'Who determines what's professional?' Black hair shouldn't be a topic for debate

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  • Опубліковано 22 жов 2020
  • Commentary: 'Who determines what's professional?' Black hair shouldn't be a topic for debate.
    We live in a diverse world, which means it's a good thing when we scroll through social media or turn on our TVs and see diverse faces. Or diverse hairstyles, like Black natural hair.
    The conversation around hair is changing and frankly, it’s taken too long to get here. Perhaps you've noticed Tashara Parker, wearing her hair how she wants to wear her hair.
    Just this week, a post of hers went viral with almost 50,000 likes and it sparked a lot of conversation around natural hair.
    Overwhelmingly Tashara received a lot of support but still, there are critics.
    Here's more from Tashara: bit.ly/3jsrdrH
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 84

  • @shaywatts6338
    @shaywatts6338 3 роки тому +56

    I definitely don’t understand how someone who doesn’t have hair like me nor know how to care for my hair can tell me what’s professional & what’s not. 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @raymondmullins1068
      @raymondmullins1068 3 роки тому +11

      I've never understood how someone's hair determined their professionalism, like it's literally just on top of their head and doesn't effect how they do their job.

    • @Afrocentric_Exotical_24
      @Afrocentric_Exotical_24 2 місяці тому

      👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽☝🏽

    • @Afrocentric_Exotical_24
      @Afrocentric_Exotical_24 2 місяці тому

      ​@raymondmullins EXACTLY ‼️💯

  • @muffiebirch8207
    @muffiebirch8207 3 роки тому +23

    When I tell you I am literally in tears watching you speak on this topic. I am speechless of how powerful this was. I lllooovvveee you sister. Wear that crown 👑 and don’t you dare put it down.

  • @pollysey6577
    @pollysey6577 3 роки тому +23

    I think the pandemic has allowed employees to be more themselves.

  • @gwoo141
    @gwoo141 3 роки тому +30

    Shoot, I wake up looking forward to seeing what hairstyle sister girl will have. My wife and I applaud and high five with each new look you give. Not to mention you are my wife's Soror. Keep doing you and showing the diversity that is us, BLACK!

    • @swenett1308
      @swenett1308 3 роки тому

      Did you see that she wrote a post asking people for their opinions about her hairdo? I was reading it on Google and she asked for people's opinion. Why do that, then complain when people say how they felt? She wanted the attention. Such a beautiful black woman had to do such foolishness for attention.

    • @sirenenoire4091
      @sirenenoire4091 3 роки тому +4

      @@swenett1308 she wanted to prove a point 🙄

  • @charlottehouston1504
    @charlottehouston1504 3 роки тому +23

    Exactly! Ms. Parker keep being who you are

  • @serious7179
    @serious7179 3 роки тому +6

    She is fierce, strong, and beautiful. I'm so happy to see someone I can be proud of on the morning news.

  • @alishahughes2450
    @alishahughes2450 3 роки тому +11

    I’m an HR Director. I fully support all
    Women wearing their hair in its natural state/style. The only thing not allowed are
    Unnatural hair colors ie green, purple, blue etc. I had one manager tell a black woman she could not have blonde hair because it was not natural. I had to pull her into my office and re-educate her. Then I had to have the manager apologized to her, and tell her she could wear her hair blonde if she chooses. It is a natural hair color. I had to point out to the manager that my hair is naturally brown is she going to tell me I have to go brown? I don’t like to think of what was going through her head when she told her to change her hair.

  • @dama_shares
    @dama_shares 4 місяці тому +1

    I love this! When I was just 15 or 16, I had my first job at the Warner Brothers Store in the Beverly Center. It was a high school work experience program in which I earned credits toward graduation. I was not being paid, but I was earning credit. I had my hair in very neat, shoulder-length individual braids. The manager, a Caucasian woman, told me that I would be placed to work in stock if I did not remove the braids. Due to her ignorance, I requested that my high school counselor transfer my work experience requirement to the local ROSS Store where I could excel and exude professional excellence in peace without being scrutinized or discriminated against for no reason.

