WE'RE FINALLY SHARING THE TRUTH ABOUT OUR RELATIONSHIP FT EFA IWARA

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  • Опубліковано 4 кві 2023
  • Hello guys welcome to my channel, today's video is an interesting one 😁It’s a fun Q&A with your fav Efa Iwara. I hope you guys enjoy it!
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    Lagos, Nigeria.
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    I’m 31 years old, my birthday is on October 25th.
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  • @glowgirl8072
    @glowgirl8072 Рік тому +25

    The chemistry here is off the scale. I recall having the dame thing with a ‘friend’. We were so comfortable with each other I had no idea it was a lifetime love. Didn’t know I loved him until he disappeared for years about his business. Years later he came looking for me and we’re married and grateful for our love!

  • @bolu101
    @bolu101 Рік тому +74

    I think this is a typical situation of two friends liking each other but they don't want to start a relationship cos they're scared that it will break their friendship if it doesn't work out

  • @Dems413
    @Dems413 Рік тому +227

    Someone commented and said *“When a man wants you, there will be no confusion”* and they’re so right. Many people also seem to think Layefa really wants Efa, but Efa is not as serious about wanting Layefa. But hear me out..
    From my observation as someone who shares some similar behavioral traits with Layefa, I can tell she likes Efa but doesn’t want to end up (getting married to/) with him. But being a more emotional person, it can be hard to let go of an initial spark because your mind romanticizes it even though you know you don’t want to get married to that person ever lol. You can tell when she says things like “I only like dating with intention” or “you’re sexier with beards.” There was a spark, but she’s not all the way into him, but her emotions won’t let her rest. Efa, on the other hand, also had a spark with Layefa but he’s more of a “casual and let’s see what happens” until he is *actually* ready for marriage or until he finds the ONE or the ONE agrees for him lol. Which is why he said he can be ready in 1 month or 1-2 years. Don’t let both of them fool you, they’re just friends with a little history. Neither of them want each other on a marriage level cause of reasons best known to them, but they’re *not* each other’s THE ONE and it’s so obvious if you watch and listen closely.
    Once a man wants casual with you, 90% of the time you’re not what he wants! If he comes back for you in the future, he SETTLED cause he didn’t find or couldn’t get what he wants! Same goes for a woman!!

    • @oluyemiadunoye9735
      @oluyemiadunoye9735 Рік тому +6

      This makes a lot of sense.

    • @Ree_reey
      @Ree_reey Рік тому +6

      You’ve said it all
      So apt!!

    • @mojisolababs
      @mojisolababs Рік тому +9

      The "little history" part 💯

    • @naomiakinsanya990
      @naomiakinsanya990 Рік тому +3

      Ah omo

    • @neneokoli
      @neneokoli Рік тому +14

      Can you please be my psychologist because wow, what a read!! Woww. In fact, this has shed light into a situationship I found myself in. Like I know I don’t want the guy and I know he doesn’t want me like that, but somehow we end up teasing each other just like them. Now I understand better damn

  • @akeleolamide7707
    @akeleolamide7707 Рік тому +32

    Met Efa on the last job where I was the DOP and it was weird to see how great a person he is, his humility blew me away, believe me that set wasn't conducive but not once was he out of character.... My respect for this guy is huge.... And I love his sense of humor and energy

  • @shalomonoh1984
    @shalomonoh1984 Рік тому +207

    Efa is sha the kind of guy that will show you all the signs that he likes you( calls, texts, flowers) he will act like y’all are in a relationship but he would never make it officialll😂😂😂…run o🤭

    • @kaysmellsgood
      @kaysmellsgood Рік тому +2

      😂😂

    • @eunicedaniels277
      @eunicedaniels277 Рік тому +18

      You have said it alllllllll… I pray she doesn’t fall that guy is not serious 😂😂😂😂… I cover my layefa with the blood of Jesus .

