Shoddy bridal boutique! My Mom worked for a bridal boutique for 15 years. At no time did the boutique have any dress in that condition! All samples were in perfect condition. If any dress was damaged it was considered a write off and tossed in the garbage!
@@Syndryn666 I'm not sure about the UK, but in the US sample gowns are often sold for a variety of reasons. Sample gowns are often sold for a discount because they have been tried on before, and therefore many brides seek them out for affordability. Another reason is the time crunch, where there isn't a lot of time to find a dress that is custom ordered and shipped, the bride often needs to purchase a sample dress right from the store.
If family mean everything to this guy, why would you book a wedding at the other end of the world lol,if I was Victoria I would t have gone, especially if my close family couldn’t go weddings are a celebration of two families coming together, xx
At the end when she said "I know he's only thinking of me", it annoyed me so much. He was thinking of himself only. Perhaps if he hadn't had a holiday with the boys before the wedding some of the money could have been used to fly her Dad and Sister in.
I would’ve told him to enjoy his vacation and moved on with life. Didn’t want her dad or sis there but wasted all that money on Cali and an overpriced dress.
That would be heartbreaking Weddings are indeed a celebration of two families coming together, why sacrifice that for a trip to Las Vegas you can take any other time
These brides deserve these grooms. She obviously cares more about the dress he chose than the fact that his choices prevented her family from being there.
The shop shouldn't be allowed to sell a dress full of holes!!!! The woman even said they were so short on time he had to buy sample dress so she knew there was no time or money for it to be repaired WTH
I hope these ladies who detest their dresses actually have a standby of their choosing. I had never heard of men choosing/designing dresses for their future wives. I am stunned & embarrassed for the brides. Only 1/2% have taste.
I would not be with someone like that guy , having her fly to America, without friends or family , but he strolls in all happy with his crew. Oh girl I'm sorry, but you're going to have a very very hard time.
If they only have 3 weeks the shop is completely limited to off the rack sample gowns that have been tried on by countless brides and heavily discounted, not really their fault
He should have looked over the dress. He was thinking about the cost. But what shop does not point out the holes unless they or the lady may have not realised how bad it was. But surely you would look over it before selling it to someone. 🙄
I do a lot of sowing and wouldn't mind fixing up a dress myself to knock the price down, but they better have it properly marked as a dress that needs fixing. Just pretending like there's nothing wrong is shady.
Lloyd should marry himself. She's definitely settling with this bloke. She said he's thinking of her, what a load of rubbish, bet they're not married now.
Normally, it would be the bride to go buy her dress, and for a discount price some people are fine with buying sample items, if there are issues that could be fixed, I wouldn’t have problems with that either, this is not a normal situation and it is a TV show :)
Shop assistants face , she was literally laughing at the bride when they realised it was full of holes , hold the shop accountable because they sold it
Joel is a bit of a problem. Didn't even try to make sure the dress was going to be the right size (there are ways, like Becky) that dress was too big everywhere. And do not give me that "I don't want to look like a proper bell end when she is taller than me." Something tells me that is the standard state of affairs, if you look in her wardrobe it will be full of heels. Check your ego, you should want your bride at her most beautiful. I actually like the first groom, I've seen that one. I appreciate the having a second option and that is honestly one of the most bizarre themes too. But yeah bridal shop should never have sold that dress, men don't look women do.
That poor first girl. How tight of a schedule is this show filmed on? Is it not common to get a wedding dress months in advance? Even if she doesn’t get to see it, how late did he wait to get it that they couldn’t buy a proper one and needed the sample??
If I remember correctly, they only have a certain number of weeks to get everything together, and the bride isn't allowed to know anything that's planned, she can't pick out her dress or anything!
The designers have to have at least six months for a wedding dress and he had only six weeks to do everything. She's acting like a spoiled brat. The most important thing or at least it should be is marrying the man you love. I can almost guarantee 90 % of those will not stay married long bc the girls are to spoiled
@@violetv9037 no she's not. It's the most important dress of her life. One thing is getting the style a bit wrong. Having a dress with holes in it is completely unacceptable and both the groom and shop are at fault. No bride should be forced to get married in that. And it's real shame because the dress is quite nice otherwise
@violetv9037 it's insulting and he should never have been offered that dress. However, it's about the show and ratings, the guys get 3 weeks and a decent amount of money. Many of them do crazy things with the money and don't see the importance of the dress. Personally, I could never have done this.
