Yes i feel that! i feel that , this man is a 50-50 man in relationship. he's not really successsful. we ladies should listen to Dr Orion Taraban. Believe me, I am exactly the 100% wifey material. and did got proposed 3 weeks after met my ex. but it failed now, not going to reveal much, but it was worse. He's a narc. I am building you know, starting my life back again at 40. I think this channel some sort of, nah gurl. forget it. i feel this guy not giving the best advose. he will make us ladies end up with brokies. but i think the real successful man, want some sort of a little indepenant of a woman having having her own life beside relationship.
I get told that I’m “Docile, Innocent & ‘wife material’”but I took that as someone who would be complacent in a relationship where the guy cheated & did whatever he wanted. So now I’m just acting stand offish & not giving a second thought to people that don’t deserve it.
Exactly. I actually now enjoy being difficult and hard to please because that's what keeps them interested. You need to earn my loyalty and smiles. Docile women get eaten up by the wolves. Those Wolves can't play with you if you don't care like he says though.
I think its important to say that every categorization it depends on the man. For a man a woman can be wifey material and for other same woman can be percived as other category
Quite honestly don't care which category I am. I'm committed to bring my truest self. And if you don't vibe with that then it's not a fit. Not changing who I am. Everyone deserves to be with someone who likes them for them, and who they don't have to pretend around.
Same here! I don’t really give a shit about following societal norms, worrying about how others are constantly perceiving me and trying to appease to people. If they’re truly the right person then as long as you’re living in your highest and truest self it will work out.
I love how we have all these expectations set from how we dress (can’t be too covered up or too “slutty”), cooking, cleaning, femininity, how we speak, etc. Yet most men can’t and won’t even give women orgasms 😂 I’d love to know what reasons should we be with y’all?
Relationships often face challenges, but there’s always a way to move forward. My marriage had its share of significant problems, but with the right help, my wife and I managed to resolve them and strengthen our relationship. Solutions are available if you’re willing to put in the effort and collaborate. Keep hope alive-answers are possible.
I’m struggling with serious issues in my relationship and can’t bear the thought of losing her. My love and desire to have her back in my life are immense. I’m willing to do whatever it takes and would be very grateful for any guidance or suggestions.
Saying farewell to someone you love dearly is never easy, but in my case, I had the assistance of a spiritual counselor who saved my marriage from falling apart. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I'll immediately search for her online. I appreciate it. I'm hopeful that adopting this strategy will also bring about positive changes for me; I miss her deeply.
If you only date men who are significantly less attractive than you and like you way more than you like them you will always win and probably get the treatment you’ve been wanting… set your self up to be the prize and you won’t be sitting and waiting or worrying how someone sees you especially a man who is a master at lying university lol. When a man sees you as the prize you’ll know.. you’ll feel it there won’t be any second guessing it and more importantly he’ll go out of his way to show you. Remember words are nice but they are cheap we need to select our partners based off of actions. He can tell 15 different woman a day good morning beautiful or I love you or I want to marry you… but he’s definitely not gonna purchase a ring for all of them! Never be a placeholder if he’s not dating you with intentions of a relationship u are too busy!
I used to date this way but it still didn’t end up working out lol. Maybe I just wasn’t ready for a relationship at the time but I feel like I just wasn’t into them enough. But when I’m into the really hot guy he doesn’t like me lol
This still doesn't work out. I dated 3 nerdy dudes who wore glasses and were definitely less attractive. They still acted like they were the shit. They still can be players. It's quite unfortunate.
Ugly guys can be a pos too. You're actually talking about dating according to their self-esteem level, but low self-esteem men will still do stupid stuff because of self-sabotage so it's not really a win. They'll just abandon the relationship through self-hatred rather than arrogance.
@@Marwadear512 No, dying alone is statically a male thing. That’s why clean up crews have to clean up the decomposing remains of some dude that hadn’t been checked on for months, years even, and men in nursing homes die with no family nor friends around them.
It’s interesting that Alex advises all the types to change except for the wifey material. But reality is that the wifey material may be most likely to get married, but also most likely to look back at her life at the age of 50 and realize she wasted her whole life being someone she is not for someone who only cared for who they wanted her to be.
That would make sense if she was the overly nurturing type or too nice which means she wasn't the wifey type to begin with. Someone who doesn't care for consistency and is more of a thrill seeker would also view being a wife as a boring or an unappealing waste of time that they would look back on with regret. We've also grown being taught to see it this way too by today's society in general.
And almost 50% of all married women will feel that way. They will dedicate the best years of their lives to a man and sacrifice themselves for their children, put their careers and dreams on hold just to later on be replaced with a new, younger, more beautiful wife. Ask older women what they think about marriage. And the quality of men has gotten worse. So the odds for marriage happiness with modern men are extremely low.