  • @zebrayellow4629
    @zebrayellow4629 3 роки тому +12

    I was told by another black woman who wears ratched colored weaves, that my natural kinks looks unprofessional!

    • @georgettew2337
      @georgettew2337 3 роки тому

      🤣😂🤣

    • @boxgaming281
      @boxgaming281 2 роки тому +1

      Wowww
      You had to put ANOTHER BW..
      Ughh ....just had to let wyte ppl know it was 1 blk woman..
      🦝

    • @user-rx9zl7iz4d
      @user-rx9zl7iz4d 2 роки тому

      @@boxgaming281 how is it being a 🦝 ?
      many black women who wear weaves live to shame natural women who embrace their kinks.

    • @jaysrandomnesschannel
      @jaysrandomnesschannel 2 роки тому +1

      @@boxgaming281 what in the F are you talking about??🤔🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @txbeargreg
    @txbeargreg 3 роки тому +10

    Who’s to say how she supposed to wear her hair? Let her be who she is without judgement. Maybe the problem isn’t with her but it’s your issue with you. I’m sure you aren’t perfect, we could choose to judge you but we choose to accept you as you.

    • @larethiaprince-woods9664
      @larethiaprince-woods9664 3 роки тому +1

      Well said

    • @larethiaprince-woods9664
      @larethiaprince-woods9664 3 роки тому +1

      Well said my brother..... From another mother.

    • @serious7179
      @serious7179 3 роки тому +2

      And not only has her hair professional but she is beautiful... I think it's a lot of jealous women who are commenting on her hair because no man would in his right mind

  • @nickghd1930
    @nickghd1930 3 роки тому +24

    You’re beautiful BLACK QUEEN

  • @ninafrink2190
    @ninafrink2190 2 роки тому +2

    YASSSSS!!!!! I am so grateful for people like Tashara Parker! Because of you I disregarded what my mother said and showed up to my interview wearing my natural crown! I will also be showing up to my first day at work wearing my natural crown. Representation matters and I hope to encourage other little black girls that their hair is beautiful in its natural state and it "professional hair" isn't just straight hair.

  • @geecollins4915
    @geecollins4915 3 роки тому +16

    Because anything they can’t do they outlaw.... SHAMEFUL 😔😢 And it’s sad... Thank you for addressing it 👍🏾❤️

  • @sunshine0425
    @sunshine0425 3 роки тому +17

    Very well stated!! I luv your natural hair. I believe in always being authentically you. After all we can only be who we are.

  • @paulab.8358
    @paulab.8358 3 роки тому +2

    Well said Ms. Parker! It's unfortunate that this is even a topic to be addressed! You and your natural hair are gorgeous! As black women, we need to continue to embrace our natural hair and our creativity with it so the world knows they can't regulate our crown! Keep shining sis!

  • @Morgainell
    @Morgainell Рік тому

    I just saw you on another video and WOW!!!! Love it. As someone who has been in corporate America for over 10 years, I have seen and heard it all about Black hair, clothes, manner of speech etc.....

  • @leighhoneycutt5907
    @leighhoneycutt5907 3 роки тому +5

    I love this!! You are an inspiration! Well done!

  • @medlinwifey
    @medlinwifey 2 роки тому +1

    I’m in tears. I love your hair and all you are representing.

  • @boxgaming281
    @boxgaming281 2 роки тому +1

    YOUR BEAUTIFUL CROWN OF GLORY!
    YOU'RE CULTURLY ON POINT..
    WE ARE PROFESSIONAL IN OUR BLKNESS
    OUR BLK IS BEAUTIFUL 😍 ❤

  • @ramens
    @ramens 2 роки тому +1

    Got an interview for my first part time job soon and I’m worried that my hair would prevent me from getting the job. I have freeform dreads and i’m not sure if my employers would see it as ‘professional’. Hopefully things go well for me.

