My first wedding ceremony took less than 5 mins and didn't take either of us agreeing to anything. It was his mother (a preacher) that did the ceremony. My mother asked for the quickest one cause she and my father had to drag me down the isle. She was afraid I was going to jet out of the chapel. Parents shouldn't force their children to marry even if they decide at the last minute they dont want to. My marriage lasted 3 months before major problems, total 9 months before it ended. My parents should have trusted me and my decision at the chapel not to marry the guy instead of forcing me down the isle and into marriage.
I wish I’d used my instincts on my marriage and said no I’ll wait when my partner wanted to do it , because it wouldn’t have happened. My dad told me I don’t have to get married , when I said don’t you like my partner he said yes it’s hard not to but I don’t think he’s reliable and he was right, not reliable or dependable when things got difficult he just ran and came back when it was felt with, 11 years older and I had to be the strong one our whole 31 years of marriage, it’s only this last 7 years with a new partner I understand what it means to be looked after when it goes both ways. Why did I stay so long because I knew he’d be rubbish without me.
@@joane24 thank you, I'm doing well thank you. It wasn't an arranged marriage but my parents were old fashioned and didn't think I had enough wisdom to have the hair on the back my neck stand up saying this isn't right. I do admit I was young 23 but not that young to sense something wasn't right. And yes as Susan stated, I should have noticed sooner but I didn't. People never know when they will get that sense of somethings not right. I'm thankful I did before hand what good it did me. I did honor marriage until I had leave for personal safety. Even though Susan said I had choice, I didn't, if moved away from the altar my parents would have took me back and the preach did vows that didn't evolve either party agreeing to them. Guess it's easier to say things to others when you weren't there or didn't know the situation. I'm glad it's over, it's in past, and I have moved on to a more beautiful life.
I would be totally cool with it if they did t spend much and kept the rest for themselves. Everyone needs a buffer. Looks like they have been through a lot. No photographer. Hope her friends take pictures.
My daughter has told me that if she ever gets married. It's a registry office , and a BBQ in the garden. PHEW !! My son had a big wedding to his beautiful wife, but fortunately for my purse, most of the expenses were not mine. I just enjoyed the day.
Is it just me that thinks the pictures in the sand is like a memorial garden or like they’ve passed away 😅 I see what he was trying to do and it’s a cute idea but it’s just making me think of a cemetery haha
I love that people are almost offended at a registry office and pub.....im getting married to my other half in june this year, we've been together over 20 yrs and guess what peeps, we chose a registry office and our reception is at our local cricket club. My dress has been the most expensive item at £800, and i couldnt be more happy and excited. We really dont care if someone questions our choices or judges that we havent spent alot of money, we are doing it for ourselves and for our closest friends and family to have a fun day and thats all that matters to us.
For some people, that's something that meshes. For someone who says "We really dont care if someone questions our choices" here you are making sure you're questioning theirs.
Maybe i'm confused but isn't the entire premise of the show that the groom is given 12,000 pounds to plan the wedding and the bride doesn't know anything until the wedding day? Obviously there is nothing wrong with a registry office wedding but it makes me suspicious of where the money he was given by the production company to plan the wedding has gone too. Perhaps he spent the entire budget on himself and couldn't afford anything else? All I know is the registry office and pub wouldn't cost him anywhere near 12,000 pounds...
If I ever get married it will be town hall and a spread at the pub. As long as the people we care about about are there. People place too much weight on the perfect fairytale wedding
18 years ago my husband and I spent $75 to get married at the courthouse by a JP. We wore clothes we already owned, spent $20 on roses for a bouquet and had 4 guests. It was a blizzard. We're just as happy and we didn't spend money we needed for our life with our son. I have no regrets. ❤
The poor woman. She should have never been forced to get out of the car. The friends and family had to convince her to get married at the register office .