I'm an older woman, 44 years old with 2 kids married for 15 years. I dont regret a single thing! I did give my best year to my husband and to my children. I'm getting older and starting to show signs of aging but the love I have is so rich and full, it could never be replaced. The amount of life we shared together and the life we built is so precious to me. No new peen can even come close to what I have. I've offered my husband Vegas trips with the guys and im fine if he wanted to go to a strip club. He doesn't want to replace me, he may look at women but that doesn't bother me, I look too. Marriage is what you put into it but its also grace. Understand that when you live with someone, they are *living* and growing with you. Allow them freedom to grow. It's when we box someone in that they want to break out. I am growing and learning all the time, I would hate if someone put a box over me or they complained on every mistake i make. My husband understands that. Let me grow and learn. Nagging someone or reminding them of their mistakes is a terrible way to live. Don't forget grace if you want a long, loving relationship.
When a man does this to me to make me feel bad, tells me I’m not wife material I say that’s great as I’m due too much inheritance I don’t want to share 😅 I don’t ever want to be married, so placing me as not wife material does nothing to me.
If a man told me I wasn’t wife material, I would reply “I’m sorry but when did I propose? It’s unlikely that I have as MY husband would only ever see me as worthy” goodbye, close the door behind you 😂 x
Sweetheart, in this generation, there are no different types of men. Deep down, they are all the same. As long as you know this fact, you can go into it with your eyes open.
I’m the empath/ traditionalist. But honestly I’m looking to be more of the adventurous type. I’m realizing that I was only that way because of comfort/ expectations from others as well as feeling as though I’d get my hopeless romantic ending from being that way. Now I’m being more honest on how shame has influenced my personality & how i need to start living for myself before I get married ect
Yes! I remember saying “ugh, why he’s gotta curse so much to make a point? It’s filler words. But I always loved the message you gave” I’m glad your friend gave feedback.
Really great points but I do want to mention it actually takes about 2 YEARS in average to truly get to know someone… 2-3 months isn’t sufficient for most people.
I dress conservatively, I was a big nerd in school and college, I crochet and bake. But somehow I have always been tagged as "not wife material", objectified by men and men have said some horrendous things, can someone explain what's wrong? 😕
They seem intimidated by your level of intelligence and knowledge perhaps. Meet equally like minded individuals on same level that can “keep up”. Or dial it down until they open up first. We can also over give in intelligence department.
Absolutely the same. And, I hate to tell you this… but traditional Betty Crocker’s are sooooo rare now… that we have been completely objectified. We’re basically an unrealistic porn category now. And, legitimate narcissists are over attracted to this particular “type”. I have given up on men altogether because of it.
Ok ladies with the face that shows too much empathy, or people perceive it as such. If you can have an attitude face, it's better than the other expressions. Stoic would be better but we are vocal ladies and we express ourselves so lets express strength and having an attitude face is an easy way to control your face expressions. I used to do this, i stopped, people stopped respecting me and thought i didnt have confidence because of my facial expressions. I took it for what it was, even though they were wrong.. Be kind but your body language should show strength. Especially us single ladies. ❤
I was a couple of these not gon lie😭some a little and some a lot but this made me notice tendencies about myself that I didn’t see and I am very self aware.I really liked the way you broke this down and I look forward to seeing more vids similar✨ I also am a artist & that’s kinda crazy how that go hand and hand with being empathetic
@@tvtv-m9h I don’t know what kind of men you have come across but I’ve been fortunate enough to meet some really great men. The kind you want to marry. In my years of experience I’ve received three marriage proposals. Just facts.
It kinda scares me that people actually approach "love" like a job interview. They label the shit out of each other without even actually seeing the person as, well...a person. Not "wifey material or not", "hoe", "unstable", just this girl / man I love and want to build something with, regardless of them not having 100% of the things I'd want in my ideal partner. Not to say you shouldn't rule out bad or potential partners, but I've realized it's much better to let yourself vibe with the right people, take time to be friends, and give it a try whenever feelings arise. A bit old fashioned maybe, but struggling to get your ideal partner a la carte will never beat the feeling of a real, well established connection with someone who isn't ideal, but still makes you happier than anyone else.