Yep, the grooms get to choose from the same 8-10 dresses from every episode. Every dress is the same. Good thing this doesn't come out until they are good and married. They all looked beautiful in this dresses but every episode, same dress
Better the warehouse than that stinky fishing boat that the bride absolutely rejected in talks coming up to the wedding. Even the groom on that wedding said, "yeah I'm a bit selfish"! A bit dude? She should turn and run, it will only get worse.
One of the dumbest shows possibly. No way in hell would I do this. It is for your wedding and you cannot replicate that day. Not worth risking some of this craziness happening by handing it all to the groom and with a short timeframe. What a mess!
They do it cause the wedding was funded at twenty grand per couple. They were given a budget to blow. And I always questioned how committed these people are.
Ok I'm only 7min in but the lady that had the 2nd option why would they not include the 2nd dress in the segment? I hope because I'm not to far into the episode they put that segment in this episode or I'm gonna be really upset. I do have to say I did love the 1st dress but why would he choose a dress that had holes in it, it's not like there was or maybe even 2 there were alot of holes. Also why in the hell would that "shop" even try to sell a damaged dress? They even said she knew there was no time for any alterations so why in the world would she even think its acceptable to even try to sell that unless the lady really doesnt care about the brides an was for nothing but money. Its absolutely shameful.
The girl with the long hair and the simple dress, why don’t they put that thing up her to fit her perfectly? They have clips they can put in the back to give her an idea what the thing looks like. But what is wrong with these bridal shops?? how can she even wear it anywhere when it’s falling off of her but more importantly again, what is wrong with the bridal shop not clipping her in it so she can see and get her ridiculous hair out of the way. How can you see a dress with your hair hanging in your face and over the top of the dress. Get the hair out of there.
Okay, in the first case that shop should not soled that dress with holes etc... that is not right... but the video is leaving out the second option... l think the groom was concerned to do everything right... And all these brides do know it is the rule to partake in this show that the groom decides everything...? Are they not giving their future husbands hints of what size and dress they would like?
We have to remember this is a tv show. They pick people with strong personalities and an entouurage of big characters They hope for conflict and bad decisions. Part of the formula groomsmen who are selfish and spend too much on stags and entrances. As for dresses well rememberr the alternative is no wedding dress. It is amazing how these people and their families have no money but lots of opinions. They cannot or should not expect muchh for their weddings if they don't have really a dime for the wedding. It is ridiculous - trying to have a wedding and can't scrap a couple of hundred for rings or alteration or family membrs who can't help. Fine theyy scale down. Where is the gratitude? Besides 50 percent will be in divorce sadly
She signed up to get married in 3 weeks, then moans ' I don't want to wear a dress that 50 million people have tried on'. Where are you supposed to get a brand new, unworn dress in 3 weeks. He should have just ordered one off Shein. Unrealistic expectations. The dress, although damaged was FREE to her. Entitled much!
The first dress wasn't so bad, but they should have never had it on the floor for sale. I love the invitation. That was slick. It was a good job. I figured maybe he was thinking about her feet by the end of the night? The third one was stunning. It goes well with her hairstyle, too. The 4th one. He should have known her better. It was pretty, but he should have known her better. Beverly Hills is overrated, but the dress was beautiful.
Ok, I’ll give the brides one thing. The dress is the most important thing a girl dreams off since 2 years old but your marrying someone you want to spend your life with and yes he might pick wrong and has no idea how devastating a wrong dress can be when your body conscious but the man your marrying is worth 10 times more than a dress. The frist bride thinks she’s holier than tho?
It's a show. The husband has a Budget and plans the whole wedding - dress, location, decoration etc. Some husbands are good and pick nice things, others make their brides wear embarrassing stripper dresses and marry in weird locations or weird themes.
So, why couldn't they just take that layer with the tears in it out, or fill in the holes with lace and shiny bits? The bridal shop, though... the worker kept saying, "He did know it was a sample dress," when they asked if he knew there were holes in it. That was, as the kids today say, quite sus (do they still say that). Then again, if you don't want to be surprised and pick out your own dress, don't agree to be on the show. I know it's not a popular opinion, but if I were her fiancee, I wouldn't be marrying her. It's a dress that is beautiful, able to be fixed in one way or another. I would have worn it in a heartbeat. She liked it without the belt, it was probably in his price range and it fit her beautifully. She's not two, she's supposed to be an adult about it.
It's just plain tacky that he'd buy a torn dress!! He didn't skimp on himself did he? I'd never trust him again. Believe me. Been there, done that. Tried to give a chance over and over again for 35 yrs. Never changed. He was top dog, head of the line and I wasn't even valued enough for scraps, even though most of the time I was the paycheck and shouldered most of ant responsibilities. Our children even begged me to get out. This guy is a looser.
