I like what Chuckie said about the separate gyms if for religious reasons too, ppl may have overlooked that reason. Nice to see someone taking into account of other factors.
I think this is the first time I've really heard men having this conversation without women in the room influencing or pushing them towards admitting this kinda thing. It's surprised me how surprised I am to hear it. There are some days I walk down the street even if the sky is grey with sunglasses on and earphones in with no music playing because it's the only way I can guarantee no man can force eye contact or conversation on me. I don't even mean that in a way like I think I always look good and attract attention, there are also sometimes men just have unsolicited opinions I don't need. Man I've had a shit week don't tell me to cheer up or smile, fuck you. Keep yourself to yourself.
@@sour3000 100% you can. Men stare at you so hard you can feel it, sometimes its even subconscious, but if you look back or allow that eye contact to happen its their 'green light' to talk. Women shouldn't have to walk with their eyes to the floor or straight ahead tunnel vision to avoid forceful stares of creepy men.
@@amie3632 "if you look back or ALLOW that eye contact to happen" Key word is Allow. See, Eye contact is a mutual thing. The man isn't controlling your eyes so stop reaching now and leave all that spiritual air out of this. Women can look wherever they want...
@@sour3000 Or how about not put women in a position where they have to act in a certain way to avoid or disallow an action by a man? Very easy to say do or don't 'allow it' when you're a woman in an intimidating position. But you sound like the kinda bloke that would put a woman in that position if you can't even see how we might not appreciate it. You have a great day.
Weirdly enough, I can relate to women getting harassed quite a bit. From being gripsed in my bicep by strangers wanting to talk, to all the excessive attention that makes everyday tasks a longage, particularly bopping into a gym. 'Tis peak, especially when so many people move like btec paparazzi.
@Truth your argument is literally based on assumption. So when a guy reaches out and touches a woman's bicep its sexual harassment? What if he's just asking where the toilet is? Relax. See, keep the same energy when mens biceps are touched.
@Truth You missed the point entirely. Physical harassment is still physical harassment, but OBVIOUSLY there's levels to it. Sexual harassment clearly is WAY worse, but he's trying to find a small window to relate. It will never be the same thing, but it's still a path to empathy.
@Truth Did you just assume the sexual orientation of the people who made unwanted physical contact with me? 👀 Nah I'm playing 😂, but there's some validity to it. To be fair I've been gripsed by more females than males and it still feels like a mad violation I can do nothing about. But ultimately, going off what I heard, those experiences haven't been foreign to me at all in recent years.
There already are, you can use them, nobody is stopping you. Just make sure you don’t cry sexism when men want male-only gyms. I’d argue that the gender that takes gym more seriously is the gender that doesn’t need to put on makeup before they go. Most men want to get their workout done and go.
He often drops little things into conversations that show he is really 'getting it' and actually cares. For example there was a conversation about the Red Light district in Amsterdam and Chuckie raised the issue of trafficked women. There was one podcast where Poet was saying ridiculous things about a friend who had (in his mind) done nothing wrong- the friend had been put on the sex offenders register after groping a woman, and Poet was angry about this because his friend was 'still a virgin'. And Chuckie was explaining that sexual assault doesn't necessarily have to involve penetration etc. (Bear in mind that Poet would have been in his early 30s when he was coming out with this nonsense). And when Poet was claiming that women don't get harassed as badly as men- and Chuckie told him that he shouldn't be speaking for what women go through. And he had an amazing conversation with Sidemanallday about male behaviour. (Do men listen to women enough) It's honestly so heartening to see men having conversations like this, unprompted. Chuckie is definitely one of the good ones!
@@leopardprints 100% and it’s so genuine cos he brings it up all the time of his own accord. The episode “do men listen to women enough” is my fav episode, literally love him so much in that one 😂
@@bellaingram1177 I also love Sidemanallday, he's quite active on his socials talking about female safety/ sexual assault. And talking about how men need to do more and be more aware. I do wish that Chuckie would challenge some of the sexist/ misogynistic things that some of the others say on the Podcast (especially Poet with his past Tweets). Also the podcast about whether they'd still be friends with a convicted rapist (in reference to Solo 45's crimes), wasn't great. Margs was the only one who outright said he'd cut ties with a friend who'd been convicted of rape. (You'd never have a group of women discussing if they'd still be friends with a rapist, so there was a lot of unchecked male privilege going on). There was no discussion of how having a rapist in their friend group would put the females in their lives at risk, either. It was a weird conversation.