I'm so sad cause I feel like I'm honestly going to be single the rest of my life. I'm 39 and I've been single 9 years. I feel like there's no hope for me 😢
@MindfulAttraction2.0 I can't help that men categorize me into milf 😂😂 but fr it's so hard to meet ppl who don't have hidden angedas. Real ppl are rare 💯
My love i felt like you. Start taking control of how you date, don’t be so picky, be open to guys you normally wouldn’t go for, ask uncommon questions when on dates. This will help you weed out bs men. Now im in a relationship and he knows marriage is the goal. Im 38 never married no kids you can do it girl!
please speak nice about midle age women, is hard to imagine to date a 10 year older guy, who always speaks about pension, it remembers you a parental figure instead of masculinity. we all love to make drawings ...
Thank you so much for this. I’m a stripper and this is so helpful for me to understand how to be better at work. And I’m not a stripper because I like it , I hate it. I’m just trying to survive.
The gold digger one I don't agree with at all. Rich guys don't count money on dates if they themselves eat what and how much they feel. I say eat what you have a taste for. However don't order two meals just to bring one home.
Oh Alex! You should do a course for women stuck in the 2000s dating head space. And how to be in the current dating head space.. Even some gen z are like this because they grew up with certain advice and movies etc. I think men are ahead of the trend on this because their audacity makes them look and follow the most popular/ current women in todays culture.. I think women get left behind sometimes and might contribute to why older men liking younger women.. Because those men are in now dating space but even women ten years younger than them might be in old dating spaces. Hope that makes sense.. I think women are also more set in how they prefer romance and because of this, they dont understand the men who have advanced in the current dating space.. Personally, I like the old ways but i think this could help women.
I love the way you understand most women which I really appreciate ,you also said that at one time a lady told you about your mannerisms and you said you look at yourself and change your attitudes and if you want many people to listen to your coaching your profanity is what will stop a lot of people from listening to you.Please slow down a little and work on stopping all entirely.
I come to realize. I'm 29 I got to a point I don't style myself much or act cool and stuff that I used to do when I was younger. Guess what, men stopped chasing after me. It's cheaper to don't please anyone much and saves me the trouble but I get lesser attention and respect. Generally , not saying all men but the men in my circles prefer the lies, a thick makeup ,sexy outfits and bad attitude doesn't even matter so long as to look good in appearances. For the person I genuinely liked, he stopped the chasing, I understand, people's feelings change, the once fiery relationship became dead and there was no choice but to move on, I was bit happy when he tries to not let go of our relationship but it's really nothing, we sit down in a room and don't even talk much or even look happy. It is scary thinking about stuff like that if we actually married, we be like strangers than lovers. It is weird scenario. Anyways,what I hate about me, I like beautiful people and I know it is my nature to get smitten, even when I don't know that person much, and I hate how calculative I am, if someone was ugly I doubt I can date them. If someone's face is average but they offer me advantages then I would be ok. Overall , I feel like I'm punished for how calculative I am when it comes to relationship, I can't even seem to love unconditionally.
Fav video so far!! Super informative ❤ (and DLPA & Tyrosine are the natural precursors to adrenaline… awesome for adhd and the need for adrenaline rushes 😏)
Just remember, brass tacks, the reason they have categories is because they will be having more than one. But they cant help it. Wifey material is great if thats your goal. But sexual exclusivity doesnt require categories if that was his goal.
I feel like we could be a mix of all of these. And some people may bring out certain traits that others don't. I'm curious to know what my exes would categorize me in, I feel like each would say something different. Personally I think I'm an adventurer that values self improvement and thrill seeking but at the same time try to control certain impulses due to past experiences and overall self awareness.
Funny enough, I think we all have little bits of these qualities within us. Or have at least experienced these phases at different points in our lives. Obv at different levels, and depends on what we lean more towards. That’s were balance comes in, always.
Can you teach us how to give off the wife vibe in every way ??? I’m a mix of nice girl but still cut them off & speak my standards but still never taken seriously.I am blunt bold and extroverted I am working hard on speaking less but it’s really hard.
Lol my bf always opens all the doors for me, pays for the dates and has fed me with a fork in public 😂 but it's usually to taste something. I adore that man ❤
This type of video is great. Your channel is the best on these topics honestly, glad I've found it. Informative and interesting to watch at the same time. 👍 You deserve much more views. 😀
I do enjoy your content, however I have to disagree with the adrenaline junkie and traveler comment. I do have low dopamine and enjoy adrenaline junkie activities & have never cheated in a relationship. Those activities allow people to shut off their brain and enter a flow state like meditation because you have to skillfully focus on that activity. I actually know several people like this. Now, my ex who wasn’t an adrenaline junkie but had BPD did. Mainly cuz he was destructive. It has to more with how a person acts in integrity or not. And, have they healed their inner wounds & value themselves so they value you…IMO And, I am a traveler, sometimes solo because I like to explore & experience other cultures. So these examples seem far off base for me.