Sample dress does NOT equal tattered torn up and all in shambles!!!! Horrible business practice. I’m shocked they allowed their business to be shown on television like this.
They signed up for this show and I feel bad for the guys that try so hard and get treated so bad by the brides as well as their families and friends... Some are just flat out mean!!!
I donated my dress from my first marriage to a wonderful charity that cuts up your dress and sews it into free burial gowns for stillborn babies.
Oh, wow, I didn't know there was such a thing. Sad, but wonderful of you to do so.
Was that in the UK?
That's a wonderful idea to do with used gowns
That shop assitants smirk when she said "they had to buy a sample". More like smirk at her because whos going to go to that shop now?
That dress should never have been on sale in the first place.
Telling me. I was furious for that bride. Felt for her
Shoddy bridal boutique! My Mom worked for a bridal boutique for 15 years. At no time did the boutique have any dress in that condition! All samples were in perfect condition. If any dress was damaged it was considered a write off and tossed in the garbage!
She has every right to be upset honestly I wouldn’t be happy if there where holes in my wedding dress.
The store should have never sold that dress.Discracefull
I feel very sorry for the first bride, and I absolutely blame the woman in the wedding dress shop.
While they shouldn't have sold it, I thought sample gowns were not sold? But I'm not sure
@@Syndryn666 I'm not sure about the UK, but in the US sample gowns are often sold for a variety of reasons. Sample gowns are often sold for a discount because they have been tried on before, and therefore many brides seek them out for affordability. Another reason is the time crunch, where there isn't a lot of time to find a dress that is custom ordered and shipped, the bride often needs to purchase a sample dress right from the store.
I wish we could have seen the second dress.
If family mean everything to this guy, why would you book a wedding at the other end of the world lol,if I was Victoria I would t have gone, especially if my close family couldn’t go weddings are a celebration of two families coming together, xx
At the end when she said "I know he's only thinking of me", it annoyed me so much. He was thinking of himself only. Perhaps if he hadn't had a holiday with the boys before the wedding some of the money could have been used to fly her Dad and Sister in.
I would’ve told him to enjoy his vacation and moved on with life. Didn’t want her dad or sis there but wasted all that money on Cali and an overpriced dress.
That would be heartbreaking
Weddings are indeed a celebration of two families coming together, why sacrifice that for a trip to Las Vegas you can take any other time
These brides deserve these grooms. She obviously cares more about the dress he chose than the fact that his choices prevented her family from being there.
The shop shouldn't be allowed to sell a dress full of holes!!!! The woman even said they were so short on time he had to buy sample dress so she knew there was no time or money for it to be repaired WTH
I hope these ladies who detest their dresses actually have a standby of their choosing. I had never heard of men choosing/designing dresses for their future wives. I am stunned & embarrassed for the brides. Only 1/2% have taste.
Emily’s dress is the absolute worst. Not only is it dull AF, it’s also the worst possible fit for her body type. I nearly cried for her.
I would not be with someone like that guy , having her fly to America, without friends or family , but he strolls in all happy with his crew. Oh girl I'm sorry, but you're going to have a very very hard time.
That was 100% the guys fault
The guy who told the bride to put his family first is a pos. Marry without your family that you love is so SELFISH!
Who in their right mind would sell a damaged dress like that? Pretty selfish and dishonest of the shop owner, hoping to make a buck.
If they only have 3 weeks the shop is completely limited to off the rack sample gowns that have been tried on by countless brides and heavily discounted, not really their fault
He should have looked over the dress. He was thinking about the cost. But what shop does not point out the holes unless they or the lady may have not realised how bad it was. But surely you would look over it before selling it to someone. 🙄
Agree...that's just ridiculous. Nobody wants a dirty holey wedding dress..!
Shame on the shop … they knew better! They took advantage of him!!!!
I do a lot of sowing and wouldn't mind fixing up a dress myself to knock the price down, but they better have it properly marked as a dress that needs fixing. Just pretending like there's nothing wrong is shady.
Lloyd should marry himself. She's definitely settling with this bloke. She said he's thinking of her, what a load of rubbish, bet they're not married now.
18:28 i actually love the disposable camera idea. Would also have a photographer as well
We did it for ours. We've got a really personal, fun album. We love it.
I can't help but feel bad for the people who have to reveal the dresses
You have to respect your clients & not sell them dresses like that 😢
Samples are tried on by many brides at bridal shops. Once the sample is sold , it's sold as is.