@@bellaingram1177 Yes, it's called 'Does Anyone Need to Condemn Solo 45'. There are quite a lot of angry comments about how they discussed this. It's disappointing, for sure.
Thank you so much for this conversation- I wish more men would hold each other accountable. I've seen some men make comments that if a woman chooses to dress up, then she can't blame men if they wolf whistle or shout 'harmless banter'. First off, women can dress up for themselves. Wearing a nice dress is not a red light for you to start shouting at us! Secondly, they are missing the point. Being wolf-whistled and shouted at can be intimidating. Especially if you are on your own and it's a group of men. And it can be triggering for women who've experienced sexual assault. Women can be afraid to ignore these comments/ whistles- which is why France banned street harassment (i.e wolf-whistling) after a man attacked a woman who ignored his 'compliments'. What feels like 'harmless banter' to you, can be intimidating for a woman. Just stop it! This is not the same as being in a club or party and going up to a woman and complimenting her. Women should be able to walk down the street and not have to have men shouting at us. And it's not just 'women who dress up nice' who get harassed- how many girls get 'wolf-whistled' at on the way to school? On the way to work? Going shopping? and
YESSS CHUCKIE!!! Another fantastic video. I've been watching you for some time where you have inspired me to start my own podcast! 1st and 2nd episode OUT with more to follow, be amazing to have feedback. 🙌Pray that everyone stays safe ❤💯
It’s really interesting you’re having this conversation i wish a lot more guys would think about this... I literally experience this every time I step out. It’s very uncomfortable having to hear a bunch of guys somewhere talking about your body and you can hear the expressions and the jokes
I'm noticing a lot of women complain about men and toxic masculinity but once we get to a place where the agenda has made 80% of men fruity and emasculated the "where are all the manly men gone?" Conversations are gonna be FREQUENT! 🤣
Lool exactly. Can't have it both ways. It's natural for a man to look at an attractive woman. And what you wear can also heighten this attention. I would never condone a man putting his hand on a woman for how she is dressed but just know that if you are wearing something revealing men will react.
Louder! 💯 If all men start acting like me and turn a blind eye to women like the agenda basically wants. Women would start complaining about the absence of masculinity when their feminist movement was the very thing that squashed it out!
@@queenirmamay no... the feminist agenda of today finds basically any way to demonize men. Look at a woman even for a second too long and you're an intimidating harrasing goblin!
I think people are confusing the character Harry plays (all of them play) with who he actually is as a man (not that I know him personally) in day to day life. Filly/chunkz/etc have all said they are playing characters and it's not real, it's entertainment.... 🤷🏾♀️
So you would be ok with your man doing what Harry does? Whether it’s his intent or not, he is being disrespectful to his woman. No man who respects his woman, would act like that. Simple.
@@Kufo-Oriji4632 Not about me personally, if he's doing it, one can only assume she's okay with it 🤷🏾♀️ everyone has different boundaries so I personally won't demonize him for a character he plays. I get your perspective though.
@@Kufo-Oriji4632 he not disrespecting his girl if they both agree its his job and he brings home the bag. Hes an entertainer not everyone is in a relationship chokehold lol
@@Kufo-Oriji4632 the character he plays when u see him on does the shoe fit, he gets paid for it! He doesn’t not disrespect his own girlfriend/ the girls on he shows, it’s just simply a character he plays and he gets paid for it!!! He’s not like that in person and with his own girl
The over ear headphones! Chuckie knows because the anxiety is real in those situations. Some women love that attention and others don’t. I personally would just want to run! 😂
Chuckie, a lot of your videos are reaching well over your number of subscribers, people need to remember to subscribe, & properly support your hard work
Good episode. Wanna see more conversations from men condemning wild male behaviours! ALOT of Men will only hear it when it comes from their peers sometimes.