Even the term WIFE MATERIAL is gross. We are not MATERIAL , we are women and not objects. I don’t need to be material for anyone. Women open your eyes. Stop auditioning for men aka predators.
The ending is Insane!
For the empaths: help animals. They actually deserve it.
Man that hit home for some reason. So true ❤
😂
And babies and sometimes elderly.
I love ❤️ animals and babies and don't mind old people
!!!! love those little babies
Keep in mind ladies that you're probably a different type to each man you deal with
Yes i feel that! i feel that , this man is a 50-50 man in relationship. he's not really successsful. we ladies should listen to Dr Orion Taraban. Believe me, I am exactly the 100% wifey material. and did got proposed 3 weeks after met my ex. but it failed now, not going to reveal much, but it was worse. He's a narc. I am building you know, starting my life back again at 40. I think this channel some sort of, nah gurl. forget it. i feel this guy not giving the best advose. he will make us ladies end up with brokies.
but i think the real successful man, want some sort of a little indepenant of a woman having having her own life beside relationship.
And depending on the day we portray/show ourselves one way or another too😅
Society ever hated us 🧕👱🏼♀️
He is saying truth
They want to be god to woman ,if this is not satanic or Veneration, I don't know more
now can we have the different category of dudes lol
I get told that I’m “Docile, Innocent & ‘wife material’”but I took that as someone who would be complacent in a relationship where the guy cheated & did whatever he wanted. So now I’m just acting stand offish & not giving a second thought to people that don’t deserve it.
Maybe being those qualities aren’t bad 😳It’s only bad in the dance world where toxic guys just want promiscuous women hmmm. Making me think!
THIS!
Exactly. I actually now enjoy being difficult and hard to please because that's what keeps them interested.
You need to earn my loyalty and smiles. Docile women get eaten up by the wolves. Those Wolves can't play with you if you don't care like he says though.
How’s that working for you?
@@CarmenPerez-kz6rw it’s liberating!
The only category I will be in from now on is unattainable. I refuse to let another man waste my time. I am in my villain and femme fatale era.
yesss girl
Same
Same Ngl same!
I think its important to say that every categorization it depends on the man. For a man a woman can be wifey material and for other same woman can be percived as other category
no
@@antonellafalero5704 No,for example a sl*t can never be perceived as a wifey by any man.
@@Itachi-no5xfAnd yet, you marry wh*res and sl*ts everyday. Maybe try vetting personality instead of looks.
@@Itachi-no5xfwe aint working with extremes here
lol what? Have you not watched the video or are you a man?
Quite honestly don't care which category I am. I'm committed to bring my truest self. And if you don't vibe with that then it's not a fit. Not changing who I am. Everyone deserves to be with someone who likes them for them, and who they don't have to pretend around.
Yes!!!!
Amen
Same here! I don’t really give a shit about following societal norms, worrying about how others are constantly perceiving me and trying to appease to people. If they’re truly the right person then as long as you’re living in your highest and truest self it will work out.
This!!
I love how we have all these expectations set from how we dress (can’t be too covered up or too “slutty”), cooking, cleaning, femininity, how we speak, etc.
Yet most men can’t and won’t even give women orgasms 😂 I’d love to know what reasons should we be with y’all?
Yeah…like what makes a man husband material?
Cause we can only change ourselves. If "all" the people someone meets are "all" the same it's usually not the op.
SheraSeven explains it very well.. get the bag otherwise don’t waste your youth sprinkle sprinkle ✨✨
EXACTLY
100% This!
Relationships often face challenges, but there’s always a way to move forward. My marriage had its share of significant problems, but with the right help, my wife and I managed to resolve them and strengthen our relationship. Solutions are available if you’re willing to put in the effort and collaborate. Keep hope alive-answers are possible.
I’m struggling with serious issues in my relationship and can’t bear the thought of losing her. My love and desire to have her back in my life are immense. I’m willing to do whatever it takes and would be very grateful for any guidance or suggestions.
Saying farewell to someone you love dearly is never easy, but in my case, I had the assistance of a spiritual counselor who saved my marriage from falling apart. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I'll immediately search for her online. I appreciate it. I'm hopeful that adopting this strategy will also bring about positive changes for me; I miss her deeply.
Welcome... You should.
Nice scripted dialogue haha
If you only date men who are significantly less attractive than you and like you way more than you like them you will always win and probably get the treatment you’ve been wanting… set your self up to be the prize and you won’t be sitting and waiting or worrying how someone sees you especially a man who is a master at lying university lol. When a man sees you as the prize you’ll know.. you’ll feel it there won’t be any second guessing it and more importantly he’ll go out of his way to show you. Remember words are nice but they are cheap we need to select our partners based off of actions. He can tell 15 different woman a day good morning beautiful or I love you or I want to marry you… but he’s definitely not gonna purchase a ring for all of them! Never be a placeholder if he’s not dating you with intentions of a relationship u are too busy!
