Toxic TikTok 'Boy Moms' Are Getting Worse

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 242

  • @YiddishPartisan45
    @YiddishPartisan45 Місяць тому +169

    Sigmond Freud would be doing unicycle tricks in has grave

  • @mirrhi9829
    @mirrhi9829 Місяць тому +74

    PSA the "boymom" with the doll is a satire account. She often posts taking the piss out of toxic boymoms

  • @rosalindmccollum6012
    @rosalindmccollum6012 Місяць тому +103

    FYI, Sarah (the one with the doll) is a joke account who makes parody videos about these kinds of things. Toxic Influencers, Toxic Boy Moms, Weird Girl Best Friends, etc etc.

  • @sublimemaddie
    @sublimemaddie Місяць тому +58

    ok but our girl has graduated CONGRALUATIONS KAT WE LOVE YOU AND ARE SO DAMN PROUD!!!!!

  • @stacieface7427
    @stacieface7427 Місяць тому +39

    As a mum of 3 boys I can't relate 🤷🏻‍♀️. My oldest is 21, 6 foot and a good looking lad, that's as far as it goes. I've taught him how to bake and cook so he can look after himself AND others. This is just vile 🤢

  • @sharihazlett3774
    @sharihazlett3774 Місяць тому +21

    If you date someone with a mom like this, RUN as fast as you can

  • @itcat_x2605
    @itcat_x2605 Місяць тому +109

    Life Hack: Can't have toxic parents if you're an Orphan! Aha! I win!

    • @sn00pyi3s
      @sn00pyi3s Місяць тому +5

      LMFAO OH NO 😭

    • @kaciehawkins4210
      @kaciehawkins4210 Місяць тому +1

      W

    • @mikryan6567
      @mikryan6567 Місяць тому +1

      Always look on the bright side of life, dad taught me.....oh shit sorry

    • @samhunt125
      @samhunt125 Місяць тому +1

      I love you. I don’t know you, but I do😂

    • @mikryan6567
      @mikryan6567 Місяць тому

      @@itcat_x2605 danananana batgirl

  • @shadowmere235
    @shadowmere235 Місяць тому +16

    It's weird as hell, I actually know a few people with mothers like that. Buddy of mine is a grown man in his 30s and is talking to his mother 5 times a day and she tells him stuff like "You are the most important man in my life"
    It's cringe as hell.

    • @kokuhakuqiun4215
      @kokuhakuqiun4215 Місяць тому +2

      It’s embarrassing to see mothers act like this

  • @tiggtiggb5873
    @tiggtiggb5873 Місяць тому +13

    Unfortunately these are the kind of Moms that say"boys will be boys" when their little boy gets into trouble at school They then get older, into abusive relationships, and the mom is saying the same thing

  • @imagine-o3y
    @imagine-o3y Місяць тому +38

    Its either the mum's push the son away,or pull them so close they don't leave. I recently saw a post (i don't know when it originally was) that a 14-16 year old boy got arms length tattoo of his moms name.

    • @EatinPaste
      @EatinPaste Місяць тому

      Was the mum dead or alive?

    • @imagine-o3y
      @imagine-o3y Місяць тому +2

      @@EatinPaste alive, she's the one who gave permission. She posted it on Facebook or tiktok I think

    • @EatinPaste
      @EatinPaste Місяць тому

      @@imagine-o3y Yeah that’s weird. Unless she has cancer or something. And gave permission?

    • @imagine-o3y
      @imagine-o3y Місяць тому

      @@EatinPaste yeah,I'm pretty sure she would have to anyway since he's so young. I'm not sure if she has any diseases.

    • @imagine-o3y
      @imagine-o3y Місяць тому +1

      @@onitpodcast some people get their family members name or something that reminds them of their family member. My mom got a hummingbird for my great great grandma who passed away in 2022. it just means something to someone. But I do agree,he probably shouldn't have done that. Especially when it's the size of your arm.