Mate. I've had random men put their arm around me and kiss me on train station platforms on my way home from work. If there were no men for 24 hours I'd actually just walk around London all night
Men cannot rush it. I understand time is of the essence but you can’t rush essence. We are dealing with some kind of mental trauma whether you admit or not. To stay the least Men can be f$&@ing terrifying.
The headphones with nothing playing is something done very often. It's interesting that men don't realise what negative impact their behaviour has on females, this makes it difficult for other men when approaching women. Some women automatically expect men to behave in a negative way with the yo come here and if she don't she gets cuss. Smh
A ting: Be on your best behaviour, nothings happening Chuckie with his whole face 5:44: "babes, look at meee.. of course.." Your facial expressions game is strong🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I always make sure I wear noise cancellation headphones to avoid male interaction. And yet still,they’ll run up in your face or even follow you to your destination.
Lesbians are actually super aware of how they interact with women cos they know how it feels to be made uncomfortable by men and don’t want to do the same with other women
Gems got spat on this one, considering I tend to not understand girls so a lot of these scenarios have been explained to me and I can act accordingly in the future!
Never once thought about going on a jog in an empty park in the middle of the night with my music all the way up in my earphones Cant imagine how it must feel walking on the street alone when most men have the capacity to have their way with you if they feel like it
It's a huge dream of mine Just to walk around in the dark and just be in touch with nature/the world, but it's just not safe. The moment the sun goes down, we have to be on guard.
some of the responses from some man to that post about there being no men in the world for 24hrs were WILDDD. Entitlement is mad, Large up Chucks n Playboi CLARTIII
14:30 no offence to women but you gotta get over that. What does staring do? Sure it's jarring but it's not like it's preventing you from working out. I was a skinny kid in the gym once & people would stare at me all the time. I just had to adapt to it. Some girls are so paro that they think every single guy is moving to them. One time there was 1 bench available, but it had weights near it. I go to ask the girl on the side if anybody is using the bench, she airs me. I reach over to tap her on the shoulder, she goes "WHAT!" Moving rude for no reason. Other times there's a cable I need which is near a girl & she acts all rude as if I'm moving to her when I only want the cable that's near her.
U got to understand where they are coming from though Most men are bigger than them they fear that he may be targetting her because they have experienced something or heard of a story where I guy took advantage of a woman however it came.
@@michael43567 maybe jump her when she is in the parking lot or holler and scream or make comments on her body that make her uncomfortable Like maybe he goes to get her digits she says no and he gets mad A bunch of things bro but it's just the danger it presents whether it happens or not is not as relevant.
What you wear to the gym also contributes to you getting stares. Most guys wear a t shirt. Guys that wear the string vests likely want attention. Similarly, the girls that wear tight jeggings & sports bras likely want attention. Why not wear a t shirt & regular fit shorts like most people? Cause they want attention. They want guys looking at them, it boosts their self-esteem. A lot won't admit this but it's true. Why you think women always ask "how do I look?" They are very self-conscious & crave attention.
I literally do what these women do at gyms. Headphones in, not making eye contact. It's not hard. For you to complain about getting stares, that means you're NOT avoiding eye contact. You're looking to see who's looking at you. Because you want the attention. Girls know what they're doing.
Why does harry seem to say the right things and have a good midset, but move to women in a sexual way like in( if the shoe fits) show: he sId direspectful things. Thats why I had to double take when I saw his face, because i couldn't believe this is the same guy that was talking mad to destiny(destdol) s4ep2
They've all mentioned several times that during that show they are playing characters, it's not reality... So maybe the confusion is alot of people really believe how they act in that series is how they carry themselves in real life 🤷🏾♀️
@@MiszGreatBritain Definitely, bc I thought he's so obnoxious/disrespectful initially and then I saw them tweeting about it and I was "ooohhh" lightbulb moment lol
Agreed or true?...deep that for one to feel comfortable or uncomfortable it is based on their feelings which can be illogical and just emotional. It's only justified if they are uncomfortable due to past experience(s) that have similar patterns. In that case they need to learn how to deal with their emotions and problems effectively without fatal consequences to self and others that will produce the desired result they want. Look at it from another perspective it is like asking what can Black People do to make White People and Asian people feel comfortable when they perceive Black People as a certain stereotype. It's down to both White people and Asian people to learn how to deal with their emotions and problems effectively without fatal consequences to Black people.