I used to date this way but it still didn’t end up working out lol. Maybe I just wasn’t ready for a relationship at the time but I feel like I just wasn’t into them enough. But when I’m into the really hot guy he doesn’t like me lol
This still doesn't work out. I dated 3 nerdy dudes who wore glasses and were definitely less attractive. They still acted like they were the shit. They still can be players. It's quite unfortunate.
Ugly guys can be a pos too. You're actually talking about dating according to their self-esteem level, but low self-esteem men will still do stupid stuff because of self-sabotage so it's not really a win. They'll just abandon the relationship through self-hatred rather than arrogance.
Im autistic and have had four guys ask to marry me since my divorce.
I feel like there's no way to really win in today dating scene no matter how you are.
right??!! I am offish they leave, I am to wifey they run...like come on!
i just want men to perceive me as a threat.
I get off to it too when they see me as threat 🤣
It’s a good way to live life alone.
@@Marwadear512 No, dying alone is statically a male thing. That’s why clean up crews have to clean up the decomposing remains of some dude that hadn’t been checked on for months, years even, and men in nursing homes die with no family nor friends around them.
Wtf that's sad and to be said so casually is messed
I agree but only because I'm always afraid of being attacked by men on street
It’s interesting that Alex advises all the types to change except for the wifey material. But reality is that the wifey material may be most likely to get married, but also most likely to look back at her life at the age of 50 and realize she wasted her whole life being someone she is not for someone who only cared for who they wanted her to be.
And sometimes she sits in the present and absolutely loves the life that she has built.
That would make sense if she was the overly nurturing type or too nice which means she wasn't the wifey type to begin with. Someone who doesn't care for consistency and is more of a thrill seeker would also view being a wife as a boring or an unappealing waste of time that they would look back on with regret. We've also grown being taught to see it this way too by today's society in general.
And almost 50% of all married women will feel that way. They will dedicate the best years of their lives to a man and sacrifice themselves for their children, put their careers and dreams on hold just to later on be replaced with a new, younger, more beautiful wife. Ask older women what they think about marriage. And the quality of men has gotten worse. So the odds for marriage happiness with modern men are extremely low.
I'm an older woman, 44 years old with 2 kids married for 15 years. I dont regret a single thing! I did give my best year to my husband and to my children. I'm getting older and starting to show signs of aging but the love I have is so rich and full, it could never be replaced. The amount of life we shared together and the life we built is so precious to me. No new peen can even come close to what I have.
I've offered my husband Vegas trips with the guys and im fine if he wanted to go to a strip club. He doesn't want to replace me, he may look at women but that doesn't bother me, I look too.
Marriage is what you put into it but its also grace. Understand that when you live with someone, they are *living* and growing with you. Allow them freedom to grow. It's when we box someone in that they want to break out.
I am growing and learning all the time, I would hate if someone put a box over me or they complained on every mistake i make. My husband understands that. Let me grow and learn. Nagging someone or reminding them of their mistakes is a terrible way to live.
Don't forget grace if you want a long, loving relationship.
I have both ASD and ADHD, we’re not all hypersexual, far from it actually. I would be careful spreading gross misinformation like that..
Thank you. I am also autistic (it’s not a disorder or pathological) and I hate it when people spread harmful misinformation like that.
@@ariellathebohemian6381I am autistic and your comment has nothing to do with neurodivergent people he is talking in general neurotypical men
My categories for men: Men who I like/serve me vs Men I don't like/don't serve me.
When a man does this to me to make me feel bad, tells me I’m not wife material I say that’s great as I’m due too much inheritance I don’t want to share 😅 I don’t ever want to be married, so placing me as not wife material does nothing to me.
that's fantastic!!!
If a man told me I wasn’t wife material, I would reply “I’m sorry but when did I propose? It’s unlikely that I have as MY husband would only ever see me as worthy” goodbye, close the door behind you 😂 x
This is really interesting! Can you do a video on the different types of men?
Yes! Excellent idea
Sweetheart, in this generation, there are no different types of men. Deep down, they are all the same. As long as you know this fact, you can go into it with your eyes open.
I’d love to see one!
A woman can be almost all those things depending on the day and environment. However, she has a predominant personality.
I’m the empath/ traditionalist. But honestly I’m looking to be more of the adventurous type. I’m realizing that I was only that way because of comfort/ expectations from others as well as feeling as though I’d get my hopeless romantic ending from being that way. Now I’m being more honest on how shame has influenced my personality & how i need to start living for myself before I get married ect
everyone wants money both men and women
😂😂😂😂
Men want sex . Women want resources
The dating apps ruined so much, it plays right into the male fantasy & need for multi sex & women
@@karolinah12 bingo!!