  • @chrasvids
    @chrasvids Місяць тому +11

    I’m glad my mum wasn’t like this, my mum just moved across the country and rarely even says hello 😂😂

  • @arpitmalodia
    @arpitmalodia Місяць тому +40

    Game of thrones has caused a lot of damage

  • @RealSnarb
    @RealSnarb Місяць тому +7

    My mom was a prototype of this sort of mom. If you want an update on what happened: I ended up moving away and transitioning, and now we aren't on speaking terms. But hey, at least my mom doesn't find me attractive anymore. So that's a win in my book.
    What's really tragic is, most of these kids will end up needing extensive mental health care later on down the road, and a majority of them will not receive adequate care. These parents are just pushing their problems onto their children instead of going to therapy, shifting the burden of seeking treatment onto the child. It's so fucked

  • @saralove9805
    @saralove9805 Місяць тому +8

    Also if my kids gf/bf came over and was eating all my food I would just be happy to know that I helped feed a hungry kid. If a kid is always coming over to eat you need to wonder why they are always hungry, they may not have the best home life

    • @phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690
      @phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690 Місяць тому +1

      Unless your family us like mine everyone came to my house to eat in the 80s lolz we had all the neighborhood kids overs and we fed everyone when I was a kid .

  • @billieboo7760
    @billieboo7760 Місяць тому +10

    Everyone would be up in arms with their pitchforks if the roles were reversed 'girldads'..

    • @DiscoTimelordASD
      @DiscoTimelordASD Місяць тому

      Oh they're a thing.
      They have been for a long time.

  • @saralove9805
    @saralove9805 Місяць тому +4

    Teach your son to cook and clean because hes a human that needs to learn those things. Older men are looking for a mommy (not a girlfriend) because their mommies acted like this. They think what makes a good woman is being able to cook and clean for them.

  • @xwannabeetinkerbellx
    @xwannabeetinkerbellx Місяць тому +4

    Pigeon.
    And dang I remember when the posts like “I’m his first love, I’m his first kiss” started to show up on my newsfeed and I thought, wtf? Why would any mother compare herself to a lover 😂😂

  • @hakleach
    @hakleach Місяць тому +5

    I'm a nearly 30 year old dad and 2 things. I was called out by the spag bol comment 😅
    And as a dad, I'm doing everything I can to make my little boy as independent as he can be ready to face life with anybody, how he chooses, and then be there for him if he needs me when that time comes. It's the most basic concept of parenting

  • @0.0dots
    @0.0dots Місяць тому +4

    Am soo glad im not like these boy moms. I take pride in loving my son but also knowing when there's a boundary that doesn't need to be crossed. You should also talk about how toxic dads are with their daughters when it comes to their boyfriends. Havent seen a video like that before. Also I LOVE YOUR PHONE CASE ITS SOOOO CUTE!!❤

    • @billkosses3808
      @billkosses3808 Місяць тому

      The phone case was my only real criticism

    • @DiscoTimelordASD
      @DiscoTimelordASD Місяць тому

      Toxic girl dads have been around for so long and treated like a casual joke, which is so disturbing.

  • @SaranneHuxton1996
    @SaranneHuxton1996 Місяць тому +8

    This was so good, your delivery is spot on 😂 wtf are these people doing

  • @BoobooAndre
    @BoobooAndre Місяць тому +9

    That last little boy be hitting different, amirite😂

    • @cameronbromley9772
      @cameronbromley9772 Місяць тому

      Bruh this popped up as she said that 😭

    • @MayaLove777
      @MayaLove777 Місяць тому +1

      Literallg hitting different csuse he hits hits his sisters and the mum just lets him that is horrific

  • @michaelalpert8328
    @michaelalpert8328 Місяць тому +15

    9:13 she’s a satire account btw (little too good at it some times lol)

    • @katiclyzm
      @katiclyzm  Місяць тому +9

      thank god 😦😦😦

    • @phantomx2603
      @phantomx2603 Місяць тому +3

      Omg I HATE her, but it's because she is SO good at the delivery.

