they’re not on the second floor of an apartment.

  • @Teenywing
    @Teenywing 24 дні тому +2

    These three could cure anyone’s sex addiction on sight.

  • @keelynnemalek8498
    @keelynnemalek8498 Місяць тому +5

    Props to these folks, I could never live this lifestyle personally.