    • @funmiAire
      @funmiAire Рік тому +1

      Better run 😢😢

    • @shalomonoh1984
      @shalomonoh1984 Рік тому +2

      @@eunicedaniels277 Not serious at all😩😂..Amen

    • @onalodeborah
      @onalodeborah Рік тому +5

      Exactly and he’s fully aware of what he’s doing😭😭

  • @sharonemordi
    @sharonemordi Рік тому +95

    When a man truly wants you, he comes hard for you . There are no confusion. A man is not confused. He knows exactly what he wants.
    This is a case of when a girl wants a guy but he truly doesn't want her; he wants someone else.

    • @thedigitaljide
      @thedigitaljide Рік тому +1

      True.

    • @432hzrelaxmeditationhealin3
      @432hzrelaxmeditationhealin3 Рік тому +5

      We men are chasers and hunters....it's obvious that Efa loves her but not enough to actually want a long term relationship with her. She wants something purposeful and he just wants the friendship and probably some cookies without any form of commitment. Men are very intentional, from the jump, we know what we want. Don't fall for he is confused kind of narrative.

    • @obindeborah1305
      @obindeborah1305 Рік тому

      No lies I kind of felt this way each time they drop avideo

  • @LeolaLeonard.
    @LeolaLeonard. Рік тому +58

    I totally agree with Layefa. Being too emotional is limiting. When you are hurt, getting over it takes a longer time than it’s supposed to.

  • @nakhicruise6951
    @nakhicruise6951 Рік тому +41

    Efa is the kind of person that if u don’t ask direct questions he won’t answer and he can change topic wella 😂😂the kind of person dat can easily annoy me

  • @amaechichinyere9374
    @amaechichinyere9374 Рік тому +6

    I just see two persons in love, jealous, but won't let their guard down, it's not just about loosing the friendship, they don't want to let their high horses down, but the love and chemistry between them is soooo obvious.

  • @mojisolaog
    @mojisolaog Рік тому +202

    I can’t be the only one that loves to see EFA on this channel…a breath of
    Fresh air always! 🤗

  • @Morayo_mua
    @Morayo_mua Рік тому +91

    Efa looks like the kind of guy that will break your heart but you ll make excuses for him😂😂😂😂..I love your friendship ❤❤❤

  • @purissimajohn8084
    @purissimajohn8084 Рік тому +9

    Layefa is touchy. Who noticed😅

  • @chummyamandy2532
    @chummyamandy2532 Рік тому +9

    She’s so into him🥺🥺… written all over her❤️❤️

  • @minamiextra
    @minamiextra Рік тому +29

    I can completely relate, being emotional sis a roller coaster 🎢 our emotions get the better of us 🥺

  • @gracehayab4131
    @gracehayab4131 Рік тому +20

    It feel like Efa is dropping serious hints jokingly 😂 however it turns your friendship is beautiful and I enjoyed every bit of this video ❤…. Plus let’s take 3 seconds and appreciate Layefa’s beauty and style 🥰

  • @MilivaMNjeg
    @MilivaMNjeg Рік тому +7

    I think if Efa wasn't an actor, Layefa would have given it a chance 🤔. Layefa is truly emotional, and I like how free she is opening up.

  • @madhere0990
    @madhere0990 Рік тому +86

    He is the smoothest of players …. On camera he puts on an act like it’s Layefa refusing him when in reality he is the one that doesn’t want something serious with her . Layefa needs to detach from him and not keep him so close , his energy that is leading nowhere is blocking her husband

    • @Abimbola.Abioye
      @Abimbola.Abioye Рік тому +12

      I'll have to agree with this to a large extent. Nothing here shows that Efa wants to pursue a relationship with Leyafa.
      Yes, He might not be ready for commitment, but he still said if he meets someone next month, he'll get married.
      Again, the chemistry, I do not see it.

