5 Things a Husband Can Do To Improve His Sex Life

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  • Опубліковано 29 вер 2024
  • Sex is an important part of marriage. After 23 years of marriage we have learned what to do and what not to do when it comes to sex. In this episode we talk all things how a husband can have a better sex life, this is one you want to listen to all the way. Viewer discretion is advised.
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  • @latashajolly8512
    @latashajolly8512 11 місяців тому

    Thank you both for creating a wonderful podcast for Christian men and women who want to serve God the proper way in our marriages and in our single lives. I’m divorced for 11 years and have had many challenges with being single during this time. I wish this show was out 11 years ago, because it’s been a very trying 11 years for me but with the grace of God He has brought me a long way. Your show is helping me in so many ways concerning questions I have that’s just to personally for me to ask my pastor in bible study lol. Meaning its hard to talk about these things unless you’re in a one on one meeting. Your show is making it very convenient to learn and grow in God concerning these things. Thank you so much! You can’t know how much of a blessing it is to finally get clarity on issues of the heart while trying to live a Holy life.

  • @beautifullyhandsom
    @beautifullyhandsom Рік тому +14

    I'm not a Christian and not interested in being one but there was good advice here that I feel men need to learn and understand.

    • @Cymplicity-yd2lo
      @Cymplicity-yd2lo Рік тому

      Do you treat and love people like you'd want you to be treated? Do you refrain from killing, stealing, tearing others down, being unfaithful? If so, you may be more Christian than what you think or the ones who call themselves Christians.

    • @kristinbell5116
      @kristinbell5116 11 місяців тому +1

      @@Cymplicity-yd2loThat’s just being a decent human being. Being a Christian means adopting a theology and belief that Jesus Christ is Lord and died for our sins

    • @SaucyZo
      @SaucyZo 11 місяців тому +2

      Interesting. Every belief has a foundation and what these folks are explaining is practical but biblically founded so these beliefs are linked directly to God. Jesus is all up in this advice so this isn’t just advice

  • @reginalove6201
    @reginalove6201 Рік тому +1

    Sooo good!!! And kept it 💯💯

  • @svettakwan8476
    @svettakwan8476 4 місяці тому

    What about when husband do not feel sex in marriage is important? But it’s seriously affecting the wife?

  • @denisewinston137
    @denisewinston137 Рік тому

    Thank you for the topic, is it against God for a married couple, to have oral sex

    • @MwaleWaGitau
      @MwaleWaGitau Рік тому +4

      I don't think so but I would like to hear their opinion too 😊
      With sex I believe as long as it is not unhealthy (anal sex is medically unhealthy), as long as your spouse is comfortable with it, I think it is okay.

  • @wilmamachado8484
    @wilmamachado8484 5 місяців тому +2

    I am single celebant and would love to have a marriage with your principals. Be friends, truthful, make God the center of the relationship. Amen!🙌🙏💥🌟✨❤️‍🔥❤️God bless you both always.

  • @jamesstarks3676
    @jamesstarks3676 Рік тому +6

    This is awesome talk. My wife sent this to me and my ego had to be deflated so that my idea of marital sexuality could inflate. Your talk is deeper than most ministers who dodge the obvious and avoid the "naughty words". We need more ministers to speak real talk about the difficulties of marriage, including sex.

  • @charlenehammock7810
    @charlenehammock7810 Рік тому +5

    I love love love this. I love how transparent both of you are!. It's VERY needed

  • @racheldumay9753
    @racheldumay9753 2 місяці тому

    I watched both videos and I feel like a lot of the conversation is very based on the woman’s attitude, appearance and perspective towards pleasing her husband and meeting his needs. And when the conversation did switch to a woman’s needs it was briefly discussed and basically looked over. And if she does not enjoy sex as said in the other video she needs to figure it out and as a married person it should be a partnership help each other if we are really in this together. Very bias perspectives … in my opinion.

  • @user-qr7ee2cp4y
    @user-qr7ee2cp4y Рік тому +2

    Advice for men and women... don't get lazy on your significant other.. stay in shape, stay sexy for them and keep your bedroom skills on point. Don't give your significant other a reason to go looking for something you refuse to give them.

  • @shmoe868
    @shmoe868 2 місяці тому

    So what if you are doing these things and your spouse does not have a desire ?

  • @Laya-k2y
    @Laya-k2y 9 днів тому

    This married couple is so inspiring

  • @Shaneka_Kay
    @Shaneka_Kay Рік тому +2

    Loved this video. Thank you guys for your honesty and transparency. I loved how you touched on the important role of men in family and even braking it down how they give identity to the children. Hope you do a separate podcast on this topic as you mentioned, I would love to listen and learn.