  • @rayjonest.v7258
    @rayjonest.v7258 3 роки тому +12

    All your hairstyles are great,I watch almost every day,

  • @orleenranger3747
    @orleenranger3747 3 роки тому +3

    Love your hair lady, let all who don't like it go kick rocks.

  • @davidneima
    @davidneima 3 роки тому +6

    As long as you like it like u said really we need a law people sometimes are just crazy

  • @caroltncc
    @caroltncc 3 роки тому +2

    Go girl...you are so correct

  • @calvinkennedy9863
    @calvinkennedy9863 3 роки тому +3

    As a black man I want to grow my hair out but I have an intern at a political internship. I work for a media company, and have leadership roles in 2 organizations. I lead mostly predominantly white groups and some of them will judge you on your hair. I just want to avoid the conflict.

    • @serious7179
      @serious7179 3 роки тому +2

      Well she's not avoiding conflict, she's out there taking it on, and I am here for it!

  • @jdanielleuc
    @jdanielleuc 3 роки тому +1

    Can I say, JOB WELL DONE QUEEN... They will NEVER understand! We will never be able to function freely (with all our glory) in a place that was never meant for us to be here and to prosper.

  • @duckyloudiva5199
    @duckyloudiva5199 3 роки тому +2

    Your hair is absolutely fine my dear!!! I wish I could wear my natural hair but I can't because of a medical issue.

  • @angeladavis2391
    @angeladavis2391 2 роки тому +1

    I am a self-employed black woman, and I have been wearing my hair natural for several years. Yes, I too get criticized for wearing natural styles, but I will not change who I am just to suit those who disagree with my blackness.

  • @ThePhillynavy
    @ThePhillynavy 3 роки тому +3

    Bill Burr was right, where are the white feminist at?

  • @oldneo4309
    @oldneo4309 6 місяців тому

    I am British and thankfully in most organisations however you want to wear your hair is now accepted. We have the Equalities Act (which consolidated other earlier Diversity and Inclusion legislation together under 9 protected characteristics) and in the schools there are now anti hair discrimination policies. There are still some cases of people wanting to touch other peoples hair in the workplace but there are also policies in place which prevent you from invading someone’s personal space. As an ally and D&I advisor I am constantly ensuring that white people are aware of hair discrimination issues. Good work places policies ensure that hair discrimination is fully understood by all.

  • @kellycraddock269
    @kellycraddock269 3 роки тому +6

    Hey I'm a big fan

  • @chantamasters714
    @chantamasters714 3 роки тому +6

    Your hair is always great! Keep shining queen....

  • @theuiveleths
    @theuiveleths 3 роки тому +2

    I love this, truth has been spoken.

  • @angeleanacamacho7455
    @angeleanacamacho7455 3 роки тому +7

    I love 💘 her hair. I would like to know who's her hair tech.

  • @pollysey6577
    @pollysey6577 3 роки тому +8

    Pass it, SENATE.

  • @TheRyanlehr
    @TheRyanlehr 2 роки тому

    As long as it's not a profession that health my be considered to be pulled back or hair net but every style you shown looked professional to me

  • @chrissycollins6714
    @chrissycollins6714 2 роки тому

    👏🏾💓👏🏾 Well Said!!

  • @HisbeautifulTruth-nl1ch
    @HisbeautifulTruth-nl1ch 9 місяців тому

    Her hair is beautiful😊

  • @Ella-fu3ne
    @Ella-fu3ne 3 роки тому +1

    Amen tell em sister that’s just them old racist people who made their hair can’t do this Let’s all do better amen let us be us and keep on wearing these queen hairstyles you are a black Queen and I love it you and ERICA COBB FROM DAILY BLACK LIVE

  • @patriotforgod8032
    @patriotforgod8032 3 роки тому +3

    Tradition

  • @danielleedmonds3832
    @danielleedmonds3832 3 роки тому +1

    This gave me life! Thank you!