    • @BukkyOdunsi
      @BukkyOdunsi Рік тому

      Lemaoo 😂

  • @tolanimichealoloruntoba5063
    @tolanimichealoloruntoba5063 Рік тому +27

    I watch your video regularly n this is my first time commenting,i just want to say being emotional is not a weakness but a beautiful strength,we just have to learn to balance it……..love who u are❤❤

  • @still.sophieee
    @still.sophieee Рік тому +61

    Efa is so diplomatic, like it never gets old😭😂
    Trust him to have the most politically correct answer for every question😂
    Love you guys🥰💯

  • @matildamyma
    @matildamyma Рік тому +7

    I watched this just cos Efa is my Nigerian celebrity crush ☺️ and I love to just watch him on the screens.
    Love to you Layefa from 🇬🇭

  • @taiyeraheem2892
    @taiyeraheem2892 Рік тому +47

    Layefa’s laughter is contagious….
    Yall be making my heart pump… love every series of Layefa and Efa 😊

    • @RT-pt6dy
      @RT-pt6dy Рік тому

      Is he your namesake to LayEfa?

  • @agbekeadedeji779
    @agbekeadedeji779 Рік тому +13

    I am an emotional person too, it is hard work - it makes me hyper sensitive, people pleaser etc...

  • @wilferdesohe8260
    @wilferdesohe8260 Рік тому +34

    Efa is actually so sweet and so mature 🥰🥰..he is smart and sense-able

  • @sheyi_lifestyle
    @sheyi_lifestyle Рік тому +5

    About the question efa is asking, I think it’s about how serious the relationship is and if I know that the girl that the guy is dating meant a lot to him then I move if not I will give it a try

  • @promotedsandra6624
    @promotedsandra6624 Рік тому +1

    Please post the second one tomorrow...
    I want to see gbas gbos oo
    LayEFA 2023

  • @GORASPACE
    @GORASPACE Рік тому +20

    I love you guys friendship, don’t let by fire by force relationship spoil this sweet friendship jare

  • @etafialinda1107
    @etafialinda1107 Рік тому +15

    😆😆😆Efa. You both look great though. I feel there's a spark and until either of you gets married there's hope like Efa said

  • @Joan_gold
    @Joan_gold Рік тому +11

    I agree with layefa on being too emotional
    It has its cons too
    Learnt a lot from it
    Plus you’re soooo beautiful and I love your personality

  • @leticiag.9841
    @leticiag.9841 Рік тому +4

    I’m still rooting for y’all ooo❤❤❤ Abeg Efa put a ring on it (when you are ready), that’s what our sis wants, commitment!! See how they had the opportunity to date and they didn’t cos Efa wasn’t ready for commitment yet. I feel like they love each other but they just need to be in the same page😍

  • @VicksStyles
    @VicksStyles Рік тому +6

    honestly you guys need to do more videos, love the way everything was just flowing 💕💖❤

  • @folukeoladele236
    @folukeoladele236 Рік тому +8

    This guy is a smooth operator. Be wary of such guy…

  • @TheLitChronicles
    @TheLitChronicles Рік тому +1

    Yaasssssssssss EFA come thru baeeebeeee!!! lock Sandra down yo guys will make such a beautiful amazing power couple for reelz, I would fly down for the wedding. Go for it babes...xoxoxox

  • @preyemoses
    @preyemoses Рік тому +7

    Your makeup looks amazing 😍😍

  • @achaybee1547
    @achaybee1547 Рік тому +8

    Why is she looking at him like a snack?!❤❤❤
    Just allow this boy nowwwww!!!

  • @jenniferoluebubechukwu375
    @jenniferoluebubechukwu375 Рік тому +21

    That "being emotional" part got me. Efa your rationality's out of this world, and I totally agree with you. Layefa I can be very emotional as well, but I don't want to change it. Infact I love it. It's just one out of a hundred million things that makes us who we are. So don't worry😊 you rock girll❤️

  • @estherudoh5963
    @estherudoh5963 Рік тому +15

    See ehnn, i have been watching Efa and layefa vids for a long time and I still don't know if efa is being serious or he is playing makes him a really great actor and also this guy is so smooth with his words. The chemistry between these two I love it

  • @Thebeautyfoodchick
    @Thebeautyfoodchick Рік тому +10

    It better be the truth we all wanna hear 😊

  • @Purpleiciousbabe
    @Purpleiciousbabe Рік тому

    This guy! Wisdom* emotional! Both are right tho! It’s about balance tho. There is emotional growth to never give people power over our emotions! At the same time, he is right emotions being inspired etc. It all depends on the growth you are on!