...I did. And I didn't even get to wear the dress I bought because it happened to full on blizzard that day and managing a wedding gown in 2ft of snow and a -10°F windchill. I had my mom and grandma there. He had his parents. That was it, plus the Justice of the Peace. There were 4 photos taken. I have 1. However, I am ever bit as married as anyone else. It's been 18 years, I don't regret going through with my wedding that day. It wasn't ideal, but we already knew life is full of give and take. Maybe we'll have a lovely renewal at 30yrs, who knows. I know I didn't sink thousands of dollars into a party when we were already young, broke, and had a toddler, so I count it a win.
A registry office and a clown show. I personally would have gotten back in the car and gone home. There is no reason to marry someone that sees your wedding as a sideshow.
I got married at the Justice of the Peace and divorced at the Notary's 😂 in my hometown of Las Vegas, NV. Doesn't get more cliche than that. 🤷🏻♀️ This man has been with her through the worst; he knows what he's in for, and I pray they enjoy many long, happy, joy-filled years well into old age.
i remember this couple, and they have been through a lot. but her refusal for a registry office. i can't remember if she was religious or not, as in "this is my church, that I've been going through as a child" sort of thing. after that there are very few places you can get legally married, even the ones on DTTB that take place in a field, have to do the registry bit later. also a registry office is not romantic...right. tell my cousin and her wife, who after waiting 20 years to get married legally, had that moment. love and romance is what you make it. but i was glad she was happy with her big top wedding in the end
If both agree to getting married at the registry office, it's fine. However, this show is about the groom planning something special for his bride, isn't it? You really don't have to put much thought or effort into "registry office." At least she liked the circus tent reception.
Personally I think it's daft ,,too many half dressed women ,,all for his eyes ,,, photograph's looked like they are in a cemetery,,,she's happy I guess that's all that really matters, wish her the best ,,,it was just my opinion,that's all 😊❤❤
I didnt like the favt that she was being pressured to get out of the car by her mum (?) And her bridesmaids they should of listened to her and supported her
It's in the contract. Soon as the groom spends a penny, they're all locked into it. I'd imagine refusal would mean paying back every penny. And considering everyone who goes on this is poor or in debt, it's not an option.
Shes so ungreatful and immauture. It isnt were you get married , its who you get married to that matters. She wasnt ready for marriage because of how she behaved. Just be greatful that someone loves you enough to want to marry you. Im 24 and I would be greatful no matter what I got. Its not about the dress or the venue.
I love this. I get the court house but that’s an alone thing, and it set a sour note. Personally, I think having it near a pub is a good idea especially for a nightcap (and those who want to escape).
Im just watching on utube and its 2024, did this couple stay together, somethink did not appear right ????? What was actually wrong with the bride, had she had an accident, they both didnt look happy which was sad.
When he hasn't shown her enough love before and then this, he is not mature enough for marriage. And her friends are even enabling him... I would have wanted to see the bridesmaids' dresses he picked. The party was nice, though.
I love that he went for something unique that really meant something to him. He wanted to do something special for her and i think it's great! A registry office is perfectly acceptable. It's not like she's religious and expected a church right? Why waste money on something that has no meaning for you. Her family and friends didn't help with their whining.
It does make me laugh a bit when they leave it all to the guy and he plans something which doesn't have all the bits she wants because she's probably a bit of a control freak. It's a free wedding for a TV show. 🤷
“This is where I pay my council tax!”. I cracked up!
My first wedding ceremony took less than 5 mins and didn't take either of us agreeing to anything. It was his mother (a preacher) that did the ceremony. My mother asked for the quickest one cause she and my father had to drag me down the isle. She was afraid I was going to jet out of the chapel. Parents shouldn't force their children to marry even if they decide at the last minute they dont want to. My marriage lasted 3 months before major problems, total 9 months before it ended. My parents should have trusted me and my decision at the chapel not to marry the guy instead of forcing me down the isle and into marriage.