  • @shemlev14477
    @shemlev14477 2 роки тому

    👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

  • @angelawalton9752
    @angelawalton9752 3 роки тому +1

    I will start watching channel 8 just to see you.

  • @Ella-fu3ne
    @Ella-fu3ne 3 роки тому

    Amen ERICA COBB FROM DAILY BLAST LIVE IS SO BEAUTIFUL AND HAS TO CHECK PEOPLE TOO AMEN #❤️black queens xoxo

  • @shonab36
    @shonab36 3 роки тому

    Yassssss Queen Soror!!!!

  • @tenpin2387
    @tenpin2387 3 роки тому +1

    Love your hair

  • @glampocro1688
    @glampocro1688 3 роки тому +2

    If you interview in a Mohawk bun then they shouldn’t come back later and say change it. Employers determine the guidelines and TX is a right to work state. You can’t fire someone for being in a protected class but you can for not appearing profession to their customer base. Go ahead and pass this into law but it’s only gonna create a competitive hurdle for you. In corporate America, we are all subject to professional judgement, background checks and social media scrutiny....it’s just a fact of life.

    • @shequitawashington8146
      @shequitawashington8146 3 роки тому +11

      Yep because historically its always been white men who determined what was 'professional'. Well, that day has passed. I work in corporate America and have a $2.24M book of business. My clients have seen me rock a faux hawk, an afro, twists, braids, curls and straight hair. Neither hairstyle adversely affects my professionalism.

    • @glampocro1688
      @glampocro1688 3 роки тому +1

      @@shequitawashington8146 I wish you wouldn’t take this personally. I know there are exceptions such as yourself. All I am saying is the more mandates you put on corporate America to legislate “acceptable” behavior the more likely you are to limit opportunities for those starting out or needing a second chance. It’s the same reason companies have probationary periods....the easier it is to fire someone the more like it is that a company will give you a shot. Assuming you are in favor of performance based tenure. Congrats on your success!

    • @sirenenoire4091
      @sirenenoire4091 3 роки тому +8

      Imagine if they did this, targeting balding white guys. “Balding is unprofessional”....it’s not like people can control the way their hair does or doesn’t grow.

    • @sirenenoire4091
      @sirenenoire4091 3 роки тому +2

      @I Said What I Said. no. He doesn’t get that we are not the problem. This is why I’m not into white guys 🥴

    • @HisbeautifulTruth-nl1ch
      @HisbeautifulTruth-nl1ch 9 місяців тому

      So what's the standard for "professional hair" beyond neat, clean and natural color?

  • @ludovicleprinceroyal8721
    @ludovicleprinceroyal8721 2 роки тому

    Natural hair? Great! Cheap Dollar Tree nylon weave hair that doesn't fool anyone? Forget it! So annoying....on men especially.

  • @nicolecole5820
    @nicolecole5820 3 роки тому +3

    It's not about the hair or race! Showing respect to your employer is key and be knowledgeable on proper work ethics is another! Being professional dress code is a top priority, if you look like you're going to the club then keep the outfit at home!! Respect and if you can't have respect for yourself at least have respect for others!

    • @aking142
      @aking142 3 роки тому +15

      Is she talking about work clothes or Black hair?

    • @kendriascott6261
      @kendriascott6261 3 роки тому +9

      You've got to be kidding me!!! The was BLACK HAIR!!! Its not apart of the dress code.

    • @nicolecole5820
      @nicolecole5820 3 роки тому +1

      @@kendriascott6261 sorry! If what I said is beyond what you can fully comprehend!!

    • @sirenenoire4091
      @sirenenoire4091 3 роки тому +11

      @@nicolecole5820 apology not accepted, Karen. If only black CEOs would outlaw straight blond hair for different types of people to fully comprehend the absurdity of this scenario.

    • @sirenenoire4091
      @sirenenoire4091 3 роки тому +10

      In other words “have respect for others by not wearing your natural hair.” 😂🥴

  • @vaguevelarde4783
    @vaguevelarde4783 3 роки тому +2

    Why is your left shoulder bigger than your right