It is like a spider web. Always catching new possibilities. They are in paradise.
Made for men
Don’t forget social media 🤦♀️
This happened way before dating apps, it started with birth control. Watch the video: the economics of sex.
Alex this is truly 1 of your best informative videos. I liked how you listed the characteristics and you gv suggestions.😊
Yes! I remember saying “ugh, why he’s gotta curse so much to make a point? It’s filler words. But I always loved the message you gave” I’m glad your friend gave feedback.
Really great points but I do want to mention it actually takes about 2 YEARS in average to truly get to know someone… 2-3 months isn’t sufficient for most people.
I don't think so,it depends on you,the other person & a lot of other factors as well.
2 years to marry maybe but to become a couple is too much
I's give it 6 months
What? Men are men - it takes 3 minutes to understand that- listen to the video
@@miava1031 oh you poor thang lol
I’m sorry you’re giving me a choice between being Taylor Swift or Avril Lavigne. Avril Lavigne.
Is there a section about their traits? 😂 I can't find theem
Avril is married
@@Trex7124 she's not anymore
@@deborahmusic00
Hmmm.. Something I missed
I dress conservatively, I was a big nerd in school and college, I crochet and bake. But somehow I have always been tagged as "not wife material", objectified by men and men have said some horrendous things, can someone explain what's wrong? 😕
What have men say to you?
Maybe it can be all about physical appearance. At the end of the day, men are superficial
They seem intimidated by your level of intelligence and knowledge perhaps. Meet equally like minded individuals on same level that can “keep up”. Or dial it down until they open up first. We can also over give in intelligence department.
Do you also play video games? Perhaps you’re surrounded by incels.
Absolutely the same. And, I hate to tell you this… but traditional Betty Crocker’s are sooooo rare now… that we have been completely objectified. We’re basically an unrealistic porn category now. And, legitimate narcissists are over attracted to this particular “type”. I have given up on men altogether because of it.
Gaslighting
I still choose to be myself. If I want to show affection I do it. If I have to modify or hold back to be wanted it's causes cancer cells.
this is PhD level knowledge and breakdown. bravo. thanks for this info!!!! sending love
Ok ladies with the face that shows too much empathy, or people perceive it as such. If you can have an attitude face, it's better than the other expressions. Stoic would be better but we are vocal ladies and we express ourselves so lets express strength and having an attitude face is an easy way to control your face expressions. I used to do this, i stopped, people stopped respecting me and thought i didnt have confidence because of my facial expressions. I took it for what it was, even though they were wrong.. Be kind but your body language should show strength. Especially us single ladies. ❤
Why do I feel like I’m a mix of all the categories 😂
Same!!!! I’m every woman! Some traits stronger than others but definitely a little bit of everything 😂 I love me ❤❤❤
Yes you could be one and the other at the same time or be one and one point and then the other at another point
Because you're the 'hot but psycho' type
Cause we're multifaceted human beings. I took the ones I resonated with most and learned from there.
I'm defenetely an empath 😢. But I've learned my lessons. Thank you Dalexis for teaching this stuff.
The irony of Frida Kahlo in the back
Exactly 😭
I was a couple of these not gon lie😭some a little and some a lot but this made me notice tendencies about myself that I didn’t see and I am very self aware.I really liked the way you broke this down and I look forward to seeing more vids similar✨ I also am a artist & that’s kinda crazy how that go hand and hand with being empathetic
Truth. Men look for more conservative women to wife up. Morals and nurturing naturally and feminine.
So they can be in charge and use the best of them and later trade them for a new model.
@@joanofarcxxi
I don’t really agree with your point. But to each his own. A good man realizes what he has and will cherish his woman.
Just to take advantage of them and once these women look decrepit they toss them aside
@@brightemerald3924don’t be naive gurl
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I don’t know what kind of men you have come across but I’ve been fortunate enough to meet some really great men. The kind you want to marry. In my years of experience I’ve received three marriage proposals. Just facts.
Damn! What a well made video, Alex you are very creative with your videos
This guy knows what’s up
This broke my heart
Yeah. 😕
It kinda scares me that people actually approach "love" like a job interview. They label the shit out of each other without even actually seeing the person as, well...a person. Not "wifey material or not", "hoe", "unstable", just this girl / man I love and want to build something with, regardless of them not having 100% of the things I'd want in my ideal partner.