That's horrible! I hope you're ok and doing well now
I'm sorry that was your experience! How did that happen, was that an arranged marriage? Hope you're doing ok now.
I wish I’d used my instincts on my marriage and said no I’ll wait when my partner wanted to do it , because it wouldn’t have happened. My dad told me I don’t have to get married , when I said don’t you like my partner he said yes it’s hard not to but I don’t think he’s reliable and he was right, not reliable or dependable when things got difficult he just ran and came back when it was felt with, 11 years older and I had to be the strong one our whole 31 years of marriage, it’s only this last 7 years with a new partner I understand what it means to be looked after when it goes both ways. Why did I stay so long because I knew he’d be rubbish without me.
@@joane24 thank you, I'm doing well thank you. It wasn't an arranged marriage but my parents were old fashioned and didn't think I had enough wisdom to have the hair on the back my neck stand up saying this isn't right. I do admit I was young 23 but not that young to sense something wasn't right. And yes as Susan stated, I should have noticed sooner but I didn't. People never know when they will get that sense of somethings not right. I'm thankful I did before hand what good it did me. I did honor marriage until I had leave for personal safety. Even though Susan said I had choice, I didn't, if moved away from the altar my parents would have took me back and the preach did vows that didn't evolve either party agreeing to them. Guess it's easier to say things to others when you weren't there or didn't know the situation. I'm glad it's over, it's in past, and I have moved on to a more beautiful life.
@@lindaliriel I'm ok and doing great, thank you 🙂
Yes I'd love to have my new married life celebrated in a clown tent thank you
Her hysterical laughter betrays her true feelings.
He didn’t get a photographer??? Really!!! And a circus tent. So awful!
We didn't have a photographer
It was just the shock of the thing . He really did great and she loved it in the end
His actions don’t match his words .
He had the money and unique ability to provide something special and he picks a registry office, like why 😂😂
Registry is waay cheaper and you can get legally married….they can use that money for a big honeymoon
The money they get given isn’t for the honeymoon.
@sh.4409 You are correct, though having the wedding paid for might create the opportunity for the couple to use their own money for a honeymoon.
Not everyone wants a big elaborate ceremony
He wasted so much money. How are some guys so clueless?
This is the first one that i see where the groom actually seems to love and care about his bride. Her smile was everything, good job!
a registry office ceremony and a tiny little tent for the reception? what the hell did he spend the rest of the money on?
Maybe her wedding dress, his suit, the bridesmaid dresses, the flowers, the tents, the food etc etc etc
@@moosehead1183 £12,000 ?
Edit. Lol ok he did redeem himself with the reception. She was blown away and very happy.
Maybe the stag do.
Sand…sand is really expensive; you can’t get that stuff from just anywhere you know 😂😂😂😂
I would be totally cool with it if they did t spend much and kept the rest for themselves. Everyone needs a buffer. Looks like they have been through a lot. No photographer. Hope her friends take pictures.
"For the rest of your married life together" might be an easy vow to keep.
😅😂
The only good thing I can say about this entire wedding, is at least she looks happy at the end
My daughter has told me that if she ever gets married. It's a registry office , and a BBQ in the garden. PHEW !! My son had a big wedding to his beautiful wife, but fortunately for my purse, most of the expenses were not mine. I just enjoyed the day.
Is it just me that thinks the pictures in the sand is like a memorial garden or like they’ve passed away 😅 I see what he was trying to do and it’s a cute idea but it’s just making me think of a cemetery haha
I love that people are almost offended at a registry office and pub.....im getting married to my other half in june this year, we've been together over 20 yrs and guess what peeps, we chose a registry office and our reception is at our local cricket club. My dress has been the most expensive item at £800, and i couldnt be more happy and excited. We really dont care if someone questions our choices or judges that we havent spent alot of money, we are doing it for ourselves and for our closest friends and family to have a fun day and thats all that matters to us.