I understand your logic however it is extremely dismissive. Just this week we saw a young girl get possibly abducted and raped.( I’m sure you can still access that footage for reference)This situation is too common. Your argument sounds adjacent to white people not condemning WS Or racism. Toxic masculinity is an issue but before fixing it you have to address it.
@@ar-d4348 we as in #TheAlkebulanTrust have seen that unfortunate footage and in reality EVERYTHING comes down to having the right education. With that young girl and that specific subject it's a sensitive topic but long-term wise for prevention boys from an early age need to be taught how to develop their true masculine skills. Which will eradicate what ever anyone perceives as toxic masculinity. So your comment is definitely acknowledged and appreciated.
This is a flawed comparison. The beliefs other races have about black people are based on racism and discriminatory beliefs about black people. The beliefs women have about men are based on clear oppression and discrimination against women. You don't have to have a personal experience to be scared of men. Listening to the traumatic experiences of others is enough and I can tell you that the majority of women probably have some uncomfortable experience due to the entitlement of men. You must be a man lol It's about men being more self-aware of their behaviour and their privellege.
I like what Chuckie said about the separate gyms if for religious reasons too, ppl may have overlooked that reason. Nice to see someone taking into account of other factors.
Harry is so calm when he’s not doing the most and being vulgar
If men weren’t around I would walk around in pasties and glitter.
If all men were like me you could do that. I don't even look at women these days. 😴
I think this is the first time I've really heard men having this conversation without women in the room influencing or pushing them towards admitting this kinda thing. It's surprised me how surprised I am to hear it. There are some days I walk down the street even if the sky is grey with sunglasses on and earphones in with no music playing because it's the only way I can guarantee no man can force eye contact or conversation on me. I don't even mean that in a way like I think I always look good and attract attention, there are also sometimes men just have unsolicited opinions I don't need. Man I've had a shit week don't tell me to cheer up or smile, fuck you. Keep yourself to yourself.
You can't really FORCE eye contact. It's a mutual thing🤦♂️😂
@@sour3000 100% you can. Men stare at you so hard you can feel it, sometimes its even subconscious, but if you look back or allow that eye contact to happen its their 'green light' to talk. Women shouldn't have to walk with their eyes to the floor or straight ahead tunnel vision to avoid forceful stares of creepy men.
@@amie3632 "if you look back or ALLOW that eye contact to happen"
Key word is Allow. See, Eye contact is a mutual thing. The man isn't controlling your eyes so stop reaching now and leave all that spiritual air out of this. Women can look wherever they want...
@@sour3000 Or how about not put women in a position where they have to act in a certain way to avoid or disallow an action by a man? Very easy to say do or don't 'allow it' when you're a woman in an intimidating position.
But you sound like the kinda bloke that would put a woman in that position if you can't even see how we might not appreciate it. You have a great day.
@@amie3632 no I'm not the kind of bloke that does that. 🙄😂
I don't even look at women because I honestly cannot be bothered with their antics in 2020.
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Weirdly enough, I can relate to women getting harassed quite a bit. From being gripsed in my bicep by strangers wanting to talk, to all the excessive attention that makes everyday tasks a longage, particularly bopping into a gym. 'Tis peak, especially when so many people move like btec paparazzi.
@Truth well if a woman were getting gripsed in the bicep by random people it would be sexual harassment... So why is it different when it's a guy?
@Truth your argument is literally based on assumption. So when a guy reaches out and touches a woman's bicep its sexual harassment? What if he's just asking where the toilet is? Relax. See, keep the same energy when mens biceps are touched.
@Truth You missed the point entirely. Physical harassment is still physical harassment, but OBVIOUSLY there's levels to it. Sexual harassment clearly is WAY worse, but he's trying to find a small window to relate. It will never be the same thing, but it's still a path to empathy.