Not to say you shouldn't rule out bad or potential partners, but I've realized it's much better to let yourself vibe with the right people, take time to be friends, and give it a try whenever feelings arise. A bit old fashioned maybe, but struggling to get your ideal partner a la carte will never beat the feeling of a real, well established connection with someone who isn't ideal, but still makes you happier than anyone else.
Im not done watching the whole vid yet but I gotta say this is fire 🔥 love the honesty and love you didn't change anything
I'm so sad cause I feel like I'm honestly going to be single the rest of my life. I'm 39 and I've been single 9 years. I feel like there's no hope for me 😢
Hey you watch my channel you can't talk like that. Come on man do what the video say. How long you been on this channel? What makes you say that
@MindfulAttraction2.0 I can't help that men categorize me into milf 😂😂 but fr it's so hard to meet ppl who don't have hidden angedas. Real ppl are rare 💯
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My love i felt like you. Start taking control of how you date, don’t be so picky, be open to guys you normally wouldn’t go for, ask uncommon questions when on dates. This will help you weed out bs men. Now im in a relationship and he knows marriage is the goal. Im 38 never married no kids you can do it girl!
@angiedee2722 I can't even find a guy to talk with lol it's horrible 😭
please speak nice about midle age women, is hard to imagine to date a 10 year older guy, who always speaks about pension, it remembers you a parental figure instead of masculinity. we all love to make drawings ...
Thank you so much for this. I’m a stripper and this is so helpful for me to understand how to be better at work. And I’m not a stripper because I like it , I hate it. I’m just trying to survive.
So I guess a mix of wifey, ambitious, goddess, narcissistic, and golddigger 🤭
The gold digger one I don't agree with at all. Rich guys don't count money on dates if they themselves eat what and how much they feel. I say eat what you have a taste for. However don't order two meals just to bring one home.
I don't watch you in incognito mood, I am done with men, I give up.. this is the moksha me watching
38:23 Thats me😔 helping people at my own detriment…….
I always feel guilty putting myself first, makes me feel selfish😭
Oh Alex! You should do a course for women stuck in the 2000s dating head space. And how to be in the current dating head space.. Even some gen z are like this because they grew up with certain advice and movies etc. I think men are ahead of the trend on this because their audacity makes them look and follow the most popular/ current women in todays culture.. I think women get left behind sometimes and might contribute to why older men liking younger women.. Because those men are in now dating space but even women ten years younger than them might be in old dating spaces. Hope that makes sense.. I think women are also more set in how they prefer romance and because of this, they dont understand the men who have advanced in the current dating space.. Personally, I like the old ways but i think this could help women.
I love the way you understand most women which I really appreciate ,you also said that at one time a lady told you about your mannerisms and you said you look at yourself and change your attitudes and if you want many people to listen to your coaching your profanity is what will stop a lot of people from listening to you.Please slow down a little and work on stopping all entirely.
your house looks artistic and relaxing lol love it
i love that youre real B) is just normal
Interesting video. Alex, a cool topic to cover would be a deep dive into polyamory. The psychology behind it and how it all works.
The cellar looks medieval! This makes Father Alexs knowledge even more sacred
Yes, this is sacred
As serious as you are, I look forward to your videos bc you crack me tf up 😂😂😂😂
Im the Adventerous type and I felt! Called! Out! lol. Not gonna change tho, its the best.
read the forbidden book Magnetic Aura on Borlest, and you'll see the secrets they're keeping from us.
Where can i find it?
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@@mbtiloreit's a bot comment. Ignore
This young man knows what he is talking about. Pay attention.
this format really suits me
Interesting video. Always like your insights. Please make a video on the types of men next
Every young girl needs to hear this
Father Alex, the younger guys are cougar hunting 😅😂🤣
your videos amaze me. Im gonna study psychology and this is gold.
He said what he said ladies. I love this video. Even Tyrone made an appearance bout to type that as you said it I swear to God 😆😂😝🥰
I come to realize. I'm 29 I got to a point I don't style myself much or act cool and stuff that I used to do when I was younger. Guess what, men stopped chasing after me. It's cheaper to don't please anyone much and saves me the trouble but I get lesser attention and respect. Generally , not saying all men but the men in my circles prefer the lies, a thick makeup ,sexy outfits and bad attitude doesn't even matter so long as to look good in appearances. For the person I genuinely liked, he stopped the chasing, I understand, people's feelings change, the once fiery relationship became dead and there was no choice but to move on, I was bit happy when he tries to not let go of our relationship but it's really nothing, we sit down in a room and don't even talk much or even look happy. It is scary thinking about stuff like that if we actually married, we be like strangers than lovers. It is weird scenario. Anyways,what I hate about me, I like beautiful people and I know it is my nature to get smitten, even when I don't know that person much, and I hate how calculative I am, if someone was ugly I doubt I can date them. If someone's face is average but they offer me advantages then I would be ok. Overall , I feel like I'm punished for how calculative I am when it comes to relationship, I can't even seem to love unconditionally.