  • @thandikhumalo2448
    @thandikhumalo2448 11 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much for your podcast, gosh I think Iam obsessed with the two of you, so my fiancé was watching one of your podcast, I think it was about Sex God's way and he had a change of mind about watching movies that are 18 and something that you said about your wife's breast ...What a transformation, bless your union
    Thandi from SA Cape Town

  • @stephaniefernandez4648
    @stephaniefernandez4648 Рік тому +2

    I’m glad you guys mentioned the thing about sowing seeds of the wife’s love language which LEADS TO great sex. Since my husband and I never lived together and we go long times without being in each others presence or when we do it’s arguing…. Yeah I understand now why that doesn’t set a good atmosphere for sex… and then that whole SELFISH SEX he mentioned 💯 there’s many times I’ve gotten no satisfaction and it sucks as someone who used to love sex.
    But best point I think they made here was SECURITY IN THE MARRIAGE
    Currently I have been lied to cheated on raped BY MY OWN HUSBAND and am now facing the consequences of his infidelity because it affected my health too… I honestly don’t know if trust would ever be attainable if we decided to stay together

    • @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha
      @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha  Рік тому

      Thank you so much for sharing that. Know that we are 1: praying for you both and 2: believing in God for full restoration of health and peace.

  • @2mammaR
    @2mammaR Місяць тому

    “Make sex great again” 😂😂

  • @adv.tebellomatsela
    @adv.tebellomatsela Рік тому +1

    I love this❤ thank you so much for this. I am a single woman but who enjoys this kind of discipleship. Learn for entering into it! All love from South Africa ❤

  • @jenriquefilms1634
    @jenriquefilms1634 Рік тому +3

    Love my pastors, always keeping it real and we need more topics like this 🙏🏽

  • @christopherrose7785
    @christopherrose7785 5 місяців тому

    Thank you for those encouraging words of wisdom to help improve my sex life as a Kingdom Man.

  • @agnesr.4664
    @agnesr.4664 Рік тому +3

    Thank you so much for being so open and raw about this whole topic. It is not talked about too much - and btw. I confirm as a single, I am getting properly and biblically educated. In a pure way. I wish the stigma of not let singles learn about the topic until they're married would be removed completely. I hate how people sometimes believe that giving this talk a proper context and teaching the whole body of Christ including singles (like you do here) somehow 'stains' them, you know what I mean? I for sure am going to be the biggest blessing to my future husband with yall's teaching.

  • @DomiSews
    @DomiSews Рік тому

    I found this after a very specific search and your mention of the wives episode… it’s what I needed to hear. I will be back to finish this video after watching that one. The spirit checked me. Be back soon.

  • @latoyabasden4725
    @latoyabasden4725 Рік тому

    This is beautiful! Thank you for countering the teaching of the world with a living example of intimacy based on God’s word. This creates a challenge to strive for living, loving and sexing God’s way!

  • @ironickmusic6103
    @ironickmusic6103 4 місяці тому

    Just found your channel, and I appreciate it very much! I am a family pastor in Northern michigan and am finding these teachings and principles very applicable and extremely helpful. Thank you.

  • @andrenealy6336
    @andrenealy6336 Рік тому

    Pastor Ken can you speak up next time it was hard to hear you. This episode was amazing.

  • @katlehomahlophe6513
    @katlehomahlophe6513 Рік тому

    23 years wonderful 🎉

  • @carlosbolt4497
    @carlosbolt4497 Рік тому

    Love this channel, God bless you both

  • @brianmolstad1255
    @brianmolstad1255 Рік тому

    One good way is not get married.

  • @pamelalewis1598
    @pamelalewis1598 Рік тому

    I'm an overcomer as well.

  • @sanchez2004n4ever
    @sanchez2004n4ever Рік тому

    Very good content 👏🏼👏🏼
    God bless your marriage, family and home ❤️

  • @khethiwemthiyane2442
    @khethiwemthiyane2442 8 місяців тому

  • @pamelalewis1598
    @pamelalewis1598 Рік тому

    You did do GOOD

  • @pamelalewis1598
    @pamelalewis1598 Рік тому

    Amen

  • @rosameijering5161
    @rosameijering5161 Рік тому

    Long waited

  • @SheSharpNotFlat
    @SheSharpNotFlat Рік тому

    Great advice!

  • @brandonsoares6717
    @brandonsoares6717 Рік тому +2

    Great advice for men like myself to be more communicative towards my wife on what she wants and doesn’t want. Having a set time as well so that we don’t become the every three months it’s going down. As a husband we have to improve our tonality and also our love for our wives. Ephesians 5:25. Thank y’all for being open and sharing the truth without curtains.

  • @NikoMite-u8k
    @NikoMite-u8k 8 місяців тому

    Bla bla bla 💩💩💩