Normally, it would be the bride to go buy her dress, and for a discount price some people are fine with buying sample items, if there are issues that could be fixed, I wouldn’t have problems with that either, this is not a normal situation and it is a TV show :)
3:37 every right to be pissed. She actually loved it when she saw it on. Shops fault for sure. Not really the groom
Shop assistants face , she was literally laughing at the bride when they realised it was full of holes , hold the shop accountable because they sold it
Joel is a bit of a problem. Didn't even try to make sure the dress was going to be the right size (there are ways, like Becky) that dress was too big everywhere. And do not give me that "I don't want to look like a proper bell end when she is taller than me." Something tells me that is the standard state of affairs, if you look in her wardrobe it will be full of heels. Check your ego, you should want your bride at her most beautiful.
I actually like the first groom, I've seen that one. I appreciate the having a second option and that is honestly one of the most bizarre themes too. But yeah bridal shop should never have sold that dress, men don't look women do.
Somehow YT took me from Say Yes To The Dress to this car crash of a show. Horrible
It's a great show - much more fun than SYTTD 😂
O I just want to give the LA bride a brush and comb??
That poor first girl. How tight of a schedule is this show filmed on? Is it not common to get a wedding dress months in advance? Even if she doesn’t get to see it, how late did he wait to get it that they couldn’t buy a proper one and needed the sample??
If I remember correctly, they only have a certain number of weeks to get everything together, and the bride isn't allowed to know anything that's planned, she can't pick out her dress or anything!
The designers have to have at least six months for a wedding dress and he had only six weeks to do everything. She's acting like a spoiled brat. The most important thing or at least it should be is marrying the man you love. I can almost guarantee 90 % of those will not stay married long bc the girls are to spoiled
@@violetv9037 no she's not. It's the most important dress of her life. One thing is getting the style a bit wrong. Having a dress with holes in it is completely unacceptable and both the groom and shop are at fault. No bride should be forced to get married in that. And it's real shame because the dress is quite nice otherwise
@violetv9037 it's insulting and he should never have been offered that dress. However, it's about the show and ratings, the guys get 3 weeks and a decent amount of money. Many of them do crazy things with the money and don't see the importance of the dress. Personally, I could never have done this.
They have three weeks to plan so the dresses are off the rack no time to order new
Why would the shop sell it a dress full of holes whether it was a sample or not they knew he wasn’t paying attention. Totally disrespectful.
A groom should never choose his bride’s dress!
But that is half the fun
Or her shoes = DISASTER 😂😂😂
Why was this dress even on the rack?
You know he picks her an absolutely beautiful dress and then suddenly they just are so horrified by the shoes. No appreciation whatsoever.
3:55 What kinda Bridal shop sells ripped dresses for sale!!! SMH
Yep, the grooms get to choose from the same 8-10 dresses from every episode. Every dress is the same. Good thing this doesn't come out until they are good and married. They all looked beautiful in this dresses but every episode, same dress
Everyone has their price……store owners are not excluded. Sad.
Why will the shop sell a dress like that. Shame on the shop owner 😮
All those holes 😢😢😢😢
Why would the shop even sell a dress full of holes, really!!!.😢😢😢
Better the warehouse than that stinky fishing boat that the bride absolutely rejected in talks coming up to the wedding. Even the groom on that wedding said, "yeah I'm a bit selfish"! A bit dude? She should turn and run, it will only get worse.
One of the dumbest shows possibly. No way in hell would I do this. It is for your wedding and you cannot replicate that day. Not worth risking some of this craziness happening by handing it all to the groom and with a short timeframe. What a mess!
They do it cause the wedding was funded at twenty grand per couple. They were given a budget to blow. And I always questioned how committed these people are.
Ok I'm only 7min in but the lady that had the 2nd option why would they not include the 2nd dress in the segment? I hope because I'm not to far into the episode they put that segment in this episode or I'm gonna be really upset. I do have to say I did love the 1st dress but why would he choose a dress that had holes in it, it's not like there was or maybe even 2 there were alot of holes. Also why in the hell would that "shop" even try to sell a damaged dress? They even said she knew there was no time for any alterations so why in the world would she even think its acceptable to even try to sell that unless the lady really doesnt care about the brides an was for nothing but money. Its absolutely shameful.
The one girl who said her hip stick out, she doesn’t have hips
The girl with the long hair and the simple dress, why don’t they put that thing up her to fit her perfectly? They have clips they can put in the back to give her an idea what the thing looks like. But what is wrong with these bridal shops?? how can she even wear it anywhere when it’s falling off of her but more importantly again, what is wrong with the bridal shop not clipping her in it so she can see and get her ridiculous hair out of the way. How can you see a dress with your hair hanging in your face and over the top of the dress. Get the hair out of there.