For some people, that's something that meshes. For someone who says "We really dont care if someone questions our choices" here you are making sure you're questioning theirs.
(A contrarian of contrarians -- still in the same boat)
Maybe i'm confused but isn't the entire premise of the show that the groom is given 12,000 pounds to plan the wedding and the bride doesn't know anything until the wedding day? Obviously there is nothing wrong with a registry office wedding but it makes me suspicious of where the money he was given by the production company to plan the wedding has gone too. Perhaps he spent the entire budget on himself and couldn't afford anything else? All I know is the registry office and pub wouldn't cost him anywhere near 12,000 pounds...
If I ever get married it will be town hall and a spread at the pub. As long as the people we care about about are there. People place too much weight on the perfect fairytale wedding
18 years ago my husband and I spent $75 to get married at the courthouse by a JP. We wore clothes we already owned, spent $20 on roses for a bouquet and had 4 guests. It was a blizzard. We're just as happy and we didn't spend money we needed for our life with our son. I have no regrets. ❤
They seem like a complete mismatch to me?
I think the reception tent and ideas were lovely and thoughtful. A lot of effort was put into it. ❤
I’m glad she was able to eventually turn to joy.
The poor woman. She should have never been forced to get out of the car. The friends and family had to convince her to get married at the register office .
Lots of people do. Why is she too god for it?
...I did. And I didn't even get to wear the dress I bought because it happened to full on blizzard that day and managing a wedding gown in 2ft of snow and a -10°F windchill. I had my mom and grandma there. He had his parents. That was it, plus the Justice of the Peace. There were 4 photos taken. I have 1. However, I am ever bit as married as anyone else. It's been 18 years, I don't regret going through with my wedding that day. It wasn't ideal, but we already knew life is full of give and take. Maybe we'll have a lovely renewal at 30yrs, who knows. I know I didn't sink thousands of dollars into a party when we were already young, broke, and had a toddler, so I count it a win.
A registry office and a clown show. I personally would have gotten back in the car and gone home. There is no reason to marry someone that sees your wedding as a sideshow.
To the bride….if you want the wedding you want pay for it and don’t go on a show for a free wedding
it's ridiculous they get good amount of money to spend for the whole wedding. could put on a good wedding
My god what a horrible wedding. No thx
I got married at the Justice of the Peace and divorced at the Notary's 😂 in my hometown of Las Vegas, NV. Doesn't get more cliche than that. 🤷🏻♀️
This man has been with her through the worst; he knows what he's in for, and I pray they enjoy many long, happy, joy-filled years well into old age.
i remember this couple, and they have been through a lot. but her refusal for a registry office. i can't remember if she was religious or not, as in "this is my church, that I've been going through as a child" sort of thing. after that there are very few places you can get legally married, even the ones on DTTB that take place in a field, have to do the registry bit later. also a registry office is not romantic...right. tell my cousin and her wife, who after waiting 20 years to get married legally, had that moment. love and romance is what you make it. but i was glad she was happy with her big top wedding in the end
Jenny so pretty! 😉👰🏻♀️💍
She is not a happy bride. I’d NEVER hand over what’s supposed to be the best day of a woman’s life to someone else.
What happened to the budget 🙂
That is embarrassing. Id never do it🤦♀️🤷♀️
Same!!!!
Why? Lots of people get married there.
Never leave it to the groom………..!
No words. 😮
Why is the groom making faces all the time?
I felt so bad for him everyone was so hard on him….
Honestly one of the best weddings on the show😅
He put a lot of time and effort??? I don't think so!! More like lazy.
I felt bad for the groom. They were all so passive-aggressive in their comments. But what mattered was that she was happy in the end.
He doesnt look happy
She looks so much older than him & he looks miserable. What’s the real story here?
Where did all the money go? Tacky!
Where's the full episode??:-(
These brides know what they're getting themselves into, but ig more drama is good for showbiz 🤷♀️
She looks like she can be his mother. Her friends are complaining the whole time just like she is.
ur just lying though
These two should just call it quits and go their separate ways.