  • @Flyingocelot90
    @Flyingocelot90 Місяць тому +1

    Newest favourite channel. Also your voice reminds me of that audio sample of the lady saying "It’s about time you fell in love with something that will love you back! And that, my friends, is house music. It doesn’t judge you! And I won’t either" and that was worth two subs

  • @WolfSquad076
    @WolfSquad076 Місяць тому +16

    Babe wake up Katiclyzm just uploaded

    • @DiamondAviator4
      @DiamondAviator4 Місяць тому +2

      Lol you saying to your gf?

    • @WolfSquad076
      @WolfSquad076 Місяць тому +4

      @@DiamondAviator4 no... It's just a thing people comment

  • @Nari-7022
    @Nari-7022 Місяць тому +3

    each day that goes by is one more day where i realise freud mightve been onto something

  • @bevmulroy5877
    @bevmulroy5877 Місяць тому

    I will say that I have looked at my kiddos, and that they are going to grow up gorgeous... my thoughts were only "there is going to be a lot of broken hearts and with heartbreak comes drama. The teen years are going to be looooong" LOL. I'm speaking light heartedly of course. The thought of looking at your children, and seeing them as anything OTHER than your CHILDREN is beyond weird to me!!

  • @braind3adggs
    @braind3adggs Місяць тому +3

    Life Hack #2: Just cause they are involved in the creation process doesn't mean they're a parent :D Toxic parents? They aren't entitled to your time / effort.
    I have a father who said I deserved the s*ual abuse I got from a man 10 years older than me because of what I was wearing. I was 15-16 and being S*ually abused by a 25-26 year old man for over a year. Only time I've talked to him is when it has to do with my nephews and I've not been around him in private since. This is coming from a man who threw me out of a moving vehicle going 55MPH on an interstate here. (PS. His friend is the one who SA'd me) My mom wasn't much better for context because she walked hand in hand into a courtroom where she called her three year old a liar on the stand when the child was testifying about being CSA'd and physically abused by her and her husband. I'm lucky.. because in both cases both my stepfather and the friend of my dad's were put in prison because they proved it was true and my mom spent 6 years in the pen before being released to a home because of a terminal genetic disease that she has (I inherited it).. Many survivors don't get lucky enough to ever see any kind of justice...

  • @closeyamy
    @closeyamy Місяць тому +8

    The banana clip 🤮
    Also, pigeon

  • @ShawniaMarie
    @ShawniaMarie Місяць тому +2

    😱🤢🥴🤦‍♀️🤯NO NO NO!!! These are our baby boys!! Our children!! How in the world?!? These babies need to be away from these creepy, toxic moms!! They all need to be on a registery!!!

  • @Arctic-void-z7f
    @Arctic-void-z7f Місяць тому +5

    I can’t remember where I seen them before. but I’ve seen someone react to them yah They creepy as shouldn’t be parents

  • @DarkBowserr
    @DarkBowserr Місяць тому

    My intrusive thoughts almost won twice when I posted a clip of homeless Cartman from the South Park Covid special with the caption “How y’all sons gonna end up if you keep coddling and enabling them” I gotta chill fr.

  • @approximateknowledge5577
    @approximateknowledge5577 Місяць тому

    Why would a mom put their head on a 13 year olds lap? They have ..erm...involuntary things happening below the waist.......jeez. So weird.

  • @chilibeer3912
    @chilibeer3912 Місяць тому +1

    I happen to think Sigmund Freud would quite like a lot of this

  • @ChaCha_Boop
    @ChaCha_Boop Місяць тому +3

    You look so pretty today- a simple compliment for the algorithm growth lol

  • @vintagestealth8802
    @vintagestealth8802 Місяць тому +1

    10:30
    Extremely uncomfortable, very unhinged behavior.