  • @vivianeleleme7223
    @vivianeleleme7223 Рік тому +3

    Hi Layefa ,you guys are so good together and i will love to see more of this 🤎🤎

  • @putgodfirst3006
    @putgodfirst3006 Рік тому +3

    Now we know why you guys are not dating it’s Efa’s fault he wasn’t ready that time which is good because he was real and if you tried that time it wouldn’t have worked but now you both are ready to something serious and mariage
    Please Efa biko marry this babe I know you love her and she loves you too it’s obvious God😢😢

  • @sweetangeleunice4262
    @sweetangeleunice4262 Рік тому +3

    With everything...i wont be surprise if I see wedding invite all over the net very soon...yall r more than frens...lol. The chemistry is loud

  • @olajumokeadediran5258
    @olajumokeadediran5258 Рік тому +10

    Love layefas laugh more than anything else😂😂

  • @amandaigho1070
    @amandaigho1070 Рік тому +2

    Hmm, can't wait 😊

  • @florenceakwasi434
    @florenceakwasi434 Рік тому

    Thanks, I enjoyed watching.

  • @Christy-3456.
    @Christy-3456. Рік тому +9

    Me I'm personally waiting for that next episode, omo let that next episode not take another one year oo😂😂..it always nice watching you both...But layefa be cashing out from this efa videos,we too like amebo 3h, 7k views..if you guy like you shouldn't date watin concern me😂but keep bringing efa on our screen I'm satisfied 😂😂😂

  • @thelifeinmeempire5383
    @thelifeinmeempire5383 Рік тому +89

    See the spell of both of you names: Layefa and Efa😀

    • @taii_chii6782
      @taii_chii6782 Рік тому +13

      Wedding hashtag is ready #LayEFA2024❤

    • @osaretinfavour3689
      @osaretinfavour3689 Рік тому +6

      Anticipated ❤❤they will end up getting married

    • @chidinmannadozie9730
      @chidinmannadozie9730 Рік тому +1

      Genius!!! 😅

    • @thelifeinmeempire5383
      @thelifeinmeempire5383 Рік тому +1

      @@osaretinfavour3689 ❤️

    • @Chidinma-zu9dc
      @Chidinma-zu9dc Рік тому +1

      @@osaretinfavour3689 I tell you. The guy will definitely pop the question las las cos they are friends already.
      The both of them love each other, they are just too scared to dare dating and again they are busy people. Efa is an emotional guy too and rye both of them love attention

  • @otubeautyanyame1514
    @otubeautyanyame1514 Рік тому +6

    I feel like you two are an item already 😊.the connection is magical..🎉

  • @missstanford
    @missstanford Рік тому +6

    Y’all are matching againnnnn black and white 🙈🤭

  • @rahhmann
    @rahhmann Рік тому +114

    you both are toying with my emotions 🥹🥹

  • @soniquestitches.259
    @soniquestitches.259 Рік тому +1

    Loooved it!!!!🥰🥰❤️❤️ The friendship and chemistry is always on 🔥🔥

  • @seamisola
    @seamisola Рік тому +9

    I’m in love with your lighting and your whole set up

  • @ezinneadim9440
    @ezinneadim9440 Рік тому +4

    This is more than a friendship even if you guys don’t know it yet

  • @eroprincesschannel6302
    @eroprincesschannel6302 Рік тому +2

    I keep coming back to watch you two❤ the day you will break the news Ehe😊💃💃

  • @justyingi4345
    @justyingi4345 Рік тому +13

    The fact that you guys pressed record and the video is soooo entertaining is just amazing! Love it love it. Efa and Layefa sitting on the tree I’m kidding. Love the friendship.