What did he spend the money on though???
I wouldn’t have done it
I could never. Not only would I not go through with this wedding, I'd leave him and he can marry someone else.
Maybe sometime one of these grooms might think to go online for ideas to 🤔plan a wedding and use some guidelines
They didnt have to go on the show to get married there....isnt the point to get money to do something unique?
He made a huge effort to make their day a dream. Very sweet.
Not sure where the money went.
Extremely cheesy!!! Horrible wedding.
Some people like cheesy but they are happy and that's the main thing. It was different which is good.
If both agree to getting married at the registry office, it's fine. However, this show is about the groom planning something special for his bride, isn't it? You really don't have to put much thought or effort into "registry office." At least she liked the circus tent reception.
Oh no. She's crippled and you chose a carney style wedding? Yikes
A registry office - meh. The reception in the circus tent - awesome! He ended up doing a great job!
They all seem a bit terrified of Jen. A little bit of a narcissist perhaps? Never quite know where you stand?
Oh no where is the effort and money.....😮
I love the circus tent ❤
I'm sure they're not together anymore. There is a lot that doesn't look right.
Personally I think it's daft ,,too many half dressed women ,,all for his eyes ,,, photograph's looked like they are in a cemetery,,,she's happy I guess that's all that really matters, wish her the best ,,,it was just my opinion,that's all 😊❤❤
one advice divorced him, he didnt do nothing special he is absilute selfish
I didnt like the favt that she was being pressured to get out of the car by her mum (?) And her bridesmaids they should of listened to her and supported her
It's in the contract. Soon as the groom spends a penny, they're all locked into it. I'd imagine refusal would mean paying back every penny. And considering everyone who goes on this is poor or in debt, it's not an option.
He must have had a good stag do thats where most of the grooms spend avast chunk of the money on
Shes so ungreatful and immauture. It isnt were you get married , its who you get married to that matters. She wasnt ready for marriage because of how she behaved. Just be greatful that someone loves you enough to want to marry you. Im 24 and I would be greatful no matter what I got. Its not about the dress or the venue.
She’s such a misery about it.
I love this. I get the court house but that’s an alone thing, and it set a sour note. Personally, I think having it near a pub is a good idea especially for a nightcap (and those who want to escape).
Friends shouldn't force her in ,there not Friends at a crap place tk get married, absolute joke
Everything is paid for she didn't have to lift a finger... Ungreatful
I found the whole thing very tacky, but that's just my taste. The guy tried.
What a dreadful wedding
Im just watching on utube and its 2024, did this couple stay together, somethink did not appear right ?????
What was actually wrong with the bride, had she had an accident, they both didnt look happy which was sad.
Im okay with registry office and bbq
When he hasn't shown her enough love before and then this, he is not mature enough for marriage. And her friends are even enabling him...
I would have wanted to see the bridesmaids' dresses he picked.
The party was nice, though.
My husband£ and I got married
Eject she gave in what a load of .....
I love that he went for something unique that really meant something to him. He wanted to do something special for her and i think it's great!
A registry office is perfectly acceptable. It's not like she's religious and expected a church right? Why waste money on something that has no meaning for you. Her family and friends didn't help with their whining.
😂👌
Couldve always paid for it herself
It does make me laugh a bit when they leave it all to the guy and he plans something which doesn't have all the bits she wants because she's probably a bit of a control freak. It's a free wedding for a TV show. 🤷
Doesnt matter how or where you are marrying the one you love.
Bin bag as a dress etc who cares.
Exactly Anna! 🙏🙏🙏
So tacky
Nothing wrong with a registry office she’s just ungrateful
Agree totally 👍
Getting sad about 1 day but not about the rest of their marriage hmmmm
The birdesmaids really annoyed me and the bride
Horrible parents
She’s so ungrateful