Why does he have a sock on his head
Okay, in the first case that shop should not soled that dress with holes etc... that is not right... but the video is leaving out the second option... l think the groom was concerned to do everything right...
And all these brides do know it is the rule to partake in this show that the groom decides everything...? Are they not giving their future husbands hints of what size and dress they would like?
If these girls are very particular why would they agree with this arrangement?
This show is not good. It highlights the most awful and selfish nature. WHO treats their wives to be like this!
😂 the shallowness is hilarious
Why do these brids sign up to do this show if they don't like the dress and shoes this is ridiculous
Twenty grand budget
We have to remember this is a tv show. They pick people with strong personalities and an entouurage of big characters They hope for conflict and bad decisions. Part of the formula groomsmen who are selfish and spend too much on stags and entrances. As for dresses well rememberr the alternative is no wedding dress. It is amazing how these people and their families have no money but lots of opinions. They cannot or should not expect muchh for their weddings if they don't have really a dime for the wedding. It is ridiculous - trying to have a wedding and can't scrap a couple of hundred for rings or alteration or family membrs who can't help. Fine theyy scale down. Where is the gratitude? Besides 50 percent will be in divorce sadly
Its pathetic. !! Marriage is not a dress.!! Who cares.! If you love each other thats all you need.Not a fancy wedding or people !!
Why is it not understood the brides will get an 'off the rack' dress? The time does not allow to order one.
She signed up to get married in 3 weeks, then moans ' I don't want to wear a dress that 50 million people have tried on'. Where are you supposed to get a brand new, unworn dress in 3 weeks. He should have just ordered one off Shein. Unrealistic expectations. The dress, although damaged was FREE to her. Entitled much!
These shows were filmed in the very early 2010s, long before "Shein" existed, so the grooms didn't have that as an option.
This is absurd.
Everyone in the comments need to calm down! The bridal boutique would have sold it as seen , not trying to be dishonest! Ridiculous.
The first dress wasn't so bad, but they should have never had it on the floor for sale.
I love the invitation. That was slick. It was a good job. I figured maybe he was thinking about her feet by the end of the night?
The third one was stunning. It goes well with her hairstyle, too.
The 4th one. He should have known her better. It was pretty, but he should have known her better.
Beverly Hills is overrated, but the dress was beautiful.
Ok, I’ll give the brides one thing. The dress is the most important thing a girl dreams off since 2 years old but your marrying someone you want to spend your life with and yes he might pick wrong and has no idea how devastating a wrong dress can be when your body conscious but the man your marrying is worth 10 times more than a dress.
The frist bride thinks she’s holier than tho?
Why don’t these girls buy their own dresses?😢🇺🇸
It's a show. The husband has a Budget and plans the whole wedding - dress, location, decoration etc. Some husbands are good and pick nice things, others make their brides wear embarrassing stripper dresses and marry in weird locations or weird themes.
They could, but they've chosen instead to let the show pay for their wedding and the groom to make all the decisions.
Its easy to get the dress you want,pay for the wedding yourself instead of expecting atv show to do it .Otherwise, shut up moaning !
So, why couldn't they just take that layer with the tears in it out, or fill in the holes with lace and shiny bits? The bridal shop, though... the worker kept saying, "He did know it was a sample dress," when they asked if he knew there were holes in it. That was, as the kids today say, quite sus (do they still say that). Then again, if you don't want to be surprised and pick out your own dress, don't agree to be on the show. I know it's not a popular opinion, but if I were her fiancee, I wouldn't be marrying her. It's a dress that is beautiful, able to be fixed in one way or another. I would have worn it in a heartbeat. She liked it without the belt, it was probably in his price range and it fit her beautifully. She's not two, she's supposed to be an adult about it.
It's just plain tacky that he'd buy a torn dress!! He didn't skimp on himself did he? I'd never trust him again. Believe me. Been there, done that. Tried to give a chance over and over again for 35 yrs. Never changed. He was top dog, head of the line and I wasn't even valued enough for scraps, even though most of the time I was the paycheck and shouldered most of ant responsibilities. Our children even begged me to get out. This guy is a looser.
@@winnifredworkman7751 You deserve better. Keep on keepin' on!
Sample dress does NOT equal tattered torn up and all in shambles!!!! Horrible business practice. I’m shocked they allowed their business to be shown on television like this.
They signed up for this show and I feel bad for the guys that try so hard and get treated so bad by the brides as well as their families and friends... Some are just flat out mean!!!
These brides who say they won't get married if they don't like the dress, smh.
Some people are just really weird and like to feel comfortable in what they’re wearing
She is ridiculous