@Truth Did you just assume the sexual orientation of the people who made unwanted physical contact with me? 👀
Nah I'm playing 😂, but there's some validity to it. To be fair I've been gripsed by more females than males and it still feels like a mad violation I can do nothing about. But ultimately, going off what I heard, those experiences haven't been foreign to me at all in recent years.
I was gonna say shushh with all that till I read the name 😭😂😂😂
I wish we had a female only gyms!!
There are a few in London tbh
We have female only gyms in Canada
I'm hear for female only gyms!
There are huge female only gym chains in New Zealand.
There already are, you can use them, nobody is stopping you. Just make sure you don’t cry sexism when men want male-only gyms. I’d argue that the gender that takes gym more seriously is the gender that doesn’t need to put on makeup before they go. Most men want to get their workout done and go.
Them M way journeys just to "chill" imagine the rage🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤣
Chuckie your mentality about women is 💯
He often drops little things into conversations that show he is really 'getting it' and actually cares. For example there was a conversation about the Red Light district in Amsterdam and Chuckie raised the issue of trafficked women.
There was one podcast where Poet was saying ridiculous things about a friend who had (in his mind) done nothing wrong- the friend had been put on the sex offenders register after groping a woman, and Poet was angry about this because his friend was 'still a virgin'. And Chuckie was explaining that sexual assault doesn't necessarily have to involve penetration etc. (Bear in mind that Poet would have been in his early 30s when he was coming out with this nonsense). And when Poet was claiming that women don't get harassed as badly as men- and Chuckie told him that he shouldn't be speaking for what women go through.
And he had an amazing conversation with Sidemanallday about male behaviour. (Do men listen to women enough) It's honestly so heartening to see men having conversations like this, unprompted.
Chuckie is definitely one of the good ones!
@@leopardprints 100% and it’s so genuine cos he brings it up all the time of his own accord. The episode “do men listen to women enough” is my fav episode, literally love him so much in that one 😂
@@bellaingram1177 I also love Sidemanallday, he's quite active on his socials talking about female safety/ sexual assault. And talking about how men need to do more and be more aware.
I do wish that Chuckie would challenge some of the sexist/ misogynistic things that some of the others say on the Podcast (especially Poet with his past Tweets).
Also the podcast about whether they'd still be friends with a convicted rapist (in reference to Solo 45's crimes), wasn't great. Margs was the only one who outright said he'd cut ties with a friend who'd been convicted of rape. (You'd never have a group of women discussing if they'd still be friends with a rapist, so there was a lot of unchecked male privilege going on). There was no discussion of how having a rapist in their friend group would put the females in their lives at risk, either. It was a weird conversation.
@@leopardprints i haven’t seen that one, was it on chuckies podcast??
@@bellaingram1177 Yes, it's called 'Does Anyone Need to Condemn Solo 45'. There are quite a lot of angry comments about how they discussed this. It's disappointing, for sure.
Best episode so far, gems on gems👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Yes this and the financial literacy one!💎
Thank you so much for this conversation- I wish more men would hold each other accountable.
I've seen some men make comments that if a woman chooses to dress up, then she can't blame men if they wolf whistle or shout 'harmless banter'.
First off, women can dress up for themselves. Wearing a nice dress is not a red light for you to start shouting at us!
Secondly, they are missing the point. Being wolf-whistled and shouted at can be intimidating. Especially if you are on your own and it's a group of men. And it can be triggering for women who've experienced sexual assault.
Women can be afraid to ignore these comments/ whistles- which is why France banned street harassment (i.e wolf-whistling) after a man attacked a woman who ignored his 'compliments'.
What feels like 'harmless banter' to you, can be intimidating for a woman. Just stop it!
This is not the same as being in a club or party and going up to a woman and complimenting her. Women should be able to walk down the street and not have to have men shouting at us.
And it's not just 'women who dress up nice' who get harassed- how many girls get 'wolf-whistled' at on the way to school? On the way to work? Going shopping?