  • @ameliamae9227
    @ameliamae9227 Місяць тому

    My husband gave his mom a key to our house after we got married and she showed up the DAY AFTER WE GOT BACK FROM OUR HONEYMOON!!!!! I took that key right away because I didn't know he had given it to her......also his mom and step-dad own a condo in FL and we pay a very small discounted rate but guess who has to come down and need to spend the day or spend a night or two with us!!!!! I had to put a stop to that last year but of course they just had to come down to the condo for whatever reason the day after we arrived and we had to go hang out and she kept making passive aggressive comments about me not letting her stay

  • @buradi90
    @buradi90 Місяць тому +1

    Pigeon. I felt genuinely sick to my stomach when the mom ate the food from the baby's mouth and I am a mom.

  • @stasiacat.
    @stasiacat. 24 дні тому

    This gives me the same ICK and vibes as dads giving their daughters "purity rings". Actually deranged stg. Great vid tho girl🖤

  • @КГБКолДжорджКостанца

    Ahh from TikTok, same rank as Kick for the amount of controversy that happens

  • @haideralikhan7021
    @haideralikhan7021 Місяць тому

    And people thought Freud was a incestual psychopath

  • @L0rde_Tezuka
    @L0rde_Tezuka Місяць тому +1

    Hey I just discovered your channel today and I’m really enjoying itttt, pigeon ❤️

  • @titolino73
    @titolino73 Місяць тому +1

    He showered once a week, I had a lot to compete with!🙄🤣🤣🤣

  • @RocksterStudios-tt3eh
    @RocksterStudios-tt3eh Місяць тому

    Ngl I feel like most these “boymoms” should get a visit by CPS for every post 💀

  • @MaryKurosawa
    @MaryKurosawa Місяць тому

    The only thing that beats dating a moms boy is dating a dads boy, oh god it was miserable! i wouldnt wish the life i had on my worst enemy 😭

  • @balzackify
    @balzackify Місяць тому

    Bro spag bowl and cheese?! is that something people say? I'm adopting the shit outta that.

  • @teganofford-is9rx
    @teganofford-is9rx Місяць тому

    As a mum of a boy, I will never be like this because its just fucking weird

  • @Bluemeowss
    @Bluemeowss Місяць тому

    Everytime I watch one of these videos and I see Anna im just reminded of when Stacey Dooley visited their home for a documentary 😭

  • @yvonnerodrigue2969
    @yvonnerodrigue2969 Місяць тому

    WTF?! That is sooo CRINGEY!! 😬 I have 3 sons & couldn't imagine being like that against them & especially their girlfriends. 2 of 3 have girlfriends.. 💝

  • @DiscoTimelordASD
    @DiscoTimelordASD Місяць тому

    Why is no one talking about toxic girl dads? They've been around for way longer.

  • @MaureenR1979
    @MaureenR1979 Місяць тому

    Im a mum of a boy and i 100% agree with you that shits weird!!!!🤬 xx

  • @brodywwww
    @brodywwww Місяць тому

    Treating your daughters like competition and your boys like mini husbands gross but I will say I have seen just as many toxic boy dads who neglect their sons and baby their daughters like they are queen shiba and the rest of the world should too

  • @haleyandre1789
    @haleyandre1789 Місяць тому

    I have a son and when I see these videos I'm like 😮😮😮😮 wtf is wrong with them!!!. A mother is supposed to raise her children and love them not be in love with them 😡. So gross.

  • @mikryan6567
    @mikryan6567 Місяць тому

    Have lots of friends boys n girls, who have complained about guys sleep walking n pissing in a cupboard , teach that

  • @sco.crysis7553
    @sco.crysis7553 Місяць тому

    i had no idea what this was but now i am even more sad for humanity

  • @MichaelFisher-mz8yq
    @MichaelFisher-mz8yq Місяць тому

    YEAH she's back, so missed you Katty

  • @samhunt125
    @samhunt125 Місяць тому

    I’m so thankful my Mother in-law is not Toxically obsessed with my Husband. Instead she’s on my side😎 not that we need to take sides, but you get the sentiment😂

  • @josephst4ff
    @josephst4ff Місяць тому

    This trend is WILD. It's pretty much sexualising your child. And as you said, as it is a mother and son bond most people would weirdly excuse and accept it, despite the crazy overbearing control and obsession the mothers have of their son. But if the roles were reversed, it would seem immensely more inappropriate and people would react a lot more negatively. Some people should not be parents💀

  • @manythings4242
    @manythings4242 Місяць тому

    Dang i finally found a video that doesnt involve ava tyson and you got a nice voice

  • @DiamondAviator4
    @DiamondAviator4 Місяць тому +2

    I ❤ your hair mate.