The wife wibe is elite, but im definitely more a narcissistic female vibe
Fav video so far!! Super informative ❤ (and DLPA & Tyrosine are the natural precursors to adrenaline… awesome for adhd and the need for adrenaline rushes 😏)
im glad im watching this before work, i needed a reminder to code switch--i can definitely be a little ghetto.
Thank you Mindful Attraction, for the honesty;
Just remember, brass tacks, the reason they have categories is because they will be having more than one. But they cant help it. Wifey material is great if thats your goal. But sexual exclusivity doesnt require categories if that was his goal.
Such a banger !!!🎉
I feel like im an empath, wife type but wanting to be single at the same time🧍🏼♀️
I feel like we could be a mix of all of these. And some people may bring out certain traits that others don't. I'm curious to know what my exes would categorize me in, I feel like each would say something different. Personally I think I'm an adventurer that values self improvement and thrill seeking but at the same time try to control certain impulses due to past experiences and overall self awareness.
Funny enough, I think we all have little bits of these qualities within us. Or have at least experienced these phases at different points in our lives. Obv at different levels, and depends on what we lean more towards. That’s were balance comes in, always.
Very interesting, thorough and useful info! I now know to avoid thrill seekers and how to behave around men! Thank you 😊
Can you teach us how to give off the wife vibe in every way ??? I’m a mix of nice girl but still cut them off & speak my standards but still never taken seriously.I am blunt bold and extroverted I am working hard on speaking less but it’s really hard.
ur possibly always mouthing off
@@lisettecamejo4243 yes but when I do the opposite they ask why I’m so quiet lol
Been following you for yearsssss. Love you for life!
I’m never ashamed to watch your channel 😂😂
Lol my bf always opens all the doors for me, pays for the dates and has fed me with a fork in public 😂 but it's usually to taste something. I adore that man ❤
This type of video is great. Your channel is the best on these topics honestly, glad I've found it. Informative and interesting to watch at the same time. 👍 You deserve much more views. 😀
Brilliant analysis
Thank you Sir
Fantastic discussion
thank uuuuu ur so on point w me and im gonna check ur courses out! could u please do this video on men 💚
This style of video is 🔥🔥🔥
You put the slides with words up way too fast, I can barely even pause it in time to catch it in order to read it myself.
This is awesome that you prepare for your videos
I love ur apartment ❤ artsy
Alex can you talk about Manic pixie dream girls. I think thats what I am.
Maybe it falls into the adventurer but idk
YES I SECOND THIS
I do enjoy your content, however I have to disagree with the adrenaline junkie and traveler comment. I do have low dopamine and enjoy adrenaline junkie activities & have never cheated in a relationship. Those activities allow people to shut off their brain and enter a flow state like meditation because you have to skillfully focus on that activity. I actually know several people like this. Now, my ex who wasn’t an adrenaline junkie but had BPD did. Mainly cuz he was destructive. It has to more with how a person acts in integrity or not. And, have they healed their inner wounds & value themselves so they value you…IMO And, I am a traveler, sometimes solo because I like to explore & experience other cultures. So these examples seem far off base for me.
Great video! Would be cool if you could also do a video about the archetypes of men and women :)
You realize you wrote the word 'murderer' instead of 'nurturer' to describe an empath?! Too funny!
I was like that and now I don’t want that sh*t anymore (the first one ).
It's a nice video. Helpful
😂 the psycho girl advice was the best, remembered why I come here - the honesty 💯
Thank you D'alexis
My 🧠 is going through it seeing Brittany's pic bc i just seen her new walk in life on social media today
Thx you so much for your sharing……Subtitles pleaseeee
Even the term WIFE MATERIAL is gross. We are not MATERIAL , we are women and not objects. I don’t need to be material for anyone. Women open your eyes. Stop auditioning for men aka predators.
The terminator type has me in stitches 🤣🤣🤣
Its not my fault I was born with adhd
No one is born with ADHD
@@ThatGirlK24 ur either born neurodivergent or not
@@Kp-ez2xc that’s not what ADHD is though. You’re confused and no you’re not born neurodivergent either
ADHD is not real lol
@@DisciplineToSuccess101tell me more please!
So true with german guys 😂😂 im from Germany and im done with these guys 🥲
I am in germany too. The absolute worst.
This is by far the most interesting you tube show.
the afghan reference was craaazzyyyy lmaooooo
I'm a wifey/terminator/adventurer/empath. 😂😂😂😂