This is an interesting video, Francesca. But listening to it made it a bit blurry for me to distinguish between avoidant attachment style and narcissism, especially on points 4, 5, and 6.
I have gone through all these things and I'm still in a state of second guessing myself...I developed several health issues and mental problems too but when I talk to my person he either took it for granted or respond like he is the victim. In our conversation whenever I express my problem...he never validated my feelings and always ordered me instead like also always make me feel vulnerable and disgusting most of the times...and whenever I fought back or developed helath issues due to all this he come to me and said he didn't mean to do all this and for some times he start arguing back...I thought he'll understand and figure out...but I was the only one who'd always send him videos to make our relationship good...he watches them and one or two days he'll behave nicely but again or sometimes even after few hours he behave like he is the victim...he still didn't understand what I've gone through because of his such behaviours...noe I totally want to detach from him...and I am struggling to do so...also I don't want to make my life miserable anymore...I've had enough now...but still despite of knowing all this I still ge back to him when ever he says sorry I didn't mean it ....and again he shows me where I stand in his life....I'm hurting since the day he came into my life...maybe I'm rhe one who's wrong..I either want to make our relationship work...if he understands becz now I've had enough of suffering, and he never even acknowledged instead he showed me that he is the one who is suffering whenever I try to put my feelings in front of him...I really don't know...also I don't have any friends other than him whom I could talk regarding this...that is ehy I'm commenting here...I want to continue but now I dint know rhat to do...I think I'll heal myself when he'll understand...but I think I've had enough. I am totally overwhelmed.
Hello great video, recently found out I was avoidant and tend to lean into anxious at times. Can you do a video for signs of an anxious attachment style
Number 7 - You've just described how all men think 😅 "[They respond]... in a logical, rational way, they don't actually take your feelings into consideration, they just look at the facts" Yes, we are like that... 😂😂😂
I feel personally called out 😮💨
Same
Same
Me too man
Avoidant’s have a very low ceiling. If after 6 months you realize you are doing the same things over and over you are dating an avoidant.
I can't believe it took me almost 4 freakin years to realize this about a person I love. Tsk.
This is an interesting video, Francesca. But listening to it made it a bit blurry for me to distinguish between avoidant attachment style and narcissism, especially on points 4, 5, and 6.
Very very clear for me! Good video😊
:( this hits hard because I think I am in this situation
I have gone through all these things and I'm still in a state of second guessing myself...I developed several health issues and mental problems too but when I talk to my person he either took it for granted or respond like he is the victim. In our conversation whenever I express my problem...he never validated my feelings and always ordered me instead like also always make me feel vulnerable and disgusting most of the times...and whenever I fought back or developed helath issues due to all this he come to me and said he didn't mean to do all this and for some times he start arguing back...I thought he'll understand and figure out...but I was the only one who'd always send him videos to make our relationship good...he watches them and one or two days he'll behave nicely but again or sometimes even after few hours he behave like he is the victim...he still didn't understand what I've gone through because of his such behaviours...noe I totally want to detach from him...and I am struggling to do so...also I don't want to make my life miserable anymore...I've had enough now...but still despite of knowing all this I still ge back to him when ever he says sorry I didn't mean it ....and again he shows me where I stand in his life....I'm hurting since the day he came into my life...maybe I'm rhe one who's wrong..I either want to make our relationship work...if he understands becz now I've had enough of suffering, and he never even acknowledged instead he showed me that he is the one who is suffering whenever I try to put my feelings in front of him...I really don't know...also I don't have any friends other than him whom I could talk regarding this...that is ehy I'm commenting here...I want to continue but now I dint know rhat to do...I think I'll heal myself when he'll understand...but I think I've had enough. I am totally overwhelmed.
If possible talk to your father or mother or with both❤. They are the best friends we all have . and also grandparents if possible.
dang thanks for letting me know now u gotta do a vid on how to dump
😂
Valuable advice. Although your thumbnail looked like a vampire closing-in, in a good way 😁. Cheers Francesca 👍
This is personal attack.😂
Sounds like me. How do I fix me?
I tried to write Something In Admiring your Beauty But Removed it Several Times your beauty in my Eyes Is Beyond any Words msm)a
To me, it was hell... After pursuing me relentlessly, he left me in the most "logical" way possible.
this is exactly me. how to fix?
Idk but please dont be with anyone until you fix it..
@@proxima3372 lol
Hello great video, recently found out I was avoidant and tend to lean into anxious at times.
Can you do a video for signs of an anxious attachment style
Fuck im so toxic...
I am single but yet you are talking about me 💀
Im the avoidant
Luckily i’m a free man now 😎
You're so scary, I feel chill with that look
Number 7 - You've just described how all men think 😅
"[They respond]... in a logical, rational way, they don't actually take your feelings into consideration, they just look at the facts"
Yes, we are like that... 😂😂😂
Which makes me think the whole video targets on men's characteristics 😅
Lol not all men are like this idiot