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YESSS CHUCKIE!!! Another fantastic video. I've been watching you for some time where you have inspired me to start my own podcast! 1st and 2nd episode OUT with more to follow, be amazing to have feedback. 🙌Pray that everyone stays safe ❤💯
SOOOOO GLAD you mentioned che lingo !!! Deserves massive recognition 👏
I think if more boys were more considerate and sensible girls would be more comfortable.
I honestly appreciate this conversation.
It’s really interesting you’re having this conversation i wish a lot more guys would think about this... I literally experience this every time I step out. It’s very uncomfortable having to hear a bunch of guys somewhere talking about your body and you can hear the expressions and the jokes
I'm noticing a lot of women complain about men and toxic masculinity but once we get to a place where the agenda has made 80% of men fruity and emasculated the "where are all the manly men gone?" Conversations are gonna be FREQUENT! 🤣
Lool exactly. Can't have it both ways. It's natural for a man to look at an attractive woman. And what you wear can also heighten this attention. I would never condone a man putting his hand on a woman for how she is dressed but just know that if you are wearing something revealing men will react.
Louder! 💯
If all men start acting like me and turn a blind eye to women like the agenda basically wants. Women would start complaining about the absence of masculinity when their feminist movement was the very thing that squashed it out!
@@sour3000 appreciation and being an idiot man is different
@@sour3000 Trust sis. People are confused and don't know what they want lol
@@queenirmamay no... the feminist agenda of today finds basically any way to demonize men. Look at a woman even for a second too long and you're an intimidating harrasing goblin!
I think people are confusing the character Harry plays (all of them play) with who he actually is as a man (not that I know him personally) in day to day life. Filly/chunkz/etc have all said they are playing characters and it's not real, it's entertainment.... 🤷🏾♀️
So you would be ok with your man doing what Harry does? Whether it’s his intent or not, he is being disrespectful to his woman. No man who respects his woman, would act like that. Simple.
@@Kufo-Oriji4632 Not about me personally, if he's doing it, one can only assume she's okay with it 🤷🏾♀️ everyone has different boundaries so I personally won't demonize him for a character he plays. I get your perspective though.
@@Kufo-Oriji4632 he not disrespecting his girl if they both agree its his job and he brings home the bag. Hes an entertainer not everyone is in a relationship chokehold lol
@@Kufo-Oriji4632 the character he plays when u see him on does the shoe fit, he gets paid for it! He doesn’t not disrespect his own girlfriend/ the girls on he shows, it’s just simply a character he plays and he gets paid for it!!! He’s not like that in person and with his own girl
Imagine filly’s really quiet in real life
Best Convo Yet!
I wish this podcast was interactive. I have too much to say!
Loved this episode. Great guest. Honest convos
Found this podcast this summer and the vibes keep me coming back - Love the conversations!!
The over ear headphones! Chuckie knows because the anxiety is real in those situations. Some women love that attention and others don’t. I personally would just want to run! 😂
And you best believe in the summer you don’t want it on.
Thank you for this episode
These two restoring my faith in men 💛
I see where Stormzy got his "different kettle of" for CLASH ...28:41
This episode was so good!
Thoroughly enjoyed this conversation. Harry, when you’re yourself I prefer it. You seem a lot calmer. But to both guys, good podcast
Chuckie, a lot of your videos are reaching well over your number of subscribers, people need to remember to subscribe, & properly support your hard work
Good episode. Wanna see more conversations from men condemning wild male behaviours! ALOT of Men will only hear it when it comes from their peers sometimes.
@pimp named slickback As in women having convos about men's wild behaviour, or womens wild behaviour?
Mate. I've had random men put their arm around me and kiss me on train station platforms on my way home from work. If there were no men for 24 hours I'd actually just walk around London all night
Good discussion💖
Great dialogue Chuckie
me about to watch social dilemma after this 😂😂😂😂😂 love the education on this podcast
Men cannot rush it. I understand time is of the essence but you can’t rush essence. We are dealing with some kind of mental trauma whether you admit or not. To stay the least Men can be f$&@ing terrifying.