  • @phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690
    @phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690 Місяць тому

    These women are why daughter in laws go no contact and don't let their husband's mom around their kids. . Husband's mom is toxic in some of these ways but a covert narcissist. So they are sneaky. I feel for any woman with a toxic boy mom. They need to understand boundaries. I have 2 daughters. I'm telling my daughters stay away from these kinda boys 😂.

  • @jadeshepherd8627
    @jadeshepherd8627 2 дні тому

    Funny vid, like all the others! Congrats on graduating, off topic too but whats the lipgloss you use? 🤩

  • @AliceSweexey
    @AliceSweexey Місяць тому

    i'm picturing how animals treat their young -- if times get tough, they consume them. That's going to hopefully clear some of the hideousness I just viewed out of my mind. Thanks for that! Pidgeon

  • @projectjfk972
    @projectjfk972 Місяць тому

    That kids mom had good instincts to protect her son from you.

  • @BoobooAndre
    @BoobooAndre Місяць тому +1

    Great video thanks! You are absolutely gorgeoussss 😍 i love the hairstyle

  • @jovantehollins5786
    @jovantehollins5786 29 днів тому

    I'm sorry but the madea reference 😂😂. Marry me ❤

  • @jamiepavs
    @jamiepavs Місяць тому +1

    Flip it and reverse it - as Missy Elliott would say* 😂

  • @sutherland_steffensen
    @sutherland_steffensen 23 дні тому

    You hand down the jean of having cavities if you yourself have/had cavities and you kiss or swap saliva with your child at anytime in their lives. Please don't do this to your child or let anyone else, it's just disadvantaging them in the future and honestly just gross.

  • @YasAdele90
    @YasAdele90 Місяць тому

    Nothing in the bowl 😂😂😂😂

  • @Drc101
    @Drc101 Місяць тому +1

    im so thankful my mum aint like ts

  • @cmcota37
    @cmcota37 Місяць тому

    Hahha randomly click on your JoJo video so glad I did your hilarious 😂
    Officially subscribed!!

  • @almond-lol
    @almond-lol Місяць тому

    omfg I love your humor

  • @YasAdele90
    @YasAdele90 Місяць тому

    Nah it is so weird. Proper weird

  • @riftfontain
    @riftfontain Місяць тому

    How is she more pretty in every new video she makes?

  • @jamesandmike2ndhandsales449
    @jamesandmike2ndhandsales449 Місяць тому

    Thank you for cheering me up 😂
    And NO your not weird. 🕺😶‍🌫️😂

  • @Themakeupchair15
    @Themakeupchair15 16 днів тому

    the doll one was satire ragging on boy mom shes on our side

  • @imjustagirl
    @imjustagirl Місяць тому

    Some of them little boys look like little girls with the long hair.

  • @Sophia-Barnard
    @Sophia-Barnard Місяць тому

    The banana video😭 also pigeon

  • @2Curriuss
    @2Curriuss Місяць тому

    "wemen dont heve necesserly be coocking". I agree, i am better cook trhan most weman. The question is: can you do "man work"? Can you build a porch or fix a car? Relationships are about completing each other

  • @kozaro_nameless
    @kozaro_nameless Місяць тому

    you do look like a wattpad kid, ngl
    also congrats on graduating

  • @tokiorose3065
    @tokiorose3065 Місяць тому +5

    STORY TIME!!!!!