  • @oluwapelumitee
    @oluwapelumitee Рік тому +6

    You guys even did to-match with your clothes❤❤

  • @Solanke_Esther
    @Solanke_Esther Рік тому +3

    I think I understand the been emotional Layefa is saying. There are some situations we shouldn't attack emotionally at first and I guess that is what she means.
    Nevertheless, been emotional is a beautiful thing, don't just always attack every situation in an emotional way.

  • @oluwapelumitee
    @oluwapelumitee Рік тому

    See how you people are making me smile and blush

  • @chikabibian1971
    @chikabibian1971 Рік тому

    This video made me smile/laugh and I just want to add been emotional is a sign of courage and strength, it is not a weakness. Expressing how you feel is healthy.

  • @tamaradenyefarclement269
    @tamaradenyefarclement269 Рік тому

    Such beautiful laughter. I enjoyed watching this.

  • @Perefashionhouse
    @Perefashionhouse Рік тому +4

    Layefa loves Efa but he is not ready to settle down now. While she is very very ready

  • @Edimoya
    @Edimoya Рік тому

    So cute, love the friendship

  • @adenikejohnson1567
    @adenikejohnson1567 Рік тому

    This is the kind of friendship, you will look back on and wish you had taken the leap.

  • @MoJo-ng5ot
    @MoJo-ng5ot Рік тому +1

    Where there is life, there is hope!! This guys is something else 😂😂😂

  • @nkemnwobu
    @nkemnwobu Рік тому +1

    Efa should always come on the vlog going forward. 😍😍😍

  • @ibeameh6085
    @ibeameh6085 Рік тому +4

    Both of you like to play with our feelings 🥹
    But I’m here whatever way you guys go

  • @graciousigberase736
    @graciousigberase736 Рік тому +6

    Layefa keeps saying Efa is annoying. My dear, he's not. He's sweet and you know it😜 You're having butterflies and we can see that, you're too obvious😂❤

  • @lolahapparelsstitches
    @lolahapparelsstitches Рік тому

    More to see more of our dear Efa. You guys are good together

  • @yourfavfabricgirl
    @yourfavfabricgirl Рік тому

    This is so wholesome and the ladies are so smart. Me I will love a Q and A with them😁😁and I want to see that facial expression ooo🤣🤣

  • @etafialinda1107
    @etafialinda1107 Рік тому +30

    Lol Layefa be cashing out with the gist people wanna hear😆. By the way I love your videos with Efa

    • @llsss777
      @llsss777 Рік тому

      omo this one don turn couples tag i laughh 😂😂

  • @judithcourage-atayero
    @judithcourage-atayero Рік тому

    I'm an emotional person but I'm learning to control my emotions properly and learn more self-control.

  • @GORASPACE
    @GORASPACE Рік тому +10

    Efa knows how to avoid questions ehnnn😂😂😂😂

  • @angelokoli
    @angelokoli Рік тому +1

    All I can say is I love Layefa and then add Efa to it, it’s sweet 🥰🥰🥰

  • @khadijatahmed
    @khadijatahmed Рік тому +10

    God!!! I was just smiling throughout the video. I will be the happiest person on earth any day I see the weeding vitiation card of you both. By GOD Grace

  • @Omomarian
    @Omomarian Рік тому +2

    Editing of this video🔥🔥🔥
    Take your crown queen❤

  • @thelmapeters7
    @thelmapeters7 Рік тому +31

    Staying friends and they keep tensioning us with their videos together...please ride on till we announce the engagement...me i must wear my UA-cam Red and Leyefa yellow on that day for LayEfa😍😍😍

  • @courage9010
    @courage9010 Рік тому

    Vulnerability isn’t weakness. So Efa is right. If someone downplays your emotions or makes you feel like you’re too weak or emotional. It’s on them