The headphones with nothing playing is something done very often. It's interesting that men don't realise what negative impact their behaviour has on females, this makes it difficult for other men when approaching women. Some women automatically expect men to behave in a negative way with the yo come here and if she don't she gets cuss. Smh
They really understood how women see the world 👌🏾
A ting: Be on your best behaviour, nothings happening
Chuckie with his whole face 5:44: "babes, look at meee.. of course.."
Your facial expressions game is strong🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Good topic
I always make sure I wear noise cancellation headphones to avoid male interaction. And yet still,they’ll run up in your face or even follow you to your destination.
Over the years I’ve definitely appreciated women like queens, and so they should
I love the way men think they understand women 😂😂😂😂😂
Kiss Gym in Acton has a women only section ❤️
Now there’s a part of you that has self worth
Wat bout women shaming men wen u gna do episode on dat
🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
18:25 Yeah till you go to a female only gym and lesbians do the same thing
😂😂😂💀
Lesbians don’t though, they’re still women, so they won’t behave like perverted men.
@@kayfay2535 So what women can’t behave pervertedly?
@@ethanoladapo7999 thank you, just because their women doesn’t mean they can’t behave like perverted men you delusional gyal
Lesbians are actually super aware of how they interact with women cos they know how it feels to be made uncomfortable by men and don’t want to do the same with other women
this entire episode is my thoughts
Gems got spat on this one, considering I tend to not understand girls so a lot of these scenarios have been explained to me and I can act accordingly in the future!
Cumbria 🤣🤣🤣🤣
you can tell the girls that come to the gym to workout, and the girls that come to get attention
No matter the subject,if chuckie speaking mans listening
I would wear the shortest shorts! Not be afraid to wall the streets
PREACH
The fact men stand and stare at women in the gym is mad wtf , imagine doing that 🤦♂️
I never saw that. Is this a London ting.
@@x12-y8v I'm from Ireland I wouldn't know, but there's a huge nude leak scandal going on here atm so Ireland isn't Innocent at all
when i just heard face from East Africa i felt good cz am from East Africa , Kenya
they meant horn of africa. Ethiopian, eritrean and somalian. that’s what people refer to when they say east africa in terms of beauty.
Chuckz is my fave
Never once thought about going on a jog in an empty park in the middle of the night with my music all the way up in my earphones
Cant imagine how it must feel walking on the street alone when most men have the capacity to have their way with you if they feel like it
It's a huge dream of mine
Just to walk around in the dark and just be in touch with nature/the world, but it's just not safe. The moment the sun goes down, we have to be on guard.
Two men discussing women’s unique emotional intelligence is 🔥
Very good episode
some of the responses from some man to that post about there being no men in the world for 24hrs were WILDDD. Entitlement is mad, Large up Chucks n Playboi CLARTIII
14:30 no offence to women but you gotta get over that. What does staring do? Sure it's jarring but it's not like it's preventing you from working out. I was a skinny kid in the gym once & people would stare at me all the time. I just had to adapt to it.
Some girls are so paro that they think every single guy is moving to them. One time there was 1 bench available, but it had weights near it. I go to ask the girl on the side if anybody is using the bench, she airs me. I reach over to tap her on the shoulder, she goes "WHAT!" Moving rude for no reason. Other times there's a cable I need which is near a girl & she acts all rude as if I'm moving to her when I only want the cable that's near her.
U got to understand where they are coming from though
Most men are bigger than them they fear that he may be targetting her because they have experienced something or heard of a story where I guy took advantage of a woman however it came.
@@kgosietsilemathibela4191 what can a man really do in the gym?
And if he tried anything I'M SURE other men would jump in to defend the girl.
@@michael43567 maybe jump her when she is in the parking lot or holler and scream or make comments on her body that make her uncomfortable
Like maybe he goes to get her digits she says no and he gets mad
A bunch of things bro but it's just the danger it presents whether it happens or not is not as relevant.
Keep it up
Callum is the Goat
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That aggressive arm grab because you really are listening to music though and don't hear 🙄
I haven’t be out without a long jacket or jumper for 10 years. Being objectified isn’t fun.
who knows the name of the bottom harry is wearing???