  • @IHaveFeelingsAndiDontLikeThem
    @IHaveFeelingsAndiDontLikeThem Місяць тому +1

    Pigeon because I felt like it

  • @Bee_The_Artist
    @Bee_The_Artist Місяць тому

    13:55 that made me gag wtf

  • @GreyAmbience
    @GreyAmbience Місяць тому

    That shirt looks so good on you ❤

  • @dontcheckitontop
    @dontcheckitontop Місяць тому

    your videos help me reach the edge and go over the top 🙏😊

  • @bevmulroy5877
    @bevmulroy5877 Місяць тому

    Also, I do have to disagree with the Sigmund Freud reference 9:26. I only say this because I'm generally curious about things, so I started reading about the meaning of dreams. Freud was a pioneer in this subject, however his take on the meaning of dreams was seriously twisted. He DEFINITELY had some mommy issues. In just about everything you dreamed, Freud's definition of it meant that you secretly wanted to have sex with your mom (if you were a guy, your dad if you were a girl). So either his mom was a "boy mom" or he wished that she was..... yuck anyway you look at it.

  • @rhed0r1c
    @rhed0r1c Місяць тому

    How dare you enjoy food...

  • @peachycreep
    @peachycreep Місяць тому

    I feel like a couple of those weren't sexual but more seeing girls have crushes on their kid in a cute way

  • @BoBnotThat1
    @BoBnotThat1 Місяць тому

    Pigeon 🐦🦜 I know, they like a bloody pigeon. 😂

  • @MichaelFisher-mz8yq
    @MichaelFisher-mz8yq Місяць тому

    Omg omg kitty phone same as headphones

  • @Catgirl22002
    @Catgirl22002 Місяць тому

    Catch the pigeon

  • @SamMau
    @SamMau Місяць тому +1

    Although I do not wish to sound like a creep however you are looking pretty today 😊
    Apologies if I come across creepy 😂

  • @plaguemaiden
    @plaguemaiden Місяць тому

    im 7 mins in and i dont know if i can make it thru this vid 😭 love u tho u look great

    • @plaguemaiden
      @plaguemaiden Місяць тому

      12 mins in. going strong. revulsion is mounting. pray for me

    • @plaguemaiden
      @plaguemaiden Місяць тому

      pigeon. I made it thru, but at what cost?

  • @needmoresnacks
    @needmoresnacks Місяць тому

    Obviously not the same but my MIL had 6 girls when my husband was like 12 and we moved in together at like 22 and the way she acted like he was their dad not spending enough time with them was fucking WEIRD. She was super jealous and those are the same vibes I get. We lived like two hours away and they were mad that we didn’t visit enough. I have crippling social anxiety and his mom is VERY abrasive and gaslights everywhere and it was always just ‘I’m too sensitive or looking too much into things’. I don’t talk to them in an attempt to allow my husband and daughter to have a better relationship with her without me involved. Now me and his dad (they’ve not been together since my husband was a baby) talk shit whenever we get the chance cause she kinda hated us both 😂 possessive parents need therapy. Those boundaries and the jealousy needs help, it’s so unhealthy.

  • @gravy1219
    @gravy1219 Місяць тому

    your hair looks ace! your contents ok too i guess

  • @TheRealRockemSockem
    @TheRealRockemSockem Місяць тому

    Funky frog pt2

  • @alexandermendez4653
    @alexandermendez4653 Місяць тому

    That jumper looks fit. Is that how you say it?

  • @КГБКолДжорджКостанца

    I am happy to see you ❤😂

  • @melissaseaborne4042
    @melissaseaborne4042 Місяць тому

    Sarahklaits whole TikTok is just satire 😂😂 she is making a joke out of the original by using a doll to show how utterly ridiculous it is!

  • @grudge0132
    @grudge0132 Місяць тому

    OH....MYYYY....GAAAWWWWDDDDD😮😮😮😮

  • @katiestarkey5945
    @katiestarkey5945 Місяць тому

    Hows the pigeon? Also omg by mums disgust me just in the language they use... its actually concerning. I hope for my second child to be a boy but i swear to god i want to be took down if i end up like this 🙃