  • @cey_rah
    @cey_rah Рік тому +9

    7:47 body language… Layefa this is your husband ❤

  • @favouritefay
    @favouritefay Рік тому +11

    I was having a hard evening yesterday but this somehow made me smile and laugh. Thank you for always putting out lighthearted contents layefa. We love it❤

  • @Iammijaran
    @Iammijaran Рік тому +3

    Watched this video with my mouth opened from beginning to end just smiling and blushing 😂😂😂

  • @gloriakafui7479
    @gloriakafui7479 Рік тому

    We neeed a video with Alma

  • @yakubuaminaladi284
    @yakubuaminaladi284 Рік тому

    See as Layefa be looking like someone with a sweet skin care that now added pregnancy glow. Mami your skin be blurring my screen, seems diamond and you are in a relationship.

  • @yettyclassy
    @yettyclassy Рік тому +25

    Whether you decide to couple up or not, you friendship is beautiful to see. I enjoyed this so much.

  • @naturallyblessed4003
    @naturallyblessed4003 Рік тому +4

    It’s the way she looks at him 😢❤😊

  • @ofiliemmanuella6344
    @ofiliemmanuella6344 Рік тому

    This is beautiful to watch 😍

  • @anavhetammmy1836
    @anavhetammmy1836 Рік тому

    I love this conversion it was so interesting let not forget that Efa and layefa look good together

  • @giftfrancis_
    @giftfrancis_ Рік тому +47

    We can’t deny how y’all make each other blush😊😊😊

  • @Enkay_
    @Enkay_ Рік тому +4

    I always smile and laugh whenever I watch layefa’s video ❤❤❤

  • @patienceuwa5758
    @patienceuwa5758 Рік тому +4

    Awwww , Efa lovesssss Layefaaa! Gosh!

  • @anuoluwapooyekole3219
    @anuoluwapooyekole3219 Рік тому

    Totally enjoyed this video. Honestly no capping, Efa loves you, he is ready ooo. You guys should just do it

  • @peacex5056
    @peacex5056 Рік тому

    You both dey give me joy

  • @jacquelinejumpp4003
    @jacquelinejumpp4003 Рік тому +4

    You guys look perfect together. You would be a powerful couple. I can't wait to hear you guys are officially together

  • @Ifelunwa
    @Ifelunwa Рік тому

    Efa is smooth with words.. me likeeyy!! Nice video 🤍👏👏

  • @Princess_O
    @Princess_O Рік тому +5

    Too much of everything is not good. A healthy balance is key. I feel you Layefa because that’s my weakness. Being extremely emotional is not good

  • @jjmensah6602
    @jjmensah6602 Рік тому +1

    Aaah in my next life I am omon Naija oo. I love my Nigerians. ❤from ACCRA GH

  • @mercygrace9819
    @mercygrace9819 Рік тому +85

    I feel like you both are a match made in heaven, whether you decide to couple up or stay friends is immaterial at this point because the chemistry is out of this world even as friends!!. God bless you Layefa, you're a super woman!❤️❤️❤️

  • @Essynana55
    @Essynana55 Рік тому

    Really want both of you to get married perfect match can't wait to see the wedding video

  • @lifeonarollwiththeomonose
    @lifeonarollwiththeomonose Рік тому

    Being emotional is an underrated strength. Rationality has to keep it in check though❤

  • @graciousigberase736
    @graciousigberase736 Рік тому +7

    I'm also a very emotional being...and I totally understand Layefa. Being overly emotional can be limiting and I feel vulnerable at times. (My opinion tho).

  • @adesuwagold7601
    @adesuwagold7601 Рік тому

    Dis one na Big April fool😂😂😂😂😂. You both have a friendship. I Enjoyed watching ❤❤❤❤

  • @kehindeadeniyi7757
    @kehindeadeniyi7757 Рік тому

    My super lady. She is so beautiful. I love this beautiful video. I kept blushing all through the video.