*fewer
What you wear to the gym also contributes to you getting stares. Most guys wear a t shirt. Guys that wear the string vests likely want attention.
Similarly, the girls that wear tight jeggings & sports bras likely want attention. Why not wear a t shirt & regular fit shorts like most people? Cause they want attention. They want guys looking at them, it boosts their self-esteem. A lot won't admit this but it's true. Why you think women always ask "how do I look?" They are very self-conscious & crave attention.
And then they complain about getting stared at when she’s wearing next to nothing. Proper weirdos
Che Lingo is pronouced "Shay"
I am done if you are under 40 you know how to move correctly because if your home didn't teach you the school did if plus you have the Internet now
Che lingo pronounced shay lingo
I think women cantate a day how about a month especially Instagram 😂
first... always wanted to say that
𝚖𝚎𝚗 𝚕𝚎𝚊𝚛𝚗 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚖𝚘𝚜𝚝 𝚒𝚖𝚙𝚘𝚛𝚝𝚊𝚗𝚝 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚗𝚐𝚜 𝚒𝚗 𝚕𝚒𝚏𝚎 𝚏𝚛𝚘𝚖 𝚠𝚘𝚖𝚎𝚗.
The title gave me autism
Chuckie looks about 3ft talkin bout clarting every ting in sight
I literally do what these women do at gyms. Headphones in, not making eye contact. It's not hard. For you to complain about getting stares, that means you're NOT avoiding eye contact. You're looking to see who's looking at you. Because you want the attention. Girls know what they're doing.
I am too early.
Get rid off those Jean's bruv
Why does harry seem to say the right things and have a good midset, but move to women in a sexual way like in( if the shoe fits) show: he sId direspectful things.
Thats why I had to double take when I saw his face, because i couldn't believe this is the same guy that was talking mad to destiny(destdol) s4ep2
They've all mentioned several times that during that show they are playing characters, it's not reality... So maybe the confusion is alot of people really believe how they act in that series is how they carry themselves in real life 🤷🏾♀️
@@LeeleeEnniss ohhh , i see I've only seen that season. And if they don't put that disclaimer then other ppl like me will then misunderstand.
@@MiszGreatBritain Definitely, bc I thought he's so obnoxious/disrespectful initially and then I saw them tweeting about it and I was "ooohhh" lightbulb moment lol
Agreed or true?...deep that for one to feel comfortable or uncomfortable it is based on their feelings which can be illogical and just emotional. It's only justified if they are uncomfortable due to past experience(s) that have similar patterns. In that case they need to learn how to deal with their emotions and problems effectively without fatal consequences to self and others that will produce the desired result they want. Look at it from another perspective it is like asking what can Black People do to make White People and Asian people feel comfortable when they perceive Black People as a certain stereotype. It's down to both White people and Asian people to learn how to deal with their emotions and problems effectively without fatal consequences to Black people.
I understand your logic however it is extremely dismissive. Just this week we saw a young girl get possibly abducted and raped.( I’m sure you can still access that footage for reference)This situation is too common. Your argument sounds adjacent to white people not condemning WS Or racism. Toxic masculinity is an issue but before fixing it you have to address it.
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@@ar-d4348 we as in #TheAlkebulanTrust have seen that unfortunate footage and in reality EVERYTHING comes down to having the right education. With that young girl and that specific subject it's a sensitive topic but long-term wise for prevention boys from an early age need to be taught how to develop their true masculine skills. Which will eradicate what ever anyone perceives as toxic masculinity. So your comment is definitely acknowledged and appreciated.
This is a flawed comparison. The beliefs other races have about black people are based on racism and discriminatory beliefs about black people. The beliefs women have about men are based on clear oppression and discrimination against women. You don't have to have a personal experience to be scared of men. Listening to the traumatic experiences of others is enough and I can tell you that the majority of women probably have some uncomfortable experience due to the entitlement of men. You must be a man lol
It's about men being more self-aware of their behaviour and their privellege.
@@rbcruze been going gym for years and never seen this happen... better you stop with your hypothetical scenarios